dress to impress

first second? That sentence feels like a stroke, strokin my--

DRESS TO IMPRESS PLEASE U WOULD SLAY SO HARD😻

dress to impress

dress to impress little boy

barely a "music career" at that 🙂

Haha what music career?

he doesn’t even have a music career. bet he isn’t signed into a record label

i truly love when talentless losers think they can actually enter the music industry successfully

also did he not willingly participate in creating that child like 💀

Yeah and then suddenly be opposed/offended/mad when anyone’s into her. And flip it on her in some way.

FRR

This is so fucking true omg

@@GrimzyShake The average woman has a 'marriage value' and 'one night of fun value.' All women have more 'one night of fun value' than men. Women who sleep around a lot are highly undesirable as partners and are not marriage material though. Even if the guy is the more attractive person in the relationship, there's still a chance his wife would have more 'one night of fun' people. One thing that's absolutely bonkers is that 'top chads' are using both average women and the more desirable women , but when the 'top chad' settles down he always chooses the most desirable woman he has access too. It's absolutely laughable that average woman, who were simply used by a chad, estimate their relationship worth based on the fact they were able to get a 'top chad' to USE them. Like, no, being able to get used by a guy you consider top dog doesn't make your marriage value at the top. And the more men who use you, the more men will gravitate to younger women with less baggage once those men reach the top. Some women need to stop sleeping around and focus on being better quality partners, instead of deluding themselves and inflating their worth while dismissing a lot of good men's worth.

@@wellsaidgoodheadfred9843that’s an incel take if i’ve ever heard one, holy shit lmao. body count has no inherent value at all and it doesn’t determine if someone is “marriage material,” being a good person does. abby could easily sleep around and STILL find a good husband after, matt is not likely to accomplish either of those easily, if at all.

WHATTTTT

Whaaat??!! What a loser 😂😂💀 (not the only having one partner, it's the faking a past that's ridiculous 😂😂)

not surprised lol 😭

you can have a wild imagination

what’s his song called?

True

Cause his baseline is acting like a prick all the time

i noticed this too!!!!! i immediately was like why is she saying that to him….?

I understand what you mean, but this is just because of her personality. I am such a person, too. I've had a GREAT relationship with a guy who treated me very good and respected me and we loved eachother genuinely. And I just know that I am a person who whines a lot when in pain. So I always excused myself and said exactly those words, because being the husband in this situation needs a LOT of patience. You are trying your best to help and wifey is telling you, you are doing it wrong. And she knows how this will hurt him, helping and getting this response, so she tells him. I would say, this is good communication. And the excuses are normal for people who are emotionally sensitive. Cause they know that they'd be hurt if they were the other person. So stop hating. There are people who have a different background or who are more emotional and therefore act different than you would.

@@rudymoody that ain't what's going down and you know it

100% I think of the father of my niece and nephew. That man was not a good father. Best decision my sister ever made was leaving him. It allowed her to find her now husband who is a fantastic father to 2 children who aren't biologically his. Their actual father hasn't made contact or seen the kids for 7 years now in spite of multiple family members trying to make contact with him. It's not what you are, it's who you are that matters.

Children just need their basic needs (including mental stimulation e.g. 📚) and to occasionally be physically restrained for their own safety. Children are not fancy pieces of chinaware 🫖 meant to just sit there are look pretty. They are supposed to live. If children were so needy with hyper-specific demands, humanity would have gone extinct in the Stone 🪨 Age.

Exactly! With fathers like that, a child is better off fatherless.

Exactly! I grew up without a father and i grew up perfectly fine. My mother did honestly such a good job filling the two roles.

He could run off and abandon them like 60-70% of father's these days. Smh. The internet is so ridiculously judgemental. This generation needs Jesus so much.

It is!!!

Yep, she's with him because she is unaware she can get a FAR better partner.

​@@carnevalmefisto it's not about just him,.it's her tooo

@@carnevalmefistoshe’s been with him since she was like 14. So she’s not been with anyone else, is married and has 2 kids. It’s all so rushed she wasn’t able to process what was going on

​@@rav0nnAgree

Happy for you ❤❤❤❤❤

U guys r so cute ☹❤❤

That's adorable

Aww, that's so sweet ❤️😍

The way you use dude in the vid to lift yourself up telling. There's no other reason for you to share that story.

Typical narcissist trying to break someone down who is confident and beautiful.

