Time stamps 0:00 Opening Song 🎵 Mystery Song 🎵 0:51 🎵 Field Coffee, Pt. 6 By Fields Of Coffee 🎵 2:33 🎵 Voyage By Chris Westlake 🎵 5:32 🎵 Mystery Song 2 🎵 7:02 🎵 Bossa Lisboa By Sonic Moon 🎵 8:41 🎵 Cuban Cigar (Reduced Mix) By Peter Godfrey 🎵 11:51 🎵 Brazilian Amy By Dominik Hauser 🎵 13:18 🎵 Your Good Lies By Vividry 🎵 16:18 🎬 Show Starts, 🕯 Candle Of The Evening Le Labo Calone 17 🕯 17:31 Fragrance Of The Evening, Creed Spice And Wood 18:30 Monologue, The Self Love Of Modern Women 26:00 Eartha Kitt, Diane Carroll 46:50 Moving Along with Show 55:10 1st Caller Amari age 27, 2nd Caller Roxanne age 48 1:15:25 3rd Caller Alex age 29, Friend Is age 30 1:28:23 4th Caller age 35, Believes It Takes 5 Years To Get Married 1:43:47 5th Caller age 29, Attorney, 6th Caller age 26, Last Conversation

How lucky are we that this man left 800+ videos for us to binge watch, so that even after he was gone his message could go on? Every man should strive to be like KS

RIP KS. It's almost like he knew that he was running out of time. Pumped out so much recorded wisdom for now and the future. Legacy achieved. He will forever impact us all.

I am blown away by what he is exposing and teaching. I am nearly 40 years old and single no kids. I realize I don't know how to love a man. I am grateful this education is available for free to learn to change my ways. I am sorry to all the men I've hurt in my life. Please forgive me. I hope to learn from my mistakes. Thank you for being generous by sharing this so openly. ❤️

This man was a gift from God. I say that three months after his passing with tears in my eyes.

I was “in love” with my husband as a teenager. It’s just a feeling, you can’t live your life based solely on that. The real relationship starts when that burning desire cools, you learn what love really is. It’s duty, it’s sacrifice, it takes hard work and perseverance, it’s beautiful. He is the love of my life, that will never change. Feelings come and go but mature love isn’t based on feelings. EDIT TO ADD: RIP Mr. Samuels. You completed your mission. Now, it’s up to us to do the work.

For many years I’ve felt like I was wrong or weird because my main goal in life was to be a Housewife and mother, just like my mum. This channel helps me realise that my goals aren’t wrong in the modern world. It’s ok for me to want to be a loving housewife and mother. Personally… I’d rate myself an 8. I had been Single for 4 years.. and recently I’ve met a man who instantly made plans, wanted to meet, has his shit together, we have the same family aspirations AND mutual attraction. I am starting to finally feel settled, and feeling affirmed that those goals of mine aren’t stupid or less than a career driven woman!

To be damn near 50 and still have the mental abilities of a teenager is scary.

"you don't like my tone???......my tone is matched to my sense of urgency" may your message, passion and charisma live on KS - we miss you dearly!!!!

My tone is matched with my since of urgency! I can NOW respect & understand his tone . I really appreciate this man for looking out for black women . At first glance it will appear that KS doesn’t care for BW but dig deeper & you see that anyone who spends this much time & effort to get us to WAKE UP before it’s TOO LATE , it comes from a place of LOVE 💕 & URGENCY !!

It's amazing that people can live so long without learning anything about life. People age, but few seem to mature.

My best friend & I just had lunch for Suit Saturday in honor of your passing Mr. Samuels. You truly changed my outlook & approach to manhood, & I’m counting my blessings there’s such a large cataogue of your work I’ve yet to even scratch the surface on. You were always reinforcing the cost & foundation of a man’s performance & legacy. This is yours, Mr. Samuels. I love you & I miss you like a father. RIP. Until Heaven I hope & pray

His love for the black community was beautiful ❤️ it’s so sad some didn’t see it that way -

Shout out to all the young ladies , 18-25 , listening , receiving , learning & applying these teachings to life !!

Download all his vids fams, just in case. If u honor & respect this man, spread the word so we can archive the 🐐.

