I feel like a lot more people needed to hear this than you thought...

Unlike other youtubers she isn’t afraid to show her true self which keeps her real and we love it!

My dad once told that he feels like everyone else is a grown up and he's just pretending. He's nearly 60 now and still feels like that. I'm 35 and feel the same as I did at 18 and can't believe I have a father who's nearly 60 when HE should be the 35 year old. The idea that my son sees me as a grown up hits me sometimes. One day he will know that I was just pretending to be one this whole time too...

Does Amber know that we follow her because we love her personality and imperfections/vulnerabilities? It's what makes her super relatable!

"I don't want to be beautiful, I want to feel beautiful" It doesn't matter that everyone tells you you're beautiful, what matters is that you feel that way and believe it.

“The more perfect you look, the less perfect you see.” Hit my SOUL

"If you're old, it's still Amber" Amber. You're absolutely right. I've been following since about 200k and you're one of the only YT'ers who haven't changed at all. Thank you Amber 💖 for still being you!!

"get you a girl that can do both. NO, be a girl that can be both" this made me smile so hard !!i love love this!

please keep this on here for atleast 10 years so then my 25 year old me can watch this again

Can we please appreciate the fact that she wrote a kiss for every. single. one. of her subscribers in the description 🥺🥺💕💕

Your authenticity is so rare & such a breath of fresh air! Girls never feel “good enough.” You’re right, the closer we get to an “ideal,” the less good we feel inside. You can’t put foundation over gaping emotional wounds. It’s really time we stopped this crap ie the filters, the photoshop, the plastic surgery tweaks & the endless cycle of still not cutting it. The truth is that perfection is an illusion & tbh, our flaws & quirks make us who we are. Thank you for showing us the real & vulnerable aspects of yourself. You’re a great role model for young women, keep it up! 💕

This made me cry so much!! Because I feel so insecure about myself, thank you amber for showing the world your real self!!! No one is perfect and I need to accept that about myself someday...

You’re NOT faking the life you live. Your alter ego is you, she’s apart of you. Even if she only shows up 1% of the time and even if you only show her to the world. The other 99% of the time you still getting money, you’re still traveling the world and you’re finally out of the hardest time in your life you never thought would end! Idc, I want to see Amber in her truest form and her “fakest” because either way your personality doesn’t change!!😩 I love that and I love you! Like if you agree 👍🏽💞

When you think you can't love any KZfaqr anymore... She's amazing. God, I love love love her. She has taught me to love myself before I love anyone else.

"I gave into it. Like I said before I wish I didn't, but I did. So there you go." For me, that was the realest moment in the whole video. It's hard being a human, and admitting to our flaws and weaknesses while owning them is actually a sign of major strength. Keep your head up, girl.

Loved this 💜

“Sometimes your decisions can just be for joy” is something we should all remember

You might be the only famous girl on the internet that never made me feel bad about myself you have always been true to yourself and to us, so i love you amber

I just fell in love with this girl! I love how realistic she is and truth be told I see her much more beautiful without she being “perfect”.

How can you love someone you’ve never met? We need more Amber in life ♥️

„Your eyeliner is the only thing that can be perfect, alway remember that“ - 2021, Amber Scholl

This really hit me hard in this head when Amber mentioned about the “perfect right time”. I always made excuses of not start doing stuff bcz I want to wait for the right time. However, like she said “the perfect right time is when you start doing it.”

Thank you so much, I really needed to hear this today. It helps to know I’m not alone because sometimes life can feel pretty lonely. I suffer from depression and to be honest I have never felt beautiful in my life. I felt pretty on my wedding day, but not beautiful. I completely get the break downs 17 times a day, I’m right there along side you. I would like to learn how to do makeup properly so I could sometimes pretend I’m someone who has their life together and looks beautiful and sexy. I don’t even know what that would feel like, even to pretend. Thank you so much for this video, your honesty and transparency is very helpful. I really needed this, I am a perfectionist also, which triggers my depression daily. Sometimes I don’t feel like I do anything right. I am grateful for this video and wish I had a friend like you. Sending you love and light to cheer you up when you feel down. 🤗💕

"the more perfect you start to look, the less perfect the image is that you see" i have loved watching you over the past 5 years bc of how confident and kind you are! thanks for talking about real things that we all struggle with. you really are beautiful inside and out (with or without makeup!)

This video came into my life at the perfect time 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭 TYSM. I’ve been watching you for YEARS! 🤍

Amber, you NEED to write a book, seriously. Your notes and everything you say, the way you do so. In love.

I've been watching you for so many years now and you still manage to cheer me up with your talks. You are such a light.

