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@bachiak110 ай бұрын
Boy u sound rtrded I feel shame for ppl believing your bs 😂😂😂😂
@marquesmarques861110 ай бұрын
💯truth.
@StopReadingMyName20210 ай бұрын
Blud pinned his comment 10 days ago but has 13 likes while top comment got 1k. Crazy
@bachiak110 ай бұрын
@@StopReadingMyName202 cuz he promoting goofy
@deezgutz53309 ай бұрын
If you try to chase whiter chicks, live in western culture yeah cause of natural ingroup preference too, if you go to a not westerned Africa and China the same will be said for their specific preference group, They say birds of a feather naturally flock together. Hierarchy is a reality sure, but you can get all the game you ever need at your flock, A hottie from yours is better than a mid from somewhere else.
@maxstrike302210 ай бұрын
Truth doesnt hurt; realizing youve been lied to does.
@dudejoe839010 ай бұрын
This is the truth. And it didn't hurt.
@Eruptor100010 ай бұрын
Facts
@kevinsamuels314010 ай бұрын
Society has definitely lied.😂
@dblanquito424010 ай бұрын
It hurts that this man is lying 😂😂 everyone has a type and that’s just it
@TexxVlogz10 ай бұрын
@@dblanquito4240 what he is saying, white men are the most desired is the point. Black men have to put in more work to get results close to white men
@Earl_TheSquirrel9 ай бұрын
If you're an attractive human you'll attract humans.
@bombshellbambina9 ай бұрын
period lol race doesn’t have shit to do with it. that’s just ugly people coming up with excuses 😂
@explore85399 ай бұрын
Agreed
@LMD119 ай бұрын
Not really
@vincentjennings6049 ай бұрын
Someone missed , every poisonous creature is attractive including humans so to speak that’s why toxic relationships are a thing but there is much truth to both sides
@jokbok9959 ай бұрын
@@Naledi-ep2vf not less attractove It is seen as less attractive
@puppet_society4 ай бұрын
The amount of times ive been told "You're pretty for a black girl"☠️tf
@r2d2rxr3 ай бұрын
I’ve heard this too, but the guy version. It’s something I could never say to someone.
@Rhatid-mon3 ай бұрын
Hmmm.....🤔
@justchilling7043 ай бұрын
Like tf is that supposed to mean 💀
@GoldenWolf1153 ай бұрын
Never understood that. I worked downtown years ago, and my racial preferences were obliterated. As a white guy, I have no hierarchy now, women of any race can be sexy without being exceptions. Plenty of Nigerians and Kenyans working there that blew my mind.
@Rhatid-mon3 ай бұрын
@@GoldenWolf115 You dabble in "dark meat" as a fetish, because your classy blondes, brunettes & red heads ignore you Gomer.💀
@The_Real_Doggo_Gaming3 ай бұрын
"Your not ugly, your just not white" 10/10 start to a video
@MoneySupply-tl8hq3 ай бұрын
Whites look like gays
@TKdrizzle3 ай бұрын
@@MoneySupply-tl8hqwhites invented that phone your using.
@biscuit1193 ай бұрын
@@TKdrizzle Yawl both dumb
@Daveyjdigital3 ай бұрын
White people want to tan to look darker and not be Red😂😂😂😂
@Daveyjdigital3 ай бұрын
Also u grow furr we grow hair
@sanisha2017 ай бұрын
dont date people who give backhanded compliments.
@handsomeX6 ай бұрын
💯🎯
@vicljr85335 ай бұрын
💯
@mts435 ай бұрын
Like when black men told me growing up"you look good to be dark" ugh!
@sanisha2015 ай бұрын
@@mts43 thats my favorite red flag for dismissal
@sl87745 ай бұрын
@@mts43black men or boys at school that happened to be black? You’re just as bad as them if you’re using that experience against a whole group of people
@KaiserBP10 ай бұрын
Translation: I don't usually date black guys but you're Tyrone. Chads and Tyrones are a race of their own. It's called pretty privilege.
@chrisiflexspencer797110 ай бұрын
I think Austin should highlight this comment it explains his video in a few sentences 😂 real talk
@smartass75110 ай бұрын
Its also about being well spoken. Probably the biggest issue black men have
@sfrealestatedealmaker600110 ай бұрын
This is 100% true
@blackemperor135210 ай бұрын
@smartass751 I went to a mainly white school and had no problems, though I spoke like and behaved like a white dude according to everybody so that's probably why I did good when it came dating non black women.
@jadenthomas97410 ай бұрын
I’m mixed race and the majority of girls that hit on me are white
@cyrusacre8 күн бұрын
Everyone generally sticks with their own kind. It's when one makes a concentrated effort to date out that the failures begin to multiply ....
@topical68968 күн бұрын
No look at Asian girls in the west
@tena20133 ай бұрын
Interracial dating in itself is a niche. Most people globally are naturally inclined to dating people with similar features to them. Complaining about human nature is a losing game
@ryantucker21663 ай бұрын
Bro, the problem here is that women of all races ( for the most part) prefer white men, which is reflected in online dating stats.
@Cleifairy2 ай бұрын
Not, black guys they hate their race that’s why they leave them single mothers.
@NoU-pf8fc2 ай бұрын
@@ryantucker2166Those are pretty much outdated stats and only follow people that live in the U.S.
@ryantucker21662 ай бұрын
@@NoU-pf8fc No they're not outdated. Women of every race overwhelmingly prefer white men in the U.S. and globally.
@SankalpTiwari-ds3xl2 ай бұрын
@@NoU-pf8fceven in europe blck men have no chance
@Snes648 ай бұрын
Most people don't date outside their race. Nothing wrong with that.
@dummy9997 ай бұрын
Not really. I see all sorts of black, indian, chinese guys go for white girls but I've seen alot of pretty white girls that write off guys that arent white. But a lot of the time i notice not good looking white girls will go for the black, indian, chinese guys more than the pretty ones will
@urmum98987 ай бұрын
This is not true...
@Lynn-ip9sh7 ай бұрын
shut up dawg
@cocotruffles98157 ай бұрын
@@urmum9898yes it is lmao. Majority of people date and socialize in their own race. Its normal. Race mixing & interracial dating is not the most common
@jameleason61247 ай бұрын
@@cocotruffles9815How is something not so common been going on since beginning of time and over time make it make sense hmmmm 🤔
@tatsumaki939710 ай бұрын
In my experience as a black man Asian women will rarely look twice at you. You’ll get a white gf before an Asian one.
@worldmusicshaddyraddy10 ай бұрын
Come to Toronto
@igpxmaster10 ай бұрын
Facts I’ve gotten Asians girls before but they definitely want the relationship with white men
@fxfundedfxf877610 ай бұрын
@@igpxmaster im a good looking light skin dude and asian women def find me attractive. In public mostly everyone tries to ignore eachother lol but if you are attractive most people will take a look as well as a lot of women of all backgrounds. Environment is huge tho, like in middle schoolm I had hella white girls loving me lol
@igpxmaster10 ай бұрын
@@fxfundedfxf8776 well yea because that’s you’re in a school bubble remember how women operate so for example school middle high school college is where most black men eat why? Because typically the most popular sports are overwhelming black men another thing is our dress code and charisma now when you get out of the school bubble now you gotta deal with the county bubble is the county in the state you live in have a lot of interracial couple or people that don’t judge than you are good if not you will only be seen as a piece of meat if you are attractive… attraction isn’t the problem it’s more social economic factors , history etc.. just because they look doesn’t mean they want to touch and if she wants to hook up cool but don’t expect more out of it I’ve literally had Indian and Asian women tell me their peoples will punish them meanwhile no issues if they date white men
@randomguy207610 ай бұрын
@@fxfundedfxf8776as a mixed guy this gave me hope maybe i have a chance with asians Im not that lightskin tho but not black either
@maribelmejia26934 ай бұрын
You can be attractive in any color.
@OsirisMawnАй бұрын
It's more about class than colour you're right.
@mahakashkumarroy2119Ай бұрын
it's not Color it's facial symmetry
@chocolateangel874321 күн бұрын
@@mahakashkumarroy2119 Well, BM also have a bad reputation across the globe because of their low social status.
