I just love the fact that it's most likely *not* a love triangle, as an actual love triangle needs to involve a queer person, its just a love arrow 🤣

It’s so simple, just don’t cheat And if you are going to then hide it better 😂

nope...youve overthought that. it just means three people.

​@@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic not everything needs to involve a queer person 🙄

@@TheJcris87 You do realise to make a love triangle, each person has to love someone different? Ones a man who likes a woman, another's a woman who likes another man, and the 3rd man needs to like the 1st man otherwise it's *a literal arrow not a triangle* all corners need to be connected. Did you not attend any of your math classes? I'm guessing most definitely not bc you'd know what a triangle looks like. I've never seen anyone post a comment and look dumber than a 3yo, bc fun fact, pigs who get given those toddler shape toys know what shapes are, and they have the iq of a 3 yo. 🤣🤣

I don’t understand why people absolutely refuse to believe it when someone shows them who they really are. This guy was a d-bag of the highest caliber, and he willingly made this known from day one, so why the hell was she so determined to chase after this walking waste of protoplasm?

@@unicornglitterfart5201 I'm still trying to figure that part out myself. There is not that much misery or drama I want to be a part of that may cause my death.

@@unicornglitterfart5201 100% agree. Yes he's a thirsty desperate fk but I'm also holding her accountable. Not only is he shitty but he's also taken. I personally cannot stand people that pursue people with spouses. You can admire and desire them but don't act on it like she did. Willingly being ok with a side chick booty call while using her pregnancy as a way to manipulate him to replace his other girl with her is just absolute evil.

I agree with you 💯. It’s sad what happened to her and the baby but she needs to be held accountable as well.

Are you victim shaming

Hello how are you doing today?

@@johnbright4619 I'm doing good, how are you?

@@johnbright4619hey pops,me & my family are going thru some hard times you mind helping us out cashapp $drellonthetrack

I agree 👍 we're living in L D

You can say that again. My ex was cheating to the extend of telling his lovers that his wife passed away. With such a lie. How far can a person go

Never stand behind a flatulent pig who watches porn either. You never know what’s going to come out of there so you best stand somewhere else.

People cheat all the time, it is part of life. But, most people do not kill their partners who are pregnant - for the second time, mind you - just because they don't want to perform an abortion. This is the act of a vain and empty man, one that doesn't care about the women in his life, he only cares about himself. Let's see how he fares in prison. I hope he goes through hell.

Just keep being shocked by it and pretending it’s weird to be single.

This isn’t even cheating this is a whole open relationship which is trouble

Agree, we need to think what the child's needs will be and choosing a cheating scum bag as a father was not a good choice to make, especially when it was clear he didn't want to be with her permanently. Very sad.

You hit the nail on the head.

well said

Agreed

Tell me more about your pregnancy.

I was wondering the same. The family has endured so much loss.

Wondering the same thing

Hope she is ok but I fear she is not. Maybe she found a good man? Hope so!

She's doing much better

As a woman from South Africa, we thank you so much for telling her story.

I see what you tried to do there, but she wasn't tricked. She clearly was trying to trap him and secure financial support long term.

Thanks for spoiling the video

Two children died.

@@gunsmokegaloreyt6840 Maybe don’t read the comments first 🤗

Why would you read the comments if you don’t want to read peoples comments about the case? What information were you expecting to obtain from the comments when you read them before watching the video? Annoying asf!

​@GunsmokeGaloreYT Spoilers? This is a real story about real people who died, don't treat it like the latest fictional mystery novel

Same 🤔🤨

It certainly wasn't because he was so good looking.

@@Josie2013 They knew each other for a long time, that could have been the reason why, liking him for his personality as they went way back? And he was rich no? That might been in play too. Sadly staying with the guy got her killed and no one deserves that nor should anyone ever expecting that to be the outcome. The guy is filth and should rot away in a shitty jail.

@@Jorendo no victim shaming on this end. He needs to rot away for sure...

