It’s the way Bri’s whole identity switches with each relationship and overlap

it is clear from even a casual listener that bri ditched / drifted away from her best friend because of her new celebrity boyfriend. her talking in circles about wanting different things as if that isn't a direct cause of changing yourself for a guy.... we support you Grace!

The entire episode summed up: Bri continually repeats, "We both were thinking the same things and not communicating. Thinking we hated each other. That's it." Grace agrees halfheartedly, repeatedly, because it's more than that and as usual she is more invested in the friendship and more heartbroken. Watching this made me realize how emotionally immature Bri is. The fact that she just keeps saying, "It was so funny" when Grace was clearly really anxious about the entire situation. It wasn't funny, Bri, you just can't handle the situation/conversation.

I’ve sat here and watched and stayed silent until it gets to the part where Grace teared up and I can’t keep quiet any longer. It’s obvious Grace cares about the friendship more than Bri. It’s sad and not fair. If my best friend was on the verge of sobbing I would have done so much more to make sure she was okay. I also wouldn’t have totally dumped my bestie for some guy who’s cheated on the last 2 women he’s been with when my friend and I were living our literal dream. Bri you take advantage of Grace’s loyalty and then throw her feelings aside and she deserves a better friend. I’ve loved you both but truth is Bri needs to be a better friend.

I missed the part where Bri apologized to Grace

the just omalley pod needs to happen for this summer !!! she can tell us all about her life on the road, her party life, funny influencer stories, etc. Grace go on cancelled and just trish alone so everyone can hear the real you!!!

I think people could tell that there's a shift in the vibe. We have all been in Grace's shoes and most of us have been in Bri's. When you fall in love it's easy to feel like this is everything, and right now it is. But, you'll never have the history you do with Grace. I'm 37 years old, been best friends with the same person since i was 12. We have been through this over and over. Remember what you two have and how rare it is to find that person. Don't let a relationship change you so much that you lose her.

GRACE is the friend any girl on this entire planet would love to have by their side. Stan GRACE ❤️

Im so glad the comments are what they are bc it's all true

1. Bri may have started this podcast on her own but I personally started watching for grace so please give her some flowers. 2. Bri needed Grace as much as the opposite, gaslit her into thinking she was the most important person in the world to her just to a abandon her and call Zach her “best friend” that shit hurts. 3. I really wish Bri could stand accountable for hurting Grace and just apologize, this episode was a hard watch…

it really sucks that grace got left in the dust and bri was mad at her and still invalidated her in this conversation, like grace was practically grieving a friend🥺

Grace has been carrying this podcast, if bri wants to go solo then cancel it tbh. Why is grace the only one showing up in person to BRIs podcast studio

BRI IS SO ANNOYING. “It was MY podcast first this started off as just me” literally Grace deserves so much better

This makes it pretty clear to me that Zach is the main cause of the tension in this friendship.

Bri talked a lot, but said absolutely nothing. I’m sorry Grace, we love you.

i completely agree with all the takes on bri invalidating grace and taking zero accountability. not to mention grace is the one in the studio doing the podcast every week, bri is a three hour drive away but can’t actually come film the pod? ridiculous

Barstool needs to give Grace her own pod with full creative control. She’s the real reason most of us watch and seeing her do a solo pod just confirmed it! Give the people what they want!!!

“Weird to talk about real life stuff since the breakup!!” Grace: “actually my grandma died”

I honestly feel like they need to call it quits on this pod and I never thought I would say that. The spark is gone between them. Bri has definitely made it clear where her priorities lie. Grace deserves better:(

Can they touch on grace and Zach relationship? Pretty sure that’s the reason of the strain in the friendship that he’s making Bri distance herself

it feels like grace has so much more to say but is just saying “yeah” so she doesn’t lose bri😢😢

I do think it’s important to note that throughout all of this, Bri had Zack to turn to. This sort of fight (as someone whos gone through it) is so much more difficult for the single friend. There’s a big void left while for the person in a new relationship, their life can still feel very full. Bri got two dogs and a cat and a new relationship and traveled the world, and I’m sure for grace it felt like nothing new came to her the way it did for bri. It can be so difficult to course correct after a fight like this, hope they can find ways to continue to prioritize each other.

