The Whole Truth | Diving In Deep with Sara Evans Ep. 01

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4 ай бұрын

Join renowned country star Sara Evans as she embarks on the next phase of her journey... podcasting. Her new show, Diving in Deep, gives her the space to share another side of herself and her music. In this debut episode, listeners learn the much anticipated story behind Sara’s newest single, “Pride,” and hear first-hand the details of the trials of her relationship with husband, Jay Barker. Sara recounts the initial love story, revisits the challenges, and unveils for the first time the pivotal 2020 moment that led to a separation and divorce filing. She speaks about where they have landed today and the work that got them there.
Raw. Reflective. Transformative.
If you or someone you know is currently navigating an abusive relationship, please know that support is available.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers confidential assistance, resources, and a compassionate ear. You can reach out to them at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), or visit their website at www.thehotline.org for invaluable information and safety planning tips. For those more comfortable with chat-based support, the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides a live chat feature on their website by texting “START” to 88788.
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@ViridisSolen 4 ай бұрын

Speaking as a woman who has now left behind two bad marriages, I don't judge you for staying. Because you didn't stay. You left, he did the work, and you came back to solid ground. The reason, I think, that a woman like me would judge you is that not many men/partners like that actually do the work. They walk away and fail to swallow their pride. Mine went to prison for his choices. My son had to be the one to tell me to leave. That hurt. A LOT! I'm glad you found a way to stand up for yourself and that he chose to take the wake up call for what it was. The fact that you can tell this story on this platform speaks volumes about where he's at now. Because none of my exes would tolerate me telling the truth. I've never really experienced a man doing 'the work.' I'd love to meet more who do.

@lorelireynolds3541 4 ай бұрын

Thank the Lord for forgiveness. No one knows this situation outside of their family, please let them heal without judgement.

@Jennifer-bk3qs 4 ай бұрын

I have listened to you from your beginnings, from when I was living in Arizona, I went thru a calm divorce, then met a new guy, who wooed me, moved to IA had 3 kids & he left. Abused emotionally, I was scared to call it quits, raising 3 babies on my own & running a farm, with critters & hay to grow & harvest, as he fled to another state. Your song Stronger I would sing from the top of my lungs as I drove alone, tears falling down my cheeks... I pray you feel how much your heartfelt song helped me get stronger. Its all I was raised to be. And when you said you hurt for Jay, picturing what he was going through when he was arrested, I went through the exact, same, feelings. But my ex never wanted to get turned around... So here we are 12yrs later, he has no relationship with his kids.. I am still On my own, no partner, on our farm, that I work for with literally my blood, sweat, & tears, & my kids are turning out beautiful with God in their hearts.

@diann824 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Sara this wasn’t easy! This broke our hearts when it all happened! God sometimes makes things wrong to make them right! So happy your family is healing together! You all deserve it ! Blessings

@amyslilmer8 4 ай бұрын

Sara, I get it. I worked with victims of crime for over 25 years. People are not always going to understand. Abuse does not end until both people heal. I am so happy to hear you and Jay are growing stronger. Neither of you are your past. Marriage always takes work. You both deserve to love and enjoy each other. You are in my prayers.

@RAB19751 4 ай бұрын

🫶🏻

@pats4214 4 ай бұрын

Jay got himself thrown in jail is right. I hope he got his anger management problems dealt with. I think it is great that you are talking about this because so many women do deal with this problem. I don't think marriages should be thrown away. You can get back and become stronger. I saw Sarah last year and she puts on a great show. Many prayers for your family and their happiness.

