I am a straight guy. I like danmei. The Wuxia and Xianxia ones at least. Swordfights and magic are cool, doesn't bother me at all if the boys kiss. Like, good for them. Wish I had anyone who looked at me the way Lan Weiwuji looks at Wei Wuxian. Also, Word of Honor rules, Coley. You will not be disappointed when you dig in! I've never been teased about this but I'm also in my 30s and booted anyone who would mock me for liking this kind of thing from my life a long time ago. As it has been said, hate is always foolish and love is always wise. Folks shouldn't tolerate someone who would denigrate them just for loving something.

As a Chinese American lesbian, reading danmei (specifically the wuxia/xianxia variety) makes me feel like a normal human being. Growing up, I was always told by my immigrant parents that being gay is a white people/American thing, and if I "choose" to be gay then I make them lose face. Seeing Lan Wangji and Wei Wuxian love each other while having long hair and wearing hanfu reminds me that queer people have existed for eternity, even in China. I especially see myself in Lan Wangji, whose loyalty and sense of righteousness are things I resonate with, and seeing him end up with Wei Wuxian makes my hopeless romantic self so hopeful for my own future. For other sapphic people out there, I'll recommend you to get into danmei's sibling genre: baihe. Baihe is basically Chinese GL and there's a lot less of a market for them, but fan translations are still everywhere and yes, there are wuxia/xianxia stuff too!

Why does Danmei feel like a fever dream that took over the internet?

“And pretty boys dance around each other with their swords out” ーColey 2023

"a good chunk of you are probably danmei fans yourselves" says the goddess who said wangxian so many times i was like "i'm sick and fucking tired of not knowing what she's talking about, lemme just go and-- oops, mxtx addiction."

Absolutely thriving seeing XiYao shown when you said "relationships" HAHA

most youtubers would flinch at having to pronounce Chinese and disclaim at the beginning "i am going to mispronounce these...." Coley: hold my beer. 😎

lets be honest... the long flowing hair is the best part 🛐

MDZS and its adaptation singlehandedly created the hardcore and biggest wave of now danmei fans, the power that novel holds will never be forgotten.

Honestly, as a Chinese young woman who aspires to be a novelist, I am loving the rising popularity of Chinese media with Crazy Rich Asians, Shang Chi, Iron Widow and this whole genre of Danmei. It makes me feel so proud and more confident in writing stories from my own culture. We have progressed so much from 10 years ago where Asian writers wrote Western stories just because they were the only books on bookshelves.

I'm a straight guy who likes mo dao zu shi/ untamed. I love the magic system and characters but I always hide it since some people around me might not be supportive of it

My favorite has to be heavens official blessing. I loved how the relationship doesn't seem forced like a lot of Boys love mangas. The two main characters become closer because they remember time they spent together when they were mortal. Their relationship is so sweet.

Everyone: Getting into danmei for the plot??? Lmao as if Shen Qingqiu: . . .

I think what drew me into wuxia/xianxia danmei was how much dedication they put in the worldbuilding, plot, characters and romance. Most BL media only focuses on one or two of them but not all of those aspects. Sure, I like my pretty men falling in love, but I love seeing that there's so much more to their life than just romance and reacting to stuff happening to them. I love seeing that there is a whole world out there that they live in, with so many people around them. That's also why I love Wangxian in particular, especially LWJ. The fact that even when WWX died, LWJ lived his own life because he is his own person instead of simply being "the love interest". He's a man with his own set of morals that he stuck to even through his character growth, he has his own loved ones (instead of being the usual love interest who doesn't care about anyone except his partner), his own likes and dislikes, etc. He has his own flaws and mistakes, and he fully felt remorseful about any wrongdoings he did and punished himself for them, learning from his errors and growing better as a person. And he doesn't suddenly go 180 switch in his personality and morals the moment he's with WWX, only that he showed more sides of himself than usual. He's still the same LWJ we know and love.

I live in a major Muslim country and when I saw all MXTX books in front of the bookstore with a big sign of "new York time best seller" my brain went blank. it's also important how tgcf book 4 was also there and my parents is also there. I pretend I don't know what those are 💀

Danmei being discovered by Tiktokers is the worst curse that has ever happened to this world.