Be an individual. I feel like you just morph into any relationship you get in. Grace has been there for you for everything. Don’t take your friendship for granted.

finding your path doesn’t mean following your boyfriend around and cosplaying a cowgirl but go on

Sounds like bri got a new boyfriend and completely ditches grace. Grace then becomes upset with Bri and distances herself. Now Brianna is gaslighting Grace and saying well you were mad at me and being bitch because I was a bad friend so now I’m gonna be mad at you for being mad at me.. Bri needs to take accountability and realize she changed and ditched her best friend after getting into a relationship. Of course people do grow apart and can do their own thing but you should never be that girl who abandons her friends after getting into a relationship. Bri didn’t make an effort to keep their friendship alive while also balancing a relationship. Grace is upset and misses her friend. Also says a lot that Zach and Grace never talk or hangout and Zach unfollowed Grace. Clearly they don’t like eachother.. that doesn’t help the rift either.

Bri trying so hard to control the narrative is very telling.

Oh shocker everyone was right. Bri just lied on bffs too saying that the fans were crazy. Lol how does she have any fans left? Her letting Grace take the blame is wild when everyone who had been in this type of friendship knows the real reason lol. Bri only cares about how this is affecting her PR-wise. Poor Grace. Also Bri growing up doesn’t mean ditching your entire life and personality to follow a man around 😂

It isn't "growing and maturing" if you're doing the same things the other person is doing still the only difference is you're not doing it together. Bri is not better than Grace.

Grace.. run. This girl is a friend to no one but herself

It felt like Bri was just word vomiting to keep Grace quiet. This breaks my heart. Speak your truth Grace. Bri will regret this so much if her and Zach break up.

Grace! Mid 30 yr old here who’s been in your exact same shoes with a super close BFF during my 20s. This episode almost gave me ptsd on how similar the dynamic was and how painful it was at the time. Keep doing you and I promise the more you focus on yourself, you’ll end up on top here!

Bri talking but saying nothing. Grace you deserve better!

Grace, if Bri wants to revolve her world around a guy please just let her. You have so much to offer and I’m so excited to follow you on your journey.

The beating around the bush from the Zach elephant in the room 😂

I've never seen someone with the ability to take ZERO accountability for their actions the way that Bri does about everything. Feels like so much gaslighting on her end

“You guys are crazy” “you people are so annoying” bri about her own fans when asked about a rift in their friendship. The next pod it’s confirmed the fans were 100% right lol.

Bri was just on BFFs saying there was no fight and everything was fine. Calling all of us annoying and wrong…. And we were right? She’s still downplaying it in this…She has gone completely psychotic, wow.

I feel like I just watched a full episode of Bri gaslighting Grace and also saying their friendship hasn’t been working out because Bri has “grown up” and Grace is still stuck in the partying phase. I didn’t know following your brand new bf on tour all year was growing up

I’m never one to comment on anything on here but Bri, it is extremely unhealthy to drop everything in your life that is your foundation for a relationship ship that is toxicity codependent with Zach.

What I don’t like is how they (Bri basically) acts like no one has a friendship as deep as them. Like be so real lmao

"Grace just doesn't want this life and I do!" Brianna....we all follow a guy around once or twice. Yours just happens to be really wealthy. Grace doesn't have the same privilege, and you won't forever either. You didn't need Grace anymore and left, which is fine, but don't gaslight her.

Grace you are special. You will go very far in your career. ❤

Bri is not settling down Bri is just a full time girlfriend now who still parties, she replaced Grace with Zack.

If bri didn’t follow Zach around what’s the likelihood that she’d wanna go out and explore other things lol let’s be so fr.

