The Easiest Way to Declutter Clothes - Purge Your Closet the Easy Way

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The easiest way to declutter clothes only takes a couple of minutes at a time. No need to spend hours being overwhelmed or creating big piles. The key to purge your closet the easy way is to take one type of item to the #ClutterCorner and create new rules about your clothes. Extreme closet #declutterwithme sessions are now a thing of the past. Work smart, not hard.
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@newbeequilter 2 жыл бұрын

Love the concept of decluttering one thing at a time. Taking everything out of a closet at one time (taking up a bunch of room on a bed or floor) can be overwhelming mentally and physically exhausting for me with severe osteoarthritis and being 75. I really like your method; thanks for this video. And I also want to thank the woman who allowed you to use her clothing and hangers so that the rest of could benefit from these decluttering lessons with her visual aids that help us remember these tips. If she can make these decisions to declutter like this in the midst of her own trials and illness, it encourages me to do the same. Kudos to your client for her strength in doing this.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

It's true, overwhelm is one of the main reasons clutter piles up. And picking one item like fur coats, releases all the mental energy from feeling like one has to declutter everything at once. Also decluttering everything at once is more of a purge, with no rules attached. Therefore, all that same type of stuff finds it's way back into the closets because nobody is clear about the stuff that is in there. Thanks for sharing this and for joining the conversation.

@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 2 жыл бұрын

Have you considered taking out a section at a time? I Decluttered more when I put a section of my clothes on the bed. Like just pants. I think twice about putting the item back into the closet.

@newbeequilter 2 жыл бұрын

@@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 - "One thing at a time" can mean a "section at a time" for me as well as one item. Without watching the whole video again, I remembered it as being the owner's workout clothes regarding her former hobby - so it could mean a few things within a section or a whole section I guess. What I cannot handle is taking out a whole closet full of clothes or say a whole bookcase of books etc. as it's just too cumbersome for me. The Marie Kondo method just doesn't work for many of us.

@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 2 жыл бұрын

@@newbeequilter that’s fine. Do what feels comfortable for you. I’ve been decluttering for many years and have never done the Marie Kondo. That would be overwhelming. Today, I said a 15 minute timer and went through my baking pans and cutting boards. I ended up taking two placemats that we don’t use (from a set of four) and a small cutting board. Even getting rid of that made it much easier to get things in and out. I saw my husband struggling yesterday and knew it was time to go through them. I also organize them, so I need to label them

@thatswhatisaid8908 2 жыл бұрын

@@newbeequilter oh yes, i used to have SO MANY clothes. It used to take me all day to swap out my summer/winter wardrobes. It was overwhelming. I still have maybe too many, but I'm only keeping what fits me now in my wardrobe. But books! Trying to Konmari those would be disaster. I have 4 huge bookcases, full.

@gigilongtime2891 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I could afford someone to help me do this with my stuff. I’m in recovery from cancer my husband left me while I was battling for my life with almost nothing but my over stuffed closet of clothes and shoes I used to love shopping but I’m in a different mind set in my life now after everything and just can’t bring myself to start cleaning. Watching these videos does help but I’m so overwhelmed and unmotivated most days nothing makes sense…but I’m trying…thank you for making these videos you are a hope for many people as myself

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Gigi, Thank you for watching my show. Please know I am routing for you. I am sending you hugs and prayers. 🤗 🙏

@elizabethmorris3599 2 жыл бұрын

Experience Same exact situation

@angelak9456 2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, that stinks. I watch The Minimal Mom and she gives all sorts of decluttering advice too, and one is that you can start with 15 minutes. And I do that when I'm decluttering my room and bathroom, not necessarily throwing stuff away but putting it back where it belongs. It's amazing what you can do on that period of time, and sometimes I just do stuff during tv commercials for an hour or so. Last night I tried on some clothes and decided to sell them as they're barely worn and from Chico's, which is a bit pricey. So now I have more room in the closet I put my off-season clothes in. 15 minutes!

@la_baby_khalil7703 Жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown🙏😘🙏 I LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL LADY...GOD BLESS YOU and PEACE BE WITH YOU...AMEN!!! 🙏😇🙏

@meaganspencer6075 9 ай бұрын

Gigi, I’m so sorry you’re going through so much! Sending up prayers for you!🙏🙏🙏

@ashn6905 2 жыл бұрын

Clothes are the hardest thing for me to declutter. I needed this video, thank you Angela!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Ash. One item at a time. Pick something that has no value to you (beach towels, or headbands, or belts.) Once you get the process started, the next item becomes like a treasure hunt. It's easier to do. And it's okay to keep things as long as you make clear reasons about why you're keeping them - and determining how many of them you need.

@vivianhudacek1556 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been working on decluttering clothes for several days. I work for about 20-30 minutes in the morning while I’m at my best point in the day. I’ve found it helpful simply to do a section of a closet or one drawer at a time vs getting overwhelmed with a whole closet. For example, one day I focused just on blue jeans. A suggestion you made in another video has helped me so much, Angela! “If you don’t, you wont!” You were actually referring to hobbies & other household stuff, like golf clubs, but it has help true for me for clothes too. I tell myself that I don’t wear it, so I probably won’t. I have a ton of clothes I don’t wear since I’m retired. Thanks for your help!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Vivian, it’s wonderful that you are making great progress decluttering your clothes. Keep up the good work : )

@debbiedouglas2264 2 жыл бұрын

@Vivian Hudacek. I am recently retired also and I’m going to decluttering my closet with clothes I know that I will no longer wear. The types of things that Angela was getting rid of in this video is the same kind of thing I need to get out of my closet. Angela thank you for this video!

@byd5801 2 жыл бұрын

will use this quote, ty! "if you don't, you won't!"

@shirleyprestage5402 2 жыл бұрын

Good idea

@butternutsquash6984 2 жыл бұрын

I read the Marie Kondo book when it first came out and I was editing my things after a life change. Once I'd gotten my clothes down to what I actually wore, it was very freeing to make those rules for myself. The one I use most frequently was to give myself permission to get rid of any piece of clothing that no longer fit, had developed an uncomfortable texture, or was overly damaged. Literally, I'll put on a top and feel icky and it goes straight to the trash /donate pile. Having a simple set of rules for determining what needs to be added or deleted was maybe the best and most important step for keeping a tidy and comfortable home. A related tip is to keep a spot or paper bag for donations at all times and donate it as soon as it's full. If I'm on a massive task, like unboxing after my move, I will keep the pile around longer as there are inevitably items that show their usefulness within a week or two, but that pile is GONE after 2 weeks.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

What an amazing series of great tips. Thank you very much for sharing these. I especially like the texture test. It is so true that keeping icky clothes (and worse, wearing them) makes you feel icky. What a novel idea. 👏👏👏

@kellycook4347 2 жыл бұрын

I do the exact same thing! It works!!