@AG-mm9wn18 күн бұрын
Who said you couldn’t 😂
@pureone835017 күн бұрын
That wasn't the point
@bedwarsprogamigАй бұрын
Date whatever race that LOVE you
@vladimirmakarov33411 сағат бұрын
Let's say I'm white okay and I want to date a African American woman who I find that she loves me people are often racist when I want to date someone who I love like African American I don't get way they are so triggered
@marken25878 ай бұрын
If someone doesn’t want to date you because of your race why would you want to date them. I’m all for self-improvement but doing it in hopes that people outside of your race would date you is crazy. But to each is own.
@scherebeatle6 ай бұрын
Its simple preference nothing wrong with that
@tonyadams88126 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@Rayrockny6 ай бұрын
By dating I think he means smashing.
@frillylily80056 ай бұрын
@@scherebeatle Preference has reasons if it’s because you just find people who look similar too your attractive that’s alright if it’s because of racist stereotypes and think everyone who don’t look exactly like you is ugly just for the fact they don’t look like you then that goes deeper then just preference
@leabeauty8376 ай бұрын
Yes he thinks he did something with the video, but just looks like a desperate pick me
@leondreamcast10 ай бұрын
Having a white women tell you they normally don’t date black men but you’re an exception is problematic af lol I would have immediately cut shorty off and blocked her
@dw313410 ай бұрын
Women only tell him that cause he's Tyrone. What they really mean is that he looks better than most black men 😂
@GojoTheHonoredOne910 ай бұрын
LOL i’ve heard this ish before💀 i just give them the “ohhh aight” and keep it moving
@Kumari_4410 ай бұрын
I kinda get what you mean. Almost like its a kinda backhanded compliment. Like the ‘oh youre pretty for a black girl’ etc. thing is some white girls are simply just telling the truth when they say they dont normally date black guys, but so and so is an exception. Theyre basicly saying black aint their usual thing. But i hear you though. I would keep it moving too if a girl said that to me. Cos if a girl says that to you, she is basicly just telling you youre second best to her… meaning its only a matter of time until she instantly replaces you the minute her actual european type comes along. She’ll drop you like a hat. Nomatter what her race is, Fuck with the girls that genuinly fuck with your type. Anything less is failure waiting to happen. Real playas know.
@Saint_Darius10 ай бұрын
@@dw3134 well yea clearly
@LeadLeftLeon10 ай бұрын
Depends on how it said. Most people are used to messing around within their own race
@Rhehddhjf63373Ай бұрын
Shit…I’m white and still can’t get chicks. I’ve seen plenty of black dudes with the cream of the crop.
@Miserere860Ай бұрын
im brown can get any women from any race. I be honest men with both looks and money have their own race
@dantasticmania872818 күн бұрын
Maybe ,just maybe it's more about the status of the dude vs his color ? Most women will and always gravitate towards men with money and power. Andrew Tate isn't exactly much white, nor is Vin Diesel.
@yusufozzy13 күн бұрын
Black dudes are the in thing now .I see then pulling more women than other races .if a girl has a preference for there own that's great
@aubreymakhubo426311 күн бұрын
@@dantasticmania8728100% accurate. Women respond effortlessly to power, money and fame. Generally there's a hierarchy of competence embedded in the human brain. Hypergamy is how we got to populate so well. We're not thriving yet but we're reproducing well because of this.
@joshuahoward87417 күн бұрын
Absolutely correct. What this guy is saying is bullshit! I'm that so called black guy so I can speak on this...
@Q2ximess25 күн бұрын
*You aren’t ugly, your just not rich.
@Juggernaut2k1210 ай бұрын
People are oblivious in the world we live especially with stigma and stereotypes around, so if you're black and attract other races its because you stick out which is a good thing.
@AustinDunhamVlogs10 ай бұрын
that makes perfect sense actually
@raees247310 ай бұрын
Or mixed race like me, we are called coloreds in South Africa. Black women never give me choosing signals. I only get choosing signals from other coloreds and white women
@dannysajna-nx8sk10 ай бұрын
Lol yeah but u have to fame near be perfect in terms of looks and still struggle in today's dating market due to these chicks dating white and Latino men the most they date bm as there 3rd last option I know from seeing it an here it firsthand sad game lol good luck fellas
@weeden35010 ай бұрын
@@dannysajna-nx8sknot really in Tulsa white women LOVE classy or sporty, athletic in shape black men it's a norm to see them together
@jpedro7773310 ай бұрын
That's totally true, I live in Brazil, a pretty mixed country, and we don't have these stereotypes here as you have in the US, they still exist, but not as much as there, so we have way more mixed relationships here. Talking by personal experience, I'm black. But I'm sure what Austin said is also true to some degree.
@gracec16657 ай бұрын
My Grandmother gave me this advice when I was in my early 20's. Marry a man who is of the same culture. She said, people from the same culture understand each other better because they have their culture in common. And all the little details that come with it. However, narcissist exists in EVERY culture....so be aware of these evil people.
@ThatOneWeirdGal5 ай бұрын
I'm so sad to see a mindset like that. You can date people with other cultures, it might even enrich yours and vise versa. You can not only learn a lot of things from them, but you can learn that certain differences are fine and healthy in relationships. I'm sure your grandmother was a very lovely person and she meant well but I'm not surprised to hear that from an older generation when everything was segregated. It's time to get past that, and we are getting past that as a society slowly but surely. You are of course attracted to what you are attracted to and if you are only attracted to someone of the same race, I think that's fine. But to tell someone that they should marry anyone for any other reason than the fact that you love them for who they are, is not good advice, I'm sorry. Again, I don't think there's anything wrong with someone that wants to date within their race, people are attracted to what they're attracted to. However what I do have a problem with are people who refuse to date other races for the wrong reasons.
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo68585 ай бұрын
@@ThatOneWeirdGalWell my fiance is a white guy and I am Asian. We are from the *SAME* culture which is the AMERICAN CULTURE!
@ThatOneWeirdGal5 ай бұрын
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 Yes, and I'm sure you also have separate cultures, especially you growing up in an Asian household. Which is great, there is nothing better than sharing your culture with your loved one. I am a white girl that is in a relationship with a black guy and I know he's definitely the one for me.
@thetinaexperience70004 ай бұрын
Ironically, dating anyone is a trap.
@gracec16654 ай бұрын
@@thetinaexperience7000 So to you, the whole world is a trap? Having a job is a trap too? Sounds like you're not mature enough to be dating.
@motoure45845 ай бұрын
Straight up throughout high school, i fr thought people were just racist cause they wouldn't date me, but over the year i realized I'm just not white lol. Asian women, white women, brown women, and Hispanic, the majority of them want white men instead of a darkskin like me.
@THELASTMEDICALNINJA19955 ай бұрын
It took me forever to realize it wasn’t me it was them
@motoure45845 ай бұрын
@THELASTMEDICALNINJA1995 Ong, it wasn't till I was 21-22 that I figured it out
@THELASTMEDICALNINJA19955 ай бұрын
@@motoure4584 don’t feel bad took me until I was 27
@motoure45845 ай бұрын
@THELASTMEDICALNINJA1995 It is what it is you'll figured it out that's all that matters
@THELASTMEDICALNINJA19955 ай бұрын
@@motoure4584 your right
@Future_Cat232 ай бұрын
Bro is the last person I would take dating advice from 😂😂😂😂
@jujuinator8 ай бұрын
For all the guys overdosing on copium, he’s saying that white men are the most universally sought after. You can be an attractive black man and still not be considered by Asian women, whites women, Latinas etc. simply because they don’t or haven’t dated black men. Preference rules all
@sucram10188 ай бұрын
Your acting like Asian women and latina women and other women date white men as much as white women do which is false. Most people date within their race so that's most latinas, Asian and other women that never been with a black guy before that your not thinking about.
@ichigotheg.o.a.t8 ай бұрын
Nah, black women and Latina women tend to go after black men and Latino men. we tend to date in that same sphere, that is the truth. black men have had more Latina women than any white man, I can guarantee it. and Latino men have had more black women than any white man, I can guarantee that also.
@kingofgamez_96958 ай бұрын
Is it socio economic status?
