The virginity fraud

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10 ай бұрын

Nina Dølvik Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl are sexual health experts who focus on a specific piece of anatomy - the hymen - to challenge the stories that have existed for centuries as ways to control female sexuality, desire, and value. This talk was filmed at TEDxOslo.
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@foureyedfreak 10 ай бұрын

The title got me clicking on the video immediately

@zohidjumanazarov8876 10 ай бұрын

Lol

@Ahonghekiaaksisj 10 ай бұрын

Me too

@flyguyry1 10 ай бұрын

Bc you dont want to be one? ;)

@rishisingh9299 10 ай бұрын

Also me😊

@anyanwuvictory4297 10 ай бұрын

Me too

@sugueigo 10 ай бұрын

This content really educates me. Thanks.

@adestemitope9730 10 ай бұрын

I am listening and watching to learn

@stayhappylittlemermaid 10 ай бұрын

Its not going to be easy but its going to be worth it.

@midiariofamiliar8112 10 ай бұрын

Hello, very interesting topic, greetings ❤

@tommac21 5 ай бұрын

Can you do a video on psychology and therapy fraud ?

@richardpauly1635 10 ай бұрын

Podcast no video only sound

@somarajukottu1440 10 ай бұрын

Video is not playing

@neen42 10 ай бұрын

Because there is none

@granhtmagalongshs7489 10 ай бұрын

Good

@freethinker4306 10 ай бұрын

I clicked on it for my own depravity, but ended up getting getting some good medical advice. I don’t know what I’ll do that at this point in my life but at least I heard it.

@jonbourgoin182 10 ай бұрын

Are you even a chick?

@Grendygirl 10 ай бұрын

I agreed with everything said in the video, there is no virginity check for MEN...smdh

@bazinga-tt9pj 10 ай бұрын

A broad is a broad, man or woman. When it comes to pursuing relationship, you can neither demand nor expect who your chosen one will be. Naturally, it's by your own opinion and noone else's.

@flyguyry1 10 ай бұрын

How is this related to the video?

@joeh4295 10 ай бұрын

I find the term "broad" when referring to woman as rather offensive. I've been married for 30 years and have 3 daughters. I never liked that term, even as a teenager.

@bazinga-tt9pj 10 ай бұрын

@@joeh4295 I don't care

@9770G 10 ай бұрын

Actually u can in fact demand and expect for what your partner should be, and if the person isn’t, u can just not pursue them. That’s why men kick woman who sleep around back to the streets where they belong 😂

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

@@9770GAnd that’s why woman kick out men, to the streets, where they belong

@Giga-Ra 10 ай бұрын

Never seen it 😊 Very interesting why creator included it 🤔

@vr3766 10 ай бұрын

Audio

@alayejon 10 ай бұрын

Maybe there's a full version or a better explanation and I'll rather watch that than draw any hasty conclusions. Meanwhile I thought all TEDx on KZfaq were both audio and video. Wondering why this seems to be like an audio only podcast that was converted to video with a still image of the thumbnail

@CharleneCTX 10 ай бұрын

As always with the TED shorts, the link to the full version is in the description.

@angelrogo Ай бұрын

Will ever feminists understand that virginity is a state of the soul, not of the body? Will ever women stop shaming men for being virgins?

@mohamedhaadi6012 10 ай бұрын

Waw😮

@bjornopitz6561 10 ай бұрын

Not sure Oslo is the right place to talk about this...

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

Or : one of the best

@suvuru 10 ай бұрын

What do you mean?

@udaan2001 9 ай бұрын

Today, in most of the countries, making a woman say "Yes, I do", has become so so so difficult. And as a consequence, issues like virginity are not getting discussed. This is a true progress to the society. Isn't it?

@raecarroll100 10 ай бұрын

Virginity is much more and it is sacred! And to be valued by the individual and the privacy of the individual respected by outsiders whose body is not theirs!

@yaeli_i_guess 10 ай бұрын

that's your opinion lol

@chaoswitch1974 10 ай бұрын

lol what a joke

@bazinga-tt9pj 10 ай бұрын

@@yaeli_i_guess It is indeed their opinion lol.

@Fluffysocks3124 10 ай бұрын

This is dangerous thinking. Virginity is a made up construct to shake women.

@stephaneboisjoli1320 10 ай бұрын

Yah sure. Let's put a value on starvation too while we're at it, and being clueless. Because that's what you're advocating.

@parabellum4622 10 ай бұрын

A girl never forgets her first...

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

What about a boy?

@nilanshupatel6504 10 ай бұрын

1st views

@cthulawha 10 ай бұрын

Chick didn't really debunk anything just ranted about virginity being unimportant and a study of 36 people is hardly scientific lol,

@prosperkandafula7547 10 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OG

@yaeli_i_guess 10 ай бұрын

well it isn't lmao provide your own studies

@bazinga-tt9pj 10 ай бұрын

@@yaeli_i_guess to do that, he would have to falsify results just like the one speaking on a podcast.

