That's good advice

Bolocks

Voices change too 🤦🏾‍♂️

That's one of the most funniest advice a person could give.

Usually older guys just f*ck young beatiful women

Same shit i said, especially with women

I agree with you. These videos interviewing women are amusing but they're not really going to help the average man get dates or find a girlfriend.

@@moleahy6880 dating isn't made for the average guy, it's made for the tall good looking chad. The rest of us simply get screwed over.

@@UserRobot215 I don't think Chads really date. They just slam. LOL. But to your point - I agree it's a lot easier for the tall good looking Chad. But I've known a lot of shorter (under 5'6"), average looking, not wealthy guys who were surprisingly successful with women. How did they do it? They definitely had game - they were very funny, charming, and had charisma. But I think there's one other big point - they knew what kind of girls to go after and where. Clearly these guys would have gotten nowhere on dating apps, or in the bars and clubs. So they targeted meeting girls in person and they went after girls who seemed to be more open; maybe from experience they got a vibe that a certain type of girl would be more open to them. Interestingly a lot of these girls were pretty attractive, definitely better than average.

@@moleahy6880 exactly. Well said.

I would be careful of girls who say "I don't care"...PERIOD.They don't mean ONE $#@* word they are saying.....

@@user-dy2zy8rd2t 💯 Facts

The "I don't care" woman contradicted herself in the latter half that she does care about the things she didn't care about before. Ha ha. That's a woman for you.

@@rytoniowendolini2793 Exactly lol

Yep, whenever they preface something with "I don't really care, but...", she cares..

Why do you like that?

Girls like that are always bat shit boring themselves too.

I think they were being sarcastic@@univuniveral9713

I would be perfect for her

@@univuniveral9713 cuz its funny

Indeed, they would just get cancelled

@@andreib4226 I think men's observations about what they want in a woman would be a lot less superficial and more about her temperament. As long as a woman is "reasonably attractive" and is a team player... as opposed to being competitive, critical, never satisfied etc....(ie. an obstacle to his happiness) I think most men who want a relationship would see her as a viable option. I also think that the male responses might be eye-opening for a lot of women. Men simply don't value women for the same reasons that many women imagine.

@@yougoods7470 Entirely possible. Depends on the cross section of men in the interview. A bunch of frat boys will yield responses that are different than what you'd get from blue collar men. Hopefully such an interview would include a statistically reasonable representation of men (not just the top 10% that women tend to chase, but which have little incentive to commit)

@@patrickmarr7076 let's be honest, you also want to see top 10% of Guys interview! 😂

Were the girls asked if height was important?

Courtney Ryan is a charlatan actually 🤣 She fits the definition very well in my opinion. Charlatan: (ˈʃɑrlətən ) noun. a person who pretends to have expert knowledge or skill that he or she does not have; fake; mountebank. Also they don’t even talk about how ethnicity matters I bet Courtney and most of these girls only date white men around 6 ft more or less but probably more than 6ft.

We should do the same and judge women only by what they can change. But if she’s a 10 with under C cup breasts she becomes a 1. Plastic surgery doesn’t count.

short guys can do wonder if they have the right confidence...I can tell you that first hand

@@armin38822 yeah I don't know, nothing's worst than a little guy who overcompensates by acting overconfident 😆

@@cyberlip666 they do a little bit off that but I have a coworker who's short. Like,I feel BIG when I'm around him and I'm average in height. But the guy always had hot girlfriends.

Clever.

Yeah the only reason these people aren't unbearable is because this is a first impression Q/A and they're in their 20's. Fitness in your 20's is completely pointless to talk about. Having abs in your 40's is almost impossible for anyone with a family and a full time job that isn't fitness related. That's when you actually see who gives a shit about their body.

@@rorschach775Well they are quite a turnoff and their young age is not an excuse in my opinion.

Being in my mid-40's I thought the exact same thing. Most guys in their mid 40's are already bald or balding bad enough they have to shave their heads. Plus, most of them have beer guts or big guts too. Its part of the horrible diet most eat, the grind of daily life, and just plain old slowing down of the metabolism. So, I already know a woman in my age range won't really care about appearance as much.

