Amazing work, Tejas!

Great work man! Love the "twist" at the end

Great story! Your storytelling is getting better and better with each video and that's awesome to see. Question: how did you leverage following a structure to edit faster, were you able to split the video into parts and work on them separately with a clearer sense of the bigger picture/feeling? Or was editing speed the result of having a better idea of the story you wanted to tell? Or both! Curious to learn more as I sit to edit my first video!!!

shoutout for the sauce. your storytelling was awesome. i was curious on how you put together such an engaging story in a 30 minute video on dating apps

it's too much. and not informative because so much is scripted that you can't trust what remains authentic. either it's a fiction either it's a document, it can't be both. information is serious.

Well, I mean, what do people expect? If you dont want to pursue someone on a dating app, the easy way out is to ghost. Who wouldnt take the easy way out? Especially if there is a chance that the person who you are talking to might go crazy on you if you tell them that you arent interested. (Weve seen plenty of examples of that online.) This is why its better to just date people who are in your circle, not random strangers. Go to church or a social club. I met my wife at my church. Heck, a few of my exes are from my church. I prefer women who go to the same church as me because we already have something very important in common and that's our spiritual beliefs. Its so much easier to find a mate this way than expecting completely strangers to treat you like a friend.

yeah but then still following them is weird asf@@avaliausd.

People were rude and just never contacted again after not liking the first date before dating apps

90%+ of girls on online dating are just there to waste your time, energy, money and emotions

​@@maenad1231the ghosting if before the first date and without any reason just because girls never wanted to meet but just free attention and validation

I totally agree!

90%+ of girls on online dating are just there to waste your time, energy, money and emotions

You make it sound so easy..

​@@denlugteneostall mental bro

wow thank you!!!

It’s good but not better than 97% of shows/ movies that Netflix has produced. You are actual delusional.

@@TejasHullur thank you for putting out amazing content

Sean! Appreciate you tons man 🤙🏾Let's link soon

yeah getting ghosted after months of them being like i like u i want u blah blah men suck i dont mind being a cat lady lol@@shelltoe_soul

@@shelltoe_soul good lord man, just pay an escort or something

@@shelltoe_soulwell women aren’t any better in person. I get signs of interest then get ghosted anyway. I simply gave up. The only way I interact with women is through work and I’m not risking getting fired for getting hit with a sexual harassment complaint

@@bro918 good point

Lol well that doesn't really help that much if literally 100% of the women you've met in the past 15 years were already in relationships. It's great advice for someone who is young, but sadly virtually all of the "good ones" get snatched up in their early-to-mid twenties. After that you're either picking up the scraps that have been rejected by everyone their whole life or you have to hope for someone's partner to die or get divorced, which is obviously an awful thing to hope for. Surely doesn't help that modern society treats finding "the one" as being clingy or some kind of disease, when it's really what everyone throughout history should have done. Instead everyone is just settling, and the divorce numbers show it.

Any tips? I’m about to embark on the same journey myself

But how?!? Im a girl and I've tried every possible way to meet people organically. Kinda sucks, at the age of 35, I'm already wanting to give up honestly, I might as well be single tbh 😢

@@goodness_graciousme you waited far too long for a marriage to occur. You always to think what men wants? Most men want young and fertile women and being 35 doesn’t help your case much. You will face a far tough time getting a man to commit and settle down with you unfortunately since so much of your time was wasted. Also, ask yourself this what skills you have that would benefit the men your trying to get? Since you’re youth is no longer something you offer and also can you safely produce healthy children? Do you know how to care for children, clean, and cook? If you have those skills and a pleasant person you might find someone. Stop looking at guys for looks because you’re past the time of choosing best men and now you will have to compromise a lot and bring a lot to the table for you to find someone. Everything aside good luck with your path.

What is somebody is afraid of social interactions?

HAHAH I thought so too. The girls were wrong.

Obviously you are not his target audience 😋

​@@realdavidpain If a woman swipes left on that, she's not the target audience either.

@@TejasHullur Neil Degrasse Tyson & Disney Ears Photos are how to attract Zillenials and even 89'-93' Millennials. Not zoomers born in the 00s lol

As a woman he was right to throw it out, even without the ears, the lighting and pose were pretty bad 😅

Love your energy, but it's entirely different for men vs women. As a woman, you have lots of options, especially if you take care of yourself and are decent looking. You can ask out co-workers, guys at the gym, or guys in the grocery store and the worst that will happen is he'll say no. But even if that happens, you'll face no negative consequences and still have lots of new matches and messages waiting for you in your dating apps. But for guys...we get very few matches and even fewer replies in dating apps, that's why so many men break and start paying for the upgraded plans. And as a man, every time you look at, show interest in, or talk to a girl, you run the very real chance of her reporting you to management or at least spreading the word to other girls. If you manage to evade being pulled into HR or the managers office to be told that you were reported for "making girls uncomfortable", you'll likely start getting ignored and avoided by people in her circle, and girls have surprisingly large circles. Again, I love your energy and you seem really sweet, but please understand that it's a completely different game for us men, and rejection is the the least of our concerns when approaching a woman.

