Married at 22, husband is 6 years older, three children, celebrating 32 years of marriage next week!

I too married at 22 and my husband was 30. We have been happily married for 46 years! I also had finished University and had a well established career when we got married. We have 3 children and 4 grandchildren. It is a wonderful full life 😊

Loneliness and depression is what you get when you sleep around

Im glad Peterson clarified on men are NOT designed like that. I absolutely despise that description and find it an absolute insult to masculinity, men and God’s design making men out to be animals that is women tame. How do you justify that and then claim men are supposedly leaders, logical, rational and moral. But yes immature men act like this because there’s a difference in having a higher sex drive vs being designed to be an immoral animal ‘sowing his seed’.

I don't know why.....but I really wanted to see this 2 humans talking to each other!! This is gold for everyone obvy.. but more for younger generations....in my opinion!!

Got married at 23, husband is same age. We've been married 10yrs & counting.

The girl dad we all needed. ❤

Jordan is my father figure

He's right.. I've met a guy exactly like this and he would always go call his mom and his mother would be okay with his behavior. He had a high body count at 19, Muslim, was manipulative, narcissistic (always taking selfies), lied/ told me half-truths without telling the full truth. Just look at Ali Abulaban. It's true and I wish I knew better but I had to learn on my own and now I do my best to avoid these types of people.

I got married at 23, though sadly divorced 9yrs later, but marrying in my young protected me so much from heartbreak, promiscuity, emotional trauma & recklessness. Which for women has horrible effects.

daaamnn , being 22 y/o a keep a deep conversation with Mr.Peterson is impressive. I am 36 and I would be afraid of dealing with that kind of responsability 😅 Good Job Lady!!

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

I am female and my completely honest answer to Jordan's question "why not promiscuity and one night stands" would be; Both of that is very attractive to me. Feeling adrenaline in veins, pumping up my ego seeing that I am attractive to males, enjoying the privilege of paid dinners, gifts... It is all attractive like sugar to me. But, I know the price of it. I know the almost inevitable consequences of that kind of living...and that's not what I want. That's not the price I am ready and willing to pay. My peace, my stability, my future, my moment in Space have higher value to me than several years of living on clouds of generally dangerous hedonistic illusions.

This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

I love this collaboration!!! Amazing!

I always thought it was so stupid when kids in school, like Elementary school, would say they were dating. My mind was so black and white and to me, the only point of dating someone was to get married and who was going to date all throughout school?! I know that it used to happen but in this day and age, it is clearly rare. I never dated some guy just because I wanted to have fun. I would date him because I thought I would maybe be able to have a future with him one day. Or at least I was testing it to see if they were someone id want to marry

Singleness is a gift to give your undivided devotion to Jesus. Know your worth in Christ and refuse to settle for anything less than G0Ds best. Be with someone who is going to lead you in clarity, purity, closer to Christ and the calling HE has for you. G0D calls us to date in purity and in a way that we’re loving each other as Christ loves the Church and us.

This is like good news for women who tried their best to stay away from such short-term relationships. I also believe that a mature masculine man will not want to indulge in such life

Her husband is a truly blessed man. A woman can either build a man to his full potential or destroy him, she she will make him whole. Jordan is such a brilliant man…

Brilliant and spot on as always

“Let’s talk about The most troublesome possible thing… so that would be women” -Jordan Peterson 2024

When my mom left my dad for another man, my husband and I went in for marriage counseling for ourselves, simply because we wanted to be sure the same thing didn't happen to us. Commitment is a decision we make every day! Also I highly recommend counseling, even if there are no issues. It was amazing and super helpful for making our relationship stronger.

I absolutely adore Brett and Jordan! This was fantastic!❤

Thanks

Awesome, congratulations!!! ❤❤🎉🎉

I would be quite terrified having a discussion with Peterson. But it must be so much I can learn from . It must be amazing to be in a group of people who aren’t afraid to share knowledge and have meaningful discussions. Clearly difficult ones and exhausting. But being with people is exhausting anyway. Learning something while socialising gives it a sense though.

Man what a great talk show wish the video was longer. Really enjoyed that

She's certainly a statistical anomaly compared to the peers of her generation and clearly wise beyond her years. The women who do opt for the Sex & the City route in their 20s will typically find out that their baggage will come back to bite them once they realize the time for finding a lifelong mate is running thin. Feminism has sold cohorts of young women the pernicious lie of prioritizing career above family, and many will only recognize that when it's too late.

Love Brett and it's cool seeing her in a different environment.

God bless you, for try to reasoning and brainstorming for us...stay blessed.

Love this dialogue!

Nice to watch these two have a conversation.

Loved this!

ngl the first time I'm a little upset it was JP that kept interrupting his guest (and not the other way around like usual)... She was taking time to create a good answer but once she starts speaking JP asks another question lol

I have a bro-in-law who spent his 20's sleeping with different girls every night. When I went to the bars & clubs with him, I was so impressed how easily he picked up gorgeous girls. Now in his 50's, he's jobless, not in very good health, and still lives at home with his parents. I'm really glad I stuck with my guns of pursuing LTR'S.