@@yourcrazybear when you're young you don't have to think about it. None of them look like they're into fitness. They just look young. Most of these girls will be the chubby person with no abs and flabby arms they currently think is unattractive. They just don't know it yet. Can't blame someone for not knowing what it's like to age.

@@rorschach775 Good point. Women usually hit 'the wall' pretty hard once they get into their 40s and by their 50s, you wouldn't even look at them twice. I graduated from high school over 40 years ago and there are only 2 women from my class that are still reasonably attractive. All the others have asses the size of refrigerators, wrinkles all over their faces, and unless the dye their hair, they look 20 years older than they are. The vast majority of women just don't age well. The same can be said of some men, also. But it seems that, generally speaking, the guys age a bit more gracefully than the women.

Thank you!

Height noticeably absent...

I never understood why women like men's butts. It's not like they could do anything with it like how men can for women's butts.

@@RisingChaos because Teddy is hobit

@@RisingChaos that was in the first video nerd.

Very sorry to hear that Bro

get eyebrow tattoos, it’ll be a night and day difference. Best of luck.

@@kaidwyer I had them microbladed about a year back, it really helped a lot, that shit hurts more than I thought it would but totally worth it

Get that Saitama build, man. I'm gonna be bald soon so I'd like to get a bit of muscle for that too

Respect to you man, you really said it is what it is

😂

Actually men should be even more demanding since even an average man brings far more to the table than an average woman does.

@Laura UK Think about it this way: right now the dating market is a female oligopoly. If many male buyers stop buying by practicing abstinence, stop the simping (thirst traps on social media and @nlyfans) and by settling only for women at their looks level (which implies dumping or divorcing a woman below the looks level of her man). The market might gradually shift to benefit men.

@Laura UK A woman is just given her value (physical attractiveness) but a man has to achieve his value (status). Even that average man has had to work hard to achieve something and be something. He is expected to give his time, his energy, and his resources. Is that expected from the average woman? No but it damn well should be. So what does the average woman bring? Nothing really except entitlement and very high expectations. She wants this and she wants that. She deserves this and she deserves that. She's a queen, a princess, a superstar. I never hear average men talking this way.

@Laura UK From my experience, the only reason some men don't appear picky, is because some men might f*uck average women, while pretending to be interested in them, and then easily filter those women out later (while they look for the attractive woman, they actually want to breed with) and they seem very choosy while selecting the woman they want to have a long term relationship with, esp based on looks, from my experience, men chose women purely based on their looks/body, age and personality, while women choose men based on a lot of factors including their wealth, socio-economic status, power, looks, resources, altogether, which is one of the reasons why women's dating market value typically goes down as they gets into their 30's and more, while men's value goes up as they hit 30's and up.

That’s miss a dry right there If anything this entire videos reinforces the idea that men should avoid dating modern women. Way to demanding. But aman cannot state his own preferences

If these women were actually being "honest",it's because they were talking to a camera. Now--I would like to actually SEE them say EXACTLY the same thing to a man in person. Yeah,just as I thought.......

😂😭

@@CourtneyRyan can you ask them would you date/be in a relationship with someone who has mental illness personality disorder brain injury physical and or mental/learning disabilities not interested in having sex at all mirrors you like their personality,hobbies etc are exactly like yours criminal record very suggestible,yes man abusive childhood orphan addiction compulsions like kleptomania, pyromania,etc fetishes like urolagnia,coprophagia,piquerism,etc doesn't feel comfortable in their body street kid/person spent their childhood and adulthood living on the streets

I think we're all attuned to voices. Men can really dislike the voice of certain women too. Fran Drescher made a career out of her screechy voice,so did Rosanne Barr. On the positive side, men so often comment on how feminine and pleasant Courtney's voice is. I admire it as a woman. I always had a deeper voice, but not that I'd ever be mistaken for a man on the phone. Men did say they liked that. It helped me to get over wishing to have a real girly voice, like I did when I was young.