@marybusch6182 2 жыл бұрын

If I’m packing for a trip, and try on something that doesn’t work then I pitch it. If I am searching for something, I’ll do a five minute reorg because it means it wasn’t in the right place. If my drawer looks a little messy, I’ll do a reorg.

@Sorchia56 2 жыл бұрын

We have a rule in our house. Every new item brought in means one or two items out. Shirts, pants, pajamas, shoes, handbags, mugs, …it’s pretty much anything. I LOVE your plan of taking the items out of the bedroom and into another room. Not so overwhelming that way. *If I had that many empty hangers in my house, I’d jump for joy! I think my kids are taking them back to their houses after family dinners! 😂

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

I love it!

@gailcoleman3351 2 жыл бұрын

I do this too! One in one or two out!

@Sorchia56 2 жыл бұрын

@@gailcoleman3351 Makes life so much easier, doesn’t it!!!

@SamanthaSweetAnne Жыл бұрын

That's amazing. How do you get rid of your kids? Baby clothes or baby shoes?

@dianej8779 2 жыл бұрын

"It's going to give her more space if we remove these from her closet". What a great statement!!! It immediately let me see the extra space not only in my closet, but the space now open in my head & my life for possibilities to learn and do something new! To actually enjoy my days rather than feel burdened by extra stuff seemingly everywhere that begs for my time. Love your calm, accepting approach.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Diane. It's liberating when we let things go from our lives - and hang on to that feeling without filling it immediately up with something else. Let the newness become the new normal. Thanks also for your kind words. 🤗

@queen_of_green420 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad I've just discovered you. The first video was one you did in 2018 about cleaning when you're depressed. I didn't go for a walk, but I did go and tidy the kitchen! Even de-dog-haired a chair in the kitchen! So after that I went to your channel to see if you were still on youtube and here you are giving advice about how to de-clutter your clothes. A job that is desperately needing doing (for my own peace of mind). Not only that, but I also have cancer, and have had a few 'accidents' too (broke my neck and leg and cracked my skull, but luckily with no long term side-effects other than developing osteoporosis). I have a mother who is a hoarder - but with Virgoan OCD, so it's the tidiest hoarding I've ever seen, but I see those tendencies in myself - hoarding without the OCD!! Due to all the above, I feel a strong 'need' to de-clutter and simplify! So after that really long-winded explanation, I really just want to say Thank You. x

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear about everything you've been thru, but glad that you are doing well. I am happy that you found the channel and are enjoying the videos. I've done several videos on decluttering, feel free to check them out when the time is right for you. Sending positive thoughts, prayers and hugs. You got this!😊🙏🤗

@queen_of_green420 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown What a lovely message! Thank you for replying! Big Hug

@donnaturner5567 Жыл бұрын

This work you do is so me.Can relate to the way you do things and your style resonates with mine.The one at a time clothes sorting makes me want to fling my phone away and run into my overloaded spare room and start immediately.Swiped and seen many good ideas but know your advice I will act on.Thank you.Even get rid of spare hangers.Thanks again xx

@TheLadybughug 2 жыл бұрын

How to declutter when recuperating and not having quite the health or energy. I'm overwhelmed. The ideas in these vids are awesome! Thank you!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Ladybug, The key is recuperating and baby steps. Only do as much as you are able and get well soon. 🤗

@LoantakaBrook 2 жыл бұрын

Love this! - if I don't do X anymore, I don't need these types of clothes for X. 👍

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

If I don't then I won't. It's a fabulous concept. Thanks for sharing this and for the reminder.

@andreasmith8052 2 жыл бұрын

I can't believe I found this video. I just watched your video on Depression and shared it the next day with a friend for her mother-in-law's issue ❤️ And now here is one that I needed, as a fitness and nutrition teacher who had a beautifully kept closet of all my work out and teaching clothes for a occupation the breast cancer took and major weight gain. You just helped me face my issues, I know there is a real person just like me (dusty hangers that all match) that did it first, I like competition and will gladly take 2nd place here ❤️🙏❤️

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Andrea, I'm so sorry to hear about your cancer and am hoping and praying for a speedy and continued recovery. Thanks also for joining the conversation. Keep us posted and let us know how it goes with the fitness tops. We're here rooting for you. 🙏

@andreasmith8052 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown I didn't expect a reply and to have added prayers really warmed me heart!!! Thank you again, and I will be sharing your good works and keeping you in my prayers also!

@mygreekteacher483 2 жыл бұрын

First I see you to relax, then I clean, every day, always...I am so grateful for you Angela...

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

LOL. Thanks for watching and I love hearing your adventures of cleaning. Thanks for checking in. 👏😍👏

@michelepastele5347 2 жыл бұрын

Angela - just the other day I looked at my stuffed closet and thought I couldn't tackle it. What I CAN do is ONE item at a time. Thank you so much for such an OBVIOUS and simple solution! It was a big help for me!!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Yay Michele ! I’m so happy you found the advice helpful. I’m routing for you. Keep me updated on your progress : )

@momoffour2072 2 жыл бұрын

"The accident" and "the cancer"? So much tragedy for one person!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, there is tragedy in many people's lives. And this wonderful lady is using it to propel her forward towards a cleaner home, rather than focusing on the limitations and being a victim. I LOVE watching people rise above the seemingly impossible. It's so inspirational and spreads hope. 🤗

@Sorayaraqs 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown 🙌 Hell yeah! That's inspiring! Tell her she rocks and keep up the great work!

@barbarakalman2352 2 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed the video. Do have one issue and that is with leaving the clothes on the hangers. We have been going through our clothing and donating to Good Will. We were told to please not leave the clothes on the hangers as they do NOT use the hangers. This may be different at other donation centers.

