The Manipulation Expert: You're Being Manipulated! Use Jealousy To Manipulate People! Robert Greene

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Robert Greene is a New York Times bestselling author, whose books include, ‘The 48 Laws of Power’, ’The Art of Seduction’, and ’The 33 Strategies of War’.
00:00 Intro
02:35 Why did you write a book about human nature?
04:34 How do we reverse a lack of self-awareness?
07:01 How to get rid of qualities we don’t like about ourselves
11:55 Where does our dark side come from?
15:29 How to pursue that thing you’ve always wanted to do
27:54 The unseen importance of creating a sense of urgency
29:47 How to know if you’re following a false purpose
36:17 Should a young person just be saying yes to everything?
40:14 How to manage other people that get in the way of what we want to do
43:06 Do we have to lie to be successful?
51:51 How to read someone's body language
54:32 A smile says loads about how someone feels about you
56:51 People's personalities are contagious
57:18 Frenemies, what they mean and how to spot one
01:06:42 What's the most controversial point from your book?
01:09:25 Does equality exist when we all strive for power?
01:12:29 Becoming the best, what it really means
01:18:11 Is death a motivator for you?
01:24:49 The importance of relationships
01:27:01 How to deal with dark thoughts
01:29:09 Advice for people going through self-doubt & hard moments
01:33:17 Why did you write this book, The Sublime?
01:37:43 What would be your parting message to the world?
01:43:34 How can we rise above our emotional reactions?
01:45:15 How has your research influenced how you view politics?
01:52:38 The last guest's question
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@TheDiaryOfACEO Ай бұрын

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@puppetmaster706 Ай бұрын

Another great video topic man!

@susanjones7734 Ай бұрын

Honestly, when you are a loyal fan and watch the show all the time, that repetitive commercial to get you to subscribe is getting beyond annoying. At least make a different one or better yet, stop showing it to people that have already subscribed.😩😩

@art_means_artificial Ай бұрын

your video edits suck !!!

@__Liza__ Ай бұрын

Robert Green is amazing! I hope you'll have the chance to invite Robert Sapolsky as well, I listened to all his lectures

@thadapsta Ай бұрын

Please get Tim Armoo!!

@villagefarang Ай бұрын

Clearly I have wasted my life with no ambition, status or power. I moved to a foreign country at 23 and never grew up, just kept on feeling and experiencing new things. So why am I so content with my life as I sit here about to turn 70? Some people want to leave their mark on this world but I guess I want to leave no trace of my passing, same as I do out on the trails. Some people need to live big, but hey, it's okay to live grounded in the present and let others carry all that angst of ambition and competition.🙏

@MarkFrancisco_354 Ай бұрын

💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

@ThaJew420 Ай бұрын

I resonate with this quite a bit. I personally have liked to just be an observer and commentator on what I’ve found in this world, myself, and others. Perhaps that’s what people like us were “meant for”?

@barrykeeto1248 Ай бұрын

I don’t think you’ve wasted your life at all. Your personal goals are yours and yours alone. You’ve reached 70 years which is in itself a milestone achievement. You took a gamble to relocate to a foreign country and made that decision work for you at a young age, again an achievement, and I’m sure there is much more too! Who says that we actually need great ambition, status and power, because with that comes huge responsibility and potential complications?

@diariesofsb Ай бұрын

this felt angery… i think everyone has a place on this earth and in society. be you

@villagefarang Ай бұрын

@@diariesofsb Not angry at all. So sorry my sense of humor didn't come through.🙏

@Liz-eh9id 18 күн бұрын

At 67 years old. I have “no friends” I have slowly stopped contacting them to see if they contacted me first. They didn’t. I feel happy in my own company.

@stoneymcmechan3210 17 күн бұрын

And this is also wisdom.

@salisiharmony 17 күн бұрын

At 73 I like friends around but not a fan of hearing judgements about my lifestyle coupled with the Christ Complex preaching from the woman at the well. After spending 44 years in prison (marriage) I’m finally free to be openly who I am. You’d be surprised at how many people want me back in a prison. Why is this? A woman who needs no validation is unworthy to live her life choices?

@digitalsoulopreneur 17 күн бұрын

Liz I’m 38 and I can relate

@user-yp5gz5pc8q 17 күн бұрын

I can honestly relate...I'm 60 years old with no friends and not going to lie that I do get very lonely at times....

@user-yp5gz5pc8q 17 күн бұрын

@salisiharmony I'm truly proud of you for being strong and getting out of such confinement...I'm still living in my prison due to lack of strength and confidence. You did something that I so want to do and by reading your story of such strength has given me a true gateway of hope and courage to do exactly what you have done. I honestly want to thank you for sharing in your breaking the chains off of you so to speak and the wonderful will to live your life the way you want to and not how others want you to. Always hold that beautiful head up and keep living you.. Many blessings and thanks again

@QueenQueenly 23 күн бұрын

Our biggest haters are people who are close to us and observe us.

@annagrace1159 22 күн бұрын

Effing Twighlight Zone 😢

@amysill3815 21 күн бұрын

Put your faith and trust in Christ. He”ll never let you down.

@MsBettyRubble 20 күн бұрын

The haters don't even have to observe you. They can hate you based on a fairy tale.

@heaty007 20 күн бұрын

Why do they hate 😕

@QueenQueenly 20 күн бұрын

@@heaty007 becuse they are jealous of your inner light and inner strength

@AyodeleFawehinmi 22 күн бұрын

I like the way Stephen interviews .. he let's his guests finish their thoughts and follows up with great questions. Makes all the difference.

@moyamontgomery1468 18 күн бұрын

When you notice the same set of people who never seem to be around to help but are consistently there to watch you fail and profit from it you have an imposter for a friend in your midst.

@pricklycats 17 күн бұрын

@@moyamontgomery1468 I think you responded to the wrong comment lol

@marenight33 15 күн бұрын

THANK GOD BC THIS GUY IS HORRIBLE "etc. Etc., etc.” (HOW ANY TIMES DID HE SAY THAT) talking about he wrote a book about seduction lol OK

@daveshore8671 7 күн бұрын

This is just a new platform for the programming. The black Brit is just more malleable than Rogan was in the beginning. He’s a bit of an empty shell actually. And these talks and topics are 100% tied to the liberal, atheist, follow the narrative agenda. Greene is a creep. And Rogan was captured and sequestered to a smaller platform for cash to carry on the other part of the narrative. And they memory holed his controversial (truthful) guests. This Brit is owned and won’t steer “off course”

@retro000 Күн бұрын

@@marenight33? Hey?

@SofoArchon Ай бұрын

“When you show yourself to the world and display your talents, you naturally stir all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity... you cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others.” ― Robert Greene

@user-jw6mo6vx6t Ай бұрын

💯

@seanguzy9601 Ай бұрын

Andrew Tate, Alex Jones, Jesus Christ, Trump...all truth seekers....

@Raymanujan Ай бұрын

yeah, fuck'em!

@rubberbiscuit99 Ай бұрын

Right. Worry is a wrong response.

@alisadunn5443 Ай бұрын

No kidding!

@Bingewatchingmediacontent Ай бұрын

My oldest sister hated me most of my life, and I spent inordinate amounts of time and energy trying to make her happy. It didn’t even occur to me that she was jealous, and nothing was ever going to make her happy. And the harder I tried the more she hated me. Until recently. And I’ve finally given up. And it’s so freeing. ❤

@sallywilton2236 Ай бұрын

Of course

@Omega-xm4cv Ай бұрын

My older sister was the same. It wasn’t until my 40s that I realized I operated my life in response to her hatred of me by people pleasing, overworking myself, taking tasks on to show how hard I would work. She was diagnosed with a terminal illness 2 years ago & I went to care for her for 8 weeks straight. I fed her, dressed her, changed her, cleaned up after her. I wore sweatpants & tees daily, no makeup, no nails, hair in a bun specifically to dampen any jealous feelings. She was then visibly jealous I was helping with her grandkids, jealous I was connecting with her kids, jealous I was speaking with her friends to update them, visibly jealous I was living, basically. Part of me felt guilty I couldn’t stay longer to help but I realized my very presence ignited her jealousy & it was hurting her for me to stay on and help her. So I left without regret. She died three months ago & as her friend and I grieved together, the friend disclosed the level of jealousy she felt toward me ran deep. I admired & loved her so much it was very painful to hear what I knew all along, out loud. But the admission also validated what I suspected & lifted any negative feelings I had about it because those feelings didn’t belong to me. I let them die with her.

@teresaritchie2177 Ай бұрын

Absolutely agree, I had a similar experience in the family I lived with, the pain stopped when I let go. Sometimes to move forward you have to leave people behind.