Many women in my family don't understand why I am submissive to my husband. But, I reassure myself knowing that I honor God and my marriage by doing so. It also helps that my husband has a relationship with the Lord and treats me well in return. I don't see it as a weakness at all, but I do see modern women around me struggle with this concept.

RIP. You changed my life with your messaging, you holding men accountable to be the BEST version of themselves and strive to be high value in ever since of the term. Mentally & financially. No excuse just get the work done. You effect them world as polarizing as you may have been for the better. You shifted the conversation, and your intention was solely to bring together black families. You were on the cusp of truly becoming an icon. Thank you for what you have done. Will constantly support your work & channels.

Anyone else notice that the older women are arguing just to argue and no matter how foolish they sound they think holding their ground or avoiding the questions is somehow winning. The younger women and college educated women end up talking over Kevin when trying to prove they're smart by changing their answers whenever they think Kevin is about to disagree with them. Some women are so self-absorbed they don't even see their competition who's playing the game better than them. This video was insightful.

These are just coping mechanisms - There is no one to love you: the coping mechanism is “I love myself” - There is no one to provide for you: the coping mechanism is “I am independent” - There is no one to protect you: the coping mechanism is “I am strong” Now we have strong, independent and self-loving women!

Blessings to you you really did “do the work “ & u left a lasting impact on our community. RIP

Self love isn’t a bad thing, but what we have is self adoration.

I'm listening to this while at work and I got to say the monologues are the best part of the show💯

My ex always harped on about self love which I use to call BS. Telling me that I should love myself more than I already do. She had all the other red flags too, multiple degrees in nothing, 3 kids by 3 diff men all ending with her messing it up, older and uncooperative, lives in a echo chamber with women who have the same mindset. Whoever reads this learn from my stupid mistake and run if you come across anyone like this

Other cultures are taking KS’ advice and improving. Thank you KS, your message was universal.

Heard Kevin passed away… the world lost a man who was controversial, for all the right reasons. Thank you for your honesty and speaking your truth, even though it was hard for many to hear. Going against the grain and telling American women that modern society’s promises come with consequences couldn’t have been easy. Rest In Peace Kevin,

We Thank you Kevin FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO!!! your labor,your Teachings,Your Words,Your Patience,we appreciate the God Father!

I’m so happy about KS message because it feels a little like vindication. I felt for so many years that I had done something wrong because I wanted a more domestic lifestyle. This is who I wanted to be a great wife and mom . NOW, I’m realizing through listening to KS is that those women all want what I have now! “The first shall be last and the last shall be first “. So I appreciate him bringing people down to earth. I realize more women than not are just full of shit! I invested in my family and I’m glad I did! I’m reaping all the benefits of my investment.

Thank u Kevin for helping me feel like an actual human and not just a work mule for corporations and women. I'll forever respect your name for that.

Who’s here in 1/23?

My homegirl keeps talking about this self love and such and such at 47 years old. I'm flabbergasted by it. I'm 43 and single as well as her but I won't be delusional any more. She still thinks she's the prize and that her man is just going to appear. She doesn't think she has to do much to get him as if she's still in her prime years. She also lost a guy about 8 years ago because she just had to communicate with an ex. Lol. I didn't see that coming when she told me that. I block and delete if I have a man. No random ex is gonna make me lose a good man. Now this guy she lost to stupidity is engaged and buying a house with his new lady. That could have been her.

The Eartha Kitt interview is so sad. She was so delusional. She says "A relationship has to be earned", literally right after saying she's not willing to compromise. How does she not understand she's contradicting herself?

I've missed listening to KS and long live his legacy 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

I have a love for him that he will never know. My marriage is better because of him… my self esteem is better because of him and I view marriage in a total different way because of him. I find myself quoting him to my single and married friends who desire a better relationship

This guy is trying to get y’all married and not die alone.. idk why..but he’s doin the lords works

I don't see why this guy gets so much hate. Sure he's proactive, but he's laying out the blueprint for our sisters to secure a life partner of quality. He's far more brutal to the men, but we love it!