I somehow got my dad into watching MDZS, everytime we talk now we just talk about Wangxian(His fave character is Lan Wangji btw)

never thought i’d be getting a history lesson on danmei but here we are

I honestly really liked SVSSS almost wholly because of Shen qingqiu's personality being absolutely hilarious, but I love all of MXTX's novels. Love your channel, by the way!

It also makes me so happy to see Chinese culture becoming more popular in western places, because it is so rich in history

XANDER LOUIS AND HUGO CHARLESTON IM LITERALLY DYING. This video was so awesome thank you so much for making it!!

TGCF will always have my heart for such a pure, well-written love story that has so many other interesting side stories and genres thrown in. I don't think anything else will take its place for me, but there are still so many good novels out there!

I like how with each new Mxtx book the pining time egst longer Svsss- Like 6 months I think-(edit:I've been corrected it was 5 years 😭) Mdzs- 13? Years Tgcf-800 Years

"Why Do People Like Danmei?" She went from the tropes to the wholesome and then- Coley: "and shizunf*cking" Me: *Transmigrating due to spit-take gone wrong* (Tbh, my current fixation in svsss made me feel VERY called out lmfao)

Personally I got into danmei because I was tired of the "wholesome and unproblematic" expectations falling on queer media the past couple of years. And in danmei I found the darkness, grittiness and drama I was craving lol. But now with the surge of popularity, the fandom has been infected by the annoying purists too. Though, I am not worried about danmei itself. No one in China is going to give a f about what Mandy from Arkansas finds problematic.

DANG a whole 40 minutes about danmei?? Absolutely HERE for it Also that big stack of books got me so jealous 😩 wish that were me, bestie

Part of why I love danmei (and tbh, I've found that there are a lot of non-danmei Chinese novels with the same traits) is that there's often a lot of plot, but it's still A Romance Novel, which is something I've had a hard time finding in western romance novels 🤷‍♀️

Yeah, but no, seriously. When are we getting Scum Villain season 2? I am in dire need of more screen time for the secondary couple, because as it stands, *people who haven't read the novels don't realize they exist* and this fact is killing me everytime they're excluded from the MXTX couple line-up! 😭

I think the biggest shock about entering the danmei fandom is figuring out I can actually read

Horror Danmei is my bread and butter. In fact the reason I got into it was because I was craving zombie apocalypse stories. Some stories I recommend are "Zombie University", "Paintings of Terror", "I rely on poverty to sweep through survival games", "BOSS's guide to seeking death", "Little Mushroom", and my favorite "Number One Zombie Wife". Enjoy and laugh through the horror

Man, I feel called out. Yeah, perhaps I did start taking Mandarin classes instead of Korean ones, like I was initially planning to, because I read all of the mxtx works 😂 but you don't gotta put me on blast like that, bestie

One thing we can't deny that "The untamed" played the biggest role in the whole danmei wave, I still remember like in lockdown it was all over internet and everyone was talking about it sharing clips and all. Not only did it established a very strong career for the two main actors but introduced many to mxtx and the whole danmei thing.

the reason i love chinese BL dramas ( just the drama and manhua version not the novels) is because of the nature of their relationship, they are both strong, capable , independent and has their own self respect, they are not possessive and are not toxic, they do not need each others to be able to live, but they choose to be together, they choose to love each others because they want , and you can rarely see this type of relationships in straight dramas !

This was so interesting! I especially appreciated you talking about fans intentionally or unintentionally erasing Chinese aspects of the characters and their worlds. I’m American and currently writing a MDZS fanfiction, and so often I catch myself assuming that certain things are the same over in China as here without thinking about it first. Stuff as little as how old you have to be to drive, to things as big as the food they eat. It’s very eye opening.

