Bro when you said you went on tinder because you were lonely, i couldn’t relate more...

I feel like most of the chicks on tinder just be using It for the likes to boost their confidnece

Once you start approaching in public you won't want to swipe anymore. You'll level up majorly as a man when you can approach in public

I definitely recommend that people who are introverted like me, delete the app, as addicting as it is delete it. You are only enabling your introverted personality and I feel like the real quality and even more attractive women are those that are not on tinder. Even just casual hookups theres probably better ones you can find by just going out. Being introverted can be a set back if you are seeking to find more friends.

Doing the same. Meeting someone in real life puts so much more respect to yourself. Online dating has so much negativity associated with it.

Same here , Im 20 and My older sister said i should try swiping . Ive actually had a lot of matches after a few weeks but its all about validation for them. It is like talking to a brick wall , they arent even interested in you . I started uni last year and it is so satisfying to talk to girls in person . Tbh it is not even about hooking up or flirting rn for me its just grounding talking to girls , making friends and just having a good time !

I love the quote "hurt people, hurt people". I love your perspective on this. Thanks for the video

yeah tinder shouldn’t even be called a dating app tbh

im giving up on anything that involves a relationship 😭😭😂 just staying to myself for a long time

Bro i found a shawty on there, and she just wasted my time. Like you said in a more recent video, some of these females suffer from depression, anxiety or they’re emotionally unstable. And this chick didn’t know how to communicate at all. Ya know? I didn’t bash her but it was hard to cut her off... we did stuff too iykyk, so we had already, or I had already created an attachment with her. I can’t waste my energy no more to people who can’t reciprocate my energy. I learned my lesson today.. it’s been a shitty day but you live and learn

I am 18, I workout and go to university but corona messed me up so its online school. I am on tinder and I get literally no matches and I'm not sure why exactly but it does mess with my confidence but I'm planning on deleting it and jus focusing purely on me by working out, eating well and just becoming more alive and self aware. Thanks for making this video it was helpful btw.

You will feel more confident in yourself and boost yourself up as a man if you meet women in real life. I agree with you dude, tinder can be addicting just like social media, plus girls on there aren't even interested, you can have a decent conversation with them for like 5 minutes then they ghost on you and it's exhausting. Feel much better connecting with them in real life rather than behind a screen

Tinder is no use in todays society

This is so relatable man, I’ve had some bad experiences with Tinder as well.

So we’re literally living the same life. Crazy.

I like it how he pronouces Tuesday as Toosday😂😂

“When I make a video on something, you know it’s for real” 💙

Yeah I got off tinder to now I want to go out and approach girls in real life for better connections. I think I was addicted to seeing how many likes I would get. This was so relatable bro great video heard nun but fax👑💯🙏🏽

Tinder is hard for women too it is not worth all the trouble trying to match with someone and turn around and it does not work out. It is hard to find anyone who is compatible.

*Downloads Tinder* *"Someone likes you see who it is"* *Asks for payment* *Deletes Tinder*

You video helped me understand why I need to delete Tinder. Especially your point on the three types of people ot attacks. I definitely fall under lonely. Keep up the good content and thanks. 🙏

Every time I wanna get back to dating or in a dating app Imma whatch this video ❣️

Your videos are inspirational. You deserve at least 1 mil subs and i know you're gonna get there one day. Keep grinding my g 💯

I've gotten a shit ton of matches on Tinder and I've only been using it for like 2 months. I'm 25 and I don't use social media so that's why I made it cause females nowadays, at least the young ones in my generation find it weird to interact in person. Met some weirdos, some cute chicks, some mid chicks, some ducks, the whole thing. I guess I'm a millennial in the wrong Era cause I would prefer to meet women in person.

Thanks for this video. I resonate a lot with this video, although I have not been on Tinder. I rarely can last on dating apps (few hours) but I do understand when you talk about the loneliness. I felt that way when I just moved from a country to another, and didn’t have many friends. I didn’t know how to interact with the girls or boys so felt like getting a “dating”/“meeting up” was a good idea. I really started hating the idea of meeting up with someone from online because I felt that I never really get to know them and the expectations were mainly false.

Alot of your issues, come from being young, in a world where you have too much access to things, but lack the experience and wisdom, to know how to operate them. When you get some years under your belt, the weight of such trivial things, won't be so heavy. You'll be fine. Just stay on your purpose, and everything else will fall in line. Good luck 👍

What is PMO?

i was a swiping addict 😭

perfect timing fr, good looks 🙏🏽

You are very well spoken, and self aware for your age. Good on you.

Dating apps in general suck and rarely if not never work. Stay away from them

I’m addicted to gaming lol😂

Some guy asked how old l am and l said 15 jokingly..my account got banned immediately..🙄😏😣

I met a girl from tinder a year ago exactly, we hit it off and were together until August, she started dating another guy from her past overlapping with me by a week, I was traumatized cuz I lived with her for 5 of those 9 months, I got back on tinder and went out on a date with a super hot chick, she was playing games with me after. And I randomly got banned for no reason, haven't been on tinder for past 4 months and now that I'm on Christmas break I wanna give it another shot

I downloaded tinder again recently 2 years after I tried it an deleted it. Now I’m talking to 4 matches and one is talking about meeting up but after seeing this I’m worried lmaooooopainoooooo

To say I related to this would be an understatement. Thanks for the fresh perspective man.