I just commented same,he enjoys to record her in her most vulnerable moments,when she sick,vomits,after surgery,what is wrong with him,leave a wife to rest,why shoving camera in her face while she vomits🤬🤬🤬🤬

I remember a video where Abby threw up for some reason and he proceeded to set up his tripod on the floor to film himself cleaning it up like what 💀💀💀

The fact that she is with him and defends him when he’s called out is indicative that she already has very low self-worth.

@@evat514 this. She’s never had anyone else so thinks this is normal. She’s been manipulated into defending him even if she knows deep down that it’s not exactly right

Yeah my absent dad called looking after his own kids babysitting 😂

I noticed that language too🚩

@@user-eb6sr3iw7lyikes… dads that say this aren’t it

That’s what you sign up for the moment you have sex. Young people need to understand that.

@@DelaneyB.444.77 yeah and I’m one of his kids that he was absent for lol. Popped up to try and steal money from me though

So outta pocket but true 😭👍

Nah, some people have values and respect their bodies.

​@@beanybabyrabie You're aren't exactly respecting your body if you married someone you barely know just to have sex with that person that you barely know.

​@@beanybabyrabie I think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.

​@@beanybabyrabieI think you misunderstood the comment, the reason you get married is because you love that person and want to spend your life with them. To do it because of hormones is crazy.

Oh my god he’s horrible

She opted for c section because she had things go really wrong with Griffin’s birth and the doctors recommended a c section to avoid similar issues with August

@@awombatsworld3298either way, still goes to show that either way she’ll get shit for it

I mean didn't she ask him if it was the same? Like idk I feel like these are questions people do have, I rather have someone tell the truth or their thoughts then lie.

​@@cheyswags He says it in such a disgusting way though. Like a disrespectful snotty child.

Yeah 100% bc this year for Father's Day my son was only 7 days old. My dad bought my partner a cheesy Father's Day shirt. His mom sent him $$ I didn't do anything. I apologized and he immediately said - why are you apologizing, you just had our son. And he says that any time I'm apologizing about things like this.

And more importantly that she’s legit a good woman

@@im0just aw that’s so nice of him

And breastfeeding burns SO MANY calories.

THAT PART. I wish she had said, "It's because I actually WORK up an appetite."

Including him adds up to 3 kids!

@@DawnKellyMedia yes. about 800 calories extra a day.

And she DOES NOT eat double what he does. That’s just not true. Even with breastfeeding

THIS

There’s many times I’ve heard, both in fictional and non-fictional media, that a married couple with kids still have intense feelings and attraction, and sexual chemistry with each other, so it’s not necessarily the rule but the average outcome of a married child-having heterosexual household. My HYPOTHESIS WHICH IS VERY SCIENTIFIC TOTALLY TESTED AND PROVEN is that the guy of this couple Cooper is talking about has lost attraction to his wife BECAUSE she gave birth. Have you seen people talking about that guy who was freaking out about his wife breastfeeding their son, Huntyr (freaky a*s name for a kid btw)? I have an inkling feeling that the man in this tiktok couple might go down that route. Traditional marriages do not include shoving all the house tasks, childrearing, cleaning, and family management responsibilities onto the mom/woman; I LIVE IN ONE OF THOSE HOUSEHOLDS that is “traditional” but is really “mom knows how to pay bills, also works, also I remember her as my main parent, also my dad was an alchoholic, also he doesn’t know how to use a computer, all he knows is go to work at 4:00 AM, work himself to the bone, and come home, sit on the couch forever, drink a whole fucking six pack of beer, and then get angry when my mom evens TRIES to talk about chores or other responsibilities to him.” I mean that devolved into me revealing my trauma, but that kind of imbalance where the dad is “soooo tired” he can’t or won’t or WILL GET ANGRY when he is asked to do household chores. BOTH PARENTS/PARTNERS NEED TO PITCH IN.

@@SamRK-1000aw dude I feel you. I’m in the same situation as you. My father’s the same and my mom is doing EVERYTHING and of course she works.

​@@Kiasae Damn, this thread is like my childhood but my mom ALSO had cancer. Dad admitted later that he wanted a divorce but then she got sick and he didn't want to leave her while sick. And never left. He got so much praise for just physically being there and driving her to some doctors appointments so he decided to just never leave. Ya know, until 20 years later and she was actually dying. He must have gotten tired of hiding the cheating. Financially irresponsible af too. Like how did we NOT have a working furnace but 2 Harley Davidsons in pretty good condition? I lived near Chicago. It gets COLD in the winter.

Exactly!! I feel so bad for her!!😭😭❤️❤️❤️

I’m with you girl

you're not crazy hun. i noticed he seems worse after they have kids

yes he is such a narcissist!

