She was talking about the wedding and crying, while hooking up with another man👍

I’m glad she has to live with the memories of excitedly trying on gowns for a man who left her. Cheaters are gross 🤢

She really tried on dresses and even cried while talking about her relationship while fully cheating… you gotta be seriously sick in the head

Just found out on the podcast that Desiree is single and no longer with her girlfriend…. Everyone in this video is now single….

It's crazy to think Alex was cheating on her fiance with Ned during this. She threw away 10 years and that gorgeous dress!! SMH!

I'm genuinely happy YB did her own video of trying on dresses and she did not have to do it in this video Seeing Alex in videos like this just leaves such a bitter taste

She knew he was married and had kids, and he knew she was engaged and an employee. Someday, when Neds children have to find out everyone knows they’re family history, I hope Ned and Alex get everything ripped up again instead of his kids getting the hate.

10 and half years and she cheated. Dam that’s cuts deep on a personal level.

Thanks for the reupload. It's really unfair to the other girls for this vid to get privated.

Hope she got that expensive dress and the alterations are done and she can't return it 😡

10 minutes in and I suddenly understand why they took this one down

Oh Alex. The amount of love and goodwill she had in her life. Look at her friend’s reaction.

I know kelsey and jared broke up, but god they were cute in this video; I hope they can still be friends after their conscious uncoupling, cause they just… remind me of me and by best friends. the teasing, the laughing, the compliments, knowing each other so well. they seem to really love and care about each other, and I hope they’re both doing well.

Watching this feels gross now that I knew Alex is a cheater. The audacity of this girl!

I love how Alex asked right in front of her friend how much was this dress again? 😖 and the friend was like we can make it work while she shook her head lol, good thing nobody needs to worry about that now 😐

Thank you. ❤ I was looking for this, coz I remember in the comments section of the original video, there were A LOT of people wanting to pitch in for Alex to get that expensive dress. Haha 😄

"You're going to be A MESS (on your wedding day)". Yup, pretty much.

2:08 "i just want to put something on and feel like a bride" i know most of us are wondering how she could go through with her engagement while cheating but from what she said in the video, it sounds like she just wanted the status of "bride/wife." she clearly didn't care about honoring her partner's wishes for monogamy or committing to him

I had a moment when I fell for a co worker and instead of pursuing I self sabotoged for months remembered my morals and values, ejected and got out of there

Hope she saved the receipt for that dress say goodbye to your fiancé and your money… oof

Ah. Yeah. I can see why this one would've been deleted. Fans flocking to this video would've been... A lot. Which is a shame, since this was one I'd enjoyed in the past. Has anyone found the other video?

The girlfriend of that girl was so pretty and nice everyone is so pretty and it’s nice to see everyone happy, it’s sad to see Alec

The differing opinions on whether to get married or not were so interresting to see, and everythign I come to try Guys videos for. I understand why they had to take this video down though

hey, i just wanna say that kelsey looked incredible in that whimsical silver dress. something ab her new hairstyle really complimented the whole look. the trumpet dress also looked insane on her! i was a fan of her when she went viral with the “sh*t girlfriends say” video or whatever it was & im so proud of how far she’s come.

I love Kelsey she has this inviting, awkward, but lively energy that just keeps me pulled in. Her personality seems real af, maybe a bit exaggerated vocally but keeps it legit! 😂 & the dress she showed in front of her man with the shoes looked perfect on her!

Imagine watching this again only to know that she had an affair with one of her boss while engaged. Pity the guy for a decade worth of relationship for him to be cheated on

Love how she got emotional about her love (Ned, was it?)...🙄 Whatever, Alex...if you loved someone so passionately, you wouldn't hurt them voluntarily. Stay single if you just want to cheat...

OMG thank you for posting this, there is stuff in this video I wanted to reference for my own wedding LOL

anyone else feel like kelsey still gives off buzzfeed vibes? lol I love her though

So I’m guessing Alex didn’t get the dress.

This was one of my favorite videos before all that happened, now it is hard to look at it (but thank you for re-upload)

Wow the fact she got so emotional over the dress 😭 but I guess she didn’t care about her man

Since Ned has a much bigger name, he received a lot of backlash but I think BOTH of them is to be blame since both of them can morally distinguish what is right from wrong as they have portrayed on tv that they are in a “monogamous relationship”

Rooting for Desiree. Here's hoping that her relationship is the only one to survive this video.

