I'll start out by saying that like most expats, I had an eye for young eye candy. I actually lived with several of them but things never worked out. I knew a girl who worked in a restaurant. She was quite attractive but although I had propositioned her several times and she would never go out with me. My friends used to laugh at me because I genuinely liked her. They called her Miss No. I would usually talk to her each time I ate there. I asked her why she was still single. She called herself an old maid at 35 years old. and that no Thai man would ever marry her because she had a mind of her own. She had never been married and had no children. That only increased my interest. I had problems with the young eye candy girls with their insane jealousy. I would never want a wife who was a jealous clinging vine type. I liked the idea of a wife who had a mind of her own and told her so. Eventually she did go out with me and more than 20 years later we are still together. YES, she still has a mind of her own and that suits me just fine. She is definitely not a jealous type and I am free to go where and when I want. She is a farm girl and we live in her house upcountry. I still have my Jomtien condo and during her planting and harvesting times, she tells me to go down to Jomtien and stay in my condo until she is finished. I always stayed down there, normally two weeks or so before I went back home.

“She was still an 8-plus, pushing a 9” - classic Daz! 😂😂😂😂

"Beauty is enough to catch somebodies eye, to remain in memory good character is needed"

Women seem to fear, yet also respect and long for : A Man living freely in the Flame of his own Sovereignty. Such a man stays single and as such Pattaya becomes his Nirvana. Yet, as you mentioned some time ago: many men get divorced or split up with their women from back home, come to Thailand and then get wound up again in the bonds of a new relationship.

The knowledgeable speaks and the wise listens. Valuable content. If we don't pay attention to the hairdresser's stories we are doomed to repeat the same mistakes. Thumbs up Mr Daz, our man in Pattaya.

Absolutely brilliant! Your stories should be made compulsory reading for Thai visa applications from every country. Also love "The 4 things a Thai girl looks for". Exactly the reason that after 10 years of living here I've never really had a proper Thai GF. 1- Must be older and stable (Well I'm older at least). 2- Must be financially secure (Sorry darling I'm skint). 3-Must be generous (It's my money and I'm keeping it-get a job). 4-Must not be a butterfly (ha ha ha ha).

KZfaq unsubscribed me from your channel, WTF!?!?! I subscribed again but you are correct about them unsubscribing people and that's ridiculous.

I'm getting notifications for every pattaya channel I subscribe to, including yours...and getting recommendations for new ones several times a day.

The way to change this would be for older guys to stop giving girls drinks and tips. Only give them money for a bar fine. Then the girls would need the older guys since the young guys don't have enough money.

My wife 16 years younger 20 years together she is 50 I am 66 never happier

Insightful as usual, thanks 😊

I was in a go go last year. When a good looking, younger man walked in and sat down, all, and I mean all the ladies, rushed him. They fought for his attention. It was very funny to watch. I think he even got a couple of free drinks.

I was subbed and never got notified you had new videos out.

Thanks Daz for another informative video. I have seen so many young girls on Soi 6 pulling hands of older guys. Actually Thai girls don’t care about age or look as long as they can make some business. That is my observation. To be connected on emotional level to anyone , it requires cultural, historical and interest similarities. age is only one small factor among plenty.

Daz.. you’re a national treasure..! Another great story. Thanks a lot keep up the good work…!

Thanks again for a great video. Just returned from Koh Chang. Next time it will be Jomtien again. Everything you tell in your video's is so recognizable! The best info is to find here.

Great info as always!!!

You were right - I’d been unsubscribed by YT. I just thought you were on holidays and not posting. I’ve re subscribed

Great report, Daz!

Great listening to your videos and stories. Thailand offers so much for so many people. It indeed is a place that offers a person an opportunity to learn, grow and expand their own self awareness. Thank you for your perspective and sincerity.

Thanks for the info👍 ! When you first started talking about subscriptions being cancelled I would always check and mine was good…. But now, every time I check, It has been cancelled so I have to resubscribe!!!

Great as always

Great advice daz , as always

Great Video thx... keep on going

Sir, on an entirely different note, you video camera quality, i.e., clarity is outstanding. I am comparing you to a few other Pattaya and Bangkok vloggers and some from Cuba. Cheers from Canada

Wow, you gave a lot of good and realistic information. Thanks for sharing the reality of what it is about

Interesting history Daz. Thanks.