Narcissistic personality disorder is a clinical diagnosis, so while I do agree that he could show narcissistic traits, diagnosing someone on the Internet (I don’t know your credentials. You may or may not be a mental health professional) is usually kind of counterproductive.

My father is a diagnosed narcissistic sociopath. Matt reminds me of him. It’s the sneaky, passive aggressive way that he abuses Abby - such as commenting that natural childbirth had lessened his pleasure in having sex with her… but then, when she got a C-section for their second baby, he said that she had “cheated” the process. She can’t win. The ground is always shifting under her. Or when he punished Abby by not speaking to her for a week after the birth of the second baby! He then ran off to another part of the country to record music… and left her all alone, with a newborn, and not recovered from a C-section. It’s textbook devaluation, that her and the baby’s needs are less important. But how could she stop him? How could she ask him to stay home and care for her? He was raging that the baby had ruined his life and career. She needs to wake up to him. It’s going to be hard because she’s empathic. The children are the cement around her because she’ll never want to break their home and hearts.

and she basically had two babies back to back!! her first baby was so so little when she got pregnant again. i bet her hormones were all over the place and she was so stressed out about multiple celebrations happening on the same day - yet she still strived to make it nice for him 😭

@@sophbenj.8840 omg exactly

@@sophbenj.8840 the second pregnancy was literally 1-2 yrs after the first, and plus shes still so young and they also married when they were still in college....

are u alive after what happened last night at the eras tour

It's giving me flashbacks to my narcissistic ex who really just needed a parent

@@mahumansari barely

@@justagirlwholovesmusic real

​@@mahumansariwait what happened at the eras tour???

It doesn't feel right to see one of your comments before it has blown up

you put the guacamole song in my head

for some men, I guess it is ??? 💀

i literally never liked him. i remember watching their videos and just thinking about how fake it is, and all the comments were “omg matt is husband goals!!” like no, hon. all of this is staged and fake. the camera wasn’t there on coincidence. he set up the camera, hit record so he could play the FACADE of a good husband to look good to an audience. he once filmed himself cleaning up abby’s vomit, and everyone in the comments was praising him. like, wtf??? why would he whip out a camera and record himself filming his wife’s vomit instead of just CLEANING IT UP in the first place???

But but but how is he supposed to be a husband when he wants to siiiiing 😂😂 singers never have families lmao

@Raxchel-e8i real 😭

Hoover?

@@THNDERHDSwriter who writes often about like toxic relationships my friends rlly obsessed with her

You haven't read her books and it shows. Keep jumping on every hate train wagon it's very obvious

@@Sara-uk5eg lol I literally read 4 ?????

Same 😂 I was like “the water didn’t get cut off all that time?” Sheesh

They live in Arizona 😂 our water companies are very forgiving it’s wild. They will try and send you emails and mail and finally the snapping point no water. It’s happen to me we didn’t realize the card on file was expired and we were told the water hasn’t been paid in 6 months

@@haydenlaurenbennett8853 wow 😮

Typically you would be getting notices in the mail. It’s so weird.

Yeah and she even shared that she ripped badly too. Like she's been through enough. He's so mean.

Didn’t she get pregnant again shortly after her son was born?

@@rcg224EXACTLY

It brings to mind the quote from Look Who's Talking "You trying pushing something something the size of a watermelon, out of an opening the size of a lemon and see how hot you look!"

@@SiesVEyes she did. It was an unexpected pregnancy and sooner than doctors recommended to have another pregnancy due to recovery time. This is why recovery could potentially be prolonged . It takes a while for the muscles to fully tighten back up and heal and be toned again after childbirth, doctors say several weeks but it may still feel different especially when there is tearing. Healing takes time

Exactly what I was thinking

Been there, it’s rough. There’s not much else you can do to keep your family together. Can’t force him to be a Man and if you leave it feels like you’re the one messing up your children’s lives. For me, I thought it would get better but it got worse with the years until he left me for his side pieces Weird that we also got married young due to religion

He is. But she isn't great either. They're both arrogant and insufferable.

​@@MavonEastshe is in a trauma bond

@@Lemana28021989 It's possible to be a victim and also not be a good person.

Why? I think it’s a big deal. I adore celebrating the day my husband was born. Best day ever

​​​@@Makai-mq2uvpretty sure they more so meant people like Matt, who throw a fit when it doesnt go their way, like a toddler.

​@@Makai-mq2uvwho cares about birthdays honestly, it's not that big of a deal when you're an actual adult

​@@merusotajio2222 not you. Almost most, normal adults do.

