The REAL Reason Why Successful 40yr Old Women Can't Find a Man

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Many women over 40 struggle to find a man, in this video I discuss the main reasons why.
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@EntrepreneursInCars 2 жыл бұрын

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@maryjacobs1323 2 жыл бұрын

Rich you are so HOT me Be bless

@elpatron7916 2 жыл бұрын

40 plus has grandkids in tow.

@RealHomeRecording 2 жыл бұрын

Too many waste their youths... including myself. But it is even more important for women. Great video, as usual.

@berniecruz8405 2 жыл бұрын

Sorry Bro, You're wrong about your example number 1. I'm a successful guy and have made a successful life and for me, I've ALWAYS have been the MOST attracted to women who were successful. That's because I'm a Sapiosexual. I find intelligence and success the most attractive. More so than pussy, tits and ass! (When it comes to wanting to be in a relationship, that is) BUT, keep in mind. the reason behind WHY I'm attracted to these types of women, THE MOST, is because I don't believe in the concept of "the man being a provider". I don't believe that the man's role in life is to financially support a woman. I believe that men and women are equal, all across the board. PLUS, come time in divorces, the one thing I've ALWAYS BEEN AGAINST was the fact that when the little woman is a "homemaker", she ends up getting half the shit and wealth from the man ONLY because of "marriage" even though the woman really didn't contribute financially to the household. For me, when it comes to women, the ONLY time I don't care about a woman's success status is ONLY when I'm just trying to have sex with her and have no intentions to really get into a relationship with that woman. But when I had the mindset of wanting an actual serious relationship, I ONLY considered a woman who had her shit together (i.e. a degree, perfect credit, her own house, her own car, etc...)

@elpatron7916 2 жыл бұрын

@Not Convinced we lost

@elacertijox6566 2 жыл бұрын

I met a girl when I was 28 and she was 21, I asked her out two times and she said no, now I am 54 and she Is 47, I saw her a few weeks ago and she has hit the wall bad, and she wanted to go out with me and I said I have a girlfriend (which Is not true) but I would not go out with her for one minute, she had her chance.

@jdsartre9520 2 жыл бұрын

this right here

@exiletsj2570 2 жыл бұрын

This is a level of self satisfaction I aspire to.

@sethus458 2 жыл бұрын

And what was her response to that

@TC-cd5sm 2 жыл бұрын

"I wasn't good enough for you then, and you're definitely not good enough for me now."

@royj8549 2 жыл бұрын

Classic "if you don't want me in your prime, I won't catch you in your decline"!

@cindybrown7527 2 жыл бұрын

As an older woman I appreciate this reality check, it’s exactly what young women need to be aware of before it’s too late. The feminists can claim it’s sexist, but it’s human biology so deal with it accordingly.

@stevenlightfoot6479 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, absolutely. Unfortunately feminists have been lying to young women for decades now, and I think the over 40 single childless women phenomenon really ramped up in the 2000s, when girls born in the late 60s and 70s were at the end of their fertility years, and had bought the feminist line that you could have it all sold to them during the 70s and 80s and 90s. They ran out the clock and didn't realize it. Women's SMV goes into terminal decline after 35. I know a lot of single women who got burnt by the feminists. Rich it doing all women a favor by telling it like it is. I hope younger women are paying attention.

@amazingamazigh6847 2 жыл бұрын

@@stevenlightfoot6479 after 35? More like after 27!

@stevenlightfoot6479 2 жыл бұрын

@@amazingamazigh6847 Depends on many factors. In rural areas, yes for sure, 35 is way old. In cities, especially for men over 40, 35 is probably a practical cut off, if the men want a family. Fertility drops off rapidly after 35.

@djbabbotstown 2 жыл бұрын

It’s stings as much as men hearing their, wallet, height etc etc ain’t it. That’s life.

@hugogonzalez1749 2 жыл бұрын

@S ess in your dreams lmao, young girls don't find older men attractive? Where do you think the term 'daddy' came from. You living in the 🧢 emporium.

@iwthswlosl 3 ай бұрын

Most women think they are doing you a favour by just talking to you let alone have an actual relationship.

@muziki79 3 ай бұрын

Please turn up the volume 💯 😊

@Mark-qv4bn 3 ай бұрын

@@muziki79 Ha ha.

@virginiamoss7045 3 ай бұрын

You mean just among the women you have come across in your life? I really don't think "most" women don't want an actual relationship.

@Caroline-up8nl 3 ай бұрын

Doesn’t that say more about you ? Just saying 😆

@virginiamoss7045 3 ай бұрын

@@Caroline-up8nl Yes, it's rather revealing.

@MsLotusBlooms 4 ай бұрын

I am marrying at the ripe age of 46. Finding a good husband was truly the most gruelling, painful, and difficult thing I've ever done in my whole life. I have finally gotten my life partner but I will never ever be on the market again and endure that process. No way.

@user-di6kn4zs4j 4 ай бұрын

After listening to all of this, I can really appreciate the fact that I love being single. I may be the odd one out, but I really don't want anyone, so you can all run around like the headless chickens that you are while I enjoy the single life.

@idimidoimi717 4 ай бұрын

@@user-di6kn4zs4jNo, no, you're not odd, it's just the way how modern coaches teach us that relationships are supposed to work. There is no more love between men and women, a huge gap has been created deliberately and systematically, and everything is a calculation. Love is simple and it should be our essence. It is completely ok to wish to be with someone, but modern society doesn't support that since strong couples and families are hard to be manipulated. I hope you will not stay single and lonely, and wisĥing you to find your best friend and love of your life.

@AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu 3 ай бұрын

Im 40 old woman but I look very young and my son is grown 18 so i never had any problom getting chatted up i.think cos I am a home maker love to cook clean love spoil the man and treat like a king and I have no probloms also im active and bit mad and young at heart ❤❤❤ so I think look after your self spoil the man be kind and just enjoy time

@AshlingMcgovern-ir9bu 3 ай бұрын

Also have babies young like I was 21 married till 36 now my son is grown been.on my own to recover and heal and yet always getting asked out and I never looked for it. Again keep active be friendly smile and act like a lady my advise❤❤

@user-kd5li9ty4w 3 ай бұрын

@@user-di6kn4zs4j You're definitely not the odd one out. More and more of us are around.

@Blackwingsss 2 жыл бұрын

There were a few girls in my life who werent attractive but their kindness almost made me fall in love with them. Being bossy and aggressive are one of the most disgusting traits women can have.

@ralphholiman7401 2 жыл бұрын

And, those are the women the smart men marry. Looks are temporary anyway, but a good personality can last a lifetime.

@willierobison3666 2 жыл бұрын

Oh man. I agree. I hate a pushy, bossy, manly, non-feminine females. It is evil.

@joemachine4714 2 жыл бұрын

You're just intimidated 😆

@12325814 2 жыл бұрын

@@ralphholiman7401 ...aaaand IRONY OFF :-D :-D

@space.midnight.cowboy 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree

@jeffreycfmok 2 жыл бұрын

If you are an older woman and you think dating is unfair, you should interview some younger guys about their dating experiences

@chilipepper9938 2 жыл бұрын

So I have a unique opportunity to engage with 65 yr old voman and 20 year old man. It was a mind blowing conversation. The 65 year old voman had no idea what a shizshow it was for the dude, given the fact that 80% of younger guys are invisible to voman the same age.

@spade2you 2 жыл бұрын

Try being a short dude. I'm athletic and successful. Even chubby girls have zero interest in me.

@ridenfish39 2 жыл бұрын

@@stuartjohnston4353 In the 80’s wmn weren’t as fat either. The average size of the American female is now 5’4” and 170 lbs.

@driftlesswindsfarm2129 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaahahaha, totally. Or a man of any age that lacks passion.

@ralphholiman7401 2 жыл бұрын

@@spade2you , it doesn't matter. I'm 6'3". It's money not height. When I made money, that's when the women took interest. Remember the movie Secretariat, and the winning jockey had the tall beautiful blonde at the party, and he explained, "She found out that I'm a lot taller when I stand on my wallet."