That is a very good observation, that you mentioned 2011, as in 2012 I first visited Thailand in my 20s , ❤ im writing a story for Thailand Bound about this very subject … to be continued : )

After watching so many of Daz's videos, I could easily write a book about what to and not do in Pattaya, but that would be plagiarism. Brilliant !!!

Loved hearing your story about the ex Gogo you found a year later!! My fav so far

Great content Daz. :)

Great advice!

Thanks For Great Info I Hope You are Well..

Great stories

KZfaq isn't suppressing your videos...I dont know how i got recommend your video..but i did find it interesting as all hel!

Everything you say Daz is correct. I first moved here in 2003 pre smartphones and Facebook era. It was really amazing! Just moved back 2 years ago, and aside from me getting older, things have changed and not necessarily for the better. But overall, Pattaya is still great, and I still get on Thai Friendly and get a lot of likes from very young beautiful women.

Very good advice for new and experienced guys. "Too good to be true have real meaning there". If you understand it then PTT is still as much fun. For them it is about business and Thais work very hard. Thanks for the video. Enjoyed.

My first time was in 1988 as a 26 yr old. Fell in love with Thailand. Went back many times before marrying a lady from my country. Divorced and on the hunt again, finally ended up in Thailand again. Now older, wiser and Richer lol I found my soul mate, best friend and wife. Yes she's 23 years younger and I "apparently" act younger than her. Life is great when you find the right one, and there are many in Thailand. And any guy looking serious at a relationship with someone under 30 that's 40+, is not that realistic. Be smart when you choose.

You can be a 40 or 45 year old guy and look 10 years younger. That can be a advantage for still getting the younger Thai ladies.

Your hairdresser is a continous source of quality information.

I guess I am not old enough then. Financial secure, no butterfly, went several times to Isaan, taken care about family and friends and still she wants to go with customers. Glad I figured it out before I married her and now she blames me 😄 The logical thinking of some (or many) Thais is on a high end level.

Basically, Daz is right. But “older guys,” don’t despair. I'm 64 now and look that old too. My last companion from December, who I will meet again next month, is 20 years old (8 pushing a 9), the predecessors are 21, 22, 24, 26, including Agogo Supermodels. Young and good-looking women are much more selective and harder to get. Nevertheless, with good behavior, friendliness, respect, humor, neat external appearance and the oft-quoted generosity (have good heart/jai dee), there is still a chance of convincing them of you. It's usually not cheap either, as each of them knows their "market value" quite well.

Daz you are a proper legend mate ..love all your videos .. :D :D

As a young guy, take out the older girls 30-35 once in a while, they have interesting stories to tell and are very happy to show their friends that they still can get young guys.

Daz very good info Love your wisdom on this sort of thing love in Thailand and young girls loving young guys SO TRUE. I get turned down by young girls all the time and I just laugh. I know what you are saying is true. Right now I am working on a young almost 38 yr old dancer who I feel could be a good GF but of course I am not putting all my eggs in one basket. I sing on you tube and dedicate many songs to her and send them her way to see if I can spark a more emotional love interest towards me. It is a totally different approach then most men can do. Most men are not musicians and cannot do what I do. SO to make a long story shorter wish me luck as I am coming back soon to see her dancing in the club. I have a few others I have already met I will visit too. I always am respectful and give them gifts, tips whatever it takes to put a smile on their faces. I am still a butterfly and do as I please but still have a desire to find love. (its in our DNA as men). Drunken nights in dark hotels where love and sex no longer ally....so true (from the song Hold me closer)

Good video and really accurate as far as how 'older' Thai women think. (The ones I've met anyway) .. Nearly all of the women I meet in the 40 and up range (which is my preference mostly - think Kings) see themselves as 'old ladies'. Not all, but many are looking to meet someone who is 'kind', treats them well, will help 'take care' and get them away from a competitive market (All as per your video comments)

Thanks for another insight of Pattaya at present. i'm an older guy in the Philippines and must say as expat from US , I've observed over the years similar behavior by the females ( been here over 20 years). Still good and ok but important to know what the expectations are. I'm definitely planning on visiting your turf sometime reasonably soon. Good day! Enjoying your videos.

Hi, I am a relatively new viewer to your channel for the last 5 months and I must say how much your channel stands out. Over the past 3 years I have been chilling watching up to 10 hours of youtube a day. From subbing to 47 channels, it has now dwindled to 3. And you are one of the 3, which shows your staying power. I like the tone, cadence and resonance of your voice. Plus, your aptitude for great storytelling. I hope your channel grows to a million in the future, and as it grows you might consider a membership program, as the other two channel I follow are doing and they have about the same number of subs as you do.. You may consider doing live chats where you bring us around while members pose questions which you can reply to, making it fun and interactive. I notice a few questions below the comments which means that format could work. Just a suggestion. Have a great day.

