All the smartest guys earn money online & date women abroad. Once you get some money & a passport there's no reason to stay in the USA.

Sister in law has already painted me with that brush for even mentioning going to Thailand man. She talks about Asian women like they are lesser than western women too, which annoys me to no end. These birds have no idea. Meanwhile, my brother is on the verge of driving off a cliff having lived with this woman for a few years.

Pattaya is definitely a party town but there is also a huge digital nomad community there. A lot of people just don’t advertise their presence in Pattaya like they do in Chiang Mai. It has beaches and islands, it has a low cost of living, the temperatures are a couple of degrees cooler and it doesn’t have the pollution that Bangkok and CM has.

I have lived in Thailand for 24 years and have been married to my Thai wife for 21 years. We have 2 teenage children. You are spot on. Western women are not attractive to me, mainly because of their attitudes. My attraction to Thai women is because of their beauty, culture and attitude.

Great perspective and video. I’m 37, moved to Asia three years ago and now have settled in Phuket Thailand. Have the most stable relationship compared to any I had with a western woman and now have a son. The best decision I ever made was leaving London and it’s hectic lifestyle. Couldn’t be happier in Thailand and won’t be living in England again.

I’m planning on retiring in Thailand 🇹🇭 and it’s definitely not for the woman. It’s for the better quality of life. The weather, cheap food, cheap beer, cheap rent, cheap travel, super friendly locals. The list goes on and on.

I spent several years dating in the west, decent job, nice house, fit and healthy in my 40's. It was a waste of time, I came here and here and knew I wanted to live here. Why any middle age man who single would stay in the west is beyond me, lived in Isaan for 2 years with my lady and her family never been happier

This is a completely fascinating video, and the comments here are just as thought-provoking. I was married for 15 years to an American, feminist attorney who was very money focused. I earned a great salary. She earned 3x as much and couldn't deal with the discrepancy. Everything was a competition or power struggle. After a decade of misery I met a beautiful, non-American woman who adores me. It took three years and $300k to get a divorce. Now I am happy, a in more traditional relationship with a kind woman who is 20 years younger. My ex-wife is lonely, miserable, and very wealthy. I've never been to Thailand, don't know if I ever will, but I do enjoy this channel and I am grateful for the generosity of people who share their experiences.

Wow... seems like every single guy is becoming aware of red pill concepts lately. Didn’t think it would be going mainstream this fast.

You have hit the nail right on the head. It's so good to hear someone say what I have been thinking for years. My wife is Thai and been happily married for ten years.

You are teaching me so much Brett. I’m finishing my apprenticeship in 12 months and I’m keen to get out of the west and really see traditional living

I'm going to live in Thailand because it is the land of smiles . The Thai population are in general more friendly and easy going which is the opposite of what my life in America as been for most of my adult life . When I decided to move to another country I had five five counties which I choose to research : Mexico ,costa Rico ,P.I. , Cambodia and Vietnam . After all doing my research with the pros and cons covering health care ,,cost of living , laws ( for farang ) , eco systems , culture etc . Thailand came out on top for the country I choose to live out my life . I don't drink alcohol or do drugs and I 'm quite fit for my age and since I cannot become Thai by birth I have decided to become a Thai in spirit and heart for the remainder of my days .

Brett you are correct about the pre-judging nature of western women. When I tell people I am retiring in Thailand in January 2022, they immediately bring up the Thai women. When I tell them my wife loves Thailand and will be retiring with me, the narrative is immediately debunked.

Hi Brett, new sub here. You pegged it! I went on a Thai dating site and was overwhelmed with nice women interested in an LTR with an older, divorced man. They are typically in their 30s+ (called "left behind" women in some Asian countries) and are so sweet and feminine. I'll be visiting Thailand and one of them in the near future.

Very good video. Been following you for a few years now. Exactly one of the reasons why I'm here in Thailand. It's so crazy in the west now that it's very hard to even watch western media anymore.

