He wants to know how to get past that wall of rejecting observation... Its simple, you have to use emotions, you have to make them see it from your perspective and put themselves in your shoes. That is easier said than done, because not only do they assume they are superior to us, they shirk responsibility at every opportunity, and avoid reason as they prefer to feel rather than observe. Tell him to try treating them like a child you are educating, reading, writing, how to turn a wrench, start a lawnmower, or run a PC. Explain it on that level without condescending. Thats how I trained females to do our job in the US military. Its how I taught my daughters to read, write, math, and later when they were teenagers, how to drive competently. They have the mindset of an 8 year old, at best the maturity of a 17 year old. Otherwise he is spot on. Coming from an old guy who has had quite a few of them in his lifetime... and is divorced twice.

try 88%

There is only adaption, you should look into this, evolution is a lie, also no missing links in the fossil record, and carbon dating is very inaccurate. kind regards _LEGENDS

It is all by design. This is how America and the West work. The elites that run everything are all about Capitalism, money. They don't want an educated and functioning populace that thinks for itself. They want sheep, so people can be easily herded, and one of the modern ways they get the average person to be sheep is to throw so much stimulus at them through social media, that we don't have time to sit down and think.

to play devils advocate, from my understanding lesbians take on "masculine energy" and gays take on "feminine energy", so one possibility as explored in the video is that women make marriages worse but another possibility is that there is an overload of masculine energy, is there a way that we can control for this to see the statistics?

@@kc6810they’d still get a percentage of it. Are you really that dumb?

@@kc6810use a question mark for questions

Remember, hypergamy. Yes, the average men make less, but the ones who have actually been able to get married in the past, they married women who make EVEN LESS. They will still get a check.

Correct

@@user-jg5xm8um8y​​⁠​​⁠Exactly. Another example of Feminists trying their best to degrade men but…end up making women look worse. The irony.

I figured that out and my third marriage counsellor was a man. He turned out to be a soyboy and did me dirtier than either of the women therapists.

LIke it or not, you are a player in the game of life. The only rule is survival of the fittest. If you want to make it to the next round, you need to evolve. You need to aquire resources that will elevate you above all the other players. For a female, it is engrained in their DNA to improve their chances of survival by selecting out males that are already on the next level. Which means you always have to stay one step ahead of her. Equality doesnt work in a system that rewards inequality.

It’s all Jermaines fault

Even though we do more in the house as well. Relationships are 70/30 the man does the lion share for women who ain’t worth the effort.

​@Coffeendonuts it's always Jermaine's fault

Nah if men didn’t lose half their stuff,women would put in more effort to keep a marriage together and we would be in 1950’s divorce rates

​@@jimjohnson394U are 100% correct thanks for that reason to see it!!

100%. The whole irony of the video is what the truth is. That's the truth. Men have consequences to suffer. Women do not. I'll trade whatever advantage I have of "patriarchy" for that privilege.

No and change there attitude? If there smart they won't marry at all. Yes we know your da# stuff and money are more important to you. Of course sex on demand. Well good because there not doing there wifey duties.

Opposite. Men stay in marriages regardless of how sexless it is. If you took away the cash and prizes from divorce like Ghanna did then the divorce rate would literally tank. Like what happened when Ghana removed no fault divorce, divorce plummeted right after. Because they couldnt use the law to steal their ex husbands money anymore.

Trying to make them happy is like trying to make money playing at the casino. Sure you can stay on the lead for a while but the more you play the more you will lose long term.

@@jolteon43 Very well said Sir! That's about as concise as you could put it. 👍

Exactly

Shout out to the Coach Gang 🙌

And... That's YOU!