@jamesstrom6991 8 ай бұрын

This video is so true. I’ve had good success dating and am happy to date a woman who is my age (50s) and looks it, IF she brings the right personality … can she be kind, easy to get along with, compromise, show affection … can she be feminine in the traditional sense… that’s what matters. and be healthy and not a whale. “no drama” is a cliche but it’s true.

@SJ.INFO5000 Ай бұрын

If she still dating in her 50s no matter the reason maybe she was married 25 years and the husband died well that's drama and maybe also trauma and also some kids so it's a lot of headaches just you know the kiss philosophy keep it simple stupid

@user-rk1uz4ur4m 4 ай бұрын

I'm a 57 yr old british guy and i love your videos,always interesting and accurate,many thanks for sharing your thoughts

@stephenburnage7687 2 жыл бұрын

In my single days I was a very eligible executive but I had one golden rule and that was to never date female lawyers or executives. Found them too argumentative and opinionated. My business life was full of challenges and I didn't need the same in my personal life. Married my secretary instead and twenty years later, we still have a very happy marriage.

@dano9421 2 жыл бұрын

Here here brother, nobody wants to kiss a older executive who runs every aspect of his life and none of a together couple in love with each other

@sbrazenor2 2 жыл бұрын

I too have come to the same conclusion. They fight about every... single... fucking... thing. Sometimes you just want to kick back and relax and not have to work too hard. Sometimes you just don't want an insufferable cunt picking at you about everything. 🤣

@12325814 2 жыл бұрын

...let me introduce the GUY WHO ACTUALLY GOT IT! Smart men make smart decisions. I wish you all the best and at least another 20 happy years!

@eugenecharkov3547 2 жыл бұрын

True,never date a lawyer,an executive or a RE broker.They just do not deserve a good dick.Let them have cats or dogs.

@nyterpfan 2 жыл бұрын

That's awesome!! very happy for you--you truly played it smart!!

@lawv804 2 жыл бұрын

A woman who is a boss at work, doesn't just turn that personality off when they get home at the end of the day.

@jimcole6423 2 жыл бұрын

They boss everything. I've seen it. Nasty.

@hippie_preppy_jock 2 жыл бұрын

After 26 years of marriage to "the manager"... I can safely say that statement is 1000% true.

@taylorc2542 2 жыл бұрын

Unless you can shut it down. You just have to win the argument by being smarter.

@lawv804 2 жыл бұрын

@@taylorc2542 I'd rather just not come home to a woman with that attitude, than have to constantly shut the attitude down.

@insertnamehere8121 2 жыл бұрын

@@taylorc2542 " *You just have to win the argument by being smarter* " I'll repeat something that a woman that I highly respect once said to me when presenting my own equivalent of your argument : " Your mistake is thinking women cant see themselves as having 'won' without a reasoned/logical argument ".

@tribuneofmercy6184 5 ай бұрын

I've been married for 15 years, and we have children (we are the same age). People go through various stages in life, and having kids is one of the most profound changes your life journey will take you on. It's well worth it. Having said that, I know a couple where the husband was older that are now divorced. I know a few couples that met in high school and are still married. I know a couple who met in high school and are divorced. I know of every single scenario under the sun where the couple is either divoced or still married. There's no silver bullet. A lot of the things that are discussed by these youtubers about human nature is true. The best thing you can do is be aware of this and not act on gour impulses when it can get you into trouble. I can't really offer any advice other than if you ladies find a good man stop thinking you can always level up. And to the men, marrying a younger woman doesn't necessarily go well all the time.

@svitlanababych4051 4 ай бұрын

The only sane comment here

@nataliamoscalenco2969 3 ай бұрын

@@svitlanababych4051 I absolutely agree with you!!!!

@gul1329 3 ай бұрын

Agree❤

@candyclancy8824 3 ай бұрын

I have worked in male dominant professions most of my career. I would fully concur with all of this. But here is the good thing ladies, the truth shall set you free! I still believe that relationships don’t have to be only status attraction connections. Maybe being a good friend, authentic and caring is the comfort zone for a real connection. Lead with the heart not the ego.

@johnny9048 3 ай бұрын

Wise words

@shurmike 2 жыл бұрын

at 38 I married a twenty year old After 25 years we divorced when she found a younger man. Devastating. but it motivated me to study and learn about relationships etc. main advice: take care of your health and work on yourself. too many men live just for their families without having a life. bad mistake.

@os8051 Жыл бұрын

Dude y’all spent 25 years together

@Westrait Жыл бұрын

@@os8051 yeah he ran mileage on that thing get another one

@coachroger Жыл бұрын

Agreed, my friend. It's important to have your own life too. Very important!

@entertainment4u7 Жыл бұрын

I want to marry with 40 year women please suggest me

@tabletalk33 6 ай бұрын

So true! Nobody is driving me into a "man-cave"! My house I run my way. To put it another way, Pro 21:19 It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.

@dpstrial 2 жыл бұрын

I heard on a podcast yesterday that research undertaken by four UK universities revealed that men's chance of marriage increased by 35% for every 16 points higher their IQ was, whereas women's decreased by 40%. Also, people who are successful at work are generally more disagreeable than those who aren't successful. Whereas women to some extent are drawn to disagreeable men, men don't find disagreeable women remotely attractive.

@Ace.0.0.0. 2 жыл бұрын

"...men don't find disagreeable women remotely attractive." You don't say. I'm shocked! Well, not that shocked. As for IQ, having an LTR with a woman having the IQ of a vegetable I think would get old real fast. Too many people argue to win, not to learn.

@JasonTzzz 2 жыл бұрын

I would be less attracted to an airhead lady. I want a smart child and would be bored if she is a dummy

@rc198028 2 жыл бұрын

I really value intelligence in a partner.

@Yeahitsme101 2 жыл бұрын

Name of the podcast and the episode bro?

@dpstrial 2 жыл бұрын

@@Yeahitsme101 It is on Chris Williamson's channel and was uploaded on 13 Dec 2021. It is called "Why is the Modern Dating Market a Mess? - Vincent Harinam | Modern Wisdom Podcast 410".

@fadep2024 3 ай бұрын

I am married with 43 years old and have a baby with 44, my husband make me feel like a queen , we have a very nice life together, I am so much more happy than when I was 25 years old ❤

@rajsekharpati8714 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations

@user-ci6hq9qy8b 27 күн бұрын

I'm genuinely happy for you and curious how you got a baby Natural? Ivf? Donor egg? Adoption?

@lynettetaravella2578 3 ай бұрын

Rich, You're spot on with your statements/comments. I'm a divorced mother of 2 (unemployed but job hunting & hope to have a business of my own before the year's over). I personally know a few women like the ones you're talking about. I went through a bad divorce almost a year ago. I wasn't making good choices in the men department. I did find a good guy (I met my boyfriend in early August, 2022 at the hotel I worked at & we started dating in mid-November, 2022). I was dating a guy (unfortunately a guy I worked with) in his early 40s when I met my current boyfriend. He turned out to be a jerk & was very immature. I also met a guy in his late 30s (unfortunately, another guy I used to work with) before I met my ex boyfriend. My current boyfriend is great & much closer in age to me than my ex-husband and ex-boyfriend (I'm 51, my ex-husband is 68 & my current boyfriend is 58). There's hope for older women like me but it might take a while. Don't give up! Be objective when finding a guy. Hang in there!

@SJ.INFO5000 Ай бұрын

if you are really strapped for money, which i do not think so, if divorced kids you receive something, BUT you can start with studying and learning fasting and keto, and exercise ABS at home, when you wake up in you bed is easier, try to hit 15 daily then 25 optimal will be for you to be able to do 59 ABS crunches in the morning every day but once you are in shape you can do every 2-3 days, also squats the same hit 20 then 30 then 50, boom!

@dont6441 2 жыл бұрын

I'll pass on any woman who describes herself as "sassy". While it can have a positive connotation for some, it can also be negative. Who wants to be "sassed"? No thank you.

@exiletsj2570 2 жыл бұрын

@@grit1679 This is actually very true. I actually like “sassy” women but not the ones who describe themselves as such, they tend to be stupid and ugly.

