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Hi KZfaq

Wtf suck up

You tube loves Molly 🤣 commented on a couple of her vids haha cute

@@meganmorris9284 a couple? 24!! Thats So nice ❤

Thank u It's not easy, especially as a single mother, I feel like I don't have help from anyone! the friendships i thought i had disappeared and its sad but i look at my son and he gives me the strength to get up every day to face the world 😢

We love you Molly and you are doing a heck of job for a new mommy. Sending hugs and kisses from Canada 🇨🇦 ❤❤❤

Your the best sister ❤

Yes to this ❤️ you’re amazing molly! And Zoe you’re the best sister to her!

​@@lilymartins1991I am sorry that you are going through your experience alone.

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Yes, if it wasnt for photos or videos. Would not have known it happened. Then the pandemic happened and my LB was 5 months. Off back to work i went to help.

Keep going. You sound like a real life super hero Mum 🤍

Why did her partner leave her for a month after giving birth to her first baby!? Is he in the military? What were his obligations, presumably schedualed 9 months earlier, that took priority over staying with his new baby and mom? Genuine question cause I have no idea who he is.

@@ellaovai read he is a professional boxer.

❤took the words out my mouth!

What a lovely comment. Totally agree xx

@@iam_bored1119 well how about you stop being a hater and create your Instagram and KZfaq and make your own money 🤦🏽‍♀️you’re giving loser energy !

This is what people need to hear. Honesty.

Totally agree with you Rachel

I’m sorry to hear you felt like a failure, you could never be you’ve literally brought life into this world!

@@cip438 I disagree with your comment. The pain and exhaustion she went through (from the birth through to the excruciating constipation- to the point she felt she needed medical attention) would be enough to cause trauma. Experiencing trauma and PTSD are different things. You can experience trauma and heal from that, although the effects will last in the mind, whereas with PTSD there are many symptoms that accompany that trauma and the effects of the mind, causing it to last longer. It does not have to be a life threatening event to cause trauma or PTSD. Please don’t confuse the two different things. One is a mental health condition/disorder, one is an experience that anyone can feel. I don’t doubt that she did experience trauma. Birthing a baby, the after effects of having a baby, the UTI she had, the tiredness/lack of sleep (a form of torture in itself), mixed with her partner leaving to go to another country would all be enough to experience trauma.

​@@cip438 that’s such a strange thing to say. Molly herself used the word trauma to describe her experience and I think we should listen to her, and any person that feels they had been through something traumatic, without questioning the severity of the situation to fit your own definition of trauma. None of us can say how another person is supposed to feel or not feel about their own motherhood experience except the mother herself. Also, undermining motherhood is very strange, Mothers are fucking superhero’s are their job is no easy thing! so pls give credit where credit is due. These women created, birthed and raise life, that in of itself is not “easy” it’s brave.

@@cip438 “Trauma” is an event that we do not have sufficient emotional resources to process at the time. This is why an event can happen to one person and they can recover just fine, yet an identical thing can happen to someone else and they struggle to process it. It is not about the nature of the event that occurs, it is about how well the person is equipped emotionally at the time that it happens. Everyone’s capacity and threshold for coping with difficult events or circumstances is different. This is taught by therapists when a patient is invalidating their own trauma, or under the impression they are overreacting or “making a fuss” about something that has genuinely effected them.

@@cip438 I’m not saying if these events did or didn’t traumatise Molly (only she can know that). I was just commenting on the subject of trauma as a whole, and the meaning of the word when used in psychotherapy. However, the human threshold for trauma does not differ because of the overuse of a word. That’s a very bold statement to make. People were experiencing differing reactions to the same sort of event LONG before society became more aware of these things, and started speaking about it more openly. The level of a trauma response doesn’t depend on what is objectively more or less severe of an event.

@@cip438 Why does classifying something like this as trauma “invalidate real trauma survivors”? The presence of one person’s trauma will never equate to the absence of someone else’s. Comparing the severity of an event to something worse is not something that should ever come into it. That just feeds into the whole “my problems are worse than yours” dynamic that prevents people from speaking up in the first place. To me, that’s like saying somebody that’s three weeks pregnant calling themselves “pregnant” is invalidating for someone who’s eight months pregnant.

Agreeed xxxx

Agreed also xxx

Very well said and completely agree!!

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Just wanna say to MollyMae that those feelings are normal, you would think having a baby/child, is the best thing ever but it really is very hard. Your own life is a little bit over. A child just take all your energy and time, especially when they are that little. Also a very important thing which I just hear you say, the epidural....... it is causing you to feel so bad. I have a book from a dutch doctor talking about the effects it has on a new mother and it is bad, especially your emotions are very normal. It takes around a year, up to 1,5 year to get the effects of the epidural worn out. What it comes down to is that an epidural makes you feel more distance from others because it does some terrible things with your hormones for example.