What kind of person says yes to her partner when she cheating on him with her boss just digusting and she has no morals

Does anyone see the similarity between Alex's dress and the dress Ned designed in Without Instructuons? 🤔

It’s a shame that the circumstances surrounding this video ended up being so deeply unfortunate because otherwise the video is good

9:47 holy shit, I have that exact top?! When Alex said they'd been together for 10 years, the top is the only thing which actually put that in perspective for me. I got it from H&M in 2013 and I still use it as a pyjama top because it's incredibly faded now.

Was looking for this video again to confirm something... This might be a cursed video. Only one person might still be with their partner

I know this probably isn't the reason for reposting, but I've been trying to find one of the dresses on here again because I remembered thinking it was so gorgeous and I wanted to add it to an inspiration board on Pinterest. Thank you!! I couldn't find it anywhere until this video 🙏

She was cheating while putting dresses on? 🤨

I'm glad u reuploaded it! I feel so happy!!!

seems that alex and will got together so young that she never really dated a lot of other people. just makes everything that happened make a little more sense at least.

Can we just take a minute to appreciate how incredible and badass of a human being Kelsey is! What an icon!

I feel like her tears were real. Probably tears of sadness. It’s possible that she really did fall in love with Ned.

Thanks for this! I searching for this everywhere!

Alec’s friend Jade was so happy when she saw her in the dress. Sorry! And I couldn’t figure out her name is it Kelsey? The Black woman with the curly hair and off white/cream dress I loved her dress and she was so pretty seeing herself with the veil and just laughing. That was nice. It was funny when she scooted into the dressing room in that right around the leg dress lol

13:35 oh my god the gasp i let out THE DRESS SUITS HER SO MUCH ITS LITERALLY STU. NNING.

Thanks for saving this!

When was the original upload date?

I’m here for the other girls because I have art block and I just generally love how happy they looked-She-who-shall-not-be-named is forever banished. Edit: Realization time-I’m aromantic and asexual to boot, but planning weddings for funsies is indeed, fun. Anyone want a Tanglewood wedding under a giant ancient tree, with a black and white swan wedding dress (custom designed by me-yes, I’m an art nerd) with one of the most prestigious orchestra in the US playing the music and a coronation-esc banquet? Perfect balance of elegance and extravagance and a crap ton of fantasy flair, under a vaguely starry sky or with fireflies. Hire me.

I loved this video so much, I was sad to learn they took it down😢

Kelsey and her partner are so cute together oh my goodness

I was really sad about Kelsey and her boyfriend's break up. I think they met on one of the buzzfeed Tinder episodes and they'd been together so long.

She didn’t look excited to be engaged like something is off

How long ago was the original upload? Never watched it.

I think the first “dress” Alec tried on was for NeRd. Then she tried on dresses for an actual wedding, but she cried bc she knows she scks basically

It’s unfortunate, really. For starters, it’s unfair for the other girls. Alex really had people fooled. That dress looked pretty on her, but she threw everything away. 10 years down the drain for some guy.

Everyone talking about Alex, I’m so torn about Kelsey and Jared 😓 But don’t get me wrong I’m glad she chose Hippo over him 💀

Alex's ex(I guess) looks like gentle giant, who would give best hugs... and Alex threw it all away for quick pop... I hope Ariel (+kids) and Alex's ex (I do not remember his name... someone please help me) are oki and ofc Eugene, Keith and Zach are okie...Shame on Alex and Ned... they deserve each other if you know what I mean

10 fucking. Years.

I knew she cried and all but she still lack of emotion... you feel that something was off. Now we know why.

Wont they just get this taken down as well?

Did Kelsey and her partner break up? I saw a dog video with her in it where she said she went through a break up ( I think that was her)

owww🥰 this is so cute hope no one is cheating in this video❤

what date was this uploaded on their channel?

Kelsey is really such an amazing person!

I love this because of Kelsey in this and deserie and Kat

Imagine being in an open relationship - I couldn't. Still less cringe then a girl crying over her fiance while cheating in him.

My brain can't handle what Alex's saying... WTH...

This has not aged well...😬

So does no one else feel like in that picture of will proposing she kinda looks like she doesn't actually care and is just putting on a fake smile?

Ohh my godd... I can't believe it. This video is one of my favorite Try Guys video. And i relized when the Try Guys said Ned is not longer again in The Try Guys and i see the girl “who cheated” with him i feel like i know her from a video and the saddest thing is i know her from this video which i reallyy like this video bcs this video veryyy sweet how women try the wedding dress for the first. It's verryy verry sad and disappointed

imagine throwing a 10 yr old relationship for a fling with a married man with kids. lmao. alex for sure belongs to the streets. really hope no man falls into her traps again.