@insertnamehere8121 2 жыл бұрын

_Sassy_ = s feeding her "I get my way all of the time" narcissism that requires someone else always losing and accumulating dissatisfaction

@ralphholiman7401 2 жыл бұрын

Or looking for their "soul mate". Run like a scared rabbit when you hear that one.

@troyjones2358 2 жыл бұрын

Codespeak for can’t shut the F up.

@joemachine4714 2 жыл бұрын

Describing herself as "Sassy" is just to impress other feminist females. Half of dating profiles are written to impress other women not men. Like " Hobbies: Retail Therapy"

@giuliana5888 2 жыл бұрын

My hope is that everyone finds the love that they need

@WHOTHAFUCK 2 жыл бұрын

well, many people dont because everybody is so fucking superficial and obsessed with very specific types of looks and body-types. Good luck

@jamesdavidson4769 Жыл бұрын

Women are very different today from the old days unfortunately.

@80skid83 Жыл бұрын

You too

@jessier.4237 Жыл бұрын

@@jamesdavidson4769 As are men.

@jwtrucker5402 4 ай бұрын

@jamesdavidson4769, untrue. Just back then, we kept them in check. Women have not changed at all. The difference is that now they have the legal ability to turn their true nature loose upon society.

@jessier.4237 4 ай бұрын

All great points and you're not wrong. Let's talk about all the young women who married and are now divorced years later without --a college, a good career, have no $$$, stuck struggling and older and lonelier than ever. The bottom line is, women can't win.

@janapetersen5225 3 ай бұрын

Exactly! I would rather have my own income and financial security than saddle up with some douche during my prime years that thinks I hit a wall at 30!

@anubiscomplex 10 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for these videos that help make sense of everything senseless going on in my life

@buckdesystem4562 Жыл бұрын

Here is some perspective from a 60 year old man who was the child of an older career woman. My mom was pushing 45 years old when I was born. My dad was younger. She was a pioneer in a particular field that I will not get into for brevity reasons. By the time I was an adolescent, my parents were retired and had moved on to their interests. I basically had to learn to cook for myself, and do laundry. I remember having a neighbour lady show me how to use the washing machine. They didn't even teach me about personal hygiene, and for long time, I couldn't figure out why people around me were always talking about taking showers. They were giving me hints. My parents didn't even show up for my high school graduation, as they had other plans that night that they didn't want to break. When my mom died when I was 41, my dad soon married a much younger woman who got the whole estate. When he died, my inheritance was $2,800. That's not a typo. The late great comedian George Carlin has a line: "You can't have everything. Where would you put it?" Everything in life involves choices. What do you want? You can't have everything. Trying to have everything, when there are other human lives involved, usually doesn't work out well for the other people involved. If you're a self absorbed woman, don't have kids. Please.

@the_creative70 Жыл бұрын

Wow. I’m sorry you went through that. Respectfully, selfish people shouldn’t ever become parents. Respectfully.

@donpeace894 Жыл бұрын

That was a good read. My dad was wealthy second wife got every penny

@coya8coy175 Жыл бұрын

This definitely sounds like your parents just didn’t want to have kids but probably had an accidental pregnancy or were maybe even pressured to have kids. So sorry to hear about your experience.

@gordonjay2461 Жыл бұрын

You got robbed

@dukelps9132 Жыл бұрын

Well it's a good thing for us that your mother still had you. Otherwise we would have one less gold nugget of information to pass around. Sorry about your history, but it's great your helping others.

@hughjass1044 2 жыл бұрын

In a nutshell - the type of man that a 40+ CEO career woman is looking for is NOT looking for them.

@baolnguyen442 3 ай бұрын

"sometimes from different fathers"... priceless 🙂

@baolnguyen442 3 ай бұрын

"was she the village bicycle?"... He is hilarious :-)

@andrewpm2 3 ай бұрын

I had this exact conversation w my 50yo gf just last week. She is successful and type A personality and has more rules than I can count. She argues and nit picks and complains about every damn thing regardless of its significance in terms of the "bigger picture". I told her I don't drink, gamble, smoke, do drugs. I love her 2 kids (from different fathers) and I don't look at or think of her daughter like a creep. I share financial responsibilities w her and her daughter bc we live together while she shares none of the financial responsibilities of my 2 children who live w my ex-wife. I'm generally optimistic about things while she is pessimistic about everything. Long story short, she took it all in and put it into perspective and has calmed down quite a bit. Hopefully things continue to improve but I was at a breaking point bc we fought almost daily over stupid shit. It gers exhausting and sometimes I do contemplate being single again.

@LuckysLair 3 ай бұрын

They always gotta b*tch about SOMEthing....ANYthing. They just can't be "happy"

@fishytanks604 3 ай бұрын

Run

@oimfc37 3 ай бұрын

Sprint

@mrmitchell4089 3 ай бұрын

Stop being a fool

@scotttracy9333 2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with Rich. In my 40s I would see these corporate masculine ball busting boss women types, and dated a few. They were into roof top dining, drinking wine, and bossing around. I also dated women in their early 20s, they'd be happy just to go to Applebee's. Even went on a zip lining date with one. They were more pleasant to be around, no attitude, no masculine energy, great sex. There is no reason for a guy 35+ to date a woman in the same age category

@anthonys387 2 жыл бұрын

100% all the same. Double degree/CEO/lawyer/ ball buster. Drinking wine all day 30+ red flags 35+ and still single/no ring run away. 40+ what are you thinking?

@StrokaReviews 2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@richardbro999 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in my 60's and it's only 20's or nothing

@clayhova 2 жыл бұрын

YES! no reason for a man 35 and up to date the age you are so right now.. At this age the vibes just not there

@critterdude311 2 жыл бұрын

@S ess define 'old'. A ~40 year old man can most certainly pick up early 20s women, no problem.

@jamesdelap4085 2 жыл бұрын

"A young man wants a mother, a middle aged man wants a mistress, an old man wants a nurse." Oscar Wilde

@nosphy 2 жыл бұрын

Does no one need an intelligent and educated 40 years old woman????🤣🤣🤣with 3 kids in college????

@rollingdudes8859 2 жыл бұрын

I am middle aged and want a MOTHER and a NURSE!!!

@propanepetey3637 Жыл бұрын

None of these say wife 😆

@saynotohookups Жыл бұрын

Oh he got a Mother alright. Enter the MILF.

@peterwoods5310 Жыл бұрын

It is true that young men fall for the motherly type. I did. When we met she was 41 and I 23. We lived very happily together for 53 years. Last January my beautiful soulmate died and I wept.

@mwphil Жыл бұрын

omg, thank you for this video! It really hits the mark for me. I wish you made it 15 years ago (lol) but still so good to hear. cheers from Austin, TX, brother.

@russianamerican7397 10 ай бұрын

I swear to God, older women who failed to fund life partner suggest younger women to concentrate on themselves instead of take advantage of younger age to score a good and good looking guy, simply because I notice women often I haters, they want other women to fail often because they failed. Instead of suggesting them something usefulness to succeed they appear to do the opposite.

@LoveLife-oo9cz 3 ай бұрын

Well, if the dudes fall for the facades. What will it promise he won't leave her when she is 40? Love is never a guaranteed thing. We see plenty of men left their partners when she has cancer. Cruel world! So nobody is trustworthy of love except for the genuine ones.

@chachochado465 2 жыл бұрын

From my experience, while in my young 20's, I've dated older women in their 30s and 40s that were "successful". In part meaning, they were much more financially stable. It was like a roll reversal. I would be showered with gifts, driving their expensive cars, fancy dinner dates, taken on vacations they paid for... etc. As a young athletic, attractive male, I in turn was considered the arm candy. And the unwarranted gifts and such was an attempt to keep me around. I know, there's a name for that... gigolo.

@contributor2024 2 жыл бұрын

Gigolo is a growth industry, that needs prep schools

@lechoso72 2 жыл бұрын

My man!!

@projectb3117 2 жыл бұрын

Alternative reality

@saintpatrick6681 2 жыл бұрын

they call it a fantasy.

@bluegiant13 2 жыл бұрын

Sugar momma's, I seem to attract those too

@JohnSmith-zo6ir 2 жыл бұрын

I do like an intelligent, well educated (about life) woman with a good sense of humour. Hate entitled, deceitful women.