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@kc6810 He's in a studio apartment, revenge is sweet

@@kc6810 I'll answer this one! Let's say a woman is making $50k a year and her husband is making $60k a year, and they have a young child together. The woman isn't just going to leave the guy, she's going to start an affair with a higher income man or something like that. Then, she'll lie about her husband in court, and to their friends and family. Even IF the man gets 50-50 custody, with split time, she will usually receive the support payments, which are calculated on a bogus table, taken from his post tax pay, and given to her tax free... then, she can claim childcare on her tax return. PLUS, she's quietly living with a RICH DUDE! Massive benefit to her.

​@@kc6810 because she gets free money from him in exchange for nothing while being once again free to gold digger the dating scene

​@@kc6810facts. A lot of people miss this point. Women will envy a married couple who went through tough times, yet they themselves are not willing to go through tough times.

Yep, consciousness allows access to a variety of different tools in order to allow another level of understanding, the bridge empathy walks across. No bridge, no empathy. No empathy, no society.

"Does anyone have a reason these two should not be joined in holy matrimony?" "Statistically they have less than a coin flip's chance of remaining together, and even worse odds of actually being happy together." "I mean okay, but do you have anything specific to these two people?" "Yeah, she's a woman."

We don't laugh, because we are sad, because we know that that guy is going to be royally screwed because he really believes that being married will be fun.

Especially when they exchange vows THEY dreamed up. That irony is most compelling. The more outrageous the more humorous. I’d love to hear those same vows repeated in the so-called “marriage therapy” sessions, mostly with female or emasculated therapists.

I don't attend weddings anymore. Whenever I hear of them. I tell my other make friends to "start the clock"!😅

Trust me women already are, it’s just not with all the flash that we hold men accountable. If you think a women divorces a good man takes him to the cleaners, lies about him ect.., doesn’t pay for that in a huge way later on, your lying to yourself, maybe there is the odd exception of a women who is drop dead gorgeous, and men being superficial as they are all sins can be forgiven if you look good enough, but most women pay dearly in the end.

​@@ladidaohoh3168Pay in what way?

When we as society going to start holding men accountable for their horrendous lack of action? Married single mothers are real.

'Modern'? That's funny. We NEVER held women accountable. Not throughout history. Women have always protected. To do so would be a first.

@@sienkiewiczmonika1161 Ninety-nine percent of this involves a woman being superficial, attempting to secure a "HOT" guy without investing any time in understanding him. Later, she wonders why he suddenly seems like an unpleasant person when, in reality, he hasn't changed since day one. Many of these men are on the verge of intellectual limitations, with a reading level barely reaching that of a fourth grader. Seriously, what did she expect?

The man haters are simply incapable of accepting that they are wrong about men. They wont accept that men actually are different, and in many way 'better' than women. They can't handle the fact that men aren't as emotional. It makes them feel bad, it makes them feel week and inferior. Even as a man myself, it wasn't until I watched a podcast with 2 or 3 trans women (women who transitioned into men) explain the affects that Testosterone had on their personalities. They explained how before, their range and volatility of emotional expression was much much greater. They explained how once they went on T, they started to struggle to understand how they felt. That often times, they would have A feeling about something or someone. But it could take days or even weeks for them to figure out what that feeling meant. They explained that they had less positive emotions as well as negative ones. They would get less excited about things they used to love, or even things they know love. They would also get less upset or frustrated than before. What really stuck with me was when they said "we have fewer emotions now than before, and the ones we do have, are harder to understand". This is why I never thought therapy would work for me. I'm neither stupid, nor emotionally volatile. I can't think out and rationalise my own thoughts and actions. Being someone who holds the truth to be supreme really helps.

@@jamesespinosa690 Being told, by feminists, to express my feelings more, Just confused me.

What women want to hear from men when they ask men to express our feelings, is they want us to tell them how much we care about THEM, how much we feel bad about whatever it is that's bothering THEM. They don't actually want to hear about any problems or discomforting feelings that we are having. Women want sensitive men, but they only want us to be sensitive about what THEY want. They don't want to hear about our problems; women still want a perfect man, who is strong and stable and reliable and supportive and provide finances and assets FOR THEM. We are still expected to be her shoulder to cry on, her sounding board about all the things going wrong in her life, and the person that she can call on to hold her hand while she complains and moans and cries about how her life isn't as great as she wants it to be.