Same. They are fun when you're a kid, but as an adult it's just another day.

Literally

it’s ironic cuz he was a theatre kid in high school i’m pretty sure 😭

@@okkelly6207dear god that’s worse he has a complex about being inferior😭 saying this as a former theatre kid some of the WORST guys I’ve met have been theatre dudes

@@piffba probs 1 of those theatre kids with the superiority complex

@@beanman9936 oh god I suppressed those memories, had a guy LITERALLY pitch about directing a play based on women’s mistreatment from their boyfriends because “well I can learn from the women in my cast” despite abusing our classmate (his ex girlfriend) for a year💀 he had both complexes and I fear coming across him everyday

@@piffba as an ex professional theatre kid who went AEA and had multiple in the room auditions for Bway I can confirm I got worse and worse as a human the older I got and the more I performed; there is an epidemic of self-inferiority for theatre men and im not sure we're ready to face it.

And then he’s going to say “well she wasn’t taking care of my sexual needs🥺” like Abby doesn’t take care of EVERYTHING without any relaxation.

I heard a psychologist say that men who have a damaged or spoiled relationship with their mom seek out women who will mother them. Then after they feel secure (sometimes post honey moon stage, marriage, baby, etc..) they cheat on the mother figure/gf/wife with the woman they actually want.

​@@daniellewilliams2831If this happens I hope she divorces but it's worrying because they have literally said "Divorce isn't an option for us" he was the one majorly saying its worrying people that say that end up on the news

​@@daniellewilliams2831men with narcissistic personality disorder often cheat when their wife has a young baby because they are pathologically jealous of the baby abd resent the fact that they aren't the centre of their wife's attention

@@daniellewilliams2831 idk I feel like it's more nuanced than that. men also cheat because their friends won't judge them for it or actively support it, etc etc etc. some of them had tough moms but enabler dads.

WHAT??! ACTUALLY WHAT.

Another reason to leave

Didn't her mom move in with them? I thought maybe it was money problems, but now I wonder if it wasn't because Abby was so overwhelmed

That is just sad. It's not going to get any better

@@carlycrays2831 like he said he doesn’t take care of his kids, I can imagine her being overwhelmed with 2 kids under 2.

It might just be both she knows matt since she was a kid and knew what type of person he is and clearly wants better for her

But his music!!! 🙄

“And now here’s a song about it!” 👨‍🎤 “Youre so out of pockeeet 🎵”

Red pill content coming up SOOOON

And they will for sure tell everyone and anyone he can that she's crazy and not "the women he thought he married"

damn... thats so true

"It came out of nowhere:((("

Wasn’t a public figure but literally did this shit for my ex-husband and I will never fucking do it again I saved his ass from getting dishonorably discharged from the military in a way I can’t even legally say out loud and he thanked me by cheating on me with multiple people while I was pregnant and after etc., and came home once with genital warts He’s also an alcoholic to this day… thank God, my mother got me Gardasil 😂

Yeah, a young wife and mother of two needs to leave her not-so-perfect husband (and btw, we're all imperfect, in case anyone forgot that!), so she can become yet another sad statistic and leave her marriage, why? All because the internet told her to?! No. News flash! That is not your marriage and he is not your husband! Leave them alone! Misery loves company. This backwards generation just loves to see marriages and families end, tear down men and women who enjoy and embrace "traiditional" gender roles, and demonize the smallest imperfections in people all because they're miserable themselves. Put your phones down, youngin's, and go enjoy your lives in the real world. Wake up. Find Jesus. Touch grass!!

@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn’t follow the story, because he doesn’t even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, “traditional men” did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living… and you’re telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women’s health legislation? Girl get a grip.

@@southernmama7606 he treats her like shit. Obviously you didn't follow the story, because he doesn't even have a traditional job, they literally both are influencers and he fails to pay the bills lol - and even if he did, "traditional men" did so little to support their families outside of 9-5. Not to mention, the majority of Americans have two-parent-working households - not even because they want to, but because they literally have to due to the cost of living... and you're telling me that women should still carry the entire burden of raising their kids and taking care of the home? Unhinged. The statistics are what they are for a reason. Men like him and women like you support tolerating this and for what? For weak praise? For the approval of the pastor who takes your money and lobbies for child marriage and against women's health legislation? Girl get a grip.

@@NotesNNotes SAME i talked sooo good about him and protected his image and his reputation (he only had a good one because of me..). i regret it so much. thank god for divorce and birth control.

