“every girl on earth is in love with him” I’m sorry but the love for harry is not restrictable to only one gender and only one planet

Basically: treat people with kindness

His deep sleepy voice with a British accent does help a lot

the dangerous thing about harry is that his look is just a bonus. he's a really good person at his core. you can strip everything away from him, and even if everything else goes away he’s still a good person.

“every girl is in love with him” yes but not the way everyone thinks we do .

It kills me how much people stereotype Harry styles as the typical heartthrob which he is but people appreciate his ability to attract people with his honesty and realism

moral of this video: be a harry styles, not a scarface

he’s a true gem. i don’t think ive seen a celebrity more charming than him

His mother taught him wonderful morals and values. He is very authentic. And yes, he is very present.

That quiet confidence is so damn attractive. I think we all who aren’t confident like that are so drawn to people who are confident because they just scream peacefulness, and it’s also the fact that they are comfortable with who they are, and isn’t that something we all want to feel.

Another thing is like he is so confident in expressing himself in his music. He said in his doc that he didn't care about following the trends and he wanted to do it his way and tell the truth to his fans and the world. He was also open about how writing his first album was very therapeutic.

He has the brooding quality of a Johnny Depp or Rob Pattinson. But with better control of his body. He's expressive in his mannerisms and has a lighter, more approachable energy to him. Yet he's still masculine. It's hard to explain. But he has extroverted elements to his otherwise unassuming demeanor.

That's the thing even if he gets old , loses his hair and shiny skin , I'll keep on loving him. He's truly someone i look up to. He makes me want to be better and make this world better. He gives me hope in humanity. He's sunlight . Warm and bright , caressing every soul he touches .

his kindness radiates way more than his beauty.

This is hands down , the best comment section ever. There's so much love. Harry truly needs to read this. I hope he does.

I aspire to be a mum like Anne

I have severe social anxiety disorder since early childhood...so basically I don't have any confidence to speak of. Harry is like...one of those people I'm completely in awe of. I'm so in love with his confidence. It's probably the most attractive part of him. Which is really saying something.

Harry finally getting the clout for being an absolutely amazing and kind human is LONG OVERDUE

I've actually always wondered why I was drawn to Harry- even from the start in One Direction. He definitely stood out, but in a quiet way if that makes sense. Now that he's solo, you can tell he's something else.

So proud of the man Harry has become. His mama raised him right. How many people in show business starting out at 16 end up as brilliantly as he is as an adult? It's rare.

i truly can’t explain the way i love him, it’s not like the omg he’s hot, i love him type of way. i just love his whole being, his personality and his traits like a true friend type of love, even though he doesn’t know me. i dont know how to explain it, i just love him.

harry inspires me to be a kinder person. Before I started looking more intro him I was such a cynical brat, today i am more forgiving of outers, less selfish, and i have a much more positive outlook on things. Not to be dramatic, but he changed me lmao. and this is coming from another guy

You just made me fall inlove with Harry allll over again man.

Having met him and having had a conversation with him, I can confirm everything you've said. There were multiple people in the room. They were loud, they were moving about. But they may as well not have been there at all when I was talking to Harry. I think it works both ways, too. His confidence and encouragement increased my own. It was like having a conversation with a good friend. Familiar, funny, a little flirty but only meant to flatter. It was nearly five years ago, but that conversation and particularly that feeling really still linger. And I bet you that if I met him again today, he'd still remember. He's that person.

I concur. He's the sexiest guy on earth and it's not just because of his looks, his personality is really what makes him attractive. He's a good person.

I literally love him so much. Like yes he’s gorgeous but there’s SO many more reasons why I adore this man. He’s ridiculously kind and he’s hilarious & he’s smart and giving and sweet. Harry spends so much time at his concerts having conversations with his fans & he’s very modest. Harry respects women & is always preaching about how he doesn’t give af if you’re bi or gay or trans or straight like he deadass doesn’t care. He loves his fans regardless and wants everyone to feel comfortable and accepted when they’re around him. Harry is the type of person I strive to be everyday

Earlier today, I was watching an interview of Harry Styles. In the comment section of that video, there was one comment that went something like: "Harry looks at every single person like he's in love with them." And that resonates so strongly with what you said, about focusing your entire attention to that one person you're interacting with. It might not even be something he does consciously, but it struck me after you put it in words, and it is true. He does that every single time.