We have no idea what is going on in the background there. There could have been abuse, there could have been self esteem issues, his lifestyle/money or a billion other things. But anything we say is pure speculation and doesn't really make a difference. I mean, why was the other woman staying with a guy that cheated on her a million times? This guy must have had some way to get these women to be involved with him and keep them there. At the end of the day, he wasn't a man and couldn't take responsibility for his actions, so he chose to be less than a human being as well and murder his GF. He's gross AF and that other woman is probably counting her lucky stars.

He might have the Soft life in prison but he is not free 🤷🏽‍♀️

Yoh… 💔

​@@marthamoretlo5159same. Prisoners here do tiktoks to show what prison life is like

He said he was well off

How does he know they don't spit in the Nandos food

Riddles

Why just woman and children men are victims of domestic violence and GBH and men are killed everyday too stop making it a one gender issue

Agree!

"Femicide" 😂😂 just call it murder. Legit doesn't even get auto-filled and it gets underlined in red. Shit's not a word.

i don't think he gives a shit about the Lord

Black men being black men

Thabo Bester case will need it's own series cause that case is complex and very wild😬

Praying he covers the Reeva Steenkamp case in particular

You're still white

I'm still trying to get my head around the Bester case. I learn something new about it everyday.

Also Aka (Mr forbs) case

Crazy, isn't it? But you wrong on the "handle" thing, especially that's a lot of women's favorite word these days. Nobody should "handle" a HUMAN BEING. An adult. Not luggage an airport. Not an animal. Not paperwork in office. But yeah, I hear ya. Regardless, this young lady didn't deserve to die . RIP 🙏🙏

@@aaronjackson1493there’s more than one definition of “handle” - this one used in the sense that the man couldn’t handle himself, his own emotions, etc any longer.

Yep, definitely trying to trap him and/or secure long term financial support

Why would it matter to you?

Yes thank you for this

@@funkdunkwhat’s your name?

​@funk dunk it matters to the victims, its respectful (: Linda is thanking him for that

@@L-Bee.. why would it matter to her ...

Stop trying to label all men that like a little extra as murderers. You're grouping is all in with this story and that's not near correct. Also, some broads like to be side pieces. So that would be "their own terms" I love me a side piece!!

What are you talking about? She was actively fkn a married person. She WAS a douchebag and BOTH of them should have gotten the same fate

Hypergamy is real😂

Im a South African woman, this scared me into staying single.

@@nicoleharrington9086 you don't have to be lonely, just be sure and do your homework on whoever you date and make sure he treats you with the respect you deserve.

Yeah he did such an outstanding job on the names that strangely, I rewinded that part 3x just to hear how classy he enunciated their names.

Yes I love that he respects that. Adrian always says their names so Beautifully❤

he calls Mac, m-a-c, and butchers american English and Chinese.

Also as a South African, It's actually scary and degrading to be part of this country.

It was a shock to me when I heard about it.

​@@gertruidatheunissen4384 I so agree with you.

@@gertruidatheunissen4384 degrading? Miam you’re grandfather father done horrible things call the country horrible named now you saying it’s degrading to be part of this country is u re native England any better? Too many of y’all are far right followers living in Africa! What’s degrading is y’all living in Africa with all blood money and keeping all far right politics and Ben Sherpo extremist! Next time don’t talk about someone native continent knowing damn well how you got there!

I'm genuinely curious, why are South African men so violent and scary?

I don't know enough about South African culture to know if they knew how to use birth control, or if they knew how to use it properly. In certain areas of the United States, sex ed is severely lacking and pushes the "abstinence-only" culture. People will probably have sex anyway. Maybe it's similar in South Africa. I'm not sure. If anyone from South Africa could shed some light on their sex ed situation, I'd appreciate it.

@lunabuna South Africa has free birth control at all public clinics, from pills to the IUD. Our "middle schools" don't teach abstinence only or anything like that. It's not ignorance its a choice. Even abortions are absolutely free.

@@linahmaphosa971 Thanks for your input! I wasn't sure.

Agreed

Especially with the virus at such a high rate in SA, young people need to make better choices.

