Republic of Korea is one of my favorite countries to visit. Can’t wait til I go back in 2023.

What methods did they use to create that in you ?

@@y0ungtchalla420 Stick. Belt. Chancla. 😅

"FAILURE" lol

xd so u were forced by fear well maybe that did good for you but if u think that ua re normal , well no one is but soem are more and soem are less ,and fear before something is not an answer cuz is jsut make you a slave , u know u can push a slave to do many thinkg but not anything significant and big .

Lol

A+: don't they have anything higher/better? A-: unsure how to emotionally torture you F+/F-: you're living on the streets

Way too true. A is good or ok. A+ is whatever. A+ in AP classes are great. B is whatever, average and below average. C is you failed! D is you should be on the street and will fail in the future. F is, you are worthless.

That's true lol

E - Expelled from the Human race 😂😂😂

The doing bad in school wise really does depend because if it’s grade wise they really don’t care. If it’s about attendance, turning in homework/assigments then they would be concerned.

Not everybody can achieve their dreams. It's just a lie. U have to be realistic. To be a professional pianist where u can become famous internationally is like one in a million. If your target is to be a pianist playing at a hotel or something that is fine.

@@secrets.295it’s called excuses, excuses, excuses

Trying to be a chemical engineer is not the same as trying to be a professional musician. You need academic ability or you need artistic ability.

The Asian students are in south campus while the white students are in north campus

@Jogger Crimewave to be those things you need a certain level of thinking(IQ) i'm in the netherlands and many people who wanna be a teacher for an example got issues with reading comprehension or writing same with math.

Asians Chinese Vietnamese immigrants focus lot on education business be good person so we sacrifice eat n exercise n look n power n voice n representation n weigh lifting sport we grow small short shy square scare silly stiff silent sissy slow. That's negative be good at school n business.

👍😆

Add Nigerians there.

As Asian parents from the Philippines education is very important but you have to strike a balance also can't pressure them too much or else the risk is also great for them to get messed up.

@@manuelr1405 please don't act like most Filipinos in the Philippines are educated and disciplined. You cant look at how the country is and easily see that that's not the truth. Filipinos only have an average IQ of 86, which is the same as African-Americans. And Filipinos score one of the last in Math scores. Dont act like Filipinos are like other Asians

@@manuelr1405 children in philippines run around with no discipline like uncivilized..the single mother rates are sky high Philippines needs to do better

I think it has nothing to do with genetics and everything to do with the influence of Confucianism which places a very strong emphasis on education and subjugation of the individual to the group -- in this case, pressure to confirm to the educational goals and aspirations of the family. In contrast, in broad American society, there seems to be heavy emphasis on sports, oftentimes at the detriment of more cognitively focused disciplines of education.

I agree in the Philippines I'm in the US both my kids had full academic scholarships graduated suma and magna my kids classmates ranking from 1 to ten mostly Asian.

That’s not really the answer. There are many Asian Americans who work manual labor jobs. It’s more about kids growing up and seeing how hard their parents work and make sacrifices for the kids. Sure the parents want the kids to study but not all do. Yes some are strict but not all. Peer pressure plays a part. One factor that is rarely brought up is that most Asian Americans don’t focus on athletics. Yes they participate but come on. The chances of making it as a pro anywhere and make good money is not very high. Black males can be considered blessed or cursed. Some realize their own athletic limitations but some come close but don’t reach it. Focus is not on academics always or it’s really challenging for any student athlete to balance both. Some or many do an amazing job. Yes some struggle. Yes some blow it.

My wife and I are Chinese immigrants, with one daughter and one son, but we never took care of their studies, never checked their school performance, never had extra training boot camp. The kids did excellent in high schools without my knowledge. Now, one just graduated from a medical school in Montreal, the other graduated from McGill university 3 years ago working for a wall street investment bank in New York city. Not every chinese parents are pushy.

In the Far East, a battery of homework and Straight As minimum standard is applied heavily. Because education is seen by far, more than a financial investment, it is a wealth builder, accumulator, and a progressive community attitude to developing a survival belt of attainment. Dullards and comedians, lazy kids find a niche somewhere in Asian society, but ultimately they are expected to work equally as hard. Whilst there are exceptions, the wealth gained from achievement is reinvested back into the community of businesses and families. Hence a ferocious attitude to like minded marriages. Mixed marriages are somewhat uncommon but I suppose there is a reason, and creating wealth is but one amongst many, hazarding a guess.