I'm so glad you talked about this because obviously Harry is visually attractive but that's not what hooked most of his fans...it's his vibe, this feeling he radiates to people that just makes you feel good and safe and comfortable and you can tell he doesn't try to have this it just is him. He is extremely talented and attractive but the real reason Harry has our hearts is because he is so honest and real and is honestly the best thing to ever come out of the human race

I love how he effortlessly oscillates between brooding sexy presence, and sudden cute silly behavior and wit. Like a lighthearted , free spirited sweetie.

I fell in love with him when he said something like “I’ve always wanted to be someone who didn’t care what people think...... but I just don’t think I am” and that was it,, he thinks he isn’t but he legit is , he’s so captivating to look / listen to

it took him years to get here, eight years ago, i watched this young man crying over hate messages he got, i love him and i couldn’t be more proud of him

Harry Styles is one of a kind.

"Harry styles should be studied" 🤤

his aura is immensely powerful. ive not seen that aura in any celebrity recently. Real Gs move in silence after all.

I know exactly where every single clip is from I-

Whatever you are, whoever you are, whether you’re his friend, an interviewer, a celebrity, a fan or someone he just met, Harry would always look you in the eye, gives you his full attention while you’re talking and just looks at you like you’re the only person in the room that it’s almost intimidating. He’s got the whole package.

We love Harry because he never labels him self as being famous and he has so much love for everyone. He's taught us all to treat people with kindness and to give love and choose love and that its ok to be whoever we want to be. Quiet frankly i wouldn't want a better Rolemodel or Idol other than Harry. I also love the fact that he loves us fans so much. I just hope he knows we love him just as much as he loves us......

That is truly Harry. This man is one of a kind.

There are so many elements that could be discussed regarding why he is so luminous. I could talk about this endlessly. In his interview on the Today show, the host Hoda told him that when he performs it's like he is making eye contact with the people in the crowd, there is a feeling of intimacy to it. And she adds that even though she has seen many artists perform on her show, she has never seen anything like that before and she can therefore understand the intensity of his fandom. So, Harry manages to carry that presence from one-on-one conversation to a room with thousands of people. That's Powerful. But if he can do it we can all do it, it just takes some practice and open heart.

I hate when media makes Harry styles look like a “womanizer” He is a sweet,caring,energetic,bubbly,awesome,wise,and more person

Once you've started to watch Harry and see his real personality, you won't be able to stop loving him. What a wonderful person 🖤

The fact there isn’t an ounce of toxic masculinity in him is realllly attractive. Take notes guys 👀

Just found you. Really enjoyed this. I am 61 and was blown away first by Harry's physical beauty. Then watching his performances I found myself just adoring him for being such a kind sweet man who is incredibly talented and gives all when he performs.

I don’t think it’s anything magical, it’s just being a good human and wholesome being

he has mystery to him. he’s quiet but loud and outgoing, has a sarcastic humor, an amazing amount of kindness, and most of all he’s confident. i will never understand how someone can be so perfect. his looks are a bonus and on top of all of this is extremely fun talented

That presence comes from good parenting. From someone paying enough consistent attuned attention to your children. Allowing them to be themselves and them knowing they are deeply cared for. Great video.

I actually cry watching this because everything is just true about him he’s the most humble man ever in this entire world and his quiet confidence is insane

He just exudes charisma and cool, he has that IT factor in a way a lot of male artists can only wish.

i love this videooooo. ego isn't incredibly attractive, neither is power. i love men (or people, generally) who are comfortable being and expressing themselves. ego isn't sexy

he has that X factor that can not be learned.... either uve got it or not.... he is interested in you and genuine.. funny as hell intelligent and sweet... so sexy)

I think what is incredibly attractive about Harry is his willingness to be vulnerable. He trusts the people who love him and gives himself to them. He makes them feel special and they in turn feel so protective and loving toward him. There is a climate of safety and complete trust between him and those of us who love and appreciate him

it's funny; my crush on harry styles began when I watched him in an interview. I had known who he was/what he looked like for years, but it was his personality that made him hella attractive to me

Do one of these with Tom Holland, he’s a great example to analyse all of this.

