The Golden Rule of Relationships nobody talks about | Eram Saeed

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Eram Saeed

Eram Saeed

3 жыл бұрын

“Give to yourself what you are seeking from others.”
If we keep running after other people to validate us, to make us feel whole, to make us feel loved and appreciated. We will always remain empty. The only way to fill the hole in our hearts is through self-love. The KHUDI that Iqbal talked about.
If you constantly self-judge harshly, you will be a judgmental person towards others. You will become harsh and intolerant.
We all mistakes. We can acknowledge our mistakes and course-correct them. But kindness begins with self.
We all mistakes. We can acknowledge our mistakes and course-correct them. But kindness begins with self. elf. e harsh and intolerant. always remain empty. The only way to fill the hole in our hearts is through self-love. The KHUDI that Iqbal talked about. and not lose their sanity. This video should NOT be taken as a support for abusive situations of any kind in any shape or form.
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@ayeshasaher4653
@ayeshasaher4653 3 жыл бұрын
aap k dresses bhi boht achay hotay
@errumtahir9304
@errumtahir9304 2 жыл бұрын
You can order same from me.
@nabeelakamal341
@nabeelakamal341 10 ай бұрын
Ma’am Eram Sayeed , aapke ek ek alfaaz 200% sahi hai , emotionally uljhe hue logon ko agar sahi waqt par sahi mentoring mil jaaye to zindagi azaab hone se bach jayegi …..
@saykay1
@saykay1 3 жыл бұрын
Very true. We need to heal ourselves first and then we can have a happy relationship. If we are not happy as a single we will never be happy as a married person. I really like your talks because you talk about balancing and you understand that women and men both are different and hence have different needs and varied ways of expressing their love.
@gazalabegum6896
@gazalabegum6896 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you once again. Wonderful advice
@madihasarwar8467
@madihasarwar8467 3 жыл бұрын
Very well said
@sumairaahmed4318
@sumairaahmed4318 2 жыл бұрын
Practical knowledge, thanks a lot
@AsifAli-uk1bn
@AsifAli-uk1bn 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right madam well done
@leelapai2469
@leelapai2469 2 жыл бұрын
Very valuable advise
@sweety3194
@sweety3194 2 жыл бұрын
Very nice I got answer what I have been looking for .. 💕
@ayeshaakram7216
@ayeshaakram7216 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your very informative and thought provoking videos. Please keep making these videos.
@hummerarazaraza7525
@hummerarazaraza7525 3 жыл бұрын
Well done said
@shaziakhan3515
@shaziakhan3515 Жыл бұрын
Very good and informative video, but easier said then done .
@ayeshaamir1740
@ayeshaamir1740 2 жыл бұрын
It really helps me.. Ur talk is so inspirational.. M very gratful..
@iramnauman734
@iramnauman734 3 жыл бұрын
Well explained. Very nice. Dil ko sukoon mil gya sun k really. ❤️❤️
@sidraansari1279
@sidraansari1279 9 ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am
@abidafahad2144
@abidafahad2144 2 жыл бұрын
Loved every word ❤️
@zainabshoaib4789
@zainabshoaib4789 2 жыл бұрын
She is really intelligent ❤
@ramsharqazi5941
@ramsharqazi5941 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you madam make more videos about this topic👍👍
@90zeenat
@90zeenat 11 ай бұрын
Each and every single word is so true❤
@rafiaasghar5353
@rafiaasghar5353 2 жыл бұрын
More than amazing 👏
@shahanaahsan1023
@shahanaahsan1023 2 жыл бұрын
You are Amazing.
@mudasserhussain1102
@mudasserhussain1102 Жыл бұрын
Erum ur each n every sentence is wonderful ....i feel ur discuss ion is miraculous
@qaisrafatima1338
@qaisrafatima1338 Жыл бұрын
Excellent erum
@mujahidnayeem722
@mujahidnayeem722 2 жыл бұрын
Always you took good topics
@nawan2348
@nawan2348 3 жыл бұрын
Kisi se umeed na lagain sewaiy Allah swt k, insaan dosroon se jo chahta hai woh pehlay khud usper amal karary
@priyanka8718
@priyanka8718 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Mam, please create more videos in youtube... you dont know how many women you are helping other women..
@zainabshoaib4789
@zainabshoaib4789 2 жыл бұрын
She is saying truth !!