Very accurate analysis. I would add that lots of thai women (espacially in Bangkok) have very good status in companies compare to the west. Thus they simply looking for a guy that can better take care of them compared to Thai men. They see western guy as more caring and reliable. Additionaly, Thai women knows how to respect the masunility of men which doesn't mean that they are passive or dominated. Actually they are smart enough to let you think so but they are strong women.

Thanks for this Brett I'm moving as quickly as possible and I'm 69 I've had it with the crooked Uk🇬🇧

Great video. I am one of your 8% female listeners. I am looking to retire in a country that has a low cost of living so Thailand is on my radar. One of the things that pushed me away from even considering it at first is the misconception that all men come to Thailand to get laid. Some of the sleezy men who post videos gave me that impression. Your videos have given me a different view of Thailand so thank you. I am not looking for a man, but just the thought of being around men only wanting sex turns me off. Thousands of years of programming has taught women that if you are going to have babies, you need help financially. It is tough doing it yourself and there is a genetic need to nature babies in a lot of women. If you are going to put up with a person who is basically very different from you and may be difficult to live with after the first few years of honeymoon stage wear off, he had better at least have some money to help you support the babies. It is not fair to men that we women want a man with money, but you are right, that is the way it is for many many women based on the programming of our genes. Can that be changed and is it different for some women, yes. If I were a man, I probably would be attracted to the beauty and demur of Asian ladies as opposed to western women so I get it. If you find a woman in the west who also makes money and you can work as a team to build your family and security, it is great. If you want to have a relationship where you are primary breadwinner, that can eventually lead to a lot of pressure on you. That is the downside to the 1950's illusion. I am rambling but you have touched on a subject that I have thought about a lot. I am reconsidering Thailand so I appreciate your info.

I agree. When I visit the USA I stay with my best friend who happens to be my brother. He is married to an angry bellowing battle-ax. In her home, I am not allowed to discuss my life in Thailand if any mention is made of Thai women. She rants and rages about how I am some sort of dangerous pervert for ever moving there. Meanwhile, my brother keeps a close monitor of her health and prays he outlives her so he can make the same move.

IN truth, even as a feminist I recognize, that women in general want to live up to what others say they SHOULD be or do. Most women really do want to have a simple stress free life, but they see people around them doing and having things and they envy them. As a result, they stress the men around them even though they know that what they are asking for is not really possible, at least not at that time. Just be honest and do what is your own best interest. As a woman, I just want to read and drink wine. That makes me happy. Why can't we all just do what makes us happy, no matter how small or large, and leave others and what they have and do alone???

I'm a Western woman and totally agree with all this! "Wokeness" and neo-feminism has destroyed traditional values/the family. Long live Thailand! 🇹🇭

100% agree with everything you said about the 1950s style here in Thailand. But it isn't just coming to Thailand that freaks westerners out, it includes escaping the UK for any reason or destination. In 1980 age 28 I went to work in the Middel East; no one goes there to meet women . But I got all sorts of critisism from the people who were too staid or scared to leave the UK for better pastures. In my experience there are lots of better pastures than the cold, wet, expensive, overtaxed, unfrienldy and everything banned, UK. Since then I worked all over the place including emigrating to the USA. Still I got told in the UK I was making a huge mistake and would likely get shot at a US gas station. The US is in my experience an infiinately better place to live and work than the UK. My point is that the stay at home type wil tell the traveler they are making a mistake whereevver they are heading for. Thai women have no bad attitudes and that makes them so wonderful as wives. My wife and I ended up when in the US avoiding about half of the wives of the guys we knew. The guys were great but the wives had horrible attitudes to both of us, and some turned on their husbands for being friends with us. Had some funny stories too in that respect. She is much younger than me, we have been together 16 years now and it is wonderful.

From Japan, I couldn't agree with you more. In my country, the same thing is happening. Women are beginning to behave rudely and a lot of men are starting to be tired of hectic lifestyles. I'm in my forties, and single. But I feel happy I've been single so far in this country.

I live in Asia and I see a lot of older guys with beautiful young women. I don’t think the beautiful young woman in the uk would go out with them so much. So good luck to them all. Go to Thailand Love your posts Brett 👍

I couldn’t agree with you more , you are so spot on. I enjoy your pod cast Brett.