Thank you so much Amber. I needed this today, I’ve been feeling so alone, insecure, and tired of trying to keep up with the impossible. Thank you for reminding me to live life and to just make human decisions and to learn and be grateful for them. You’re such a light in this world and I’m glad to experience it. Love you 💙

Again: we just live in a judgemental society. Everyone is beautiful. But nobody is perfect. Social media is just toxic. That’s why I don’t have IG, etc. Don’t let anybody tell you that you have to be a certain way. Be yourself. Have a nice day everyone!

“Eat cake for dinner if you want “ - me literally eating cake for dinner while watching this: 👁👄👁

Thank you for being so open & honest. Also, I can definitely relate to living with that pressure of being perfect. As a woman, I’m expected to wear makeup, be fully dressed, go to my 9-5, come home to cook dinner, maintain a clean household, be there for friends & family, be there for your partner, etc. There’s only so many hours in a day & sometimes I don’t have time for all of this. I know that I’m doing ok in life as long as I’m trying my best, because I can’t give anything more than my best ya know? But whenever I don’t get to everything on my list I feel like a failure.

i could write a paragraph rn but all i want to say is thank u for helping me shape myself into the person i am today i still have a lot of growing to do but i’m still young so it’s okay. my self love is a new love i’ve never had before.. but it’s still love. we love u ur perfectly imperfect and that’s what makes u so amazing. thank u 💗

Everybody makes mistakes Everybody has those days Everybody knows what, what I'm talkin 'bout Everybody gets that way Everybody makes mistakes Everybody has those days Everybody knows what, what I'm talkin 'bout Everybody gets that way, yeah!

aw this video was really nice amber, love you

thank you for talking about it all, don't forget that its so inspirational and makes a huge difference in all our hearts, and we love you 💜🤍

Amber, your personality is so giving. Honestly, when I am feeling down you really make me get to see the real nature of the world... Which is that nobody can be perfect and life is actually about our imperfections... that is what makes our lives spicy. Honesty, vulnerability, and love, that´s what it is about. And I have to say after I opened to the world, I found my love in the other person. So do not be afraid to be what you are... because you are lovable.

Right before I saw this video I saw a quote that said " Instead of attacking what you hate, start promoting what you love. Become the love that you need on the inside."

Amber is the best role model ever. I’ve been looking up to her since I was 13/14. Love her

I freaking love this for you. Thank you for being real, the simple reminder that we’re all this human (even our favorite celebrities) is a beautiful one.

i literally love you amber. u arent afraid 2 show who u rlly are and thats amazing. so many ppl wish they could be u and by showing ur true self ur teaching them 2 just be happy with who they r.

My room always looks a mess. I don't always do my dishes. I don't care about being perfect. I am perfectly happy being imperfect.

Literally whatever the hell she does, she is gonna be my role-model FOREVER.

you bring so much light and happiness into this world. you make me feel so confident and you made me love myself. amber you genuinely deserve the world. i love you so so much. 💕

I’m watching this now as a more recent fan, I’ve already been going in a depression spiral and I was bawling my eyes watching this. This is exactly what it feels like in your mid 20’s and you haven’t graduated school or your disabled or don’t have a job and live at home and you see all your friends who have made it there and you just think, is any of it even real. I needed this, I cried my eyes out amber thank you for validating everyone and me. I wish I could hug you just to have a sparkle of your light. I really have not truly expressed what this video means to me. Truly.

Watch this while getting ready to go to bed ( removing makeup, brushing your teeth, undoing your hair, getting imperfect basically ) right when you’re done and you’re laying in your bed you feel so at peace

The Indian pandemic condition was giving me terrible anxiety and just when i thought nothing can help i received a notification that my queen uploaded.

Girl I needed this so bad! I've been feeling so over worked all the time for about 5 years and it's only now that I'm realising it. I work so hard to look perfect on the outside. Trying to keep myself looking perfect but it's such a false standard! Only now I'm realising doing things for myself can be amazing, I've just signed up to read some poetry at this open mic event and I'm exhibiting some of my artwork and yknow what I've never felt more fulfilled! You are stunning and have taught me that being true to myself is the most important thing in life! Thanks for inspiring! Keep being you! 💕

This hit so hard. Thank you for being real. You ARE beautiful and that's not just based on your looks.

i was always the chubby, weirdo, emo girl in high school and amber makes me feel so safe. i feel like she would be the pretty girl that i thought was so cool. i feel that she would say hi to me in the halls and always be so nice to me. idk man she seems so loving and uplifting.