I think part of the problem is that he is used to sharing Father's Day and doesn't like it. Which is fair, but it's all the other stuff

ong, my birthday I made dinner because I know no one would make it the way I want. I don’t expect people to do it for me either cuz im an adult?? like this is quite entitled

Same

He's just a brat. He would have found something wrong with anything, I'm sure.

​@@carlycrays2831 especially since there was an actual child coming 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ he should have been excited but I guess it was a bummer 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️. My cousin had his first child born on Father's Day in 2022, I and the rest of the family were so happy, it was a big deal ❤😂 and I haven't forgotten about it since, so cute. But some people are bummed out 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Omg I genuinely can’t unheard that now 😭

That’s why I clicked once and I don’t watch them. Spilling way too much info online is not a good look.

That’s exactly what I thought when listening to it for the first time

More like we are watching a passive aggressive argument. As if we are kids watching our parents fight/

Yes!

REAL like how do you not pay the water bill for 7 MONTHS!! Like he had one job lol

Everyone claims they’re a “traditional man/woman” when the only “tradition” they follow is “my husband works & pays the bills while I take care of the kids and clean” that’s not traditional.

@@Alex47631 this blew my mind! how did they not receive ONE bill or reminder?! if they're only receiving electronic mail then he's failing on checking that too.

He had one job can't even do it right

And such a baby. Who tf? 🙄

Truth

How tall is Matt? 😂

​@@Anna.T. He has short energy, idc how tall he actually is

He's 5'7" completely Napoleon syndrome. The poor girl always looks like she's crying or wanting to cry. At any given moment she looks like shes on the verge of crying. ​@@Anna.T.

​@@valatrix711completely Napoleon syndrome 😂 he's 5'7" the exact same height of Napoleon.

⁠@@laffin_out_loudnapoleon syndrome is such a perfect way to describe him 😭

fr like is this the highlights of his kindness

Him also exposing himself as a bad father is worse

exactly. we’re only seeing bits and pieces. imagine how much worse he is behind doors.

Yeah he can’t even lie enough to convince the internet he has redeeming qualities

it gotta be worse, poor her

Absolutely agree!

THAT IRKED ME TOO!! as if him having to not have a celebration up to his own standards for ONE YEAR is on par with dealing with the absolute nightmare that pregnancy can be

I truly don't get it. BOTH holidays are for him! He just MUST have two whole days where he's told he's a special boy? Lmao! So embarrassing.

I mean…. Our bodies naturally do it but I get what you mean.

​@beanybabyrabie naturally does not constitute for the many hardships of child birth. It completely changes your body and is a very long and painful process.

Factss

it’s crazy how may people marry someone, like a woman and not valuing her???

@@SiLLyLiL_GuYThey probably hadn’t been valued before / were gaslit into thinking “oh, yeah, this is normal”

He is calling out the crap. We need to point this crap out

​@@SiLLyLiL_GuYit really is

He's taking notes on what NOT TO DO

true, also ppl can have different metabolisms and hunger levels anyways. overall very weird to be commenting about how much food your wife eats in general ugh

This is so obvious and yet I hadn't even thought about that when Matt was talking about her weight. I've seen other ppl say that they're both a bit clueless about reproduction and contraception in general cause they seemed so shocked they could even get pregnant 5 months after the 1st kid was born (and she also had major surgery in between then??)

I thought the same!!! I lost a ton of weight breast feeding and going on long walks but eating more than I ever had before

That's actually not fully true. I've spoken to two different doctors about this as a breastfeeding person who has struggled with anorexia in the past. You only need an additional 3-500 calories. Which most people eat over 500 calories in a single small meal. If you don't believe me actually measure out the calories at dinner. So you really only need like two extra small snacks. Not to eat 4 meals a day or as much as a man twice your size. I'm only making this comment to help any women who are concerned about packing on weight during breastfeeding.

And in fact, you need even more calories while breastfeeding, compared to the 3rd trimester!!! Crazy!

i fully get what you're saying and i do think what you're saying applies here; however consider that people with trauma and anxiety around relationships can have that as it can ve a major fear of setting someone off when growing up or being used to walking on eggshells

​@@jaxorisit1447true.. I think he's just always been shitty to her..she's anxious..

I get that. But ptsd can affect relationships. I have ptsd from my past relationship so it effects my current relationship, even if I have no reason to be scared I still am as a defense mechanism

@@jaxorisit1447 I agree. Neurodivergent people can get caught up in wondering if people are mad at them. There are t-shirts aimed at people with ADHD that say “Are you mad at me?”