@0oo00 5 ай бұрын

Needle in haystack. Usually feminist lefties.

@brightpage1020 3 ай бұрын

Love this video about dealing with realities not idealistic fantasies but realities about men and women,why and how we attract and relate. Thank you for these helpful insights.

@peterb3432 4 ай бұрын

I disagree with the statement that men don't want educated woman. On dating app i specifically stated i want educated women university degree or PhD . Some women were offended by that requirement. I got comments like: I am good lady I only have primary school but I will be a good wifie, why don't you want me. Anyway interesting presentation I respect your point of view.

@alessandrachavesphotograph3857 12 күн бұрын

People usually like to date people with the same level of education

@cowboyofscience7611 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 61 years old and I've found that even being in proximity to 40+ women is like visiting an "Alligator Petting-Zoo." All you can think about is keeping your hands to yourself!

@scdevon 2 жыл бұрын

If you have a little bit of money, watch out. Even high income women are lousy savers and they panic the closer they get to retirement and they want your wallet.

@badguy1481 2 жыл бұрын

Great comment! lol!

@f.dmcintyre4666 2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@joycebarnett6035 2 жыл бұрын

I feel the same when I meet men over 40 I divorced my husband of 15 years because I couldn’t take him being grumpy all the time life’s too short go out and live it and be happy.

@badguy1481 2 жыл бұрын

@@joycebarnett6035 Hey...As a...FEMALE...friend of mine once said: "Men and Women should NEVER live together! Next door? Maybe. But together...NEVER!"

@SyphusBatterus 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 44 and I learned my lesson dating and eventually marrying a much younger woman. Right now I'm 45 and she's 32. I met her when she was 20. She never went to college and neither of us ever did well financially for a long time we were in survival mode so she never got to find herself. About 2.5 years ago she started to and it seemed everything she found out about herself pretty much was showing that we were not a very compatible couple. We eventually ended things cause it got that bad. Basically if you're going to mess with these young girls long term make sure she knows who she is. I have no interest in dating a woman that young again. Now I'm in a much better relationship with a woman that is only a year younger than me. She's also not one of these girlboss types that you described though she's a school teacher. It's one of the better relationships I've been in. She said I am the best boyfriend she's had. She said at her age the dating options are not good so she considers herself lucky to have gotten me. She's pretty good looking too.

@lauvonfr9222 2 жыл бұрын

What a mature and factual assessment. All of us are visual beings but if you don't have a clue who you are, you can never be a good companion to anyone. I think men forget not just women age, so do they. After awhile an arm piece becomes very boring.

@uncledan2u 2 жыл бұрын

Good for you bro. All the best 👍

@rogersmith7396 2 жыл бұрын

I've seen some that are so desperate you just want to get away. Some are strictly looking for financial support.

@spiegeltn 2 жыл бұрын

Relationships never start off bad, they transform into that over time and offenses and become a trap that you never intended to get yourself into. That's why it always blindsides everyone.

@kerryfoster1 2 жыл бұрын

Yes young women are bad news. I wouldn't date anyone UNDER 45 now. Mature is unflappable and capable. ( Not all though) 😊😊😊

@LISTENUPWORLD-tw3zg Ай бұрын

MY ADVICE FOR OLDER WOMEN IS INSTEAD OF GETTING A FACELIFT, GET YOURSELF A FAITH LIFT.

@karinapflima 4 ай бұрын

I am 36 and honestly, the reason why women may be single at this age is simply because we have learned how to feel good with ourselves without needing validation from a man, which is a recipe for disaster in a relationship. I am genuinely better alone than with someone that doesn't resonate with me. I don't need a man for anything, if I choose to be with one he must add value to my life.

@JoseDiaz-pn7tw 4 ай бұрын

Not needing validation? So why do women post half naked pictures of themselves online? Because they want attention and validation. Women like you say they don't need a man untill it's time to do a man's job.

@hoedemakerbart 4 ай бұрын

Yeah that's called feminism

@sjv9147s 3 ай бұрын

Listen to yourself and there's your answer.

@josepharavanis9463 3 ай бұрын

First thing 4 you to wrap your brain around is this.Woman was made for Man, not vice versa!

@RafaelTorrez-zc3wl 3 ай бұрын

Exactly the point of this video. Women feel so insecure that they are constantly trying to prove to everyone they don’t need a man. They never stop trying to prove it until they find themselves 50 and alone still working to support their kids. Imagine men trying to prove to the women next to them on any given day that they don’t need her… I’m pretty sure that’s seeking validation..

@dlivengood59 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a 62 year old man who has been married for 41 years to the one and only wife, I have 4 children and 16 grandchildren. I was very young in the dating scene when I discovered that most young ladies were playing games and really didn't know what they wanted in a mate. Don't be the guy who played the dating game and slept around with women you wouldn't introduce to your friends, let alone you parents. Marry a person you can see yourself growing old with, because if you live long enough, you will grow old. Marry someone close to your age, that you share the same values and principles with, never stop dating your wife, she is like an onion, new things you find with each peel you remove like opening up a present on christmas.

@ntartaris 2 жыл бұрын

Well said, and congrats, Don. You have to be lucky though. I would also add that in this day and age it's harder, as men and women find relationships like everything else.....disposable. If she leaves you, meh, you'll just find another. And likewise for her. But we all know that quantity isn't quality.

@akbuckets272 2 жыл бұрын

Congrats bro. You found a good thing.

@anthonyanthonyanty 2 жыл бұрын

Well said young fella

@robi6317 2 жыл бұрын

this advice doesnt work for most guys esp if you're saying settle down young. i would never trade the single life ive had dating for 30+ yrs for the risk of maybe winding up in a boring, terrible, sexless marriage with kids that drain your time and soul. its not every marriage and family, but 80% according to what i've seen.

@DONNALANDS 2 жыл бұрын

You sound like a great husband like my great husband. He's 62 and I am 60. He's always going to be my one and only. I knew when I was 23, he was the one I wanted to grow old with.

@freedom7146 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I'm glad I was not like that. I was married for 21yrs to a very good man he died suddenly Oct 2nd 2021. Now I am a widow at the age of 59, and we were a good match even though I had a Bachelor's of Science my husband had a High School diploma that equaled a college degree. I had no children but two adult step sons from my husband. I agree with you 100% The man's home has to be a haven or else he does not want to come home. These women are very unhappy and unfulfilled because they chose to be a feminist and refused to be female who they naturally are. My sister did this and now she is alone and unhappy at the age of 68. It is a sad situation, but they created it not the men. And, for the record I have no intention of marrying ever again, especially at my age. I had one good first marriage that's enough.

@karkkimarkkinat2109 2 жыл бұрын

Based

@GP-fw8hn 2 жыл бұрын

sorry for your loss and very tough to be widowed (from a good marriage so young). It's all too new and raw right now for you to think about the future and future relationships, but from your post you sound like a good woman who would make the right guy very happy and who could find relationship happiness again with another man. Best of luck to you whatever you decide.

@ntartaris 2 жыл бұрын

Really sorry for your loss, but I'm glad to know you get it. You don't need to get married, but if the day comes that you want and do find a good man, your knowledge and attitude will bear you in the best stead to make it work. All the best to you.

@kerryfoster1 2 жыл бұрын

Well I was married twice and nothing against it! I know loads of attractive mature single women 55 - 65. Never say never! So sorry for your loss so young but give it time. Look forwards but keep great memories - they will last forever but you still have another 20 or 30 years to make more - so keep smiling through the tears - life is for LIVING XX

@konkyolife 2 жыл бұрын

God bless you, I can’t even imagine how difficult this is.

@BraveFox100 4 ай бұрын

Very much true. Good review!

@Nick-Nasty 4 ай бұрын

I do also highly prioritize kindness and empathy, as well as general intelligence in women. Although now I'm married

@eaubert1 2 жыл бұрын

I'm a 40-year-old male, stuck in a dead-end-street job in the corporate world, making approximately a third of what she makes. While I wouldn't mind dating a woman in her early 40ies, I do need to ask myself: what would I be bringing into this relationship? She probably has a nicer apartment, drives a nicer car and spends more on vacations, restaurants and lifestyle. Essentially, I would need to spend the money I don't make to keep her satisfied. But that wouldn't work out in the long-run. So, she would need to find herself a man who was making more money than her. Problem is: when men make $ 220 k a year, they won't be settling down for a 40-year-old woman!

