i actually love this type of content, it's like when you're younger at a family party listening to the adults talk

I love watching both perspectives! Alfie (sometimes not all the time) has the “go getter” busy lifestyle catch up vlogs where I love watching Zoe’s where she has (sometimes) a more cozy day with mark or friends. Alfies perspective is motivation, future self, love and respect, projects! Zoe’s is mental health, daily sometimes slower life with products, projects and girl tribe vibes and good laughs with Mark. She has more intimate vlogs, while Alfie sparks a fun motivator vibe!

Such an amazing conversation! I think it’s really important that this is out there, glad you uploaded it! Miss you guys, hope to see you soon! ❤️

About what Raya said, I remembered it was the worst when Alfie, Zoe and Joe was vlogging for Vlogmas 2018. That time we (most audience) gotten 3 different vlogs of the same day/night event. I think we loved to see the different perspectives from all the vlogs. But it was so manic, I felt like a race of whose vlog was up first. LOLs. But I watched all of them. They were so entertaining and funny too. :)

I feel like the content Alfie and Zoe uploads is so different. Even if they spent the whole day together and vlogged you see a totally different perspective since they are such different people. I’ve definitely watched both videos about the same day.

I always watch both vids and love the different perspectives. I’m so glad you and Zoe accepted that you’d grown out of the content you made back then, because a lot of your audience did too, and we’re happy to have aged up with you.

i wanna say thank you for putting yourself through this for our pleasure! i really enjoyed watching you grow all these years and all your hard work really paid off!!

I used to watch both vlogs, usually just clicked whoever’s I saw first. I loved seeing how your day was the same but filmed in different ways. It’s crazy because I never even thought of it in the way Alfie did. Love u alllll

Absolutely LOVED this video!! Been watching both you and zoe for around 5 years now and I watch both sets of the same video personally 🤷‍♀️ Completely understand the girls' perspective and the reason you both stopped daily vlogging. Still love the videos and you guys regardless of schedule! X

I absolutely loved the video. Great conversation and so honest. I have been watching Alfie's and Zoe's videos for years now and just seeing how they have grown up together is so nice to see. Communication is the key and there is a noticeable difference of how they used to be on camera (daily vlogs) and how they are now. It feels more honest. Lots of love from Spain.

Great discussion. I watched Alfie's vlogs on and off over the years, not as much as some people. It helped get me through a lot of my depressing uni times. Really interesting seeing the real side of it and just talking about some damaging effects, I just found it really interesting so thank you for sharing this with us. And well done for keeping up such an intense job for so long.

Really enjoyed watching this! It was just so interesting to understand this side of things. And yes, i did watch both videos because i loved to see the different perspectives!

This ist such interesting content! I love the views that are combined in this group - and it helped me a lot finishing all my laundry haha!

I love this. It’s real and gives viewers a window without being invasive. And bringing Dave in to moderate was a great idea. He’s familiar with the life and knows both couples. Really well done!

Loved this video, from an outsiders point of view you can completely understand why it would be so much pressure to daily vlog everyday, when people first started doing it you think it looks so easy but you don’t actually think about the pressure to find content or to film when your partner might not want to be filmed. You can see the difference now you’re not filming all the time, although we miss watching everyday. On the topic of vlogmas I’d always watch both videos as the content isn’t exactly the same it’s always filmed from different angles or you’d hear a different part of a conversation plus it’s completely different filming styles and even though you are together you’re still different people. Thanks for sharing your life, if we hadn’t of watched your videos we never would have experienced Brighton, in which now we want to move there as we love it so so much! Keep doing what you’re doing x

I always watch both videos. Or everyone's videos depending on how many people are filming.

I will always be grateful for the period of time where Alfie was in our lives everyday. Some days, watching his video was the only 20 minutes where I could escape my awful thoughts and I relied on that to get me through. I am glad they are not under that daily pressure anymore and I love watching all the old vlogs 🥰

Kind of wanted this to continue for longer..