As a Chinese, I am really happy the danmei fandom outside china looks nice, pure and good. Since it is really a mess and just pure drama sometimes(a lot of times) in china. But it is still very interesting to see how other countries people have no idea of author’s drama, their “problematic” statement, all the plagiarism controversies, and the danmei wars😂 It is also interesting so see all the “big controversy” authors’ name are in the video, I really thought English danmei fandom is just about mxtc’s three books.

Never apologize for dragging people into Danmei. It is one of the best things that have happened to me in my life 🙌❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥 I will never forget that feeling when I found out that WangXian was canon 😳🤯

I stumbled into SVSSS head first after munching through a bunch of "yeeted into a book as the villain character" isekai manhwas and just... never left lol

the fact that u posted this as I was reading a danmei novel…

being Viet and growing up reading danmei (in Viet since our cultures and languages share a lot of similarities due to history and we get a lot of access and exposure to CN media) seeing danmei becoming popular in anglophonic fandom spaces is such a nice change ✨ the english names give me sm whiplash tho 🥲🥲

danmei media came to me in the form of the MDZS donghua when I was basically having an identity and sexuality crisis during the pandemic. it was the stuff that made me realize I was trans and want someone who would wait 800 years for me (which is how I even got friends from it bc badabing badaboom all of us are queer 💀)

not into danmei personally but I swear, there's some secret sauce in it that just makes creators go bonkers. In the early plague years it revived some of my fav artists and authors on Ao3. They suddenly went active again after months long hiatus to post long haired men in hanfu content lol. Even my friend who's usually very much not into BL stuff (and romance in general tbf) reads TGCF at some point and starts drawing/posting content again. Haven't seen them so excited for being in a fandom for a long time. Kinda wish I could get into it but I've tried and it's just not my thing. Happy for those who like them tho; they're always having a feast

Even when I don't understand what you're talking about, you still put a smile in my face after your hilarious yet accurate explanation. I love you Coley, as a fan.

Mentioning flowery language (at 23:06) immediatly got me thinking of some of the dick jokes written into the stories. Examples in SVSSS: "Airplane shooting torwards the sky" and "Perleess cucumber" to mention some quick. But I otherwise agree with reading Danmei to learn about culture. I find myself loving the slang used by the authors, and that I mostly enjoy reading fan-translation due to them taking their time to explain stuff in translaters notes. To be fair, I started reading Wuxia/ Xianxia before Danmei due to my brothers telling me stories about cultivators creating crazy pills while trying to become immortal and about this one guy that is basicly immortal finally getting his body back and wanting to tear down the heavens to achieve what he wants. And I just fell in love with the culture and the writing, and how complex some of these stories get.

It's always such a treat whenever Coley covers danmei! 🥰🥰🥰

It was so nice watching the donghua of MDZS and loving every part of the story, especially the characters. Getting to know them, (WWX's especially, one of my favorite characters in fiction now) and knowing that the relationship between the two MCs was genuinely romantic, made me so happy. There was not toxic SA between them, just love, affection, and actual chemistry.

Thank you for talking about the tgcf purity issue It’s insane for someone like me who got into tgcf casually to see the discourse when i tried to join the fandom. In fact it’s put me and several of my friends off from tgcf as a whole. Instead I usually engage with mdzs fandom even though it does have its fair share of discourse, it’s not as overwhelming and not as full of minors (rip TikTok tgcf fans)

Don’t know what this is, but I’ll still watch the whole thing

Heavens Official Blessing has a chokehold on me because the art in the novel is so pretty 😭

svsss still has me and my heart in a chokehold and i'm so fucking sad that only a 3d donghua adaptation is all it has and a 2nd season that is announced but always delayed 😭😭 mdzs had been my gateway into danmei and im happy for mdzs and tgcf's success but please give some love to svsss. At least continue the manhua 😭😭

I got into MDZS and MXTX's novels around 2019 because of your fandom deepdive video on MDZS so it's great to see more videos surrounding this type of content! also I'd love to get more danmei reccs for me to read/watch lol

I’m 14, my sisters introduced me to the fandom after I came out at 12, told me to stay away from the 18+ stuff, but I had already been reading that sort of stuff since 11 (BAD IDEA, DON’T DO IT KIDS) and now I’m mildly scarred, but hey, I know I’m asexual 🤷 I’ve made sure to remember that it is over all an adult space, and I can’t get upset about that as I am the one intruding.

