Kristen's boyfriend Luke was at a house party at Tom's the night before Viall Files. So when was Tom up all night crying?

SCHWARTZ please stop bending over for sandoval like dont backtrack on your feelings with how badly he messed up your life too you KEEP GIVING HIM GRACE HE DOESNT DESERVE

JASON DO NOT CRUNCH ICE AND SLURP ON YOUR DRINK IN THE MIC!!!!!

As a server of almost 10 years, it’s so refreshing hearing people talk about the stress of working in the industry. When I saw shwartz panic attack for the first time I felt that so hard. To an outsider, having a panic attack while at work sounds dumb but if you’ve ever served a busy Friday Saturday night, you understand that feeling. (Also the breaking glass into the ice bin before your shift even started, SAY LESS. There’s no way that shift is going well)

I thought Tom had been up late because he had a party the night before the Viall interview?

Taking accountability: "I should not have been late. I'm sorry. I need to work on being on time." Tom: "I was up all night. I was grieving. I was out of my mind. I know I was late. Saw Nick was calling me a loser. I can't imagine calling someone a loser on our podcast. I get his audience. I would never stoop to that level. It was not a welcoming/warm place. And I'll tell Nick he was late to mine so I have no reason to apologize or be better" Many reasons why the first one is better but many consistently take the second route in life. Would love to see that change one day but very hard for people to implement that way of thinking.

Tom it’s the fact you lied to James (and everyone) for months and months that he’s most upset and you never talked to him about it even after it came out.

Once again tryin to make people feel sorry for Tom over the Nick files podcast!! LOL

Like, like, but like but like, like like, and then like, so it was like, like ya know, we’re just like your like, no like, like waiting, like right away,

I’m sorry Tom for the loss of your friend. I think the reason we still find issues with you is because you make excuses for your bad behavior. We don’t need to know the reason for you being late but you would receive more empathy and sympathy if you just owned your behavior. Just own it! Apologize and keep it moving. Stop making excuses for it. I’ve watchted you every season on Vanderpump Rules and you make excuses for your terrible behavior. It’s really sad to watch. Own the fact that you cheated , don’t make excuses for it . That’s it !

Making excuses and rewriting history is like breathing for Sandoval. Schwatrz....backbone my friend. You are better that Sandoval. Stop letting him make you look so bad. Conmen gonna con.

if schwartz doesnt speak into the mic by the end of this im gonna SCREAM

Tom, is someone paying you a nickel every time you say "like?" Jeez. Grown men don't talk LIKE that!

This guys a fool 😂

These comments are so heavily censored it’s a joke.

From 1 bartender to another: make large batches of the specialty drinks while prepping

I've been in the service industry for 15 years I could have listened to an entire podcast of stories you two have lol

As a #VPRViewer Tom Araine relationship never seemed deep to start with! So I wasn't shocked at all & don't know how anyone else was either! #hatersgoinghate

Schwartz, please quit rewording the dumb things Sandoval says as he buries himself further.You’re not his PR and we already know he meant it all exactly as he said it.

10 min in: Did Sandoval say Nick called him a loser?? Or did he mean Nick's followers?

Tom you need a lot of therapy your lack of accountability and delusion is crazy Schwartz you really need to have a sit down give him some home truths. And Tom you need to listen you’re 40 not 14 it’s time to grow up.

It is so cringy how shwartz acts like sandovals personal PR team. I hope hes getting paid for every single time he rewords and fixes eveey dumbass thing sandoval says - hed be rich!!

Everyone does not love Tom ..

You know like.. but I mean like...so with that like.... Sandoval you really need to pay attention to how many times you say like! Like it's a bit much lol!! 😂

4:11-4:16 they definitely cut out something right here. lmao probably another egotistical rant about himself.

Sex and love addiction is a real thing. Maybe consider if you’re an addict. In which case stop joking about being addicted to women and actually seek some change and help

These podcasts never seem to have an outline or agenda, it's just them talking.

Schwarts looks like a vanilla "where's Waldo"

I went to a medium and he was legit. Everything he said came true and it blew my mind. I even felt like he was reading my mind during the reading. He didn’t ask me one question. Now I will say I went to another guy a few years later and I didn’t care for his reading. It’s hit or miss to be honest. But I think it’s a red flag if someone is asking you a bunch of questions..lol

yawning every time someone else speaks... classy

Hearing Kyle say someone who tragically messes up is internally beating themselves up worse than anyone ever could dream of. Just bc people dont jump on the train of helping beat someone down who messed up doesnt mean they are excusing the bad behavior. It simply means your giving someone who is obviously struggling with their mental health a little grace. If Tom would've unfortunately left this world due to not being able to handle anymore of the constant bashing. Everyone who helped contribute to that bashing would've had blood on their hands. Bc it was obvious he was struggling and everyone could see that Tom was in a dark place. Also Kyle acknowledging he went in and took Tom's weapons out of the home was good for him to share. I lost my sons father 10/26/2006 to suicide. I know the seriousness of this much needed conversation I'm glad to hear Kyle talk about so comfortably on this podcast. This topic needs to happen a lot more everywhere and even brought to the kitchen table of everyone listening. You dont know how many lives it could save. Grear episode! Talking saves lives. #mentalhealth #suicideawareness #suicideadvocacy