I feel like you and Zoe do a really good job of offering different perspectives. I usually watch Zoe's vlog first tho lol

Ive been following/supporting you for years now, i met you 6/7 years ago in Blackpool at the NCS Yes event, and met Zoe during her book tour back in 2014 - i'm 22 now, and feel like i've grown up with you. I can see how mature you & your content has become, still fun to watch!! So, i for one find this video sooo interesting, like a 'behind the scenes' that viewers like myself have probably never thought of. Props to you guys! :-) x

Very interesting video. it is very nice that you guys are so open about it. great work!

I'm not sure about anyone else that watches your videos, but from my perspective (regarding the vlogmas situation), I watch BOTH of your videos, even when you've filmed the same day, including vlogmas, I watch both videos. Because usually, yeah sure you do have some parts of the vlog that are the same, BUT you also find that you missed something from one person's vlog, you don't hear something in one vlog, but also the rest of the day and what you actually film isn't 100% the same. It's really only a small amount that's the same! Plus I like to support the people I love to watch regardless of whether or not I've seen it before. I rewatch videos sometimes so why wouldn't I watch a video that may be similar to one I've seen already?

I watch both videos ☺️🙌🏻 can’t get enough of you 😍 Zoe and Alfie

Alfie, thank you for posting this! I LOVED it! I think from an outsider's perspective, the bottom line is vlogging is work, right? So, if you're putting vlogging aka work ahead of your partner, that's not healthy. SO many people put their work (think business owners) ahead of their relationship and it can be detrimental. I was in a relationship for 5 freakin' years, and we didn't get paid to post on Instagram, but we felt the PRESSURE of keeping up with an 'aesthetic feed' because that's what everyone who was anyone was doing, so we'd put so much pressure on ourselves to do something exciting EVERY DAY we were not at our actual jobs. And if we didn't do anything that day, we would get annoyed with each other and get into arguments... it put a serious strain on our relationship. Chill days were not a thing. So I can definitely see where you're coming from. Thanks for this!! We can use this video as advice to not put our work (no matter what job it is) ahead of relationships. Much love!

this video was genuinely so interesting and lovely to listen to, I watched every minute and skipped nothing and enjoyed it so much, the insight is super cool to hear and I think it’s super important to share also ♥️

It’s amazing. I started watching Alfie in like middle school? And that was around 2008/2009 and just seeing the content evolve over the years to something as a young 20 year old I now identify with is amazing. Before I sometimes felt like the videos were a barrier in which it was just fun stuff! And now he’s been coming out with raw videos that are so honest and thought provoking. Love this!

I was wondering when u were going to upload this, I saw Rayas. I’ve literally watched it like 10 times. Loved it.

I always watch both videos when you guys vlog the same day! You guys are both so amazing!

Basically treated this video as a podcast. Was listening to them chat while doing chores around my house! GREAT video/discussion. The only negative feedback is Nala barking in the background lol

as a viewer i watched ALL of the vlogs religiously from every youtuber, especially the christmas party!

I always loved watching each different video. Because everyone's video style was different. Different points of conversation and all that! Watching vlogs makes us as the audience feel like we are there with you. So to be able to watch more than one view was nice 🙂

Nala snoring in the background is the cutest thing 😊

I really liked this video it was super interesting. As for vlogmas I would watch both videos I like to see your different perspectives on what you did

I love Dave and his videos! So good to see him here. To all of you - great video.

Been following you guys for years now and Im so happy to see you guys shift your content into something that I feel has more sentiment. I love you all! It was a joy to watch this x

What a great insight and thanks for sharing. Thank you for all the sacrifices you made whilst the daily vlog grind was on and the continued content you guys create.

I watch both of your vlogs on the same day ❤ I've watching both of your videos for over 10 years. I also just rewatch some vlogs when you're taking breaks/holidays. There are vlogs from both of you that are so relaxing to watch, I just rewatch them or have them on in the background.

Now this is the kind of Alfie Deyes vlog that I have been needing!

Great video - so interesting to hear from your experience!