Hahaha oh my gosh!!! Same thing here exactly! I still remember how sad I was about that🤣

I agree, however I will say that not every woman here who's picky about fitness is in shape herself. I believe she has no right to want a man with a six pack if she isn't decently toned herself.

@@hakeemsd70m yes, this I fully agree with. Regardless of gender, if you’re going to have standards, you MUST be willing to meet your own standards

I think it’s more like if a woman is attractive (and women don’t have to be big into fitness to be attractive) they can prefer a guy who’s fit, muscular, in shape etc. … that’s kinda equivalent in my mind. Like a hot girl wants a “hot” guy…

It’s not how it works my friend, I sure as shit can guarantee that any man who is not into fitness , has horrible teeth and ugly mug would be very much attracted to a hot fit girl with straight white teeth and a beautiful face.

Looked @your KZfaq profile, checked out your playlists AND immediatley, before even listening to them, I knew it was over for you. Brooootal.

@@copingmanlet1104 lol

@@copingmanlet1104 🤣🤣🤣

@@copingmanlet1104 🤣🤣

big arms from taking out their wallets and holding doors open......lmfao

That's absolutely true. It's a huge factor for healthy relationships.

I've been there. Resist taking it personally. If she's telling you her life story, she's interested in you, selling herself. Good to listen intently, you don't want to ask her a question later about something she's gone over. She could test you on it but she may well be just a little giddy, very happy to have your attention. If she's yammering, shock her out of it by interrupting and ask her if she wants to know anything about you. It's a simple test. If she's interested at all, she'll say yes and come around, but if the answer is no, then plan your exit.

@@x-man5056 100% this. I can tell ur emotional intelligence is very high

I'ma be real it's kinda just how women work frfr. When I first started dating my gf she had a good balance of wanting to know more about me and sharing about herself, but the longer we've been together, the more she feels comfortable just sharing. I just learned to listen and let her go, because I know it means a lot to her to get to talk and especially since she's introverted, so I'm one of the few people she gets really excited about talking to. I also try to share stuff too sometimes and she'll listen, she's just not as apt to ask about it, but we keep an open line of communication to make sure we're both heard

For sure

this. a personality that is compatible with, and enjoyable with, is FAR more important - it is who they will 'forever be' a body is definitely not forever (take a look at yourself if you are superficial and only care about looks.....)

Try and find a woman who isn't that way....Yeah,just what I thought

The majority of women want you to be physically fit. If you have a gut, and the next guy has abs - she might lie and say she doesn't care. But, in her mind, she wants the guy with the abs 99/100 of them do. Even if its not a fit for a relationship, they will lust and want the guy with the abs. Don't kid yourself. Like I said, not necessarily for a long-term relationship, but instant sex or their minds with have sexual thoughts about that other guy and not you. I assure you this is the way it is.

no ur voice is natural u cant change ur voice

@@sicckunts7069 I didn’t say you need to change your voice. But, if you’re not confident, for example, or lying, your voice does sound different. Women notice this. People in general notice it.

@@sicckunts7069 you can change your tonality and your speed which can make it sound different

@@kingjayiv2906 how do you know this

They are the most shallow set of women ever assembled lol.

So why are you watching? Lol

Find it interesting it kind reminds me of a science experiment

@@mikebrandimarte are you a monk or A.I.?

@@SystematicMechanic neither lol

​@@mikebrandimarte get our there, you're missing out. and lift heavy shit.

Nah, Erica is the most honest out of all of them.

We don't care for her opinion.

@@NeelabhKhatri4 then why watch

@@benasslick4824 lmao no. the ones actually saying what they like are being honest. women in general lie and say i don't care. Take this L npc

@@kboxer119 Rest of the girls weren't being a sourpuss.

yet people still chase them. good for you if you arent interested. less competition in the dating market. allthough based off your need to respond I imagine women find you odious. I cant see anything wrong with a bunch of fit girls many into fitness want a fit guy who is into fitness.