Hi! So much to say here! Thank you for sharing y’all’s lives with me for over a decade. I’ve always loved you, Tom, since the beginning. I’ve lost so many people in this lifetime since y’alls show started, and I don’t know what I would’ve done if I wouldn’t have had it to find comfort in. I am so sorry about the loss of your friend, as well as the loss of those that were not really your true friends to begin with, as they turned their backs on you when you needed them the most. So happy for you that you have SOLID people like Kyle, Schwartz, Jason and so many others, to rally behind you. I personally live in Panama City Beach, Florida, and my late mother got her Masters at Florida State, so I feel a kindred spirit with Schwartz, as well as I let my best friend of 17 years, at the time, wear my “magical” black studded fanny pack, because I told her that she needed to go to Tom Tom, since I was not able to travel to California, this time, and she did meet Schwartz and get a photo with him which made me feel like I was there. During all this my mother passed away from the rarest stomach cancer, and then I was also diagnosed with Ductal carcinoma. And, I have since had double bilateral mastectomies, as well, as my father passed. I hope you see this to know that the charity show you did for the one child with cancer meant A LOT! I know this is long-winded, but to get to my point, originally is that I honestly got on here, not to share all that I did, but I said, “why not”, however, my main reason was that I wanted to come in and say that I’m proud of you guys and I immediately wanted to chime in with how disgusted I was with Nick Viall’s podcast. It was honestly gross and I did not like it one bit. It was VERY HARD to watch. We all put our pants on the same way, and I do not like how he treated this entire situationship one bit! Keep TOMMING ON!

🧲🧲🧲I dont remember the last time i saw something so rude and disrespectful as your behaviour and aditude on Nick Vial podcast... He was a good guest and gave you quality content as a guest on your podcast, i watched it, and you treated his podcast with Zero respect.... Next level lack of selfawarenes 💯💯💯

Hey!!: I think I just saw Jason in Anaconda #3... Wow Great Acting DUDE!!

Starting a podcast and naming it what it is after all you did shows you for the narcissistic guy you are. I mean to pay for a band and tour when Tom & the bar needed you & you owe so much money to your mom. It is so selfish. How do you not see that? So happy Arianna got away from you.

Come to Branson,MO!!

This is so hard to listen to, the different volumes and not speaking into the mic and then another mic being too sensitive...

"Which I was actually in..."- Tom. Jason was too, no credit for him though I guess lol.

I found the astrology stuff interesting. I don't find you boring Schwartz, I enjoy listening to what you have to say

Going back a podcast or two.....Dr. Drew is the same man that made excuses for Trisha Paytas and expected all her victims to take accountability and blame for making her act the way that she does so I don't hold any weight to him saying Sandoval is not a narcissist. I don't care how many credentials he has...a dr. can be completely wrong too especially when it comes to psychiatry. I'd say Psych Pop has it right when he made his opinion/evaluation. Once again....this podcast it's all about him and not Schwartz.

can someone tell me where the tweety bird story is? i thought it was on this one but it might be on nick vials

OK you guys need to re-frame & format this video, someone should ALWAYS be watching the audio levels, and omg plz have someone come up with at least 5 topics and track timing. play one game and where are your ad reads?? LIKE COME ON. Dollar shave club? so many missed opportunities here. also, pick some tweets or fan comments to respond to. VPR is currently airing! come AWWWN. nothings MOST EXTRA about this podcast.

There is a particular kind of man who is kind and compassionate and attractive. There is also a man who is attractive and just a gross human being. You get to choose, choose well.

Your vocab is bangin' Schwartz

stop 😂I cry every time I hear the Dina deadly song 🎵 lol I’m so empathic I’ve cried both episodes so FAR 😮😮😮😮😮 something is wrong with me 😅

what bar in roseville?