Harry Styles is honestly a walking piece of art. He’s just one of the most authentic and real celebrities out there. I desire to be like him

humble, calm but wildly confident. thats on point

you come for the look, gain interest with the charm and stay for his utter morality and kindness.

I came here to learn about Harry. I left knowing so much more, with a new horizon in my life.

He's an Aquarian male.

Eminem has always had a goofy personality to the extreme that could be seen as overcompensating for something but people always loved his goofiness. maybe because they know he wasnt just a happy go lucky person. its like they respected him more for being goofy because of how troubling his childhood and young adult life was and didnt try to hide it but also wasnt self pittying. just incredibly vulnerable even if it was aggressive, it showed strength to be so forthcoming. something to explore with one of our biggest icons

His so light and gentle and really a cool guy

I like Harry because I see a liitle bit of where he came from and he didn't change He is one of a kind and true person He's not trying to be cool, he is just being himself

I truly hope that harry reads this comment section. He should know how much he's adored by all of us. Also I've established that harry is my second mum. Literally he's so kind , confident and loving. He deserves all the love and kindness . He's an angel.

"Every girl in the world is in love with him" .. couldn't agree more!

Sir you just put my feelings in words... I love him for same reason. What you said is so correct. His not only a love of my life, he is my idol, my inspiration, the most handsome, incredibly confident, magnificent, witty person I've ever seen in the whole wide world 😌💓

Beautiful video. I adore Harry and only discovered him a couple of months ago. Since then I've plunged into him music, shows and interviews and can't stop. I dare say that even his outward beauty is a direct consequence of his attitude and presence. I look at him and want to be like that. He inspires me to become my best self.

When my bestfriend asks me why i'm so into Harry (obsessed is his word tho) i really don't know how to explain it to him. It's everything, his creativity, his way of carrying himself, his way to speak, his manners, obviously his looks, his music, it's just EVERYTHING. I might be blindsided but he seems like he is a confident dude who does whatever he wants, is polite, funny and sexy af. I love him so much and thank jesus for Anne and Des and also Gemma for supporting him every step of the way.

He is genuine, kind and considerate. He’s very respectful and he really cares about his friends and his family. He is appreciative and grateful. It’s everything

HE'S SIMPLY AN ANGEL ON THIS EARTH. HE PREFERS BEING HIMSELF RATHER THAN COPYING OTHERS. WHICH MAKES HIM SO GREAT. HE'S QUITE CONFIDENT. HE JUST TRY TO BE LOYAL AND KIND TO EVERYONE HE MEETS AND THAT'S WHAT MAKES HIM *A VERY GREAT PERSON*

Whether it's a person or a fish LOL

Im a HUGE Harry fan and yk what. He’s not even that handsome. He’s generally not someone im attracted to physically but its who he is. He sweet, charismatic, funny, confident and the list goes on. Hes 100% not ugly at all. Not even close but hes perfect

yes i do love harry styles, but not only for his good looks. Watching him grow up and find the confidence to express himself in every quirky and weird way he wants, watching him just live life for him, and truly Love life is so wonderful. I remember seeing 16 year old harry saying he wishes he could be “one of those people who is just confident in themselves” and seeing him now become that care free person. He is so charming and extremely kind. It’s as if he demands all the attention in a room, but you can tell he’d be just as fine without it. You can even see a huge growth in confidence from HS1 to HS2. I’m rambling but moral of the story is harry styles is one of my favourite people ever

I have watched so many interviews of him the past few days. His voice is just so calming and takes me out of the chaotic energy in the world. He goes so much farther than his looks. Well yes, he's very attractive but he is so respectful, patient, and kind. I'm glad he's getting the attention he deserves.

You know what every girl love about him is not his looks and fame. It's his personality, the gentleman he is and how kind he is. T.P.W.K.

One of my best friends has this knack, and another good mate of mine. They can make anyone feel calm just by being there. I'm naturally very confident and "bubbly" and I absolutely don't worry how I come over but people like me can overpower a conversation. I wish I could pull off what Harry does with ease.