Listen, I completely agree with what fuzzypanda is saying, and I see where you're coming from, BUT ASHLEY AS SOMEONE =WHO IS YOUR AGE, CAN I JUST BE TE ONE TO SAY YOU ARE SO PRETTY AND I THINK I CAN LEARN ALOT FROM YOU :DDD

Nice to hear that you try to look behind the pictures! =D how did you manage online dating? From what i heard is that woman get so many matches they don't even get to really connect with someone online, respectivly they automatically sort people out based on looks/photo. That must have been a lot of work right? I have to agree with the other two comment, onlie-dating is a very different game for men and woman, i stopped because it's frustrating and messes with your confidence until you hate yourself, once you realize it's not because of you it's usually too late.

literally have been doing that for the last two years. I want to whine about it but ive also been asked out three times and dated someone for a little. Less than a year on dating apps before that I went on a few okay dates but any actually exciting conversations on the app never made it to real life. I guess quality over quantity.

3 times time 0 *​@@TheLizard199

That's exactly my problem.. I dont have any friends.. well not near me anyway, I'm house bound and live in the countryside.. shit sucks. My only mates are online and we just talk about our KZfaq channels or other stuff but we're nowhere near each other plus most of em have their own lives going on with their own individual friend groups irl

That works if luck is on your side and you're someone who thinks that "90% of success is just showing up!". But for some of us, we can go out consistently to events, meetups, parties etc., yet despite having fun, get no interest from girls. I spent 3 years living in SF and went out 3-4 nights a week, but not once did I meet anyone, get a date, or a girlfriend. And going out with friends can be very risky. If you meet girls who don't like you, they can start talking and pretty soon your friends are avoiding you because you're that guy that girls don't like. Again, for some guys, just showing up gets them numbers, dates, laid and girlfriends. For other guys, showing up actually makes things worse because you get ostracized from your friend group and actually hurt your reputation.

aka have a life

That would make sense. I’ve noticed I’ll go a couple days without a match then when I receive the notification I have a match I’ll check it out and below the girls profile it will say we matched 5 days ago. They withhold your matches as well.

made the same experience, when you delete tinder and sign up again, you get more matches, after a couple of weeks you get nothing again, then repeat those steps

oh all the apps give you an initial algo boost.

appreciate you D!

Appreciate you! Put yourself out there! Soccer clubs! Pottery classes! The park!

takes time! the beauty of KZfaq is this video gets to live forever :) regardless thanks for all the compliments!

I've never seen his channel in my entire life until now. I think it's working.

@@drproton85 yep same it's clearly working tbh

Wow appreciate you! trust the process :)

Yeah I felt that especially coming into NYC. One of the things Blaine said that I didn't include is that the pendulum is swinging away from online dating in her data. Especially here in NYC I'm often trying to find groups with common interests and my best friends I made in the city are from these! It really is just getting out there

Your success on dating apps is dependent entirely on your looks. Dont have a cute face and at least 6ft to match? Spare your time.

:) rather keep things private

@@TejasHullur respect 🙏❤

@@TejasHullurayooooooo???

@@TejasHullur L bozo

no way you're here W tyler

my man!!

I’m glad you deleted the apps, you’re a very attractive lady do is no surprise you get plenty of matches, unfortunately men don’t get matches at all, so imagine how that affects your psyche. Ladies only swipe on chads and not on good average men.

most girls matches are low qual d pics,, doesn't count

Lower your standards and will find the perfect match in 5 minutes. Easy

I’m same as you hun! Wish you all the best of luck x

All the best!

yeah hey i wish you luck man - if you’re doing all you can, you have absolutely no reason to be ashamed or deterred if they’re out there, someone like you has the best chance of finding them

I think part of what helped is that he went to an event his female friends were putting on so he was already essentially being recommended by trustworthy women

I feel you, brother. You've done the work, you deserve some results. Two things: 1) Luck can definitely be the factor that tips the scale, but as​@sabrinusglaucomys said, you gotta pre condition your environment to "create the highest chance" of luck. 2) At the chance you haven't done so yet, gather your female & male friends, ask them to give you one last sanity check: is there anything about you, smth you do, or smth in your environment that's still prohibiting / limiting you from successfully connecting? Hope this can make the difference.

Wow thank you!

WOW appreciate you!

I was surprised too

MEGA vouch!

humphrey in the comments!

only for dating apps, shes horrible at every other facet of dating.

L lol l

means so so much!! thanks a lot

WOW! thank you so so much :)

💪Go red pill men. See the reality. Don't be a SIMP. Because SIMPs are the cause of this horrible dating market of today.

thanks so much!

Thats the goal 🤙🏾

thanks so much!

thanks!

Glad you enjoyed it!

Not that the other ones didn’t have those features, but this one felt a bit different

Appreciate this lots! The last part - mix of information and personal story is what I focus on the most :)

That’s great, and I think this can make you stand out from the “crowd” An explainer with a personal touch A vlog with the data to back it up Looking forward to see you hit big! You have what it takes to go the long way (i think)

Woah... super crazy! Thanks a ton!

WOW thank you!

aw thank ya!

Thanks a ton!

Exactly. Only from the men loneliness, and for the fun of females

Thank you so much!