Please also teach your kids basic manners, how to socialise and be civil once tiger mom is done roaring. Good luck. 😂

@@chrislim7976 😆 of course.

I know my Asian friend wished their parents got a divorce because they saw how unhappy their parents were.

Yes, for example, I know of an Asian couple where the husband had his girlfriend live in the same house as his wife. I know the daughter. How disgusting! If your children grow up and watch something like that, you can bet it will screw them up.

@@janetpartyka5968Wtf, ok that's def not typical...

It's a matter of choice, either you live your life to the fullest and enjoy your personal life, or you start a family and enjoy what a family brings. This is a choice for ordinary people.

When a person is older and looks back, you might have wished that their parents had gotten a divorce because they saw how unhappy their parents were. However, their lives might have been very different if their parents actually did get a divorce. Their lives would have been unstable. They might go back and forth between 2 households. There are financial strains.

Lol funny enough they (and you) would probably be better off in Asia now - quality of life in asia currently beats thst in the west in many places but thats not to say asia is without its problems

@@AndRei-yc3ti Asia is a big place my brother.

@@AinzWoolGown India China Russia & some of N AFRICA arabs

@@arickjohnson9982 yeah that's around 75% of it

You think only Asian people took low paying jobs? All people have a struggle and nobody is above any one there’s wealthy blacks Hispanics Anglo and Asians the list goes on and on. That someone wants to beg it’s their choice. Nobody reaches the glory of anything because when it’s all done you still take nothing to the grave. Russian European whatever you make life what you decide. Drugs and alcoholic beverages destroys people.

but are asians happy with it? they dont seem to get a lot of children... is this success?

American culture. West isnt just america.

@@bilalhamurabi3362 Perhaps pros and cons. One major con in the Far East is the escalation of taking one’s life, and one big reason for young folks is because of “dishonoring the family” for one’s “failure.”

@@manorui100 I wrote "Western culture", not "American", this is a global problem and is not specific to the USA.

@@bilalhamurabi3362 the social emphasis in Asians communities is to succeed and in many cases this does not include having children. Remember that Asian cultures used to respect and venerate age in much the same way as westerners worship youth. The issues are complex and well beyond my ability to deal with. I hope you find the understanding you seem to be looking for.

That’s part of it, lack of education is another part. Another several black families but the kids have no structure because the parents are lazy. Look at the dynamic of married black families, the kids still usually perform at the bottom

@@daniella8400 Exacty a dustie baby daddy is bad .Same dustie as husband is worse .Asian women have better choice of men so their kids ofcourse benefit from that. You will never see an Indian woman date a homeless guy or date a criminal .African American men who are not providing for their children because of not having good jobs ,being incarcerated etc are still having 4 ,9 and more children all raised by women .Asian women would'nt give 5 minutes to those men .

The solution is to stop selling out the family structure of having a father and husband in the home for a check.

That's respect!

Thats because you're not taught to worship separation, the individual the "I" the One!

@@gratefulkm your right, that's why compared to west we take care our parents when they get old, and we don't kick our kids outta the house at 18. The human brain doesn't reach its final form til 25-28.

While it's nice that you succeeded I feel such a burden should never be on a child.

@@Maarten8867 I'm not coming after your opinion and I say this with all due respect, you need to be able to think about a subject with multiple levels and angles. Asian parents don't enjoy the process of putting their kids thru difficulties, but we know it's necessary to build a strong family and society.

same

I feel exactly the same.

Yup .. I lost my parents when I was 9 .. raised by my iron sisters !! I have seen them sacrifice there needs over mine !! Owe them everything of what I have become today !!

@@sarahpark5766 Oh believe me 엄마 tells me all the time that having me and my sister was the best life decision she could've ever made, but that doesn't mean there weren't tough times for her. She enjoys her life and is quite happy. You can make heavy sacrifices and still be happy.

@@sarahpark5766 yeah I suppose sacrifice does sound like a very negative connotation

Because Ken hung out with the right group of kids.

Association Matters aligning urself with people that has the SAME ambition as it does not matter of race.

@@daphnesmith1686 exactly also one can be gifted in one area and not the other.

@@stephaniewilliams168 Agree💯🙏🏻💕🥰

@@daphnesmith1686 Reply is within video context. But yes, I do agree.