@Mr.2Twenty Ай бұрын

I feel this, have my own experience with a older brother who I've bent over backwards for every chance I could get just to be of help to him, always looked up to him and thought he was the coolest person in the whole world.. not until my 30s and a bunch of disappointment along the way did I realize we would never have the brotherhood I thought we did.. he was my biggest enemy and had great jealousy for me and I never knew.. from trying to take my girlfriends and friends to badmouthing me and embarrassing me for absolutely no reason every opportunity he could.. it still sucks.. but the last few years been more rewarding now that I'm not trying to hold him up on a pedestal anymore 😂😅

@baronessdebadassiere2289 29 күн бұрын

Same, I recently realised this myself. I have three sisters and for most of my life I’ve blamed myself for not having a good relationship with them. I really started to believe it was my fault because, it’s three sisters! It had to be me. Recently realised that those around me saw the truth but for whatever reason wouldn’t acknowledge it. Thirty years of pain 😢

@flooferwoofenschnizz3858 16 күн бұрын

I have had so many frenemies…I have serious trouble trusting anyone at all anymore. I am really cautious. It’s horrible to be on the other side of someone’s unnecessary jealousy. I’m completely OVER it. 🙏💛

@TheWinterShade 13 күн бұрын

From the unnecessary bullying and discrimination, gets so tiring

@Iunaaa-_- 12 күн бұрын

For real, you always have to be wary of other people because of the things they've been doing and what they could have done to you. It gets exhausting and tires you out.

@rachelledavis1681 11 күн бұрын

Yes, but being on the side which they live on must be a horrible miserable world . Which they will never be content in their own skin. just remember, they have to look at their evil self in the mirror every day.

@jemtopaz8306 9 күн бұрын

Yes,and if you learn how to see them before hand you develop a weapon that you can completely strengthen. And have peace of mind.

@flooferwoofenschnizz3858 8 күн бұрын

@@rachelledavis1681 well said! 💛🙏

@BadJ63 23 күн бұрын

“Much of the evil in this world is due to the fact that man, in general, is hopelessly unconscious.” ― C.G. Jung, Modern Man in Search of a Soul

@PenelopeLambert-xp4vf 5 күн бұрын

It's not having received the Spirit from above to clean up the old nature of sin that makes man do evil . Without the Spirit from above we will always bear bad fruits.. It's impossible to clean up our lives without the seed being planted in us by God himself . What's flesh is flesh and what's Spirit is Spirit Jesus told Nicodemus.

@immanuelkant1911 4 күн бұрын

@@PenelopeLambert-xp4vf why jesus isnt putting spirit in their believers?

@JustinSgalio 4 күн бұрын

"Wake up and go to sleep!" Jim English, 1976 Scoutmaster Troop 76, Sea Isle City, NJ

@PenelopeLambert-xp4vf 3 күн бұрын

@@immanuelkant1911 Because many profess with their lips snd claim they are God's children but God said they are without His Spirit and are not His . One must GENUINELY believe in tbe Son of God and be baptized into Jesus' death before receiving God's Spirit from above. It's the key to Heaven . And God can ONLY be worshiped through the Spirit and Truth that we have received. Jesus told the woman at the well that there is NO other way to worship God because God is Spirit not flesh and God will SEEK those who will worship Him this way .

@juanitaross5492 Ай бұрын

My dear friend wanted nothing her whole life but to have a child. She finally got that opportunity at age 39. Her son was diagnosed with autism at age 1. And was diagnosed as one of the worst cases. She never gave up on him and today he has graduated top of the class in his high-school and college straight through to his masters from Georgia teck. This fall, he starts his new career at a fortune hundred company. Proof that nothing should be treated as a category.

@dianepereira1860 28 күн бұрын

. The power of love can move mountains. That young man was very lucky to have such a wonderful mom. God bless both of them. ❤

@rowingtothedream 28 күн бұрын

Not a Debbie Downer but I have known two autistic kids. Even with great, caring, loving intelligent parents they met a point they could go no further. Some autistic people choose these positions before they ever got here not only for their growth but others and they all planned it..

@barbarakempen2482 28 күн бұрын

Did you hear of the grace's dad podcast?

@grace.by.fire2021 28 күн бұрын

Proof that God is real Prayer is powerful Nothing is impossible for God

@Portia620 28 күн бұрын

Amen!!!❤❤❤. Agreed! We never give up on our loved ones! Loyalty!

@RobertGreeneOfficial Ай бұрын

Thank you for having me back on the podcast Steven.

@JuliesWorldXo Ай бұрын

I’m glad you forgave the wasp! ☮️💜

@cjbakaluk Ай бұрын

Thank you for calling out all my bullshit, I love this

@ORA777-xj4vt Ай бұрын

You a legendary your books helped me alot in life thank you very much 🔥 🔥 🔥

@rutruterturfuly Ай бұрын

Learned so much from your books and listening to you. Thank you so much!

@suhazareer1950 Ай бұрын

Your work has helped me a lot. I’m proud of how far you’ve come. Your choice to become a writer, and share the knowledge you’ve gained is what I admire the most.

@loriscott3290 14 күн бұрын

He made me cry. My heart goes out to him for suffering a stroke when he was and is doing so much for humanity. He speaks for so many of us that have had a health crisis and it has forever changed our lives.

@butterflywind999 11 күн бұрын

Robert made me cry also. His interview was candid, insightful and thought-provoking. He allowed himself to be vulnerable, and I believe he has truly reached his potential. Thank you and bravo Robert!

@nonesuch444 7 күн бұрын

Thanks I couldnt figiure sometjhing out so compelling I thought what am I missing?

@TT-bg1fj 17 күн бұрын

As a horrible human being who easily compare myself to others, feeling sad or envy and jealousy all the time, this interview relieved me a lot for various reasons. First, the fact that we all have dark side make me feel less horrible about my self. Second, as author said if this is the last moment of my life, I would not sit with jealousy. I would rather celebrate my life and my friend’s success. Today I meet some of my highschool friednds who are more successful than me, and who will gonna be marry soon. I felt kind of envy toward them. But after seeing this video, I say to myself. What if this is the last moment I can meet them, what if I die tomorrow. I want to say congratulations to them. And I want to focus on myself what I want in my life and be more strategic. Thank you for great interview

@Rebecca-fo4nn 14 күн бұрын

Jealousy comes from insecurity. If you think you can’t have what they have it’s an illusion, you can! But once we realize we’re in full control it takes radical accountability. But we all have dark sides, we’re human animals

@TT-bg1fj 11 күн бұрын

@@Rebecca-fo4nn hey thanks for the comments. I think i know and understand what you are talking. but sometimes I feel I cannot achieve some things, and it bothers me. For example, I am queer person who wanna marry, but it's impossible where I live. Also, When I think about lots of people who have disability, it is true that they can't have that some people have. What should we do when we realize that sometimes, I can't achieve what I really want, and How can we be happy after all? just wanna talk about it. Thank you

@Genious_Trades 6 күн бұрын

Beautiful epiphany. Now go change your relationships!

@iyounghuang5433 6 күн бұрын

@@TT-bg1fj Way to happiness? Gratitude; Focus on what good And what you want/like. And give. Because, everything good we received are given, In complex way. 2020 I had joined a group about something like "gratitude by Deepak Chopra" Practice for 21 days. It works. ✨✨💫❤❤❤ You can search it. And Try it. Thank you. 🙏🏻

@iseeu-fp9po Ай бұрын

I'm so tired of feeling like I have to "achieve greatness" (whatever that means) and success. I'm so incredibly tired of the hustle-culture.

@CrackberryMe Ай бұрын

Well said. I agree.

@coloraturaElise Ай бұрын

Maybe you missed what the guest was saying at around 1:13-14 about the guy who laid tile for him being a master in his own quiet way. I guess you should go back and check that out....

@iseeu-fp9po Ай бұрын

@@coloraturaElise No, I watched that. I also watched the part where he says he doesn't critize people for not wanting fame etc. Take this as you will but even though you and I might consider the person laying tile as being a master of his craft a success story relative to being a good person and living a good life it's NOT what society in general sees as "successful", unfortunately. We are being spoonfed this alternate hustle culture through so other sources I'm sure you know what I mean.

@yukthiyoga333 Ай бұрын

Same here

@marie-francoiset9402 Ай бұрын

@iseeu-fp9po I read your comment just as he said exactly what you said at 1:07:09. You define what greatness and success means for yourself.

@gabrielekebir86 25 күн бұрын

I have had it all, the children, the husband, the beautiful small house, success....... then I sold everything moved back to Europe a year before Covid. I lost everything and at age 60 had to return to the town I was living before I moved.I had 2 suitcases and a few thousand dollars. I started all over again. I am renting, I bought a used car and I am happier than ever. People who were jealous before are still jealous. I don't understand why? I am not rich, I am not young anymore. I love my work and I am a master in my field. I think I upset people because no matter what nothing destroys my joy.

@Susie462 24 күн бұрын

Probably! You’re bouncing back. People don’t like to see you being successful. Shame on them. Their loss. I’ve experienced similar. It used to make me sad, now I don’t give a toss.