I think this is spot on, and reminds me of your video about men going their own way from a few years back, Great stuff Brett.

The following comment is a generalization based on my experience. I have no bone to pick with feminism or manism (?) etc. My Thai wife works etc. I'm married to a Thai woman. I agree with a lot of what you say. Cautionary note, Thai women can be VERY child like. They want to be taken care of and it can get exhausting at times. Do not go into a Thai marriage/relationship with rose colored glasses. The foundation of your relationship is how well you take care of them, your children and yes their family. You lose your ability to do so, well you might find your self single again. Don't kid yourself. But you get less chirp out of them, they go along to get along (Mai pen rai), live generally in the present and don't marinate on the past (though they don't plan much for the future either), they're more feminine (they'll watch the game with you but they aren't going to try to be one of the boys or drink you under the table). With regards to Western women, the truth is they have their own money. Especially, educated Western women. They have their own earning potential. They don't need a man or his earning potential. So you as a man just aren't that essential. They know they can walk away at any time they want from a relationship for insignificant reasons and take half your shit because they have their own money and the state supports them in that manner etc. They want to party with their girls and be one of the boys but have kids and a career too. Mishmosh of competing wants. They marinate on the past, chirp about all manner of annoying shit in the present, and have anxiety induced panic attacks about the future. That's ok. They can have all of that and I can say no to wanting to marry it. I want something different and that's okay too. We can go our own ways. So in short a Thai relationship is not all roses but the alternative is maybe less appealing to some.

I have been marries to Thai lady for 17 years of relative marital bliss. And three reasons why I like Thai women is 1. Their natural feminity - the things that makes us as a species different. 2. The way they look after themselves and don't give up on their appearances once the get a ring on their finger. 3. The way they care for their man. This is something that has died a death since political correctness and the equality of the sexes began to plague our lives.

I live in Japan it's exactly the same here in all of Asia it is the same just remember that 95% of women in the world are not feminists get out of your comfort zone and marry a woman who is not from the West and you will have a happy life like I am

You have it wrong, well most of it. Men go to Thailand 🇹🇭 because they are treated right at any age . Yes, women like older men and men feel more in control but living in Pattaya means you are here for sex. Other places are as easy , you just need to look. Men get the best of both worlds, they are treated with respect and they get what they want, that’s why men go there.

what about the women who want to retire to thailand? I'm a single woman who wants to retire there due to my health. I'd love to see your perspective on that, or the misses.

Western retired men can live their dream in Thailand!

I’m not sure that I would want a housewife necessarily. I think it would be better for a woman to have a focussed aim to keep her off a mans back, so to speak. If a man does want a house wife, I think they will be happy in Thailand. Thai people are generally very welcoming. I think it’s easier to unplug from the system in Thailand than in the UK though. Council tax, bills, rent etc is so high and the winters are cold. I do like Thailand. It’s cheaper to live well and eat good food. Excellent video.

Spot on mate. Thai/Asian woman still have values of our grandmothers, traditional and conservative. People of both sexes have a low opinion of girls from Asia. After meeting my misses and going back to Australia, one woman stated I heard you bought a wife, another male colleague, alluded to all Thai woman being prostitutes, my response was so you think 35 million woman are prostitutes, I told another female colleague what my wife does for me at home, I.E what a traditional wife did in the 50’s, she hit the roof and told me you want her to meet a few Aussie woman, to give her the low down, I just politely told her no thanks. The same woman liked to tell me about a former colleague that went to South Asia and bought a wife and kids back to Australia and he ended up sexually abusing the kids, so I guess she was trying to say I might to do the same. Who the fuck would want to go out with western woman, there’s is just a sense of entitlement, I had one chick, who broke up with me for not arguing with her and I imagine not giving her a bit of domestic violence. Then another one that ghosted me and when I started going out with my wife, contacted me and went bat shit crazy about why it never worked out between us. Anyway love your stories and the truth bombs, hopefully when this madness is over, I can get back to Thailand and eventually to live in the next couple of years. Western woman’s expectation of themselves are well and truely above what they really are, example fat, ugly with 5 kids and look down on you as a guy, because of some of your flaws, thinking they don’t have any. Asian expectation is to have a partner regardless of their flays and still love them regardless and treat them like a king.