Romanticism at is best, but keep telling yourself those lies about people “born abroad” running laps around locals, where’s all the gumption and vigor to save your own land? You’d actually save your best efforts for a place your not even born too? To me thats insanity and cowardice, you’ll never have my respect for that no matter how much money you make here in America. Freedom for any country world wide involves bloodshed, it ain’t pretty to attain freedom for yourself, you must fight for it and willing to DIE for it, not run to the USA and start a business make a ton of money and bang every blonde in sight saying you run laps around people who DIE FOR THIS COUNTRY TO BE WHAT IT IS! 🤷🏽‍♂️

@@enigmathegrayman2953 Actually, this has been proven by the statistics. Wanna know something even funnier? The children of first time immigrants do worse than their parents, even with the same genetics. More proof that when you get used to the qualities of America, you tend to relax more. I had a cousin tell me that "we" won't do the same jobs as Mexicans because "we" have already plowed the fields for 400 years. It's totally the wrong mindset to have. You always should keep grinding. This "land of the free" is made of mostly immigrant descendants. That's why we have so much diversity in culture. You could learn something from these immigrants, and don't hate.

@@josephjohnson1057 You’re so lost you don’t even realize how offensive and condescending you’re being right now. You actually think you’re better than those born to this country. Believe me people see right through your “work hard and keep grinding” speech. It’s old and really you need to come up with new talking points. I can’t continue the conversation with someone who thinks they’ve got it all figured out and are completely disrespecting local citizens.

@@enigmathegrayman2953 You do know I’m American born right? Maybe we red blooded Americans should get over ourselves and take notes. It’s this know it all arrogance that allows us to get azz kicked by foreigners. We need to take our azz whippings like real men and quit whining like biatches. The facts we sit on our 300 lb azz es and cry about taxes and rights while other folks outdo us with our own rules is a slap in the face to ourselves.

@@josephjohnson1057 You got issues, this conversation is over!

Good for you man! Well done!

So how did you raise them to be independently?? I need examples

Excellent

I lived in Korea for 2 years and I seen how Koreans respected family and the importance of taking care of your own. By the way I loved the food. i.e. Ju O Tong

@@princesssamiaa1548 He said he never gave them money. They had to earn it.

wow. thats amazing.

Holy shit! That's crazy.

...every one.....was Asian. And I don't have a college degree.

My school was similar. During 1983, my last year of classes, if you went to the library after 7 pm you would see that half the people inside were Asian. 5% of the student body was Asian.

And it's no coincidence that in 2022, 95% or more of the Asians in that library in 1991 are now uber successful and are "owners" here in the USA rather than the serfs that make up most of our population.

maybe it was the intention we can't excuse their behavior for just incompetence. this is just another step in their plan of dismantling the west

If thats the spin you want to put on it, you go right ahead. I see it as money finally gave women the chance to escape from horrible men. Just because people stayed together in the 50s does not mean the wives were happy, they stayed together because they had to. Western husbands can be quite horrendous, black men a lot more so. Perhaps Asian husbands are just better husbands and thats why women prefer to marry and stay married to them.

They were provided benefits only if they were not married, if the boy friend etc stuck around they would receive nothing. Your misandry is showing.

@@joemahony4198 Dont bash me i agree with you. “Umar RA said, “Must every house be built on love? What about loyalty and appreciation?”.i mean yes if the man is Shyt then ofc divorce.But most people are degenerates chasing pleasure and happiness and the burtterflies.

@@joemahony4198 They were initially only offered benefits after their husbands deserted their families. Western individualism and lack of family values strike again.

Some Asian parents fail to realize that academic career does not equal success in life. One Korean-American doctor married then divorced a beauty queen after discovering that she secretly did prostitution. One Vietnamese-American doctor got beaten by police after refusing to give up the airline seat that he legitimately paid for.

@@EugeneTChu right. Academic success is good to pursue, but not the end-all-be-all for shaping a young person.

Yet being an athlete, musician, or actor also requires a lot of hard work. The problem with pursuing those passions as jobs are that the market for them is extremely volatile and success is often determined by luck/connections that most Asians don't have. Being a doctor/lawyer/engineer is in reality a lot easier to do, and there's more stability. That's how my Asian parents explained it to me - no disciplining needed. Your parents must be terrible if they discipline you for asking questions.