I looooooovveee your point about people liking gay escapism without the political and social side of it. Holy shit do we have a lack of that and on the Western side we do nooottt provide that in our historical fantasies. I loved BL before I knew I was gay, I never felt an anxiety or even need to come out (to family), and I kinda like that that experience is depicted in Danmei and a lot of BL. Like we have enough of that media and those struggles, just give me "normal" and supernatural romantic struggles pls. It's weird to relate my Sleep Token fandom and obsession with Danmei and that fandom. Especially the identity doxing issues. Lol on the switch/top/bottom issues. I uh...ironically switch through all three sides of these points all the time.

As a Chinese fan, I honestly love that many more people is getting into Danmei.

I have read and/or watched so much Danmei, both complete and still in progress, that i need to get started on an Excel sheet to keep track of everything. I don't want to miss any new chapters/books in my ongoing series. 😄

I had a very bad first impression when i first saw photos of MDZS donghua on my twitter timeline back in 2018. I hated the artstyle and wondered why the hell it was getting so popular and they kept appearing on my tl. After a fave cartoon series of mine ended in major disappointment, by sheer curiosity i tried giving the MDZS donghua a chance. I told myself, i'll watch the first episode and see if i like it. BAM! The first 5 minutes automatically got me sucked into it. The horror theme? Exorcism using musical instruments? Murder mystery??? All those are fucking right up my alley. It took some episodes for me to get used to the donghua's art style, but after a few episodes i got over that issue bc the story was so damn good. After finishing season 1 at the time, i immediately started reading the novel from a fansite and waited for each chapter to get translated until the end. It was the most satisfying story i had ever get to experience in my 30yrs of life at the time. Moral of the story, as always, don't judge a book by its cover (or its artstyle or genre) until you've given it a chance. I was so wrong for thinking MDZS was probably gonna be some typical shallow BL pretty twink bois sappy love story with little substance. Anyway, no matter how many years have passed & how many danmei stories will pop up, MDZS will always have a special place in my heart.

I tripped and fell so hard into the reincarnation danmei genre after watching reborn rich this last year.

24:55 you converted a your friend Mormon elementary teacher? Coley you’re clearly doing the lords job😂 it was clear fate, nothing could have been more perfect 🤣

I just got into danmei last month through TGCF, more specifically seeing a reaction to the first two episodes of the donghua in Danny Motta's channel. I was absolutely IN LOVE with the animation and the character of Xie Lian and Ling Wen and really wanted to get into it more. I ended up watching the rest by myself and read the whole book online and falling into the rabbit hole that is TGCF. Just 3 days ago I finally read the manhua of MDZS and finished yesterday (my favourite character is Wen Ning!) and I'm getting into that rabbit hole as well. I'm thinking of cosplaying San Lang in my school's book week in about 6-7 months time (if I cosplay Hua Cheng I'll have to annoy the class with all the loud jewellery plus I'm short :( ). I love it so much and thinking of getting into more danmei, I've even tried getting my friends into it (to no avail currently :,) ) just so that I can finally have someone to gush over with. Fun fact, TGCF is the very first book that got me to cry (specifically in chapter 240-241, they got me sobbing)

I got into danmei after watching tgcf donghua on netflix, I didn't know what the story is about wasn't even expecting any romance and was honestly surprised when I found out about the novel, even tho it's not characters relationships that got me interested, but I quickly fell in love with hua cheng and xie lian's story. after that I started reading more and more novels. :p I think erha has to be my favourite one because if just how much pain it brought me and because of roubao's writing. tbh im glad I got into this fandom because it made me really interested in chinese culture, daoism and learning mandarin.

got into this genre via the Untamed, the MDZS anime, also the netlix Heaven Official blessing. So when you said that MXTX novels were translated to English and they were available at barnes and nobles i literally turned to my husband like "we are going to barnes and nobles!" I currently have the MDZS novels. i will be getting the other ones once im finished. So thank you so much coley i would have never found out about this on my own honestly.