I just love the way JP presses with questions. Brett is classy as always.

I agree with JP's view of mature and responsible men. I am 60, married for 35 years and don't mess around with women. We have 2 daughters and they both married similarly serious men.

Great video

The thing you need to realize is that, whatever you want to call it, we have an "aura" and an energy imprinted on our bodies.. and partnering with someone is one of the deepest most intimate way two souls can connect. Thus by not being selective with who you choose to be intimate with, or being shallow on evaluating that based on physical appearance alone, you are at risk of tangling your own energy with someone else's energies. We refer to sexuality as "purity" vs. "impurity" for a good linguistic reason.

Two great minds right there

This is one of the best vid's from Jordan I've seen, having a serious talk with Brett on male and female issues. Brett tends to say things on her channel that is a bit uninformed, and it would be so cool (not possible I know) if Jordan could step in on respond to Brett's remarks on occasion, and test her thinking on some things, it would be so awesome.

Love the jacket, professor ❤

What an interesting conversation. Love that this lady is so mature in her decision. Though I am 22, I desire similar things. Sort term relationships will hurt any human being

This is not your average 22 year old

Have been conducting my life with integrity, virtue and honesty. Life still has turned out dreadful. Alignment doesnt always work for some people. I dont think dating is a swamp, per say. I think its a mountain of shards of broken glass. Broken people creating more broken people.

Brett's views and intelligence never fails to impress me, shes certainly not your average 22 year old these days. Its no wonder she was drawn to a male who happened to be 8 years older and more mature then those of an age similar to herself. I certainly hope for the best for her in life.

Wow what a Start into a video.

As somebody who struggles with that they are both right. I'm lonely and becoming depreesed.

Honestly I know people lonely in long term relationships as well and that's why divorce is so high.

This is a good clip. I don't remember it from the full episode.

Very interesting discussion/interview made me think, but some parts i'm having trouble understanding fully.

Yeah ....

I'm 56, single, and a faithful, practicing Catholic. I'm trying to find a man of similar mind. There are a lot of game players out there and I want to date to marry. Praying.

Brett has such patience!

4:16 out of context Jordan: "Diversity?" Brett: "No."

I have always had this desire and still do. You keep yourself pure and only date to marry however, in my life it doesnt lead to marriage. You open and tell men that these are your conditions and what you want. 6mts - 1 year you find out that the character and values are not aligned. Then you have to start all over again. For those who met there true partners on the first try congratulations but its not everyone's reality

Jordan peterson teaching by example all the time. I have never seen someone who embodies valour and integrity so clearly.

Short term vs Sleeping around. People have dated for 6 months or less, which is different from sleeping around. Fabulous conversation! I learned a lot from casually dating about myself: social awkwardness, a lack of social cue and body language, how to converse, etc. etc. Henry Cloud wrote a fantastic book on it. Found my husband at age 28, and we’re around the same age as well. Very happy. Marriage is indeed the best foundation for family and stability. I hope anyone who struggles with their internal loneliness finds a path to companionship, be it a friendship or relationship. Longterm companionship leads to stability and safety, and is able to nourish it. I hope everyone can heal their wounds, whether self-decided or externally decided. JP is spot on culturally and based in the maturity level of males vs females when it comes to mating strategies. It’s better in the longrun to be monogamous in a relationship to assure the child is yours. Whereas if you’re promiscuous you’re at a higher risk of illegitimate kids you don’t have access to or being hooked on child support whilst possibly not even being the father of the child. Like attracts Like.

Married at 20, my husband (reformed criminal mindset, etc) 36. 31 years and 4 children later. One child a pastor (wife), one successful in the Navy, 2 well-behaved (special-needs) at home. .. No grandchildren yet. 😢 ♥️♥️♥️ God is good. .. I have no interest in playing the field, and my husband got that over with to a point of loneliness when he was younger.

I was actually discussing polygamy with a very close group of friends, and 2 of them were really thinking into applying that to their own lives and were kinda "preaching" the concept of not being locked in a relationship, and this video really paints my idea as well, believe that always searching for that sexual arousal and feeling with multiple different people leads to more instability and less control of our emotions, than finding a companion that you can share and spend your life with. I'm not saying it should be forever, as nowadays I find it more hard to find that partner after getting out of a 9 year relationship, but I truly believe we find solace and comfort when we get to share that with just one person. And I don't see anything wrong with only wanting to do that with 1 person only.

We are blessed to have such people in this generation !! Wow just an incredible discussion !

So true.

If only I had , had the access that young people do , to be able to learn from this great man !