@aisoaification 17 күн бұрын

Did you leave the kids and husband as well? Just curious. Also, what field of work are you in. Also, what helps you have that unbreakable joy?

@gabrielekebir86 16 күн бұрын

@@aisoaification my children moved away one to Australia and the other an hour flight from where I lived accept for one and I brought her and my husband came , I told him on our first date that I will be moving to Europe.

@aisoaification 16 күн бұрын

Aww thanks you answered, I was curious thank you for answering 🙌🏿

@nbd6213 16 күн бұрын

Jealousy a lot of time has less to do with you and more to do with them. People are jealous because of their own inadequacies and shortcomings. I find that a person who is insecure will envy those that walk with their heads high; a person whose been in the same deadend job will envy a person that has the courage to chase their dreams. It all comes back to self

@gunmol61 23 күн бұрын

I’ve found multiple purposes over 64 years, keep discovering myself as I age both the dark and light . The one thing that brings me most joy is hard physical blue collar labor type work that leaves me exhausted but allows me to see results of my labor everyday so I build custom homes for people, flip houses, load airplanes for air cargo company. On off days I take care of my grandchildren as my favorite humans are children, so open so unmasked and curious and funny and full of joy. I also love volunteer work with local rescue mission dealing with alcoholics and addicts in recovery . My biggest challenge… I’m a complete recluse if not working . Zero friendships cuz I find it so hard to talk with other “ grown ups” without putting my foot in my mouth and have learned to avoid social situations entirely but that’s just me… I enjoy solitude if not with children.

@laurenharper1510 20 күн бұрын

I also work on houses. I am laying a 3/4” wood floor. I haven’t talked to anyone the whole time and it’s wonderful. Hard hard work helps me so much.

@gunmol61 20 күн бұрын

Amen to that!! Hope the floor is beautiful

@matussatek6006 18 күн бұрын

Hard work is a blessing - you said it very nicely *too see the results of work everyday* - i, major in food science, turned into alcoholic, lost a decade in a bad relationship, broke up, suicidal thoughts, the whole nine yards. Now? Booze is gone, depression is gone, i am healthy as never in life, lost significant weight. All that thanks to working as a farmer, my life turned 180 in a year

@steadypace1262 18 күн бұрын

I adore my grandchildren as well they cheer me up no end. Children are precious and they all need protecting in this crazy world we are living in.

@Apexpropertycare 16 күн бұрын

Well said, I’m exactly the same. I find Im the type that loves building business relationships but personal relationships kind of drain my inner spirit knowing that I have to watch everything I say to avoid saying the wrong things that may cause for a person to misread my words and in turn try to make my life miserable from behind!

@destiny.n.motion 6 күн бұрын

People don't change until it becomes too painful for them to stay where they are.

@precocioussibanda3413 Сағат бұрын

region beta paradox

@pickles9440 Ай бұрын

When i discovered my mother was a narcissist and then learned 1 in 6 are narcissists, it has changed my whole world. I never thought so many were so fake. Makes me want to go on a solo hike for eternity.

@CoreyCG Ай бұрын

ill come with

@zenostrixster Ай бұрын

Then again you are also a narcissist we all are kinda like that the only ones that hurt are the ones who are too deep. Legit have zero self-esteem

@chrisdaniels4674 Ай бұрын

Hi. I’m 39 and I just found out my mom is a narcissist. Welcome. We need a support group.

@Vilify3d Ай бұрын

@@zenostrixsterliterally half of my self discovery journey has been between settling the desire for me to grow an ego and me thinking that if I do that I will be a narcissist like my father.

@naturelover1284 Ай бұрын

rural wife hell over 60, my peers yes. b/c they got married and have a mini van they always are wagging that tongue and ruling everywhere they go. Got an education, what for they say?

@mh60648 Ай бұрын

“It’s no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society” ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti

@coloraturaElise Ай бұрын

But it is helpful to protect yourself against the sickness.

@mh60648 Ай бұрын

@@coloraturaElise Up until a certain level of awareness, it can be useful to protect yourself, but it is still also a limitation, apart from being addictive, and it should therefore not be the focus. The goal is to get to the level where this protection becomes obsolete. This state is sometimes called inner freedom, but is known under many other names as well.

@waffle_chair9269 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 so true!!!!

@tmcoug1 Ай бұрын

Adjusting consciously can benefit working from within.

@tmcoug1 Ай бұрын

Ok. The expression on someone's face when you take them by surprise is not all about you, it's where there head is at until they recognize you. Where I work I have a "safe word", pineapple, so that when I'm too in my head and intense he can snap me out of it. Where one's thoughts are is the first expression you'll get. Talk about self obsession.

@cbythesea 11 күн бұрын

There’s a lot of pain in being your authentic self, too. Many people don’t know how to handle that in someone else, get passive aggressive or just outright hostile. But as you get older, you stop caring what other people think and stop putting up with other people’s bs.

@riverakua2315 18 күн бұрын

"Emotionally engaged" whether in work or in love with someone or even something, where you "lose your ego" and "fall" into vulnerability and let go of defenses, where you care more about someone else rather than yourself is WONDERFUL to hear. To lose yourself for something or someone from a place of Love suddenly sounds incredibly healthy and human in the best sense even if or when it isn't returned. And I can look back in thanfulness even at some of the brokenness. And that makes me smile, love and embrace myself. Thank you.

@91dikon Ай бұрын

I like that Stephen lets his guests talk without interrupting

@mobutter2879 Ай бұрын

Me too! ❤

@user-Pepssi Ай бұрын

Best quality about an interviewer. Michael Parkinson was one.

@Jim-xg7mx Ай бұрын

hear hear

@johso87 Ай бұрын

This!

@jennyg495 Ай бұрын

Lost form of respect these days

@bexraphaela 29 күн бұрын

I’ve had so many frenemies in my life, and was very easy to manipulate. It took me 10 years to start reading people.

@rsviews2167 24 күн бұрын

A real friend, by definition, is someone who believes in you. I judge people by their heart. It's amazing how some people's heart is minuscule. Anyways, have a nice day.

@liakayte7734 20 күн бұрын

I'm reading people frommy childhood.And all life I try stay away, wheh I found who person are...but bad people always found me, they wathing and falow me in the back...so, later they using all anger to put on me and do something ugly to me. And I always fighting, I need do that to not let enger win...I have very tuff life .

@michelleoconnor1624 19 күн бұрын

@@liakayte7734 same here . Im so sorry to hear what you went thru too as a child . God bless you my friend < 3

@mermaid2474 17 күн бұрын

Same and it’s usually when you need them the most at your lowest point their true colors show

@francaisetmarron 4 күн бұрын

Better later than never!!

@JoshxIZ 22 күн бұрын

I have discovered i have a narcissitic mum. Its scary when she plays guilt trips, plays the victim and clearly has fake/no empathy. Its horrible feeling to know your mum is not real. The only thing you can do is play along now....i tried ignorinf her and its too hard she starts drama then. Its best just not to give her any important info.

@Dalle_mama 8 күн бұрын

I feel for you ❤

@Briii. 4 күн бұрын

Omggggg saaameee Are we siblings ?😂😂

@celikmelek7906 2 күн бұрын

how did you detected that she is faking the empathy? Also, if you don’t give her information about you , than to who? To strangers ?

@soichirohonda267 13 күн бұрын

1. I learned very useful and unexpected things here 2. I also learned that I am not the most ugly man in the world This man is pure gold!

@raventree333 Ай бұрын

I dropped a career direction when I was 50! I left my career, my relationship, and my house. It felt like a nervous breakdown. It was painful. BUT I am now living the life of my dreams! Learn the lesson of choosing change before it becomes a big drama

@oldenoughtoknowbetter8851 28 күн бұрын

Same

@janemathenge3696 28 күн бұрын

Wow! That's very encouraging. Did you pursue something you had always wanted to do or something entirely new? I am in my 50s and feeling like I need to make such a radical direction in my life.

@deda605 27 күн бұрын

How were you able to make such a major change?

@nicholjackson8388 26 күн бұрын

What life is that? Are you living on a boat?

@soniacheffer2566 25 күн бұрын

As long as we're breathing it's never too late! ❤

@miaash3870 Ай бұрын

It is so important to KNOW that no money, no position, no amount of fame, ....is worth our God-given health! Nourish it Take best care of it And do not run after money!

@imo.124 Ай бұрын

Amen!!!

@sasaha8389 Ай бұрын

but i need money man...i want a job i want to atleast have security! i dont wanna chase money but i goddamn need it to atleast raise the quality of my life

@miaash3870 Ай бұрын

@@sasaha8389 That is fine, provided your number one priority is ALWAYS your health. Do not ruin your health in pursuit of money, security, raising living standards, ....

