For those who want to see SPECIFIC PEOPLE! Time STAMPS 00:00 INTRO 03:13 Lashawn 37:22 Alexis 1:24:30 Ivory 1:51:37 Jasmine (white Dress) 2:20:37 Shelly 2:53:46 Jasmine (Black Pants) 3:22:15 Monet 3:50:11 Our closing Thoughts

Not going to cap, y’all give a lot of good wisdom in dating and relationships. I appreciate your insight and the fact you guys love God make that much more better. Thank you 💯

First girls name is Lashawn, she didn’t like the fact that dudes name is Keishawn

My wife stayed with me and we're still together after I was paralyzed... she's a RIDE OR DIEEEEEE !!!

This is hilarious 😂 yall was both confused calling eachother confused 😅😂😂😂 I really like yall

Y’all have me cracking up every video. I love these videos!

I was patiently waiting for my 2 favorites to recap this episode. Love y'all takes

The five love languages is a pretty popular book. They used to have the Author on one of the popular Christian stations my parents used to listen when I was a child, but it was written in back in 1992! There’s a quiz online that helps determine what you perceive to be/how you best receive love and I think it can be helpful information in any type of friendship/relationship! Ie) If words of affirmation is my love language but my significant other’s is physical touch, his physical displays of affection may not mean as much to me. I could be feeling like my “love tank” is close to empty because I haven’t received the words of affirmation I crave, while he thinks he’s doing a great job showing his love. The purpose of the 5LL is basically to allow you and the other person to effectively communicate your love for one another.

In regards to the “ride or die” conversation, I think she was saying “that’s a man’s perspective” to mean “you’re a man, and ride or die is usually more beneficial to the man, and that’s why you don’t understand me seeing it as a negative.” I see where she’s coming from, but I think she’s dating on defense. She doesn’t understand that she’s basically telling the men “I’m not loyal,” when she’s meaning to say “I won’t blindly submit.”

The definition of “ride or die” that you all found on Google sounds like it matches her understanding of the concept- at least the way she was explaining it. However, when she first used the term, she did apply the meaning that they guys have. So, in short, she’s not “ride or die” in any sense of the term. 😂

Joe has me saying “that’s peace” too Alex 😂😂😂. Loving the hair also!

This group was really cooking with more in depth questions

02:24:09 I thought the entire video had paused by itself. 😂 I stopped and looked at the screen and no one was moving. I thought, “Wait…why did it stop by itself?” Then one of you moved and I figured out you two were in deep thought. 😂😂😂

So excited to watch with you both! One of the more mature episodes for sure

I am BUGGGING why yall so funny😭 you doing the workout math

Ok timestamps 👏🏽

The love language has been around for at least a decade, people just recently have been starting to actually read and do research on their partners. A lot of therapist offer and suggest these books so that way can learn other peoples communication style and how differently it is than you, especially when it comes to how they expressed their love. being able to figure out how your partners love is expressed you are able to love them better and it reduces divorce

new sub, only feed back i would give is kitezz you let a lot of these people effect you emotionally. Much love for y’all content because it’s needed from a relationship prospective.

About wanting a leader/provider, it’s about trust. People are entering relationships when they struggle with trust or continue to be with someone that they don’t trust. If you trust your partner you’ll let them lead. Instead of saying you want a provider or you’re a ride or die people should focus on building trust and getting to know someone. Cause you can say you’re a provider all day and night but can I trust the words. I wish they were required to provide examples/show your work when they give answers like in job interviews. Like oh you’re adventurous tell me about your last adventure.

Alex is so beautiful 😍 thanks for the content yall and thanks re-recording…that’s a lot of work lol

Love Language have been around for a long time. So long. I think it matters in a relationship.

I also thought I wanted 5 kids until I had my first one and she humbled me real quick lol

Thank God for his wife … because him thinking love languages is a nuance from the pandemic is wild. Love languages are apart of human psychology

This line up of dark skinned men is outstanding

Thank you guys 😂😂 it was definitely an experience 😅

KiteZz googling be tickling me 😂😂😂

Dude got eliminated for his hair texture. Imagine the outrage if a woman gets eliminated for her hair texture 🤡

Lool, with the first guy who zoned out… another reactor said they ADHD going crazy before he even spoke 😂

My only push back is that y’all read the definition 😂 and it was what I said lol 😂😂

You need to also accept when you’re wrong. The woman said from her perspective ride or die means something and then you disagreed and read the definition which is different to what you both said but you still stood on her being wrong but she was right. Her perspective was different to hers.