Harry Styles just seems like that one genuinely nice guy. Like no faking and masks like a lot of other celebrities. He is just a really kind person. *Thank you for coming to my ted talk*

*whether it's a person or a fish" lmao😂😂I felt that

Seriously, I am constantly searching to try and get to know him but it’s just not possible. He truly says so little it’s so mysterious and drives me crazy leaves me wanting more.

This is a great video but I honestly think an 8 minute video doesn't do Harry justice. Like he's confident but also humble, kind but also strong, masculine and feminine, calm and excited, open and mysterious, charismatic and sweet etc. He does so many shows and promotion but it feels like he's private. He literally is everything all at once (in an artistic way too; a singer, songwriter, actor, model, businessman!) and his great talent, good looks, cleverness and incredible sense of humor are an amazing bonus. I genuinely think he's the perfect human. He's been in the industry for nearly 10 years and we're yet to see a problematic behaviour or a person who met him and didn't love him. Mark my words, it won't be long he's considered a living legend.

Its so beutiful to heard that he cares about who is with him and that person is the most important in that moment, it means everything

there is an extra warm depth to your videos. They give insight into true rich human existence, far beyond the simplicity of the title and topic

Don’t listen to this guy, don’t try to be a “harry styles”. I’m absolutely in love with harry and love everything about him but you should be yourself, there is someone you’ll find out there who loves you for you. Not just with a partner but with friends as well. Don’t practice on being confident or your ability to have “presence”. Be yourself

I watched that interview of Harry and it left me thinking so much about how confident he is. I was truly so amazed by his aura and now that I see your video I know it's not only my perception. Very interesting!

This lesson really hit home. As an INFP who is pretty introverted and also deals with anxiety, cultivating presence and shifting focus from yourself to others is such a huge lesson and a huge help. I spend way too much time focusing on myself and how i'm coming across and what other people think of me. Obviously, that overthinking and second guessing is gonna be very visible to others and then they'll see you as insecure etc. I'm consciously going to keep that word - presence - in my mind whenever i'm meeting people and talking to people. Gotta stop drifting off into my INFP daydreams! Making people feel seen and appreciated is an amazing quality to nurture.

This is so so true and I’ve always felt that about the charm of Harry. I’ve got a friend that has always remind me so much of him and not physically but that vibe that she really cares about you and what you’re saying.

Do you imagine how rare nowadays are men, who first of all value such "emasculating" things as kindness and true respect for /everyone/. (I do not blame men for everything, it is dreadful how anything a man can do nowadays is either considered emasculating or is legit toxic. I'm sorry for them, but that what makes me appreciate men like Harry Styles even more.)

this video needs alot more of attention, people need to watch this, I loved the way you talked about harry and his presence, it's completely beautiful and right, cheers to you lad!

Thank you so much for this video, I'm currently treating my social anxiety and this only encouraged me to keep going and to do better. I really hope some day I can be as confident and kind as Harry is. He does inspire me every day, and this video was all about it. So thank you!!

I love this spot on video about Harry, and read a lot of the comments that I too agree with ♥️yes... he is beautiful in so many ways but it’s his genuine heart that is so captivating and he’s just so mesmerizing! I loved how you talked about his mental health being in a good place - I feel that’s so important to stress upon these days! I know so many of his fans don’t like that he doesn’t do social media much ( only to promote or do a wish on a holiday) but I like that he keeps all his work on WORK & his private life PRIVATE because when he does start promoting it’s so exciting because he’s been silent and I believe it’s as fun for him as well as healthy for his mental stability. Harry is an old soul to be so young , he is a wonderful at observation and he must have watch his sweet mum with eagle eyes and put all her manners into actions! Im so glad this wonderful man is in this era of entertainment because it needs him! 💗TPWK

yes, harry always has the perfect answers to any questions and even when he doesn’t want to answer a question or when he wants to avoid a question, he can always dodge it smoothly with a more interesting answer. idk if its a thing but i heard people say he’s well media trained

I did not need this cuz hes the most precious thing in my life possible period.

he is the kindest person i have ever seen and he is so accepting and doesnt ever freak out at fans

He’s just capable of making you feel special. When I went to one of his concerts, I felt like he was only singing to me, you know what I mean? And when he started interacting with the crowd I felt like I was the only one in the room with him, but when he stopped, I realised there were thousands of people around me. That’s how special he made me feel.