@Evaselfmade Ай бұрын

@@sasaha8389checkout dr Joe dispenza. Your mindset is keeping you poor

@KeepitcuteLay Ай бұрын

I needed to see this THANK YOUUUU ❤

@chirondawn2966 23 күн бұрын

That is very similar to what I say to my kids, friends, family....my version of what do you stand for is " Everyone is talking about problems, we all know what the problems are, we must start discussing solutions, work together to come up with solutions"

@DanielleCepero 12 күн бұрын

I almost never heard a more relatable interview. Thank you, Gentlemen!

@daussamp8054 Күн бұрын

Thanks. Now I wana marry again

@cidercik Ай бұрын

Self awareness is the big key. There is no going forward or anywhere until you know what you are.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@jillwilliams7554 Ай бұрын

⁠⁠I have found that when I recite “ help me, Father God and thank you, Father God” I am filled with the inner strength to do and go beyond what is needed. Amen! Hallelujah!

@nonexist 29 күн бұрын

"What" you are and not "who" you are. I like that.

@dimifisher7942 17 күн бұрын

Exactly 👍

@fishfish8879 Ай бұрын

“Just because something isn't a lie does not mean that it isn't deceptive. A liar knows that he is a liar, but one who speaks mere portions of truth in order to deceive is a craftsman of destruction.” ― Criss Jami

@TonyQuinn-Art Ай бұрын

Interestingly. That is how Satan tried to tempt Jesus to sin. Satan mixed truth with lies. He twisted the truth.

@stavuk Ай бұрын

The ego and desire to win is the driving force to win at all costs and leads to this behaviour.

@akaiinu8622 Ай бұрын

woah, this quote is amazing ^w^

@kelvinpell4571 Ай бұрын

A perfect description of a climate hoaxer!

@bethanykittok3903 Ай бұрын

@kelvinpell4571 Unpopular opinion: the climate is changing, and nature will adapt. Whether or not humans will be in the mix is the question. Climate anxiety is not selfless, its about people trying to save their own ass. 😂

@WillbWriting 3 күн бұрын

Thank you Robert. I am 37 years old, freshly aware, and thankful for every step. You are partly responsible for this metamorphosis I’ve experienced in my life. It means so much to hear your sincerity. Long live Robert Greene!

@MsDR-ys3cb 17 күн бұрын

Wow, it’s so natural for me to feel genuinely happy for others. Watching this reminds me how blessed I truly am to have empathy.

@katriencornelis9730 13 күн бұрын

this.I mean, i concur with the rationale of a lot of what he says, but i'm a bit sad that it's... idk something active he needs to do.I'm happy my brain isn't wired like that, even though it has caused me some grief.

@brytankak9598 23 сағат бұрын

I'm naturally kind and respectful to others, treat everyone as an equal, and stick to my commitments to friends and acquaintances. I dont mind apologising for mistakes or for unintentionally hurting peoples feelings. I am always willing to listen and open to a dialogue. I get enthusiastic about new connections and would often show they are important to me through finding time for meetings and chats in my busy schedule. I'm always responsive (though sometimes with a delay as running errands etc) yet make sure not to initiate too much / be clingy or creepy and give space. I observe my language not to offend unintentionally or be dismissive. I have been called "pure" and "loving" by my current and past partners. In return I have, in 95% of cases, come across people who initially seem nice then test my boundaries, try to mock me, ghost me, are dismissive and contemptuous, passive or even openly agressive, then eventually become disinterested in my acquaintance OR they meet up with me occasionally only to monopolise conversation and brag about everything in their life. Yet if I share anything positive from my life they dish out a put down or mockery. After a series of such experiences I can only conclude I'm an outlier, and that humans are at best 50-50 split between the good and the bad traits, and cannot comprehend or accept a person who does not display or have a dark side. The fact that Richard believes the dark side is so internal to all of us is upsetting to me, equally I don't think his advice re introspection and working on one own's ego applies to everyone.

@waew7533 Ай бұрын

You are so right. The book "The body keeps the score" describes how our bodies reveal our inner feelings, stressors, traumas. We need help to navigate being stuck.

@psychshell4644 Ай бұрын

Awesome book

@briananderson8428 Ай бұрын

@@psychshell4644 I second that: awesome book!

@brerabbit4233 Ай бұрын

nah

@AFriendofChristJesus Ай бұрын

Based upon the first 15 minutes of this interview, Greene obviously has no clue about demonic influence upon humans. Sad that he is giving advice based upon ignorance he seems to believe is true.

@jenniferkading3265 Ай бұрын

Yes exactly,

@leadgenjay Ай бұрын

Understanding the 'dark side' is such an underated advice-knowing your own weaknesses helps you mitigate them more effectively.

@marcorodrigues8303 Ай бұрын

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@biancavonmuhlendorf2608 Ай бұрын

It is called "shadow-work" ( C.G. Jung ) and is a main work in the therapeutic world since decades. People also have downsides from that: getting lost in the dark and looking for failure only in themselves. Without a rational moral compass this work may also confuse and worsen things. So it really needs to be balanced with a very positive goal-setting.

@zenostrixster Ай бұрын

@@biancavonmuhlendorf2608it's important too see the shadow as a branch of your self and not as your whole existence. You may associate with it too much. It is a part of you and you are very complicated mix of qualities therefore treating it like it defines you is a bad idea. Instead it's best to be aware of it and use it contructivily, explore where it comes from, when did you repress it? Why ? How can you make it a part of your life.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@prutzchristine5890 6 күн бұрын

Valuable insights and questions. In terms of greatness I agree-you dont have to be Steve Jobs (Mandela or Gandhi more needed these days...). I was thinking of my neighbour Emmi, whom I knew since I was a child. She lived alone, died at 93, her only son whom she raised alone, became a medical doctor, died many years before her from cancer. No bitterness dealt out, every birthday me and my brother received handknit socks - unconditional - , she celebrated everything we were happy about. And she participated in life, took care of her two gardens cultivating Fruit snd vegetables; and served anyone who visited her old-fashioned Advocaat with chocolate sprinkles. Sweet memories...

@robertawilliams1573 18 күн бұрын

Robert Greene is a gift to the human race... I bought all his books. His God -given wisdom has helped me unravel the masks of family and friends. Thank you, Robert Greene🙏🏾💕💕💕

@Steve24527 28 күн бұрын

I’m 62 and it’s taken me all this time to realise the fake user friends I had thank god I’ve woken up and finally got rid of them

@itsjustme...whitney6972 27 күн бұрын

42 right here and never been more peaceful but don't feel bad girl I've been set up and put in jail hell I mean it is ridiculous the f****** lynx these idiots will go to

@madamdardis 27 күн бұрын

Thx for revealing that, I’m 54 and in the middle of seeing that stuff…..

@kericaswell6084 27 күн бұрын

I've realized most friends are fake.

@dess9955 27 күн бұрын

I don't have friends, i think i am ok

@bexiexz 26 күн бұрын

so important

@pamkirby4390 Ай бұрын

My entire life changed at 50, I’m now 58. Losing your health changes everything, not only for you but everyone in your life. So live in the moment and enjoy the journey, I’m still very blessed, God is so great. One of my favorite podcast! 🤩🇺🇸

@sherimillman53 Ай бұрын

I agree

@Happy2bme2dae Ай бұрын

God bless us and the U. S. A.! 👍

@crippyandkaatje Ай бұрын

I have always been bullied, as a child in Holland and even as an adult in the US. I was feisty but so insecure. I survived a skydiving accident at age 24, leaving me severely disabled. I still became a physician assistant until after 10 years, but had to stop. I became more disabled and was diagnosed with adhesive arachnoiditis. This type of neuro-inflammatory spinal cord inflammation (meningitis) is incurable and the pain is intractable. By now the sacral nerves are adhesed to the bone part and everything hurts. But I got my life back and a lot of time to think and contemplate. I am high IQ and gregarious, not understanding why I was treated badly, also as a crippled comic. Well I had another crisis forcing me find my cojones. I'm finally proud of my accomplishments, and people treat me nicely and with respect. It's a new world fot me, one I enjoy living in. Best wishes, Kaatje

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@sushantrajput6920 Ай бұрын

Not everyone. I see so many people’s character are worse with illness. They never realised anything and they stay the same way of behaving no matter what.

@alisonwayland6057 6 күн бұрын

Needing to make a change for my own physical health greatly helped me in going no contact since 2016. I thought walking away from all of my family and not turning back was tough. I'm learning that reparenting myself is the biggest mother of them all.

@successfullyshanna 15 күн бұрын

I love this man. Such a breath of realistic fresh air. I couldn't stop listening if I tried. So glad you had him as a guest. ❤

@alixander9401 Ай бұрын

This is the only guy that can interview Robert! He lets him speak and get his thoughts OUT!!!!!!! I love it

@rickysrockinreviews3011 28 күн бұрын

FOR REAL. Darin Olien is the most absurd host I've ever had the misfortune to listen to. I didn't know who he was but I was excited to get another opportunity to hear Robert Greene speak. Well this Darin guy spoke for 90% of the podcast and had nothin of value to share. Even Huberman, who I like, was fangirling over Robert in the most recent one and trying to make thoughtful connections that fell flat.