😢😢 Jesus my Lord nd my God😢😢

Right?! I think we have to consider the cultural element of gender based violence and the rivalry between the two women as well. This was a train wreck in the making. The victim is not to blame in any way, but the danger had to be at least somewhat present in her awareness. I think she trusted a monster like so many young women do. (🙋🏾‍♀️ I’m guilty present and accounted for so that’s not a judgement because I completely understand why she behaved the way she did) I think she believed that he wasn’t capable of such callous behavior, but the thing that I have learned from lived experience is that if you want to be left alone, you also have to leave the other person alone. I don’t believe she would have allowed him to be the deadbeat he wanted to be in peace. We want justice for our children, that’s reasonable, but we have to accept the ugliness of people when we see it and that’s especially difficult when you’re about to give birth to the ugly person’s offspring. Not making an excuse for what he did, he and others like him deserve to be punished and isolated from the rest of the world for what they’ve done, but I think if he thought she would be a quiet sufferer, he would have left her and the baby to fend for themselves, but knowing that she had no intention of allowing him to live down his behavior and responsibilities, he took the violent way out (which in context is not surprising). So unfortunate and disgusting that people are capable of such psychopathic behavior. It’s a hideous reality that women must take into account when in relationship. 😢RIP to Tshegofatso and her precious unborn baby and I pray justice and wisdom for everyone affected. 🫶🏾

Unfortunately we live in a violent country where monsters posing as men believe they have the right to women's lives

@@voodoochile4147 everything you said is so true

We hold on to love. It takes awhile to understand REAL LOVE . Most women think love is a man giving you attention smh

As Voodoochile mentioned you do have to take into consideration the cultural element of GBV and abusers. In many ways the perpetrators of these crimes gain some sense of power, control and satisfaction from the way they treat their victims. I doubt he would have ever walked away. By either him walking away or her walking away he would lose that control and power over her which may have led to the possibility of him escalating due to the anger and frustration that he would have of losing that power and control over her. Yes there might have been a possibility in that scenario as well where he would have left her alone but unfortunately I think that was very unlikely. This was, as Voodoochile said, a train wreck waiting to happen, or as I would put it, a powder keg ready to explode.

I don't understand why on earth would the victim's uncle be a defense lawyer for that monster I'm guessing he had to be a public defender or something. If that were me, I would have withdrawn as a defense lawyer immediately

Sending love and strength!! It is not ok and believe me, that other parts of the world are standing with you.

​​@@ladynikkie well I understand what you're saying, as a lawyer myself I am sure there are cases I wouldn't wanna take. However, if you are practising as an Advocate for instance you cannot turn away a brief with no valid reason. I am not sure though if her uncle was and Advocate or a Practising Attorney as different rules apply.

@@katroamleft4721 Thank you❤️

I am also from South Africa and followed this case in the news. So sad. RiP Tshegofatso 🇿🇦

I couldn't understand how he can feel like a celebrity infront of cameras, I'm glad this guy is locked up for life he actually belongs there. And should rot there too. Sad case and a waste of two beautiful lives.

I was very shocked at that, but then again, it's not that surprising if someone is able to commit the type of crime he did and be in that type of state. It's like he's enjoying the attention..Do you have trouble sleeping by the way? I clicked on your profile and saw a bunch of hypnosis and sleep-based recordings..

I thought I was seeing my own things! Monster is an understatement 😢😢

@@titilayomajiyagbe3088 money!

Keep on the good fight, my lady. Please remember to remind the women to learn how behave around men as well. It goes both ways.

The victim tried to trick him into leaving the woman that he loved for her. It happens all the time. Men need to be so careful of these women. Today she is dead for the bad choices that she made and today he is in jail, where he belongs, for the bad choices that he made. No one wins

Play stupid games win stupid prizes.

Really? She forced him to have sex with her? He is a shit. Period. He used both of these women.

@@funkdunkfound the incel

@@ayemad you?

🙄

I'm really sorry that happened.❤ Tho there are men who can carry children, I do agree with the rest. GBV has to stop.