Literally thinking about Thailand every day, the US has become a miserable cesspit. Currently visiting Peru but it feels too close to the US, I was desperate for a break from the mundane monotony of life in the US. I check the reopening situation every single day for the rest of the country as I’m not as interested in Phuket, I just can’t handle another 2 week quarantine.

Valid and honest assessment. Also Thailand seems like a great place to live a traditional life style. Thanks

Wow Brett!! That was brilliant. You actually get it.🙏

GREAT EDIT SPOT ON TOO.

Adding to your percentage for women viewing your channel. Excellent informative videos, thanks.

Great content mate keep up the good work

Spot on. Great video.

Glad I just found your channel, you have convinced me to start seriously looking into moving over, have recently qualified in programming so should just go for it, have visited Thailand a few times and love the place, always had a ball there travelling solo, people are so nice. Once in kho samui I never planned getting from the ferry to mae nam, it was late so not much taxis around, but one woman just stopped and picked me up, brought me to mae nam, befriended me, introduced me to some friends, rented me a lovely motorbike for peanuts, and brought me off to a lovely buffet(a few times) I probably would never have known about and just just helped me any way she could. That's just one example, last time I was going north via udonthani and me with the worst sense of direction ever went the wrong direction to my guesthouse, a family stopped me and got their young son to drive me to my guesthouse on his motorbike, I gave him 300 baht but he really didn't want to take it, lovely people. Great channel, just subbed.

Awesome video, dude!

Brett... first time I have ever heard anyone echo my thoughts verbatim... "in the West, in order to compete with men, women behave like men." and I will go a bit further and say that this is THE reason why the western societies are becoming internally fragmented, needlessly competitive and entirely disconnected with the real issues. I have travelled extensively around the world and whenever I come back home, I feel like we don't live in the real world.

100% great vid!!

This should wind up a few woke Karen’s 😂 , spot on tho !

This video is straight up facts. Brilliant

Quite possibly the most honest and straight talking video I've see on thailand. Well done 👏🏼

Brett dropping truth bombs like a boss.

Couldn't agree more with what you say 100%

I think you hit the nail on the head. Thanks for clarifying

Good explanation and I 100% agree!

Thai girls also don't mind having a partner who is much older than her. Whereas girls in Vietnam's cities today are concerned with the social stigma when the husband is more than 10yr older.

this video is a truth bomb. and it's the whole reason why I earned a degree in CS, so that I can work remotely which I currently do for 2 large clients. I've had bad experiences in relationships with western women despite me being a loyal standup guy, they are a truly miserable experience. My passport arrives at the end of next month. I'm booking it out of here.

Great video, Brett. I've watched you for a couple of years now and you always struck me as somewhat of a lefty but in this video you seem more like a conservative. And you're right men in the West are tired of the feminist bullshit the media is shoving down our throats.

It's not about s*x. It's about appreciation. Western women did not appreciate western men, and they were only going to tolerate it for so long. We all get one life and it doesn't belong to them. It's too bad, but I don't blame decent guys for escaping that gong show. It's ridiculous. Simps and wymynists deserve each other, they can have the place.

Very good video 👍👍👍very real.

I watch a lot of Thai expat videos and their Thai girlfriends are funny and laugh. It's so refreshing to see funny girls laughing. They are extinct in America. Haven't met a funny girl in the US since the '80's.

I disagree, I am married to a Thai lady and she has bachelor degree, she had high position job, earned over 50,000 baht a month, own a house and was single mother, her son just graduated from university of technology, she has 3 sisters, all have bachelor degrees and a career, they don't want to be dependent on their husbands, my wife moved with me to Colorado and started a spa business and cooking Thai food in restaurant, she love it, she is independent, she has financial freedom, we run 2 businesses together , we cook together, clean together and making income together as partners!!!

I don't think I've agreed agreed with someone's opinion 100% until now. There is not one thing I would have said differently. Well done!