@nineteenfortyeight6762 2 жыл бұрын

Pretty normal amount actually

@christinalw19 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown I completely understand her positive choice. I purge and thoroughly clean certain areas to feel more centered and to simplify. I get it. Bless her heart, and you, Angela. 🙏🏼❤️

@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654 2 жыл бұрын

It’s really hard to get rid of things that you used to love before you got injured or illness. There’s always a hope you could get back to doing it. At least for me. I keep hoping that I can do a little bit of cake decorating. Not too much, but just a little. This weekend, I finally decided to declutter a cast-iron grill. I haven’t used it in years. I was trying to find a use for it, instead of having something that needed the pan. The reverse. I put it on our local Facebook 24 hour auction page with a five dollar minimum bid yesterday . It sells for $20 on Amazon. I told my husband I would be happy with $10. I’m glad to say that it sold for $11! The winner is so happy, she is picking it up tonight and paying me by Venmo. So it’s going to a home that really can appreciate it I’m happy to have the money to get a new challah roll baking pan that I WILL use for gluten free recipes. And that heavy cast iron pan won’t be weighing down my kitchen cabinet drawer!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

I LOVE this story. You found a new home for something that still had meaning to you - and you found a way to let go of it in a way that honored that. Go Judy. 👏👏👏

@BratBustersParenting 2 жыл бұрын

I organize all my clothes so that I wear them from left to right. If I pass anything by more than twice I get rid of it. This way everything gets worn equally and I'm not hanging onto anything I don't wear.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That is fantastic! Thanks for sharing your method with us!

@ohyeah3365 2 жыл бұрын

I had a large laundry hamper I wasn't using in the corner of my laundry room for about a year. One day I decided to use it to gather things for goodwill. When I find something I can part with I put it in. It usually takes me about a month to fill it with odds and ends. Taking it one item at a time has really added up to getting rid of the junk.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

What a great idea. Simple process that works. And it's the cumulative effect of adding a thing here or there gets your mind used to the new norm of living with less. I love this. Thanks for sharing. 🤗

@ohyeah3365 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown Thank-you. Your videos help countless others.

@romonaelrod7870 2 жыл бұрын

A good place to donate clothing is to domestic violence shelters and the thrift stores that support them. We have 3 stores in my city that are called Vintage Values, they take donations of clothing for men,women and children as well as books and household items and resale them at pretty reasonable prices and the proceeds go to running a domestic violence shelter. I enjoy shopping there and feel like I am helping a little bit.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That is a great suggestion, thanks for sharing this!!

@hilaryweiner893 2 жыл бұрын

Great suggestions. The multiple camisole issue is similar to my old t-shirt issue. Honestly, I only need 2-3 for dirty jobs, but I will get rid of the rest today. Most are not worth donating, so will be recycled as cleaning rags or go in the trash.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Great tips. Thanks for sharing. It's great making rules about things we have enough of - because it will prevent us from replacing them with more in the future. Scaling back on surplus is a great idea.

@auburrito5168 2 жыл бұрын

Watched this video after going clothes shopping for the first time since the pandemic and now I'm about to go through my closet to get rid of old clothes. I already have some in mind that are so worn that they are stained or have holes. For those types of clothes, see if your local humane society could use them. They often need to clean environments for their animals and will use torn clothing as rags.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice, thanks for sharing this tip. I appreciate your concern and compassion towards animals. 🤗

@marjoriejudge5348 2 жыл бұрын

thank you for the concept of the clutter corner - it helped me toss a large bag of "stuff" that's been in my front room for over a year

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

WOOHOO! Go Marjorie! I am so happy for you and so proud of you. What an inspiration! 👏👏👏

@cindywatkins849 2 жыл бұрын

I came across your video at the time I needed it most, I'm going through my clothes so your advice is going to help me down size my closet. Words with this last year can't be explained after going through radiation and chemo. I'm back on my feet but one never knows if it completely goes away so I've decided I'm decluttering my closet and my possessions because like they say you can't take it with you thank you

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Good for you Cindy! Do what you can without feeling overwhelmed or exhausted, your health comes first. Sending prayers for your health and healing. You got this!!🙏🙏🤗

@kathyressler4764 2 жыл бұрын

Rewatched this video. We went through our closet and dressers. Between my husband and myself we donated 4 boxes of clothes. We asked each other the questions you presented when we were "stuck". We also did it over a week in small parts so we would not become overwhelmed.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Congratulations. This is epic news. Thanks for watching. We are doing a live Clutter Corner tomorrow at 2:00 pm EDT where we will be going through a coat closet having similar conversations. Come join us and share your experience: streamyard.com/tm9kcj96d5

@thlp6872 Жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown is this stream archived to view somewhere? Thanks in advance.

@kimsherlock8969 2 жыл бұрын

Decluttering is good for us all to do , Decluttering after an accident is different Holding on to ones love ❤ in movement Is hope of recovery to move again Hope is important 🙏

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, thank you for your kind words of encouragement and support. 🤗

@karenforslund5717 2 жыл бұрын

I think this video will be great when I watch the whole thing. 😁 Taking just one thing to make a decision on is a wonderful idea. But, I got 3 minutes into this video and saved it to watch later. I need to build up to this one because she lost me at throwing away hangers. My thinking has been ....you can never have too many hangers....and every hanger needs something to hang on it. I literally have enough clothes to outfit a store. A lot of my clothes have never been worn and most I'll never wear again. Interesting that I came across this video now because I just started going through my clothes last week. I'll watch this video in full later today and will keep it to watch when I need a reminder. I'll be watching ALL her videos this week and will save them all. I'm tired of a cluttered mess in this big house. Funny note: I looked up and saw the video and thought, "I wonder if she's gonna use those clothes baskets. I could use those to store clothes. This is going to be a long process for me. 😂😂

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha...the process always seems long, but the end result is great! You got this Karen! One step at a time, I'm rooting for you!!

@jenny-wc8qy 2 жыл бұрын

I have Pots Syndrome, diagnosed recently so I'm trying with very little energy to declutter everything. I'm washing my clothes, will try on & keep what I know is comfortable now since my life has changed drastically. I have a lady that picks up on Mondays since I can't drive now. I just want peace in my home & pray to still craft a little one day. Thx for these good tips. I found your videos a few weeks ago..very timely, just love them 💙

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you are enjoying my videos. Sending hugs and prayers to you! 🤗 🙏

@jenny-wc8qy 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown Thank You So Much!!