I know using the word ‘like’ is a very American thing but it’s so irritating for the rest of the world. It takes so long to tell a story

TOM!! Please Do the reading!!! It’s so so very true and very very very real !! Very very Real ; a lot of Charletons- just know what can be seen , can be changed ! Future and I hope you get a reading soon and see you come in and be such a beleiver! ❤❤❤❤

I'm so happy Rachel kicked you to the curb😂! I wish she'd of told the whole truth about how long you were screwing her, we know it was longer than you admitted since you lie about everything. STOP COMPARING JAMES AND KRISTEN TO WHAT YOU DID. HE WAS A DUMB KID AND IT WAS 10 YEARS AGO. YOU DIDN'T LOVE KRISTEN AND YOU WERE OVER IT YEARS ago ! You owe James an apology but you're too disgusting to do it. 😢

Sandy is full of it

Tyler Henry!! Ineffable!! Life changing.

Fun conversation, bad acoustics.

Tom Schwartz you have a good voice, maybe you should join the most extras!

I really loved this VPR episode it was intense & deep & fun…& also Jason showing up i loved …ty 4 your channel 🫶🏼🌻🌻

Is there any way you can move the guitar away from the fireplace? The musician in me is cringing hard. The heat is going to f it up.

this is what its like when ur in a group and do something without caring or think what did u think would happen really if that happen t you roles reversed then what ill wait

This is bananas.. 🙃🙃🙃

it’s better when it’s jus the two toms

a simple wipe would have sufficed

I want to know if James had a intimate bday party, if he can have the same amount of genuine friends show up

Im glad pump closed. It was a toxic place

Great show! I have done several months of research, hours per day. Visiting many Podcasts. Leaving many comments as well watching reruns of VPR, as well many shows. Wanting to help make shows better. I still feel there's a lot more to the story on VPR. For example: I feel that Rachel was definitely, the sacrificial lamb. Looking at the complete picture is why I understand, why mistakes were made. To bring back family values, I know it's close to impossible lol I am trying. And still doing my best! As exhausting, as it can be. I don't condone cheating nor misleading another person. I base this on the fact, she was with James and was devastated. When he found a girlfriend, within weeks of them breaking up. Rachel and her family were treated badly online, I've done research on narcissistic people. It takes a very long time to heal. To jump into another relationship, is close to impossible. That's why I've been saying all along that Ariana had to have known, what was going on. Or checked out of the relationship. Before the Scandal! Allegedly It's no longer a reality show! not when people on the show get hurt, as badly as they do. That is why I reached out to the network. In regards to the way they go about, making their shows. I did this from my heart. To get absolutely no response is like a slap in the face! You might think this is a joke, but it's not a joke to me! Not when I put in 10 hours a day for several months. I did research for over a year! Reaching out to the producers, not even a word back. I guess you have to be well known to be taken seriously! It's a shame, because I have my finger on the pulse. When it pertains to programming. I am a published writer, thinking they may reach back. I did a collaboration, with a podcast. Which was really nice. I'd like to do more. I was thinking about opening my own podcast. I wanted to stay behind the scenes, originally. There needs to be a change or the network will crumble. Between lawsuits, people going to jail allegations in all areas. I wanted to make a difference! I have an insight, you do not! People can have great ideas, and can make a difference! Yet, not be well known! Nobody is better than another! When my day arrives, I will be there for who, believe in me! Bring at least Some Family Values back! It's a must before it crumbles. I am trying my best. A big fan as well. Thank you Love & Light

Good Morning Tom's! Just wanted to say I'm proud of both of you for pushing through such a tough year. I know not everyone can see how you've grown, but I do. Keep your head held high.

Everybody Loves Tom! Yep I Do♥️Not hatin on you. Just make better choices in your love life..Your Funny great Podcast.

I don’t see this lasting

Sandoval, lots of us remember your kindness to people on the show.

Just my opinion Schwartz needs to let the friendship go with Tom because it’s still 40 year old man child pity party bs.

I enjoy when the Tom's talk about their craft 🍸🍷🥂🍹 and the old days in Hollywood. They actually have good tips! Will remeber the one about the champagne 🍾 Good advice🥂

All about the hygge

I can't watch VPR anymore as the toxicity level is too much for my sensitive constitution.... BUT your podcast has really fun, funny, interesting banter, so it's a pleasurable listen.

What’s up with that huge green Christmas ball decoration on the table?

Great Show ❤

Another great episode! ❤

I love you tom. Ignore fools who say stuff. Also if your best friend tom there is not with u is really horrible. He lets that group pull him around. Tom so what a affair. You do not owe anyone anything. One just ariana yes. But your friends did not stand by you. And shena oh my gosh. She thinks she is all that. She is not. You are human so is raquel too. I truly hope you and her get a chance to test a true relationship. Ariana is not the boss and last show. Was acting just like you said speaking up for others. Also who ever asked tom were u invited. Hey its a free world. Geeezzz. She flat out said wanted nothing to do with. I would never speak to her again. She was saying you this and that. You will learn Bull. If you skip out on tom your best friend then you were never a friend at all. Also andy cohen. I feel he stirs the pot. I hate his show very dumb. Because u were on tv. These nasty people hating on you was like sicking.

