The Pandemic of Divorce | Khutbah by Ustadh Umar Muqaddam

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0:00 Introduction
0:37 Context
1:28 Men vs Women
2:15 Equality vs Justice
5:05 Islam & Divorce
7:37 The elephant in the room!
11:09 Statistics & History
14:50 'Loveless' marriage fallacy
17:29 The Pursuit of Happiness fallacy
18:35 4 societal destroyers of marriage
18:50 1) Influx of feminism
20:52 2) Social media & comparisons
22:25 3) Selfishness & Individualism
23:40 4) Weak mentality
25:35 5 points to raise children for successful marriages
30:10 Salah

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@bibikarim1506 27 күн бұрын

My brother in Deen, thank you for sharing what Allah has blessed you with, this knowledge is what the Ummah is in desperate need of…… may Allah unite the Ummah and forgive us our shortcomings. May Allah enter us into the Eternal Paradise, Ameen Allahuma Ameen.!!!!!🤲♥️🕋

@AbutaymiyyahMJ 27 күн бұрын

May Allah bless u Ustaz Umar

@soumailasesay 27 күн бұрын

Ameen

@JohnDoe-ji6ye 16 күн бұрын

We would like you ustad to address this issue as well. This feminism spreads into our houses and mosques and imams and administration adopts this feminism and proudly speak about it.

@filippodrammeh3903 22 күн бұрын

Masha Allah ❤️ ❤️

@medwho959 16 күн бұрын

Eye opener lecture!! May Allah reward you abundantly.

@AdoraFabro-rl4uk 21 күн бұрын

Beautiful kutbah thank you sheik Allah keep you safe ameen

@jeenadjo1238 26 күн бұрын

I hate divorce! I hate it with all my heart. I grew with a divorced mother. My mom did her best but it was hard growing up without a father. My father was absudive, alcoholic and a cheater. I grew up not knowing what it means to have a man in your life or how to treat a man. I actually grew up fearing men and having a negative outlook on them. The default was to become too socially aware from an an early age, too independent, mistrustful of people and pretty much a loner. I'm still single at the age of 32 and I fear settling down and getting married. This is the result of broken families and absuive parents.

@shirleyasraf64 25 күн бұрын

Salaam alaikoem Don't be afraid to get married. My parents divorced after 25 years of mariage. I am married now for 40 years. In mariage you always learn to give and take. Every day. Because you have gone through the divorce of your parents does not mean that your distany is the same. Your heart is now close to meat a partner, just close your eyes and open it , let your heart speek and open your self for the rigth partner. May Allah SubhanW Ta'ala opens many beautifull doors for you in your life. Assalaam-alaikoem ❤❤❤

@addisachannel169 25 күн бұрын

thank for sharing his is blaming women but now how men abusive to women

@JohnDoe-ji6ye 16 күн бұрын

It leaves a mess in your head and creates more complications. I agree with you. Especially if the mother decides to marry again.

@DawaKalsumMulayi-ni8tl 26 күн бұрын

May Allah bless you brother in this Dunia and the akhira.

@fatimamohammed9295 26 күн бұрын

Great opportunity to mash the brakes! Save your marriage! Step back and stepback. This kutbah is remarkable! While a gen0cide is occuring of peoples in the world, another is occuring - death of marriage, families, May Allah continue to inspire brother to advise us aameen.

@majestic6303 27 күн бұрын

I predicted that during COVID pandemic marriages will be tested and I swear so many been broken.

@mohamadrilaf707 26 күн бұрын

In the name of almighty l love to listen to your khuthbah my Bro, may Allah bless you more Knowledge. Alhamdulillah, my son also conducting jum ah sermon in our country language language sinhala,

@emranuddin3687 26 күн бұрын

Very good khutbah

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

The Quran mention this is a guidance for those who fear Allah ( Trangression ,)against the laws sent to Humanity)and believe in the Books sent before The Torah the Injeel and the last revealation to all of Humanity

@naturallyaishaj 26 күн бұрын

Do you realize the main difference of why women chose to stay in horrible marriages in the past was because women couldn't support themselves. Now, women can support themselves. So are you saying that the statistics only show women are leaving for happiness only or now women can afford to leave and couldn't in the 70s

@starsighting7167 25 күн бұрын

the divorce statistics are still way to high. The more divorce increases in a community it breaks down society as a whole with broken families. Its a sign we have to make healtheir choices and not rush into marriage. Divorce is for extreme cases and the last option

@addisachannel169 25 күн бұрын

it's men fault not women stop manipulating women be grow men this it doesn't fixe anything women suffer for the c century know now they can move on because if they are independent

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

Knowledge of Islam back , or a Mercy given from those who forefathers was bont warned

@allykhan8594 25 күн бұрын

Since the State law and not the Shara law is enforce, i would encourage marry nikkah only. The kufr system, the deciever system is taking over. Those who are too attach to the dunya yoiur eyes can see how they ehave.

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

Clear , read sacrifice our behaviors from world veiw,taught behavior and Parents tribe or learnt behavior,

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

A S A so far none can deny what he has said

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

You can under stand the wisdom how Allah dealt with those before the Aadd Thamud. Nuh Pharoes, a duty for man S-2: S-3_.Men took the devine worship S-72-

@jocelynburrell445 25 күн бұрын

Even pre-marriagr a greeme t based on The Quran Contract