@100mfp 2 жыл бұрын

I've watched a lot of declutter videos today. This one seemed to make the most sense. I loved your calm, normal voice. Thank you!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome and thank you for watching the video and leaving such a nice comment.

@sandrae.7352 2 жыл бұрын

Good idea for the declutter corner with the table. Gonna try this. I donated many bags of clothes a few years ago. Then went through my clothing that are in my drawers and it was hard, I've been on a diet for 2 months in process of losing weight, still 10 lbs to go but I found lots of clothing that does not fit now. So I will put those in bins and out of the way, as a quarantine bin, if in 3 months I have not acheived my goal, I will just donate everything from those 2 bins and not even go through it. I'm fed up, it's time to be realistic. Then I have my garage to declutter, it's a big mess with too much stuff. And both my sons rooms that I need to repaint so that will force me to declutter with them. It's tough in the kids rooms as it's a mish mash of toys, arts, books, boxes just so many random thjngs and I don't know where to start and that is why I keep procrastinating. Will set up a table with them with donate boxes, trash bags and things to keep. It's very emotional for me to get rid of their things, as they are growing up so fast and it makes me sad to give away the toys ect. I also feel overwelmed as with the kids, my dogs, a husband the house gets messy very fast, so I do the basics daily, tidy up, vaccum, mop, meals, dishes, laundry that is never ending, so after all that I have no energy to do more and the clutter still remains which makes me so anxious and depressed. And it's silly because I know what I need to do, I just feel frozen because I am overwelmed. I watch alot of videos to motivate me, even before cleaning, or else I have no motivation at all to do it. So that helps. Thank you for your videos.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Go, Sandra, congratulations on the weight loss. That takes a lot of determination, willpower, and dedication. I'm so happy for you and so proud of you. And the cool part is you're removing the clothing as it no longer fits. That is an epic strategy and a great motivator to keep the weight off. High five my friend. 👏👏👏

@hollymerchant9550 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the heads-up on the Facebook group.. Yes, I've been making rules like this for myself and limiting the number of items coming into the house.. trying to control the clutter.. thanks again..

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! And this is awesome, so glad that you are making rules and following them!

@catherinecrow5662 2 жыл бұрын

I had an accident last year, not anywhere near this clients severity, but because I am 70, the inability to walk or hike for hours at a time that was my norm, was understandably curtailed. So, I gained two sizes and had to find other ways to exercise. But that means I have an entire closet of clothing I love that I don't/ won't wear unless within THIS year I drop a size or two... Anyway, I got rid of my athletic wear using this method. Now, I'll have room for ones that will serve my new body and capabilities. Thanks, I will watch more of your videos. And any suggestions as to your videos would be appreciated, I've never had to deal with a circumstance like this before.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Oh no Catherine, I'm so sorry to hear about your accident. I hope you feel better soon - and I LOVE that you owned the situation and got rid of the clothes that no longer fit you. You will welcome the new clothes that look spectacular on the current you and you will have the space to display and care for them properly. I'm so proud of you. 👏👏👏

@CarolJoyable 2 жыл бұрын

To me this closet was easy to do. Skimpy tops, athletic wear. For a typical closet you have a variety of clothes: dresses, shirts, blouses, pants, skirts etc. That would be a helpful video if you could do it.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Carol Joy, I have a playlist kzfaq.info/sun/PLh1fKdNH3piQsgq-2BvSpWLZFYhGguFoK for you that will show you the various things you mention. We don't declutter a typical closet all at once because for many that can be overwhelming. And, gutting a closet is not sustainable without making new rules about the items removed because without rules, the same or similar items find their way back to the closet only to be decluttered again.

@CarolJoyable 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown thank you SO MUCH for your reply and your links to your videos. I’m looking forward to watching them!

@SL-fu7sh 27 күн бұрын

Angela- I love setting up the table! Brilliant!

@AskAngelaBrown 27 күн бұрын

Thank you so much!😊

@carolinejones6203 2 жыл бұрын

Love it! Just highly recommend *not * donating to good will. Pretty much another place but them.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tip!

@nancysmith2874 2 жыл бұрын

They throw things in the trash

@unitedheartsamerica5924 2 жыл бұрын

A womens shelter is one idea, or a Church run thrift store , or a national org called Dress for Success, helps low income women with career clothes…

@michelepastele5347 2 жыл бұрын

@@nancysmith2874 AND then they put signs up that say dumpster diving is NOT allowed! Nasty. I won't donate to Goodwill anymore either. Instead, I donate to my local Humane Society thrift shop.

@michellecostley7878 2 жыл бұрын

The second time recently that you have posted the exact video I need for my task at hand. Thank you again!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

LOL. Alright, I'm coming to your house next. Thanks for sharing this and for tuning in. It's great to have you here.

@rosecrow810 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You for taking the time to create and share this wonderful video with us all ❤️

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

It's my pleasure, thanks for watching!

@laureen137 2 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I clicked on! Such wisdom, thank you. I literally have clothes in my closet that are 20 years old. My house is clean but my closets are a mess!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Lauren, I am also so glad you clicked! I hope you can find some helpful tips here to tackle your closets. Keep me posted on how things are going. 👍

@tanyamyers5440 Жыл бұрын

Watched three videos before this one caught my attention. I’m sooo glad I found you. Very helpful. And thank you for not telling me to take everything it off my closet all at once because just the idea was too overwhelming. TY

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Feeling overwhelmed is what I am trying to avoid so I am glad you found my video too. Thanks so much for watching and reaching out to leave a comment. 👍

@daphnemiller6767 2 жыл бұрын

At first you say the lady had an accident. Then as you're showing individual items of clothing you say "before the cancer." Either way, my heart goes out to the woman you're assisting.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is very sad she had these two life altering events. Thank you for watching the show.