I first hit Pattaya in 1993, my brother worked for Lufthansa and he got some free flights in business class so i went with him, I was 23 and had never even heard of Thailand never mind what went on there, I don’t remember too much but it was all beer bars and never even went to walking street!!!!!, stayed at Queens Hotel just off beach road and drank in the cat bar most of the time, very different now. I do remember it being full of older guys in fact I felt the youngest there, how it’s changed eh

Hello Daz I have watched well over #50 of your vidieos, excellent information. I will be arriving in pattaya in april. I plan on going to my first gentsclub. could you plese tell me the name on this famouse gents club you talked about in this video??? thank you.

Hehe😂. I really love you Daz.... U always nail it 👍👍🙏

1 Word Outstanding

Glad to hear you are sounding better Daz. You sounded a bit raspy on you’re last video.🤒

Good video, cheers from Serbian fan.

I'm 64 just got back from Pattaya, didn't go to Go Go bars as too expensive but found 9 attractive beer bar girls aged 18,19,21(3) 24,25, 30 and 32. Several were new to Pattaya (maybe they are told to say that). All were ST apart from the 30 year old. Two worked in the senual massage on Soi Baukhaw, two ladies B500, ended up paying B2500 was fun. One bar B400 for room upstairs but B2000 before midnight, B1000 after midnight to leave bar. Went to Soi Baukhaw, six, seven, Thai Friendly and Myth night. Many attractive ladies around. Many only want ST. But I'm fine with that.

As always, I appreciate all of the amazing information you so freely give to us newbies who want to coming to Thailand 🇹🇭. One of your best tips of all time is telling us not to come Thailand 🇹🇭 with a gullible mindset.

Really impressed with your work and info with this channel. What time of day is best for gentleman's club? Also could you recommend the top 3 gentleman's club, thanks.

I'm heading to Pattaya tomorrow. Currently I'm in Sam Roi Yot. But there's not much to do here. And after a few days I'm going to head back to Bangkok where I met 3 Thai ladies at their bar. Two of them are 30 years old while the other one is 40. They are not 9's to 10s but I really liked hanging out with them. They bought me my drinks and I bought them theirs. Had a fantastic time and can't wait to get back. And one of the 30 year old girls look 20. I had a really good time talking with them about more than just bar stuff and since it was slow in that corner that night they were happy to oblige me. Once a guy came and sat down and right away all three of them went over to him and afterwards I gave them a hard time about it and they all laughed. Of course I was just joking with them because I understand it's just business. But I can't wait to go back. I've also been speaking to a lot of Thai ladies on Thai friendly. Many of these women have bachelors in masters degrees. But what I would think of as a middle-aged beautiful lady they think of themselves as old. Since I'm trying to move here I really wouldn't mind finding a couple ladies that I can have some fun with. But I think I must never forget the fact that it really is a business here. Oh and by the way I do appreciate your advice. When I walked into the bar they wanted me to buy them all Lady drinks... And I remembered your video saying about that and I told him no I'll buy one or none. They backed off after that for a little while and then I bought them all a drink. So yeah I appreciate your advice on Thailand it served me well.

Hi Daz a really good video as usual hey just a quick question can you do a video of getting testosterone jabs out there a lot of my friends are heading over to have it done and really enjoy the fruits of it all and say it's the best they have ever felt could you do one on the pro's and con's on this including your own opinion and prices thanks mate keep up the good work 🙂👍

Thanks again

stories are my favorite thing.

Here with ya Daz

Older guys don’t take too long, they just want to get their money’s worth 😀

Always like your videos with the 'boots on the ground' perspective. My experience differs a bit though as I just recently got back and can say I had zero young ladies in agogos say no to me when I inquired about barfine. I'm a guy in good shape in early 50s but look 5-10 years younger than my age so perhaps that partially explains it. The only one I actually ended up barfining had no issues at all going to club Lucifer with me and having a few drinks and dancing for a while. I'm each lady is different and maybe plenty are more reticent to be seen with a very out of shape guy looking his (old) age? Agree with the gent's clubs though, I had never been in any until this last trip and yeah some good looking slightly older ladies that really wanted to be in my company and lavished way more attention on me than any of the agogo girls.