danmei finally gave china soft power and as chinese diaspora i am here for it!! can’t wait for danmei to become the thing nerds are bullied for in school instead of kpop or anime LMAOOO

I watched MDZS's donghua first and also looked into the live action, The Untamed. I wouldn't say I didn't like it but it haven't really got me hooked. This time around I started TGCF's donghua and binged the first season. I got obsessed! I also started reading the manhua and I'm getting the novel for sure!! I plan on going back to MDZS eventually and finally watching that too. Danmei's are going to take over my life, I can already feel it! lmao

That magic wand is so cute LMAO So danmei is Chinese for BL.

Homie, I have been into danmei for years now, and this beautifully in depth summary contextualised a lot of the knowledge I already had about the genre. Thank you so much - I feel I understand a genre I love so much more ❤️

Danmei is my fandom-in-law thank you for this!! I have been seeing so much Untamed and Heaven Official's Blessing stuff for a while with no context, it was so fun to learn about it!

i was one of the ones who got hooked by the animated version of mdzs--- my life was altered irreversibly... i LOVE this series so freaking much. and it's made me fall inlove with Wuxia and Xianxia as a whole and i keep reading more and more. adding: I relate to the characters more in some ways than i do characters in most us series, I grew up in a house with a father who was obsessed with martial arts, and would watch chinese and japanese martial arts dramas in their original language with subtitles. i had forgotten or rather brushed it off and not really understood why my family dynamic at home was so different than friends i made in high school and later work colleagues, but having watched and read for three years now I'm realizing why i always felt like an odd bird. can I just add as well, I grew up christian, but the way my family believes definitely aligns more in someways with Daoism on one side and wicca on the other and it puts us sort of at odds with other christians... which is why we hold our church services at home /awkward/

my first danmei experience is when i got curious and pressed play on heaven official's blessing donghua on netflix.. since then, my life changed.. i finished the donghua and continue to read the novel WHILE started watching the untamed.. so, i was reading TGCF and watching TU AT THE SAME TIME.. you can imagine my days filled with screaming, squealing, pillow biting and punching.. it was a whole mental breakdown.. by the time i finished both, i became a full-fledged danmei fangirl.. since then, i have read lots of other novels and genres and fics.. getting into danmei universe is one thing i am thankful for cuz it gives me so much meaning and love and passion in my life. (P.S my most fav (all time fav) danmei novel is TGCF.. HUALIAN GOT ME IN A CHOKEHOLD FOR LIFE)

The perfection and beauty of SHL still gives me physical pain- the emotional INVESTMENT and time I've sacrificed to these characters is just 😭 I thought Untamed would follow me to the grave but SHL dominated my life during 2020/2021 lockdown and hasn't left since

It's actually super cool to get a run down of the history of danmei. I got into it back in October 2021, right between it's initial boom and it's second wave with the mxtx releases, and I didn't actually know that the Untamed is kinda what pushed it into the spotlight (it's also technically what pushed me into getting into it, altho thru a series of misunderstandings I actually began with the Tgcf donghua). I still haven't seen the Untamed, but it makes a lot more sense now why everyone in my danmei friend group has lmao

My first expose to any danmei content whatsoever (that I know of) was back in, like, 2018 when I was browsing the daily deviations on DA. It was a WanXian fanart that I didn’t even know was one because my usual logic was to favorite anything I say, “OH PRETTY” to. What can I say? It was the gorgeous rendering and hair… (I also think the very brief and out-of-context title and description didn’t help either.) Fast forward to my peaked interest in MDZS (very recently, like two weeks ago) and looking at fanart on DA, browsing, finding that piece having a Favorite by me being like, “Why is this favorited because I don’t remember knowing of it.” I browse my favorites gallery, and boom! There it was with the stuff I saw in 2018. It was a daily deviation, so it made sense why I saw it in the first place. XD Hey, I would like to eventually get into more content because oh man! The fanart gets me inspired to draw. The gorgeous hair does it for me.