@Asfghjahsgf8 ай бұрын
@@kingofgamez_9695yes that too lol black males being no value
@ZodiacTatoo7 ай бұрын
@@kingofgamez_9695It’s less about that and more about exposure. Other cultures are exposed to white people more. It’s the reason why if a white guy or girl goes to Japan, the natives don’t really care. When a black guy or girl goes to Japan, the natives are literally touching your skin and hair and surprised that you someone like you even exist. Basically every culture in the world has some kind of relationship with white people, especially in the United States where white people are still the majority. They are exposed to it more so they are more comfortable with it and can assimilate to it.
@standowner69794 ай бұрын
He just learned that class plays an important role in dating. Dare I say it's more important than race.
@JJ-bw8co2 ай бұрын
The two are greatly Link.
@tonyak-47best12 күн бұрын
Im mixed German and Mexican and growing up it was a struggle i wasnt white enough or Mexican enough it was frustrating
@MegaSaiyanpride10 ай бұрын
Facts as a black man I live in Utah a predominantly white state when I hop on dating sites 95 percent of the time I don't get matched with white women. When I went to Memphis and Kansas city to visit it was a full 180 I got matches from mostly black women and hispanic so I agree with this 1000 percent
@OverEast3410 ай бұрын
The only places I’ve experienced matching with a lot of white women were Minnesota and London
@LeadLeftLeon10 ай бұрын
Isn’t Utah one of the whitest states lol
@choppingitupwithtraveon768310 ай бұрын
I live in Salt lake Utah too, basically i attract Latina’s and Polynesian girls . There aren’t many Black girls too and skanky white girls love me too
@Shineraz10 ай бұрын
For 1 you in Utah 2 you on dating sites lol
@xpacg247710 ай бұрын
Im suprise of this. Im latino living in utah and do well with ww
@tasenova27178 ай бұрын
I'm asian. This isn't the worst take, but a better one is, I liked white women for the longest time. Since I never saw any other race growing up as much. I preferred white women. Now that I am older, I would much rather date someone similarly to how I look. I do not know why, but it is preferred. I'll date anyone that proves worth it of course. but my absolute preference is someone that looks similar to me
@MsEliteForever8 ай бұрын
Asian couples are low key adorable.
@rosegarden20147 ай бұрын
This happened to me. I am black and Latino (black passing) my father is Hispanic and when I was younger i dated and loved Latino men because I loved my dad but once I got older and wanted a family I wanted someone that looked like me and wanted kids that look like me. Now that I'm married to a BM with 3 children I honestly feel like it was great that my life went this way because I just feel more comfortable. If I would of continued dating Latinos my future kids wouldnt of looked like me and I would of stuck out like a sore thumb in a family photo lol
@amycurtis5357 ай бұрын
Because you always got rejected by white women?
@Paul-ue7fo5 ай бұрын
Believe it or not I'm white and I like my women really white. No suntans or tattoos. They gotta be Casper the ghost white.
@rawrrayuga5 ай бұрын
honestly as a black girl i only date outside my race is that ok?? because I just can’t imagine nyself with another black person
@doingsomething5084Ай бұрын
bruh its literally a study most women prefer white men over all races
@celticmulato2609Ай бұрын
Most don't want to find the study and it's obvious also. A woman goes for security and when all they see on the news, social media with Blacks killing each other, acting vile, cannot speak proper English and the poorest demographic group, why would any intelligent woman go for Black men , they don't want to take the chance of finding a decent educated Black man when it's easier to find a White.
@user-qt5jb9ee1gАй бұрын
True
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
Yeah I seen the study a long time ago asian men were at the bottom for mates. Black men were like second to last Indian men above the black man and the white and Latino man was at the top. It’s fine though I’m not tripping it is what it is. It’s social programming.
@celticmulato2609Ай бұрын
@nashambenyisrael7689 I'm positive most of it is boiled down to economics; Whites historically have been the wealthiest in this country and the West, though now it is Indians ( Asian) are now the wealthiest racial group. Nigerians are top also. It's who women see as a provider. When they see a certain demographic on the news always involves in crime and oversexualization, the thoughts are not positive. If u look at FBI statistics , you will be shocked to see who commit the most rapes and against White women, who does the most murders, etc. A decent woman would not want that in their family.
@user-qt5jb9ee1gАй бұрын
@nashambenyisrael7689 no they arent. Blacks are the least desired. Dont know why black men cope so hard. our women are at the bottom as well
@lukedemosthene37495 ай бұрын
Bro’s first sentence is crazy 😭
@sbj97Ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@xxgamerz96ftw8410 ай бұрын
Race matters 100% but it isn't as simple as being white. For example, many many Asian and Indian men are discriminated by all types of women. I also believe black men have a better sex appeal and often attract better chances of casual sex. Many white guys are looked to be the good provider type dude, while black men elicit that raw primal sexual energy from women The BBC stereotype etc helps black dudes A TON. I've heard women get w black men just for the BBC, no cap.
@moneymakinmitch813010 ай бұрын
too much porn bro
@Saint_Darius10 ай бұрын
you have to be a VERY SPECIFIC type of black man to benefit off the sex appeal that other races think all black men benefit from and most of us dont have the legendary BBC that everyone thinks we do. Mine is big but it's nowhere near the size of someone like Dredd and that's what they're looking for.
@LeadLeftLeon10 ай бұрын
Black guys have better game than white boys. Many whites are dork nerd geek
@AV-kr6gc10 ай бұрын
Facts. Tyrone probably pulls more than chad and Enrique but will find it harder to settle with other races. Based off of observing the black homies
@tonymatur469410 ай бұрын
@@AV-kr6gcno white chads are just better looking but the Tyrone is does alright chadron are what women are attracted to
@jamariusjones6908 ай бұрын
Finally someone said it. No matter how good looking you are or how well crafted your bio is, they’re not going to pick you due your race/skin tone and not being wealthy. I’m not saying you should give up searching for people to date, just keep this in mind when you’re using dating apps.
@celinasjourney8 ай бұрын
This is literally a victim mindset, think about people as individuals. Unless they are just racist aka mentally ill. No one is analyzing life through the color of the people that they interact with. You are not being held back
@clitlickah8 ай бұрын
When it comes to BW and dating Apps, they choose strictly off skin tone and race, and the preferred is brown to lighter skin men.
@jamariusjones6908 ай бұрын
@@clitlickah true
@361Fhwtiyd8 ай бұрын
Sorry bro, but looking at your dp, its not because youre black.
@tracer0738 ай бұрын
@@clitlickahnah bro, when it come to black woman, the darker you is as a man the better chances you have
@sharonrowe50472 ай бұрын
During my dating years i was hit on by all races, especially white men. I rejected white men because i was scared of what my black girlfriends would say but especially black men. Black men felt they could date white women but would put their hands or intimate white men. Every white man that hit on me was so, so fine. I could have passed the love of my life. This was back in the 80's to mid 90's. There are more black women don't care what society say. I see more black women dating Italian and white men. I say, "heightened your horizons", my your sisters!!!!
@Sophia-angelАй бұрын
You must be skinny girl. I have white coworkers talk to me and a random black men will start a fight or complain some white guy told me he was on a date with a black girl and this black man with his white girl cursed him out
@MedamineSlasla-su6mvАй бұрын
Well I'm a very attractive person according to many but im not black, I'm close to the Latino /Italian look....im very attracted to black girls and i was never able to date them although I have dated European latinas and white American girls..i have always been rejected by black girls even when they say they're attracted to me...its frustrating because its what im attracted to most. It might be less now than before but this issue still exists
@morningsunshine0216Ай бұрын
@@MedamineSlasla-su6mvhang in there buddy. All you need is one to give you a chance. Blk women are FINALLY starting to accept advances from other races and date/marry out. I seen it with my sisters and cousins within the past 6 years they all got married to white or whites Hispanic men.
@morningsunshine0216Ай бұрын
Sharon as long as you’re still breathing then you still have time to open up your options. Girl in 2020 my brothers were trying to get mad at me for dating WM. I’ve literally had blk coworkers try to interrogate me over my dating preferences. Mind you I wouldn’t bring up the convo they would bring it up and say if I don’t date BM then I hate myself 🙄. It’s annoying but idc what they think it’s my life and I enjoy dating WM.