@@d.e.b.b5788 I don't drink coffee. My wife had known that for these 49 & ½ years of marriage, yet she still asks me if I think she should have me go to Costco and pick up another brand or variety of coffee instead of the one she has been drinking for the past month. All she is looking for is assurance and substantiation. At our age she doesn't have anyone else to talk to but our daughter who lives 700 miles away.

You can’t use individual cases to judge the general consensus lol because I have have had the opposite experience. No one is saying men be wimps, but that it’s human to have feeling’s because men are higher in suicide and crime rates

That is a stupid and false saying. There are numerous counterexamples. Some? Of course. Many or even most? Maybe, IDK. But unmodified means all, which is demonstrably false.

@@ratamacue0320I prefer a battle of wits but you appear unarmed.

@@506thparatrooper ooh, clever. Have you ever been reasoned out of a belief?

@@ratamacue0320 Yes on more than one occasion. Because the belief was inaccurate. My Christian faith is built on reason. While God's thoughts are higher than any human's thoughts so they take constant examination and adjustment where necessary.

@@506thparatrooper hmm, interesting. I've most often heard that saying in atheist circles, even among deconverts like myself. And I disagree with it just as strongly when they say so. Anyway, it seems you are your first counterexample to a plain reading of your own initial statement. (Or at least, you think you are.) Do you still consider your initial claim to be true in some sense? If so, can you explain it more precisely?

I think he should too, but it would never be approved. The recent "science" journal article that states that women's bodies are better at hunting than men's with glaring omissions and poor conclusions proves this. Academic institutions and media outlets don't care about the science anymore, or improving society, just in pushing a certain political narrative.

Why write a book when social media holds more influence these days. But I agree he's an absolute don.

The Manosphere has been talking about this for years now. I am happy it's finally mainstream.

He sells the charts on his patreon

Also, women dont typically abuse physically because its not their strength. They abuse with manipulating, lies, cheating, gaslighting, driving the man crazy, blameshifting etc...and none of these things are illegal, so they can get away with zero consequences. If the man reacts, suddenly he is the abuser and she paints herself as the victim.

They're also the predominant child abusers. Men mostly commit violence against other men. Women against children. No violence is good, but who's the bigger scumbag in this scenario?

Double spacing to begin a sentence was primarily utilized when typing with a typewriter, via clarity. The APA went as far as to get their act together in 2019, by reconstituting a single space, when following a period, to begin a sentence. This reminds me of the current state of young adults, who proceed to ignore proper use of capitalization because they feel like it. Surmising that it comes across too loud, from a context of tone attribution. My words, not theirs, clearly. Otherwise, your articulation was not lost, established credit there, sir! More so, it also left an impression, which may have been the reasoning, initially.

Old saying: Men get married thinking that his wife will never change... but she does. Women get married thinking that her husband WILL change, but he doesn't. And that makes her unhappy, so she wants a divorce because of her erroneous evaluations. Men just grin and bear it, watch sports, and drink, because we know that we're already screwed by the divorce laws.

My son filed. She was an aggressive btch that would get physical. Said many times she would go in to therapy. Never did.

I don’t know you or your life but I used to end most of my relationships. At some point I had to realise I was the common factor. I was the one picking these particular people that I didn’t last with. Please consider this before your next marriage and adjust. From one brother to another

Or just don't get married. Simple.

@@TheNizzah1 I won't say I'm the problem in that I'm picking broken women. Like a lot of men, I don't have a choice in who I date. I'm lucky to get ANY woman to be in a relationship with me so I have to take what I can get. At times I've been single, I might be able to meet and get 2 or 3 first dates a year. So to be married, over the course of 5 years, my pool of potential wives is 10-15. Of course I only got a second date out of less than half of them so now it's 4-6. And even from those, maybe only 1 or 2 would be willing to be in a long term relationship.