@Tinyteacher1111 Жыл бұрын

I’m sorry about this woman’s accident. I’m going to send love to her. 💕 I know this feeling because I am a retired high school teacher, but had to retire because I had become so ill from toxins in breast implants and moving to a condo that had hidden mold, that I had a stroke, several autoimmune diseases, infections, chronic pain, and the worst was severe brain fog. I lost everything I loved. (I’m including this so other women who might have the same issues will think about what is in and around them.) I had to move out of my dream condo, and I decluttered almost all my teaching clothing, except pieces I might wear outside the classroom. I’m in my newish house, but I’m still recovering and in chronic pain. However, I lost 2 of 3 bedrooms and closets in this 1950’s home to my sick son and my granddaughter. I still need to declutter more! Where can I give away size 2 or 4 petite sized clothing that hasn’t been worn or maybe once? I have prom dresses and a wedding gown I wore at my daughter’s wedding, but they are so small, no one can wear them. Is there a charity that takes these kinds of items? I also have a crib and all the things a baby would need. Any suggestions? Thank you!

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Kathryn, I am so sorry for all you have gone through. I appreciate you reaching out to find tips on where you can donate clothing and baby items. I would reach out to a local woman’s shelter to see if they can use the baby items and clothing. As for the prom/dressy items, there are charities that match prom dresses with teens that can’t afford retail. Perhaps a school could let you know the charity in your area that does this. Sending you hugs! 🤗

@elizabethb3270 2 жыл бұрын

Quality videos as always! Blessings to you.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Much appreciated! Blessings to you as well.

@NovelNovelist 2 жыл бұрын

This was a sad episode. I really feel for this lady and all the life changes she's been forced to go through. And of course given that you're doing this with her, I presume that it's something she wanted for herself and is helping her close the previous chapter of her life and begin a new one -- which is great! I think though, that for a lot of people, if they aren't moving, downsizing, or needing the space for other stuff, there wouldn't really be that much harm in keeping these items from their old life that they'll no longer use. I guess it all comes down to the person and their needs and wants. Hypothetically if it were me, I could see a lot of these items becoming more "keepsakes" from my younger, healthier, more active life than necessarily clothes I expected to wear often -- and I think that's okay if there's the space for them to be stored neatly. Like, no, I'm not going to use those biking shorts again, but I'm going to keep them anyway to reflect that period of my life and those memories, and if my family wants to get rid of them after I die, that's fine.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Great points. She had pictures of herself racing wearing some of the clothes she donated -- so, the pictures honor the memories. (And she still has her racing bike hanging front and center in her garage - which I think she's keeping for a relative or as a keepsake.) It's sad, to let go of old clothes, it's true, but so encouraging to see so many people moving on from the past looking towards the future. Imagine having a closet with clothes you love and can wear now - rather than every time you walk in your closet you are filled with sadness from a bygone era.

@brendakrause5639 2 жыл бұрын

She can keep a picture of her in the outfit if she has one.

@teslarex 2 жыл бұрын

You are so sensible. I wear just a few items of mine regularly.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

I love that you know that about yourself. This means if you haven't already, you can pass some of it on. Thanks for sharing this.

@anata.g.4966 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Angela! Thank you for that video but I think it wasn't as simple as suggested.. That woman had probably experienced many losts. She used to work out,do Yoga etc and now because of disease and an accident -tow terrible things- she's actually has lost of abilities along with the clothes that she used to wear . It is important to be sensitive and understand it is an emotional process which can be very difficult.. Hugs for your client 🤗 💗 I wish her good health and new satisfying fun activities and memories that you will collect in her future

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You are correct there is pain in letting go of anything that once meant something (or still means something to a person.) I'm working with a woman now who has her wedding dress crammed in her closet and she has no daughters or granddaughters to pass it on to...but she has been married 55 years and for 55 years the dress has been hanging in the closet. She is 100% convinced that leaving the dress in the closet is the reason the marriage has lasted so long - so we kept it in the closet. Heck, if a marriage can be saved by hanging a wedding dress in the bride's closet - then by all means, keep the dress. The goal is to move things on that no longer have a purpose for you (or the person you are working with.) Thanks for your kind wishes and compassion. I appreciate you. 🙏

@anata.g.4966 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown thank you for the explanation and the appreciation

@naziasaid2816 2 жыл бұрын

All your visitors are helpful thank you Angela!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for saying so, and thanks for watching. I appreciate your kind words. :-)

@bluestar.8938 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you lovely lady Angela Bee : )

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. It's great to have you here. 🤗

@IndiaMonetspeaks 9 ай бұрын

Prayers to the client for her strength and enduring a life change of that magnitude.

@AskAngelaBrown 9 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@hazelchristopherson6978 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for the tips ❣️ I'm on my way upstairs to downsize my closet now ❣️

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Awesome...you got this!

@ElizabethDohertyThomas 2 жыл бұрын

First time to your channel and really like your approach! - a new subscriber :-)

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Elizabeth, Thanks so much for watching the show and subscribing. I appreciate you! 👍

@franklinstephen3268 2 жыл бұрын

Hello how are you doing?

@Tipperary757 2 жыл бұрын

Yep, those sales! A drug for hoarder-lites, too.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Sales are easy to avoid when you have rules. It's the aimless wandering through stores, with no rules in mind that items from the clearance racks find their way into your buggy without much rhyme or reason.

@Arizona_lilly Жыл бұрын

Beautiful hangers

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Thanks. We often remove hangers from a person's closet once we've cleaned out the clothes so there it not an unconscious want to fill the hangers back up. Hangers like this are usually put in an unused closet in the home (these were expensive the client said) so if they want to use them again, they certainly can. We often end up giving them away at some point because they do in fact go unused in many cases.