@morningsunshine0216Ай бұрын
@@MedamineSlasla-su6mvhang in there. More and more bw are finally starting to come around and date out. All you need is one good one to give you a chance. Within the past 5 years I’ve had about 5 female relatives date and marry WM. So don’t give up on ❤️
@spondoncarls1476 ай бұрын
“I don’t normally like black men”💀💀💀
@UnbearabIe10 ай бұрын
From a Asian perspective: Yes your right. Asian women in the US are encouraged to date WM for prestige and $. I’ve never dated in my race tho. Usually Spanish or black for me
@DGD4Landy10 ай бұрын
You date Latinas but call em Spanish? 🤨
@ThatOneGuyOnVeniceBeach9 ай бұрын
So you a lady or a guy?
@aaronjackson14939 ай бұрын
Me personally? I've never had really any issues attracting Hispanic, white or Asian but it's usually the SPECIFIC individuals you encounter. Example; I'm tall, dark skinned, handsome, built like an athlete since i was 15, well dressed etc, but it doesn't change that preferences always existed. Nothing we could do but love who loves you , regardless of nationality. We humans all bleed red. All we got is each other. I love Filipino women btw😉💯🙏
@Jp-do9ny9 ай бұрын
Asian men make more money than white men so this is nonsense
@zackgalante48998 ай бұрын
Spanish women are European women buddy.. calling Mexicans/ricans Spanish is so dumb
@Techtalk203028 күн бұрын
This is something that isnt talked about enough
@AngolaisbeautifulАй бұрын
Exactly, you explained this really well
@EmpireJolofАй бұрын
No
@redwolf813510 ай бұрын
💯 So many BM deny this. WM have an advantage. A WM can be average looking and average earning, yet still get a decent looking chick.
@skerion795610 ай бұрын
Wm have an advantage but in this dating pool if your average your going to do poorly even if your a wm.
@TexxVlogz10 ай бұрын
@@skerion7956 get off the internet it’s not true redpill is ran by black creators for a reason it’s true for us not white men
@sethtamuno10 ай бұрын
Y’all are strange peaple man
@dmonk92610 ай бұрын
lol the factors behind this are way more complicated than just looks. White people are way more conservative than blacks on a whole...white women are more likely to submit to men in general, and have generally more traditional values...fathers still decide women choices to an extent, they are not as materialistic because they are not stuck in survival mode due to life of access and privilege and not experiencing scarcity, there is pressure to marry young etc. As such nature's brutal 80/20 rule is staved off. Black women are ahead on the feminist curve where they prefer total independence. but white women are catching up. White men on average also earn twice as much as black men and are worth 10 times as much money...so they are also more generally appealing off the bat because of that across races.
@redwolf813510 ай бұрын
@@dmonk926 FACTS!!!! People sleep on this too. A lot of minority women also see it as a flex to have a white looking child or a child with more European features. That's female nature. They want their offspring to have a better chance at survival.
@jessicatsao9218 күн бұрын
That also includes never dating people who only like you because of your race. If he likes my Asian appearance, but he has racist or misogynist preconceptions of Asian women (I am not a submissive woman), that's equally unattractive to me. I want a man who likes me for me individually.
@Mark_Adams6 ай бұрын
Thankfully for me, I don't give a 💩 what becky, mei ling and gabriela prefers. As a man of color, Im only concerned with what the women of my race prefers. Thank you.
@TheThe-sn1wc3 ай бұрын
Bc ur not a loser like austin. thank god
@sageex39313 ай бұрын
Facts
@user-ix5gy2de9w2 ай бұрын
It's refreshing to see a comment written by a secure man. F*ck these weak men who hate themselves so much that they want to date others women at all cost. Saddest thing is that they doesn't even notice the real reason why they're doing it.
@sbj97Ай бұрын
@@TheThe-sn1wc😅
@morningsunshine0216Ай бұрын
No please focus on non blk women! Leave blk women alone. Blk males have done enough damage to them.
@cartiershades339210 ай бұрын
If you deny this, you’re just coping.
@corydetukas330710 ай бұрын
Race matters sometimes but most of the time when it comes to dating it’s a looks and class issue.
@ellisthejerk801810 ай бұрын
@@corydetukas3307don't forget height, if you're good looking you can still get rejected if you're too short
@cartiershades339210 ай бұрын
@@corydetukas3307 Race is part of looks
@cartiershades339210 ай бұрын
@@ellisthejerk8018 Height is top 2 importance next to facial features but facial features will always remain supreme. If the guy looks handsome, all he has to do is be taller than the girl and he has a chance. Being tall and average/below average facially isn’t enough, you’d have to make up for it with status.
@ellisthejerk801810 ай бұрын
@@cartiershades3392 being that 80% of women are not interested in guys shorter than 5'7 and will not date them I will have to say that height will be as Supreme as looks
@Senpakigains10 ай бұрын
The get out clips 😂😂😂😂
@tobeornottobe-659510 ай бұрын
Forreal 😂
@reesejohnson278810 ай бұрын
😂
@ARTDEVGRU24710 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@z2xule36210 ай бұрын
Ong
@Bryte_10110 ай бұрын
it was Fkin' hilarious😂
@lizzie2809Ай бұрын
In this day and age in a cosmopolitan country like America that we're still talking about segregated dating practices is wild. Yes preferences exist but love and preference are mutually exclusive. Just be open, one person don't want you, someone else will.
@geallen97546 ай бұрын
This video’s definitely accurate a lot of my old friends from the hood talk about how easy white Women are but the truth is their getting the ones that 4’s and 5’s at best,I live in Houston I mainly pull black and mixed girls sometimes Latinas and the white girls that do wanna talk to me are the ones that like that “Hip Hop Aesthetic” the only way a black dude would pull a white baddie is if he had money status and a good physique it’s just reality but a lot of black dudes don’t want to admit it .
@keanowhitmore4 ай бұрын
Yup exactly, it's always the ww that wm don't want. And to prop them up like you got a prize. Its insulting and does you a deservice to yourself and seeing yourself so low that you'll accept anything. Especially brads slow Tuesday slump buster is sad to say the least
@Mikesthetics8 ай бұрын
If you’re an attractive human being you’re attractive it’s that simple it don’t matter what race you are.
@PhilipMartin188 ай бұрын
I agree, although I think the point he’s trying make is that people have preferences so say if Two men are both considered 8.5s the woman will go to her preference quicker and there are more people with the European Beauty standard. Which I also agree with.
@Jordanisbored8 ай бұрын
You could be the most attractive man/woman there's always going to be someone that doesn't like you that's how the world works
@gece14998 ай бұрын
Yes ofc but a 8/10 white man will be more accepted in the dating market than that of a 8/10 black man
@JotaroKujo-fh6zk8 ай бұрын
you missed the point, the point was that white people are just more attractive
@Mikesthetics8 ай бұрын
@@JotaroKujo-fh6zk says who?
@ambient_nox6189 ай бұрын
I’m black & Latino but I don’t really date white women that much. It’s just my opinion.
@genvastema33059 ай бұрын
@@KCFlightClub10nope, they're crazy
@ambient_nox6189 ай бұрын
@@KCFlightClub10 yea to you nigga but not to me
@lastraven5807 ай бұрын
@genvastema3305 Yup, black guy here. Came from a high earning family so I usually dated other high earning white women. They're professional gaslighters and like to be victims bro. Especially when they're the ones that start the arguments😂 Why is everyone so obsessed with attracting white women? Strictly dark skinned women are what I need
@TheCraydee7 ай бұрын
@@KCFlightClub10they are by far the hottest, but they’re usually useless housewives so unless you don’t wanna be coming home to washed clothes and a warm meal, if stray away.
@Carioca_preto274 ай бұрын
Yeah bro latinas are the best👌🏼and light skins
@sandramullen7804Күн бұрын
Im white scottish and just started dating a Ghanaian guy , he is the best . Kind , caring , tall good looking, and treats me like a queen .
@blazed99484 ай бұрын
Most people find their own etnicity more attractive
@anmolbedi584 ай бұрын
u are defo black @@1acmji
@luxurydiamond4 ай бұрын
Statistically white women are the most loyal to their race in America it's just that there is more white women than any other ethnic group that's why you see them with other races@@1acmji
@KARMAABIYTACHHH3 ай бұрын
@@SamuelAli-fc3jjand Indian men. 😂
@KARMAABIYTACHHH3 ай бұрын
@@SamuelAli-fc3jj literally
@BrowneK.3 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@kaizersolze10 ай бұрын
Maybe because I grew up in a racist part of America (the south), this isn't anything new. The same thing applies to jobs -- black men have to work harder and be prepared for more "no"s... or be the token.