Your spot on

Daz,you have an amazing insight into the Thai ladies phsyci.

Well I'm 55 now, and disappointing to learn my options are diminishing. Sigh.

"Everything comes to he who waits." Amen brother, amen.

Entertaining, as ever, Daz. And very true. Newbies will still make all the mistakes, though. Everyone does. N

O Daz I made a fool of myself… I watched your videos I listened and I learnt… but I still made the mistake…. my first time in Thailand was last year this time last year and what I thought was, I met a nice girl boy was I wrong!!! Let’s being met her last February was blown away by how good her English was and the way she treated me And I had some good time with her. She showed me all over Pattaya all the places I wanted to see from watching your videos….rite let’s start as you said before when you leave Pattaya and go back to your home country all you will want to do is work save some money and forget all your friends so true that is I didn’t even want to buy a pint beer in my own country of Ireland 😂😂…so met the girl & I just couldn’t get back to her quick enough so booked another holiday for June last for 18 days all the loving again & when I left after that I was booked again to be back at September but September never happened I couldn’t make it…so here I am again back for the month of February back in the arms of my love so I thought 😡😡…out having the fun on the town of Pattaya for a blast with her…paying for everything beers…breakfast lunch evening meals given her some money for herself we all know how it’s works… forgot to mention up to her home village Had a few nights up there another blast …. Bear in mind, I came to see her for a month😡😡…then she tells me that she has to go away 16th of February until the 2nd of march 😡😡..I questioned it what’s going on here…rite some Australian dude 62 of age….she is 36 I’m a fit 40 year old 29 to 30 inch waist line with abs showing doing the gym for the last 20 plus years💪💪…& then she leaves me for a guy that is 22 year older than me & here I am writing this text to you in my hotel bedroom on my own… O man this is a joke…looks like this Australian dude was given her some money for the last few months as we were texting & ringing each other every day when I was back at home…yes she did ask me for some money but I stopped it at 300 euros…I just couldn’t let my self fall into the money trap…& this 62 year old dude she told me he was retired so therefore he has a pension and probably a payment settlement from his previous job for being such a good worker whatever he worked at…this man is going to get spit roasted by her ….she leaves a fit 40 year man for 62 year man that’s 22 years older than me…I do have money I’m doing ok in my financial side but I didn’t tell her…so it’s all about the money god help that man she is going to see I’ll say a prayer for him and his financial side & I hope he is not soft in the head…. and when she walked out of my hotel room door yesterday I said to myself, I’m done with you… be strong there is 5 million other women in Thailand…

this is already starting to change back since less customers come to thailand i think before 2030 they will be back on their best behavior . they mostly go with young guys because they are easier to drain of their money . but that money is drying up as we speak the inflation in the west is really doing a number and thailand as a whole will feel that immensely

tbh the 'younger' girls have no personality. My last trip was an eye opener. theres no joy in talking to them and for me that leaves no room for taking the encounter forward. Im 34 btw.

Loved a soapy in Sabai dee not cheap but for anyone who has not had a soapy you have to do it a least once!!

what is the name of the other channel you talk about? Patreon?

Caveat Emptor . Great story 💯

You are correct, I have been unsubscribed from your channel and others in Pattaya repeatedly. Your channel it has happened 4 times in the last two weeks. Eventually, it will hurt YT because folks are moving to other platforms to publish their content.

I have tried both, the ones in their 20s and the above 30s too, and my preference quite frankly is the later ones due to their maturity nature and stability in handling an older customer like me. In the end, it boils down merely to what makes you happy and what quality time you expect to receive. In other words, the younger ones are not necessarily a jackpot and after all, it is still a transactional trade. Hence, don't let the age factor worry you. You and your money will always be in control based on your style and choices on how you wish to enjoy.

The part of all this you have to remember is if you are a young, middle age, or even older man, value yourself first. That doesn't mean be conceited or rude, but you yourself have alot to offer that is much more important than intimacy for a price. If you are honest, respectful, and trustworthy, say so and act so. If you are nothing more than a potential business transaction for a ST or sex encounter never be afraid to walk away. Companionship can be a gift that keeps on giving to each other. Not some quickie in a room someplace. You can even give yourself a quickie if you want it that bad. Feels the same and is certainly without a doubt much cheaper. Their problems are not your problems at least not in the early getting to know each other dating stage. Helping someone and being appreciated is so rewarding. Getting used may not be so obvious at first but it eventually shows. It is all in how you really value yourself. Older vs. Younger, more experience plus knowing that, well, honestly, for either of you, how many opportunities in this life will there be? Pretty girls all over the place but you cannot be with all of them. Pretty doesn't always mean good either. Not so good looking doesn't necessarily mean bad either. Taking an older average looking, maybe heavy, or very thin, lady out to dinner, treating her well, those types are more inclined to be appreciative and remember it fondly. Cutey pie girls probably get dozens of the same offers so it might not be as important to them, especially if you don't look like Elvis yourself. Sorry, just some thoughts. Hard to walk away but value yourself, you've earned it.