Ok I'm just commenting on the weather. Atmospheric river. Google British Columbia Canada 2021. We had that but not just an annoyance. My city the highways washed out and we were cut off for over a week. No way in No way out except an airplane or boat. It's not a joke. It is a big deal. So sorry your back yard has water. We had to hope the plane brought enough food in and that we were there to get it as yeah a mainland city became an island. There's documentaries out there about it. Sorry you got scared on the roads. Call an Uber.

Does Tom Sandoval have dyslexia? Would be a interesting to know 😊

Love you Tom

You’re back, Tom. Mazel Tov on weathering the storm. And Go Noles, Schwartzy.

#Hypocrites attacking Tom/Rachel should climb down off their cross acting like affairs don't happen everyday!❤🎉❤

People need to leave Tom alone ..what a bunch of hypocrites...these people have all cheated since day one! Does Noone ever watch the show!!..if you think shayne or Lala or any of them are innocent..give me a break..just watch all.... The seasons...Tom actually has always had everyone's back...

Sandoval, I agree with you about Nick’s podcast. I thought he was rude and condescending to you the whole time. Very cringy.

Dude.. DUDE.. quit making EXCUSES!

Tom Tom Tom Seriously you are the BIGGEST MANIPULATOR! Tom's excuses blow my mind! And Schwartz just excusing his bad behavior Every time! You both just lost me! I can't listen to these two anymore!

I feel like there is a lot of immaturity in people expecting you to continue to take it in the a.ss after the scandal. Paying bills matters, especially when you try and say it's psychotic to want to live there. She didn't mind moving into his apt he had with Kristen, and seriously.....if Ariana wanted marriage and kids and you are STILL staying in a relationship, the audience would be pressuring Tom to propose and accuse him of leading her on. They would have also used that as an excuse to back Ariana cheating. They'd say "you treated her like shit, so of course she went for the guy who treated her good!" .... Ariana's tone and demeaning behavior on the show is now how you do your partner, and once again had Tom done that, he would have been demonized. It also was bogus considering she claimed her last BF talked to her awful and made her insecure by criticizing her body .... But she would act grossed out and hinged if he hugged her at times...on camera! Yeah no. In Lala's defense, at least she had Randall's ugly ass back no matter what and kept the problems private. She didn't demean him and yet nobody felt for her to be cheated on. She never wanted traditional, including wearing the pants in the relationship so she doesn't get to call "the man should be courteous of the woman" card

james, "wjen are you going to grow up, Tom"? than he pees on Tom's bush....james is so immature...

S u tom

To be honest I feel that if Tom wants to keep his house he should. And if Ariana has moved on with her life, she shouldn't care. He's offering her a pretty substantial amount. It's clear to most people, that this relationship was in big trouble in 2015 if you do your research. Granted, it should have been dissolved back then, but hindsight is 20/20. We are all human and we all make mistakes. The trick is, to not keep making them. If you don't want to learn it's on the person. Believe it or not I'm just trying to do my best. As I have been for over a year. All The Best Rhonda

Arianna always played poor victim card when she was the other woman who had a affair with Tom now she's just a abusive #MeanGirl ppl need to grow up especially Toms business partners shaming him when everyone of them has their own affairs dirty laundry they need to address!🎉❤❤ #TomSandavol #RachelLeviss are strong amazing ppl who made mistakes and are owning up to them like Adults do instead of trashing others like arraine is doing! #CancelCulture is disgusting!!!

Do you need a tissue Tom?

Here to support Sandoval 🙌 we're fucking human!! Be you ❤

🤢🤢🤢

Tom I've never liked your actions and the song about your best buddies mom is horrible! You need to be honest about yourself.

Yeah i think nick was a d. All he did was attack the toms. Hes def an enemy disguising as a "friend" . Didnt like him

So sick of Ariana playing the victim role. She's a snobby mean girl. Watching Sandoval's new podcast here, I've really started to like him for the first time. He'll have his day when he becomes the #1 man of the show, bet. 😂

we love u tom, we gotta forgive.....& james sux (ALONG WITH THEM WITCHES)

Please attempt to make a sentence without the word like every other word. Truly distracting and a horrible way to communicate.

Hey Tom and Tom. First off glad you're not in that relationship anymore with Arianna. You didn't need her. You are doing much better ever since to me. Also schwartz have you ever watched space balls? Useeee the Schwartz!..

At the End of the Day....We all Screw up....not saying its alright....but REAL

Ariana is so mean! This second episode really showed how petty she is and how she really just doesn’t want to move on. Also, why is her room such a mess! It’s like a high school child’s room

Tom Sandoval is so hot.