The Mid-Atlantic Coast: Delaware, Maryland and the Outer Banks

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0:00 Introduction
0:29 The Cape May - Lewes Ferry
4:48 Delaware (just driving through)
8:35 Arriving in Maryland, Ocean City and Assteague
12:13 The Ocean City, Maryland Boardwalk
17:38 Assateague, Wild Ponies, a hike, Sunset and Sunrise
25:47 The road to the Outer Banks
31:01 The Wright Brother National Monument
37:12 Getting stuck and the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse
43:35 The Ocracoke Ferry
46:38 A few hours at Ocracoke
53:47 Backtracking and the Cape Hatteras Resort
1:03:22 The Voyage Home
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@robertschaefer3223 2 жыл бұрын

The nice thing about traveling with Robert is, he does all the driving.

@NewHaven203 2 жыл бұрын

And he pays for all the gas lol

@jerrygundrum1 2 жыл бұрын

Family started a new drinking game. When ever Robert says "Be back some day" we take a shot. Having a tough time seeing the end of the videos

@bigjimslade6250 2 жыл бұрын

Now that’s funny, well done.

@areguapiri 2 жыл бұрын

You're three sheets to the wind!

@JPD617 2 жыл бұрын

Sunday morning coffee watching Traveling Robert has become a tradition we look forward to. Thanks again for another great video!

@talhaayub7512 2 жыл бұрын

That's Monday morning tradition for me in Pakistan 🇵🇰

@safepetproducts 2 жыл бұрын

We got stuck in sand on the outer banks as well. Also had a good Samaritan pull us out! They must see it a lot.

@JayneF3 Жыл бұрын

Although I live in the Midwest, my heart is on the east coast. This was one of the most enjoyable travel videos ever! Thanks for taking us along, Robert.

@brandonmcdaniel930 2 жыл бұрын

Robert please don't ever change your song or music during videos. It gives me joy and relaxation watching your videos. The sunrises and sunsets are my favorite. Man you do a great job at filming and editing. My favorite KZfaq channel. Thank you!!!

@brandonmcdaniel930 2 жыл бұрын

Oh and should have over a million subscribers. More people should watch because its so chill and relaxing. What more people need right now!!

@timfleming1607 2 жыл бұрын

Love the new Riding in my RV verses.. thanks Robert..!!

@johnpossible6292 2 жыл бұрын

This trip episode is the exact journey that me and my wife want to do when we finally retire in 2023. We will also be pulling a travel trailer during our adventure. We will be leaving from Ct so we won't be going thru Long Island but south of NYC we would like to take the same route that you took. Thanks for giving us a preview and ideas that we will incorporate on our trip.

@truebeauty13x 2 жыл бұрын

Great video! Videos like this really put it into perspective how blessed I have been to have grown up on the Outer Banks. It’s easy to forget when it’s all you’ve known.

@elenawaltermusic 2 жыл бұрын

Hi we go to outer banks in 2 weeks, what would be your best advice for the trip?

@williamirizarry2490 2 жыл бұрын

ADDITIONALLY..IT WAS GREAT TO SEE ILLIE IN A LOT OF YOUR FOOTAGE.. KEEP IT UP... THANKS AGAIN.

@herrootsareshowing1534 2 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to see you were able to spend time in the Outer Banks. They are my souls home, and I truly believe one of the most peaceful and beautiful places in this country. Your (perceived) reluctance to leave is exactly how I feel when I have to move on from there. Hopefully next time you can spend time in the northern area, so you can see the wild horses actually playing on the beach and in the water. To anyone who wonders if the sunrises are really that beautiful..yes, yes they are.

@jalcanites2939 2 жыл бұрын

Nice to see my neck of the woods in your blog. Goooood morning Robert.

@bertkelly7650 2 жыл бұрын

I camp at Cape Henlopen a lot and always wanted to ride the ferry, but the wife gets seasick. I will live vicariously through you today. Thanks. : - )

@sheerkhanful 2 жыл бұрын

It's a real pity that you couldn't spend more time in Ocracoke. It's the one place I know of on the east coast with a real subculture. If you park your car and walk around the town you'll encounter small graveyards everywhere from generations of local fisherman. From what I understand, the English language didn't become common on the island until the ferry system was started in the 1950's. For a time, the outer banks was a proposed nuclear test site. Can you believe that? I've lived in NC for 30 years and Ocracoke is the one place I love to return to.