@plantlady8045 4 ай бұрын

Eek. Lots of judgmental people in the comments between here and TikTok 😳 Yes there are 2 different sides to each story. This is Sara’s truth. Respect it. Sara knows what is going behind closed doors and knows what’s best for her and her family… especially her kids. Keep your chin up Sara, you’re amazing. I look forward to your new album ❤

@Mar-ny1xv 4 ай бұрын

The people who judge don't matter, they're close minded hypocrites... She said her self he will be on the podcast eventually and this is her truth, so if u have nothing nice to say say nothing

@kayp.3832 4 ай бұрын

You only get to "tell your truth" if you take the standard feminist route. Otherwise you're "weak"

@ChristineMaz 4 ай бұрын

I don’t know, Sara. I’ve been through this and worse - and I know everyone is different, but there is a difference between someone actually changing and the behavior being dormant. If you are still being triggered, it seems like you are still waiting for the other shoe to drop. Everything you are saying sounds like every abused woman who goes back (including myself). From the sneaking around to the making excuses for him to making him appear sympathetic so your friends will accept it. Yours is you don’t know if he had too many concussions or he hadn’t dealt with things, his feminine side is not developed - mine was oh he was abused as a kid and his dad made him box and it may have cause injury (sound familiar?). Everything he is saying is exactly what they do when they are luring you back or are in that “honeymoon” period again. I truly hope if anything even remotely close to that happens again - that you leave (for real). You can love someone, they can be the love of your life, and you can still not accept behavior like that. Starting over is hard, but be prepared to do that if necessary. Not wanting another divorce is not a good enough reason. I truly hope for you that it isn’t necessary, though. All the love. 💕 I don’t know you personally, but your music has made its mark in my life through the years. After hubby #1 I’m sad you are going through this again. I’m sure your friends are keeping shark eyes out for you. This just sounded way too familiar to not speak up. Don’t take it as anything other than that. ❤

@susanmcclanahan1019 4 ай бұрын

I was honestly thinking this same thought..sounds so like my ex husband and all his manipulations.

@fbueller 2 ай бұрын

💯

@katherinecox2433 4 ай бұрын

Your podcast hits so hard with me. Without being vulnerable to the world as I am not Sara Evans, when you speak of your dad, children and how/why you react the way you do, I feel it in my bones!

@musicoflife2 4 ай бұрын

You are helping so many people by being open and honest. Keep being you! God's got you all! Keep singing and writing and talking! 😊

@la_la_laura 4 ай бұрын

I absolutely adore you 💕 I have “STRONGER” tattooed on me because that song got me through my failed marriage 💕 You, friend, are a blessing to this world - don’t ever forget that 🫶🏼

@tomoffer4764 4 ай бұрын

I'm so glad your 'closet chaos' days are behind you. You showed such strength in this podcast. God bless.

@anthonyencarnacion7203 4 ай бұрын

Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself to help others.. I am so proud of your story..

@jeffreydooley3745 4 ай бұрын

Hello Sara. I am rooting for you and Jay. Much love to Y'all.

@shoeboxofangels 4 ай бұрын

I love my family, farming, writing songs/playing guitar, woodworking in the shop and painting large portrait paintings. That's all I need in this world to make me happy. Wishing you all the best. ✨☀️✨

@mama2levi 4 ай бұрын

There is a need for space between relationships for this reason. We need to process the prior relationship and be on our own a good while before we enter a new one. People go from one relationship to another and being all that into the new relationship. Relationships are tough no matter what. Doing that hard work is soooo important. ❤️

@tonyaaustin2 4 ай бұрын

Deeply respect your openness. Sharing your story will help so many others . Big fan of yours from the beginning. Fly fly fly

@drtripp46 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing and pray for you, Jay and the kids. It’s going to be hard as if you didn’t realize that lol. I’ve been down this road in a past life and God did guide me. Keep listening and don’t be afraid to do the right thing. Take care.

@williamlake1077 4 ай бұрын

Praise God he led you out and set you free!You are such a sweet soul and I love your music since born to fly!God bless you and your family sweet lady!

@peekaboo8519 4 ай бұрын

Oh Sara…what a raw, emotional and heartfelt podcast. I felt your pain and cried along with you. I’ve always loved you and your music but it’s all on a different level now. I’m so proud of you. Looking forward to seeing more of your podcasts. ❤

@RAB19751 4 ай бұрын

Well said 🫶🏻

@BiornBear 4 ай бұрын

I happy you decided to do more on KZfaq. I’ve been subscribed for awhile and didn’t think you actually would come back after Covid. God bless.