I used to be good looking to the point where girls would come up to me on the daily and start conversations with me even tho I'm a severely shy guy(didnt even say 1 word for a year) because I used to be bullied so much that my confidence didnt exist. Now that I'm finally better mentally I don't feel good looking anymore nobody looks at me and I'm a mess. Just download tinder but I'm glad I watched this video

I have always done better in public , you get to veg better. Text women and online gives women time to think and ask their girl friend for a certain response. In person you can read body language and people have to either be themselves or play themselves. I don’t want to be on someone’s virtual auction block.

There’s so many bisexual women on tinder bruh like fr and they’ll say they’re bi but on their bio they say they only like girls like wtf that’s not what bisexual means 😴🤦🏻 and tinder knows i’m looking for STRAIGHT girls smh

I agree with everything you say on here. I was never on Tinder. I'm a bit older than you. I stopped online dating in 2015 and I was only using OK Cupid. You're adorable, though. I'm glad you found someone (according to the title of a suggested video from a week ago).

bruh you summed it up nicely at the end, well done!

10:03 The Dennis Rodman photo had me rollin😂😂

Wasgood bro love yo content keep da work out

I relate to so much this guy says

Keep up the good work jordan you'll make it

Yo dude I’m turning 20 here shortly. But I’m in that same boatttt. I don’t match much with girls. I don’t go to school. I work at a grocery store and believe it or not I don’t see any girl my age. So it’s actually messed with me a little bit subconsciously that I don’t match much with on tinder and that I don’t speak to many even tho I think I’m okay at communicating. How did you push through that time when you were lonely?? I still approach girls when I can but damn there ain’t much that come around these days 🙄

To be honest non of these lame broads want a real relationship.They dont take the time to value thier man that work hard and put thier life on the line.These women have issues.they nd to revaluate thier life first💯😤

i dont care about the girls on tinder i just use it as a confidence booster and i like swiping sometimes lol

I flunking all my online classes (33% and 54%)I starting to lose all my motivation for this school year. Can anyone give me advice I’m overwhelmed with work. To play basketball I need to make a 70 or above, but I don’t think I will be playing this year. I think because of COVID-19.

I wasted so much time on tinder 6 months gold talked to maybe 2 or 3 chicks got one date and this chick looked like a dude haha! after the gold expired I deleted it and never used tinder ever again. Total waste of time. I got better things to do than swiping left and right. Could be going to the gym learning songs on guitar making money. Way more valuable things. social media and tinder is such of a waste of time I feel so much better spiritually when I’m not on either of those things same bro I got hella addicted I’d be swiping for 3 hours a day. Tinder is trash. Just stay focus on you bro and your goals and they’ll come around. Theres a lot of chicks on tinder that have stds too same with other dating always gotta be careful.

I don't use Tinder and from what I heard in this video I wouldn't plan to anytime soon!!!

That's a good observation you're young and smart if you're looking for true love you'll have to walk the block to find a girl who's really interested in you but I would say what my mama told me take The Road Less Traveled

I agree 100% with you on everything you say here. And I too recently got through a heartbreak over a girl I fell for and went on a couple dates with.

Lol tinder doesn't even work for me, all I see verified chicks showing insta and claiming they're not looking for hookups

You know, the first time i met Tinder was the moment i watched AOK channel that in the weird video i so the grown up Caillou tell his parents about Tinder and i thought Tinder is a some kind of car but now i am know becase you warned us what to do.

Here’s a funny and honest story. Back in 2019 I used some pictures of one of my friends who’s tall and good looking. I mama hard to get like 37+ matches on just 2 weeks which isn’t surprising. Some girls gave even wanted to video chat me not realizing that they’re actually getting catfish lol. Most of the girls were good looking too. I had eventually deactivated it, now you make look at it as me being down bad but I look at it as my point being proven.

Interesting, I think everyone is lonely really. I enjoy connecting on Tinder because its fun and fascinating. Tread lightly. I guess I could fall into the lonely category but I am not desperate. I have found jobs through Tinder, discovered new music, made new friends, language exchange and connections around the world. It is what you make it I guess!

Why were you taking girls serious from tinder??

I love your channel bro. I watch every vid.

Awesome video my G keep up the great work

Tinder just doesnt work for me. Im an average looking guy, not overweight or anything, and I barely get any matches. The matches I do get just ignore me even though Ill send them something thoughtful. Im convinced women are just on there for validation and to promote themselves. All the bios I see on there is just them telling you to follow them.