RIP UNCLE SAMUELS. I'm a young black man from the UK and before you I had a little measure of my importance to society and to the future generations. Coming from a broken family structure I internalised my mother's pain without regard for my father's plight. I was willing to tolerate less in order to make a woman happy, because I didn't want to be like my late father. While my father was not perfect the key is that my mother was tough to be with and complicit in the damage. You taught men like me to start with why, especially regarding picking a mate. You taught men to stand tall with shoulders broadened and attack the day. You taught men to not settle for less in the name of chivalry. You taught men that women need to earn a man as much as a man needs work tirelessly to be in the position to choose. You taught a young black man to value his image in a world that views us as a joke. This young black man is eternally grateful. Rest in Power. May God forgive you for your sins and reward you for your heart. I haven't processed this loss yet but I promise one day I'll make you proud by becoming a man that's valuable to others and most importantly to myself. & Peace ✌🏿 we are gonnneeeee 😔🥂

This was the best one. I've watched all this mans legacy.. he has helped me be a better man for a conscious woman.

KS made a great point about the way BW go to college 🎓 versus white women. One is there for a degree while the other is there scouting talent.

I notice that a lot of these women don’t mention electricians, plumbers, HVAC etc… these guys at $65k + men but if you don’t know you don’t know..🤷🏿‍♂️ these are professions that will ALWAYS ALWAYS be needed!

Love you brother, i am truly sad and us men have to hold this torch.If not our community will be lost forever 😢 That he set for us men, he left enough material to study. Now it is time to put to action what he has set in motion Rest In Power brotha 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

“They just struck down Roe V. so you gentlemen are gonna have to start making better decisions” RIP a legend

She was NOT smiling when she said she was falling in love with herself…

Tired of women saying there isn't any good thorough men out here and we make 95k, for some reason we are invisible to you women 🤦🏾‍♂️

RIP Kevin. You will be missed. Gone way too soon. Thank you for leaving us over 800 videos of teaching. I pray they leave your content up forever. May your legacy live forever, you definitely left your mark with your short time on KZfaq. Salute.

After the Godfather died, lots of women came out of the woodwork and were rejoicing about the man's death. I'm gonna make it my mission to get this man's teachings infront of as many eyes as possible. The female gaslighting has gone on for too long.

Women's logic: 20's= Don't talk to me. 30's= Please talk to me 40's= Hey! Hey big head! I am talking to you. 50's= I have fully accepted my fate. 60's= Here kitty kitty. 70's= I am having a heart attack and I am dying. No Accountability even in the face of death. We are living in a world where a basic chick has an ego higher than the sun. A womens' money is her money, but a mans' money is the family's money. They are naturally greedy and selfish. Her entitlement is crazy.🤦‍♂️🏃‍♂️. IT IS ALL MEN'S FAULT. 🎯

I heard about this man through a black woman who said that she don’t always agree with him but would miss him. Because this was a woman I admired, I checked out Mr Samuels. His advice is priceless. His compassion and patience was unending. What was shocking to me after hours of listening, is how black women(I honestly don’t know anyone who married for money in my friend group)out such an emphasis on how much a man makes. I dated lots of men with money, but chose a poor man with character. He ended up successful-because of his character. That’s the secret, because even if he hadn’t made lots of money, his character is what made him a good man and worth spending my life with.

Rest in peace. They are still talking about you. You are still being referred to.

“The dog is what she was left with!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I'm upset he died. I honestly believe he was murdered!

Missing you so much 😪,I will continue to look at all the videos you’ve done so I can keep reminding myself how much you still help💔❤️🙏🏼

Mr Samuels , thank you so much for your useful content , it has helped me to become a better woman and hold myself more accountable. Your presence will be missed ! Sleep peacefully 🙏🏽🌹

Shout out to Eddie Murphy for having Ertha Kitt, Grace Jones, Halle Berry, Robin Givens, AND Lela Rochon in one film.

Eartha was on her enlighten-feminist trip then. Unfortunately, her horrendous upbringing/life story she discusses in other interviews (and maybe this one) contributes to her cold and bitter rhetoric. Years ago when I found out that the term “Diva” was affiliated with a female demon, Lilith or a succubus, I disassociated myself from every arrogant dysfunctional woman I had known or slept with. They will literally suck/drain a man of his strength.

Kevin Had me Hollering!!! While imitating Eartha Kitt. The brother was Funny without trying to be. Lots of laughs and a ton of knowledge to be applied. Thank you Kevin for the harsh truth. We needed it, although it hurt sometimes. Rest In Peace King🤴 . Can't believe you're Gone💔May your Wisdom and influence live on🙏🏾

Channel steady growing. Last time I checked it was 1 .3 Mill. That was a couple of weeks ago. Just goes to show that he was right....