@kathwilson9694 4 ай бұрын

I became a widow very young. I was only 35 at the time. When I turned 40 I met someone who really stole my heart, but he became emotionally and mentally cruel to me. My heart couldn't handle another great loss, but I knew I needed to end it with him, so I did, and I was in agony from my heartache. I honestly felt like I wished I could go yo sleep and not wake up because every waking moment was painful. I heard your song, "Stronger" and I told myself to fight through the pain and I did! I am better today and still single, but happy because God is with me every step of the way. I hope your heart has wings to fly and remain in your happy place. Thank you for being a part of helping me find mine ❤

@badboydave4509 4 ай бұрын

Life is not easy. Best wishes

@paigen5717 4 ай бұрын

Sara, this is what courage is! Untold amounts of healing will come from you speaking your truth! Bravo! ❤️🫶🏻❤

@GJlee-gb2cf 4 ай бұрын

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HONESTY and for discussing this difficult “in the shadows” topic. You are doing such a service to many women! Thank you for acknowledging that most men will not be able or more accurately, willing to change. It is encouraging to hear that your husband is the exception and that you are smart enough to demand lifelong professional help for him individually and for you jointly as a couple. A book written by Lundy Bancroft entitled “Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men” is a huge help to the many confused partners in an abusive relationship. The second time a man yells at you or fights with you, get this book and read it. Consider getting out immediately and saving yourself heartache. I believe your husband is changing or he never would have “let you” go public. Sara, I’m so happy that you and your family are happy and healing and I pray that continues. You are a smart, brave woman who has just helped the world!

@tinagregory7701 4 ай бұрын

I have the most respect for you. I wish more celebrities would do this so that everyone doesnt just hear the news reporters clips and judge. Back in December me and my long time live in boyfriend whom Iike you I love with all my heart and we got into this same situation he was arrested and TN dont play. There has been a no contact order ever since and we live in GA, coming back to TN in May for court and I can only pray this will all be dismissed so we can start healing and communicate because like you I love this man and we deserve a chance to work this out ❤

@shannonsmith2642 3 ай бұрын

Often times it’s harder to stay and fight for your marriage. Bless you both Sara.

@chastity5401 4 ай бұрын

So happy for y’all! Your such a beautiful strong woman! May god bless y’all with a lifetime of his love and mercy!!!!

@realmusicwithgarystuckey57 4 ай бұрын

God bless you Sara…for believing in marriage and forgiveness…for working through everything instead of giving up, like so many do.

@HMJ2023 4 ай бұрын

Love you, Sara! Thank you for sharing such a difficult story. Wishing you all the best!

@gillygrylls 4 ай бұрын

I’ve been a fan since you first started but never really paid attention to your personal life because I work in the industry as well and I was always told to respect others and not act like a fan. this story is truly powerful. I had no idea you went through so much. Then again we all do but keep it to ourselves and those close to us. In the end it’s your life and the life you chose with your husband and your children. That’s all that matters. I wish you both all the best as you move forward in life together. These types of songs are the best. They’re genuine. They’re straight from the heart. Sara the night I lost my father I felt alone. I wouldn’t be in music today if it wasn’t for him. And his influence on me. I remember getting home in the Beverly hours from the hospital after everything happened. I sat there not knowing what to do. Then I went into my music room picked up my Fender Strat and played the hell out of it to some SRV. Because my father loved to hear me play anything from SRV. That was probably the only true moment I think every out of pain in every fiber of my heart came out through music. Thankfully my father left behind his voice forever etched into vinyl records that I can listen to when I need to hear his voice. These new songs make you cry but that’s ok. Because everytime you perform them it will make you stronger. Stay strong and all the best to you and to anyone who feels alone and doesn’t know where to turn just dig deep within your soul and you’ll find the answer.