I have the same sentiments he could have been a dead beat and marry Rosette in peace! I hope she is resting too with her little girl

She also could have learned her lesson the first time when they got an abortion but she went back to the same ridiculous situation which ended up costing her her life

@@MarcusM334 Y'all got that right. Apparently she said "I didn't choose to get pregnant twice" or something like that. Really? She made that choice... and it ended up costing her life.

​@@MarcusM334 100%

Perhaps the emotional blackmail .... she really must have loved him ....not for his good look though! That poor poor poor baby and her mother 😢

What do you think is the reason for it? Thanks and greetings from Germany 🤗

Please let us know where to find the song!

What's the name of the song and the artist

If im right then her friend must be Lloyiso, the song is called Madoda Sabelani. The name maybe in a video. There were a lot of women who experienced GBV and died cause of it. But it may not be it😢

@@noziphononhlanhla6523 it’s Sixoleleni by S’nazo

🎯🎯

I agree. What that man did was truly horrible but she also contributed to her own demise by choosing to be in such toxic situations

​@The Nuetrix and he could've chosen to be a deadbeat and walk away but he chose to kill her.

I legit had to repeat that part of the video cuz it made no sense to me at first. Why would any girl wanna be with a guy who considers her a mere sex toy all while she knows that he has a partner he is serious about, lives together with and plans for a future together with??? I can't help it but think that the 2nd pregnancy was on purpose especially that she waited months before telling him

She tried to trick him into leaving the woman that he loved.

Yeah people always blame the mistress/side chick when it takes two to tango. I don't know when they will start pointing fingers at the men who want to have extra marital affairs and prey on vulnerable women who are desperate for money and marriage.

They should have been charged with double murder as the unborn baby was old enough to survive at the time of the poor victims murder!🦘🇦🇺😡😰

@@Tee-ladypeople blame both, it’s just really trashy to say “I’ll wait until it’s too late for an abortion”

Not its just misogynistic

​@@monsieurcharcutier4490 Because some groups are more targeted

As a South African, it's a real issue and it gets really bad. It stems from historical roles which are much worse in rural Africa. To make it worse there is little to no police response in rural area's. Let's just say it's like red neck, deep south, republican area. With less cops

​@David Beeming except deep south republican isn't a thing in America either. Movies maybe. South Africa is one of the best example of race based violence in the world. All the bs u see on CNN about black people being in danger in America is garbage, but whites in sa actually are in danger from the rasict attacks. A wife beating fentenyl addict odds in America and we platform an entire race and pretend like their special... take ur lies somewhere else

It’s a problem across the world sadly 😢

No you're completely right. Women really have to be smarter out here. Of course, the guy is definitely an a-hole. But, I honestly cannot put the full blame of him alone.

Birth control!! Or make him use a condom!! Sigh

​@@y2m3e.45 Yes, you absolutely can put the full blame on the person that chose to murder another person/have them murdered. Lots of us pick the wrong mate at least once in life- no one should ever die because of that and if they do, no it isn't their fault. At all.

@@mommy2libras I understand what you’re saying but come on. I give her the first pregnancy because guys lie. But, then she continued to mess around with this simp, knowing he had a fiancé, and gets pregnant AGAIN! This situation is like someone jumping into a lions den. Did she deserve to die… absolutely not. But, she inserted herself into a very dangerous situation.

@@tiptriptravel She did insert herself into a dangerous situation but dude should have just walked away from her and the baby instead of murdering them. No excuse for this sick pos.

Covering horrible African crimes would take all time for the rest of time.

@@-.-Monster Africa’s an entire continent of 1.2 billion, so yeah it would take a lot of time to cover crimes of that big a population

@@SinaAla weird how China has so much less crime with such a similar population

@@-.-Monster the USA alone has more crimes than all africa combined you id*ot

@@-.-Monsterthat has more to do with crime not being published by the Chinese Communist Party, mainly because their party members are committing it

👍 Unless the root of the issue is addressed, nothing will change - low self-worth.

This also applies to her, she's the one who had the abortion.

​@@GregDeman Go sit down.

@@VioletJoy Millions of people have low self worth and don't go on to harm anyone, that's just an excuse. It's also part of most people's personality as life throws many challenges our way. There isn't a magic wand (including therapy) to wave that will prevent all low self worth.