@RS-ls3vy
@RS-ls3vy 3 жыл бұрын
abundant love to you and god bless u abundantly - i was so hurt since last two days and now happened to see this video flashed all of a sudden - gods way of helping me through u...... was feeling sad angry hurt before video.... after seeing ur video feeling empowered now - pearls of wisdom ..... subscribed n look forward to your videos.
@sidrakhan4514
@sidrakhan4514 3 жыл бұрын
JazakAllahu khayral jaza fid dunya wal akhira aameen For ur precious time and for helping stay blessed maam ur an inspiration for me...
@Mahdbloxfruits
@Mahdbloxfruits 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are amazing 👏 😍 💖 💕 ❤ 🙌
@syedzameer1650
@syedzameer1650 9 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤
@syedasamra772
@syedasamra772 Жыл бұрын
I recently came across your vidoes and I can not appreciate more
@sophiafarooqui5668
@sophiafarooqui5668 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic
@knowledgeseeker1997
@knowledgeseeker1997 Жыл бұрын
Golden words
@hannanquacey230
@hannanquacey230 Жыл бұрын
shes just awesome, i wish she spoke english fully😪😔
@familyday7668
@familyday7668 Ай бұрын
Excellent Vloging
@saemafahmi5283
@saemafahmi5283 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing exists until you make them exist. Learn the dance between form and formless. Allah ne sabko apne problem ke solutions carve out Karne ki power de hai. We just have to recognize it and polish that.
@aframirza4020
@aframirza4020 Жыл бұрын
Your Family is so lucky!
@divascorner8720
@divascorner8720 3 жыл бұрын
Your dressing sense is awesome
@ambreensultan9863
@ambreensultan9863 2 жыл бұрын
An awesome way to convey and address each and every issue without blaming either party; men or women.. Another thing which is most common in relationships is not physical abuse but mental abuse or i would say psychological abuse, where one person tries to control you and wants you to be what they want. How do deal in such situation? When you don't have any right to talk about what you want and you are forced to do what others want of you.
@sobiaghafoor7434
@sobiaghafoor7434 2 жыл бұрын
Love to listen to u, love u
@hamzaashfaq8738
@hamzaashfaq8738 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! I loved this video. Can you make a video on love marriages in our society and how to tackle the family values colliding with it?
@Mujii1984
@Mujii1984 Жыл бұрын
Agree with # Ms Irum.
@WIslamiclifestyle401
@WIslamiclifestyle401 7 ай бұрын
thnk u
@baigbaig4257
@baigbaig4257 Жыл бұрын
boht,achi,bat,love you from s h b karachi 🛏🚪🎭🗼
@alihaasimasimrasheed7187
@alihaasimasimrasheed7187 Жыл бұрын
Super ✨
@motivationalspeech2627
@motivationalspeech2627 2 жыл бұрын
❤ beautiful
@almasmohamedalthaf9072
@almasmohamedalthaf9072 2 жыл бұрын
So trueee
@user-vr6mx5ji9h
@user-vr6mx5ji9h 9 ай бұрын
Right 👍
@vivx-p2n
@vivx-p2n 11 ай бұрын
All worldly relationships are Attachments only, no true Love in it.. True love, is the love that we received from God called Grace, this is beyond Attachments.. this loves makes the 2, to become 1... Do not compare this love with worldly love
@-erajsalim8145
@-erajsalim8145 3 жыл бұрын
Can please guide us on how to practice self-love?
@sidrakhan4514
@sidrakhan4514 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful question i also would love to know
@saizeb
@saizeb 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@sairakhan3726
@sairakhan3726 Жыл бұрын
I m also interested
@memonagull408
@memonagull408 3 жыл бұрын
U are just a love💖💖💖💖
@sairakhan3726
@sairakhan3726 Жыл бұрын
Besides all other appreciations which you deserve, your taste and choice of dressing is also impressive. Eram gee what brand do you use ????
@cbwcontentwriter4886
@cbwcontentwriter4886 2 жыл бұрын
So beautiful Miss Erum......
@iqrarafaqat4444
@iqrarafaqat4444 2 жыл бұрын
Kamal
@shafaqshafique2247
@shafaqshafique2247 15 күн бұрын
Please can you make another video on this topic witb more elaboration.
@raheelahjabeen8973
@raheelahjabeen8973 Жыл бұрын
Always love ur videos learned alot from ur videos. But I also love ur dresses, just beautiful and perfect so gracefull. If u don't mind can u plz tell brand or designer. A humble request.