This has to be my favourite comment section on KZfaq. No-one is focusing only on his looks...which I'm so freaking happy for. People are commenting on why they love Harry so I want to do the same...I'm a Nigerian girl, and I love Harry so much (and not in a romantic way). Where I'm from Harry's genre of music is neither popular nor common, so I can't always relate music-wise, but this fandom feels like home. Harry's values reflect on the fans and they are so welcoming and diverse. I have conversations with people from all over the world just because we discovered ourselves in a comment section. (I'm actually in a group chat rn with Indians, Californians, Australians, Germans, and so many more). Harry brings people closer. And for that I respect him so much. Never have I felt less than, or like and outcast because I'm black, which I've felt in other fandoms. I'm sorry for bringing race into this, but it's just a major reason why I love Harry. I just feel so comfortable! He's honestly like a distant uncle I've never met, but care so much about

Not only girls love Harry. He's a true gem for both genders 💎❤️

i just find this man the most kind, pretty and lovely person in this whole world. he inspires me so much since i was turing myself into a person who's actually on his fanbase. He have a personal own light witch only he can control or be so unique on his on way, he used to have a problem to dealing with his confidence and see Harry turing into this handsome and kind man makes me emotional every single time. i just love H.

You are absolutely right whenever Harry is with someone he focuses all his attention to that person....he treats that person like he is the most important one to him

It would be cool if you did one of these about Shia Labeouf. He's had a wild life and has had quite the Robert Downey Jr.- style of comeback with getting clean and sober. He seems like such an authentic transparent guy, and being such an autodidact he is so charming and beguiling.

Everyone basically likes him because despite being one of the most handsome men on earth he isn't vain or conceited (tho I am not saying that every attractive person is like that) he is nice and kind

we all want to be like harry, we see him like our friend, brother, father, husband, son, grandfather... hes like so close to my heart and i havent even met him. hes such an inspiration and perfect person like not just his face and body, his soul is so beautiful i just--

I’ve loved him since I was seven. my family used to listen to one direction and harry’s voice was my favorite. I always sang his parts the loudest and loved whenever he sang. when I was eight I found out what he looked like and he was my favorite person ever. I remember thinking he looked so friendly and nice, and thought that for years. I’m fourteen now, and I guess you could say I have a crush on him. a huge crush on him. he’s extremely atractive and adorable. his personality and vibe is just so magnetic and likeable, and even if you dont know him or like his music, you go to one concert or watch one interview and cant help but find him so enjoyable to be around. he always seems so humble and genuine and down to earth and I love that about him. his looks just make it harder to stay away. he’s so charming and charismatic that when im at a concert of his I dont dare blink or look away. and his quiet confidence is immaculate. he doesn’t try to look or act like the best in the room or try to be better than anybody. he simply shows himself for who he is and as us harrie’s know, he feels good in his skin 😉. I think it would be stressful to be in his shoes however. his confidence compaired to mine, I couldn’t handle it. imagine going to a concert, knowing %80 of people there wanted to kiss you. I would be very nervous. but he’s not. he’s bold, friendly, and treats everybody the same. he talks to fans in the crowd as if he’s known them for years, not like he’s better than them or they’re gross or ugly or anything. he really does treat people with kindness always. imagine stepping outside and seeing paparazzi follow you when you’re, say, just trying to go to a coffee shop. if I was him, I’d always feel like I’d have to look good and presentable and collected. he just be’s himself. he really doesn’t care how others perceive him and its so likeable. imagine knowing theres thousands, if not millions of fan written fiction chapters about YOU. about you loving other people, about you in love with your friend or ex band mate, about you doing naughty things, about you being sick and some fan living with you. I’d find that creepy. that people in this world know who I am and love me enough to wish that what they wrote was real. imagine preforming, knowing so many people in the crowd knew EVERYTHING about you. how many tattoos you have, what your house looks like, how old you were when blah blah blah, your family’s name, your favorite (food, color, drink, person, song), things you’re scared of, and every word to every song you’ve EVER written because they love you so much. harry is extremely courageous and kind and endearing, and I aspire to be like him. he’s an incredible role model. I dont expect anyone to read this, I just want to vent out my opinion on him and the fanbase and what not. if you made it here, thanks for reading! TPWK always! 💚 you’re gorgeous.