Thank you so much for sharing this! It is so wholesome and inspiring to watch. I watched so many of your daily vlogs starting back in 2013 and it is crazy to think how much time has passed. You all have grown so much and I am proud of how far you have come (both professionally and in your personal lives)!

Also I always watch both zoe and your Vlogs Alfie regardless if they are on the same day 😂💕

This was such an interesting conversation! Very nice to have all the different perspectives (2 couples, 2 daily vloggers, 2 partners and an 'outsider'). I also find your honest chats as a couple very enjoyable to watch, because they seem more real to me than the 'fun stuff'. Also, I had never seen Raya before but she reminds me of Camila Mendes a lot (I think it's the eyebrows lol).

This was a brilliant video and was so interesting. My heart went out to Louis when Raya shared with him how she felt about the Balloon ride bless them both. I actually don't think many people appreciate how hard work YouTubing is, people just see the money/fame and thing it epic all the time so was really interesting to see the reality off it all. ❤️

Really enjoyed this video! I hope you do more topics like this in the near future. I miss the podcasts.

In all honestly through out of the years since the beginning I watched both of your Vlogmas all the time. Because both of you have different styles even though you spend time together. I loved Louis vlogs and its truly artistic and different at that time. He put up the standard and people followed.

can we just talk about Dave sat cross legged on the sofa like the akinator

I’m so impressed with you guys’ relationship! This was amazing!!!! I so emotional about how honest you guys are! Incredible!

Loved this! Always great to see Dave as well!

This was super interesting- loved this! It made me even think about times where I’ve whipped out my phone to post something on Instagram and how that might affect my relationships (and I’m not a social media influencer at all haha)

Loved this vlog, so good to see you all talking and sharing stories, so naturally! Would love to see more 'interview' style vlogs with a group of friends/family. Really felt connected to you guys and the things you were saying, genuine content. So nice to see you share the reality of the life and pieces you have chosen to share over the years. Thank you for sharing ☺️

I like this video and thanks for the insight. Love you all

How Dave managed to sit for so long with his legs crossed and not getting pins and needles! #hesmyking

Was I the only one who heard Nala snore In the 90 second video block?

look at Alfie staying hydrated 😂

It's so interesting to learn about everything from your perspective I've never thought about vlogging like that. Love that you guys decided to film this video!! And I've actually loved the days Alfie and Zoe both vlogged and uploaded on even more than the days only one of them did it. I've always watched both videos.

In vlogmas I always watched both and any day where you both vlogged I watched both. I watched your videos with my family while we ate. My kids loved doing that xxx

Thank you so much for this, it was so insightful. I’ve grown us watching zoe and still remember her first videos - I honestly did not realise really how much work goes into ‘daily vlogging’ but now that I’ve seen this and I think about it I see it. I think we all as viewers see it as the ‘perfect’ life as in like ‘wow they don’t even work they just film their fun days and can do whatever they want to do, how fun’ this video was so eye opening! I can feel the pressure of not being able to do the small things like sleeping in as you would feel like you could potentially be wasting time in the day to make content. Love you guys! 💓💓💓💓

I loved this video so much! You guys were so raw and the conversation was so interesting and smooth! Keep it up Alf you’re channel is one of my favs!

Why does Dave look so tiny sitting there inbetween both couples?? 😂super cute tho!! - Overall: LOVED IT!!! Need a part 2!!!!

Such a good insight to daily vlogging! I really like this style of video too, the chatty vibes. It's like a panel. Super insightful!