Spot on. Nuclear family values have disappeared in western cultures. That's why men are drawn to Asia as a whole

You are a smart man Brett, and explain the situasion arond that topic very well. I often travel to Thailand myself with my Thai wife, who live here in Norway with me. When I retier we will stay in Thailand to get away from the wintermonths here in nothern Norway. I almost can not wait for that.

Serious question, what attracted you to relocate to Thailand? I lived in a 3rd world country as a child and was saddened by the chasm between the haves and have nots.

Well said Brett.. Great content.

Excellent content and astute observations.

Brett Dev, Love it!!!! You are absolutely right. A 95lb Asian/eastern/Pacific Island woman selling chicken on the side of the road is a million times better than a 300lb feminist cat woman who divorce graped her last husband. The East is better for men and we good men appreciate a good woman. If I wasn’t already a subscriber I’d subscribe now!

Couldn't agree more. Yep, you are spot on. Thanks Brett.

finally!!! someone said it thank you, i went to thailand in 2016 and i know this is 1000% true

Thank you so much for making this video, I 100% agree with the brainwashing and attitude problem with women in the US. I've lived in California nearly all my life for 35+ years and every relationship feels the same with that very bad attitude. I'm going to Thailand in June this year to train in muay tai for at least 3 months and I just cant wait to talk to women without worry about classic western women standards.

YES.. i agree and this is a major factor to my move later this year.. thanks for the affirmation

Spot on, bro!! 👏👍👊🎯

Men AND women come to Thailand for a variety of reasons. Western (especially American) women are largely unseen and nobody knows nor cares why we choose to live in Thailand. Here's a hint: a big factor is money -- especially savings. It's freaking expensive to live in America. If you are divorced, or a widow, there is NO safety net in the good old U.S. of A. It's sink or swim. Rather than sitting idly by and waiting for Prince Charming (with his loaded wallet, or so he claims) to scoop us out of financial hardship, some of us choose to charter a new course. Those intrepid females aren't feminists by choice necessarily. You gotta do what ya gotta do to survive...male or female. Not "woman power" or feminism. It's common sense to want to live a decent life and keep a roof over your head...and an added bonus if you have the courage to do it outside your own culture and comfort zone.

Thank you for this video, you're articulating this subject way better than I can. This is what I try explaining to people when I'm asked why I wanna move out of the west.

Excellent commentary Brett. I am so sick of trying to find a woman here in the west (Toronto Canada) I am now a MGTOW guy. There is an arrogance these women have and yes they are men with vaginas. I am no Brad Pitt but Im not bad looking, I own a home, car and go to the gym and no debt load. I find the women are so scared of getting with a man that is financially not their equal. They get their love from the little dogs they own and spend social time with other women, usually divorced. The money they have for a lot of these women is from the ex they divorced and she got the house, the cars and child support or alimony of both. When I first meet a lady on a date 9 times out of 10 she is sizing me up financially straight away. They want a GQ man who has the same wealth or more than them. They go out with these types and are used and dumped and they wonder why they cant find a stable relationship. These guys for the most part have no intention of getting serious and just want to have fun. I have friends that do this. Anyway I am done chasing these women and am selling everything and moving to Thailand in early 2022. You western gals will wake up one day wondering what the hell happened. You will be older and maybe still have your little dog to comfort you.

You actually put it in a very clear and substantial way, in only 6 minutes. Very well done.

That's exactly why I want to move there. So done with craziness in the west.

I'm a 26 year old woman and i do really enjoy your content. I disagree with a lot of what you have said here. But I understand the generalised thoughts you have put across. I think the west is changing rapidly. With equality of gender roles change is needed. Women aren't reliant on men anymore and men can feel insecure about this. But equally women find it hard in the west because we would like to stay at home and raise our children but we can't because we can't afford to stay at home. It's also unfair on a man to solely provide for a whole family in the west. He would have to work long and hard. So yes women do have to be more "like men". We want equality and you can't sit at home and rely on a man for it. If men want a more traditional role as a provider they should not begrudge the Thai women for "being money grabbers". At the end of the day the world is changing and we shouldn't be stereotyping anyone. People just want to be happy. I want to move to Thailand because I'm fed up of the Government fucking me in the arse with tax's and not being able to afford a house or to have a baby. If men want Thai wives good for them I say. If I was a man, i'd probably want a Thai wife. Live and let live. If i want hair arm pits let me be. If you guys are fed up of western women go ahead and pick Eastern women. We should just give less fucks about what other people think.