@jenniferreynolds3232 2 жыл бұрын

I think this was one of the MOST helpful videos on decluttering and clothes especially, that I have seen! Thank you for this video!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your feedback, I appreciate it!😊

@eileenkillen1481 2 жыл бұрын

I so needed this video Angela, thank you so much 💓 blessings to you and your family from Ireland 🇮🇪 ❤ 🙏

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Eileen for watching and for checking in. 💛🙏

@etmoiaussi439 2 жыл бұрын

My lifestyle has never required a huge wardrobe but for the past 20 years or more I have operated on the buy something new throw something out structure. Driving home I actually find myself wondering with a sense of almost excitement what I will be throwing out in and before I have even put my new item in place have selected the old item to go into the op shop bag I have hanging in my closet.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

What a great way of preventing your closet from getting out of control. Thanks so much for sharing this tip. 👍

@queenofputrescence5167 2 жыл бұрын

Word of caution, if you have hangers to donate, check with your donation center. Many donation centers will not accept hangers, even the good ones as a donation.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

It's true, the velvet hangers are not accepted at most places, that said, you can take those and put them in a box at the end of your drive. Take a picture of them with a picture of the house in the background so they are easily identifiable (which house in the neighborhood). Post the picture on Nextdoor.com with a "first come first serve" post. We've given gobs of stuff away in the neighborhoods we've cleaned in and the longest "sit" in the driveway time for items to be claimed is 26 minutes. 👍👍👍

@ragacats 2 жыл бұрын

Getting rid of business clothes after retiring is hard. I have many beautiful pashmina shawls I will probably never wear again.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

It's interesting you bring that up. I am going to a lady's house this evening to do a Shawl/scarves clutter corner with her. We will go through them together and decide which ones she wants to keep, which ones to consign, sell, or donate. They are all in like new condition and beautiful. These are some of the hardest things to go through - and since the pandemic she is now working from home and probably won't wear MOST of them again. Let me know how it goes for you. Keep me posted. I'm here rooting for you as you go through this process. 🙏

@debbiedouglas2264 2 жыл бұрын

I agree about getting rid of the business clothes after retirement. That’s one of the things that I need to do and have been putting off for about six months. Time to get busy!!

@wai0937 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your work.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! Thanks for joining us. 🤗

@Amy_Stanmore 2 жыл бұрын

I have a room for things I want to donate or sell. I declutter one room or area a week . One day I'll remove all the items from that spare room or sell them on ebay (ie new lightly used items). I will then take them to the local charity shop. I remove items which I don't want to wash again or wear again. I always wash clothes before donating though.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That's great! Thank you for watching the video and for taking the time to comment, I appreciate it!

@vivian2217 2 жыл бұрын

I donate my cycling clothes to an organization that helps kids fix up bicycles, athletic clothes, jackets to programs that help homeless kids, lower income, Veterans and Animal welfare.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That sounds like a wonderful organization that is blessing the lives of many. Thanks so much for sharing. Like

@marytye8952 2 жыл бұрын

Love the video

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to drop me a line. It's great to have you here :-)

@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living 2 жыл бұрын

I really like your videos. They’re very informative and helpful. I learned a few great cleaning tips from your videos. I just subscribed to you.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Jennifer, I appreciate you reaching out to let me know you like the show and you are now a subscriber. Woo Hoo! Thank you! 😊

@serenequeen8973 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry to hear that the woman who was the owner of the clothing has been involved in an accident I hope she gets well soon 😞 sorry to hear about her having cancer. My late father had cancer 😞 cancer sucks. Thank you very much for this amazing video ❤️

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Serene, Thanks for watching the show and reaching out to leave a comment. Sorry about your father. 🙏 🤗

@serenequeen8973 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown Aww thanks beautiful for your lovely words and kindness. Sending much love and wish you all the best ❤️

@georgeedward1226 2 жыл бұрын

I have my own clothes decluttering system. I don't buy new clothes till the old ones utterly disintegrate. Slight exaggeration but that's the general idea.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That is a great tip! Thank you for sharing.

@apmwpny 2 жыл бұрын

@George Edward I thought I was the only one who thought this way…. My sentiment for clothes is exactly the same. I’ve not bought clothes in over 15 years and they are now starting to shred, disintegrate as you say, due to excessive use and passage of time. Every year I say I will push one more season with my summer or winter clothes due to the change of seasons here in the Northeast. But it is easy to see I’ve pushed my luck a bit too far and will need to start purchasing more clothing at latest early next year.

@georgeedward1226 2 жыл бұрын

Mine eventually end up as cleaning rags.

@georgeedward1226 2 жыл бұрын

The entire fashion industry and the concept of what's in style was created to get people to disregard perfectly good clothes and buy new ones they don't need.

@apmwpny 2 жыл бұрын

@Rev. Robyn Young What you call your Yard Clothes is exactly my ‘Leisure at Home’ clothes and NEVER to be worn away from my home…even on a quick errand. At this state anyone who saw my clothing condition would most likely think I’m homeless.

@mjef3695 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear of the lady’s health issues. I have made myself a promise to clean out my closet especially since it’s trickling out of the closet.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You can do it! Thanks for watching!

@flags7712 2 жыл бұрын

Hi 👋 Angela happy Monday

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks. Happy Monday to you as well. 👍

@DsnyLuv 2 жыл бұрын

This was very helpful

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful, thanks for watching!

@deecee901 2 жыл бұрын

I have no issue dumping stuff from my closet. Took me a bit to detatch or just donate as much was not worn or in good shape etc. However if I'm not wearing it...why do I need it taking up space. Great feeling .

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work : )

@SusanBaileyAmazingEstate Жыл бұрын

You can easily make these decisions every time you do laundry. When you put your clothes away, always add them from the right. Over time, whatever’s on the left hasn’t been worn and can be considered for purging. This applies to the pants section of your closet, your sock drawer, everything. I have two drawers for casual T-shirts. I move everything down before putting away the clean T-shirts. I have two rows for underpants in one drawer. I put the more specialty use stuff in the back row, everyday underwear in front. Still load the drawer from the right. Same for wire vs sports bras. Same for color vs white socks. It’s hard to get rid of some items, especially when you paid a lot for them. This forces you to stop kidding yourself. Plus, it doesn’t need to be a big project you’re never gonna get to.

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Love this! You have a great method, thanks for sharing!

@laurasimpson7650 2 жыл бұрын

Timely and helpful tY

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome, glad it was helpful!

@romanhnatowski9311 2 жыл бұрын

Maybe donations to Ukraine or the Salvation Army at this time would be more appropriate and do more good. Some donation sites are for profit with CEOs making tons of money rather than helping people. Please do due diligence with these organizations to do the most good!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

YES! Thanks for this amazing tip. There are lots of places to donate these days. Even Churches are now posting in their online bulletins the "needs" of the members in case anyone donating can donate directly to those families in need. You are of service to others when you share your surplus. Lend a hand or lend your goods.🙏

@goodnessandmercy 2 жыл бұрын

I agree, Goodwill is for profit. Donating to them only makes the CEO wealthy. It's my understanding none of the $ goes to charity. I refuse to buy from them too.