@@Stassis I'm on my last one. If this one ends I'm moving somewhere remote to be on my own.

Same here. I'm 56 and other than hookups with 20something women with Daddy issues, I always look to hook up with another bi guy. You can usually find someone attractive in short time and they're usually ready to hook up. There's very little bullshlt or baggage and you can be very frank about what you will or won't do in bed. I have a huge d_ck and bi types are turned on by that without getting all size-queeny and that gives me a little ego boost. Unfortunately even some of the bi/married types play head games and I learned to spot them early and cut them off at the quick. I meet SO many women who are sane, intelligent, and bullshlt-free relationship-material... but ... and I hate being so shallow... they're not physically attractive. There are times I hate being single, but overall I'm happy where I am in life.

honestly if any guy is bisexual why on God's Earth would they even deal with women? Men are 100 times easier. I am a sensible man if I can call up someone and be like let's go fishing eat some chinese after that have sex and go to sleep and if they are down with it that is a match made in heaven.

Makes perfect sense 👌 (from hetero perspective)

You broke the cheat code 😂

Very very interesting. Do you think other bi men share that sentiment?

Simple math.

Cue just so you know

​@@POPJack1717Bro math!

Im sorry for your friends. Both of them. I totally understand your friends pain. I would have been totally happy living a simple day to day life with the girl that I love as my wife. But then modern females basically want to whore themselves out in their early 20s.

YOu can't blame the therapist. You can blame Sally for not knowing what she wants.

​@@d.e.b.b5788That's the problem. There needs to be some kind of mechanism for holding women accountable. Unfortunately holding women accountable is viewed as abuse and so fewer people are having relationships in general because no one wants to be accused of being abusive.

India was very smart in banning Tik Tok. I think all of it should be removed. Online dating, social media. We need to go back to human interaction.

Ive heard women outright say that men without social media are a huge red flag.

@@WomenKilledChivalry they think that because they cannot understand that we are different from them. They assume we like and want the same things they do, they are wholly incapable of putting themselves in our shoes, in other words they have no empathy for us. They have empathy for other women and sometimes kids, but not for men. In their minds, they are the pinnacle of human evolution, and if men would only act and think like they do, then we would have utopia. Its funny because a man can think like a woman by removing all reason and accountability, but a woman cannot think like a man. They will take that as a personal insult, rather than an observation of fact.

@@WomenKilledChivalry I hope none of those social media mavens ever owe me serious money. Because, thanks to their imprudent openness, I know what intolerable pressure points will cough up those receivables in about 15 minutes.

​@@WomenKilledChivalry: Those men can't feed the dopamine addiction by paying attention to them. Keep in mind, KZfaq is social media.

No, that has nothing to do with shit tests. A shit test is a woman getting angry or upset with her partner to (subconsciously) test if he's emotionally strong enough to deal with her emotional outbursts. If he fails, she won't feel safe with him, because it proves he can't help her when she needs emotional support.

Im also a leftie and im proud to be different. We are statistically more intelligent than right handed people and that’s a fact

I'm left handed but never did anyone liken being left handed to the devil? Where are you from? Amityville?

You lefties are goofy 🤪 ❤

@@johnrevelation37 as if we chose it

Once is all it takes to financially ruin the vast majority of us.

Woman*

No men are more observant to problems we identify as problems. It doesn't talk long to understand what people are like at their core. If uou leave tour emotions to the side and objectively judge things.