@yaeli_i_guess 10 ай бұрын

@@bazinga-tt9pj source: trust me bro

@bazinga-tt9pj 10 ай бұрын

@@yaeli_i_guess so basicly what you just did there is say that a certain someone who's opinion you agree on, with next to none scientific creadibility, academic studies that dont qualify because of too small number pool is clearly in the right against someone in the comments, with an opinion you don't like, yet has nothing to show in study materials because that someone chooses not to falsify their non existant results.

@mykenmoon 10 ай бұрын

This is not an idea that is worth spreading. How are surveys done? By asking participants. How many virgins are out there and at what age?

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

You did get, that there are no questionaries used but physical examination? Also: what idea should not be spreading? That women are not treated like lifestock on the market?

@tyan_ldn 10 ай бұрын

Just say that you regret your past and move on

@9770G 10 ай бұрын

Exactly

@SirWeedBongVentura 10 ай бұрын

YEAH!

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

Why would you have to say that?

@tyan_ldn 10 ай бұрын

@@sandra.helianthus because it’s so obvious

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

@@tyan_ldn you mean, you have to say sorry to your new partner bc they are not able to grasp that you are not an object they aquire and that you lead a life before them? 🤔 Or do you mean anything else obvious?

@lutherpaoh6865 10 ай бұрын

I don't understand nothing from this 🤣 wbu guys

@esonamsiwa4176 10 ай бұрын

No wander you don't understand anything from this, you also don't know how to spell😂😂

@quicktipsranger762 10 ай бұрын

I have never seen so many women complaining about being their choice what they do what their bodies, i don’t think they understand that men will never change their minds about self respect, at least not most men unless you are just like that and accepted you have non but otherwise it just won’t change, women’s insistence on this subject to do as they like without being judged will never change, so if you like doing that do it without others knowing because you will either stay single because you have no choice or say “all men are the same I never found a decent one”, well that’s your fault 🤷🏻‍♂️, I repeat it will never change Also I didn’t listen to this properly, I skipped so…. Yeah

@ryancooper1144 10 ай бұрын

U didnt miss much. Both of them recommended women to lie about their virginity

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

@@ryancooper1144umm that is a lie actually. It simply is no ones business and should not be.

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

Not sure what you mean by this. Men are incapable of taking in scientific knowledge? Men are incapable to adjust to moral respecting human rights? Men are just incapable? Just wonder. And therefore not sure now anymore why women should partner up with such people in the first place 🤔

@ryancooper1144 10 ай бұрын

@@sandra.helianthus She clearly said and I quote: "How she answers this question is her choice." Lying is a choice.

@sandra.helianthus 10 ай бұрын

@@ryancooper1144 interesting, that YOU even CONSIDER a lie as an answer. And seemingly, a lot of men in the comments did so, too. I am genuinly surprised about that, bc I wouldn't and I am very, very sure this was not what's recommended here. The answer of choice would clearly be: "I do not want to answer this question, (bc it is non of your business)". But I am a woman, I obviously think differently. However, I am taken aback that men think of lying here. Gives me a new perspective on men. 🤔

@BYU2726 10 ай бұрын

All across time and all cultures men has valued women virginity as virtuous

@yaeli_i_guess 10 ай бұрын

all across time and all cultures men have been a menace to society

@stephaneboisjoli1320 10 ай бұрын

Because they wanted to control them. It's chauvinistic, end it.

@slimshady3032 10 ай бұрын

@@stephaneboisjoli1320 thats bcuz they wont wanna ride a used vechile ...

@stephaneboisjoli1320 10 ай бұрын

@@slimshady3032 is that why most men are single? The same rule is applied to them?

@naomihatfield3015 10 ай бұрын

Oh, we’re CARS now? Okay. There’s a reason that inexperienced drivers have to pay higher insurance premiums….because everyone knows that they’re clueless.

@ryancooper1144 10 ай бұрын

I really had high hopes from them telling an alternate solution. Man, i am really disappointed, they simply recommend women to lie.

@yaeli_i_guess 10 ай бұрын

what alternate solution do you want lmao

@stephaneboisjoli1320 10 ай бұрын

It's none of their bleeping business what you did. Few men have to answer this question so why should women? It's obvious and plain discrimination, don't fall for it.

@ryancooper1144 10 ай бұрын

@@stephaneboisjoli1320 how many men are offered free drinks and access to VIP lounges? I see no problem with men having a preference for women who have standards and dont bleep around.

@Grendygirl 10 ай бұрын

@@ryancooper1144 who are they sleeping around with? other men!!! why don't you have standards for yourself

@marlenaneedham3818 4 ай бұрын

@@ryancooper1144OK wait, some places offering women free drinks and access to VIP Lounges to boost turnout is not computing to their worth to me. Can you explain it?