@markymarknj Жыл бұрын

BOOM, NAILED IT!

@IwillEndureToTheEnd Жыл бұрын

In that case the woman that earns a hell of a lot more has to accept that she pays more. Women that have no problem paying more are actually very caring. But on the other hand they choose men who have great physique instead if income is low. There must be something that compensates for the income.

@Depressed.Pilot_1100ft 7 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 bingo

@houndmother2398 3 ай бұрын

It sounds like all you're focusing on is the material things you could bring to a relationship. Other things matter more than that. Find somebody that values Things besides just the material.

@eaubert1 3 ай бұрын

@@houndmother2398 You obviously misunderstood. I have seen how women are the ones who focus on material things, such as perfume, jewellery, clothing and champagne and they expect the men to pay for it. I have plenty of money and have gained the realization that buying material items is simply a quick fix, but that their satisfactory effect doesn't last. I much rather enjoy good company and lasting experiences. I also feel that the most satisfying accomplishments are those that you can't buy with money, such as getting into shape or learning a laguage.

@Uvray 2 жыл бұрын

2 points. 1: I have an ex who was always beautiful to look at. Not successful financially - just attractive. And insane. A nightmare. I was with her when she was much younger - she's now in her mid 40s and has been married several times now. She just keeps getting married - she meets a guy, is married within months and divorced again within 2 years. 2: Yes. There is a woman a decade older than me. Very successful - I'm wealthy enough but she has quite a bit more money and more affluent lifestyle than me. With what she's offering, she can't understand why I'm not interested in her. And that is that I'm not attracted to her success and I can still get a woman ten years younger than me, which is twenty years younger than her. And she gets nasty about it too - which further puts me off because I don't need the ear-ache.

@wiseonwords 2 жыл бұрын

@u.v. ray - u.v. ray - I think the answers to both of your points are no-brainers: a straight NO to both of them.

@jimcole6423 2 жыл бұрын

Point #1 sounds a like my ex. I had to leave her. Damn glad I did. She is also a child abuser.

@poem 2 жыл бұрын

U stuck between a Chad chaser and a feminist

@saintpatrick6681 2 жыл бұрын

that's called a nightmare

@bobbymunoz5086 2 жыл бұрын

The more prettier the women..the more pain in the ass..

@user-jx5bm2jj8j 4 ай бұрын

Excellent Your words are gold 🥇

@Caroline-up8nl 3 ай бұрын

I’m a 45 yr old woman who was married and had 3 children with a man 16 yrs older …. Now lm engaged to a gorgeous man 10 yrs younger… it’s not really about age for me it’s about connection & emotional maturity. Are really is just a number

@Blondie77128 3 ай бұрын

Yep, so men never grow up.

@Caroline-up8nl 3 ай бұрын

@ziplokk1453 wow your dramatic !!! We drifted apart as a lot of couples do and he settled with a new partner well before me.

@Caroline-up8nl 3 ай бұрын

You have obviously never been married or had a relationship lasting over a decade otherwise you would know what drifting apart means 🙏

@mdm5216 2 жыл бұрын

An old ex of mine wanted to get married. I told her, why would I marry a 40 year old woman with kids. If I made that kind of money I'd date a 20 year old and have kids of my own.

@selfiekroos1777 2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@map3384 2 жыл бұрын

Bet that blew her mind.

@cdixon5150 2 жыл бұрын

I’ve got an x from way back in high school (I’m 41) trying to hook back up with me now. It’s like , I drive the car off the lot back then and now you’re trying to resell it to me with 200k miles on it lol no thanks

@mdm5216 2 жыл бұрын

@@cdixon5150 Sure, the front end is sagging, the seat is worn out and it runs a little dry but I can get you a great deal.

@weareslaves2016 2 жыл бұрын

@@cdixon5150 😆

@JoelHacker Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with what he is saying! Since my divorce, I've been with 4 women. Two of the women were teachers with a Master's degree. One was four years younger, and one was exactly my age. They were both high-maintenance, expected too much, not easy to get along with, and, well, didn't take care of themselves. One was 5 years younger. She was great at first, but was very set on her ways, doted over her adult children, and had the attitude that I should prioritize her kids over my own. Plus, she had a temper at times and was very controlling. I had to get away from that! The one I'm with now...well, she is 10 years younger. She's easy to get along with, agreeable, loves to do things, is the sweetest, and beautiful in my eyes. The older I get, the less I want to put up with BS! This guy is spot-on!

@bdflatlander 3 ай бұрын

“The older I get the less I want to put up with BS” That is certainly the case with me - I am a senior white male for point of reference. I have been married for 35 years and while our marriage has had its normal ups and downs like basically every other married couple we know and understand each other and get along well for the most part. That is very important to me at this point in my life - I have a very low tolerance for drama and will walk away from situations where there is too much of it. I don’t have that many years left and I want to live them as peacefully as possible.

@karlregan5276 3 ай бұрын

You nailed it!

@user-mx3nv2en1h Жыл бұрын

Wow this video was on point. This guy nailed it. Younger women are harder to talk too than older ladies, because they are still younger and have value left and they still have some growing up to do as well. They think they are the most beautiful women in the world and when they are like that, that makes it very challenging for some guys to try to talk to them because they have put themselves high up on a pedestal. Now once they've turn 40 or 50 some of their value have dropped and they have been through more now they are more easier to talk too, but like the gentlemen said in this video some men around their age don't want a woman in their 40's or 50's they want someone in their early 20's. Now some men like older ladies because they are more mature and have been through enough to have learned how to act and take care of a man. So I would strongly recommend dating older if you want something more serious and effective and someone who will return your texts before the next day. Also if you're in 40's or 50's don't be afraid to venture out and date a younger guy. So long as he is legal. Who knows you both could hit it off better than you could ever imagine.

@kathykobos8980 3 ай бұрын

As long as you aren't looking to start a family, I totally agree. I am a senior and have always been approached by younger men, (like middle age and up). I look young, am traditional and feminine, never aspired to be a boss lady but am financially okay. Currently in a serious committed relationship with a man 9 years my junior I met 2 years ago. He tells everyone how much he loves me and how happy he is with me. I would like to hear this blogger's perspective after he has aged another 25 years.

@user-mx3nv2en1h 3 ай бұрын

@@kathykobos8980 Congratulations on your relationship. It sounds as if you both are happy with one another. One thing I can say about you is that you was willing to give a younger man a chance to see how he was and by you doing that you found someone that cares about you and that don't mind that you're nine years his senior. I believe age is a number and I know that's a bit cliche but I feel as if it's the truth. It's about the connection not the few years of age difference so long as the person is legal. I hope you great success in your current relationship.

@pierrevanhalteren5733 4 ай бұрын

I am a bit a counter example of this. 12 years ago I met such woman when she was 42. I was 47. She has an high income and collect houses like others pairs of shoes. On my side I am a part time accountant and earn a third of what she does. We nevertheless get along very well and have lots of fun.

@michaelzimmermann7718 2 жыл бұрын

Put my Ex through school and she did me a huge favor by deciding I wasn't good enough so she ditched me and our kids . I feel bad for my kids but I've never been better with my younger happier wife .

@fireblade8905 10 ай бұрын

Does your ex want you back?

@kevinc1851 2 жыл бұрын

Pretty well spot on. I went single at 44 and have dated 50 - 75 women. The ones who thought they were more successful than myself were very shallow, definitely not keepers. I hope KZfaq does not censor you, they tend to censor the truth.

@rogersmoot6194 2 жыл бұрын

They despise the truth.

@nyterpfan 2 жыл бұрын

@@rogersmoot6194 As do most people!!

@donpeace894 Жыл бұрын

You dated that many women? Maybe the problem is you

@Dennis-kn2cf Жыл бұрын

Fart around career women.

@boxingmonkey8621 4 ай бұрын

What was the 75 Year Old like in Bed?

@mitrut11 3 ай бұрын

All very true ! I agree. - quick note though: sound of car too loud. I was struggling at some point to hear.