My parents said back then when Asian countries were poor, businessmen were the only ones who were rich. Musicians, actors, and athletes didn’t make money that much, didn’t matter how famous they were. Also after some time of being famous, their fame died down and they were constantly replaced by newcomers, so they stopped making money as much. Doctors, lawyers, and engineers made good enough money and their careers were stable; you can have those careers for the rest of your life. But now that Asian countries are growing economically, those in the creative and sports field are doing exceptionally well, even better than doctors. However, those industries are still unstable, you either make it or not. So Asian parents often discourage their children to be musicians/actors/athletes

Asian parents advise against these because those fields have less job stability. There are many people who don't become famous, and they end up with low to no income. Because the arts field is somewhat subjective e.g. actor. Moreover, professional fields like scientists, lawyers, doctors etc. have erected many barriers to entry to protect their profession, to ensure that they all have good pay, less competition and more jobs. As the other previous guy says, a more developed and rich economy helps support those jobs in the entertainment, arts field because people have more disposable income. Asian parents mean well when they advise their children to choose the more tried and tested way. They also want their kids to aim high so Asian kids can reach higher than they've dreamed!

Filipinos know intuitively the difference between DISCIPLINE and ABUSE.

@BtK-gn5hb I totally agree. Success is admired, but not worshipped in the Filipino culture.

@BtK-gn5hb I heard this Korean said this - Filipinos are just playing in learning American English while I'm trying really hard. Many Koreans and other nationalities go to the Philippines to learn and refine their American English in a cost-effective way.

@@BtK-gn5hb let's us not forget that South Korea gives us lots of wonderful advances in technology.

There’s a difference between disciplining and abuse. Don’t make us fellow South East Asians look bad

Minority/diversity quotas look good for western schools. It's one of your privileges being foreign in the west.

So be thankful.. you’re ahead of most people on earth

Academic pressure may be less, but be careful about other factors. Anti-Asian discrimination and violence surged in the last several years. Some Asian men struggle to find romance due to negative Hollywood stereotypes. First job outside of school may be easier, but promotion may be limiting due to race.

@@EugeneTChu When you got Degree in your CV & Money in your Pocket, I'd say romance would always lurk around.

@@ruturajshiralkar5566 CV and degree are irrelevant to romance. Asian men are not normally seen as attractive in western countries. Many require matchmaking or dating coaching in order to find female partners.

You are incorrect, as an American we do not claim you as one buddy

@@Cryptum404 What is incorrect? And I served, did you?

Not really, maybe high earning Asian parents. Not for the majority to pressure their children.

If we stopped lifting some schools as being "the best school," there would be less pressure. I have never asked where my doctor got his degree, I have never asked an accountant where they got their license. Where one goes to school doesn't matter to regular citizens. All that matters is that you got the tools and you passed the courses.

Nothing wrong with a strong family bond. Pressure creates diamonds.

I have never met an Asian that grew up in a broken home. You are definitely right.

@@ClarenceJBoddicker1987Some have grown up in broken homes. But compared to the other group's I believe those numbers are lower. The Asian Community has a strong internal safety net. In which they help each other. If that kid had a unstable home a Uncle or Aunt or grandparent will take them in and guide them. Also with The Asian Community I've noticed Koreans the money stays in the community that's where the real economic power is.

EXACTLY

There ya go! Ever wonder why you see a young Asian male in a Nissan GTR? ( $150k car) and owns his own shop? Work ethics and family values. 👪 exactly that.

Exactly

@Steven Baas [C] will be scrutinized by the society even in some countries can be criminalized for neglecting a family member who's under their responsibility. Ofc, if you can't take care of your parents or kids due to economical reason, you can seek help ftom the government. But not doing anything to solve it, is a crime. In the West, neglecting your kids is a crime but not the reverse, in Asia, it's both ways. Singapore for example, has Adult Protective Service, specifically for that. It's more than elder abuse case law in the West. That's our family values.

If you're a celebrity and you say this you'll be canceled.

@@saturdaysequalsyouth well, that's the sad society we're in right now, unfortunately

@Steven Baas [C] shame on them. If you don't care for your parents just because you don't feel like it or because you were just looking out for yourself, that kid will be a very materialistic. If you don't care for your own flesh and blood just because they don't offer you much, how come you will care for a friend, relative or a business partner if you'll have to help them out of a crisis one day. Unless that parent is being manipulative and abusive, kids should have no excuse to abandon their parents. In my society, you help each other out to survive. A medical crisis is upon you and you don't have enough Money? As long as you got a good relationship with people around you, someone will be willing to lend you money without any interest. Something happens to your child? The whole community will be up in arms to save that kid. But the thing is, you'll be expected to do something similar when you become a full-fledged adult in the future because self-serving nature could only get you so far in life. You start with helping out your own family, and then you can move onto helping others.