Central Marina has a wonderful night market out the front in the evening. Lots of mobile vendors selling street food from stands and vans.

Always entertaining having a dissociative personality commenting on the nuances of human relationships.

Hey Daz I will be over this week. Thanks to your videos. Looking to hook up with Greg for Golf. I don’t think his sister has the beach spot anymore. Can you put me in touch with him? Thanks, Ray.

Really, would you like another drink? Nice one Daz 🤣🤣

Plenty of mid 20s females in LK go with guys over 40 The line about go to long, Ive heard that from girls I know in few different bars. **23 years Ive been in and around Pattaya**

Hola Señor Daz!

I had a similar thing with one of your stories Couple years ago I was listing over a burger bar girl then suddenly she vanished Few weeks later I saw her in a gents club and bought her also a drink Room fine was 400. Only in pattaya this can happen

In China and many Asian countries, a woman over 30 is called "Sheng Nu" which means, leftover woman.

I hope someone learns from your experiences because most won't , because you have to let them learn from their own mistakes.

Goodstuff!!

Yes, it is fun

Thanks for your video, advice on Thai girls and also showing the insides of Central Marina Mall. Wasn't even thinking about visiting there but now it's definitely worth a visit. Anyway, regarding older guys with young girls, my opinion is that girls, anywhere in the world, grow up imagining the young handsome prince sweeping them off their feet, not an old man providing money. Western girls pictured a young handsome western dude and Asian girls pictured being with a young Asian guy. This based on all the TV, store ads etc. they grew up with. Many Asian girls will probably tolerate the older guy but inside will long for the young guy, thus the popularity of host clubs in Asian countries. These girls will act like the older guys chasing them, by dishing out money, cash, cars, clothes and jewelry to the young guys they chase like in your story. If you're the older guy and your young girl is buying your meals, your luxury brand clothes, expensive shoes, jewelry, high end watches and at least a new model SUV, then you're lucky.

I think most girls in the 18 to 25 age range are looking to have fun and not for anything long term. But their young partners generally don't have very deep pockets. Those thirty and over want more financial stability which they won't find with younger guys as it takes time to build wealth. But if find the right lady and you check all her boxes don't be surprised to see all her younger guys only rules go right out the window.

Funny thing im knocking around with a 22yr old girl im 61 asked her to go to club, she said ok but can my friend who is 40 come too i said ok ,now no why to save face 😂😂😂

Hi Daz,i first went to Pattaya in 1990 aged 30. There were loads of 9/10s in nearly every bar. How times have changed. Still hasn't stopped me having lots of fun. In May 24 will be my 32nd trip 😂😂

Daz, what is "butterfly" in Thai Language?

Story time!

Here is another example (10.40 pm in Pattaya) , tonight I was sneakers shopping @ Central, I didn't notice a single old guy in any of shops (like big Adidas on L3) ,Puma,Scatchers,...................& it was only 8pm ,this tells U a lot about Pattaya meat market .................

How comes you don't have the music anymore at the start?

My first time to Pattaya was in 1997. I was in the US Navy and my ship pulled in for 5 days. I have been there about 10 times. The last time being in 2014. I know it's changed but I would love to hear a story about what happens when the military comes into town. I have seen it when an aircraft carrier would pull in, a charter bus from Bangkok showed up with more bar girls 🤣

My most fun moments with bargirls has been with the women over 30--they're interesting and experienced and fun--the younger ones are perhaps more inchoate.

What is your advice for over 40's to make the most of their time and money, Daz? 1. Avoid the prettiest girl in the bar/girls under 25, 2. Avoid Go Go's, definately avoid Walking Street GoGo's, try the Gent's club's, 3. Force the girl to put her cards on the table early and tell you if she is going to say No to barfines, as opposed to finding out after you have bought her 6 ladydrinks already. Anything else?