@sageex39313 ай бұрын
Yep
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
Facts
@mansamusa99226 ай бұрын
I would never date outside my race. I’m proud to be black and I want my kids to look like me.
@Toothdragongoatr5 ай бұрын
Me too I will just create my own pure race from artificial womb
@alehlete8305 ай бұрын
...... u do know mix race kids cans till look like parents
@john-darrenesterhuizen90085 ай бұрын
I’m Hispanic and love white woman
@TaylorMohamed5 ай бұрын
I just will create my own babies artificial womb if my own race women doesn't want me to make babies
@CCCnavialien54065 ай бұрын
if even women don't want me prefer make babies from artificial womb
@arronjoseph596210 ай бұрын
Most important part that guys always ignore that'll make you stand out is a good set of morals that can't be broken. Turn to Christ men not only is it the right decision but it will also help you in relationships
@user-tb9cl2my6i10 ай бұрын
Your funny this sounds good on paper till you realize women don’t give a shit about that
@alldayy.10 ай бұрын
yup. also find yourself a god fearing woman and they’ll understand their role in the relationship and not try to be masculine/ig baddie vibes
@Barack_trump10 ай бұрын
To be honest if you’re a part of a religion it makes it easy for you to date people of that religion
@Kumari_4410 ай бұрын
@@alldayy.facts. Ig ‘baddies’ are the absolute bottom of the barrel.
@donhall187510 ай бұрын
I dont need a card saying I belong to whatever religion to be a good person. You can develop good morals without reading a book or having someone preach to you
@ManuB358110 ай бұрын
Truth . A very average white man has way more options than a above average black or brown or yellow guy. Especially in countries outside US , UK etc whites get a lotnof preference and can easily get chicks . Its a fact , no point getting pissed at it .
@andersontorres575010 ай бұрын
Yes its a money thing my friend
@fxfundedfxf877610 ай бұрын
Then why damn near half of men in USA sexless for over a year ages 18-30?? The country is majority white... Just shut up LMAO
@calicoesblue470310 ай бұрын
That is false. If anything it’s about the money🤷
@fxfundedfxf877610 ай бұрын
Why do most guys struggle with dating apps? (white) barely get any matches. And the ones who do get a bunch of super mid chicks lets be real lol
@ariavalentine440110 ай бұрын
@@fxfundedfxf8776you already know the answer bro, girls on dating apps aren't looking for anything serious. With casual sex they can cherry pick and that usually means the big black cherry 😉
@bobxbaker6 ай бұрын
most women find most men unattractive, it's really not much about color but culture i think that scares people away from other peoples culture. i like a lot of women but i always consider culture, hell i even consider the culture the woman i'm dating that's within my own race, she could be some hippie, a gun nut, a farm girl, city girl, dorky girl, preppy girl, lots of fake friends or no friends or maybe close friends. but yeah if you're just fucking all of that don't matter.
@djtrakakadrunkpoet85984 күн бұрын
That last line is the most gaslit disrespectful shit u can say to somebody
@KoolTism10 ай бұрын
This is probably Austins most based comment section so far
@igpxmaster10 ай бұрын
Facts but when he posted this on ig white boys were mad saying that we play victim too much
@manga-11739 ай бұрын
To some degree
@BGLZ8K8 ай бұрын
Correction: The western world revolves around Eurocentric beauty standards. Ya’ll really need to visit the rest of the world. Enlarge your perspective
@LegendaryGigaNigga-zi4vu8 ай бұрын
It’ll be even worse in the east cuz they just don’t like black people
@MarcusMcFlyJr8 ай бұрын
Yeah okay they all love and respect Black people out in Asia, right? No racism over there towards Black and African people, right? lol
@aurora59577 ай бұрын
@@MarcusMcFlyJrstop being purposefully dense
@MarcusMcFlyJr7 ай бұрын
@@aurora5957 dense? How so? I have lived in East and West and I agree that people should travel and see the world but my point is that racism towards African Black people and colorism is universal. You can't escape racism colorism by traveling to the other side of the globe. The main comment is misleading (suggesting that escaping Western standards culture is an escape from racism colorism towards African people) and unrealistic as MANY do not have means finances to travel internationally. And this video is geared towards Black men.
@randomguy74467 ай бұрын
In asia russia and india it is worse for black men to get women's
@travels-direct36053 ай бұрын
That’s a horrible thing for someone to say. You will soon be everyone’s preference if only you can work on yourself to be accepted. Acceptance comes from self. So if a person is with you because you are their last choice then that is a big red flag. Because if a better choice comes around in the end you were used as a buffer just in case a better choice comes. This does not do any justice to both parties and is very unfortunate that this is the norm instead of the exception. Be wise my brothas and think before you act!!
@djtrakakadrunkpoet85984 күн бұрын
❤❤ yes yes
@daynine36372 күн бұрын
I’m white, 21 years old in college, no friends, never in a relationship, no experience I’m probably gonna be lonely forever, my family says “don’t worry I’ll meet friends in the future” truth of the matter is that I probably won’t, i guarantee if they weren’t family and seen someone like me a 21 yr old with no friends and never in a relationship they’d probably think something is wrong
@Duck_DSL8 ай бұрын
this is why this world sucks
@diasporaman54192 ай бұрын
No this is why YT suck
@d_y_n_a_m_o9 ай бұрын
"I don't normally like black men..." Said in the most masculine manner ever 💀💀
@jft2nd4 ай бұрын
Looks and features definitely play a big part. I'm black, but i am 6'4", a fitness model, athlete, and bodybuilder, and I've dated and hooked up with nearly every ethnicity of women. If you have the looks, then a womans culture and preferences of what man they thought they wanted goes out the window completely.
@nathanjohnston1176Ай бұрын
What about me? I'm white, and I'm not a fan of all the narcissistic white ladies. How hard would it be for me to find and marry an African girl?
@celticmulato2609Ай бұрын
Easy as ABC! White men are the most desirable men; especially for Asian women and Native Americans and Mixed race women!
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
In Africa as well, white men are viewed as gods on the earth but it’s really said how colonialism did a number on ALL nations lol.
@celticmulato2609Ай бұрын
@nashambenyisrael7689 Ok. What is really colonialism that did a number on all nations?? Think of the facts what colonialism did bring many benefits to the new world and old. It brought civilization in a place where they were offering children and innocent people to pagan gods to appease them; it brought lots of inventions that we all profit from today. Slavery was all over the world and was a business; all races participated in Slavery and still today. It is really jealousy of the conquerors and that they did it the best and are still looked upon as superior unfortunately; it all boils down to resources that is realized and taken advantage of as it/ they were ignored by indigenous peoples. The same with Chinese and Japanese conquest and with the Vikings and Ghangas Khan . Again the Europeans did it the best; in life there are winners and loosers, rich and poor and always will be that way. The poor will always put down the rich to feel better about themselves. The loosers are the ones who don't assimilate into the dominant successful culture in regards to language and ethos. Imitate the successful habits( benchmark) of those on too and u can become the same. Look at China, Singapore, Japan, etc when they follow the Western European model of government, they are 1st world countries.
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
@@celticmulato2609 I disagree but whatever makes you sleep at night. You’re white im assuming based on how you view colonization but if you asked a indigenous person or dark brown person who’ve suffered at the hands of it they’d tell you otherwise. I don’t have the energy to convince you otherwise ✌🏾
@celticmulato2609Ай бұрын
@nashambenyisrael7689 Disagree all you want; facts dont care about feelings!! Also, I'm Mulato as my moniker says which is Mixed-race, White and Black, moreover, I don't have a victim mentality and I'm being totally objective!! The indigenous people of America wasn't all living in peace as the liberal media brainwashed washed you, there were lots of tribal conflicts and children sacrifice. Yes, many of them died due to diseases, that's the unfair side of colonization of a country; many Whites died also when they came to the Americas and Sub Sahara Africa due to the climate/ geography and mosquitoes that killed many. Colonization is not always a pretty picture as we all know, remember the Vikings killed many other Europeans; the Arabs also. The end result are 1st world nations with economic progress due to inventions where all races have benefited from colonization. If u don't want to feel the advantages of colonization, go to some remote town in Sub Sahara Africa, the jungle in South America and Asia and compare colonization influences and you will kiss the ground colonizers made for you! 😆 I know this will not make you sleep well at night because it seems u have a victim mentality. It is what it is! Start by listening to Thomas Sowell, watch Guns, Germs and Steel on PBS or KZfaq if available still , you have a lot to learn about economics and don't have a victim mentality, it will only keep you down. Embrace a paradigm shift and u will be better off.