Bri said it for what it is, in the past Grace was part of her relationships with her boyfriends per Bri’s own words, “it was like a thruple”. But now with Zach, it’s not like that anymore. Healthy relationships don’t have you ignore your friendships especially those that have been in your life since day 1. It’s pretty obvious that either Zach doesn’t like grace or Grace doesn’t like Zach or both. That’s the tiff or tension and that won’t go away unless one breaks up with the other or they work it out. I’ve seen this happen so many times in my own life. And I feel bad for Grace who feels like she’s losing her best friend. Also Bri shouldn’t feel like she has to say yes to all of Zach’s tour dates etc. it’s healthy to make time for your friends and have some time apart from your boyfriend. And if your boyfriend is upset for that then he obviously has some insecure/controlling problems. I really hope they are able to work this out.

Bri is such a loser. Grace will thrive! Zach will cheat/dump her ass within the next year or two (like he always does) and coming crawling back…I’ve seen this film many times before 😂

as a girl who has been in grace’s shoes, watching her get so emotional and teared up made me cry because i know that exact feeling of feeling sort of replaced by your friends boyfriend and feeling like you got dropped like an unwanted toy is the absolute worst and i hope she finds healing and growth on her own

can’t believe Bri took no accountability and let Grace call herself and asshole & blame herself oh wait, i totally CAN believe it because bri does it time and time again! boa gate, stealing merch designs drawn by independent artists, the list goes on!

Bri has no accountability and basically blames Grace for the reason their friendship was off. I wish she gave Grace a moment to truly explain how she felt. I feel like for Grace it’s more like her best friend forgetting about her and following her bf wherever he goes.

GRACE DESERVES A BETTER FRIEND.

Grace can’t wait to see how you continue to grow!! You are hilarious and deserve your own recognition

Why wouldn’t Bri invite Grace to her house to have this conversation? Is she not allowed in the house? 🤦‍♀️

Wow what a way to say Bri takes no accountability meanwhile Bri’s been calling us freaks and weirdos for thinking they were fighting for months and guess what they were………..also weird that theirs no mention of the giant boss baby elephant in the room…….team grace always

can Bri recognize that maybe she moved too fast in this relationship and is prioritizing it time and time again over this friendship???? THAT IS WHY Grace is upset.!!!!!!

The fact that Bri gaslighted her listeners on BFFs last night calling them crazy and annoying for speculating when they were right the whole time smh

Grace is amazing and deserves so much better

in this situation i’ve been grace and i’ve been bri, wishing u both the best. life is not easy and as good as it is to embrace new relationships, we should always also embrace the old (if good and applicable) u both r thriving and it makes me so happy to see. grace, it gets better, and bri, you will learn to balance both a longtime friendship, and a flourishing relationship. you both deserve happiness and i am confident it’s possible while still being active in each others life

Really felt like Grace took responsibility for the entire situation when in reality she had done nothing wrong besides not talking about it sooner. Are we all glossing over the Zach unfollowing Grace online? This is when shit started and since then Bri has manipulated and flipped everything around. Most of us girls have had friendships with girls that have done this.

Grace deserves a better friend. Love you girlie, keep crushing! You don't need Bri to be successful.

NOT PINNING YOU AGAINST EACH OTHER, WE ARE POINTING OUT THE FACT BRI CANT SEE SHE DITCHED HER BESTIE FOR A GUY THATS GONNA LEAVE HER

She bought a house with a guy shes been dating less than a year? Lol

Typical Bri. Taking NO accountability. Pawning the whole thing on Grace. You can tell there is a power imbalance and why grace is saying what she’s saying. Bri saying she’s maturing, stable, and doesn’t want to party is insinuating Grace is the total opposite of those things. Just be real, Zach hates Grace. And changing your whole personality for him is more important than Grace.

32:09 y'all blaming your listeners is bs.This may be my last listen.

It's not just about their friendship, it's also a professional relationship. Grace is in NY holding down the fort, having to stop what she's doing to come into the office. Remember Dave let Mean Girls Pod go when they said they didn't want to come into the office - yes there was more to it, but I'm sure that hangs over Grace's head as she lives paycheck to paycheck. Bri gets paid a lot more money and then of course has ZB $$ and his Pop songs to carry them through :)

It’s so sad how clearly one sided this friendship is. Bri blaming grace for the issues as if she didn’t just completely drop her for the new cool thing. While yes priorities change life changes healthy relationships allow for you to maintain both. You don’t need to spend every second with grace or with Zac you can just make an effort to speak with both. Grace you deserve better it’s sad you can’t see that but it’s true.