@AlvisCakesofficial 21 күн бұрын

Lewis Howes is one of the best interviewers ......allows the guest to speak without unnecessary interventions ❤❤

@kitlewis6748 15 күн бұрын

Only is a bit extreme. I am sure there are other people on the planet that could do a good job.

@IndigoWisdom1 Ай бұрын

The humility Robert shows in owning his narcissistic like traits literally is opposite the definition of a classic narcissist. Narcissists are NOT open in looking at themselves with intention to grow/change. They love talking about themselves to stay the same, not evolve. But even brings more credibility to his work. Love it

@JoeyiOi Ай бұрын

Most people have narcissistic tendencies. But everyone has different levels, to the point where they could be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder.

@jenkins5265 Ай бұрын

@@JoeyiOiexactly this. I find myself questioning my more narcissistic qualities. They are “dark”, bc it takes you to dark places and breeds all sorts of other feelings. It takes work to realize and it fall into those mindsets.

@simplybeautiful9885 Ай бұрын

Lol. That's one of his masks. Narcissists/Sociopaths are amazing at showing what they think is appealing.

@JoeyiOi Ай бұрын

@@simplybeautiful9885 Good observation, but he’s still being honest.

@waffle_chair9269 Ай бұрын

Covert narcissism is different.

@Therealonepunch 2 күн бұрын

“I was a failure until I wrote the book”. Confirms everything I suspected about him.

@ManifestedinSc 21 күн бұрын

Coco my daughter had some lessons to learn in life always walked around trusting people would give the last dollar to help then reality happened she woke up seen the truth now she's healing now shes cut out all the bottom feeders . Mr.Greene your creativity has inspired my family to open our eyes . Thanks you, change is always good .

@sandys2672 Ай бұрын

Robert, it is not narcissistic to refuse when people want to take a piece of you, disguised as an opportunity. Its just having boundaries.

@TherealBigblue22 Ай бұрын

You know what’s funny. If someone just wanted a piece of you and you are aware of the opportunity and that it’s very well an illusion you have the advantage in knowing why not ride the opportunity until it stops bringing you benefits because you were well aware that it was not a opportunity the whole time you can’t be manipulated and convinced that you need to do whatever it takes to keep the opportunity. Exit because you were the one who was manipulating

@Squishiefam Ай бұрын

That's a great way to word it !

@aubreygomez89 Ай бұрын

Even is not narcissism when you take advantage of someone who wants to take a piece of you. This is the real boundary, the consequences.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@chelseacheckington7421 Ай бұрын

There's also a difference between being narcissistic versus arrogant. When he talks about finding things in himself that he doesn't like, he seems to be talking about arrogance, but he's using the word narcissist, which could be confusing from a psychology perspective, because he's not an actual diagnosable narcissist.

@bluebonbon22 26 күн бұрын

I'm 76 and when he mentioned that was life worth living if he couldn't do certain things anymore, my answer to myself and everyone else is find something new that you can do, and do that!

@YawBusumuru-lf5xv 18 күн бұрын

You are absolutely right ma 'am you sound like a positive person if don't mind it would be a great pleasure for us to get to know each other

@xenatron9056 18 күн бұрын

I started learning how to play the guitar at 64. It has been wonderful. Life saved something new for me to end my days with.

@AngelEyes-xm7el 11 күн бұрын

I became disabled. It was very hard to adjust to.. very true. But i have learnt new lesson that people can be cruel to disabled people. I fought not to feel sorry about it. It opened different doors. Closed some I wish it had not.

@norint1087 9 күн бұрын

Man, your interviews are really so good. It s really pure quality!

@trueheART.CVStone369 Ай бұрын

Body language, the tonality of a person’s voice means so much in a successful relationship.

@kingdolo23 Ай бұрын

I know what u mean but can u elaborate more, it's an interesting point ur making

@SamanthaChristF10 Ай бұрын

You can read people without no words. Trust actions, not words. Some people have this fake ability to put candy in their mouth and talk to you. Watch their actions more.

@Wolf_runner12 Ай бұрын

U think u have said something wise? Everyone knows that

@trueheART.CVStone369 Ай бұрын

@@Wolf_runner12 you’re a wise person then 🙏💜🙏

@africaart Ай бұрын

I did that surprise micro aggression experiment with all my co-workers, they all wants to kill me. Their mind had a satanic look when it recognized me, then they corrected it (for less than a second).

@Miss_Elaine_ Ай бұрын

Dear Dr Green, I was in a huge crisis a year ago with a work situation. I saw you on Jordan Peterson, and I bought the 365 book for my son... But I kept it and read it. It did help me sort through things. As you say, however, the biggest the thing I did was stop seeing myself as perfect and to understand that i really had no clue what other people were thinking. That was HUGE. A year later I'm at the same job but I feel very differently about myself and the people I work with. 100% that is the first thing to do... Stop seeing yourself as perfect, or wonderful, or a victim. You. Are. Not.

@WaddupBoi Ай бұрын

Well said

@Kintsugi979 Ай бұрын

Here. Here. All identy is a stumbling block. To give up my desire to be perfect I began calling myself mediocre. I'm a mediocre wife, mother, friend ect... I eventually let go of those too, but it was a good first step to letting go of a major part of my ego. Then as I let go of more layers, it got easier and easier Find out who you truly are. Who you've always been. It's not your thoughts. Or other people's thoughts. You find your true self by being still inside.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@kognitivescientist Ай бұрын

Well sometimes people are victims of the situation, and we should not devalue their experience either , if it’s rooted in the objective reality.

@barbiefisher7064 8 күн бұрын

How is it not natural to be happy for other’s success. Perhaps more so for some then others. The sound of others joy is laughter. Laughter is infectious.

@lisakay6742 7 күн бұрын

So true! I learned about this years ago from the tickle me elmo toy, whose laughter brought me joy. Watching him laugh until he fell over made me feel better. His laugh was more real than most human fake laughter, which made me feel sick to my stomach! Now I get that same joy from a bird named tico! Watch him here on youtube and you will laugh with tears of joy.

@AyanD.-yy6sz 24 күн бұрын

I’m a Somali-American woman, in her 40s, born in the Middle East, and grew up in Europe. I have lived within Kings and queens, and also in refugee camps. I have seen “wealthy” die unfulfilled, and the “poor” die fulfilled and joyful. I believe we all come to planet earth equipped with unique seeds, meant to flourish into unrepeatable, nutritious fruits for humanity. Those who find the why to their lives use their E-motions as propellers towards their God given purpose, bringing forth those fruits the world desperately awaits, like that autistic lady, the tile man, Steve Jobs, MLK, etc. They leave this life fulfilled, and behind them an inheritance to humanity. But those who focus on having what another has instead of tending to their own gardens, use their E-motions as an impeller, leaving behind unfulfilled potentials, and liabilities to humanity. Thank you BOTH for this LOVELY PODCAST! You certainly are leaving an inheritance, an eternal footprint for humanity across continents and cultures. ❤

@Amandasfamilygarden Ай бұрын

What he says 20 minutes in is exactly what my husband is going through right now. He has been in the body shop industry his whole working life (started at the front office and worked his way to head painter) He is now 35 and altho he is the top painter in the area and every shop wants him, he quit so he could become a pilot. (his dream job ever since he was a kid) He said he couldnt stand the toxic cultre, drama, and crappy pay any longer and is ready to make the change and finally get paid what he deserves for all his hard work. I fully support him and even offered to go to work again (currently a stay at home mom and homeschool our 9 and 7 year olds) so he could go to school full time. He told his step mom and when she realized he was actually serious she told him that he couldn't become a pilot without a degree and he was a college dropout. I dont think anyone else is taking it seriously either. Its sad he only has my support but i think thats enough for him to push through. The pain of being the same is getting worse for him than the pain of changing...

@acebilbo Ай бұрын

"Pilot without a degree?" Hogwash. Good for him. Plus so great to get out of toxic environments!

@adams5507 Ай бұрын

his step mom is trash and wants for him to be miserable also why does he need such trash approval in the first place you have one life avoid the trash

@Amandasfamilygarden Ай бұрын

@@acebilbo thank you! Your words mean so much! :)

@genna_analog Ай бұрын

I admire people who know their occupational purpose... Godspeed.💛

@justmyopinion9883 29 күн бұрын

I’m glad your husband is pursuing his dream. I wish him all the best. He won’t regret his decision.

@realperx1102 Ай бұрын

Im way too good at reading people.. that's why i stay inside mostly. Everywhere i go i see the true intentions and feelings of people and i don't like it.