Bro I’m shocked you didnt say dude next to Rico look like Aff from Rdc 😂😂😂😂😂

I love how there’s a lot of people who don’t understand astrology, or the spiritual aspect of relationships and yet dog them, if you learn someone’s astrology, you learn someone’s love language you learn all these little things about them. That is less likely that you will divorce later, a lot of y’all grandparents knew a lot about this without having the definitive terms for it. They just said they knew each other in another lifetime.

The guy in the red hat is giving me Metro Booming

Alexis is just strong headed because of immaturity, a ladder 🪜 have two ways up and down, when we fall we would like for someone to be there to help pick us up, and a person have to be open to learning (maturing) don't matter the age.

I get what LaLa was saying about the name thing it’s childish but she has a point😂 they’re names are similar to the point they sounds like siblings twins even..

Im glad I found you guys. Hello from the 652.

People are becoming more aware of the psychology behind human nature mental health is more relevant now because of the toxic behavior and the necessity for individuals to heal which breeds a possible healthier long term relationship in the terms of a 50/50 relationship you learn over time the recipe behind two whole individuals becoming one unified entity which means we're only half of the body realizing your strength along with your partner along with acknowledging the weakness you basically fill in those patches when ones more depleted the other steps in for balance the act of service goes both ways love the video reviews you guys both cook together y'all create the ultimate feast keep feeding the people

I've never verbalized or understood that "non challant people" infuriates me. I knew I couldn't put my finger on something about them but I finally know what exactly i couldn't put my finger on.

21:32 La’Doordasha😂

You are not being honest. You are looking up who initiates divorce in general. The young lady is talking about a sickness, illnesses, or accident. Google, who leaves marriages when a spouse gets sick. Surprise, she was right.

I love hearing the keyboard sound before they give their opinion lol

Had me dying 😂😂😂😂 your forehead to big 😭🤣😭🤣😭🤣

Sunday starts the week MONDAY starts the WORK week by HR standards

Rico is Terrance twin in how they sound

Nice guys are empathic

Not the trash cash sound bro. It was better than that. Good work! Ya'll coming up now! And we we Preciate ya'll too lol.

Commentator is being one-sided 1hour in with the lady in green 💚 she has a valid point, she's clearly explained and it makes perfect sense. we should stop dating potencial and see people for who they are.

My husband and I have disagreements but we don't argue. There is no yelling at one another. We voice our concerns and listen to each other point of view without hollering at each other.

I love y’all reactions. The black love between y’all 2 is pure BEAUTY. Let’s give all Praises,Honor and GLORY to the Most High GOD of the Bible. ❤️

1:49:30 poor girl. She regrets it already. 😔

Le-a😂😂 I'm about to crash my car

No lie Jasmine in the Black looks like a scammer 🤷🏾‍♂️

I don't think they was tryna roast the girl he really felt she had a big forehead

I legally changed my name at 22. Best decision I ever made!

Preston sounds like Big Boogie

Chile, the "ride or die" thing just took me out. Girl, don't speak for me. Red flags. Run

First dude look like a buff Martin Lawrence or am I tripping

That whole lead a man spiritually things was scary. I wish she could have elaborated more on what she meant. It didn't help that she said she wasn't a traditional woman so I also wish she had elaborated on that more also.

That chick in all black she giving me set up vibes and gold digger vibes forreal I wouldn’t waste any time getting to know her there no point.

Rico sounds like a younger Terrance.. am I crazy?

If u understand hurt people hurt people u won’t take comments seriously. Bc I love you guys n if someone talking sht they life is sht n that’s fact . Yall king n queen!!

Why the woman in the green at the end was saying yes yes when all the balloons were popped

Alex, you good? 🤣🤣🤣

It’s very difficult to take a woman seriously who is constantly playing with her artificial hair. That’s a huge dealbreaker.