@davidc.47797 ай бұрын
For all those either oblivious or in denial, i encourage you to take a visit to any Latin America or Asian country. Grab yourself a drink, sit back and watch how the locals (girls) flock like fleas to the white foreign men.
@Danux_GA7 ай бұрын
in africa it’s absolutely the same my brother
@sageex39313 ай бұрын
Yep
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
We of darker hue know this. It’s the others who live in their own world oblivious to this
@playarabbit9 ай бұрын
True 👍🏿 You gotta like you first! The world sucks being a Black man but having a carseat usually changes the way cops pull you over 😅
@Opinions5679 ай бұрын
No it doesnt, youre just out of your depth. Going against nature will make life hard. But its not impossible.
@ljwilliams61615 ай бұрын
Austin is referring to JBW or “Just be white” theory in this video. It's an underestimated but powerful phenomenon in the dating scene.
@randomuruk72304 ай бұрын
@@1acmji You're not white, you're black.
@keanowhitmore4 ай бұрын
Absolutely without a doubt, I'm mixed and I am proud of who I am and I like the way I look, but man I'll tell you, this isn't some self hating bs, but if I were born Whyte it most like would be a night and day difference, I'm a positive way. Ain't no way emo goth Kyle, arms size of a cigarette, is getting hotter grls, then majority of bm its disparaging
@onepunchman4444Ай бұрын
Sounds more like white envy and black fragility. Hell of a combination.. 💯 extremely common these days
@christopherlopez2729Ай бұрын
stereotypes and prejudice are rampant.. its good to appreciate the people that accept you. fuck everyone else.
@sabresandiego10 ай бұрын
100% true. It’s not something to be upset about. Western women overwhelmingly choose to date white men, especially on dating apps where they have a huge selection. General appeal isn’t always better than niche appeal, sometimes it’s better to be liked a lot by a smaller percentage of people than to be generally liked
@calicoesblue470310 ай бұрын
That is generally not true. I pull more white & Hispanic women then all my white friends combined & when they some women do mess with white guys it’s about the money.🤷
@TommyVercetti-xp4xy10 ай бұрын
Bro that's really unfair as mixed race attractive Man with Green eyes women of all races rejected me because I'm not a white man I'm only 48 percent white from my mother side
@calicoesblue470310 ай бұрын
@@TommyVercetti-xp4xy Your black my guy. Having a white mom doesn’t change that.
@pcpll10 ай бұрын
It's not something to be upset about, to know that you will not have kids because of your skin color >< So much dumb people writing on KZfaq from their mother's basement, we would still be in slave century by reading those dumb f*cks "Oh, its not something to be upset about, you just have a master that gives you free food", man STFU.
@NeanderthalDogma9 ай бұрын
Thats because you are meant to be with your own people. Biologically you never have all your needs met dating outisde your race. It is like trading 2 perfect puzzle pieces for ones that dont fit so you shove it together and think its fine.
@wintutorials228210 ай бұрын
This is extremely true. I’m an Indian-Surinamese guy from the Netherlands. A lot of girls said I’m handsome but I don’t have much succes in the dating world. Only with girls that like ‘darker skin tones’ or other Surinamese girls.
@WastedBananas9 ай бұрын
From what I know most Indo-Surinamese in the Netherlands are in interracial relationships.
@thereallegend4lyfe9 ай бұрын
Why not date the girls who are interested in you
@theeuropeanman8 ай бұрын
@@WastedBananaswith 3/10 girls
@blasiankiki78318 ай бұрын
So here’s an idea… date the girls who like you
@wintutorials22828 ай бұрын
@@blasiankiki7831 I only go in a relationship if I truly like someone, else it's a waste of time and energy.
@vm1ccc5 ай бұрын
The white men I've dated would never disrespect me like that
@OsirisMawnАй бұрын
I get what you're saying, but look at it from this angle, - I don't usually eat fish but this one is so good thay i would. See?
@TheThe-sn1wcАй бұрын
@@OsirisMawnno lol this one is less stinky than the rest
@germandaddy907Ай бұрын
yeah that’s kind of the victim mindset to do racism
@OsirisMawn29 күн бұрын
@@TheThe-sn1wc that's your negative perspective man.
@TheThe-sn1wc29 күн бұрын
@@OsirisMawn im not a man and ur perspective is like a male pick me LOL THIS yt girl chose me but hates other blacks. pathetic lol
@cookingsauce82745 ай бұрын
So, as a black person, you should stop seeking women who aren't black, and you most likely wont have that problem, lol
@cypher36045 ай бұрын
I’m Dominican and I notice bw have higher standards for bm than they do for other races of men, so idk how well that would work.
@witchplease96954 ай бұрын
@@cypher3604That’s not true at all a lot of Black women will literally date bums, provide for them and worship any type of Black guy. Not me though. I married outside my race.
@randomuruk72304 ай бұрын
@@1acmji You're not white
@rue_7772 ай бұрын
@user-ct3lg7mw9tblack men dont ever meet my standards so I only date white men
@chocolateangel874321 күн бұрын
@@cypher3604 That's not true. BM are just so conquered and dusty, they can't meet basic standards. This is why they have relationships issues -- no matter the women they get with. In contrast, when BW get with smart, productive, non-black men with resources, they have much healthier and longer-lasting relationships.
@tonih48878 ай бұрын
You are speaking truth but a lot of Black men with big egos will fight you on this concept. Black male athletes and celebrities will due to their status have a pick of their preferences but the average Black Men definitely have the reality you just described.
@Blodia19908 ай бұрын
Any self-loving black man would never deal with a woman who sees him beneath her but such black men are rare sadly
@Asfghjahsgf8 ай бұрын
@@Godwillstrengthenhim lol cope harder white men are the perefernce for most women also u can’t believe those dudes unless you’ve seen the white women their with alot of black dudes think an average unattractive white women is attractive simply off of being pale
@DsBilato7 ай бұрын
@@Godwillstrengthenhimkey word London
@tonih48877 ай бұрын
@@Godwillstrengthenhim That’s because you are closer to the White Western European standard the video was talking about.
@jameleason61247 ай бұрын
But why would a Blackman have a big ego unless he's getting alot of these women make it make sense hmmmmm 🤔
@redhood28359 ай бұрын
Facts my G. I'm black and I agree 1000%. Me and my cousins have been saying this for the longest. Appreciate you for not being afraid to touch on this topic because I know most "gurus" wouldn't dare touch on this.
@UltimateD7559 ай бұрын
It’s soo hard
@Blodia19905 ай бұрын
@@UltimateD755Only if you go for women who don't like you
@UltimateD7555 ай бұрын
@@Blodia1990 yes but because they want rich men
@whiterunguard32464 ай бұрын
That’s because you only going for latinas or white women, black women will always prefer dating black men, that should not be a problem for you
@theobsidiancomplexofficial73185 ай бұрын
I love how truthful this is. Thanks for sharing real facts 🙏🏼💯💯💯💯
@ksnandbd5 ай бұрын
So me being white is why I’ve had so many options with all types of girls lmao neat
@sageex39313 ай бұрын
Yep
@drawtme87288 ай бұрын
All skin colors and tones are beautiful..even if I'm white, I wouldn't mind dating a black man, or asian man.. You are beautiful, no matter of your looks. ❤ Guys love yourself and they will love you!
@leontaecoleman36447 ай бұрын
you are a small percent of these women that like black men.
@flashfunk03736 ай бұрын
Cope
@drawtme87283 ай бұрын
@@madmedic7840 how the hell? With my presence or what?
@aluisfar41543 ай бұрын
@@flashfunk0373 That is completely random
@StillcountingracksАй бұрын
In the hood we’re doomed love don’t exist for us even my mom let me rot in the streets
@Digitalknifeparty10 ай бұрын
I heard that back handed compliment before. One of my colleagues said that she doesn’t look at black dudes when she’s walking down the street but she’ll look at me. 🙄 We (black dudes) gotta try twice as hard to get half as much.