@Nicholasdross Ай бұрын

Haven't finished the video yet but I do know enough people that say they are good at reading people and it's not the people there reading. It's the intentions that they are perceiving in order to protect themself. Normally it's a Trauma response. Your brain is trying to protect you but it does more harm then good. Considering we are described as creatures that need social interaction to survive, staying inside would be considered harmful, in the long run. I'm a gamer myself and though we can get social interactions online, if we have this issue with reading people, we tend to start isolating even in gaming situations to avoid feeling uncomfortable. Or you know, I'm reading to much in to this and I'm not doctor. Just a dude, playing a dude, playing another dude 😅 So take any of this with a grain of salt. 👍🏽

@kingdolo23 Ай бұрын

Well that's a stupid reason imo to stay inside

@Gherit1 Ай бұрын

Most people you see everywhere don't care enough about you to wish you ill.

@MaliciousHerp Ай бұрын

I feel the same way ngl

@Jennifer-gr7hn Ай бұрын

I am a highly sensitive intuitive type with high empathy which cripples me since I also have the gift of understanding. Where I get hurt repeatedly is that there is no understanding in return when I merely react to abuse. However, none of us are perfect, or even good all the time and most of our good radar comes from trauma and hypervigilence..I'm still in therapy for it because 4 decades of patterns of my attracting people who admire me for these traits, plus my passion and outspokenness....I end up getting angry at them and resentful of them, so that means...I'm not a saint, therefore, there are others who don't like that about me. I mistook my whole life, the 'quiet ons' for being calm, strong, a rock. It turns out that 'rock,' growing up, stood by and didn't protect and defend me against my physically and mentally abusive parent, their spouse who I was more scared of but still screamed bloody murder, when assaulted .....but the quiet one who didn't find me worth the fight to protect me, was just as abusive actually. So, we all have work to do! Humility is key. Tough stuff, really.

@j.t.1215 Сағат бұрын

God bless Robert. I promise I will take things slower and take care of myself from this moment forward. xxx

@Kingmannie 16 сағат бұрын

I could watch this podcast forever. What a fantastic duo! So well balanced, tremendous dialog. Bravo.

@cleobadashian8029 Ай бұрын

THIS INTERVIEW MADE ME CRY. IT FELT LIKE A TALK WITH THE DAD YOU NEVER HAD.

@wakegary Ай бұрын

bro caps lock has no dad

@NismoPro-X Ай бұрын

@@wakegarylmao

@younoticedme Ай бұрын

This video does make you think and reflect a lot.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@job7973 Ай бұрын

The interviewer really knows how to ask good questions, spot on.

@Wolf_runner12 Ай бұрын

He just does these silly pauses blankly looking at guests as if he knows something. The dude is so basic and 80% is done for him by the team

@coloraturaElise Ай бұрын

@@Wolf_runner12 Be gone with your negative energy, since you are obviously envious of his success!

@marie-francoiset9402 Ай бұрын

@Meatball.number1 Dude. Why are you here? You don’t like the host. Fine. Your prerogative. By why stay somewhere that you don’t like? You don’t like his voice so why listen to it? Why make your your own self miserable? Hate watching is really a thing I suppose. lol

@Wolf_runner12 Ай бұрын

@@marie-francoiset9402 what should I do Marie?

@liamhowgate4022 Ай бұрын

He's allowed his opinion. This isn't the Steven Bartlett Podcast

@River_Nathuoriel 22 күн бұрын

I’ve seen all of your podcasts and many others but this one has been one of the most wholesome and just best podcast about life I’ve encoutered in my 30+ years of age and I know it aint much. Thank you for this🙏🏻

@dquanadavis102 21 күн бұрын

This was life changing... Steven, you ALWAYS have the BEST INTERVIEWS! Interviews that either challenge or empower your viewers to become the very best version of themselves. I love this channel ❤️

@deontaylor6093 Ай бұрын

A Podcast for Pause and I don’t mean the button… as a registered nurse, I fully understand what a stroke can do to someone. It is impressive to see how intact your mind is Mr. Greene after such a life changing event. Thank you for the clarity, and the depth of your knowledge, and the delivery in this interview. I believe your best is yet to come. To the host of this podcast keep creating life changing contents cause this is exactly what this podcast will do for quite a lot of people. Thank you.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

✨Recite if you want " thank you universe " continusly during days more if need create miracles ✨

@TheSteveMeister 26 күн бұрын

you don't need to be a registered nurse to know what a stroke can do to someone. I never understood why people have to throw in their profession in their comment.

@TheSteveMeister 26 күн бұрын

@@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles the universe contradicts religion

@BlackSun90 25 күн бұрын

@@TheSteveMeister you don’t know as I do not know for sure. Where is your proof? Are you going to put creative boundaries on God? Regardless of your beliefs, God means creator. Creator does not necessarily mean a conscious man in the sky. It is what started and what has always been. Much better that science and religion work together in tandem and not against eachother. Extremists on both sides do neither justice

@NicholasVincent-ol1zk 25 күн бұрын

#steathmeister2024

@matthewwozniak9138 Ай бұрын

I never realized the speaker was disabled until he started talking about it. Probably the best motivational speaker I've heard in a quite a long time. Thank you.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

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@traifai13hughes7 Ай бұрын

noice

@itsjustme...whitney6972 27 күн бұрын

Say we all are so indoctrinated and they have the labels on us I mean yeah this guy's the best motivational speaker ever okay well know we all are amazing motivational speakers we just all are at different stages of doing it and some do it better than others. We should I think the greatest human act that Nipsey Hussle say that the greatest human act is to inspire and it honestly it really is.

@perpjules 15 күн бұрын

Robert doesn’t look at things with empathy, he sees strategic manipulation of people as the way to dominate life. And I’m not criticizing; he is clearly a fascinating narcissist in recovery. And I believe he might recognize his warpy way of thinking. So good on him. But if you’ll notice, his methods are appealing to those 1 in 6 narcissists who are looking for ways to manipulate with pseudo-authenticity, because narcissists cannot be authentic. He realizes that when people are understood in depth, there comes the true ability to act and to achieve to one’s ultimate life’s desire. He cannot conceptualize the idea that some people do not hide shadow. In expression of shadow, authenticity is being expressed. There are those who take control and do not “act.” Only a grandiose person understands that “weak asks” make them look weak and that “strong asks” hide weakness and are “convincing” to others of your strength. Only narcissists believe that everyone is fake and potentially threatening. Essentially, he is more of a self-conceptualized narcissist than the others. His thoughts are intriguing but you’ll never hear him talk about how to really tap into the emotions of another with care, love, and consideration. At the other end of the spectrum, the ability to be empathetic can also be used to one’s advantage, but narcissists don’t consider that method. He’s learned how to leverage his narcissism for success through identification of the weaknesses in others and himself and realizing where his tendencies have caused him to fall short of control.

@MONIQUEROSE22 17 күн бұрын

I am tearing up from the end . Thank You Robert and God bless you. I have to listen to audio of your books because I have difficulty reading at times. I have been listening to Robert from my twenties. I have to go back as I'm near my 40s and listening to you now....there's so much underlying messages and new perspectives to look at things now.

@britfan03 2 күн бұрын

This was one of my top 5 favorite interviews so far. Thank You for having Robert on. Stephen, you never seem to amaze by the choice speakers you interview.

@olgaanatoliivna7806 Ай бұрын

After listening to this podcast I was thinking to myself: it is such a privilege to have genuine faith in God

@user-xq3fk2mr5f Ай бұрын

This is so true. To have my faith in Jesus Christ and knowing 100% that He died for me on that rugged cross instills a true Joy that those only taking it for themselves can experience. We have the problem of our sin. That is why Jesus came. To save us. Salvation is available to all. ❤ Love listening.

@ILootBodies Ай бұрын

🤡🤡

@veramaaaaaa1154 Ай бұрын

It's called putting the whole armour of God on. Do onto others as you want done to you. Jesus Christ is Lord.

@clivemangwere4264 Ай бұрын

How so trur

@sunshinegold8451 Ай бұрын

Amen, the full Armour of God is the only way to navigate this life

@football75able Ай бұрын

Robert Greene is a gem to society. I am grateful he is still alive to share this wisdom with the world. Looking forward to his book on the sublime. Cheers :)

@androidbluat Ай бұрын

He is 64, why would he die? Lol, it reads like a subtle threat

@barrykeeto1248 Ай бұрын

@@androidbluatGenerally speaking, people who have suffered a stroke tend to have a shorter lifespan and as a consequence can develop additional life limiting health conditions. There is also an increased risk of a further stroke or strokes which could end up being life threatening?

@marcorodrigues8303 Ай бұрын

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@Bailiol Ай бұрын

He is unbelievably cynical. I agree he does have some very useful insights, but he has such an unrealistic and terribly cynical view of humankind.