@mattherron5599 2 ай бұрын

Having just read an article referencing you conversation with Cheryl Burke, I just want to say, you are as beautiful today as you were when I first saw you in the 90s and you will always be. I have always loved your music and still sing along no matter where I am. Fast forward, I am enjoying your Podcast and truly appreciate your strength and willingness to share so much of yourself. Thank you!

@MolleeHallett 4 ай бұрын

Sara! You are speaking as if you’re having to walk on egg shells. You’re beautiful inside and out. I’m disappointed to hear this and hope you have the best relationship whether that be with Jay or someone else.

@katievan_919 4 ай бұрын

I ❤️ you Sara. Thank you for sharing your story with us. I can't wait to hear more!! 😍

@themuttsandthemal7729 4 ай бұрын

I’m so proud of you! So beyond happy for you and your family finding peace, balance and harmony. I truly want to thank you for your testimony! It’s not easy divorce/ staying/ therapy. None of it is easy) my parents are divorced with 3 kids, my mom is remarried since 2007 and hearing from a mother struggles with. I feel like understand my mom better!❤️ I know I’m not saying it write what I want to say, but I want to thank you sooo much for this❤❤❤

@delmarlewis8897 4 ай бұрын

Ya Know people of stature/ celebrity have lives too Sara Evans is one classy Womam for sharing a side that few could even imagine ( most think its all peachy clean and full of Roses) NOTHING COULD BE FURTHER FROM THE TRUTH Ive played guitar behind some of the country legends and it took me awhile to figure out they put their clothes on the same way as I do Good Luck Good Music and May God Bless You Sara Evans Your one Hell of a Singer and a better person

@michellehandy1690 4 ай бұрын

Fellow Missourian here. Born and raised at Lake of the Ozarks. My dad worked with back in the day. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

@billyhopkins2260 4 ай бұрын

I want you to know that your family is always on my mind and in my heart. I understand that this is a challenging journey, but I believe that with faith and perseverance, you can overcome any obstacle. Please remember that you are not alone, and my thoughts and prayers are with you every step of the way. Sending you lots of love and support during this difficult time. ❤️

@user-ue5mr9em3d 4 ай бұрын

You are a very strong woman. I am also in-between an intro-extrovert so I understand where you're coming from. The thing I love the most about you is that you are so down to earth and real. Thank you for sharing. You are loved!

@illumefoto 4 ай бұрын

I can’t even imagine the humiliation of going through this so publicly! There’s a reason for, “in sickness and in health”. Beat the stats! Blessings to your family from Alabama ❤ Roll Tide!

@lesliemontez8377 4 ай бұрын

Co dependence is real. It sounds like this was your relationship. I believe people who want to change, can and with God, prayer and therapy you can succeed. I hope this next chapter brings you two together as two independent people that support each other and grow as one.

@anthonyencarnacion7203 4 ай бұрын

I am so happy for you and Jay.. we all learned from Duck Dynasty that living your life in a way that your children respect you into your old age is TRUE wealth..

@outlawd1 4 ай бұрын

Love your music Sara , I can very much relate being twice divorced, due to my military injuries back neck , PTSD etc. divorce hurts the children. Devastation is terrible.

@garymillar1008 4 ай бұрын

Listen sara I've been through a bad brake up and I'm still in healing process even now I haven't moved on from it so don't blame yourself big up yourself 🎉🎉❤❤❤

@tracicarterxgu4684 4 ай бұрын

Very well said. You are being so brave sharing the truth.❤ So excited about your podcast!

@Mcflynerdyguy 4 ай бұрын

I deeply respect your openness and vulnerability! Therapy not only saved me, but made me a much much better person and has allowed me to be a great partner.

@AmyTaylorMusicOfficial 4 ай бұрын

The courage and strength I imagine that it took to do this and be so vulnerable given your status is inspiring Sara… God bless you ❤ God bless your marriage and family as well. I’ve dealt with similar situations and I cannot wait to hear this album.. if you ever want to write together… I would LOVEEEE to get with you and see what we come up with! 🥹 Thank you for putting this out there! Can’t wait to watch more episodes of your podcast! And I am SO happy you’re releasing new music! I grew up singing your songs and they inspired me so much as an artist😘

@anthonyencarnacion7203 4 ай бұрын

The emphasis on mental health is critical more than ever today and everyday afterwards..