It’s getting worse man all I hear is women brushing all problems on to the man in situations that are obviously the woman’s fault, gaslighting to the extreme.

​@@TheSynisterMinister that's very beta of you to admit you reside in simp city.

@pitbolibo5365 whatevs. If thinking a woman who works out and educates herself has solid ground to want the same in a partner makes me a simp, so be it. Now I'd be on your side if they had a whale who doesn't work demanding 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inches. And yes those women exist and they are delusional. Kind of like the 300lb gamers who live with mom and want a hot japanese Waifu. Delusional. I'm just trying to live in the real word.

IMO they were all honest.

@Mike F what makes u think she lied tho? One of my best friends not to be mean is like a 4 or 5 tops and his wife is gorgeous. But she's with him because he's a super great guy and treats her good. And he's not loaded with money either so I know it's not that. Not all attractive women only want guys for looks and money. I know majority do but not all

@@dukefan1010 There is always exceptions. These types of videos/interview is to show a general view of what women think. To me it's more interesting how the general majority of women think because that tells me what they look for and increases my chances when I know how I can improve. That there are a few procent of women somewhere on the planet that like me 100% however whenever, is of no use. That's how I think.

Plus these are one on one. Every street interview I've ever seen online, the group of girls always look to each other for validation of their words, and feed off of each other. Those interview replies are not at all thought out by the respondent. This video style is a far better way

Yes it is

@t p everyone has a different idea of what they like.

You're right but a real man wouldn't give a damn as to how he was labelled.

@@moleahy6880 also true

Yes misandry and body shaming men for what they can't help is a normalized part of society. Double standard, hypocrites.

if Courtney had men in her channel answering those questions, there would be a movement of some sort for her to be cancelled

@@evidence-basedhealthuk5271 This video is like proof of the black pill.

social proof and pre selection

They absolutely do. I think that's something that guys don't actually think about. If all I want is one night, then the only two things I care about are how do you look, and are you clingy/crazy. But when you want an actual relationship, then you have to worry about a million more things, like what's your personality like, can I talk to you for long periods of time without being bored, what's your family like, are you bad with money, are you messy or unclean, do you have a job, how do you act in public.. all those are things you look at when you want a relationship, that you don't have to look at it if all you're trying to do is have a one night stand or a short fling.

@@JetWarrior dude your name is creepy black dude and you speak like a woman , you ok bud

social proof and pre selection

Thank you! ❤️

I think a different group would be nice.

social proof and pre selection

Hello how are you doing today?

Yes it does

The repeated "I don't care" sounded insincere, or like she didn't wanted to bother answering. It would be understandable to not care about some of them, but come on it sounds like she doesn't care about body at all, which I think everyone cares about in some form.

Evolutionary forces make our sub conscious care

@@Leonhart_93 maybe she doesn't really care that much if a dude is overweight.

@@SystematicMechanic I will reserve the right to doubt that. Perhaps it's not really important to her, but if she were to be able to choose between overweight or not, can she really say that either one is the same? And the other girls also mentioned stuff like trimming and cleanness. Clearly there are many things one looks for when it comes to body. And later on she mentioned something about how the neck indicates body fitness, so she clearly cares.

She’s the best. The rest are too superficial. “I hate to say this but…”. Just say you’re superficial. Stop trying to act like you’re not. The one that didn’t care about most things was good. She cared about the important things.

Women don’t care about big arms bro

@@Therathrive you don't have to listen to me, but make sure you invest in a lot of lotion, you'll need it. I have proven that fact many, many, many times 😈

They say treat your body like a temple, but my body's a haunted house.

These are the rules I live by. I would add, your word is your checkbook and your bond! Life is much simpler and many of life’s problems are non applicable with good habits in place.

Man, I got a lot of work to do... I hate that I wasted my early twenties working in retail trying to pick up girls when I should have gone to trade school to learn a skill to improve my usefulness. Now I can't even afford school... A man in his late 20s who has no skills is useless to society... I learned this the hard way.