Bri once again taking zero accountability. Zero apology towards Grace but what’s the point when she’s going to continue to follow the serial cheater around and ignore her BFF and give zero effort to her one job!

I love you bri but girl…you can’t just sit there while Grace is blaming herself for things and be like “yeah so the only issue is Grace was just upset that we didn’t spend 24/7 together anymore and that’s totally healthy and normal to be apart”. Yes it is normal is have some time apart but it’s SO CLEAR that Grace is not just upset about not being together 24/7. You cut her off multiple times in this pod and spoke for her and put words in her mouth when you can tell she doesn’t agree 100% with what you’re saying. Please take some accountability. I watched this pod since it was just you alone - but this is hard to watch. A simple acknowledgment that you’re both at fault would go a long way. You say you both just assumed things about each other, but not that you both take responsibility - instead you’re letting Grace take the fall and painting the picture that she was jealous and needed more attention. Obviously this does not concern me and idk yall but seriously, this is painful to watch. Not sure how everyone besides you can read graces body language and tone 🙃 love you bri but please take some responsibility here.

I rarely comment on KZfaq videos, but this needs to be said. Grace, you are so loved. You deserve good friendships and success and you will get it all and more if you continue to be yourself. You don’t need to hold on to things that make you feel bad about yourself or undeserving of supportive friendships. Believe what everyone is seeing and saying. YOU HAVE SO MANY FANS!!!

You can definitely tell they are on different pages, even still. Hope yall work it out and do what’s best for each other ❤

Bri switched up her whole life when she started dating Zac. And I bet O’Malley will be there when he inevitably kicks her to the curb because she’s a great friend…it’s also pretty obvious Zac is possessive and was jealous of Grace always being around

So sorry Grace, you deserve so much better

Bri is such a narcissist lol “I didn’t want to ruin my exs life anymore” “i started this podcast on my own” “I am growing up” no you literally hooked Zach Bryan and you are a glorified groupie lmao

Love them. I’m getting the vibe grace still isn’t being fully honest with how she feels to bri, but I hope they make it through and grace deserves love so much! When she finds someone it will be a game changer

Sounds like bri is trying to convince herself what she's saying is true.

Yes it’s normal for your friendship to change but it’s not normal to not tell your bff how you feel or give her a heads up, but downplaying it and making Grace seem like she’s overreacting over something “normal” is not right

It sincerely feels like Grace has always lived in the shadow of Bri and Bri just doesn’t care enough to build Grace up to know she’s good enough to stand on her own. This is a decades long pattern that got them both through middle/high school and now followed them into their careers. Grace may not know how to do it without Briana or thinks all her success hangs on her relationship with Bri. Bri probably also likes the dynamic because she *always* will have a friend no matter what is happening guy wise. It’s super sad to see. I watched the Out and About Live stream and it was clear that Grace feels less than, not appreciated and not as loved as Bri and that’s NOT TRUE. You deserve your own light instead of standing in Bri’s shadow I PROMISE this community wants to see your shining!! 💛💛💛

Honestly though, the songs Zach will drop when they eventually break up are going to be 🎯🤣

Good luck at the audition Grace !

This video pulled on my heart strings. About 4 years ago this situation happened with my best friend of 13 years and we never were able to have this conversation and mend the extreme close relationship we had. We are still friends but barely speak and our lives couldn’t be farther away from each other now. 😢

Bri takes accountability challenge: level impossible

Grace your feelings are valid dont blame yourself ❤ ive been left as well it sucks

I hope the next episode is an accountability episode Bri. Your “best friend” deserves that.

This went immediately downhill around the time Zach unfollowed Bffs, planbri and grace. Poor grace.