Not always...Sowell's comments are that Asians are successful due to traditional family and high college graduation. He ignores racial violence, stereotyping and discrimination. Your Jewish argument is similar by focusing on one area, but forgetting about discrimination and violence from anti-Semitism.

thats consumerism babyyyy and ironically its that sort of belief that supported many generations of your partial compatriots throughout the generations in the first place.

Exactly! But as a fellow Asian I understand why a lot of Asian diasporas dislike the “think about other people” mindset because it puts unnecessary burden on them.

Marxists ideologues. I remember them well from that era. They seemed to disappear but they just changed how they approached things until they were ready to try again. Apparently, they think that they're ready.

The family is the nucleus of human civilization. The people who want to destroy it are effectively saying that they want to destroy human civilization.

I had similar experiences with the gay rights movement in the mid 1980s. They kept screaming about how great communism was, coming especially from the lesbians. This is where I parted ways.

They succeeded.

… destroy our history, destroy our Constitution?! Why do we allow to do it to this great country?!

Gee, thought by your name you might be Scottish.

Me love you long time

@@babagandu Everybody knows the US military had nothing but baby killers.

🤣

Everyone is well aware Nguyen is Vietnamese. You didn’t even need to say you’re Asian. Glad to see your post fellow ASEAN from Philippines!

God bless you for providing extra help for those who wanted it!

What school and state did you teach at? I'm Mexican and Im studying for civil engineering major , however, I do believe that affirmative action isn't beneficial since it puts a burden on Asian students especially. Ironically though, the same people complaining about Blacks and Hispanics being underrepesented at ivy League colleges also oppose improving the quality of education that they receive prior to post-secondary education. Teachers Unions, for example, are part of the problem since they do nothing to improve the elementary, middle and high schools of black/hispanic children, and they simultaneously oppose charter schools since most charter school teachers are not unionised and because they know that minority children succeed disproportionately in charter schools. Take a look at Success Academy Charter Schools in New York for instance. Sowell talks about it in his book "Discrimination and Disparities" that black and hispanic children who attended SA have OUTPERFORMED white and asian children who attended the conventional public schools , despite the fact that a lot of those white and asian school children came from middle-upper class families, according to 14000 students surveyed there. Take a look at Garfield High School for example. 25% of ALL Mexican American students passing the Ap calculus exam came from Garfield HS because of Jaime Escalante, who I consider to be one of my heroes at the time of his success. . He received a Presidential Medal of Honor from President Ronald Reagan subsequently , but was unfortunately ousted out of Garfield by the Teachers Unions in California who hated him for opposing bilingual education. At the final analysis , if these garbage politicians/teachers unions really cared about improving my peoples education, we would start the process at our K12 schools FIRST. This whole :Diversity, Equity and Inclusion (DEI) garbage wouldn't be necessary in Universities if they'd follow this guideline.

Trust me. I've read several of Dr. Sowell's books. My favourite Sowell book is "Black Rednecks and White Liberals" because it talks about the origins of the black ghetto culture in a profound way. He also talks about the ACTUAL history of slavery which should be taught in every institution (from K12 to College ) to lessen tensions between black and white Americans whining about their ancestors' wrongdoings and misfortunes. I have yet to finish his "Discrimination and Disparities" book.

Black Americans don't value admission to elite colleges because, drumroll... They've never been considered elite in this country 🤯. It becomes a disincentive to sitting in libraries unpaid for decades, when you are in a lineage of people who worked on these lands for hundreds of years and never received payment. There are psychological impacts of the cotton fields that persist and remain to this day...

@@luciensartikilledjohnf.ken1689 To fix the problem the Union created. Thus they continue to enforce the problems to keep the Union.

I'm a white boy, age 56. Once or twice a year, I still have what I call "The Dream." Sometimes the details vary, but the theme is consistent. I'm back at Georgia Tech, it's time for final exams, and I haven't been attending class for the past few weeks. It's a horrible feeling. My cousin says I have academic PTSD. She's not wrong.

RoofTop... Korean? 🙂

@@willhooke Yes 😁

Occasionally I have such dreams, but they're usually about having a report or term paper due, but only remembering about it either the night before or in the morning of the due date.

@@willhooke look up 1991 LA riot. You'll see what roof top Koreans are all about.

I didn’t grow up that way. My parents were very easy going. I wasn’t a very good HS student. I didn’t try. I made choices to just play basketball and other sports or activities which kept me from studying much. I hung around a group of friends who were not trouble makers but just not very focused. I went to a community college. It was a certain amount of peer pressure and my dad finally asking what I planned to do. Also, when dating once the Asian girl sees you’re not going anywhere in life she’s not interested. Most are not. These were my incentives. I buckled down. Transferred to a 4 year university and began my career which I enjoy. It just mind boggles me as to how somewhat easy it was but also challenging in passing exams and getting promoted.