@tihspidtherekciltilc5469 2 жыл бұрын

I lived on the Outer Banks for 25 years off and on so when I heard the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse was going to be moved I drove down from DC and got hired by the main company contracted for the move. The highlight was climbing the stairs to the light level during hurricane Dennis after losing my truck to the ocean. Beautiful place but now Carolina Beach is my summer spot which I highly recommend especially if you have kids.

@charterd 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever I see beach I feel happy.

@orion6704 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I did not know about Ocean City and Wild horses that is Beautiful!

@markshelhart8338 2 жыл бұрын

Fitting end to the journey, Outer Banks is definitely a bucket list candidate.The amount of editing that must have taken must have been staggering.

@glendasharp5057 2 жыл бұрын

I always enjoy your photography, but in this video sunrises and sunsets were particularly spectacular. That sunset from the ferry in Delaware was especially exquisite.

@dylanreynolds8264 2 жыл бұрын

I really do enjoy this season

@Dariolambchops 2 жыл бұрын

Ocean city Maryland has always been my home away from home. Thanks for stopping by. I hope you enjoyed yourself Robert.😎

@richardmack5265 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Robert for showing how beautiful the east coast is.

@sweetpapillon7265 2 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this season. Thank you and Ily for what you are doing here. Your work is educational and fun and the camera work is amazing. Best wishes.

@marcindomik8975 2 жыл бұрын

I’m really a fan of your western US adventures, but I caught myself watching these two episodes over and over again… Eastern coast is beautiful, and so are your movies. Pure delight!

@sandraflanagan5023 2 жыл бұрын

Finally heard your song with all the verses! Wonderful. This video was great..

@bobpoole8497 2 жыл бұрын

Very enjoyable travelogue, Robert. My wife and I enjoyed this episode very much. Photography and Musical Accompaniment were stellar, as usual.

@avarichards4084 2 жыл бұрын

I just stumbled across this video because the youtube algorithm knows I love the Outer Banks- it just so happens I was in Kill Devil Hills, NC on vacation when you drove through! My family always stays in Duck, NC and Hatteras every year. Just a fun coincidence. Happy Travels!

@almamorales4158 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video.........The coastal trip.......with tunnels and bridges.......the beaches...... and of course the spectacular sunsets .congrats and see you on the road......Love MOM

@markisb3585 2 жыл бұрын

I live in Eastern North Carolina. Born and raised here. The outer banks are beautiful. Very laid back. They also have the wild horses there. I visit the outer banks often. Highway 12 is a beautiful drive.

@Satchel1992 2 жыл бұрын

im a resident on the outer banks. i actually used to live on the street right next to the KOA in rodanthe. now i live in kitty hawk. always nice to see people enjoying their vacation in the place i call home.

@elenawaltermusic 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Chris, we go to outer banks for vacation first time, what would be your best advice?

@Garysomebody 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You Robert for the Extended Coverage in my Home State of North Carolina. The Outer Banks are my Most Favorite place to be.

@bigjimslade6250 2 жыл бұрын

Robert this one of the most enjoyable videos we’ve watched in some time. You went through 2 or 3 of my former home towns & our most favorite vacation spot in the Continental US. Thank you for a walk down memory lane. Cant wait for your Lewis & Clark trip

@myronbarino5029 Жыл бұрын

My wife and I lives in Hawaii and love watching and traveling with you. Love your traveling song as well and sometimes I sing it while driving 😂 Mahalo🤙🏽

@brucesmith9144 2 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyable series the last few weeks. Was happy when you travelled through my old home area of Belmar, NJ. You picked the right time of year to visit the coastline. Great weather and a lot less crowded than the summer months. Have you ever considered putting together a video of all the breweries you’ve visited on your travels. That would be interesting.

@SARISS80 2 жыл бұрын

Those wild ponies were too cute.

@najruqwi7008 2 жыл бұрын

Sunset grill just like in marathon Key, FL.. LOL. The wild horse are beautiful. I saw some wild horses in Montana on my way to yellow stone. Why did the horse cross the road? To get a better look at Minitini... LOL.