@rogerbritus9378 Ай бұрын

Babaca@@marcorodrigues8303

@giovannaferrari2365 3 күн бұрын

Bumped onto this video randomly but it has a lot of great principles and makes total sense... the comment about the frenemies really hit me.... I am an artist and it's incredible to see how the people closest to me, that I repute best friends and see regularly, never like my art on social media or make a nice comment about it ... that for me is a sign that someone is jealous for sure. Stay away from those people.

@charr007 23 күн бұрын

Robert Greene is a total genius his books will be revised in the future for the next generations who also will appreciate the project perhaps more as history teaching us all

@beauubenjaminn Ай бұрын

46:40 “I don’t know about you but I appreciate politeness…I know they’re not necessarily meaning it but it’s nice…it’s kinda smooth. If people weren’t polite it’d be…grating” I just LOVE this. I don’t know why but this just HIT. I am forever going to think of politeness as being smooth from now on. There have been times where when day to day politeness in some circles felt so artificial I wanted to just ram my head in the wall but this… this just resonated so much it’s going to forever make that artificial feeling totally alright now.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

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@daughtaofthesoil3510 Ай бұрын

Absolutely true. People who have gone through things read the book (48 laws) with a different lens - enlightening. I also remember this one guy who told me "reading it makes you evil, it teaches you to be manipulative". And he was/is the master manipulator (one who you have to watch). I realized that decisively years later. Be very careful of 'frenemies' and narcisits - they totally hate when you are aware of all these tacts or counter-respond in manners that they can no longer put a choke hold on you. Thanks for this episode and continuing to share knowledge and insights.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

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@lawb4meify Ай бұрын

Thank you. I wrote this down to remember it

@MyLifeAsRaphael 28 күн бұрын

The 48 power of law It’s a book of deceit.

@leilanib5040 13 күн бұрын

By far this is my most favourite of all time! Thanks very much! You're the best! ❤

@tiaraskau1676 20 күн бұрын

Wow! This is probably the best video I’ve encountered till date. I learned so much and the topics spoken about in this video resonated with me on a deep level. Thank you !❤

@XDChallengeAccepted Ай бұрын

After years of being raised by narcissistic parent then first 20 years of marriage.I’ve did plenty of looking inward thinking I was in the wrong . Done with that and have learned when people show you who they are believe them . Don’t make excuses for them or try to fix them . Move on and find freedom within yourself un -encumbered by bullsh&t .

@legs1157 Ай бұрын

From experience 44 years of Narcissistic abuse leads to liberation and spiritual awakening. Total awareness of ego in myself and others 🙏 ❤ 🌎 👻

@misssh5596 Ай бұрын

Same !

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@michaelbailey5726 Ай бұрын

I was abused by an x girl she cheated on me so much I got 3 stds from her. Hep-b,hpv and clamitia she cheated on me so often it took me 10 years to get over this scum.sleeping with her ma wasn't enough to get her back she lied to my face so many times hate is too kind of a word to describe her

@michaelbailey5726 Ай бұрын

Did I deserve to waste my life on her

@as2223 29 күн бұрын

Tim Fletcher is also great on the topic of trauma and narcissistic abuse.

@etaokha4164 13 күн бұрын

Yes you just exposed my neighbours to the T. This woman called the police on me for no reason and he reason was because I was being me and it bothered her. I am a single mom raising 2 kids and mind my own business in my flat and never talk to the neighbours so one day a new tenant moved in and she noticed that I am young and carry on living my life doing my own thing. Mind you this neighbour has just moved in so she started bullying I and my kids for no reason whatsoever so I let it slide. Then she continued then at 2am she started hitting the top roof because i leave top floor and I noticed and went to her flat and knocked on her door and told her my kids are sleeping and shes disturbing our peace at 2am in the morning and weve got things to do that day and need sleep. This woman became rageful and started throwing accusations at me and even accused me of chasing her daughter downstairs I was confused of what shes talking about then she threatened to call the police and she called the police and police came and she told them that its because she lost her job and took her anger on me and that I was aggressive towards her ( all lies). It from that day when she called the police , she crossed the line with me Ive kept my distance ever since because I started to see who she was and someone like that can hurt me and my children. We stay away from them. People hate you just for you being you and I'll never change for hateful jealous and envious people because they refuse to work on themselves and its not my responsibility to change them. I walk away

@yungdnny 2 күн бұрын

I’m so sorry that you went through this. I can relate to people being irrationally cruel. I’m glad they’re not getting to you. Single moms don’t get enough respect 🫡

@katrinaornelas 18 күн бұрын

WOW, JUST WOW! Absolutely magnificent thank you for asking all the right questions. Elated you took the time to speak to this great man. ❤❤❤

@TwistedSisterK 28 күн бұрын

"We have to learn to look behind people's masks" - YES, this is why intuition is vital, because their energy cannot lie, even if their words and actions do, our gut/heart/nervous system will feel when their energy does not align.

@ip3931 Ай бұрын

I don’t need to work out if people hate me, I already know everybody does. But I think I’m almost at a stage of total acceptance.

@SMacCuUladh Ай бұрын

Sounds like you have some personal issues that you don't want to address rather than other people having issues with you.

@Laura-nx4dm Ай бұрын

Here's the rub, people don't hate you. They nothing you. As you get older you understand that. People are so absorbed in themselves, they don't even have time or energy for others. 🤷‍♀️

@Whatnok Ай бұрын

How about not firing a F! Life is too short. Miserable jealous insecure people hate others so let them drown in their misery 😂

@katcat5088 Ай бұрын

I don’t know you. I am certain I wouldn’t hate you. My brother acts like he hates me & I have never done anything bad to him. My husband’s family really likes me. Sometimes it’s jealousy but you can’t please everyone. Just shrug your shoulders and move on.

@user-ec3rm9wr1n Ай бұрын

😮‍💨...... Hate is better than envy .....

@ibrahimdekah4599 12 күн бұрын

A man without enemies is a man without qualities.

@missvegan1967 Күн бұрын

Some people gain worldy success and still have these "shadow sides" and lack self awareness...

@traagicmaagic 29 күн бұрын

You can never know 100% for sure whether someone loves you or not. Because they can always do everything it takes to act and seem like they do, whilst not. So there is no way to know for sure whether someone likes you or hates you and you could drive yourself crazy into paranoia. Maybe don't worry about that and just worry about whether they treat you right. Do what works for you but its none of our business what goes on in other's heads. Its more of our business of whether we are being respected or not.

@dimifisher7942 17 күн бұрын

Seriously don't you think that love is something that most of all you feel or sense so it's more about what your instict tells you?! I don't think I can never mistaken someone who doesn't love me for someone who genuinely do.

@KB-vx5mo Ай бұрын

I am myself and that includes being kind but with confidence… I will not act to jeopardize my integrity and my values. I don’t care if others envy me, I pity them for their misery. Being envious is a very dark place.

@bridgethake8218 Ай бұрын

I feel the same I’m just happy being me nothing special but I’m ok with that

@Helen-xy9qj Ай бұрын

I feel the sa😂me. I feel myself. I don't put on an act. I would have liked to be more successful in a worldly way, but i have not or would never try to get ahead by hurting others. I think kindess is most important.

@lesleyculverhouse5635 Ай бұрын

Isn't jealousy the dark place whereas envy can be inspirational?

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

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@byBeauxARTFULIVING 12 күн бұрын

I fully agree with u KB, however it is a necessary evil to discover who is envious of us, bcz while we are focused on continuing to our goals with confidence, kindness, empathy , forgiveness and love , THEY are working hard to destroy us. They are not fixable , so we must stop them before irreparable damage is done. I learned the hard way and i still don't understand WHY I was worth all their efforts

@LilBrownieGxy 15 күн бұрын

I used to dream big because all the people around me saw great potential and I wanted to satisfy them, I'm 27, I'm leading teams and reaching success in my job, but I feel nothing. I will quit soon because I want to work from home and start traveling. I really feel connected when the writer explained their dreams like going to the desert and swim with whales and he preferred to leave that dream to write his last book and accomplish that goal. I reached the success that others wanted for me, but I think that is time to reach the success that I want for me. I got transferred five months ago to a whole new city, without friends nor family and I think that it is my time to disappear and start my journey. Do what you want, but do it for yourself ❤

@AliceDont333 12 күн бұрын

Life is a beautiful, precious gift. Don’t waste it. Namaste’🕊️💙✨

@ecoscopic7872 Ай бұрын

56:30 is the "Approach from an angle " 🎯

@jeneagillespie1641 27 күн бұрын

I became disabled two years ago. Roberts perspective on being disabled, was so helpful for me. I can relate so much to feeling like I’ve lost the ability to do all of the things that I love. Your story is encouraging to me. Thank you for sharing your brilliance.

@privateperson2 27 күн бұрын

I hope you find lots of new things to ❤

@rosalvabooksllc354 25 күн бұрын

May the Lord heal you.