@SilentMeow9 2 жыл бұрын

Women's shelters and centers that serve our houseless community members are another great option. Oftentimes they give them away for free to those who need them.

@NostalgiaSue 2 жыл бұрын

I find it so hard to part with cloches. I want to sell but it just Keeps getting worst. I will try this method. TY

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Susie, Definitely give this a try and let me know how it works out for you. I’m routing for you!! 😊

@Deecee20 2 жыл бұрын

Wow great 👍

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😊

@kayanasuniga1251 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome!

@dancerdude83 3 ай бұрын

I have a hard time decluttering clothes but needed this helpful reminder especially since it’s ’Spring Cleaning’ time - my biggest downfall is screen prints and concert merch - curious, if there is a rule for that?

@AskAngelaBrown 3 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful! I know how hard it is to say goodbye to some merch. As you go through your clothes, consider keeping only those that hold special memories and let go of the ones that no longer make you happy👍

@marciasagadore2158 2 жыл бұрын

I don't know if you would have any advice for me. My entire closet is of a lifestyle I don't live anymore: business clothes, dress pants, beautiful jackets, dresses, fancy wear, pieces that I love and cost a fortune, but don't fit - actually, my entire closet. I see the open and full closet everyday because it's in my bedroom, and my attachment is that "this is me, or at least who I was, and are all my memories". The only things I wear now are in a couple piles on top of my bureau: loose pants and lots of loose tops. I literally don't know what to do. How do I give away such a big inherent piece of me? As I said, I don't know if you've had experience with this before and can offer any advice. On this specific video, with respect, it really didn't mean anything to mature/senior women. It was just about a former athlete getting rid of her athletic clothes. Thank you for your time.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Marcia, How long has it been since you’ve worn the business and dressy clothing? If it’s been several years, would you consider donating the clothing to an organization like Dress for Success? Your work attire would help other women achieve economic independence. Check out their website and let me know what you think: dressforsuccess.org/

@brendakrause5639 2 жыл бұрын

I have the same problem. I retired to Florida. No need for fancy clothes. I decided to make a new outfit for church each week with my nice clothes. And as I go along filter out those that do not fit anymore or will not work with the climate. I am so attached to my clothes because it has taken so long to find what works with my body. Plus I just like looking at how colorful my clothes look in the closet. I must be weird.

@marciasagadore2158 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown Thank you for responding. I definitely would donate my clothing to someone who would wear them, but I'm stuck in my original mental quagmire. That's what I can't get past. I realize it's mental. Any suggestions how to get over that? I will take your suggestion and see if there's a Dress for Success organization where I live. If not, any other thoughts?

@Arizona_lilly 2 жыл бұрын

I need this

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Give it a try!

@annsowers4591 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I had the courage to go through my deceased Son's clothes. Just when I think I can I break down.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Oh no Ann, I'm so sorry for your loss. 🙏 Grief takes time but doesn't have to be done alone. Do you know about GriefShare? www.griefshare.org/ GriefShare seminars and support groups are led by people who understand what you are going through and want to help. There are thousands of GriefShare grief recovery support groups meeting throughout the US, Canada, and in over 10 other countries with online help and daily email support. 🤗

@rachelolvera9435 2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad I stumbled on to your video. I will subscribe.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome, thank you! Welcome to the channel and thanks for subscribing, I appreciate it!😊

@louisemorgan8657 Жыл бұрын

I have a small made up wardrobe completely full, I have bags, suitcases and chests full of clothes, some from 30 years ago, I hate the mess because all of the bags and cases are all piled up in another room, so basically two spare bedrooms wasted, but I cannot part with any of my clothes, it’s strange because I hardly ever have anything nice to wear. Most of the clothes are a few sizes too small but I convince myself one day I will be lovely and slim again so if I throw them I would have to spend a fortune on new clothes, my other reason is that a lot of the clothes were quite expensive and I think, oh I’ll sell some make some money, I’ve done it once with one dress, only got ten pounds for it and felt upset that I had let it go, then there are clothes that remind me of lovely times, same with shoes, I have lots of shoes some not even worn but now riddled with arthritis I cannot wear the heals anymore, getting rid of them is like finalising my inability to wear lovely shoes anymore. I know I need to be realistic, I would love a simple wardrobe with clothes that fit for all seasons but don’t know if I will ever get there. I’m not much better with items either, I have box fulls of books, old ornaments, pictures just not needed anymore but cannot separate myself from them, I think in another ten years if I don’t do something about it I will need a four bedroom house so I can fill a third with my things. It’s just too stressful and makes me feel quite miserable about it.

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

I understand how overwhelming and emotionally challenging it can be to confront the clutter and attachments we have to our belongings. It seems like your wardrobe and storage spaces are filled with items that hold sentimental value, memories, or hopes for the future. It's completely normal to have difficulty parting with clothes that no longer fit or shoes that you can no longer wear due to health issues. Letting go can feel like closing a chapter on certain aspects of our lives, and that can be tough. It's important to approach this process with self-compassion and take it at your own pace. Consider starting small, maybe with a single category or area, and gradually work your way through. You may find it helpful to set aside some time to reflect on the true significance and usefulness of each item. Remember, it's not about getting rid of everything, but rather creating a space that brings you peace and allows you to focus on the things that truly matter. If the task becomes overwhelming, reaching out to a professional organizer or a compassionate friend or family member for support and guidance can make the process less daunting. Be patient with yourself, as letting go is a journey that takes time.

@lauraswihart4816 2 жыл бұрын

I need so much help! I don't know how to start!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Laura, you are in the right place! I have lots of videos on decluttering. A great rule to go by is get rid of the easy stuff first. Here is a video to checkout: m.kzfaq.info/get/bejne/lapje6memJ6rfZc.html Keep me posted on how you are doing. I’m routing for you!

@Izanami2050 2 жыл бұрын

This video just filled my heart with so much sadness...someone lived their life, fought cancer, recover from accident, still trying to make the best of their current life- but the closet assessment approach is so cut and dry, like going through a deceased person's estate...

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Irina, I agree with the sadness, and still the woman wanted to go through her belongings so she wouldn't be a burden to her children later on. Creating space was something that brought her joy and is a great lesson in letting go of parts of your past that no longer represent the activities you are doing. For her, every time she went in her closet it was making her sad because there were images of her past that gave her angst because she would no longer do those activities. It took careful consideration I'm sure, for her to call me.