@UltimateD7559 ай бұрын
Yhh white n Asian girls used to treat me bad
@DrUmarJohnson19 ай бұрын
@@UltimateD755 Which is why you should stick with your own kind!! Your existence will be enough for a start to date a Black woman
@UltimateD7559 ай бұрын
@@DrUmarJohnson1 yes but some black women don’t like you unless you’re badboy
@DrUmarJohnson19 ай бұрын
@@UltimateD755 Asian/Latina/White women don't tolerate us until we become successful. Don't let your desire to be with non-Black women mislead you into believing we're embraced and beloved.
@DrUmarJohnson19 ай бұрын
@@UltimateD755 The downside of us Black men marrying non-Black women is our sons will understandably want women who look like their mothers. A White grandson doesn't sit well with me. Marrying White means your land, wealth and assets will be owned by a White male in the future. You don't get legacy interracially dating.
@lemmyrules48933 ай бұрын
I’ve heard “I don’t like black guys from so many girls even some of the ones I’ve been with. It’ll be something like “usually I’m not into black guys but I liked your approach.” Or “oh but you were cute.” And it’ll literally be from black girls too 😅
@scroogemcduckrich970517 күн бұрын
bro you’re not embarrassed?? 😂😂 🤦🏾♂️
@justthatnerdyfashion7 ай бұрын
Why in the world would you want to work so hard just to be another race of women's "exception", in stead of loving the black women that already love you? It's giving self-hate.
@t.w.81747 ай бұрын
Best comment
@w444rbv7 ай бұрын
Honestly I don't believe in this It depends on the person's personality Some look for status or race But I think building a connection and care matters alot and any race can mix up and like eachother
@IamHandsome4u7 ай бұрын
Self hate is very real man.
@Oldheadontheblock7 ай бұрын
Actually, black woman are more likely to reject you nowadays. White girls are easier and more friendly.
@sageex39317 ай бұрын
@@IamHandsome4u yep
@Juggernaut2k1210 ай бұрын
All facts. Experience it daily.
@elroyjetson638010 ай бұрын
Facts!?!?😂😂😂 black woman like white men more than black men?
@Lightskinemagic199510 ай бұрын
@@elroyjetson6380yes they do an honestly if u notice it most of the attractive black woman date white men even if the white men are average or even below average looking
@elroyjetson638010 ай бұрын
@@Lightskinemagic1995 Most importantly, looks are subjetive. Whats attractive to one person may not be attractive to the next. Honestly I don't notice that at all. However since you notice it so often can you give me 3 examples?
@kevinsamuels314010 ай бұрын
@@elroyjetson6380Bedwinches.🤣
@nicholasrodriguez499010 ай бұрын
@@elroyjetson6380bro it means on average white men have the most options doesn’t mean every race of woman is attracted to them 🤣
@tekkmoma449825 күн бұрын
Your insight was sooooooo very refreshing to hear!!! You speak truth!!! I will definitely share your video with my family and friends. Thank you.
@KLOSE33Ай бұрын
Why black man don't just just date someone from their race? Why it had to be white? I'm not discriminating any race but asking a simple question. Don't tell me all black men preference is same lmao.
@phsza560722 күн бұрын
Stop deflecting this isn’t about bm wanting nonblack women lol it’s about bs European beauty standards they’re currently in rulership so they control the media. It even affects bw they tend to lower their standards for a “ chad” or “brad”
@Ryuker1618 күн бұрын
Men are more open in terms of choice
@giovannichambers284110 ай бұрын
You're not wrong about that. People are naturally willing to date their own race because they typically have the same background and interests. We can't let that discourage us because I always know there are people out there who are willing to date outside their race. Just need to keep being ourselves, be confident, and improve ourselves everyday. I used to think that my race is a reason why I'm not getting enough dates, but it all comes down to mostly lack of confidence. Sure, there are people who still prejudge and prefer to date their own race, but those aren't the kind of ladies we don't want to deal with anyway. I know I'll discover the right match someday, and she'll be of any race.
@NeanderthalDogma9 ай бұрын
Dating outside your race is pathetic and you are giving up on your people now your bloodline is destroyed.
@igpxmaster8 ай бұрын
Yea but other races of women in the west view whites as superior
@finaoo11678 ай бұрын
Don't black women, in general, prefer black men? If so, don't the numbers even out?
@OnlyIMatter8 ай бұрын
Not true. Other races of men just don't find them attractive. They just see them as sex objects.
@HistoryandConspiracies298 ай бұрын
@@OnlyIMattervery true.. can confirm as a Latino man.
@bunnywavyxx95246 ай бұрын
Yes they do. So the black men complaining about not being able to date, you know who they're looking.
@nashambenyisrael7689Ай бұрын
They want pookie and rayray the hood drug dealer they don’t want the educated black man even if he’s a total package. There’s something wrong with black women …
@jaybo904417 күн бұрын
I call cap. I’m darker and shorter than most peeps and have slayed a lot of dragons in my life. I don’t buy any of that shit…..
@deevee85955 ай бұрын
Once upon a time I liked this black boy who didn’t have much going on in his life and interestingly he continued to show at a favoritism towards white women ones that literally degrade him for riding a skateboard not having a car and a penny in his pocket interestingly he goes on to degrade women of his own community and treat them like garbage I took me a while to get to the bottom of it and now I am absolutely disgusted colorism within our community absolutely needs to stop
@susanwojcicki571410 ай бұрын
i thought i was ugly but i been taking care of myself for years now every fucking human being wants me
@ii-ip9ec10 ай бұрын
Eh
@TrueSenseForever10 ай бұрын
I don't
@everything946610 ай бұрын
We don’t believe you
@uglyhindu176110 ай бұрын
Cap
@funndrip10 ай бұрын
You speaking facts just be the best versions of yourself and you move up a couple notches
@NoMoreWhat-Ifs10 ай бұрын
Very true. I dont know why, but the "I don't normally like black men, but YOU.." thing sort of pisses me off. It should be flattering on paper, but it sounds annoying to me
@pcpll10 ай бұрын
Well it sounds annoying because it is annoying... She basically says that all your father, your brothers, cousins and friends are ugly people and that she would never give them a second look, of course it is annoying. It is basically a disguised insult.
@TomikaKelly9 ай бұрын
Black guys will hear this, take it as a compliment, and STILL stay. 🙃
@pcpll9 ай бұрын
@@TomikaKelly well generally speaking, if a women gives a man the vagana, most men will stay. It's irrelevant to the skin color at this point when she opened herself up.
@TomikaKelly9 ай бұрын
@pcpll Black men especially don't have self respect. Perfect example: Obumseli who was murdered by his white OF model girlfriend last year after she repeatedly called him the n-word and he negotiatiated with her to stay. It's quite comical to see how low they are willing to stoop for acceptance, approval, and validation.
@ebersentenac8205 ай бұрын
Fuck this. Get rich, get all the girls
@MiamiBoi20083 ай бұрын
Wow so sigma
@curiousme73534 ай бұрын
*******9/10 One of the best title truths on the subject on dating that everyone should know
@ayushsenseisama8 ай бұрын
Try being indian
@badmeetsevil61637 ай бұрын
Better than being Chinese…
@bruh-bn3ni7 ай бұрын
@@badmeetsevil6163 no its not, chinese is only "bad" right now because of politics. but for the average chinese will be better simply because their skin is more fair. and also their stereotypes isn't as bad as indian
@badmeetsevil61637 ай бұрын
@@bruh-bn3ni err no…Chinese ppl are known to be small, short, nerdy, feminine, less dominant, lacking facial hair and have small eyes. All of these are considered undesirable traits/features to a lot of women. Look around and see how many Indian men manage to get with white women, then compare that to how many Chinese men get white women. Better yet, look at the parents of most Chindian ppl. What race is their father and what race is their mother. That itself is self-explanatory.
@ayushsenseisama7 ай бұрын
@@badmeetsevil6163 highly debatable, with the rise of kpop and kdrama worldwide, asian men have seen increased success in their sexual value meanwhile racism against indians are at all time high more like it’s normalised . Ofc there was hate against chinese because of coronavirus but we’re talking about dating. Indians stereotypes make us look dirty and disgusting whereas asian stereotypes don’t do such. Although i personally do believe attractive indians are better looking than attractive chinese but your average chinese is simply a lot better than average indian. And most of the indian that go abroad are from south india which look worse compared to north indians who go abroad relatively less.