Jordan doesnt let her finish

got some new words already by only seeing Perterson talking for 8 and half minutes: Hedonic immediate gratification. 🤯🤯

Me and my fiance are the same age......first one actually my age usually dated younger women but I love my fiance alot

Wow, I was able to be among a 100 people in the same room with Jordan. We were allowed to ask him questions. I am 43 years old. I was just happy to be in that room, and petrified that id be called upon. I see Brett, and she is so poised, and brilliant. Such a brilliant young woman. I never got called on, and i am still ok with it. I was just happy to be in the room, and the opportunity to raise my hand. God Bless, what a community this is.

I’m so glad her mom is moving down to help out

Your super young and so sure Yourself I respect that so much I wish I was like that when I was your age I was there anything but that

7:35 Hit the nail on the head.

so true I have seen it times and times and sometimes it takes a long time for women to learn to stay away from those type of man.

Gosh I love Brett cooper and JBP - idk why but if I was Brett I’d be sweating answering these personal questions so candidly. I love this conversation though, and appreciate her being so open to sharing her very personal perspective and career goals. 😅❤

My wife and I had our first son in high school. 27 years 3 sons and a grandson and she still takes my breath away. And if you find someone who will wash your underwear and still sleep with you you keep them

What a good discussion jordan and to the young woman. You have your values and a thinking head on your shoulders. So good. It’s actually ok to have these values versus what we see on social media etc. it’s also not an either or. We have been sold a bill of goods. I grew up at the beginning of the feminist movement and what a sea change. From one end of the stick to the other but the actual sweet spot for me was having a family also and my career path wasn’t linear. Did it affect my career path. Certainly but not in ways one can wrap up in a neat conclusive sense. Perhaps I am in the field I now am due to the many experiences I have had in all dimensions. There is no one path. Thank you for this. For reference I am now a 68 year old grandmother. Best part of my life and my career in the mental health field was a midlife change ….

Where is this full interview?!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Good boy

I laugh at the end of his videos because the little tune at the end reminds me of the Fawlty Towers theme at the start

Aside from the discussion which I love, I like the Max Mara dress... I saw how this was made in Vietnam.

She says all the right things but there is just something about her setting off all of my instinctual alarm bells. Sirens are blaring and I get the feeling that 15 years from now her entire world is going to be falling apart.

Tbh, i never expected this crossover .

Dr Peterson, could you please give us a literature on promiscuous men (antisocial behavior literature you mention). Or could you do an episode about it? I'm a woman trying to navigate the modern dating scene and could really use guidance on how to spot the "bad apples". Especially since these people seem to be good at lying.

Efforts or events that cross a group boundary are often looked at with greater suspicion than an event or an effect that originates within the group: man to woman, white to black, straight to gay, adult to child, republican to democrat. The event will be no worse for originating within the group, but anyone in that group who is offended by it will attribute it to the individual, while the event or effect that originates within a different group will tend to be attributed to the entire group.

Jordan - I'd really like you to get some style tips from Brett.

In order for the desire for commitment in relationships between men and women to balance out, is to be observed in the total of all forms of commitment. Not in any particular kind.

ENM & Open Relationships are the modern platonic equivalent of “hooking up”

He’s a clever man but he shouldn’t wear a suit while he’s painting the spare room.

How do you get married and have a career by age 22! Wow, that is amazing! Good luck to her.

3:55 Charlotte craved marriage throughout that entire show. She was traditional, educated, cultured, searching for a husband who she could be a wife to and become a mother. She was respectful of religion and honoured her conversion to Judaism post break up with her lovely Harry before they reconciled. Sex and the City always had a balance.

impressive young lady

We married at 22 and 23. Now have been married 21 years and have 4 kids from 20 to 13. We wouldn’t change a thing!

The point of short term relationships is that when the inevitable end comes (thank you ladies) the $$ cost is SOOOOOO much less than family court.

It's time to shift the conversation from "why do women prefer men who are older" to "why do men usually mature so much slower than women"

Her future daughter would be so blessed to have Snow White as her mom.

Based on

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As someone in a long term relationship and had more short term relationships than should be legal, I believe short-term relationships change your brain to focus on finding and extracting value from fleeting relationships. It results in you not having any space for long-term thinking. That's probably why it's associated with criminality. Once you're in a long term relationship you are able to plan your life 5, 10 and 20 years out, which will inevitably reduce to propensity to do something stupid and/or criminal.

Short term relationships are natural. Long term relationships generally end up in long term celibacy.

So young but such a composed young lady

Where can I watch the rest of this?

Now this is truly mesmerizing, two adult members of opposite sexes sitting down an having a normal converation. About sex and relations. In america. Thou i must say, intelligence truly have a pacifying effect on the conversation, not trying to constantly overcome one another out of respect, shure puts on an impact too. Imagine to sit down and participate on this life journey, telled by a young woman with normal values and a good portion of common sense. I said it before, and i say it again; if you could present 100.000 wonderful, intelligent, high value women like this for the young men in america, you would run out of them in ten minutes. Oh, and Jordan, is a king. No one could ever say anything else but that.