They’re insane

Blows my mind how many men still don't understand whatever she's arguing about is not actually what she's mad about

Damn straight.. With my ex, things were going to shit so naturally i tried to fix it.. wasnt long before i realised it was pointless.. I ended up breaking up with her, and afterwards ended up going through her phone, i dont usually do this but i wanted to know why, so i looked at her messages to her best friend, straight up said she was starting fights with me so i would be a jerk and she could be the victim, she actually said the word victim. Also want to explain.. I dont like going through phones, i avoid doing that because my insecurities are my problem to deal with, i did it to get answers because she wasnt giving me any. I wanted to know what was wrong, so if i was the problem i could work on it, i didnt touch the phone until after we had broken up

@@travismarshall4914 best answer i can give is she is not yours. just yours for right now these days. with simps and facebook and what not there will always be a guy saying i can treat you better then him. id try and find a girl that will drop social media to make it with you. if she does not let you go threw her phone dont take her seriously. she has kids dont take her seriously. lots to it. i lost my 18 year old gf to a 52 year old man. i got obsessed with this stuff years ago. just understand woman are always looking for the bbd... the bigger better deal.

It is lack of character. This plagues women because they do not know how to respect naturally. They lack integrity and loyalty as well. All character faults. Their boredom is a symptom of this

A persistent biological and psychological weapon💥

And not the USA government?

​@@hainleysimpson1507They are doing it too .

Feelings are irrelevant. That is the problem. Everyone makes decisions with their feelings and what you are supposed to do is use reasoning and logic.

that's a really interesting observation. most of the time, the feelings don't need to be solved, just heard

We need men like Tate to break the narrative, spread the word and create a room for freedom of speech about this topic, so this "Observation bad" low consciousness thing can be surpassed.

This.

I hope you’re single. How desperate does a woman need to be to risk being trapped with a man like you

Intelligent society? Where?

​@@mistergoodcitizen9914this lol

@@KrellKrypto sure, there are always exceptions to the norm. That does not make it the standard.

heterosexual men have the same issue.

@@c.san.8751 Mm, .. Yess, ... So: I am straight. And: I struggled mightily with how to meet women. I only started getting some success when I was in my early 30s. (A) I was older, and (B) I found a guy who trained me up -- it was an intense and deep process. Made all the difference. I wasn't a virgin before, but I was pretty hopeless. So, I struggled in ways, and I grew older, and I met some success. Now I am now 46, and I am friends with a young bisexual man, who's about 25. He has TONS of sex with other men. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. Finding sex for me has never ever been a quarter as easy as it is, for him to find sexual partners, have threesomes, all of it. But he's never ever had sex with a woman, despite being attracted to women. When I was his age, I'd had sex with 4, maybe 5 women. And my sense is: It's so easy for him to have sex with dudes, and it's so hard to have sex with chicks, that he ends up defaulting to dudes, every time. He's described the difficulty of forming sexual relationships with women, but he hasn't leaned into it nearly as much, because he can always go with men, at the end of the day. So it's not that het men have an easier time with women. But rather, I think that it's like: straight men are backed into a corner. Women are the only game there is, for us. So if we want any sexual relationship at all, we have to study and agonize and reflect and figure it out. Follow what I mean? He asked me, "How do I form a sexual relationship with a woman," and I thought, "Oh my God, there's no way I can just answer that." I think I told him something like: "Sweat and tears."

I also suspect that a slowly increasing percentage of bisexual men look at the quality of the female dating pool and decide to focus on men.

Also there are virtually no woman who would ever sleep with a man that has slept with guys. Bisexual simply isn't an option for men

I'm bisexual and TRUST ME, I have ZERO problems picking up women.

Women are so self sexualised that it’s nothing special anymore and they wonder why men are walking away 😂

All women look the same once they get the eyebrows lips and Botox done they lose there unique look and they all look the same once they go down the root of Botox make up etc !!!

Women played themselves and couldnt hold eachother accountable.

Get off the social media then. Don’t be blaming others for accounts you make lol

​@@TheOlzeeyep, I have never been on social media and ironically I still find "normal" women attractive. Whodathunk?

Yes.

​@@ChiefMane1wow.