Respect the honesty

Tinder refunded the balance which is nice gesture

I can relate. I also couldn't find someone ready for a serious relationship on tinder. As you said most people there including me fall into these 3 categories. But still addicted to it so to get some validation. What would you suggest?

I met my wife at a club and we have two children and here dad is rich and trust me looking forward to being rich is it

i just download tinder app this week so let me use for two days

If a girl has a tinder you know she’s low value. I’m glad you caught on early bro, not worth it.

You didn't get any matches at the beginning of your tinder experience?! I don't understand why! You are so handsome, beautiful, and insightful 💙

Congrats on 10k Jordan.

I agree with you, I live in Miami as 26 yo female. I used to use Tinder to meet rich dudes and deleted like 2 months ago. Especially if you live somewhere like Miami you eventually realize easy sex is not even fun. I really miss the sexual tention

I had tinder but i just used it because I was bored that and there are some things I need to work on first

Sad truth about dating apps, you match and talk to a girl, she ghosts you after the first date

I've always felt Tinder lowers the standard for for both genders. Given that both genders are after true commitment with their partner, it's not going to be as easy as going on an catalog and choosing a woman. I've always felt true love, and when I say true, I mean grounded love in which both partners are on the same level of maturity, commitment, trust and goals, it is only then that this love is found out there in the real world. Some people may find it sooner and some later. I really think when you're focused on building yourself up, as guys, when you move out, you're working, seeing what it is you want to do, that the right woman for you will appear. I don't think she's going to appear in your hometown while we watch pornhub and sit on our asses. It will come when you break from addictions, pursue a meaningful goal, leave your parents house and go into the world that you will have stepped into a different playing field.

Hi Jordan! I just finished my 90 days nofap and wants to ask you for some tips what I should do now?

95% women on tinder has a extra sorry just the truth if your good guy you’re not going to win because she’s use to bad guys

Nice sweater👍🔥🔥

thank you for your advice

Well atleast u actually get dates on tinder. I just get nothing but fake bot accounts and scammers.

Thanks for sharing yr story yr damn fine but over all you have a dope personality

I joined tinder to joke at the amount of pics Of people holding up fish they caught bc I live in the south. I ended up finding someone really attractive and great. We got into a relationship and he quickly became abusive. I haven’t dated after that and not really looking to bc I do want long term if I like them but I have a lot to work on. If I ever join again it’ll be to find ppl with similar hobbies. I lack the social skills to talk with my age group, my job turned me into a cold and blunt serving robot. Lol.

Well, if they don't believe you are not a player because you have your tinder tuesdays videos on KZfaq, then let them go and don't worry about them😜 You'll find good girls in person!!! Do it the old fashion way, it's the best way! In most cases, Tinder isn't serious at all. I wish you the best ❤😄

Jordan did you know that Tinder was first called ''MatchBox''

Tinder is very addicting that's why I deleted it

Pfff, you at least had some dates form Tinder. I been on this trash app for 3 years- not a single date!!! Had like 10 matches form all this time, and not much conversation. Chicks usually acted bothered, uninterested or never replied at all. And I did have pretty decent pics up there, and quite an attractive guy in real life. But Tinder was simply time-wasting on swiping,

I never related to a video so much speaking nothing but facts

Do you have to pay money to get matches???

Bro it all depends some down to earth chicks are on tinder but it’s all about finding the right one

Ty

Right on man

Tinder is so boring the only reason I go on there is to screenshot girls

Good video💯

Bro if you wanna upgrade your self confidence and your charm, just work as a waiter for a year. Watch how EASY it turns to talk to women and influence people into what you want. Love is business, and business is a negotiation !

This guy is smart

The dating game has change for the worse nothing like it use to be 5 to 10 years ago

It’s a money grab ....you have to always pay

What’s your name? We can talk😩 cause we fall in the same category.

What is pmo??

I skip the dates

Tinder is probably not the greatest place as both genders can appear either nonshalant or vague. trying to find anyone in particular would be a 1% chance because it depends on where you live. when it comes to women using tinder, it's more of a natural selection of men to choose from. you run the risk of lowering your self-esteem after being unmatched or ghosted because you don't fulfill the necessary requirements of said girl. it's also a risk to your self-esteem because each individual girl expects something out of you. it could be anything, they may want you to flirt, to entertain them, to impress them, it can literally be anything if not specified in their bio. After an effort of trying to get a girls attention, you realize that you've portrayed a character that you're not. you end up doing said things like corny pick up lines, filtered or unfiltered pics, changing your bio too many times after many failed attempts. An endless cycle of "maybe if I do this, maybe if I do that" and then it because impossible to what you were even looking for. It's even worse if you're looking for friendship, you may end up harboring feelings for said person knowing very well they don't want that, maybe you weren't as interesting to said person, it's just too many reasons to go through. it's just a drug that drags you down further untill you've reach the point of desperation. There may be chances you find a girlfriend and friends off of tinder but it's not like most of them will last that long. Online dating is the absolute worse because it affects the way you think, especially for guys who don't know much about girls.

Documenting finding a girl lol