@marioathomas4238 5 ай бұрын

You are a Genius....you are absolutely 1000% right with this video!

@TheMharrell75 2 жыл бұрын

From a woman that recently turned 46 I agree with this! So many of my friends who are successful like I am (but don’t know what it means to eat their humble pie) complain non stop about men. They do little to take care of themselves, possess a sense of entitlement and complain like it’s their second job! I completely appreciate a successful man! But I get it, if I were a guy I would go for someone younger too! Much less drama and attitude!

@militarysergmarine7772 Жыл бұрын

Hi pretty💖💝

@Trustnoho Жыл бұрын

40 year old black men automatically try n date 18 to 20 year olds anyway. Doesn’t matter

@Androvsky Жыл бұрын

If is she's full of cash and fat or ugly. It's a turn off. Beauty whit no money. IT'S A TURN ON. That it.

@militarysergmarine7772 Жыл бұрын

@@Trustnoho Hi pretty you good?

@blakeh6250 Жыл бұрын

Men easily date down but women wont.

@medicisounds1384 2 жыл бұрын

1. Men and women do not look for the same thing. It doesn’t make men “misogynistic” for looking for young tighter and more submissive. Women look for usually older and confident and dominating and strong. Opposite attractive traits. That’s human nature. 2. If an older woman is looking for a man she might have to date younger men who just want sex. Because even if a 25 yr old man dates a hot 40 year old. He’s not really gonna marry her. Most younger guys just want to date older women for the fun aspect of it. 3. Older successful women think they can have it all. Strong successful career and a good husband with family. They unknowingly have to sacrifice one or the other. You CANNOT have it all

@reginasemenenko148 2 жыл бұрын

Too funny!

@medicisounds1384 2 жыл бұрын

@@reginasemenenko148 This what a triggered response looks like 👍🏻

@John_Smith100 2 жыл бұрын

@@reginasemenenko148 🧂🧂🧂

@saintpatrick6681 2 жыл бұрын

that's called reality

@brandish4952 2 жыл бұрын

I'm 39 and good looking. I've had my pick of the litter throughout my life. It just keeps getting easier the older i get and more money I make. The wall is my bitch.

@LuisLopez-ht7mk 4 ай бұрын

Very well explained.

@borisdodgingbullets Ай бұрын

Absolutely spot on!

@BrianPhobos 2 жыл бұрын

Like Rich said, there are a lot of these 40-45 yo women out there running around saying they want a family. They gave their youth and fertility to a corporation and if something happens to them they will be replaced in a month and three months after that everyone will forget her name. "Remember that one cat lady who worked here?......Katherine..maybe.....no I think it was Karen"

@petermurphy9968 2 жыл бұрын

BINGO !

@karlmtinsley8297 2 жыл бұрын

Real talk

@morganadays3530 2 жыл бұрын

there’s a real story of a women named Karen regretting her decision of leaving a guy 20 years ago because she was embarrassed of his blue collar jobs.

@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 2 жыл бұрын

It’s always Cat (Catherine)

@rajkumarhansda6151 2 жыл бұрын

LoL that ending

@VoxLesPaul 2 жыл бұрын

I am a single guy, make respectable money, am debt-free and have *never* cheated on a romantic interest. Here's an insight: Earrings are the only metal body piercings that I consider tasteful, and tattoos are a turn-off. Quit listening to your friends that think there is redeeming value in tattoos and piercings; you are unknowingly limiting your dating prospects and branding yourself as "disposable".

@YELLOW08Z06 2 жыл бұрын

This!!!!!!

@badguy1481 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. The first thing I think about when I see a women with piercings (or tattoos) is "LOSER"!

@rogersmith7396 2 жыл бұрын

Tramp stamp.

@mandapalque 2 жыл бұрын

Are you trying to speak to them or to their ego? Cz in order to speak to them you would have to go through their ego, i don't waste my time on that.

@rogersmoot6194 2 жыл бұрын

@@badguy1481 I agree. Tattoos and piercings on women are big turn-offs for me. I always wonder what they are trying to prove to men and to the world at large?

@danielwilliams2994 4 ай бұрын

Agreeable is the key word. Submissive women are feminine. Feminine energy is attractive to men. Masculine women are a turn off. Clashing confrontation and bossiness are very unattractive to us. Age is nothing but a number. Attitude is everything

@shawnseawood2029 4 ай бұрын

Facts great show.

@patluvsvettes Жыл бұрын

This guy nailed it! You don't know how many women I've met who fall into this category. They spent their 20's and 30's chasing degrees and climbing the corporate ladder while they "didn't have time to date". Now, they've found themselves in their 40's and 50's and trying to date the top-shelf guys. What they don't realize is that those guys don't want them! They are dating women in their 20's.

@prussiansocietyofamerica Жыл бұрын

You are going to see this trend explode more and more as well. I think it has to do with timing of the generation and average age of earning college degrees and work burnout, but it's said that since 2019 we entered the age of a whole new generation of numerous Women who all the sudden have gained their degrees and success and thought they will go out on the hunt for Men. Now they are finding to their surprise that Men don't want them and they can't understand it! This, coupled with ever increasing inflation will make them become more desperate than ever, and I have personally been witnessing this where I live. All of them own dogs, often MULTIPLE dogs! They are insane!

@MrBiggles53 9 ай бұрын

They should totally embrace equality and date guys making $40-$50,000 a year. But hypergamy…

@Goodman849 5 ай бұрын

Even low value guys don't want an aggressive bossy woman

@user-fh2bz1gl7n 4 ай бұрын

What’s wrong with chasing a career isn’t that what you did ? Your repeating what you here on videos you have a mind of your own come up with your own way of looking at things

@annsheridan12 4 ай бұрын

You snooze you loose. 🙀

@badass1g 2 жыл бұрын

I feel really bad for the hotties in their 20’s. Once they hit the wall it’s gotta be a 100% different lifestyle for them. To go from so much attn to zero would be really hard!

@tinanguyen8249 2 жыл бұрын

it’s already bad when they’re taught to predicate their entire sense of self worth on how sexually attractive they are to men

@GP-fw8hn 2 жыл бұрын

dont feel bad for them. they deserve what they get. too busy chasing the meat heads and players to notice "the nice guys" who are the better catch. I should know, Im one of the nice guys!!! lol

@badass1g 2 жыл бұрын

@@GP-fw8hn lol I feel you brother. I am def a meat head and I agree with you. These women out here falling for me and it never works out for them! 😂

@cmair77 Жыл бұрын

Wise words, thank you.

@visitken 3 ай бұрын

Having worked in numerous countries in Asia for almost three decades, I can say from experience that these words of wisdom are even truer there.

@Deknis 2 жыл бұрын

And when you tell older women this, they resort to the shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right. 🤦🏾‍♂️

@chadhuxington690 2 жыл бұрын

Point 2 is excellent. An over achieving woman can not compete with a cute Asian girl living in a straw hut. End of story.

@lukeshirtliff7861 2 жыл бұрын

and that asian girl knows the loyalty and honor for the husband, the traditional way

@twntyonechemicalpilots9559 2 жыл бұрын

An overachieving woman will always be living happier and have more worth than a shallow attractive girl who has nothing goi for her but looks

@chadhuxington690 2 жыл бұрын

@@twntyonechemicalpilots9559 who cares?

@twntyonechemicalpilots9559 2 жыл бұрын

@@chadhuxington690 you realize you’re wrong so you’re pretending you don’t care, nice one💀

@chadhuxington690 2 жыл бұрын

No I dont care about YOUR opinion as it doesnt matter little femenist. I know I am right 100%. The hunter doesnt accelt the opinion of the deer.

@ChileanSpartanUSA 3 ай бұрын

This material should be part of the men's code. My wife has a friend who is close to turning 40. She is very successful, funny, and attractive, but she can't find a "decent man". Her friends are clueless about the reason why she can't find the right man. This video would help them to understand.

@codysp 3 ай бұрын

The biggest issue I've run across is "emotional availability." They believe they're ready for a relationship, when in reality previous life events have left them with emotional baggage. So, I've chosen to remove myself from the shallow dating pool.