I got it to Danmei bc my friends sent me two pictures of hc and xl, saying xl is a trash god and hc is a ghost king and they’re in love. Then we watched the donghua, I read the manhua, then the novel and weeks and many tears (book 4 obvi) I’m stuck in the danmei rabbit hole. I finished reading mdzs in just over a week, started reading 2ha and nearly finished scum villan’s. I love these stories so so much and am really glad they’re getting the recognition that they deserve

❤ I like reading bl and Danmei. I find I enjoy read/watching them slowly or rapidly fall inlove. I read a book nd I’m happy. Sure reading a normal romance is cute too but some times makes me wish for a partner. Bl nd danmei make me just happy that they finally got together after al the hard work( or not so hard work) and I love watching ppl make goo goo eyes at each other

I can remember the summer nights I spent in 2021, just falling in love with and absolutely blazing through almost every historical danmei I could get my hands on after reading/watching tgcf (still am). It has been the gateway for many good feelings and memories for me, and I can only hope the community expands towards the positive, commands more international attention, and doesn't breed many peerless cucumbers.

I loved learning about this fandom's story, it's very interesting, thank you!

It is so great to see someone talking about danmei and BL in such a complete and rational way, all the questions was well done treated

Just so you know Coley, you're actually to blame for my recent deep dive into danmei. It was from one of the mentions in your "crazy fandom moments" video. I'd seen stuff about The Untamed and have seen MXTX books in bookstores when I've gone, but I've just kind of shrugged it off as, I'll look into it someday but today is not that day. Well I've ventured in, and I'm now deep down the rabbit hole. I started with the donghua of Heaven Official's Blessing and OMG I absolutely fell in love with Hualian! I've info dumped on my partners about it in depth and then I watched SVSSS and MDZS donghua and fell even more in love with the genre. I'm currently in the middle of watching the Untamed, while interspersing with other various danmei donghuas that I have in queue(I've got 4 different ones opened in different tabs and another list saved as a bookmark of recommended ones.) The Untamed, in some ways moreso than the MDZS donghua, due to its live action nature and story additions, delves deep into aspects of power hungry tyrants and harsh war crimes, as well as the unfair nature of their black and white viewpoints in the cultivation "orthodoxy." It has been a bit heavy on my heart so I've had to go through slower than I normally would when binging a show. I'm usually quick to read fanfiction for pretty much any media that I consume, so I've already read many fics and will likely read many more. My favorite are time travel or AU fix-its because the characters deserve some fix-its or fluff tossed their direction. I made a list of all the danmeis you mentioned and will likely venture into them as I go so thanks for the recs! I haven't ventured too much in the the fandom discourse on tumblr or elsewhere so thanks for the heads up on what I might encounter and why. But I have found some amazing sources for fanart. Another thing I wanted to express my appreciation for was the section where you described enjoying smut as "some people just love spicy food" and how "some asexual folks enjoy reading smut despite not vibing with it irl." 1. I LOVE spicy food in a literal sense. ^_^ 2. I'm asexual and have had a weird relationship with the fact that I love reading smut. The kinkier the better. And it's weird to talk about it irl even with my partners because I greatly enjoy reading smut, but I hate gratuitous sex scenes in visual media because they seem like they're just sprinkled on but have no flavor or substance, and I'm also sex-repulsed with anything having to do with me involved in sex with other people. So just, thank you for how it was phrased because I felt so seen at that moment. So yeah, you are entirely to blame for my current hyperfixation and you have my eternal thanks for it.

Thank you for this! I saw it all but never decided to get into it. It's nice to learn about it from the outside!

i got to know about danmei around 2020 because a classmate told me about mdzs but never got too into it until last year and im really amazed how the authors really craft their works some being really beautiful and poetic,some others with great world building and others more on the angst-emotional side , its really nice too see a novel that is so well written and the characters having a heartwarming development u get to cherish about , anyways nice vid i love it how u explained it

I loved this video. Thank you for all of the interesting info on my favorite hyperfixation. 😄

I love this video, thank you Coley for making this!