@badmeetsevil61637 ай бұрын
@@ayushsenseisama I am ONLY talking about dating bro. I already asked you to look around. Look at your Chindian friends. What race are their fathers? What race are their mothers? There’s a reason why ppl including Chindians themselves get surprised when a Chindian has a Chinese father and an Indian mother. More white/Asian women date Indian guys than Chinese, that’s just a hard pill for me to swallow. Indian women are generally not interested in us because we are not very big, masculine and we lack facial hair. Can’t say that Indian men have the same problem. Tinder conducted research a few years ago, and the results showed that light skinned Asian males and African females were the most undesirable amongst all. Your dark skin is a bigger negative to females than males, since dark skin is considered masculine. Yes, ppl will say you smell like curry but we get white ppl saying that we smell like egg roll too. Indians are stereotyped as robbers/gangsters while Chinese are stereotyped as nerds, which works against Indians in Asian society whereas it makes them look more masculine in Western society. Look at how we are portrayed in Hollywood excluding movies like Crazy Rich Asians. We are usually portrayed as some stupid nerd who wears glasses, and when represented positively, we are just the Kung Fu ppl. We are never the cool alpha males. You say Indian stereotypes make you guys dirty but Chinese stereotypes makes us look beta. Being dirty doesn’t really affect you that badly as a guy. If this was about employment, yes Chinese ppl have it way easier than Indians, I agree. However, this is about dating. Look at your interracial friends. How many of the men are Chinese? Once again, what races are the ppl in Chindian relationships? PS: K-Pop is a double-edged sword. First of all, K-Pop is Korean, not Chinese. Secondly, yes…K-Pop makes Asians look appealing in Asia, but a lot of Westerns don’t take them seriously. A lot of the K-Pop dudes look gay and feminine.
@Spicyeggs39 ай бұрын
black woman watching this like " . . . . . ."
@suziepickes7029 ай бұрын
This is about white women perfer nonblack lol
@igpxmaster8 ай бұрын
Bw don’t have a leg in this race nobody wants them
@anisrajabov17257 ай бұрын
@@suziepickes702 exactly, why aren't they as interested in their own women?
@justlkbj6 ай бұрын
Yeah like soon as he was talking about the subject I automatically knew like relax 😂 stop Monitoring we get it we know you like yt guys
@justlkbj6 ай бұрын
@@anisrajabov1725we are stop assuming
@alessandroelcastello15245 ай бұрын
Finally someone who says it!!! Bro been struggling with these alot, im a good looking black latin man but my succes in netherlands not good. But African girls like me
@Boogs1144 ай бұрын
Exceptions, so true: I've had former co-workers, mostly white/Latino who'd tell me they don't see me as a "typical" black guy🤨, just because I -Speak proper grammar -i don't sag my pants -im not into sports -I don't smoke (anything at all) -i DONT use the N-word as part of my lingo
@RodgerBerman-ir8ip4 ай бұрын
Dude you are lying Latino means Hispanic male and a latina which means Hispanic female would never let you call her a Latino. You lied charcoal man
@Don_DeMarco8 ай бұрын
It's 100% true. Seen it from other people and experienced it myself. Many girls would ultimately want a Channing Tatum but will make an exception for the right dude. I believe I recall Kevin Samuels telling guys to become that exceptional guy.
@Kumari_4410 ай бұрын
Austin absolutely *NAILED IT* here! Deffo salute him for not lying about this like the majority of dating coaches do just to get money off naive guys who still don’t understand this simple basic truth. Props!!!
@lewis200020004 ай бұрын
Thanks for stating the true while NOT supporting victimhood. I really appreciate that. 🤙 People lie about this ALL the time, but the reality of dating preferences don't lie. Best you best self for your own wealth and health, go where yours appreciated and let the chips fall where they may. NEVER DEMONIZE OR CANCEL ANYONE OR GROUP FOR NOT WANTING TO DATE YOU.
@OriginalVirtuoso2 ай бұрын
I think Dr. Umar would tell you to use your platform to spread more afro-centric information. ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
@smileyface44979 ай бұрын
Yea I realized this in college. I and one of my buddy that had pretty much same physique, I’m slightly taller, but we’re both over 6’ and we do well for ourselves on the dating side of things. The only difference was he was white and I’m black. I thought I was dating attractive women, but this man was dating the “elite” looking women on campus. Like I pulled a few on that level but def put in wayyy more effort than he did, and it was not the norm for me, but he was consistently pulling like that till we graduated. I used to think I could compete, till towards the end of college it became clear that it was a race thing. Can’t hate the man for enjoying his perks, I know I would’ve too lol
@darklink95709 ай бұрын
Respect for this comment brodie.
@smileyface44979 ай бұрын
@@darklink9570 like it’s not shade to my guy, but it’s the obvious people try to discount, no, it plays a major role, but the thing is as a guy, you gotta know your niche aka the kind of women that normally gravitate towards you and don’t be delusional about it. Like if you’re a black guy trying to go for a blonde girl that listens to country music and has a white friends, odds are 9.5/10 times, you’ll take the L. Once you master how to pick out the women you know will gravitate towards you, you’ll be more successful
@jokbok9959 ай бұрын
@@smileyface4497 I completly disagree with this comment My friend is a congolese guy and approached a girl at his dorm who only had white friends, white neighbors, went to a school with 99 procent of white people and never dated people outside of her race. She never interacted with a black person and they are now in relationship of 3 years
@smileyface44979 ай бұрын
@@jokbok995 you can’t completely disagree with me off one scenario. Of course there are anomalies and some people are genuine good souls that don’t see color and stuff. Like I said, I do well for myself in that department and not complaining. But I was backing up the situation he presented in the video. Not too long ago (and even in some parts of the country) dating black men was frowned upon. White women that dated black men had nicknames, don’t act like that doesn’t depreciate the market value for black men. A lot of the white girls we encounter from day to day prob grew up in a family or community that didn’t exactly paint black people as the best people to date, so that also affects the dating market when we date out of our race. In order to be successful in the dating market as a black man aka pull the elite women, something about has to stand out; either athlete or rich or famous or some cool profession like a doctor. You can’t be an average Joe as a black man in the dating scene, you’ll end up with nothing but overweight women
@KevinSamuelsKid9 ай бұрын
@@smileyface4497He completely disagreed with you but you clearly stated that 9.5/10 time it would happen. So his friend was the 0.5. Some people don’t get that exceptions don’t make the rule
@Cube71269 ай бұрын
I’m white and I been dating lots of black women… and pretty often these black women tell me that they mostly prefer white men…. Good for me because I prefer black / dark women
@theeuropeanman8 ай бұрын
@@Marvelfan46You mean most white women don't like black guys. Because white women only date 10% non white men. Black women 12%. 😊
@_khaine8 ай бұрын
yea because there is preference for white even among non-white women
@theeuropeanman8 ай бұрын
@@_khaine extrem hard
@blasiankiki78318 ай бұрын
@@Marvelfan46no black women do not prefer white men. They are stepping outside of the box and dating men of other races to increase their chances of finding love
@skyking32108 ай бұрын
@@Marvelfan46 those are our women that usually play both sides, he will find out the hard way, one minute they play pro-black while jumping everywhere with all races of men
@zohebpasha9610 ай бұрын
We just playing on hard mode baby!
@nostalgicbliss554710 ай бұрын
Builds character lol
@cwapisme8 ай бұрын
@@mackeejack6731no it’s not lol
@Asfghjahsgf8 ай бұрын
Black men are facially unattractive
@lifeofrai87423 ай бұрын
Due to colonisation, the comfort with European culture is much higher.
@miguelc87802 ай бұрын
I see a lot of Hispanic women with black men, like in my family and friends or just from experience in public
@lifeofrai87422 ай бұрын
Yes because lot of black men dont want to marry black women and look outside their race. Also in certain states, the options for black men are limited. @@miguelc8780
@onepunchman4444Ай бұрын
@@miguelc8780really? Where I'm from Spanish women generally don't get with black boys and usually gravitate towards white or other Spanish men. Sounds like cope to be honest..
@sierra571329 күн бұрын
Exactly, this what I tell everyone. European colonization and their racist system of casts is what made "white" be considered pretty. It all started in 1492