@iforgotmyscreenname1 2 жыл бұрын

No man in his 40's, making over $100K, wake up one morning and says, "Today, I'm gonna go find a 40+ year old woman with kids or no kid to settle down."

@garethjudd5840 2 жыл бұрын

I've been happily married for 36 years and find this fascinating. So glad I'm not doing the dating mill with all the pain and uncertainty associated.

@marilynmonheaux6356 4 ай бұрын

You’re doing it right

@_Louise__ Жыл бұрын

Really interesting viewpoint, thank you. Seems that irrespective of whether you're a successful man or woman, once you hit 40 you're better off dating younger people

@stevecooper7883 5 ай бұрын

That would be correct. Women at 40 should not marry 60 year olds because they would have to spend decades after their retirement playing caretaker to a geriatric, and men at 40 should look for a 30 year old to have kids with. Such is life.

@scottweathersby6659 4 ай бұрын

For me what I've found is from the woman I married after a short while it was all about her and her family. We had a chance to move to a bigger city with way much more opportunities. Her job wanted her to move. I was self employed contractor. I explained that it would be the best we could do in all aspects. I was quicky told I could move anywhere but she would not leave her parents. Move ahead I did exactly what she said. Now she struggles and regrets moving. I met another one and had a wonderful relationship. Time moved on and going she had a drinking problem She didn't drink everyday but when she would teach a certain point she became a coldhearted person. Changed personality like a switch. Her dad was the same yet she never quit. Then her son moved in. He didn't do anything. Whatever he wanted he got . didn't matter. Any women here are the same way It's a small town. I raised my two children I want to enjoy life other than raising children and grandchildren If thats what they want the kids are controlling the especially the mother What does that teach the children. What are they going to do on their own.

@jetsetradio7715 2 жыл бұрын

Most self respecting successful guys 40+ aren't gonna want to date a 40+ year old woman anyway so that is probably the main reason. My boss is 46 years old, he's dating a pretty good looking 31 year old right now, few he was dating before than were even younger than that.

@rajakghosh6602 2 жыл бұрын

A 40 year old career woman has no use for men. And Man shouldn't step up to father a child that's not theirs. Even if she has options mostly it would s3xual purpose and not relationship. Plus she won't settle down with an average guy to make a family.. she would go for the top tier men.

@Son-of-Krypton 2 жыл бұрын

A high value man takes care of his own seed… Not another man’s left over.

@additudeobx 2 жыл бұрын

For the most part a woman might say she wants a family guy, but not really. Most are still looking for the best they can get... never settling.

@StrokaReviews 2 жыл бұрын

And that's why most of them are single.

@georgesparks7833 4 ай бұрын

Very bold of you to state...😮

@RaiderWolf-yd6nm 4 ай бұрын

LOL, that's so right. I was on a dating app that said we were a match. I sent a greeting and it sat there for weeks. Then she replied and said I don't look happy in my pictures. I replied that I don't do manufactured smiles very well. She snapped back with something like "I didn't say...", which is all I saw before she undid the match and I couldn't see her comment. She who is the one not happy apparently, maybe even bitter if she can't have a decent conversation, was saying something about my not looking happy in my pictures. They believe they are all entitled to someone who has hardly attained what the vast majority of people have hardly attained.

@clarino2 2 жыл бұрын

Whether men know it consciously or not, biology drives us to think of women in four major areas: 1) sex - we’re universally attracted to in-shape, healthy looking women who are probably younger; 2) procreation - which what causes our high sex drive and what makes us attracted to healthy, younger women; 3) child rearing - whether you want kids or not, the type of women that would be willing to happily raise children is probably an easy person to be with; 4) companionship - IF the first three issues are NOT met, a woman’s companionship has less value than that of your male friends or a dog. We men care about our own education or success, we don’t care about a woman’s education or wealth.

@jpoeng 2 жыл бұрын

Some guys do care about intelligence. Every smart guy I know does like smart girls. I think there’s something in our wiring that gets us to see some intellectual traits as positives from a reproductive standpoint, and intelligence can be one of these. But mostly these intellectual traits are things like “sense of humor” and “agreeableness” that our species values for building stronger communities. But even if a guy likes smart girls, he typically does not want a disagreeable “boss babe” type unless he’s a weak/feminine guy himself, looking for a leader.

@ntartaris 2 жыл бұрын

Reason I have my 2 Labs for companionship.

@miyastudios 2 жыл бұрын

Wooow - reality right here~. bravo 🙌🙌🙌🙌

@PrettyDishes 2 жыл бұрын

Just listened to your entire book on Audible, re-listening later today. Thank you for your insight and red pill mindset, I appreciate what you've done and continue to do.

@stephenbray410 4 ай бұрын

Once saw an entry in a personal advice column. It was titled "does my type of guy even exist?". The girl went on to say "I'm 30 years old, successful and have high standards for the guy I want in my life and don't suffer fools lightly." Question answered".

@UserUser0102 4 ай бұрын

Great video Thank you

@SlayerOfTheDamned 2 жыл бұрын

Femininity is so scarce, and only getting scarcer as the younger generations come by, that I immediately fell for my ex whenever she displayed a few drops of her feminine nature. I was so starved of this energy that it completely overwrote her unattractive appearance (To my standards, she just wasn’t my type and chubby) and I saw her as the most attractive woman. Ladies, if you’re not pretty, there’s one secret weapon for men. Which is genuine femininity. Men can tell if it’s fake. I guarantee you, you’ll pop on his radar since women are more masculine than ever.

@jessier.4237 Жыл бұрын

Same thing applies to men--masculinity is very attractive.

@sivezt Жыл бұрын

I’m 35 and I can count the feminine women I’ve met on one hand lol.

@abelflores5976 4 ай бұрын

@@jessier.4237what’s masculinity to you and what you like about it?

@jessier.4237 4 ай бұрын

@@abelflores5976 A masculine man is someone who demonstrates leadership qualities, prioritizes the well-being of all individuals, not just his family, and is financially independent and supportive. He is a critical thinker, physically fit, and capable of protecting. Additionally, he is articulate, intelligent, and adept at communication as well as very confident and prepared for all situations.

@alexgirl82 4 ай бұрын

NOW THIS is the real reason successful women find it difficult to meet men.

@linkbelt111 2 жыл бұрын

Let’s add #4, which is where most career people, like myself are. There’s no 9-5, dinner at 5:30-6:00 every night with an overachieving couple. There’s after work a few cocktails/dinner, etc. There’s working late on projects/cases/accounts, etc. Climbing the ladder increases income AND amount of time required. The list of difficulties is long!

@bradleyk4144 2 жыл бұрын

My days usually end between 10:30-11:00pm, and much later if necessary. My boss keeps even later hours and is a major reason why he is wildly successful.

@peterriggio9853 2 жыл бұрын

@@bradleyk4144 That sounds like pure torcher, I will stick to being a loser work about 30-36 hours a week 45,000 a year self employed(construction) 3-4 weeks of vacation a year. I guess everyone has a a different definition of being successful wishing you all the best.

@CL2K 2 жыл бұрын

Lmao I drive doordash, and I can do 10-12 hours a day. Except my days start at 3-4 pm instead of 8-9 am - much more fun than regular corporate bullshit, and good prep for going hard on serious projects for my companies

@IwillEndureToTheEnd Жыл бұрын

Overachieving? Your (american) language is so fucked up and you are brainwashed through your language and you don't even know it. It's over-WORKED!!!!. Not overachieving. That's someting else

@Medevicerep 4 ай бұрын

Brutal to hear but true. Once women hit menopause and realize that they have lost their power over men, they can go on one of two directions. Either they embrace it and focus on what they still have to offer or become bitter. This also affects men when we realize we are invisible to younger women as we age.

@bdflatlander 3 ай бұрын

In a Sociology class I took when I was an undergrad at UCLA the professor made this statement: the two groups that have the hardest time finding a compatible mate are uneducated and low earning men and highly educated and high earning women. I took this class in 1976 and it would appear from this video that not much has changed in this regard. I am a senior male with a BA and an MBA. My wife of 35 years has a BA from a small liberal arts college. I liked that she had a college degree because as it turned out we are very compatible intellectually in part because we both have university degrees. But…the main reason we married each other is that we were in love and had similar values. Our educational attainments were kind of the icing on the cake.