Coley, this is such a cool and comprehensive video!!! I loved every minute of it 💗 However, I have to point out that international danmei doesn't begin and end with 7Seas: if anyone is interested in more official danmei, there's In The Dark, Little Mushroom and now Golden Terrace/Stage, published by Peach Blossom Flower House. Thanks for the awesome video ❤️

it’s crazy because your the one that got me into danmei with your tgcf video!

Omg I pretty much started my danmei journey the time as you! Of course I'd seen the MXTX characters before in passing years before but I KNEW it would be a new obsession and I...couldn't emotionally nor financially afford a new obsession.

This video so perfectly and succinctly describes all of the reasons why I love Danmei so much and have fallen even deeper into the Danmei world over the last 4 years. This video was also just really educational and informative, about Danmei in general and the Danmei fandom also. Tbh I consume so many Danmei Twt threadfics these days - and follow a lot fic writers these days...mostly for MDZS and TGCF. I originally saw the donghua's (the anime adaptations) for both MDZS and TGCF back when they originally aired several years ago. I have also seen the live action adaptation of MDSZ - The Untamed. Still waiting on S.2 of the donghua for TGCF, and the live action adaptation - Eternal Faith. I have the first MDZS novel, but haven't read it yet, but I have read so many bits and pieces of the novel via Twitter, same with the manhua - and same with TGCF, like I've read much of the manhua via Twitter and bits and pieces of the novels from Twt.

The fact I have been reading danmei, xianxia and wuxia, and xuanhuan since 2016 and it just started being popular is amazing

I'm a (seemingly) straight female. I've always been into gay stuff. When I was in high school, all I read was gay stories on wattpad. My brother always wanted me to get into anime with him. I never gave it a chance until I moved home and had nothing else to watch. In the midst of me watching anime on crunchyroll, I discovered tgcf. I was so in love with it, I rewatched it like four times and watched other bl anime. Through yt comments on bl recommendations and tgcf videos did I learn about the world of danmei and mdzs and here I am, reading yaoi manwhas and MXTX novels and watching danmei donghua, trying to find fujo and fudan fans to fangirl with over the cuteness. I watch for the gay factor, but the story is always intriguing to me. I just purchased all of the SVSSS novels for the gay, but it was page-turning even though the gay didn't happen until later on. That's good writing. I'm also a writer and plan on using an alias making a play on my middle names (was it a coincidence that my two middle names start with an L and a B?) My first novel is going to have a straight (non annoying female lead) couple and a gay couple (also lead), and afterwards, my next book is going to be straight gay (oxymoron, Ik) and I'm so excited. These donghua are inspiring me. I'm also a hopeless romantic so a lot of the scenarios I have that won't come true for me, I'll probably include those in my works😊

I am still watching, but I def saw the infighting immediately. My local B&N had a whole display with all of the Danmei books they had on display, and I saw Remnants of Filth and was intrigued. Almost all the things I saw online on my quick google search looking for where to start hinted at some kind of contempt to MXTX but claimed that they were the most prevalent one. I ended up picking up Heaven Offical's Blessing to start with (which is funny because I wanted a smaller book to start with and may have accidentally picked the largest one, lol), and so far I've thoroughly enjoyed it!

I really loved your complete video You really gave a lot of information i completely completely had no idea whatsoever

Last time I interacted with the danmei fandom, it was to read the first few chapters of an unofficial Mo Dao Zu Shi translation. It's amazing to see that MXTX's works are more accessible to the rest of the world, good on them.

I am so excited to see this video because things are looking hopefully this year since League of Nobleman dropped. I'm keeping fingers crossed for Eternal Faith and Immortality to just air suddenly.

I have been looking for the names of most of these.!! U rock girly, love your video! Woot Woot!!

I needed this video! Thank you!! I have a friend that's deep into danmei, she started doing a lot of fan art and I wanted to know what it was all about cause it got my attention but I asked her so many times what her drawings where about and for some reason she didn't wanted to tell me, she just told me they where from "some chinese BL novels" but I wanted to know the names and how to get into it, and her drawings only had the weird abbreviations hashtags . Then I saw the first season of the TGC animated series on netflix and I liked it so much, but that was all. Now thanks to you I know what I wanted to know!