I was looking for someone to talk about this. Was very disappointed when this wasn’t brought up. But thanks for the advice. Been insecure since 18 about my hairline and when I finally shaved it everyone of my co workers said it looks great and gave me a big confidence booster. There will always be that one person who will try to bring me down by using the fact I’m bald but I’ve accepted that some people are just assholes and if it wasn’t the hair it would probably something else they would use to belittle me.

That only applies if you have a nice face, I always treat others well but I'm not very appreciated because of my horrible face.

@@alangarcia3531 Yes you are 100% right my hair is now on 2mm and i still looking good because of my face and good head structur,

I started to lose my hair at the age of 20, it used to really bother me. I used to hide my hair line with a hat. I've gotten over it (contradictory to my pfp). I've heard ever bald joke possibile. I'm 38 now, and my attitude is f it I'm bald on top I've had to get used to it accept it now it's everyone else turn to do the same. Bald is beautiful.

I've got two friends that are bald, and they both have real hot wives. I'm mean one of the women have a perfect drop dead body , it's perfect ,and beautiful face.

It’s a supercherie ... They don’t say the truth about what women really chose

down bad

She apparently is not in to smiling or being expressive though. Cold B was my thought.

I was about to comment she gave me a lot of red flags. She seems like the type of person who will argue a whole ton. I know, i'm judgy 🙄. She seems very smart but barely smiled and then had very firm calculated requirements. Especially about feet but I didn't sense an emotional side to her.

Not to show, but rather truly care of our appearence, since it reflects our self-esteem and the type of person that we are

Yeah and all the whales insisting they are ok and we shouldn’t judge on how their fat cellulite ridden ass looks but insist on dating a man with a six figure salary and a great body. Women have a lot of double standards

caring about your appearance is based on your intent to so like you brushed your teeth so that means you care about your appearance well actually what should be said first is why did you brush your teeth do you even know why,was it to impress someone,was it because someone told you to that's not actually caring about your appearance

IMO strength > appearance looks don’t really have health benefits (except one I can think of) all it really shows is u have lower body fat % (hey at least we aren’t overweight or underweight) plus built a lil muscle. When you train for objectivity rather then subjectivity (which training to look good is it’s not objective it’s subjective in nature) then all styles of training improve weather that be to run faster, lift heavier, jump higher, run longer distances etc etc all this done in respect to recovery all have mental and physical health benefits. Also it makes you more satisfied and confident, u have a goal and the only one you are trying to beat is yourself (unless your competing in a sport and hey healthy competition is good). This also shows you are actually useful to people. Now don’t get me wrong I love especially now getting into nice cool looking clothes (subjective I like a lot of under-amour sports shit i personally think they have some nice merch), doing my hair, making sure my oral health is on point (crikey M8 we don’t want gum disease) watches etc etc but this is because I get an hit of endorphins and it helps me to love myself. So if it gives u that boost in yourself that’s probs why looking good might be good hey hey if it helps with the ladies then that’s a win win my fellow kings.

And you should do it for yourself and the coming Mad Max times. Trying to change for someone else will never last.

A problem with incels is they take figures of speech as literal absolutes. "They should like me for me" means "i can play video games and watch Japanese cartoons 16 hours a day, shower 2x a month, be able cook nothing more than hot pockets and bagel bites, and someone should accept that" "looks don't matter" means "i can weigh 350 lbs, wear dirty, stained clothing, have terrible BO, and have greasy, unkempt hair and facial hair and i should be able to get Cindy Crawford "(dating myself a bit there) If someone doesn't show any interest in their own life, why would someone else?

@@herculesbrofister265 I don't really know if you're adding to my comment, or thinking that I meant that, lol. I obviously think men (and people on the whole for that matter) should take care of themselves. What I mean when I say girls care about looks, I mean precisely "things you can't control", like simply what you get froom your genes. And when I say "others just care about what you do with what you have" I mean precisely taking care of oneself. Doing excercise. Eaiting healthy. Dressing up nice and clean. Smelling good. These are all things you can control And that's what I mean. As of the rest you said, it just seems mean-spirited to me, lol.

it is valuable to know that women objectify men as much, and more, than women. Extremely valuable.