@sabahetaalek-finkelman3602 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Healing is MESSY and takes A LOT of work and time! Continue to hold your truth and your boundaries. Trauma bond is real. My heart goes out to you. My biggest take away from this episode is YOU teach others how to treat you. People can totally change but THEY need to do the majority of the heavy lifting. God promises in His word that He doesn't allow for pain in our lives without birthing something new (Isaiah 66:9) I pray true and complete healing in your marriage and for new wine to be poured into 100% wine skins and an end to collateral damage. May Christ bring true repentance and restoration in your marriage and family. Love you!

@deannahensley6196 4 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you had the courage to share your story. ❤❤

@mattponds5429 4 ай бұрын

I'm glad you set the record straight that you don't know what people have going on when no one is looking. I remember Jay lost his dad right after his last game at Bama, got married, got divorced. He has issues. Don't blame you for putting in the work, you deserve to be happy and be safe and and have peace. Looking forward to more episodes on your podcast

@innocent980 4 ай бұрын

I felt your pains. Thank God you're back to your normal self

@mhugheslee 4 ай бұрын

I know someone that could use this podcast Sara. Thank you for inspiring me to do better. I am a man and oncthe other side of the coin. I ended my marriage and my ex and I get along so well, but I have a friend that could use this advice from you that us suffering emotionally, psychologically and financially. I cannot go into too much detail, but I did share the pointers you gave us as listeners to my devout friend. God asked me to watch your podcast. He then inspired me to share with my friend, so actually you are responsible for this divine intervention. God bless you and your music BUT especially your family.~ Marlin KAJIKI Hughes.

@craigstanleyk1600 4 ай бұрын

I applaud you for sharing this aspect of your personal life. Very brave and respect you. Not easy and everyone deals with real life issues...doesn't matter who you are. I wish the best for you and your family

@NCDOLPHINFAN1 4 ай бұрын

Love you Sara, I'm glad God can heal and change us!!

@tracisheridan8040 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story... you do what makes you happy..God bless. ❤

@diann824 4 ай бұрын

God bless you and your family!

@anthonyencarnacion7203 4 ай бұрын

48:41.. the danger for wemen.. is also for men.. the danger is the untreated trauma that instead of developing coping systems for, becomes the relived trauma on new circumstances and people/partners.. doctor Drew has been talking about this subject for decades, providing one of the only outlets exploring the topic and presenting multiple options for people in the loop of untreated trauma either involving drugs and alcohol or not.. Behavior that is affecting the areas of your life that have a negative effect is a problem.. Bringing awareness to the topic is half the battle.. thank you Sarah..

@SheilaLafleur 4 ай бұрын

Ive been through it all. Everyone has to make their own choices as no situation is the same. People should not judge others because only you know your situation. ❤

@robbymyrick 3 ай бұрын

Sara, you are incredibly brave to speak out and share what you are able to share at this time. Highly visible marriages and families are easy targets for a plethora of fiery darts. Prayers for you and Jay and your children. 🕊️🛐

@sissybrown7191 4 ай бұрын

* he had such small shoes to fill * and failed * 😭 broke my heart 😭 ... and Sara, who was looking out for you ? 💔 No-One 💔 ... I totally respect your decision bc I've been there and done that. Thank you for your honesty !!! God bless you and your family ... ❤❤❤

@roxiannsirna9134 4 ай бұрын

My daughter and I saw you and your daughter perform at Penn’s Peak in PA. We love you both and thank you for sharing such a private piece of your life to help others. I admire how hard you and your husband have worked on your marriage. God bless you. ❤

@daniellekramer93 4 ай бұрын

Loving this episode! Glad you’re speaking out and glad you stayed with him. Gods blessings. Prayers for you. Glad you have a podcast and glad you guys made it through a tough time. For better or worse.