@fakhrazarin6986
@fakhrazarin6986 2 жыл бұрын
I do that 🥰
@syedanaheednasir7261
@syedanaheednasir7261 3 жыл бұрын
Main Lahore sy hun mam
@saizeb
@saizeb 2 жыл бұрын
Yes but self love how ? Tell us how to self love ? Examples pls
@saleemaliya468
@saleemaliya468 2 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah hu khair Mujhe aisa he change khud mai lana hai. Kis tarah, kia ap meri help krskti hain?
@ayeshasaher4653
@ayeshasaher4653 3 жыл бұрын
kahan say layti han kpray?
@mahirairshad4454
@mahirairshad4454 3 жыл бұрын
Maria B
@shafzalworld
@shafzalworld 2 жыл бұрын
Online boutique
@zubairkhan1439
@zubairkhan1439 3 жыл бұрын
Hyper narcissists or introvert people are who , what you are taking about . Sorry but it won't break the ice as introvert people always want other to listen to them . However what you are taking about direct the perfect to Avoid the dominant player .
@benishsheikh372
@benishsheikh372 2 жыл бұрын
Please teach me selflove
@mdfaiyaz4110
@mdfaiyaz4110 Жыл бұрын
Mam pora video urdu mein banaye please
@namnamo3476
@namnamo3476 2 жыл бұрын
Please explain it in Urdu.
@tayyabaasif1449
@tayyabaasif1449 2 жыл бұрын
The music is too loud. it sounds disturbing
@aqsaaa333
@aqsaaa333 3 жыл бұрын
Being a teen, I really needed to watch this. Pls make more videos like this. And keep up the good work. 💕
@mohammadfaraz4898
@mohammadfaraz4898 Жыл бұрын
The one who even left her children for her passion; what do you say about those women?
@nainnawaz5485
@nainnawaz5485 2 жыл бұрын
Mam. Is it possible that at sm stage self love becomes selfishness.. hw we can overcome this situation
@DieticianAkbarSayyed
@DieticianAkbarSayyed 2 ай бұрын
Hi how can I connect with you I'm going through a very critical situation in my life
@raziashabir8193
@raziashabir8193 2 жыл бұрын
Lobe from iok
@Urdunovels.9
@Urdunovels.9 2 жыл бұрын
Asslam alaikum i want to cantact you kaisy krun ? i want to share my problem .
@mimi-gf8bd
@mimi-gf8bd 10 ай бұрын
I love how well spoken this woman is. I love how after being through a traumatic experience, she rose so high. I see myself in her. We just have different type of trauma, but her words are so healing. Selflove is so important. I agree with every word. May Allah bless her.
@syedanaheednasir7261
@syedanaheednasir7261 3 жыл бұрын
Please reply zror kijyiga
@manahil9103
@manahil9103 2 жыл бұрын
How to approach you for face to face therapy ?
@syedanaheednasir7261
@syedanaheednasir7261 3 жыл бұрын
Assalam-0-Alaikum Mam ap sy milna ho tu kesy mila jyga????
@utopian2000
@utopian2000 3 жыл бұрын
When u love urself people and ur partner thinks that u r selfish
@aha1757
@aha1757 2 жыл бұрын
No being egostic and loving yourself is two different things. Usualy people who loves themselves also give love in abundance to others.
@self_study166
@self_study166 3 жыл бұрын
So its ur point of view that if u dnt have self love ..then u wll expct ur partner to love u? I mean seriously? And incase u r filled with self love then bhaar me jaye tera pyaar i dnt want ur love ..um happy in my way; ....freedom of speech but i dnt think people to get heavily touched ...rather viewers must give urself a quick introspection and know urself...rather than someone telling you....else u r certainly triggering others 😀
@mahnoorarslan6223
@mahnoorarslan6223 2 жыл бұрын
i guess you are not mature enough to understand what she wants to convey. instead of trolling her, look into urself to evaluate why you can't perceive the idea of self-love and self - acceptance in a good way. the way you are depicting self love "bhar mh jaye" etc, is the self love of uneducated person, GROW UP so better Self study, honey
@faizanhassan8212
@faizanhassan8212 Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty much sure that your husband must be sleeping with any other woman since you don't possess him.
@anonymousbeing5510
@anonymousbeing5510 11 ай бұрын
She is divorced
@ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm
@ShakeelAhmad-qj5rm 3 ай бұрын
In abusive relationships u advice women to take divorce but what if husband require psychological treatment but wife in addition left him too😮
@sidraansari1279
@sidraansari1279 9 ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am
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