I started watching Amber in high school, my senior year I went through a very rough time, being in an abusive relationship where I eventually was raped twice. I gained a lot of weight by eating my pain away, I've hated my body... Even to this day. My depression has gotten worse but whenever I watch Amber's videos I don't feel alone. It's a safe space to where I wont feel judged or be made fun of because I'm over weight. Her advice always makes me feel better.

Thank you so much for this 💕 As I get closer to 20, I’m constantly struggling with perfectionism and feeling like I’m not accomplishing enough. I don’t take the time to enjoy life. This has reminded me to stop and take a deep breath, have fun too.

I just love how honest you are, and make all the girls out there including me , that I am not alone in this. But Amber, even though most times you are not wearing makeup or other stuff, you are still beautiful. Dont be hard on your self xxxx

Amber , what you just did with this video is perfect. You humanized yourself to an entire new level. Be proud of you, you have courage, you is smart , beautiful and kind.

I saw this quote once that was like “you can’t hate yourself into someone you love” and I try to live by that 😭

This honestly made me cry, not just because I can relate on trying to be perfect but Bc of the pure honesty in this video, I have been watching your videos some 2017 and seeing you grow was beautiful thank you Amber❤️!!

Amber although I’m sure I’m not the only one, I feel like the one you said would relate to this and stuck around to listen. We’re all so proud of you. As open as you are, and even with the parts of you that are closed off, what you express and the energy you give off creates a harmony that attracts us to that. You have a glow and a gift. And thankfully you use it to help those who watch you, respect your, appreciate you, and so forth. Love you so much. I hope in all your struggles the lessons and triumphs bring you genuine smiles. 💛

I love the no makeup version of Amber. The real beauty is her personality. You just want to give her a big kiss on the cheek, hug her and tell her, "You are great the way you are. You make me laugh and smile. Thank you." ❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨

I love how raw she is with us. It’s so hard to be so vulnerable, especially to millions of people. She’s such a queen 👑

I love how honest you are with us. Most influencers don’t want us to see the real them. I love you. You’re amazing. ❤

you are so real and genuine and youre always here to remind me that social media is all fake i really appreciate that from you

The spider part made me laugh way too hard because I’m 21 and my mum went away for one night last night, and I ended up on all 4s on the kitchen bench, hysterically crying, trying to spray a spider for an hour lmao

Social media is wack and the beauty standards are just getting more and more ridiculous each year! As cheesy and cliche - everyone is beautiful and perfectly imperfect in they’re own way. Go at you’re own pace and do what makes YOU happy! Stay positive and optimistic, we only have one life on this earth so live it at its fullest🤍🥂 love you amber 💕

Oh my god Amber I needed to hear you say this! I’ve looked up to you for a long time and you always seem so happy and optimistic, so I think that you have it all together and I wish that I did too. While it’s sad to hear about your struggle, it’s also a wake up call that I needed to remember that even the happiest or most fabulous people still have bad days and struggle with mental health issues. So thank you so much for making this video and opening up to us and reminding me that I’m not alone. I love you so much girl! 💞

Ive only discovered your channel recently and youre by far one of the best and realest ones out here. truly inspirational

I really wish more youtubers or IG models would do this. Wish it was a trend to show what happens off social media or off camera & embrace it. I'm a mom & only get dressed up or look nice about once or twice a week, never really have me time, so I usually feel down or wish I looked like other women I see on social media. I really really needed this, thank you.

Amber: **gives us homework** Me: **eating a bag of mini snickers** that was the easiest homework I've ever had

I love how real and down to earth you are, such a humble and beautiful person❤️

I have followed you for a good few years now and I think this has hit my core cause you genuinely where completely and utterly honest in this video and that this the hardest thing to do as a person ❤️I have to tell you this but I appreciate this kind of video from you especially at this present moment

Nobody is perfect. Not at all. Everyone is perfect in their own special and unique way. So don’t try to change yourself physically. If still don’t like it. We support to get whatever you want to do with your body .

Thanks for this girl! I have gained over 30 pounds in a year. My depression was so bad, I went on antidepressants and even though I feel SOOO much better I hate how I look. And you know what. I would rather get out of bed everyday chubby then go back to being thinner and not being able to get out of bed for days! Sending love and light to you all 💞✨

i literally cried while watching this because it really hit home for me. thank you so much for this. it’s definitely something i really needed to hear. ❤️

I love both parts of you and I'm so glad you made this video because a lot of ppl need to understand and realize perfection is nonexistent.

*The more perfect u try to look, the less perfect image that u see* and thats the real tea.

I feel like Amber needs to write her own book on self love and a girls guides it would be such a good book

Soon to be 55 years old ..and your words of wisdom has many tears running down my face. This is the best video. I hope many more millions see this. You are real, you have alot of life figured out. You make me smile. Keep crying and keep being positive. You are awesome in so many ways.