I wish YT let me give 2 thumbs up. LMAO with the Ms Piggy 😂🤣😂. I have got to get to Thailand soon!!

100% right. I moved to, Pattaya two years ago. Been with my, Thai girlfriend ever since. Best relationship I have been in. Thailand is like the 1950’s; way more upbeat and sane! Shout-out to, Kevin Samuels for dropping truth bombs!

Great vid very true.

Hi Brett! love your chanell! :) can you comment on the air pollution in chiang Mai? How is the area where you live? Is it manageable or something that bothers you? Also visas, which type of visa do you recommend for a long staying expat? Is it true you have to exit the country every 3 months and renew your visa? Just wondering how easy that is or if there's a better solution! Thanks :)

If you support a Thai lady, they appreciate it... doing good 'take care' is prized and reciprocated proudly. I think many Western women are threatened by this type of competition.. They can't compete in many ways and they know it.

Well said 👏

Thank you for introducing me to Kevin Samuels!!! wow I been binge watching his videos... That guy is spot on!!!

I rode a bicycle solo between Cheshire and Southern Thailand, and my daughter said to me as they laughed, don't fall for a Thai woman. The stigma is universal, but sadly misguided. I laughed and reminded them that I was already married :). Now, that said, in the four months and 4000-mile bike ride through Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, then down into Southern Thailand, I met the most wonderful women to converse with, and there wasn't one that I didn't see as feminine in traditional feminine roles. But hey, that's their choice, as it should be. Too blood hot and humid there though :)

My thoughts exactly Bret and i agree with you 1000%. I am sick and tired of western society and all of the BS that goes with it. I have recently subscribed to your channel and I find it very informative. Only trouble is that there is a small problem that is currently preventing me from making the move to Thailand called Covid19 or something like that. I visited Chiang Mai on my last trip and i see that you are copping it there too? Stay safe. 😷🙏

Spot on Brett

Kevin Samuels has changed my life since discovering him, as well as dating Thai women compared to dating American women

Mate you are 1000 percent spot on ... Keep up the great videos

Mate- I’m a non smoker so I can look at this from afar. Where else in the world can you drink beer and smoke at the same time as well as being surrounded by beautiful women. This has to be a major reason for many men to come to Thailand. They cannot do this in their home countries. I have seen it in bars in Pattaya, Chiang Mai and among expat communities in the provinces. It makes life diffucult for non-smokers like myself. Always getting smoked out at bars and restraurants. . A major drawback to life in Thailand.

My grandfather worked three jobs so that my grandmother could stay at home and be a housewife. I truly doubt that most men want to take on that type of responsibility in exchange of having traditional roles. The reality in the West is that both people have to work. If a Western man (with a Western income) goes to Thailand, he earns more than the top one percent so he can be that provider. Ask a local average Thai man if he would like to move to England and earn an average English salary but have 50/50 role with an English woman. I guarantee you that an average Thai man would gladly trade places with you.

Ur bang on my friend. I worked in thailand for a bit and I retire next april. First thing is get out of uk, yes I'll be back in thailand but mostly for a much cheaper cost of living. I'll be traveling a lot around south east asia, mostly vietnam and chang mai

Top chat, good subject and realistic discussion.....

Spot on Brett.

Well said mate

Hey, Im Polish married to a Brit and I agree with what you are saying. I’ve been to Thailand- lovely people.

Completly agree with everything yovue said mate. SPOT on

I just want to say, I’m a woman and I enjoy watching your channel! You have great content and speak the truth!

As Nomad Capitalist says: Live where you are treated best. If u think it's the west... u prob have not traveled anywhere else.

Well said.