Grace is fighting tears and to watch bri not even try to comfort her is so sad. Bri has not “grown up and settled down” she just followed her bf around for 6 months. This was a really sad and hard watch. Grace is so loyal and absolutely ride or die and the type of friend anyone would be so lucky to have. 😢 I hope grace sees how amazing she is and how many people wish they had a friend like her!

I want give Grace a hug! 😢

I’ve never wished for a breakup more in my life

Love bri but I feel like she’s so out of touch with things that she does(unintentionally) to hurt people who are there for her most.like grace is taking accountability for her wrongdoings but Bri is just shrugging it off like she did nothing. Even if it wasn’t her intention at least acknowledge and apologize you made your friend feel that way. Just bc you get in a relationship doesn’t mean your friend will just be there bc you’ve always been friends

Getting old is weird when your life and perspectives change. You can wish the best and remain close without traveling the same path. Y’all said it in the beginning, communication is key. Wait til you do hit 30 and all your friends start having kids and you’re not so you’re not chillen all the time anymore. Life man, life.

I really felt for grace. Esp when she almost started crying. I had a traumatic friend break up and I was in a very similar situation/ position as her. It all was very heavy and took a massive toll on me… I just felt abandoned. Also, I get where Bri is coming from, but the whole podcast instead of truly recognizing and showing her understandment about graces feelings to the audience, she just went on these weird rambles the whole time like what 😭

Brianna transforms into whoever she’s dating. Once he’s gone she’ll be someone else smh a tale as old as time

I fully sympathize with Grace. I am always on the shit end of the stick when it comes to friendships - mainly with losing friends to relationships. I know that is probably a big factor into this divide between them whether they realize it or not. It is very very hard to have a friend you’re attached at the hip with to somewhat overnight feeling like you are at two completely different stages in life. Have always admired your guys friendship so hope things start looking up for you both!

I think that bri obviously deserves to live her life and do what makes her happy, but i for sure think grace is feeling a little blown off. She’s had a new boyfriend within 1 month of like her last 3 break ups, and has even spoke ab how she struggles being alone which is very obvious. Even when she’s “ alone” she still has a boyfriend for the past 3 years. THEN Got with zach ASAP after her last boyfriend , now is with him 24/7 nonstop. I’m sure it breaks graces heart. always being the single , lonely friend & treated much differently. It’s not bri’s fault grace is alone, but it’s still really sad / hard to see her go thru this. it’s obvious

Bri never takes any accountability. All she does is talks in circles. Her head is so far up her own ass. Bri has changed so much for the worst over the past year. I feel bad for Grace, this friendship is one sided. Grace should have her own podcast.

I love how on BFFs bri was like “yeah everyone online is just haters me n grace are fine everyone else is just crazy” which is her reaction to literally any criticism knowing damn well that she completely up and left her best friend who she knows isn’t in the best place to follow her less than a year old boyfriend around the country and move away w him leaving grace completely behind which she can’t even fathom as being shitty bc “she started the podcast by herself” like that’s not the point home girl everyone sees it but you. I feel like multiple times grace has made small expressions of being down and lonely and every single time it’s brushed passed and overlooked. She deserves an actual friend.

Grace always doing the ad reads and work

We’ve all had a friend who had completely changed once they started dating someone. It’s devastating to see, I completely understand Graces anger, which is better described as hurt and sadness for lost a bestfriend. I’m a fan or follower wtf you guys want to call it but I’ve noticed they weren’t connecting the same way they use to as soon as Bri started dating Zach. & obviously Bri had the podcast before Grace came along that’s why it’s “planbri” and all the ads have her name as the promo code which is unfair. I’m here for both of them not just Bri. And Bri consistently reminds barstool fans that the only reason Grace is there is because she kept bring her around until Dave gave her a job which is so condescending and obviously hurtful.

Bri does nothing but follow ZB around and changes her personality for him, isolates herself from everyone else, and is acting like it’s growth? She is so delusional..??!

I stay for grace. Bri will always adapt the personality of her boyfriend

I think bri should be obligated to come into the office once or twice a week to do her podcast.. just bc it’s her job & the dynamic is better when they’re together

Bri acting like she's better now she's dating big time singer