​@@jaxorisit1447 this makes sense til you remember she's never had a past relationship 💀 so it's all trauma from... Him??

LMAO PREACH!!

LMFAO!😭😭

Fr but like how does a seven-year old HAVE MORE GAME THAN ME😭😭😭😭💀

She was thinking she had a husband but she is actually alone in this relationship.

​@@plamenapetrova9672 lmao yes she does EVERYTHING herself😭

@@NamesAida.idk man I fell people are projecting. I never follow these guys as I don’t even use TikTok. Might have seen there KZfaq shorts one or two randomly. But you can’t really judge a relationship from few seconds of TikTok.

But at the same time even I don’t like people who flim person life for views then actually living it

it was the realization on her face…

She asked is not like he brought it upb,shes always asking questions and gets mad at the answers

Talk about a trainwreck 😮😮😮

@@admar6934but there’s a way to answer that’s not awful. Years ago Kourtney Kardashian asked Scott Disick the same question, he by no means was a great partner but his answer was something along the lines of “it’s basically the same and I’d do anything to get back in there you’re still the hottest woman alive to me”. That’s the way you answer the question

​@@admar6934 that's the problem with these people. They want to seem open, like they communicate but definitely this is going to crash. It may not happen that soon but it's not going to be good or cute for long. She definitely sees videos like this dissecting their content/marriage and truth hurts

That's how you know someone doesn't love you. My kids Dad made comments about me being chunky and I was already at a lower weight than before I got pregnant at 110 pounds and I was the healthiest I've ever been. It really pissed me off

That’s absolutely horrific he would say that!

I had 2 "natural" births and honestly my friends that has c sections had it harder! C section moms are the real troopers. Pushing a baby out IMO is easier than major abdominal surgery.

wAIT YOURE AWAKE FOR THOSE???

And she had hernia surgery right after her first birth and wasn’t supposed to get pregnant for a year.. and they got pregnant again within months.. It truly seems like he doesn’t value her life.

@@Anrd0meda Yes! They give the pregnant person an injection (known as a "spinal") to numb everything from the waist down. There's a curtain put up so the person giving birth can't see what's happening, though.

And then she calls him an involved and good father

Exactly 💀💀 and what's worse is dad's like this will do the absolute bare minimum and still expect to get praise for *checks notes* taking care of a child they helped make..huh

How did you make the text smaller Edit: I spelled it wrong 🤦‍♀️

​@@kesia872 my dad right now feels like my opps every other day, but I know he was involved when I was a baby. Not only was I told, I actually saw pictures 😅 and we are African, It's actually normal that in 2001, a Nigerian dad hardly held his baby, not like the millennial parents trying to change that, but my dad was even the one at home with me, Mom was working in a bank at the time

@tamiausten873 that's different from framing it as "this is my wife's duty, I'm just doing it as a favor to her." Being involved isn't just holding your baby, and I'm glad your dad was involved in your life. We need parents/parental figures to be involved in how children are raised. These two are mostly influencers, and most of the influence came from her. He's a musician who ignored his wife after she gave birth because he felt having a family was in the way of his music.

Dead 💀🤣

Omg underrated comment 😂

He's gonna be bald by tomorrow

no logic in your comment, because why he not bald yet?

I was thinking the same thing, the second this dude isn’t hot is when Abby will get a self esteem and leave him

Someone else pointed that out and I can't unsee it. She is afraid and that has to come from somewhere.

Some people have traumas and no matter how nice you can be to them, they will still fear rejection, it doesn't prove anything

OK I totally see what you’re saying, but I would be that way no matter what, because of my past

Yeah but she also seems very needy and whiny why no one talks about that? Everyone wants to just go all on the guy but she is very clingy and consyanly needs validation, I have seen their vid3os to say she asks him questions wants thectruth and when she gets it does not like it​@carlycrays2831

Yeah, I absolutely noticed that. It was really freaking sad...and telling.

That’s what I’ve been seeing. I kept choosing douchecanoes and that was just a reflex at one point. It took me years to realize it’s not normal to apologize for everything, no matter how unreasonable.

100%

I never understood it. I view sex as something intimate. Like, if I can't trust you in bed, why would I get married to you?

⁠​⁠@@HazZzel- completely agree it can really bring a couple together, offer a feeling of safety, and make people realize if they are truly compatible or not. Sex isn't a shameful thing and it's unfortunate that people think it is. Waiting for marriage just makes people rush into getting married for the sex, instead of taking years to get to know that person and understand the commitment being made.