"Are you married?" "I was." Proper answer: I am divorced. Own it. And he's your ex-husband.

Eartha Kitt and Diahann Carroll BELIEVED the same but only one was honest and self reflective enough about their situation. R.I.P. to both nevertheless

Kevin if u knew since youvr left the world I've watched a different video every two days....binging on u lord...u left us alot

This brother was a Angel. Thank you brother for your service and sacrifice. Your ideas are being cemented in so many others. Just wish you could’ve been around to see the product of your works.

I've seen the Eartha Kitt, Diane Carroll interview in tiktok several times posted by women that wants to "empower" women on loving themselves and I just feel sadness deep within me for the delusion and how many women believe it.

Kevin said “you’re somebody’s whole mother” and that sums it up 🎯She still DID NOT get it because the euphoria of the perpetual fantasy is TOO ADDICTIVE.

You could tell that Eartha was broken/hurt and needed some loving lol

I'm 45 and my mother is the first generation of women on this path.. It's like Kevin had a crystal ball.. R.I.P. to a legend..

women do love saying ' i feel like...' every 3-4 seconds

Great perspective on the selfish woman! All the points are valid. I’ve experienced this more than enough! Thanks Kevin, I’m woke to this now!!!

As a 21 year old I’m so happy to Come across a video like this but sad it took him passing to see what everyone’s talking about . He was definitely saying some shit! We need more men to just SPEAK UP and lead (and not no bullshit)

Breathtaking wisdom. The world was enriched by your presence, Kevin. And how you empowered the community was inspiring. Rest in Power

Kevin was a true Sage amongst us! RIP my brother.

A lot of modern women think of themselves as trendsetters ... not realising that they're just following a path already laid out for them!!

women and men need to start being very serious and real with themselves. If you’re selfish, then stay out of relationships. You can still date and do whatever but don’t ask for or expect a commitment if you’re selfish. It will not last. Some women like to have a man just to say they have a man, it’s for show but deep down she really don’t love him like that. I see it too many times and I’m a woman! It’s not about compatibility either, it’s about suitability. Does that person suit who you are at this current time? Another thing a lot of people tolerate each other but there isn’t no real love there. There’s a big difference. Real love is rare these days because a lot of people have other motives that serve only themselves as individuals. It all boils down to selfishness. Stay out of a relationship if you aren’t ready to be ALL IN and make sure the other person is all in too and feels how you feel. Otherwise you’re wasting each other’s time.

Thank You so much KS for sharing your wisdom. As a 20 year old woman it means so much to me🙏🏾 Rest in Power king❤

Arguably the best show Kevin has done on this platform. Especially the last 2 ladies. Hope it works out for them.

**The 4th caller helped me tie something together** For ppl who know the show "Shark Tank" you know how sometimes the sharks tell the guests they have good businesses but it's not "investable for them"? They're saying the business is fine for the owners, but doesn't give enough value to the sharks themselves. I think this is the parable for men / modern women; they are "business owners" of their own lives but they're not presenting / offering enough value for men to INVEST in them (aka marriage/legal attachment). I watch these vids as a 37 yr old, single blk man, in Miami, 6-figure earner, no kids, established in my career path & still sharpening my character, integrity, skillsets to be more valuable to myself & others. How do I spend so much energy improving myself for mutual benefit with a woman knowing her actions (forget her words) say "im looking for someone to share in loving me"? These women want us to love them fully, while they love themselves fully & we get whatever energy they have left over

I miss you Mr Samuels, you got me through the pandemic. I will keep watching reruns and laugh at your sound bites and gimmicks. we all love you.

R.I.P. Kevin 🙏 We‘ll never forget you😪Your contribution remains forever!

UNBELIEVABLE... These women kept trying to prove him WRONG and it literally proved him right😂😂😂 it's absolutely amazing that these women can know everything and absolutely nothing at the same time....

41mins in I gotta say Kevin is extremely SKILLED AND I say that modestly.