@miltonwaddams2564 2 ай бұрын

I hate the cycle clothes so much but when you tell me that she’s never going to ride again and that she loved to cycle my hoarding instinct is feeling a lot of nostalgia for those bike shorts. I have a problem

@AskAngelaBrown 2 ай бұрын

I totally get that-our favorite clothes often bring back many memories. If it’s tough to let go, try keeping just one special item that could help you hold onto these nostalgic feelings without being overwhelmed

@pilatesyogataichifit 2 жыл бұрын

All very nice. But I have thousands of fitness items. What to do?

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Have you used everything? What do you use the most? Keep that and donate/sell the rest.

@jillgott6567 2 жыл бұрын

The camisoles I use in place of nighclothes or around the house inside

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That's great! Thanks for watching!

@unitedheartsamerica5924 2 жыл бұрын

I often would struggle with the fact that I paid money for the clothing item. (Ugh) and so my next question is “DO I FEEL FABULOUS IN IT? “ or DO I LOOK FABULOUS IN IT? I tended to keep a lot of “MEH” clothes feeling guilt about the expense.. but now I use the fit or look as the deciding factor. If I am still stuck, I take it to my family and tell them to be brutally honest since I have some extra weight and not everything looks fab-o on this body!!!! 🤣🤣Then I can TOSS with glee!! Weeeee! Make room for something better to come along in the future..

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

YES! Great call. I love that you are willing to ask for brutal truth from family members who have your best interests in mind and will be honest with you. 🙏

@Heidi-ri1qf 2 жыл бұрын

if this video causes me to feel nauseated, does that mean I am a hoarder? maybe being raised so poor it is so difficult to get rid of things.

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Feeling nauseated if it is clearly only related to this video, could mean that it's triggering something. Not necessarily hoarding tendencies but it could be connected to a scarcity mindset. Do you keep things you don't use, don't want or need just because you once paid good money for them?

@user-pi2qp6tc5g Жыл бұрын

Lady if I did it one item at a time I could live to be a thousand years old and still not be done 😂

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

LOL. It's true, when we declutter, we usually get rid of multiples at a time, but walking through one item at a time, gets people who are stuck thinking about WHY they are hanging on to their items. Logically, it's often easier to let go of an item once you realize the reason you were hanging on to it no longer exists.

@Beachbreeze707 Жыл бұрын

How sad. It’s nice you are there to help her.

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

Thank you! We all need some help from time to time.

@Beachbreeze707 Жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown I probably going to need to get help soon. I want to have a lot of this done. So I can hit the gym and the ocean soon. I gave up a paddle year trying to get my whole life in balance. I hope I have another year on the ocean.

@jidibrai1 2 жыл бұрын

We’ve established a NEW RULE😳

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

👍

@jimmymiller7256 2 жыл бұрын

I do that

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

That's great! Thanks for taking the time to watch the video.

@ruthtorphy2204 2 жыл бұрын

Well that was a no brainer .

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

You know, most of the stuff we have is a no-brainer. And yet we hang on to stuff oftentimes without even thinking about it. When we think about it, it's easy to let go. Thanks for bringing this up. 👍

@morro8785 8 ай бұрын

I'm a cyclist, too. This is the reason why I found this example of decluttering especially hard to watch. This woman must have lost half of her beautiful life. But the tipps you gave are great! Thank you for that 😀

@AskAngelaBrown 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comment!

@sandyhumissouri5131 2 жыл бұрын

Ohhh I have so many questions! What is this person going to do now for fitness? How do you clean those dusty hangers? The cycling kit! Someone else will be happy to get that, sooo expensive! Hope this person is okay!

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Decluttering a closet does bring forth all sorts of questions and the good news is that they do ot all need to be answered at once. Your unconscious mind will go to work trying to find solutions while you focus on making new rules with one type of item at a time. What one item will you focus on? It doesn't have to be from a closet, it can be from a cupboard or a toybox or a craft box.

@gaylejohnson3648 2 жыл бұрын

Any recommended way to dust off unused hangers? Thanks

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Gayle, Are the hangers plastic, wooden or velvet?

@gaylejohnson3648 2 жыл бұрын

@@AskAngelaBrown They are velvet. It seems so wasteful to throw away.

@jaeshasway 2 жыл бұрын

I bought some of those vacuum bags, but they won’t stay tight. How to best store the clothes you want to keep or sell?

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Are you posting the clothing you want to sell online and need quick access to them?

@lindaalden2867 2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't she the strappy tops under winter clothes for extra warmth

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

It's possible. We got rid of the clothes, and I asked her about a week ago if she missed any of them - and she said: "not a one." LOL. So if you can downsize the clothes in your closets with no regrets...I am going to call that a win. 👏👏👏

@evelynross6144 2 жыл бұрын

❤️

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the love and thanks for watching!😊

@icingcake 2 жыл бұрын

Yup real life happens

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

Right? And often clothes that once fit into our lives no longer have a purpose - so it's okay to let them go.

@VirginiaS08 2 жыл бұрын

Should you clean/iron clothes before donating?

@AskAngelaBrown 2 жыл бұрын

No. Just take them out of your closet and donate them. The place they are going will have their own washing methods and will do that even if they are clean when you donate them. Great question though.

@kellyyork3898 2 жыл бұрын

I have a friend whose weight fluctuates....sometimes she loses 30 to 5 pounds and then she gains it right back. So she keeps all these clothes packed into her closet that she cannot wear “yet”. What do I do to help her?

@AskAngelaBrown Жыл бұрын

The first question is does she want help? If yes, she may want to pick a new weight range (i.e. ten pounds in either direction of her perfect weight example sizes 6 to 8.) Then she can let go of any of the clothes in the minus or plus size of that range. Example < 3-4 and >10-12 Does that make sense?

@user-hk1sm8zw3c 2 ай бұрын

BETTER TO EMPTY THE WHOLE CLOSET. !!!!!!!! works much much better

@AskAngelaBrown 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your perspective! It's great to hear different approaches to decluttering. While some may find success with emptying the entire closet at once, others might prefer a more gradual process. Ultimately, it's about finding what works best for you and your unique situation. Appreciate your input!