@sam johns I'll clarify some things. Not only did I not claim that therapy will prevent all issues of low self-worth, but I also don't believe that to be the case. It can, however, help people in many ways and, in turn, lower the numbers of these violent crimes. That's going to the root of the problem. To point out that most who have low self-worth don't go onto murder is misunderstanding the point. Humans are complex creatures, so all don't react the exact same way to similar circumstances. It's a known fact that not all children who experienced abuse growing up will go on to abuse their own children. But, nearly every parent who abuses their child was abused themself.

Hard truth. I don’t think I’ll ever love someone enough to kill over them

That's why I don't date, one of the many reasons that is

@@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic I wanna agree with you but it might also be cuz I’m awkward af 😂

​@tom bo Lmfaooo, I don't even get any form of attraction to anyone so I'm vibing 🤣🤣

people who do stuff like this aren't exactly normal thinkers

I absolutely agree

Except for the MAC store! Lol 😉

3426,73 Euro.. 2 average monthly salaries. I'm so shocked. I'm so sad.

Don't thank him, thank Adrian considering he put the effort in 🤣

For sure, he is a dude

He's not feeding that cat though

​@@clivebaxter6354 Wdum?

if you mean *Wdym? crazy cat lady

Don't say you feel bad for the family if you blame this victim wholly. That's a slap in the face of them all.

I believe that some women don’t have or should I say lack the confidence in being by their selfs. I had a high school friend that never seemed to be without a bf. When we got older she was always engaged so someone if felt like. Me, I’m the opposite. I had my share of bf but I also made sure that they understood that I wasn’t going to take any crap from them like screwing around behind my back or a major one DO NOT EVER HIT ME! I don’t care if it was a slight push I was outta that relationship faster than they could “think” to even do it again. Women need to stand up for themselves & not date some dude just because you “want” a bf, you’ll thank yourself in the long run & it may even SAVE YOUR LIFE!! 🇺🇸✌🏻

For a moment it sounded like you were victim blaming which would have been repulsive, disgusting n just plain vile. After all this POS could have just walked away & left her to raise her baby alone like hundreds of thousands do worldwide everyday.. but nah he had to have them both murdered. Not once in your comment have you lay the blame where it belongs, never once called him out, it's all on the victim. She made the mistake of loving this monster but that's all she's guilty of, can't say the same about him.

Never read a psychology book? Things are always more complex than what they seem

@@sharongrigg5336 unfortunately you are wrong. When someone pulls a gun on you and shoots you, are you responsible for having that trigger pulled? No. It will always be the killer's fault. I can talk from personal experience as a victim of abuse myself that it is never that easy to just walk away from your abuser. I was physically, emotionally and psychologically abused by my father and stepmother for most of my life. And yet I kept running back to them because I was kept away from my biological mother by them. They told me it was because she did not want me and in my mind my reasons for constantly running back to my father and stepmother only to suffer at their hands is because I felt like I had nobody else to turn to. Eventually, after managing to reconnect with my mother and learning that she had tried for all those years that my father and stepmother had told me that she didn't want me that she had constantly tried to reach out to see me but because of my father and stepmother's controlling nature I did not see her or speak to her till I was an adult. Even after that I still ran back to my father and stepmother even after they physically attacked me and I thought my life was in danger. It was only after my father physically assaulted me last month that I finally made the decision to cut him and my stepmother out of my life completely. I am even opening up a case against my father for the assault. But it took most of my childhood and my entire adult life to actually get to that point where I walk away. It really isn't as easy as it sounds and that is something you really should have taken into account when writing this comment.

@@sharongrigg5336 my previous reply was not for you. It was for the original comment. My bad.

Woah, the hard lockdown part actually seems super relevant for this one. What was it like? Were there restrictions on work and travel or a curfew? We never had serious lockdowns where I live

💔💔

I feel most bad for the baby girl who never got a chance due to her immensely irresponsible parents

If she wasn't murdered she'd still be alive! No matter the circumstances, no one deserves to die like that!