Bless you for being vulnerable and sharing with us. So many women will be able to relate. You are not alone ❤

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@@spodermantunes get a life mate

@@Konnielog cringe

agreed

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Sure did! ❤

@Maria CANCER i wish you all the best!🤍🤍

I didn’t click like before I watched it because I can’t like a video without pressing it

I did exactly this!

Exactly! And even if you think you’re mentally, emotionally and physically ready you can never fully be ready for such a life changing thing. I had a jaundice baby and even though I was told millions of times that it’s a common thing I still felt so alone and has absolutely traumatised me it has definitely given me doubts about having a second 😞 I thought I failed as soon as he was earth side

You’re doing amazing Molly ❤️❤️

I absolutely agree! My daughter is almost 3 and I still get the brain fog🧡

My daughter is 9 weeks old 💞 but I relate so hard, no one prepares you enough. A new life , new body and trauma from birth x

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I don't know why people want kids so bad. Your life is kind of over once you have them. All that work and then they will leave you for someone else when they get older. Some of my friends have kids and I see how little time they have. Just completely tired and have no time to do anything. Then there's all the expense too. Good luck to anyone who has or wants them but it's no fairytale. I respect people who have them but I don't know why they want them so bad other than a natural urge

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smashing it ha ha ha ha ha ha ha...she's an empty head

I gave birth to my baby girl on the 26th of January 💗 Congratulations

She 100% needs to see this comment !! Spot on about maternity leave❤️

No they don’t 😂. Most people only have a few months off. Also, those people don’t have 2 personal assistants, get weekly blowdries, makeup artists, stylists, cleaners, a partner who doesn’t work full time thats there to help, some not even a partner at all, a huge disposable income, a sister who runs to their beckon call, private healthcare, their own transport etc. Molly is a melodramatic, self obsessed moaner. Claiming she didn’t sleep for 5 days is laughable. It’s impossible and as she was under the care of the best postnatal health service in the UK, there is absolutely no way they would let one of their patients go without sleep. All you lot giving her sympathy is feeding her need for attention. Give it to people who need it and stop being so gullible.

she got the same 24 hours as everyone so she shouldn't be struggling theoretically

@@Bobby-vf6wd many mothers struggle with newborns, so idk what point you’re trying to make

@@chearileawheeler1540 like she said "everyone has the same 24 hours in a day" so theres no excuse to struggle

I went through the same thing the first 3 months. Glad to hear you’re way better! My son is now 14 months old and i feel like im getting back into the old groove of things. I absolutely hated the first 3 months of motherhood 😢

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Complety agree❤

As a mummy of 5 here I can completely agree with this, deffo going from no children to 1 child is an absolute change to everything in your life, and I would say when we have no children we live life selfishly and free. If we want to go somewhere or do anything you can just decide to go. With a baby you have to plan and think about everything! After 0-1 I found going from 1-2 is also hard, as you have this 1 child that is your main priority and you can just chase them round as a toddler, if you have your second baby close to the 1st then it is hard to look after a newborn and chase a toddler at the same time. And also after the 2nd you have less time to recover, you can’t just sit there and rest when your baby is sleeping because you have another child that also needs your attention and you do feel very overwhelmed with the amount of time you are on your feet straight after the birth. We had 3 children and my husband had a vasectomy as we decided 3 was enough, he went ahead and had the snip done then I started feeling unwell and the doctor sent me to the hospital as I said there is ovviously no way I could be pregnant and turns out I fell pregnant 2 days before hubby had the snip it worked out! I was 14 weeks pregnant with TWINS!!!! Omg the shock I was feeling was incredible! I felt blessed and horrified all in one go and going from 3 to 5 children was incredibly difficult! Just from the stares from people all the time when we are out with them, I’ve been asked if they all have the same dad, (they do, me and hubby been together since we were 15 and we are 35 now).

@@nikkijones7946 wow I can't imagine what a shock that must have been!! You are so strong ❤️ I did initially think I would like 2 close together but now I'm more in the mindset I will wait until he's 2 or 3 to try again for the exact reason you said about chasing a toddler with a newborn baby 🙈

100% agree. I’ll never forget the struggle of having my first son. I remember having the full on baby blues, it was so hard. Partly learning how to be a parent, partly losing yourself and the life you once knew. Nothing can prepare you. I remember being in tears a lot. Now second time around it’s so much easier, I feel confident and competent and I already know that the difficult moments pass and I’ve already figured out how to be mr as well as a mum. Those first few months are so hard with your first, but it gets better ❤ you’ve got this

@@sarahmcd9345 I have a 6 year gap between mine so that has helped, my first is independent with getting his own snacks and we can do activities like watching a movie together whilst I feed the baby and I don’t have to chase him round. That said, as he’s at school and has activities like swimming etc my second just has to deal with it and I can’t just stay at home if u don’t feel like going out 😅 so it’s harder in some ways too

@@hirsutuscanis look at yourself how cold you’re being

​@@hirsutuscanisshut up if you don't have anything nice to say

@@shalommcgilvary5609 Yeah ur right, bad morning and the algorithm was feeding me rage fuel. My bad.