@F430 Ferrari So did you land an Asian girl?

@@michaellim4165 I’ve dated Latino but she hung around Asians. Dated white and also Asian. I dated a lot more after I had my career established. I married Asian woman.

"Saving face": an integral part of Asian culture. I don't even think American kids can even define it, let alone do it.

​@@f430ferrari5similar here as I lounge in NYC planning for the future wealth and intelligence of humanity and to govern all governments with my intellectual property that they are fighting against! Lucky me Mr Givins's NHE!😊❤

He was humble. I am sure he met the high qualifications, for being there.

Western culture pushes for the unique individual creation and development. Eastern culture is for the community. In general. Yes, there's self development, but it does lean on the better for the community. So a balance between the two perspective would be great.

"My husband has fixed mindset". Sounds like you are the one who needs some help.

@@Ryo8761 I always said there may be more genius or creative people (born that way and not being pressured into) in Western countries but they are only a very small fraction of the population whereas in Asia, the whole group is generally better educated and more productive but may not produce that many creative people or genius. That might also explain the general IQ score in different population.

@@jajalee1572 that's true, I agree. The standards in Asia is higher but it produces few extreme outliers like the Western culture.

@@Ryo8761 but lots of Americans outliers are usually from other countries like Israel, Germany, other European countries coz they pay them well

I agree with that philosophy

It's not about what you know but who you know. This applies to every aspects of life.

I went to Caltech. They do not use the same text books for undergraduate classes. My Math 1 (Calculus) text was written by the Ma professor himself. Still, text books aside, it is the homework and exams that set these schools apart, not even the teaching. Math 1 finished 1 year of HS calculus in a few weeks. Each math homework problem would take me an entire afternoon to solve. Overtime, these assignments pushed and unleashed my problem-solving and analytical potentials to several times what I thought I could do. No, it is not like LV bags or just about networking. The students had to work 10x as hard or they may flunk out.

It would depend on your field of study. Some courses are better at MIT then other colleges and also their electives and first years courses also are better (for technology as they don't make you take the BS classes other colleges makes you take, as in more emphasis on tech). This is not to discredit other great colleges like Georgia Tech as they also have a great aerospace program but certain schools have better programs (for real courses like STEM). Now Yale and Harvard are great for lawyers as you get connections (like congressmen and presidents) however their programs are definitely just that (though they a great astrophysics program). This is just based on my family's anecdotes though and we are immigrants so the college gen is mine and we are in the late 20's age now (besides the lawyer as that is just based on the astrophysics cousin's view). Yes all my parents generation children are together and we are Asian.

@@Ldsyldsy CalTech is on a whole different level than the Ivy League schools. You are among the academic elite if you are admitted to CalTech.

😂U haven't been to Asia have you🤔?

@@user-of2co3ke5p i am talking about east asian, china, korea and japan.

We used to have (in the US) many of the values you refer to. The left destroyed them.

@@bobs3354 And that’s why Japan and South Korea need to avoid becoming Americanized by all costs!

The West culture is not the problem. The problem is the cultural Marxism

@@xchen3079 And cultural marxism has taken over the west to the point it has become the western culture.

@@jeskerjames3260 Not totally yet, half I guess

me too. would have preferred traditional Asian family structure.

The people who incentivised the breakdown would've guessed 😐

If you want to see mental health problem, look at homeless in DemoKKKrat cities like LA and SF. You rarely see Asian face among the mentally ill.

You have valid points. While some Asians do well with college and initial job, they face difficulty with career advancement and romance. Asians also face discrimination and violence based on jealousy of success similar to anti-Semitism against Jewish people.

@@EugeneTChu Anti-asian jealousy come from DemoKKKrat who are exclusively pushing racist affirmative action, hindering Asian advancements (see tech firms dominated by DemoKKKrats and lack of Asian management), DemoKKKrat dominated entertainment industry portraying Asian men as meek cowards.

Its not like Asians didnt understand mental health. Yoga, meditation is all about mental health. Even martial arts, chants, minimalism. Saying stay hydrated and wake up early does contribute to better mental health. They just didnt see paying someone by the hour on a regular basis and popping pills as a solution. However they also ignored serious psychiatric problems and didnt develop open communication.