Only recently found you through Shorts of you and I gotta say I love how incredibly B A S E D you are. I've struggled in the dating pool the last 5 years through my 20's because so many women have been led to believe so many socially destructive ideas and I have failed to accommodate for them. I found a women last winter who is traditional and I've never been happier. Keep up the great content!

I just subscribed to this channel,had no idea K.S. died.From the little I've seen,He will be remembered not only by his wisdom and insight,but humour too.

I think "self-love" is supposed to be about loving yourself the way you love someone close to you/a family member: You take care of yourself (exercise/eat right/etc.), hold yourself accountable, and not abuse yourself when you mess up but accept it/learn from it and keep trying. I don't think self-love is inherently wrong or bad, but I think it has been morphed through social media, like a lot of other things. Another example is how the body positivity movement started with people who had accidents/burns/etc to accept their body and with social media has morphed to obese women being happy to be obese rather than trying to get healthy. Self-love shouldn't get in the way of building a relationship with someone, it's just about having some self-respect for your health and yourself. At least in my mind.

1:55:00 He is correct that the young lady should've lived below her means and cleared her debts before moving to "the nice side of town". Too many people graduate w/student loan debt (she has 60k) but want to celebrate their new money from their first job out of college. Within a year they end up with a car note, expensive rent & want to take trips while paying the minimum on their student loans. After I graduated I stayed in my college apt, drove a 12 yr old car & took the first 3 years to pay off my student loans so I could live the rest of my life debt free. The older we get the more expensive we become & the likelihood of clearing that debt be comes minimal once you have kids, mortgage & other lifestyle costs.

"You get finessed.....damn I'm 30" "He just 6 mo older" 😭😭😭😭

Thank you Mr. Samuels, you were one of the best to ever say it out loud. You Will truly be missed. I appreciate everything you taught me. 🙏🏾

Monologues keep getting better. Keep up the great Mr. Samuels. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

The original Self Love concept was meant to be used as a healing tool not this modern day self aggrandizing they've turned it into. Ladies, self love is used for low self esteem or a means to connect, i.e. How can you love someone else if you can't love yourself first. Or as it is stated in scripture, Love thy neighbor as you would love yourself. Self love isn't about detachment, self interest, or vanity but being an living example of how to better love by being the example.

Oh my goodness Powerful stuff 🙄😳 Thank you Kevin for all of your work. LEGEND 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾 A shall bing watch your lecture's for years to come 🙏🏾

Too y'all my single brothers like myself. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. Hold out until u find a woman that's going to be on your program. You deserve it kings 💯

Man: sugar is sweet and salt is salty. Woman: you cant say that. Thats not valid you cant generalize its not like that for every woman. ?!?

RIP my friend. You will be missed. Thank you for all your great content and teaching us men and women correctly. 🌈

Damn I miss his message just happy I can always go back to these videos he grew me up so much

KS nailed it I couldn’t say it any better “ self love but alone” 🤣😭😭 sums up today’s modern woman 👩🏽

Every episode morden women prove that they are just grown children, and if it wasn't for the spirit of nurturing, they would be totally self absorbed and unable to love anything other than themselves.

The pointing out of the laugh was psychologically hilarious along with the Grinch face.

It's so weird watching his videos now knowing that he's passed away. I'm actually sad about it and haven't thinking about it for a couple of days. I really enjoyed his messages on a nightly basis. It's going to take a little bit of an adjustment to find something else.

I work in a hospital with mostly women. It’s like working with children everyday. It’s annoying and tiring. No responsibility at all.

My 2 younger sister each have Masters degrees, husbands children and a happy life for the past 20 years-why because they WANTED to be married despite their female friends trying to dissuade them to stay single both married hard working BLUE COLLAR men like my dad. Their female friends? well lets just say most fall into 2 categories: baby mamas with multiple baby daddies and single miserable run through hyenas (or German shepards)

RIP my G, you were the Man, the King, the Father of all Fathers, Godfather. Thanks for blessing us with your support and wisdom in this world full of chaos and confusion. We'll strive to keep the message loud and clear 💪. 🙏🙏🙏

It’s crazy. K S Content is one of a kind, guy was dropping dimes.. all now you see v people hating😢🥲 haters will always hate.. RIP 🙏🏾

KS shows are normally not comical, but the callers tonight kept on proving his point and some even doubling down on it. You cant help but laugh.