@billramsey7455 2 жыл бұрын

One of my favorite videos traveling Robert. Awesome brother. God bless and protect you always 🙏 ❤️

@mrramdom4406 2 жыл бұрын

I am so glad you got to visit my state! The Maryland Appalachian mtns are also so beautiful!

@kathykenyon2079 2 жыл бұрын

You know you can drive along the NH coast. All 14 miles of it!😎 Love this video. This is my 3rd time watching it.

@TheBackPasture 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for stopping by Lewes! Crazy to see you cruising around my neck of the woods, shame you couldn't spend more time. You definitely hit the nail on the head with OC, TOURISTY! Consider Cape Henlopen SP next time you come through, lots of history, good paths, great beaches.

@LGessner 2 жыл бұрын

One of your best- maybe because we could remember our trips in that area. But we Ohioans have fallen in love with outer banks as you obviously did. You made me want to pack a bag for NC as well as Maryland and Chesapeake areas. Thank you.

@jimmoore7725 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for today’s video. I really enjoyed it. In Virginia you drove near the Wallops Island NASA center. It is a neat place. I love the Outer Banks and the Southern Outer Banks. I have spent many vacations and fishing trips there. Again, thank you.

@adrisearch 2 жыл бұрын

Like 👍 Maryland is really Very beautiful,How much natural wealth,i love This.obrigado Roberto.God bless you ALL🙏😁🙌

@debbiewerner7124 Жыл бұрын

That was AWESOME!! Been to many of those places. Great to relive them. Thank you ❤

@talhaayub7512 2 жыл бұрын

Regular watcher and enjoying a lot from other corner of the planet

@trentkeever8400 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you got the chance to cruise down the Outer Banks and go to 1718 brewing etc. I’ve been out there twice now and loved it both times, it was awesome to see it on video and kind of relive it again. The first time my wife and I went we drove the OBX from basically Kitty Hawk down to Ocracoke then the ferry back to main land( that’s a downer they were sold out of passes on that ferry for you) and the second time I wanted to truly drive the whole thing so we went from Corolla to Ocracoke and back up to Duck where we were staying. I never wanted to leave when we were there either just like the keys they’re an amazing stretch of islands.

@gonesideways6621 2 жыл бұрын

The granite to build that monument came from my home town Mt, Airy N.C., also that plane is flying around every time we are there in Kill Devil Hills love the Outer Banks but how it has changed since '60's and '70's.

@darlenebarsalou4169 2 жыл бұрын

I always head down rte 95 when heading to Florida. This trip made me think maybe someday I should take a coastal trip like this. Thanks for all you do. Always enjoy your Sunday morning videos so much.

@ShawnPatterson402 3 ай бұрын

A great video. We did a very similar trip in October of 2022. Beautiful. I know what you mean about highways where you are literally along the sea. I would suggest Quebec highway 132 around the Gaspe Penninsula. It is just over 500 miles around, and the sea is in full view for the vast majority of it... quite an amazing stretch of road actually.. safe travels.

@Just.A.T-Rex 2 жыл бұрын

That Oregon inlet bridge is brand new! Didn’t hear that mentioned. Never drive in that obx sand without airing down. Lol nice to see my hometown on here!

@maried2089 2 жыл бұрын

This is EPIC Sir Robert!! I lived in the northeast and always wanted to travel back to Florida this way! Thanks sooo much for this 🙏🏽🆙❤️

@melbattel6150 2 жыл бұрын

Watching here Sunday afternoon. Thanks again for all you do to show us the fabulous parts of this great country.ion the big screen it feels like we’re right there with you. Cheers!

@jimmybee7966 2 жыл бұрын

My favorite was when you ferried to Dauphin Island and a sea gull rode on the bow of the ferry. Remember that? The entire journey, and that bird didn't flap its wings once. 🙂

@matthewclark2123 2 жыл бұрын

So glad you got to enjoy Ocean City, MD. My favorite place

@debbiel7659 2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful video Robert, and Elly, Thank You!