He continued having sex with her as well. If he did not want her to become pregnant, he shouldn't have done that.

@@TawnyC_ he wasn’t the one complaining about not having a choice, they both had a choice but she acted like she didn’t. You missed my point and you probably think I’m blaming the victim, but I’m just saying everyone’s actions have consequences. Considering she lost her life, you can say she had more to lose than him, so the decision to stay with the other person or not was way more important of a decision for her than it would be for the loser boyfriend that had her killed. You need to know when to remove yourself from a toxic relationship. This is coming from someone who has been physically abused in a relationship by a woman before so I know what it’s like to make this tough decision that I think she should have made herself.

@@SqueaksUofA What difference does it make if she "complained about having a choice"? No one would know that if they didn't read the Whatsapp messages. Who knows if she really meant it? He had the choice to be faithful to his girlfriend. He chose not to. Who knows what he was verbally telling either one of them? Most likely he was lying to his gf that he wasn't seeing Tshego; most likely he was leading Tshego on. Shoba *did* send her money to go to the doctor. He *did* promise to tell his family about the baby. He probably enjoyed being in the middle of a triangle, getting all this attention. It got to the point he did not want to chance things with his rich fiancée who was coming into some money. So Tshego had to go. Yes, you do sound as if you are victim blaming. Now if he had said "if you get pregnant again, I will murder you" and she got pregnant again and chose to stay with him, then yes, her being murdered could considered to be a consequence of that choice. Otherwise NO. She had no idea he would murder her. He sent an Uber to bring her to his place so they could make a list of baby items they needed to buy! I heard nothing about him physically abusing her. Please provide the time stamp.

​@@TawnyC_ The point is, I repeat, the point is she had a choice with who she sleeps with. Playing powerless and a victim doesn't excuse what he did, but this girl lacked any accountability for her role in her pregnancy.

@@adrian100 She's having a baby, how is that not taking accountability for her pregnancy?

Men are also victims of violent crime in SA, stop spreading the misinformation

@@funkdunk In what way is this misinformation?? 😆 She's even mentioning a violent crime against a man in this same comment.

Because she used plural for women and children and just highlighted one man, thsts why its misinformation. If it weren't for men there wouldn't be a country.

@@funkdunk I mentioned crimes against women and children because the video is LITERALLY talking about a crime against a woman and her unborn child which is a much more common occurrence in SA than ever before, just yesterday news broke about a 5 and 6 year old who were killed and mutilated (body parts taken), also happening more often. I mentioned AKA because it's the latest high profile case in SA which is still unsolved. And the fact that you're complaining about me only talking about woman and children after in the same comment I talk about a man who's been killed in SA makes no sense to me. Anyway if you have more cases about men, feel free to mention them no one is stopping you bro.

@@dr3dg352 I'm also confused🤔

Yeah that one is hella wild.. but probably wont get a video on that one anytime soon cuz the case hasnt even concluded yet

He could do a video about Bester every day for the next two years and never get near the truth imo. In my 67 years I've never heard of anything like this.

Ooooooo, I might need to do a quick Google search

​@@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic Goodluck lmao

@@Kier4n99 Oh I shall enjoy, I had to write up about the hello kitty murder for crim classes 2 years ago and my passion for crime and learning about it has not decreased since passing it

They wont understand sadly

Right, like he clearly did not care for her or his wife, now she’s dead. The only thing women should do when they encounter men like him is run.

so she deserved to die?

​@@DiligentThroat No one said that. The answer you're looking for is obvious... She didn't deserve to die. OP's advice is meant for women and men who are still alive. Let's do our best to avoid being in such a messy situation.

@@DiligentThroat 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Hello how are you doing today

hello have you had of bitcoin investment when you can get up to 5 times of what’s ever amount you invested in just 24 hours.

....she go fatso? Really?

​@@GaleBuer Kinda racist to dump on African names.

Lmfao he deleted his comment 🤣🤣

@@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic Comment is still there. Must be hidden. I was wondering where my comment went. Didn't mean to post it as a reply.