I love and adore how real & relatable you are. Have a bless day Amber, you're so therapeutical. ♡

When Amber said : when someone asks you how you are, and you don't know whether you should say Good and ask how are you. Or whether you should Start shouting into the universe... The reason I live in my room, cause I'm to scared of being asked that question and not knowing how to answer. Cause I don't want to lie, nor do I want to sound like a reck

I literally was crying right b4 this. Missing my mom..mother's day is difficult. Then I watched this..and cried some more..but I feel a little better

I love amber so much she is just so real and genuine and I love how she builds people up and SHE IS SO GORGEOUS

Amber. This means SO MUCH to me. I started following you when I was about 16 (I'm 20 now) and after a while I sort of got caught up in all the glam and began wondering why my life and my looks weren't like yours. I actually stopped following you for a while because it wasn't doing me good, and this is the first video that I watch in a couple of years. Hearing you call your internet personality an alter ego and keeping it real like this makes everything so much better for me and I'm SO excited to begin following you again with the right mindset this time. THANK YOU Amber!! (P.S: I'm moving to LA this summer! Can't wait and hope to bump into you someday)

Dear Amber, you should be a motivational speaker by profession, touring the globe and giving speeches because we really need more people like you being transparent about their lives. Thank you for being there. I'm sending you positive energy and vibes❤

been going thru a rough time 🥺, this is really cheering me up thank you for being here amber🤍 and anyone reading this comment love yall

Omg Amber i just want to hug you! Like i needed this today, having one of “those days today”… I’m glad you are so real and forthcoming about real life,

Thanks for being open :) it takes a lot of work and we always think everyone else doesn’t have to work as hard, but when we share these things we realize that we all go through it.

Oww Amber for us you’ll be the most realistic person in the earth : wanting to be perfect but showing how truly you are with us

I’m standing here, questioning my existence, looking in your eyes and feeling everything at once. For a long time, I feel. Not sure what exactly, but thank you for reminding me that I’m human and allowed to exist, to make mistakes and to simply be. I feel you so much that it hurts that I can’t show you that, but I know that up there is someone who have a greater purpose for those like you ❤️

You know I started watching your videos a couple years ago. I’m considerably older than you, ( have children your age) but you definitely have some amazing I sight. I deal with depression a lot and somehow you make me realize no matter how old I am I can still do things that make me feel better. Thank you Amber!

It took me 2 months to watch this video but I don't think I was ready to watch it when you posted. I'm glad it showed on my feed today. I've been struggling a lot with self love and you've definitely helped me. It's not what you do or how you look that makes you perfect, you're truly perfect when you be yourself cause no one is a better you than you.

10:32 "Plato: Nothing ever is, everything is becoming." My girl Amber be teaching us philosophy disguised as girl talks here 😌🙌❤️

I'm here crying over school, while eating cereal, watching amber because she's the only thing that gets my mind off of life.

We appreciate ur honesty amber showing ur true self inside and out is the most beautiful thing 💜

when i say she changes me with everyone of these videos i mean it i take notes and quotes in all of them and she teaches me to be more than just the me that other people see but to be my true self that the world should love to find even if its in a small group of friends or in a giant crowd be the you that shows what people want to see and that people wouldn't care about because that is showing the actual you. (i love you amber and thank you for all that you do )

Can we have more real influencers like Amber. Ps. I’ve cried a week straight. If it wasn’t for Amber, these past 2 weeks in the hospital would have sucked even more than they did. Thank you Queen!!💖💖

amber never fails to make me feel safe and comfortable with myself.

Thank you for being vulnerable with us. It was amazing to hearing this .

Yass Queeen ✨💞 means a lot. So many young people on social media would benefit from showing their other side more! & we love you more for it 💞✨

Something I live by is “you’ll never get over and past the emotion if you don’t allow yourself to feel it.” You have to allow yourself to be imperfect to end up happy. Realizing it’s okay to cry and be angry and be scared is so important, because if you don’t allow yourself to feel it, you’ll never move on and feel the next emotion❤️

I started crying when you started choking on your words and it made me realize that I compare myself to others or how my body used to look like more than I think and now I want to work even harder on loving me for me. You’re an inspiration, I love you Amber, thank you 🥺💕

I really LOVE how positive you are, you can do whatever whenever you want to, ❤️ do not forget that youre perfect just the way YOU are! I Hope that you understand how amacing you are, and how much you help every other girl in this world. ❤️ We love you Amber. 🥰

I felt like frowning today and watched this, again, today. I needed this more than anything. Thank you Amber