@kandalsedai 2 жыл бұрын

I wish to God I had been told this years ago. All I heard was I needed to go to college and get a degree before I got married. Problem is, after I got out working, I wasn't exposed to many single guys. I've also heard men complain that women are gold-diggers, so I set out to prove that I wasn't a gold-digger. I worked hard to prove that I didn't need them for their money because I could take care of myself. I've done well, professionally and am a strong, competent woman. Intelligent and still pretty even though, I've just turned 50. However, what I'm hearing is that everything I've been told and fought to overcome was a complete lie and I've missed out on the family and relationship that I dreamed of because of it.

@Last_one_before_I_go 2 жыл бұрын

Thank your local feminist, be they male or female.

@SWBrowne1 2 жыл бұрын

So sorry, so sad. My son and daughter were born when I was 50 and 56 respectively - but that's something guys can do women can't. It's not fair, not at all. It just is.

@lornestein7248 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Christy, I'm a 54 year old single man who never got married or had kids as well. In my 25-40 dating years, independent, professional women like you always thumbed their noses at me like I was dirt! If I had to go childless because of short-sighted, conceited, career oriented woman like you, I just thank g-d there are many like you who suffered the same fate. I knew what was important in life.. Why didn't you?

@ZenPepperClub 2 жыл бұрын

Molded corroded butt exploded

@SprezzaturaLifestyle 2 жыл бұрын

start a youtube channel and educate other women not to make the same mistake.

@jhssmith2004 2 жыл бұрын

so glad i'm out of this nonsense. i never enjoyed dating. too much ego involved activities, games played, and manipulation. i think going out in life and having fun, enjoying yourself and treating everyone with respect is where it's at. just be and let others be. everywhere i go i have strangers just start talking to me. people make life complicated. it's not.

@nyterpfan 2 жыл бұрын

So true!! In the word of Thoreau: "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation." Be free, have fun, and live to the fullest--(and screw what "society" says!!)

@ehitkassa8512 Жыл бұрын

The thumbnail got me laugh. Lol

@videejohner 6 ай бұрын

True talk bro

@Richard-lu8ck 2 жыл бұрын

I dated a woman once who had an MBA and a six-figure, executive level career at a Fortune 100 company. But it wasn't enough.. She taught business classes part time at the local community college, sat on the board of 2-3 non-profits, AND she toyed with the idea of another degree "Because it would be good for my career!" ..So needless to say her calendar was full, and she would literally pencil me in for an occasional date lol. We hung out occasionally for a couple of months and didn't even progress to sex, and I eventually got tired of being worked into her schedule, so I broke it off. Which SO pissed her off too, and she actually told me "You're just intimidated by me like all the others!" Right... not sure how wanting to be with her = intimidation, but whatever.. Goodbye.

@Last_one_before_I_go 2 жыл бұрын

I dated one who competed with me at every turn, but the straw that broke the camel with this one was where she slipped and referred to our relationship as a "project". Then I realized why she was 50 and unmarried.

@michaelsix9684 10 ай бұрын

she doesn't want to create a space for a man, you got out early, eventually she will wake up when it's too late

@adamday2067 2 жыл бұрын

Iam a very successful businessman and I agree with this anlysis. I dont want power games when I come home. I dont care about how many degrees a woman has ( I have 3 Masters degrees, it means nothing, and proves nothing) or what level job she has. I want a loving, tactile home maker who I can have a good laugh with and to care for each other and make plenty of babies. Many career woman are far too obsessed with their 'alleged' importance & high intelligence, are are stroppy and argumentative. I avoid all these women like the plague.

@user-ci9cd4ld1r 3 ай бұрын

Watch Helen Fischer videos about type of personalities and love. You seem to he the dominant looking for a more feminine type. There are all types of people out there, just look for the right ones and don’t waste your time on the ones that are not compatible.

@conroy1969 4 ай бұрын

I totally agree with you 100 %

@TheCreedBratton 4 ай бұрын

Men have enough drama and stress at work. We dont want to come home to a "boss babe" who is going to cause us more drama and stress at home.

@el_txserpico4501 2 жыл бұрын

Attracted to younger females and dealing with younger girls are two different things. Most younger girls are very difficult in that they are in party phase and monogamy is not in their vocabulary. Ghosting good dudes is their playground

@johannesswillery7855 2 жыл бұрын

That's why you hit it and quit it.

@el_txserpico4501 2 жыл бұрын

@@johannesswillery7855 unfortunately i cant speak their language to get them to go out let alone bang

@johannesswillery7855 2 жыл бұрын

@@el_txserpico4501 Forget about them and build your empire. At that point you sleep with them and pay them to go away.

@bijorn5685 Жыл бұрын

You nailed it . On point ☝️

@MrSweetaz 2 жыл бұрын

LOL, 2 years separated you've just described my ex to a "T". At the time I was shattered but now 2 years down the line I have come to understand that she actually did me a huge favour.

@ntartaris 2 жыл бұрын

it's called dodging a bullet!

@shannon8485 3 ай бұрын

Met my husband when i was 20 he was 22. Out of our friend group, we were the youngest to settle down and have a family. I was kind of envious of my friends in the beginning living a care free doing their single life thing while i was at home being a stay at home mom. But my husband is awesome literally my best friend and those friends i was envious of as we got older they seemed more and more lost and alone struggling to find someone to get serious with. Add in the age and simple fact dating 20 yrs ago is different then today.

@maness2112 4 ай бұрын

Spitting facts!

@gmc9451 2 жыл бұрын

It's taken me to my mid-fifties to realise that all this dating BS and mind-games is just not worth the hassle. I don't find older bodies attractive and far too many have baggage or mental health issues. I mean what's in it for me??

@d.k.1394 2 жыл бұрын

I am the same

@joemachine4714 2 жыл бұрын

A woman told me " it's not about what you get, it's about what you give. You sound selfish". Okay lady what are you giving then?? 😆

@davidcarter1013 2 жыл бұрын

@@joemachine4714 I know what she's giving,a hard time.

@newhampshirelifestyle4233 2 жыл бұрын

I just turned 60 and am finding dating very challenging but am finding some success with younger women (30s 40s). I spent 11 years paying child-support and legal fees from my prior marriage and worked my arse off to get to where I am now. I have a nice home, a stable financial situation and good health but spend much of my time alone. Being alone and at peace is better than being with a hot psychopath.

@joemachine4714 2 жыл бұрын

@@newhampshirelifestyle4233

@jpcolorado6593 2 жыл бұрын

COLD...HARD...TRUTH! Works both ways too. When I was 22, was an athletic, good looking kid just out of the Marines. Couldn't understand why high value women (young, attractive, agreeable) wouldn't want an LTR from me. Had to level up my status, game and financial situation. It was around 28-30 when those women started knocking on my door.

@ralphholiman7401 2 жыл бұрын

Money (and the security money can bring). It supersedes every other quality women look for in a man. There just aren't that many financially well off and independent twenty year olds. But, there are a whole lot of them in their forties, fifties and sixties, who still look okay and have plenty of life left in them. Forty year old women have to realize, they are not just competing with the other forty year old women for those guys. They are competing with the women in their twenties and thirties, too.

@kerryfoster1 2 жыл бұрын

Being in the marines was a major inhibitor. To get to know women you need to mix with them. The more you meet the easier and less daunting they become. I went to an all boys school. Set me back YEARS in my sexual development! Made up for it since 😂😂😂

@benkleschinsky 2 жыл бұрын

It's sad that women don't appreciate men for personality alone. I can say as a guy, I wouldn't date a toxic woman just because they have a pretty face. How many women date asshole men just because they drive a nice car own a big house, and end up in an abusive relationship? Sad to see. That's why nice guys always finish last.

@nelliehua7992 2 жыл бұрын

Men look best in their late 20s to early 30s. Thats why they are flocking to you when you got a bit older. 22 yr old guys still look like boys

@JeffAboularage Жыл бұрын

@@ralphholiman7401 I think deep down inside they know this, and it pisses them off. They try to hide it, but they run and huddle in the masses of corporate Corporate life and the Feminist movement.