MAAM MAAM BRO KITEZZ YOU HAD ME DYING!!!! But you were right that lady in the yellow dress was annoying as hell!!!! Beautiful though but how you’re not aware of the camera man’s job, you need to stay in frame!! And the host was trying to tell her several times to get closer. Great show guys

Oh wait yall are 27? Oh wow. I think they may be onto something because im about to be 40. Yall are attractive though but def wouldnt have guessed 27.

That B2K look up shyh , made y'all miss how he strolled off on yellow dress and and not give her an arm, or escourt her off the meat-market properly!

Also EVERYONE TAKE PSYCH COURSES IN COLLEGE OTHER THAN INTRO 101! U learn alot of relationship building mindsets

51:51 women overseas are very much accountable. Very much! Thailand, Japan, Phillipines, DR, Eastern Europe, Russia, Africa, Saudi Arabia. Where there is no Welfare State, the women own up to their decisions!

Didn’t he say his business expanded 3 times and then 2 times or am I tripping 🤔

What does the robot say lol

Love languages are based in couples therapy.

This mannn keep talking to this lady about her positioning … like she Can hear her

Chiefs are in Kansas City Missouri. We don’t associate with kansians lol

Just bc you haven't heard of something doesn't mean it wasn't in existence. He so controlling damn. Why you try to control your wife? You're annoying

Camera lives matter!!!

Model on the side is crazy

Ayyyyooooo 7:02 😂😂😂

3:47:00 hope she clips this. Your commentary is sharing gems.

@1:40 he sound like Omarion

3:39:07 depends where you live. Plus some kids live with parents that smoke and that ages them fast!!!!!! Kids be eating chemicals instead of food, too. They look prematurely aged, rather than mature.

Dude with corduroy look like future trunks

Her name LaShawn

Women are breeding out the short kings it’s sad.

White short dress sent her jab back, then she doubled down with a hair-line. I mean, send ur quick return-fire and stay focused on task, let's me know she is easily distracted! 1. Pants 2. Forehead 3. Hairline. OVER-KILL!

3:38:21 born in the 90's means you are 30+. By that time you could have a Trade like Plumbing or Electrician and afforded to buy 3 homes, easy! MeetKevin bought his first home at 19! Dude was born in the 90's! He showed folks how to get their first homes and he lives in Southern California. Making money is the EASIEST thing you will do in this life! Easiest! Especially, when you live in a country with a stable electrical grid and access to banking and capital!

I am confused

He looks nothing like lil fizz lol

Sorry Onery looks like Zaya Wade

Everything you said goes back to spending money Can you cook? Yes I can sir but Im also spending money for groceries and cooking for someone typically does not happen in a get to know you date

2:30:10 y'all were Frauding in this part. First you complained about everyone giving disingenuous answers to why they didn't pop their balloons. Then you get an honest answer to why they DID pop the balloon. Then you went off on the next guy for not wanting to deal with someone who responded how she did. Stop FRAUDING. Next time take a nap in between recordings bc y'all were off the mark on this video. Wtf was going on

Sound like he has something stuck in his throat

PSA to Arlette: Please start bringing OTHER races of men on the show for Black women. #BlackGirlSwirl 💃🏾💍🧎🏻💕

3:38:25 bus drivers, postal carriers earn six-figure incomes! If one thinks they are above these type of jobs, they have nothing to complain about. There's PLENTY of work! Dating? In your 30's you should be married, not dating. 😑

2:51:07 because she is one burger away from obesity. 😐

*The husband runs his pie hole too much.* The 1st lady La La's name is LaShawn and Key's name is KeyShawn. *That is what she meant by having the same name, Genius!*

4 hour video is crazy work 😵‍💫

Ole gurl in green needs theory in my opinion. Most women are hurt, scarred on past relationships and they never recover. So they take stuff all the left or right. I would also add that most women arent direct and they dont stand on nothing..the same women that wants her man to play his masculine role to the T is the same women that wants to lead her men.ý

4 FUCKIN HOURS BRO???? 😠