Just a reminder that Ned was her boss. What she did was wrong, but she may have felt pressured, we don’t know because we weren’t there. That imbalance in power in their relationship may have not made it consensual. Ned deserves more backlash than Alex because he pursued a relationship with a subordinate at his own company. Please don’t forget that dynamic when judging the situation

These girls are definitely the kind of friends I want so much in real life and in books!!! 💖💖

This is probably going to be the only time alex wears a wedding dress

I don't know why watching the old intro made me kinda sad.

Love Kelsey’s hair here ❤

This didn't age well...

They deleted this just because it's about her engagement?

highkey I am in love with the woman who runs(?) the boutique

How do we know she was cheating during this? What was the timeline

Woof none of this aged well at all 😅 I can see why they deleted it

Why was this deleted from their channel?

Crowns and tiaras are two different things. I do not understand why people confuse the two. Crowns can be worn by kings and queens. Tiaras are traditionally came be worn by anyone lower than them.

Damn dude this is hard to watch lol

the try guys lost money when they pulled out this video and you re-uploaded it so you'd profit from the drama?

You guys are asking the same question but no one is willing to look in deeper :/

Wtf is the modern world coming to. 10 years ending in cheating. Open relationship? Wtf

I know like the drama is Alexandria, but the pink haired girl doesn’t love her girlfriend

I just wanna offer some food for thought. First, to be clear, there is very little you can do in life that will hurt another person more than cheating on them. It is a given that betrayal in a committed relationship is extremely traumatic and especially cruel if done willfully and carelessly. However, humans are very imperfect beings, and we live at the whims of instincts that were created out of millions of years of environmental influences that decided which personality traits were or were not more likely to get you to a place in life where you could propagate your DNA to the next generation and have them thrive to the point where they did the same. That's how evolution and natural selection just work. So here we are with a lot of instincts we don't truly understand and cannot truly control, made especially hard because they activate without conscious decisions being made, while the semi-artificial society we've created for ourselves is full of strict expectations, and expectations are step 1 in the 2-step process of disappointment. If you've ever spent time with someone you're not meant to be with, and found yourself feeling something you're not meant to feel, you should feel at least a little compassion for the two people who made mistakes here. Nowhere near the compassion you should feel for the people they hurt, but this is not a black and white world where you can only feel nothing or everything. Several times in my life, I have developed feelings for someone I cannot be with, lest I hurt their partner or the person I'm meant to be with, who is the most important person in the world to me. I couldn't prevent these feelings. The feeling of falling in love occupies a space that is different from the one enduring love occupies. Very few long-term couples can keep the falling-in space occupied; it's just not how the process works. I could only resist these feelings, I could not stop them from showing up and attacking me in the first place. I'm happy to say that I have always been successful, but the truth is that I am an extremely self-aware, self-analytical, self-critical person with an annoyingly strong sense of ethics (read: thinky autist) and I think I have some innate advantages over the typical person. I can understand the concept of being a little less skilled, or being weaker, and just giving in, because the world is honestly a pretty dark place sometimes and love is a beacon in the darkness. I don't know what the nature of Ned and Alex's relationship was, it might just have been really stupid hookups in the storage room with no real depth, or it might have been that they were both not with their actual soulmate and they were realizing it too late after recognizing what they needed in each other. Only they and their partners really know whether they feel appropriate shame or just annoyance at being caught. I'm not a religious person, but I have always found the phrase, "There, but for the grace of God, go I," to be an idea I need to remember, i.e. I could make such a mistake. And I've made mistakes. Not that one, but other terrible ones. I just don't feel like, in the absence of any evidence of overt cruelty, I am in a position to point fingers at two people who simply fell in love. I can say they didn't handle it right, I can say they owed their partners so much more than to let them find out the hard way, but I can't say it shouldn't have happened or that I don't understand how it can happen and that it's a crazy evil thing to do. It's not. It's just something they didn't do right. When you do it right, you tell your partner it's over, you break it off cleanly, and then you proceed. Not doing that is their sin. (I am not commenting on the manager/managed dynamic. That could also be problematic, but I really feel like consenting adults can both be pressured and also act out of free will in such a situation. I'll leave that for the lawyers to figure out, if it comes to that. I certainly hope for Alex's mental health that it was truly mutual and consensual and not due to a power imbalance.)

Knowing this I can see why she cheated, she had been dating the same person for years without experiencing other people. She made a mistake yall she alreayd gotta live with it

is the black girl not EXHAUSTED trying so hard to be different????

ariel is the wrong one here

She for the streets