Couldn't agree more. To me, marriage is a huge commitment and really means something. It's saying you love someone so much that you want to devote your whole life to them. Going into that just so you can do the deed, honestly, makes a mockery of marriage.

Marrying just to be able to fck is wild. Marriage is more than just sex.

Wait what ?!?!

Are you being serious ?

They had the child together tho. Like he contributed while making of the child. How??? How can you be mad at your wife???

@@bear9295and he also knew she was obviously pregnant for MONTHS prior? Why wait so long to be mad 😭

@@juliannap6878 Kiki Chanel did a long video on them and she shows the video where he talks about this. I recommend watching that. Cooper's video is a good introduction but Kiki shows even more wild shit. 😬

OMG IT GIVES ME THE FRIGGIN ICK WHENEVER HE DOES THAT BECAUSE IT'S LEGIT SO ANNOYING

Ya he talks over her... reminds me of female friend i used to have.. She was so self centered.i have met so many self centered individuals and yes exactly like matt

God, why not just hire a nanny for the trip? But nope, he would complain about that too

@@carlycrays2831facts!

Reminder that this comment could be lying before you take this as fact

⁠​⁠@@carlycrays2831”Abby you’re a not SPENDING TIME WITH THE KID YOU NEED TO BRING HIM OUT INTO THE WORLD AND TAKE CARE OF HIM WHAT IF THE BABYSITTER KIDNAPS HIM???????” And she’s just caught in this idiotic man crossfire.

It literally feels like he's her kid too.

Makes you wonder if he breaks her down whenever the camera is off...

@@_abby_g thats the vibe i always got from them! especially the video of her on the couch after pain meds or whatever. how quick she is to think its her fault for things that she isnt even doing wrong. and you know if she ever tries to say anything about him being stupid lol like lack of brains for the bill situation hes gonna say some dumb shit.

His tone did not help. Or the body language

made it 1k 🔥

@@_abby_gOh he definitely does. If this is what he feels comfortable with saying in front of millions of people, imagine what he feels comfortable with saying in private.

WHAT?damn

Oh god I remember that...that was fucking awful

Are these stories real? I almost can’t believe this person exists.

​@@Alixir1228 I think she just didn't want Matt to do what he did when she gave birth to their second, which was the silent treatment during the most vulnerable times. Whenever they post her breakdowns, she always says to Matt, "don't get mad at me." I get your point, she chose to go and to not baby her. But she seems too much of a people pleaser and doesn't want Matt to be mad at her. It is scary sometimes when the one person she chose to spend the rest of her life can get mad over a simple no.

@@JewelO3411I sometimes thank my fiancé for not getting mad at me when I express certain emotions. it’s due to childhood trauma in my case. My fiancé has NEVER gotten mad at me for expressing myself or abused my trust. But I am afraid to think what would have happened if a controller / abuser had gotten his claws into me when I was younger. I was so vulnerable. Abbey might be in a similar situation. Yes, she is an adult and has the right to make choices. But the reality is sometimes different for people in controlling relationships.

100% true! Weirdo!

I did that to when my brother was born. I was two years old. I gave up ignoring my mother and brother after about 5 hours anyway

@@Ms.delusional_xbc you were two, this man is prolly in his 30’s or somethin, and doesn’t even know how to take care of the house bills💀

⁠@@Ms.delusional_xnow imagine having a spouse with the emotional maturity of a two year old? And the two year old got over it before this grown man who apparently fumed for 2 days. Tragic.

@@harvestcheddar0 Exactly. This man acts like a 5 year old instead of his own age

I would be a widow that’s for sure

He's always filming Abby's meltdowns and posting it you can hear him laugh too. I feel so bad for the kids.

Ick, I would slap his phone away if that's me

@@ninipanini11 😂

She chose this. HE isn’t a content creator THEY are content creatorS!!!!! It’s how they make money on top of doing AIRBNBS. Smh it’s really a joke how everyone is pretending she’s a victim or abused or something. Y’all crazy Brittany spears crazy but Abby a victim 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 weirdos

Mannnn😂😂😂

My exact thought

I mean other KZfaqrs have too

So many problems here. So much dysfunction

Kiki Chanel did a good video on this wild ride a couple of weeks ago! So insane!!

Yeah idk where you've been cuz like every youtuber has made a video about them in the last few weeks

What did he get pissed off about?

He's pathetic.