Fortunately for me I’ve always been a stand up guy and was raised with manners and kept fit my entire life. 29 with 10 percent body fat full head of hair have a skin care routine etc. It’s not hard to have these things

Right. And also why we shouldn't identify with most of what is said here. As we get older and you still identify with these things of beauty you're going to be really unhappy.

@@Rizzy_K Sow a thought, reap an action. Sow an action, reap a habit. Sow a habit, reap a lifestyle. Sow a lifestyle, reap a destiny. A lot all comes down to personal choice. But some does not. Some is inherited from our family. I did not choose to lose most of my hair but I inherited my grandfather's genes and he had major hair loss most of his life. Nonetheless, I accept it and make the best of it!

I think it is more like tendencies or preferences but, the momento you know someone that shakes you you can actually even realize that he has no of your preferences are met and still you are attracted.

Very thankful that i grew up in an era, when little boys were told to be hard working and honest. Arms? Abs? I can still carry an aluminum cased four cylinder engine (fully assembled) across the room by myself. The opinions of these young ( too young), women are very disappointing to me...

@@gregwillis7767 Age of instagram models and unrealistic expectations.

100% agree

Finally found the comment i can breath here 😂😂

Yes exactly. F Roger Devlin has summarized male sex drive as wanting variety and quantity, whereas the female sex drive is only wanting one but wanting the absolute best. And now that trading up is legal and even encouraged, women are doing that in droves. This doesn't end well.

The problem is that men can only go so far with the "self improvement" nonsense, there's only so much you can do to increase your "attractiveness" i.e wearing nice clothes, all of courtneys useless generic advice basically. Most women have a range of "body standards" and physical "preferences" from penis size to height to not wanting bald men etc to begin with, if you don't meet these shallow body standards you never likely will. How does a man improve himself to become over 6ft for example? So that he now meets all these modern women's insane requirement that you must be over 6ft or you're a useless "manlet" etc?

@@evidence-basedhealthuk5271 sad truth

Just out of curiosity, why do you assume they are sharing their honest thoughts? For example - Erica claimed "I don't care so much". Uh huh.

@@moleahy6880 Just that, what they are saying, they definitely believe it. if she's saying I don't care, from her perspective she truly believes that (so it's her truth essentially, it's the best you're gonna get).

@@Mr.Telekinetic I'd suggest to you they are giving answers carefully rather than honestly. This is on a social media platform and can be easily accessed for everyone to see. So they're not about to say anything that can come back to haunt them later. These women at least are too smart for that. So take everything they say with a grain of salt and realize you are watching actresses. This is really just entertainment value.

@@moleahy6880 They're not actresses, they're pretty regular women, that's the point, for them to tell men what they want to see. Not everything you see is staged, frankly, I don't think these girls give that much of a f***.

@@Mr.Telekinetic Not actresses literally but figuratively. But hey, you're free to believe what you want to believe.

So do i

Unfortunately, they are not based in reality.

Imagine the outrage if men talked about women's bodies the way the women in this video do.

That would be fun!

I'd love to see that, but I bet there would be SO much hate. It's a double standard these days, and we as guys have to learn to deal with it. We can only talk about it in private lol

Should definitely do it!

They would get CANCELED

I like Erica as well.

Same. She seems cool and not as superficial

Her boyfriend is probably jacked.

She just doesn't want people to judge her for her preferences, they have to also stick to their social norms of being nice to everyone and everyone having some kind of value to *someone* just not her

Hate to burst your bubble, but despite not being overtly particular about a man’s physical attributes, she made it abundantly clear in another video that she cares a lot about money…like the guy has to make at least 500k a year for her to consider him…I’m not even exaggerating

@@HughGenvoenni Of course, the richest guys tend to lead the most decadent lifestyles. She wouldn't want to exclude her prime clientele, would she.

Uh-Huh---and I got a bridge I wanna sell ya........