I like reading Chinese Novels especially danmei. I have read a lot of them online but not every novel is worth to be read because the story is not well told, the English translation is bad or for other reasons which let me drop them. My favourite novels are The Grandmaster of Demonic Cultivation and Faraway Wanderers by Priest because I like the stories and the development of the characters and their relationship. In Germany actually four English novels are available in the book stores, the three of MXTX and Erha. These books are sold as bl light novels and can be found among Japanese manga and light novels. GDF is published in German translation as well as the manhua book. The first volume of the manhua was released in December 2022 and was completely sold out only after one week and has now to be reprinted. Last week I bought the second volume. Meanwhile Seven Seas has announced the publication of some other danmei novels in 2023 and I hope more will follow.

I had seen all the beautiful fanart floating around online, but it was actually a combination of your video on tgcf and Velinxi doing the official art for scum villain that made me decide these books were what I would spend my next gift card on when they first came out xD and I'm still having such a great time! I looooove scum villain and I did a little happy squeak when you mentioned thousand autumns. For me, one thing about danmei that appeals to me as an aroace person is that so many of these characters are kind of aro- and/or ace-coded? I feel like that has more to do with the whole singular devotion thing that's so romantic and beautiful, rather than these characters purposefully being written that way, but it's been refreshing. Especially in Thousand Autumns the protagonist somehow manages to be both the most ace-coded character I've ever seen and absolutely, hilariously chaotic horny and I honestly don't know where else I would find a character written and handled like this? There probably are, and I just haven't found them yet. Either way, I'm so excited for the English release!

I actually started watching the grandmaster of demonic cultivation dounghua because of one of your videos. I think it was “forcing my friend to watch my favorite show with me” or something and I watched it at the same time as you guys so I could relate to the reactions. I just bought the first book a couple of weeks ago and I’m already obsessed 😂❤ Thank you Coley!!!

Hi Coley, I got into MDZS this January and found your channel (new subscriber!). I love this series, from its mature tone, the murder mystery, the lore and the character stories and relationships. I love how the story tackles the concept of gray morality and how it blends the storytelling of past and present of the two main leads into an interesting narrative. It's not often that I find a series that caters to this specific niche so I'm very happy to dive into it. Currently reading the novel and watching The Untamed. Not sure if I'll dive into MXTX's other works, I've heard they are quite different from MDZS, but I'd love to find more series similar to this in the future. My AO3 is also LumytheQueen, let me know if you have fanfic recommendations! Love your content and how passionate you are about fandom culture.

You..... You are really encouraging me to read mdzs again during my exams....not fair😄😅😆😆

thank you for your work , it's always a good time watching your videos

OMG I LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!!!! I absolutely love MDZS. And I purchased the TGCF novels, but I couldn't read them, they were too dense for my reading taste. So, now I rely on manghua, donghua and live action!! I love danmei, thank you for making this video 😭😭🥰🥰

Thank you for addressing the weird homophobia from danmei fans. My wife and I have fallen in love with the genre, and it is really disconcerting how much some fans seem to absolutely hate anything... Gay in their gay fandom. I've had people argue with me about the evils of fetishization and sexualization of gay people when I am literally a 30-something married lesbian saying that not everyone is a switch and being gay is obviously about more than sex BUT SEX IS A REALLY IMPORTANT PART HELLO??? I spent most of my life not having media that depicted adult (not inherently explicit but mature, grown up) relatjonships between people of the same sex. Everything is about coming out, everything's about kids in high school or characters that are actually bi (which is great for those that want that but it's exhausting to read gay love stories that always include opposite sex attraction from at least one of the protagonists. Gay people fall in love with other gay people, too! In fact, many of us have a strong preference for it!), or they are completely pure relationships stripped of anything but chaste kisses followed by five chapters of self-hatred. Idk. I love that we live in a time that we can read real love stories between gay adults, and the fact that so many "fans" seem to think that is weird and fetishy is just... Homophobic! It just is!