Many poor Korean immigrant kids had just 2 clothes to wear to school and often teased for wearing the same thing. But they stuck together knowing their poverty. One of them got a PhD and now running a big venture you probably heard the name.

Sometimes the examples the parents set and the environment they create are enough for the children to thrive. Also you must still had boundary, expectations, nurturing and discipline for your children. You didn't abandon them to be totally wild. The opportunities and options available to your children in Montreal or Canada are amazing. Don't underestimate these. My parents barely finish primary school education. I grew up in a region with not even a single university for 2 million people. The deprivations continue to the current and future generations.

@@sunway1374 Yes, Canadian schools are a good place for a kid to play and study. Many immigrant kids are very ambitious. The learning environment is generally benign.

Nice

Working hard isn't enough. You gotta work smart too.

@@shootingbricks8554 Yes, I absolutely agree, tell your kids that working smart is more important than working hard.

I have seen kids who were home schooled through primary years and then wanted to go to public skool completely adopt the social norms at public skool within one year. If they go to college they adopt it then. Forget having a family in Western society today, it's futile.

@@naps3386 Nope, Family structure is important. Its the glue that holds many important responsibilities together.

I don't understand . Can you elaborate?

I’m Nigerian but same thing happened to me except we where just hit with cane and it was 1st grade. 5th graders had to learn to 25 and they all did

Agree with Korean efficiency and I live in Germany. Its might be the middle you wish for here, but efficiency is kinda non-existent in difference to Korea. Majority just do bare minimum to live comfortably and being hard working is more like fined by higher tax. Also fun memory for multiplication table, I must learn whole in summer vacation and they checked it on first day :)

In US the teacher wants the students to write out the multiplication table. While in Asia the students taught to remember the table before 2nd grade!

Yep. Asians are taught to supress their feelings. They definitely dont believe in therapy, addiction being a disease, or in mental health issues.

Yes, I work in South Korea. There are many issues coming to the forefront of society that influence academic pressure. Academic reputation is huge and the pressure to get into the best schools is high. Young adult suicide is high. Middle-class and above kids study most of the day. This means little kids sitting in chairs, with short breaks and no time to run around or be outside Monday through Friday. Sometimes Saturday as well. The idea often is that if you just keep throwing knowledge at them they'll absorb it. True to a degree but many of the kids are exhausted and need a mental break they just aren't getting. A lot of them hit an academic wall or are placed in inappriately leveled classes and just have to slog through the processes day in and day out not really imrpoving at one point. Many of the younger kids are placed in these after school study programs because the parents are both working full time jobs and the after school academy is their child care. The economy in SK has slowed a lot. Getting good paying jobs is getting more competitive and harder than ever, just like the US. This means more academic pressure from the parents that can afford extra classes. Poorer families have been left behind. Many families are also realizing their kid just doesn't have it in them or that the rat race is getting so intense their child's misery isn't worth it and are scaling back on the pressure to study. The korean adults I have talked to around my age confess they do not really have friends. They do not really have hobbies. Many are depressed. Many are in their late twenties and early thirties having never lived outside their parent's home. Unlike America, there is no pressure to move out until one gets married because rent prices are astronomical, but the result is a lot of adults with few independent life experiences. I've heard many anecdotes about the married lives of families too and there is a slang word for what ends up happening in most of them: 졸혼. It means to graduate from marriage. Sure divorce rates are still lower than America, but most marriages become open at one point or totally defunct in terms of romance and connection between mom and dad. Lots of dads who only come home from their out of town job on the weekends. So while these family units are intact, there is a lot of toxicity too. Credit card debt is just as much an issue here as in the US. Many people buy flashy things they can't afford as pressure to appear materially successful is huge. At the end of the day, I don't think Asia, or SK at least, is all that different from the West. For all the talk of discipline, family values and academic focus, they're headed to the same places we are. A society forced to ask themselves, "What is the point of life? Happiness or working in misery to own a bunch of stuff? At what point is the system we're living under to blame for growing poverty and dissatisfaction rather than individuals."

@@fangirl7914 since when life purpose is happiness? sounds like we are more priviledged then previous generations and can live simply to be happy. All greatest achievements of humanity wasn't achieved by people who seeked happiness, it have been done by people who worked hard. If we relax now, may be truly one day we will have robot overlords

I taught Korean children, privately for 10 years and that's my understanding of their lives too. They mostly did great in subjects at school but 95% were miserable at home. Robotic, controlled, materialistic and shallow lives is what I mostly saw. Very sad. They were great at work but struggled at home and socially.