@nightengale2123 2 жыл бұрын

Your quick visit to Ocean City brought back many fond childhood memories as my late father was from the Eastern Shore of MD town of Cambridge and I spent many a summer vacation with my MD cousins frolicking in the Ocean City beach surf. And no visit to that beach would be complete without ending it with an order of Thrashers french fries. Robert, on your next visit to that area bypass the burger and beer joints and head to some local place and order up some world famous Maryland blue crabs which I who is a lifelong Rhode Islander and has very easy access to decent priced lobster prefer blue crabs over lobster hands down!!!

@sanderschaap5498 2 жыл бұрын

It was a joy to watch, robert! Many unknown place became known. Looking forward to the next adventure

@jeromethemechanic6871 2 жыл бұрын

How did you watch this two days ago? YT membership?

@exploringquests 2 жыл бұрын

Robert, Thank You so much for all of your videos! And a Special Thanks to your Riding In My RV song!!! It is the most calming and soothing song in my world right now! We get our RV sometime at the end of this year and we can’t wait to follow in your footsteps on some great adventures! We’ve been watching you for a very long time and we always look forward to your relaxing videos. Have a Great evening!

@williamirizarry2490 2 жыл бұрын

ROBERT..THESE SERIES OF YOUR FALL SEASON..HAS TO BE ONE OF YOUR BEST...THE SCENERY WAS SPECTACULAR...WE TRULY ENJOYED ALL OF THE VIDEO'S THANKS FOR YOUR HARD WORK PUTTING IT TOGETHER.. CAN'T WAIT FOR YOUR NEXT ADVENTURE.. AMIGO ..GOD BLESS.

@JeanEhler Жыл бұрын

Loved seeing where I grew up in MD and Ocean City area. Loved seeing the Outer Banks where my husband I honeymooned many moons ago. Wish you'd driven by the Ocracoke Lighthouse. Maybe next time.

@beckysonnier6369 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful video as always 😊. Thank you for taking us along.

@joycemosakowski3648 2 жыл бұрын

Good morning, Robert your videos brings peace and serenity to my soul. Thank you!

@brandonmoore482 2 жыл бұрын

We were at the OBX KOA and left the morning of Oct 25 so we just missed you! That's such a great place!

@bryangarnett8386 2 жыл бұрын

Outstanding video! My name is Bryan Garnett, I am a retired High School Teacher from NJ. Moving to PA. I have an RV on order since October that I hope to have by May. I can't wait to travel. I took notes throughout your video and I plan to visit many of the points of interest. Thank you!

@sarahhigh8676 Жыл бұрын

Great video, one of your best!!!! And that’s saying a lot because you have so many good ones.

@DARRENWALKERBIGD 2 жыл бұрын

My dad was a police officer on the Chesapeake bay Bridge tunnel for 26 years I know the officer at the toll plaza lol

@joeltackett5860 2 жыл бұрын

Always wanted to see Kitty Hawk. Family tradition holds that my maternal great-grandma went to school with the Wright brothers

@neilcarter77 2 жыл бұрын

Next vehicle, definitely get 4WD or AWD for sure! Loved this episode!!! OBX is a beautiful location; only been once, but plan to return!

@lynettem23 2 жыл бұрын

Fantastic! Loved this episode so much!

@matthewbliven2795 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome video. I got to enjoy that on two evenings. Thanks for letting me hitch along.

@Odembackrd 2 жыл бұрын

My home from eastern shore to obx grew up in this water. Love it

@vishuddhathakkar 2 жыл бұрын

What a great video, Outer banks is indeed an idyllic place. Plus the editing is superb ; so many shades of the sky and great views of the pelicans . Enjoyed it

@georgephillips1185 2 жыл бұрын

🤙 your videos are great. Probably the best out there. We enjoy watching every one

@LeslinAdventures 2 жыл бұрын

Great video The tunnel and bridges was very cool, First flight museum awesome and most importantly Fly pelican fly pelican Thanks for sharing Robert

@kertidrive365 2 жыл бұрын

That's a great video. I'm going on a drive tour with Hyundai Motor's EQ900. Someday I'd like to drive in a car like that. Thank you for watching the video. Have a nice day

@foxmx384 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent video robert, one of the best so far. The outer banks area looks incredible