@teresamoss1226 3 ай бұрын

You have just told my story. WOW!! I can't speak on your husband's issues but I know my husband suffered a lot of trauma in his life that he never healed from and it has come out in various ways in our marriage. For me, I am working on my own issues so that I do not allow his toxic behavior to affect me. ACA has been the best thing that I have ever done for myself.

@ShannonEdwards-fq9rs 5 күн бұрын

I can so relate to you Sara. Girl I wanna be your friend lol the talks we would have 😊 love this side of Sara ❤

@Ainsley_Maryanski 4 ай бұрын

Love it!!!

@rochellerolen6691 15 күн бұрын

Kudos for being brave and sharing your story. I experienced abuse from my alcoholic ex husband for years. I didn't even end it when he was drunk and we fought over a loaded hand gun. I know he was going to commit suicide. It was a miracle how I was able to open my flip phone out of my pocket and call 911. I stayed 8 more years then finally had peace with deciding that he didn't deserve to be called my husband anymore. I'm still at peace today.

@gregparker6815 7 күн бұрын

Great testimony of your enduring power to fight for the love and relationship you all have.

@davidfolts5893 4 ай бұрын

Creativity plus openness equals podcast gold.

@rootedrecoverystories 4 ай бұрын

So much courage 😊

@gillyOO7 4 ай бұрын

Good luck Sara, relationships can be such hard work. Glad nothing bad happen to you or your kids. God Bless

@jackielavelle7974 4 ай бұрын

Sara. I hope you believe in yourself. I have always been told that people don't change, but I think you are brave for sharing your life.

@shannonsmith2642 3 ай бұрын

I think he’s definitely making the effort to change.

@MarcShelton-dn8uz Ай бұрын

Sara,❤ my prayers are with your family❤

@emilydelgado5884 4 ай бұрын

“You had such small shoes to fill”🫨

@anthonyencarnacion7203 4 ай бұрын

Seems like Jana Kramer would be fine company on the topic..

@tinamorgan5365 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your truth. That's not an easy thing to do and especially when it's something so personal. It takes a lot of strength and courage to stay and keep working on a marriage like you've just essentially told the whole world about. You are helping so many people by being so open and honest.❤

@edlikesthis 4 ай бұрын

thank you sara ..wonderful how good therapy and forgiveness is .. God bless your family

@LacedwithLacey2424 4 ай бұрын

Tell your truth. ❤❤ you’re so strong. 💪 your story has hit home with me..

@lauraherring137 4 ай бұрын

I'm so ready for this album. Definitely know these feelings. 💛

@misskarenvasquez 4 ай бұрын

24 years of marriage there’s been passion, jealousy here and there, good, bad and the ugly. No judgement here. Some marriages are pretty and perfect, some are messy and a whirlwind or all the emotions. We’ve learned that stubbornness and pride are our worst enemy. Be humble, communicate. Best wishes.

@khaty9045 4 ай бұрын

Writing is an outlet. I'm proud of you #SaraEvans for using your song writing skills for expressing what and, how you felt in your experience of your situation. I myself write songs and poems that are a bit personal, but hey like I said writing is a coping skill that everybody should try, you get all those feelings out in that way and it's healthy to do.

@mt1885 3 ай бұрын

hey girl- love the episode. You are a strong woman Sara😊Keep the faith and keep loving your husband. Trust in the Lord and keep praying.😘

@jonb2100 4 ай бұрын

You are one brave lady! Thanks for sharing. Respect to you.

@marybethfantozzi2258 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Sara for your podcast and for bringing awareness to the effects of what our past traumas will do to our relationships. ❤

@ElvisAaronpresleybyRustyMartin 4 ай бұрын

🌹Heres to Resilience... I've walked parallel paths with You Sistah Girl. Follow your Heart . Tammy sang it Best ..🕊️ 🎼A Real Fine Place to Start 🎶🎵

@user-no3cz6tz5d 4 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@davidwindom2578 4 ай бұрын

Sara your the best! Good luck with the podcast!

