My heart goes out to you! I am so sorry for the loss of your son!

So beyond sorry for your loss 🙏🏻❤️ from across the pond in the USA 🇺🇸 .

You are most certainly an angel among us doing His work. You have things most of us don’t: no fear of the dying process or death itself, and first hand knowledge of that mystery that lies in the other plane and the path there. Due to that, you are uniquely and extremely valuable in a hospice unit-you’re not regurgitating all of the guesses and theories about death and dying, you can tell someone exactly what will happen and that is an amazing gift for both patients and their family. I’m so glad you volunteer and share that gift and I hope you continue doing so until you can’t anymore.

@@notthecheshirekat2596 I would do that for anyone. I think God gave me my missions long ago but I was one who never believed they would live passed 16. It was the overwhelming feeling I had daily. I think he was getting me ready with what life offers and all its choices. Since my mom died just as I had turned 14 and made me an orphan, I needed great care and God with all his glorious angels were there for me. Yes, I have met two angels face to face and it is so pure that it's extremely overwhelming. I have been blessed so much in my life that to give back thru my experience leaves my heart and soul full and free. It soars my love for others. I walked in to one woman's room one time in the assisted living home when her room was empty meaning her visitors were out of the room. I held her hand and looked in her beautiful eyes and said to her that it's ok, you are loved and can be free. She was gone in one week but I saw a woman with deep concern in her eyes who gave me an angelic smile as I walked away. I really loved her... It was strange the way her visitors were treating her without feeling and so distant. I felt for her to have those people in her presents. So many die in the end with the buzzards looming. I truly abhor that feeling. To have someone with you that truly cares and loves you is the ultimate experience before the eyes shut. I buried my two hubbies in 2012 and last in 2016. They went out of life knowing they were loved. During those 4 years, let me know God had other plans for me but I never questioned what and why. I placed my life fully in his hands and the missions came to me. Just remember that death is fast and quick but the suffering or not is the hardest. That's why heavy meds during the end. I am sure there are many more angels out there who are doing the work that God needs of them. When I knew my mom was with me all these years, let me know the afterlife was real and a place we make as our own until our loved ones cross over. God Bless You and always think of me holding your hand as your loved ones would do, with a smile on my face and radiant love in my eyes, heart and soul for you.

I’m so sorry to hear about what your dad and all of your family went through, that is absolutely cold and cruel behavior to abuse and/or neglect someone who cannot care for themselves. I sincerely hope you told anyone who would listen about that horrific experience and facility, there is no room for that sort of human ugliness in this world. I’m glad you had such a wonderful facility and staff caring for your mother-that is precisely what should be done for everyone.

@@notthecheshirekat2596 Thank you so very much for your kind words! When my Mom discovered that my dad was just being ignored since he couldn't speak anymore, she contacted the State & also got the advice of an Attorney friend who specified in elder abuse/law. Once Kaiser had the horrific bedsore on his hip starting to improve, my Mom found out that he had to go back to the same facility!!! At first we were very upset, but the Attorney said that since Mom had reported it to the State, it was a GREAT place for him, because they knew that people were going in at all hours to check on his care & were making reports! The pressure sore had gotten down to Dads hipbone, & the facility was told to change the dressing 4 times/day. But he became septic, & was rushed to Kaiser. When they took the dressing off, they said it was the same dressing that Kaiser had discharged him with about a week earlier! Bless their hearts, they couldn't ask Dad about pain, so just to be sure, they'd give him morphine about 30 minutes before changing it so that he wouldn't be suffering w/no way to let anybody know! Soooo, that's why I was INCREDIBLY GRATEFUL for the wonderful place we found for my incredible Mom! They were amazing. It's called "Atria of Carmichael" & is here in Sacramento in case anybody needs a place in this area!

America needs help big time in this area, hope they get it!

Whoever did it is a vile pos

Well, it’s not like thieves have morals….

Thieves, drug addicts, low life scum.

usually drug addicts

judgement day is coming gods vengeance 🙏

@@lynettesanchez9315 shut the fvck up. God doesn't exist.

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God, no matter what Colour and 'diversity' must rear their ugly heads. ANYBODY CAN GO HERE! There are NO restrictions to anybody, so these so-called 'people of diversity' have chosen not to attend. Maybe Cultural or Religious Teachings mean they prefer to die at home?? Stop making issues where there aren't any!!

Don't be silly.

I’m sorry to hear that was your friends experience, but I know two people who survived after chemo. Everyone is different and everyone responds differently. It may be the best fit for others, so please don’t tell them not to. It very well may work for them, and for many it does.

@@hc507 I had chemo twice when I was younger and I agree with OP ONE MILLION PERCENT!!! If I ever get cancer again, I'm going to opt to not have chemo.

@@hc507 unless you experience it yourself, you should keep your mouth shut. It is extremely, EXTREMELY PAINFUL.

Yep, if you are found to be terminal, then chemo is the WORST thing to do to prolong your life in my opinion. I'm 37 now and had chemo at 9 and again at 11 and I STILL remember how painful it was. There isn't much out there more painful than that. I have Chronic Pancreatitis today plus a bunch of other stuff because of chemo. 😔😔😔😔😔

@@hc507 to make matters worse, after I told my mother that I won't have chemo if I get cancer again, she told me that she will take me to court to FORCE me to have chemo. I told her good luck with that. That's extremely selfish in my opinion.

Pretty sure it's a catalytic converter. Not catalyst. I'm also pretty sure that it's more an issue that no one else wanted to engage you and less about proving your point, eh?