"304 Math" 👍

@@Anonymous-yh4ol I don’t know if I can say hoe without my comment being removed

​ @ChiefMane1 Whats the name of his channel? I want to subscrtibe.

What felt good in the moment? I thought you didn't touch her?

@@gasphynx Something isn't adding up. 🤣

The logic of bs feelings.

They’re insane

Nicely put...

Yes and lesbian relationships are alot more abusive/emotional manipulative

This is both hilarious and upsetting at the same time.

Shhh. It doesn't fit into the narrative.

Likelihood*, not “likihood”

@@coltonsmith3724 yeah whatever smart-ass you got the point

“Only been divorced once” I’m not trying to cast blame of judgment but that statement alone is evidence of how broken things have become. Even one should be too many.

@@theredsir869 Meh, you try living with her.

Most men don’t have anything to risk.😂 You can’t have it both ways claiming women have unreal financial expectations when searching for partners because most men don’t make any money and then claim men are worried about losing all of this wealth. Losing half of what?!? You’re talking about a tiny portion of men.

@@cupcake8867 > You’re talking about a tiny portion of men. No, I'm talking about me and my experience. The rest of your garbage reply is, well, garbage. You add nothing of value outside of your man-bashing talking points.

And yet children raised by single mothers tend to display much worse behavior as adults than children raised by single fathers... Not making fun of women actually, more like, damn, you are doomed from the very beginning, and beyond redemption

Too highbrow, can't eat my popcorn to it :p

It's said basic observation and analysis os seen as high IQ conversation.

I would have laughed out loud at this thought a couple years ago, but it turns out the manosphere is where people with 150+ IQs wash up. It's one of the very small niches in human civilization where people contend with actual reality, instead of simplistic, emotional, conformist nonsense. The only other places I've found any rational people are small pockets on Reddit and Quora, and working at a tech startup. Intellectually speaking, 99.9% of people are simply NPCs

This is high IQ in your circles?

I gotta side with you on this one. I lived with two women, and it seems like it's never enough for them. I stopped dating a couple years ago and while I still like to spend time with women, it's more of a hobby than trying to find a wife.

Man tells truth Women: “why do you hate meee”?! *sobs*

I would definitely purchase

'PERCEIVED' infidelity. My wife complained that I was emotionally unfaithful, because I wasn't home enough to listen to her crap. But I was supposed to work two jobs to pay for the house she wanted. I lose either way; either I'm not making enough money, or I'm not home enough. Women are never happy; it's always something.

This is so true: I worked for a Law Firm while in college, and almost every single woman who came in was hysterical over just discovering her husband’s infidelity. I’ll never forget the one who had 4 children with her husband, and had just discovered he kept a mistress in both of the cities he regularly traveled to on business. One of my little part-time gopher jobs each morning was to check tissue boxes strategically placed in offices & conference rooms and be sure they were filled. The commentary about more women filing is very careful to avoid this ugly little fact.

Exactly. It's like how the Americans blame the Chinese for the trade imbalances when you guys buy their products. 🤦🙄

Fair enough, but what the Chinese are doing is still an attack. We will suffer for choosing it, but they will suffer for making it available. Luke 17:1 - Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come!

How come that doesn't work with expecting eternal bliss?

Tate? We don’t need a Tate to do so bro

@@alexanderseton We obviously do, how could you come to a different conclusion than that?

At least you have excuses. Excuses are just justification for bad behavior though. And justifying bad behavior is what women do.

You’ve made me realise that there is no way that I will give my money, sanity and future to a woman that can make life changing decisions off her feelings depending on the monthly cycle 👏 I think I’ll stay single 😂😂😂

You deserve yourselves

Same reasons women leave women in lesbian relationships. I don't feel loved. I don't feel appreciated. I don't feel listened to. It's one sided. I give everything. Unreasonable behavior. Adultery. Blah blah blah. You're saying nothing new.