@@Kimmie9553”she was starving the baby” she was just struggling to lactate… cause you know- it’s literally biological - it’s not like babies even need that much milk upon birth, but he essentially just wouldn’t let her be a mom then stonewalled her for days because a baby was going to disrupt his “music career” that doesn’t even exist

​@@beccaquesnel2806 that's crazy 😧

WHATTTTT

He’ll also be one of those dads that doesn’t know his kids birthdays, their eye colour and their allergies

You literally just explained my whole life in one sentence😭

​@@SincerelyYours_Rebekahexcept people think I'm ungrateful because "at least I have a dad". They don't understand that with fathers like Matt it's better off if you just didn't have 1

@@ojs5988 Factsss

He’s insufferable!

Hmmm

Lol yeah

They also had a YT short where Matt literally did not pay their bills and their water got turned off

Plus you pay the bills once a month and taking care of the kids and cleaning is every second of the day every day

That sounds like an actual nightmare. I cant fathom myself having a baby, let alone finding out I'm pregnant again only FIVE MONTHS after

She was pregnant FIVE MONTHS AFTER THE FIRST BABY!??!?!?!

And had double hernia surgery shortly after her first birth

And she had a hernia surgery around there as well!!!! He barely did shit!

And he said she let him down for merging Father’s Day and his birthday celebration whilst 8 months pregnant 🤯 “you let me down”

Not even sure about the latter, I think he just wanted to kiss/bang someone and sadly he apparently needed to get married to do so.

He just wants to potray an image that he is such a good husband and father. His image is all he cares about. Typical covert narcissist.

Exactly. He uses them as trophies.

​@@PreMal2023Agreed

She said that he takes care of bills but he has admitted to not paying them for 7 months before. Then complained when they piled up.

excactly its so sad

ALWAYS. And this is coming from someone that experienced this exact thing for several years.

what about if she actually belives in what she is saying though??

@@Bella-q9j thats what makes it even more sad

@@Bella-q9ji think she does believe that matt is really being a good husband and father other wise she wouldn’t defend and apologize for him but u think matts probably manipulating her to think that way

Reminds me of some people back in school 😂

More like a birthday month

he def looks like he would cheat during a bachelors party

@@undreyuhh omg 💀

@@undreyuhhREAL

I mean... he was a theatre kid

You sound like me, minus 9 mos pregnant. Happy for you ♥️

you got lucky with your husband! prayers for a safe delivery and a beautiful baby!❤️❤️

Everyone knows we deserve better but where do you find such husbands lol I have no one because I refuse to deal with a drop kick like this 😅

​@@KAKTUS_1991SonMy husband wasn't like this AT ALL when we first met, but he learned! It took a lot of patience. I had to remind myself that a man-child probably doesn't want to be that way either. There's a reason man-children seem frustrated and immature all the time, humans have innate need to care for themselves and when that need isn't met they throw tantrums, ignore other's issues just like they ignore their own issues (expecting someone else to fix it for them), and act selfishly because that's all they were taught to think about. People (man or woman) are robbed of the skills to cope with life when they're raised in a mysognistic environment. Spending time, patience, and willingness to break free from that is an accomplishment within itself and I commend anyone who puts in the effort to unlearn and relearn those basic life skills. That's their responsibility to grow up and their journey to take. The only reason I was so patient with my husband is because I saw he was willing to accept that responsibility of relearning through his actions. Even if some of those dishes were crusty af in the beginning... 😂 That being said, this dude in the video is too far gone. I would launch myself out a window if I had to teach him how to wipe his own ass.

@@user-zj3st9lu8j yeah I mean it comes down to being considerate.. if someone doesn’t respect you there’s no way they’re ‘learning’ how to help out around the house my 11 year old son does almost as much as I do age appropriate and doesn’t complain at all.. reasonings being he will make someone else’s life extremely miserable if he doesn’t step up & I’ve taught him to not settle either.. it goes both ways..

He’s not even sweet to her when she’s having bad days. Even while acting he doesn’t do a good job at being supportive or thinking of her first for once…

Textbook abuser move actually. Trying to show he's the normal one. When you have no idea what his behavior is like behind the scenes.

Imagine if she recorded him lmao he would be soooo pissed

Every time I see a video of her emotionally breaking down and crying, I wish I knew where they lived just so I could go yell "PUT THE DANG PHONE DOWN AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR WIFE PROPERLY!!!😡" at him. Seriously, since when is it ok to film your partner like that instead of comforting them PRIVATELY?!

Ik like if my mom was crying and my dad’s reaction was to take out his phone and start recording and patting her on the back in a fake sweet tone, i would be so concerned.