@thabomabuza7340 21 күн бұрын

Correction* You didn't become disabled but you became differently able.

@pricklycats 17 күн бұрын

@@thabomabuza7340 Stop trying to gaslight people into thinking not being able to move/think is somehow a positive or neutral thing. It's objectively negative.

@williamallen7836 15 күн бұрын

@@thabomabuza7340 No, I'm disabled. I have come to accept that, and I'm perfectly fine with that fact. Fact is, there are things I will never be able to do again, and that list will only grow as my neuro degenerative disease progresses. I will never be able to pull the transmission from my 1968 F100 and replace the clutch. There is no manner of doing it differently that will change this fact. Being on my back and wrestling nearly 300 pounds of cast iron just isn't going to happen. I will have to pay someone to do it for me the next time the clutch needs to be replaced. The only people that I have known that insist on using "differently abled" have not been able to accept their disability fully, and live their best or better life then before. They struggle to fully emotionally accepting their current reality. In turn they try and force themselves into intellectually rejecting that which they know to be true. That they have become disabled, and have lost some level of functioning. Overcoming that hurtle of emotionally and intellectually accepting their disability is the step needed to not only gain full acceptance, but to thrive going forward. An intellectual or emotional rejection of this prevents moving foward. As you spend your energy trying to disprove what you already know to be true.

@kerrygozzett703 13 сағат бұрын

I think this guy is adorable and obviously genuine, smart guy. It’s the authenticity and honesty that I think foundations his ability in his book to just be able to write from the reality that he has noticed and researched, that makes his work powerful for me 🎉

@noellealyagout1669 10 күн бұрын

Robert Green is someone I can’t stop listening to( at least in this interview) His insight on our human condition and human nature is profound and I love his ability to keep a compassionate attitude towards himself and others while pointing out where the unacceptable line between being « human » and being evil lies. The interviewer conducted the show very well also. Excellent work!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😍 thank you ! I subscribed, liked and shared 🙏🏻😃

@reasonandseason6720 Ай бұрын

The only class I failed in college and had to retake was “social influence”. Call it an art, science etc, it’s evil. You need to be a very kind and well-balanced human to use this skill with compassion.

@Recite_GodHealMeCreateMiracles Ай бұрын

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@iklijkwelgekmetmijneigennaam Ай бұрын

I feel exactly the same way.

@willd.8040 Ай бұрын

What he says about not taking things for granted, really hits home with me. I'm now 47, and while I'm not yet "elderly", I am definitely starting to feel the effects of aging. Having to actually worry about my health, and getting regular check-ups. I was never in the slightest worried when I'd go for an annual physical in my 20s and 30s, but now I dread it because I don't know what might be found, and I really struggle with this. I absolutely took my youth and health for granted. In fact, I just never thought much about it, and just figured that's just how life is. You can run and play sports for hours. You can eat anything on still look good. I could see others who were old and the struggles they would go through, but somehow I didn't think it would happen to me. I know how absurd that sounds, but it's true. So if you're young, just do your best to appreciate those things, and don't focus on the negative or the things you don't have but wish you did. Nothing is better than being young and healthy, not even money. I am relatively wealthy now, and I'd give it all away if I could be 19 years old again.

@calmingbabysleep1256 27 күн бұрын

To be 19 without the experience and knowledge you have now? Might just lead down the same or similar road

@vicki-leealomes1716 25 күн бұрын

I once heard an expression, “Youth is wasted on the young.” I grew into understanding its meaning. Breaks my heart to see young people worrying themselves over things that dont matter.

@calmingbabysleep1256 25 күн бұрын

@@vicki-leealomes1716 I'm 30. I've always loved hearing wisdom from older folk. Always been obedient and interested in gaining knowledge/ wisdom from my elders. That said, life is learned through living. My experience has been that regardless of the knowledge I gained through books or others life experience, it was my own experience that I grew most from. " Youth is wasted on the young" yes, I guess but " life is lived forward and understood backwards" Soren Kierkegaard. Regardless if you became 19 again, you would only have the experience of a 19 year old( unless you imagine living in a Benjamin Button world and not this one)Again, I am relatively young so what do I know. I do agree with the worrying about small things , still a problem I hope to eradicate with age.

@alyciamarie4163 24 күн бұрын

@@vicki-leealomes1716it’s the truest expression!

@slchance8839 19 күн бұрын

100% For me, the magic number is 27 years old. Just finishing medical school. Girls were trying to ring ME upbefore i graduated, thinking i was too dumb to know what they're doing. Then I left that college town and started my life: making up for lost time with youth, energy, and finally....a paycheck. I didnt take ANY of those minutes for granted....except for sleep. I worked out to be in shape, almost never turned down a party, ate as healthy as I could, and came back into work, maybe tired, but not much else (I dont drink). And I'd been going sleepless for years anyway during my studies so this felt like MORE sleep than I'd had in a long time. I crammed every minute of fun I could into those days. Got an old Jeep Sahara, painted it like Jurassic Park, got an Australian shephard puppy and took in a kitten I found under the stairs. Life was the best. I'm 50 now, with zero regrets and a crap ton of images....framed in pictures and framed in my head. My knees crackles, my hairline and gumline are receding, and i just dont feel like going anywhere or doing anything. It's a graceful aging: I had my time in the sun. I'd be BITTER if I waited this long to live life and had to do with TODAY's aging body. I walked through that door at the right time. But still....to go back. Sometimes, I'll hear a song....and there I am. For a second. Then I hear my knees.

@gernotritzau5948 20 күн бұрын

I loved the jabb at the podcast, that was a classic interview challenge for the interviewer! This is one of the best interviews I've seen on this channel. Very, very authentic. Nice work (1h 15min to 1h 22min)

@chanelbeery8154 10 күн бұрын

I am so very grateful for this podcast episode. This one podcast came to me exactly when I needed it. It is the missing link of wisdom & insight that I so desperately needed. I can’t thank you enough. ❤

@Nina_Olivia Ай бұрын

Awesome interview! As a psychologist, I verify that Robert is absolutely spot on re: the importance of learning to read others’ non-verbal cures (e.g., micro-expressions). I particularly love that he encourages us all to honestly look inward and reflect on ourselves (we must do this in order to improve our relationships with others - and the overall impact we have in the world). Robert makes countless excellent points and is a very genuine and engaging speaker. I could listen to him for hours! 👍

@educationalbrowsing8913 Ай бұрын

The thing about micro-expressions is that a negative one might be a reflection of what a person happens to be thinking about at the time when they have been caught off-guard. I am aware I have done this many times and make it up to the person so they know it was not directed at them.

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@nancymurphy1463 Ай бұрын

Wow, I hope people do their own research after listening to this. Huberman did not leave his position at Stanford. He is still a tenured professor there. He does podcasting in addition. Also, identity disturbance is a hallmark of narcissistic personality disorder - it causes narcissists to over-identify with what others think about them, thus the "need" to "transform yourself" when people "project an identity" onto you. Although Robert Greene can have some insights, I find his perspective to be wildly distorted by his narcissism. Normal people without high levels of narcissism have a strong sense of a core identity which is not shaped by what other people think about them.

@coloraturaElise Ай бұрын

Hmmmmm......what's your story, I wonder?

@735164 Ай бұрын

💯

@735164 Ай бұрын

There is something about him that is quite off putting. Also I don’t find anything that incredibly insightful about what he says.

@anneleenvanboxstael103 Ай бұрын

Thanks for pointing that out and correcting this! It was truly annoying to hear how Green kept misrepresenting Huberman’s career to fit his own perspective. It made not want to listen any further…

@BillundBerries Ай бұрын

Right! Huberman states that in the introduction to each of his podcasts (regarding his current position at Stanford)… weird that there wasn’t a video cut or some text edit from DOAC about that huge mistake.

@derekfalkowsky8317 7 күн бұрын

There was a lot of great wisdom to reflect upon in this conversation. Good episode!

@maried.1831 10 күн бұрын

This is the most beautiful and meaningful interview I ever watched. Thank you to the both of you!

@chichiiro7776 29 күн бұрын

Clearly the best interview I have listened to in a long time. I live with Cerebral Palsy and I have had to rise above, several of these situations to be the person, I am today. Life is a gift, you get to live effectively when you take your eyes off of others and focus on what is possible with you. My ability to read others and their thoughts and finding the motivation to continue with my dreams and aspirations, is my strategy.

@beckylieb2637 29 күн бұрын

I love what he said about love. This is what good people feel towards those around them, not just their husbands and wives and children.

@pricklycats 17 күн бұрын

So nobody in New York is a good person by your definition lol

@TheMABExperience 12 күн бұрын

Mr. Greene is BACK, and he’s COOKING! 🔥💎💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@KateHamiltonMourningCross 22 күн бұрын

Thank you for your wisdom Robert and thank God you're still able to share that wisdom, you are a true inspiration and l look forward to reading your next book❤