Can't wait for this!! Really informative x

This is so REAL and TRUE Alfie! Thank you so much for being open and showing us the reality of being a vlogger and legit the things you go through that arent shown. Thank you for being genuine! God bless yall ✨💖

Nala snoring at the end 😂😂😂😂

Nala sitting on Alfie waiting for Zoe to see her ❤️ Also I remember the first time I seen you’s (zalfie) kiss on a Sacconejoly vlog in their old house I was shooketh lol. 💋

This was so interesting and as others have said, insightful. Giving us just a little taste of actually how much time the whole vlogging thing takes. Its not just a few hours daily. Thought it was great that it showed how much of an impact it has on family,friends and day to day life. 😍

Thanks bro for giving us this insight in to what you all went through since pretty much day 1! However, with all the highs and lows and positives and negatives... it’s all brought you guys to where you are today - and with all that being said, would you truly actually change anything? Knowing it may have changed your path/course to where you are right now? Thanks again mate, always inspiring us to keep going creating new content! - Nathan & Sarah - ‘SHAWthing’

I love watching both perspectives of the same day, zoe's point of view is more relaxed and chilled while alfie's is upbeat and energetic. Also daily vlogging sounds like a nightmare, I would never do it😂

I always watch both vlogs. I start with the first one in my sub box and than watch the rest. 🥰

loved this video! so interesting! i watch both videos and love the different perspectives and styles, i follow you guys for your personalities so i’d watch pretty much anything you put up!

I love watching both of your videos !! I love watching all of each of your videos even if you guys are hanging out together that day and it’s all the same content.

We will always watch both videos!! If Mark and Zoe upload a video, we will always watch both!!

Really loved this video and I’m glad you guys decided to open up about this, especially the strains and risk for relationships and mental health. So interesting ☺️ personally I watch both videos because as zoey said I enjoy seeing the different perspectives xx

Saw this on both their channels already 🤘🏼

I 100% watch every vlogmas of both Zoe and alfie. Love it, and it seriously is the highlight of my Christmas season 😊

Loved this video!!!! About 99.9%% of the time, I would watch your videos a few hours after they had been uploaded and I'd watch both, but on the chance that I did see the video as soon as it went up, I would also watch both to get both perspectives

I always watched.. and looked forward to both.. I loved every second of both!!! Taking any content you would share..Because I love you two ...period!

I honestly rarely watched Alfie’s vlogs, but during vlogmas, after watching zoe’s, I’d go to Alfies 😂

I loved this video!!! Just so you know, I always watched BOTH yours and Zoe’s vlogs because you always had different perspectives on the same day... which always made me want to watch both!!! Hope you are both well! Cheers from America!

Great video Alfie! So insightful 💛💛

Nala really wanted to be in this conversation 😂

This video was really interesting! It's such a good idea to talk about that! Thank you for being open about it

I watched both all the time never one or the other!! You both have different styles of vlogging and different personalities!!

I always watch both videos and love it !!! ☺️❤️

I would definitely watch everyone’s videos!

I love these types of videos please please do more ❤️❤️✋

I would watch both. Loved this video, an open conversation.

This was soo interesting. Great video with honest talk

Watch both vlogmas/vlogs. Also it’s clear when something is going on in a vlog. Body language says everything. Enjoy both vlogs

I always watch both perspectives, I love it!

I’m sure I watched this video a while ago I’m so freaked out!?

Such an insightful video. Absolutely loved the conversation 💛

Really raw, really interesting! X

I love watching both vlogs. Seeing a different perspective. My boyfriends Always like: Haven't you just seen this? And I'm like: Kind of but no, not like this! :'D

For a very small youtuber like me, this is an amazing video to watch! Thank you so much for doing this and sharing it! 😊❤️

It's also very interesting to see this and to hear how it was for zoe and raya, because sometimes when I was watching the vlogs, it felt like zoe might not have been in the mood that day, and she ended up in the vlog anyways 😅 again, thank you so much for sharing this, loved watching it. People watching daily vlogs forget that behind those cameras there are real human beings with real lives and thoughts and conversations, they're not just entertainment 😅

I love this vlog i am still a subscriber i didnt watch the vlogs as often as i used to because i felt kind some of the content was genuinely from the heart but i still love the videos u put out and the message u present with futureself thank u for the vlogs

This was very interesting and informative well done

Legend says that Alfie replies to the ones who has been watching every video of his since 2014!

I watch both videos for sure

I like watching both vlogs to see what they do differently especially if theres a really funny part lol