@carsonclayore3167 2 жыл бұрын

This is you're best video in my opinion for sure Robert

@michaelpeters8615 2 жыл бұрын

Spectacular trip!!!😁 Absolutely one of your best videos. Totally enjoyable. So many areas you covered. Ocean City Maryland looked like it would be a great place in the summer. Love the beaches, but like you said too cold in the winter. Your a master at Sun rises and sun sets shots. Happy travels Robert😁

@LonnasTravels 2 жыл бұрын

You usually see horses at Assateague Island parks in the surf when it is hot and buggy, mostly summertime. They go in the water to get away from the bugs. Horses like to stay in areas that have grasses so they can eat with less bugs. We had a campsite in the open with grass all around us and the horses were there every day. You can also see them just before you leave or after you come on the island from the bridge. They are scattered in the wetlands there. Oh, I just saw your pictures going off the island. And the horses were where I predicted. I haven't seen them that close to the bridge or road there, but they are wild animals. I'm glad you made it to the National Seashore.

@Twobarpsi 2 жыл бұрын

That road where you got stuck in the sand, did look like the Keys!!

@davidpearson2581 5 ай бұрын

I will be staying in the Cape Hatteras KOA this April, it looks like a nice campground.

@WKINNEY 2 жыл бұрын

Good one! Thank you Robert

@derrymiller9154 2 жыл бұрын

It's been just about 2 years since I first discovered your channel during initial Covid shutdown! I've enjoyed every video since, plus some of the older ones. I'll be anxiously awaiting the 2022 season...and wearing my new Free In My RV tee shirt that I just ordered! 😁

@sandranynj7118 2 жыл бұрын

Just beautiful! Love this

@kathyhartje4143 2 жыл бұрын

The ponies were beautiful

@alrichardson7027 2 жыл бұрын

Hello Traveling Robert🎵🎵😊😊🎸🎸🍔🍔🍔, FLY PELICANS😄😄! I have been to the places along the coast all the way to Hatteras Lighthouse...and it's so beautiful! Perhaps you will return to the Outer Banks and spend more time. This was a great video Robert and I look forward to your next travel season👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍.

@JHAGUNJAN12HJPKOL 2 жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed your fall 2021 trip videos. Keep exploring this beautiful country. Love you USA.

@louisag5410 2 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful drive. Absolutely stunning videography… and those pelicans !! lol

@endlesssummer786 2 жыл бұрын

Wow!!! Really Amazing Robert 👍🏻 Awesome 😎😍😍

@SpelareTV 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for that lovely East Coast journey! I want desperately to visit Maryland & especially ocean City 😍 btw, during the last 7min, when you went into the water, with that "Freaking Hot" Shirt was a great idea 😂

@manie9689 2 жыл бұрын

Thank You 🙏🏽 always a good video. You Rock!!! “We got ourselves a Pony jam.” Lol 😂 😂

@reinnet2u 2 жыл бұрын

We love Assateague Island. We arrived to the state park side the day you departed. Hope our paths cross sometime.

@yawndave 2 жыл бұрын

Ah, Sunday morning...a cuppa joe, a toasted bagel, and a new Traveling Robert episode...yay! I hit a lot of the same spots on my 2004 road trip, watching this brings back some great memories. I got up early one morning and rode my bike all around the Kill Devil Hills site--had the place all to myself. Pretty cool to ride along that flight path in the footsteps (so to speak) of the Wright Brothers. No trip to the top of the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse? What a bummer! What's really neat is being able to look down from the top at the path from the previous location. As far as the green flash goes, I rewound a couple of times but did not see it. Maybe I need a 4k TV or something ;-) Until next time, happy trails!

@areagh13 2 жыл бұрын

OBX is heaven on Earth!

@simachakraborti8985 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely beautiful places, wonderful beaches ⛱, stunning views touch ❤ in my heart. I am speechless and spellbound. Amazing 👏 video, really enjoy this video very much, thanks.

@Just.A.T-Rex 2 жыл бұрын

Wish I knew you were coming through the outer banks. Born and raised here, would’ve had a coffee or other beverage with you one afternoon up in nags head area and shown you some hidden gems that us locals enjoy that tourists rarely discover. Hope your trip over the new bridge was a good one. Liked and subscribed!

@elenawaltermusic 2 жыл бұрын

Hi, we go to outer banks in 2 weeks for vacation, what would be your best advice?