@@sunithagirish2139 I study CS and same be can be told about my fellow students. But the truth is, this is how outer world sees us. When we just under yourself, we are extremely social. From my own experience, its not like I can't talk to anyone, I just don't want talk to anyone and its usually so for smart kids

just because there is an exception to the rule doesnt make the rule invalid. what is the dominant language at home and in the street? if it aint english, there is your reason

ive been to thailand. I totally agree. the thai students i see in the mall didn't seem the brightest lol

@@charmander777 in that case, i believe it is not uniquely “thai students at the mall” 😂😂😂

@@fannyalbi9040 lmfao

As a Thai native, I have to approve your message😂 I feel like Asian in the video that they are talking about are East Asian(Korea, Japanese, Chinese, Hong Kong, Taiwan),and Indian😅 In Thailand, though, It has been having a big issue on education and Inequality. So yeah, it might be the reason.

Yes, a buried treasure with a local following.

Lol you know how many American treasures there are that you idiots haven’t heard of

Lol Yeah sure. Many people work harder and never rise. Whyte country favors Asianz. Next question.

I bet you got the same "you must work harder than the white person to get the same success" speech too, lol. It's funny reading through these stories how similar they are.

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But why devalue men ?? What is reason?

This is what blows my mind. As someone that has dated black women even in the ghetto. I never understood the total animosity and insistence on not staying with the father that these bitter hateful women have their babies with. Even if the dad did nothing wrong. They pride themselves on taking care of kids by themselves and pride themselves on government hadnouts. Its nuts what ive seen! Im a white dude originally from suburbs of annapolis, MD.

@@carrad123456 The reason being men are considered the providers, protectors and pro-creators of the family unit. They are the moral authority of the household.

@@finchman1 hmm, I think till there is not change and flexibility in outlook these gender dislikes will continue, Both man and woman in relationship should bring their best out, and can change roles of protector and nurturer over course of life on a single day as well • with not many wars there and not hunter gatherer type of lifestyle anymore women find more protection outside home, similarly men are also nurturing young kids by taking them to school , co circullar activities, reading stories, cooking meal etc etc , both in a relationship should find what suits them best and then work as team• In most Asian societies that is normal actually, if you observe asian family we see man wear nurturer cap sometimes amd woman wearing protectors cap sometimes• and other way around• It helps in stable families and mentally stronger kids•

Thats true very true although on asains community they have gangs in the underworld

True. We don't have the "one" race that is the smartest. But the separation is in the work ethics.

I am an Asian American. We should focus on individual and personal passion/achievement instead of race, national origins which can be inaccurate and counterproductive & discriminatory. Surely we all regardless can learn and apply some practical good techniques from each other. Good or bad depending on individual kharma, not race or anything specific.

Confucianism died China and Japan Communist China killed it Impalism Japan killed it proper Confucianism survived only in Korean Peninsula as a Historian view

While I agree for sure individualism most important overall, your comment generalizing Asian students as not most talented appears to be totally unsubstantiated when admitting that group got highest grades. A tinge of jealousy perhaps? So based on your logic if one studied hard and do well, it is because that student studied hard not because underlying talent? how did you come up with that conclusion that someone scoring lower is actually more talented? Point is you can't make that generalization period without hard evidence.

Culture, not race.

It creates good followers

This is not a trend but a pattern

@@BrokeAgain You would think so but indians and asians disproportionately represent founders of tech startup unicorns that reached ipo or series B and also disproportionately represent F500 CEOs.

@@ajays9936 why would say disproportion... what proportion was it supposed to be?

@@BrokeAgain But isn't that what westerners want? East Asians that meekly comply with what they say, instead of asserting themselves.

dunno why comments like these are not shown more. There is a balance in life. I feel like in America they only focus on the success of so called “Asian” students, and not the side effects. These students do not always grown up to be what we expect. Academic success does not make you achieve beyond what you are told. And many of these students do not meet the high standards, in which they are seen as failures not only from their parents, but OUTSIDE of the culture. You probably heard BS statements like “you fail at xxx despite being asian haha.” This is some dumb shit statement because Asians are human beings too. They are not some sort of robots bent on success.

@@timsohn7057 true, some people translate academic success to "success in life". while it might have some correlation, but it is not entirely true. many self make millionaires and billionaires were not great in their academics.

I'm that Asian dad lol.

These are short segments of much longer videos created years ago. Search on the Hoover Institution YT channel.

🤣🤣🤣 you funny