@chayquang3493 4 ай бұрын

Beautiful 💕❤️❣️💓

@brianjohnson4955 4 ай бұрын

i could not ask for more still speaks to me its all bc of all the comments another youtuber & i shared

@ronkowalski1927 4 ай бұрын

Brave woman..

@lisaangelos3184 2 ай бұрын

Love you Sara! Thank you so much for sharing your story and I’m so happy you both are able to work it out and fix the issues.

@lancecostello2704 4 ай бұрын

wow i do know how you feel and i learned that as long as your happy to hell with anyone who try's to bring you down cause they have no idea whats in your heart only you know,

@MarcShelton-dn8uz Ай бұрын

And tell him I'm saying a special prayer for him❤ I couldn't make it to the big leagues but I was a letterman defensive end🎉

@Terry-gf6tz 4 ай бұрын

I wish the best for all and hope everyone will get help when you mix drugs and drinking youll find the ingredients for a abusive relationship when you know you know walk that line and fix yourself im walking my own and learnig each day❤🎉😊

@Terry-gf6tz 4 ай бұрын

Best wishes

@missymurphy9996 4 ай бұрын

Interesting segment

@MarcShelton-dn8uz Ай бұрын

❤❤❤ I love a happy ending

@theresat8379 4 ай бұрын

I didn't realize that was Sara until she smiled.

@AlyssaPalmisano1980 4 ай бұрын

I have conflicting feelings ...She talks so much about their passion etc.... I hope her Daughter didnt feel pressure to make her mom happy to forgive him idk....i think once a man hits a woman and overall abuse he might be ok for awhile but i think it will come out again eventually that was my experience years ago thankfully i'm married to a man now that i feel safe wtih no red flags at all and its been 25 years now married. Sara definitely suffers from battered womens syndrome. She sticks up for him way to much....I wish her and her family the best and hope i'm wrong.....

@sometimesiwander7146 3 ай бұрын

Agreed. It sounds like codependency now with her making excuses for his bad behavior. My college psych class (30 yrs ago so may be outdated info now, but was literally in our textbooks) said a person’s psychological make up is done by age 12 & that without intense therapy or intense self work on improving themselves they are who they are from that day forward. We evolve sure, but the nuts and bolts stay the same as in an abuser is an abuser & a controlling person is a controlling person & a narcissist is narcissist etc. Always boggles my brain how ppl can be addicts/alcoholics for a decade or more and think a 2-4 week in-patient stay will cure them. It rarely does unless they truly wanna be healed & put in the work to heal themselves. That goes for abusive ppl too & I can count on one hand how many x I’ve seen that work & yes I worked in mental health decades ago. Either way I’m praying for them.

@bettyjoscookin3847 3 ай бұрын

I believe she is following her heart but I also feel like she set reasonable boundaries for their marriage. As long as they are both happy that’s what matters the most!! I’m the same way with my husband, I’m submissive as well so I understand her point and I feel I do understand her heart as a woman in love myself with marital issues because even though you are married to your best friend as I am myself there is still problems and it doesn’t mean you don’t love each other! Sara is smart and I have so much respect for her! Oh and she is one of my all time favorite country artist so I may sound a little bias but probably not because I know where she is coming from! Love you Sara! Would love to see you in concert, come to the Fruit House in Modesto Ca girl! I will get a ticket ❤

@bettyjoscookin3847 3 ай бұрын

Fruit Yard*

@tomblackburn3742 4 ай бұрын

__ Do not Neglect, Mistreat or Abuse a Female. What God placed on Earth for One Human to Mistreat. He can rewrap that Gift to present to Another that will Love and Appreciate them further ♡.

@kayowens8587 4 ай бұрын

I’m a firm believer in Counseling and in Faith. Question : Did your Daughter receive counseling also ? Did you and her and Jay go together? I think it would help her to heal. Because now that she has seen that side of him, she will always wonder if he gets mad, will it be like that time. Talking from experience here. I pray that your family can all heal . I pray for many happy blessings for you all. ❤🙏