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When it comes to moving cross-country, I've done that before. My wife and I actually disagreed on where to go. Both were good situations, so I sacrificed like Christ for the church and moved. That's the part of the text that men often ignore. Instead of using their authority in a sacrificial way they are trying to say my way or the highway. I wish more men valued their wife's giftings and callings as much as they do their own. Yes I have the final say, but my say should be willing to put my wife first even at great cost to myself

Most people have no clue what a submitted marriage looks like. They have never seen a husband fully submitted to Jesus or a woman fully submitted to their husband so it’s a foreign concept

In my marriage I treat my husband as the head. I defer to him when he has prayed and feels strongly about a direction after we talk. In turn, he seeks out my thoughts and opinions even in situations that aren't directly about the family, such as decisions about his career. I trust him to take my thoughts into account but I trust his judgment if we disagree; and in those cases he takes the responsibility if the decision he makes turns out poorly.

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The bible calls men and women to serve each other and respect each other. There are men who claim to be good Christians but dont respect their wives which in turn leads to the woman not wanting to respect him.

I think the problems between Christian couples who struggle with the loving and submitting instructions usually stem from the fact that each person's obedience to God is made dependent on the other person's actions. A man who honours and cherishes his wife as the weaker vessel won't give room to emotional, financial or physical insecurity by not communicating his mind to her. Likewise, a woman who loves and respects her husband as the head won't ignore him or dispute his reasonable decisions for the family. The Bible says husbands should treat their wives with understanding.

I had a friend who was very successful in her career as a business woman say that she wished her husband took more charge in the relationship. And I that if he was fully capable for providing for them that she would GLADLY submit.

We have to remember that Christ served his disciples, he washed their feet.

This convo is incredibly dope

Submission and obedience aren’t the same but one stems from another. The wife submits to her husband our of obedience to God rather not obedience to her husband. The only time this isn’t plausible is when he’s leading her to sin or in harms way

There is a lot that needs to be unpacked here. I believe in mutual submission

Men and women have different pov's and values, the problem with submission is way too many men are not capable of making decisions that encompass the needs and wants and preferences of the women and children in their lives. And men tend to lack the empathy, self awareness and the emotional intelligence needed to make decisions that will leave everyone content and convince themselves that what is good for them is good for everyone. Submission (mutual) really just means being considerate, picking your battles, and taking turns having your way or letting the other person have their way out of fairness. Its basically just going to see a movie you don't want to see becasue you know your partner does the same thing. it has to go both ways...

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So I’m a female married to a male. I feel like I tend to be more bossy, unintentionally, in the relationship. I think it’s because my husband, the youngest of five siblings, honestly had everything done for me. I am an only child raised by a single mother, and pretty much did all the household chores myself. Fast forward to now and I find I have to tell my husband constantly to do things like take out the trash etc. he would rather throw money at a problem because it means someone else does it for him. It makes me feel like I’m being to bossy or naggy. We both work but our world revolves around his job in the military. That’s where I really am in a support role to him. Whatever he needs, I pretty much drop what I’m doing to make it happen. I’m really lucky that my job allows me to miss work to pick him up at the airport or whatever. If one of us had to stay home it would be me, but right now we’re both happy working.

Ephesians 5:22 says wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 1 Corinthians 11:3 Christ is the head of man and man is the head of his wife. Wives should absolutely obey their husbands in all things.

I've been married for almost 15 years which is much over the national average in seeing as though we have an autistic daughter we are Way Beyond the national average of married couples with autistic children. I will say this.... when you are married the idea is to become one flesh. One flesh needs to be balanced. Sometimes both submit for the best interest of the family. It is a give-and-take and if people cannot handle that their marriage will definitely fail.

my wife and I had a business on the side doing very well...i wanted leadership over the financial part but my wife fought me to death...I was planning on once she submitted...Then i was hoing to give her the financial role back...but she wouldn't give it up.

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Shalom men of God and many blessings to you both and to your beautiful wives and families (personal/ministries). I appreciate the insight you both have shared in this discussion. Because you are right, a woman's posture in submission does not reflect bondage and slavery. A woman's posture in submission is aligned with the same posture she and a born again man takes up before The Most High God. When a man is desiring to build life with a submissive woman, he has to make sure he is able to understand her posture in submission from the posture he takes up in submission before The Most High God. Because there is not a difference in this posture when it comes to the man and the woman. Submission is not something anyone should take lightly, especially a man. Because a man also has to be in a place of submission when building life from a personal level. The man has to be submitted to his Creator, The Most High God. The man submits His life to The Most High God because he understands the importance of honoring The Creator who gave him life. The connection between The Most High God and a man is a bond that carries a different realm of experience. The man's posture in submission also keeps him from seeing the woman's posture in submission incorrectly. And it keeps him from belittling the value of her posture in this position. Submission is immersed in real power. Because submission also speaks the intimate language of humility. And real power is expressed, voiced, and seen in movement from this position (from the spirit of humility). Even when a man is moving in his heavily built form in leadership and authority, he has to be in a submitted position before The Most High God in order to give a healthy reflection to that kind of power. The man has to move in humility when exercising that kind of weight. This is another reason why submission bears real weight in the life of a woman. Because her intimate build is already constructed around the beauty of humility and submission. She bears the weight of the crown. She also helps to uphold the weight that supports the crown the man wears. This is why a man has to make sure he understands the cost of submission, especially when it comes to his posture before The Most High God and when it comes to the woman's posture before The Most High God and the man. The submission a woman walks in is very weighty. And it has to be approached with a real respect and honor for her value in this particular charge she is entrusted to uphold in her walk in life. God Bless you both and thank you for sharing this discussion. Shalom unto you and to your beautiful wives and families.

Boy they a lot of Christians out there that need to get that FIT under control

wrt your slavery comment, the issue is that the realization you had is the same realization that many women have. they have a TON of responsibility in the home.... but the ultimate authority is with their husband, not them. so if the husband would recognize a position of responsibility without authority as slavery, why wouldn't a woman? i'm not trying to be inflammatory either with this comment, it's something i genuinely think about. what is the difference here that i'm missing?

But submission isn’t a choice though because the Bible commands it. Willful submission and submission that is commanded aren’t the same. I do think their is fault with a man who isn’t worthy of being submitted too and he should work on that because he also is commanded to be a provider, protector and leader. But submission isn’t dependant upon being a good leader not us leading dependant upon having a submissive partner, rather it's a sacrafice out of obedience to God and His commands

The only reason this conversation is always a big deal is because we live in a feminist society at the end of the day you listen to what your husband wants period even while you share your opinion what he has the final say. If women today aren't ready for that then stay an independent boss chick forever and don't get married period.

So women should question man, like Moses questioned GOD at the burning bush lol, should they also make excuses like Moses did? Do we live in a world where a Sargent should question a general. It’s funny how the spirit of Eve is still alive today, men are taking the fruit therefore no man that does should question Adam. It’s not about a doormat, it’s about trust, now if your man is doing ungodly things that’s a different story. Find you a man of GOD who you can trust that trust GOD. It’s that simple woman should be advisors to their men not leaders.

Angles at which you pointing your cameras at couches/chairs you sit in are uncomfortable. Chairs on splitscreen pointing outside of the frame, not in the center of a frame. Even you are looking at eachother through middle line, chairs pointing outward. That is bad, very uncanny to watch, for me at least.

Blah Blah blah blah blah blah Any scriptures cited?

It’s one thing to obey God, but the scriptures don’t portray marriage as a hierarchical relationship. Adam wasn’t Eve’s boss lol.