THE WORST MUM 😢

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Күн бұрын

It’s confession time 😭
Do you ever feel like a failure as a Mum, let’s call it that “Mum guilt” feeling. God knows we have had plenty of such days...when we feel so horrible that we are not being enough for our kids.
You’ve heard our confessions, now it’s your turn. What’s the worst moment you’ve ever felt like as a mother? Share your views with us @bumploveug across all social media
REMINDER: You are not alone because all Mums feel this way and it IS ok because you are a great Mum!
#Motherhood
#BumpLove

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@Akullo_Dee 3 жыл бұрын

Pumla, you choosing what you chose is actually the strongest thing ie choosing happiness because you cant be a good mum if you're unhappy. I applaud you.❤

@denizetumusiime4281 3 жыл бұрын

When was the last time you served a cake and your family asked with open-mouthed amazement… “Where did you buy that?” I will show you in a moment that you don’t need to have a magic baking skill to make this happen.You Can Start This Baking Journey TODAY rb.gy/o4tkfx

@berthatendo8776 3 жыл бұрын

Manuela's story reminds me of how our parents would come late for VD and you would think they have forgotten you

@grazianalu76 3 жыл бұрын

I just discovered you recently and I must say I enjoy watching you 😁. Keep the videos coming 👏🏾👏🏾

@sylviaug53 3 жыл бұрын

Mine is when I left my son at six months I have failed to forgive myself because up to now I have failed to be with him it hurts me so much after everything I hv gone through bt with God am going to start staying with him this month I will never leave him again maybe I will be able to forgive myself coz I even feel guilty when when he tells me I love you mummy he keeps on adding I only have you mummy 😭😭Thanks Mums for sharing with us much love

@daphinepride4841 3 жыл бұрын

Manuella's story got me crying 😢

@hellenkayaga4537 3 жыл бұрын

Haa today I must share, the day I felt like the worst mum is when I was travelling abroad for further studies and initially had to leave our almost-two-year-old daughter behind since her visa had not yet been granted. My flight was late in the night, so we arrived at the airport at around 11pm, and the girl slept all the way from Gayaza to Entebbe, she was deep asleep so I couldn't say bye. I enter and hubby is carrying our baby standing outside, tears were already flowing down my face, then as I went through my last checkpoint she suddenly woke up and saw me disappearing in the queue my heart ached. I literally cried the entire 6-hour flight, and when I reached the University and called she refused to talk to me, all she said is mummy you go and gave me the silent treatment for the next three days. Those days were horrible for me every time I saw a two year-ish child I would break down and cry. Since then no matter where I am going I say bye to her and explain that I will be coming back.

@sarahsemy1616 3 жыл бұрын

🤗🤗

@tashalindqvist7455 3 жыл бұрын

😱😱😱....hope ur hving daily video calls today. Thks for sharing//💞

@annamkyomugisha9639 3 жыл бұрын

I don't know why I'm crying while reading your comment! It's so touching I can imagine

@hellenkayaga4537 3 жыл бұрын

@@annamkyomugisha9639 It was tough my dear, when she finally joined me she literally followed me every where and would even cry when I leave her with hubby to go to class but at least now she is more confident when I say I will be back.

@hellenkayaga4537 3 жыл бұрын

@@tashalindqvist7455 her visa was finally approved so we are together now, I am glad she is with me during this pandemic

@mbaziiracissielevi7254 3 жыл бұрын

Manuela's story is really touching, packing empty containers...ohhh sweeties, I can't imagine how the kids felt at break time.

@sarahsemy1616 3 жыл бұрын

True. Brought tears to my eyes 😥

@pa811 3 жыл бұрын

But GOD surely knows you play your part and you play it well. The rewards of motherhood are so gratifying as the years go by, the little ones will know that their mum's gave them their all.

@penelopeakankwasa994 3 жыл бұрын

Pumla i hear you loud and clear and that was a good decision to me.Kudos to you. Love

@atukundaevalyne1331 3 жыл бұрын

Manuela your story just made me tear down 😭😭😭whattttt Mum how could you forget us ???

@kobusingyejoan7484 Жыл бұрын

I subscribed to Bump love on Ann kansiime video but watched all the videos before,so interesting

@ruthakanyijuka2347 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂Manuela that was extra

@extremeinteriors 3 жыл бұрын

Ladies am loving this episode. Me deciding to take my 2 year old to my mum because of lame reasons like work. I want every hour with my children I want to raise them myself. I feel they should be part of work. Am not giving up on them

@atusiimiiregenerous1696 Жыл бұрын

When my baby was just two months, I reported back to work and at my workplace they never allowed me to go with the baby but they told me to always go back home and breastfeed my baby every after few hours, my baby was on exclusive breastfeeding , I used to breastfeed twice after lunch and find him in the evening, and one time I forgot to go back home after lunch🙄🙄🙄🙄🙆

@sharifanaigaga6416 3 жыл бұрын

my daughter makes me proud when she answers me exactly as i want her to answer

@denizetumusiime4281 3 жыл бұрын

@AddahKyarisiima 3 жыл бұрын

hahaa.. Racheal's exclamations when Manuela was talking.

@NOTANOTHERYOUTUBE 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@kingavi6240 3 жыл бұрын

😢😢ehh Manuela dat was too much

@lornamaria 3 жыл бұрын

lmao,😂 Manuela's story is sending me... the empty containers. sorry 😭

@ELDRofficial 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this inspiration 💜 Creativity shouldn’t stop with becoming a parent, thats when life really opens up and we can gain deeper understanding about ourselves, and mysterious existence itself! This is stuff I’m exploring on my channel with a DIY reality show UV:TV- about being a musician and parent during Covid :) Thanks again!Thanks

@aggiemahoro8935 3 жыл бұрын

Where is Angie Bambi, love you ladies ❤️❤️❤️

@lindahkiwendo4464 3 жыл бұрын

Woow pumlaaa, it's so hard for mothers to pack and leave, now that u say, a mother's welfare means happiness to the baby too. Wooowww. It makes sense now. So many women get lost in the efforts of trying to make it work. And kiboko comes with mumz stay which is not fair for the children. Am trying to remember emboko zebankuba mukama. Like recently I even asked my mum. .why she always beat me like for no reason. She said nange nali simanyi. Like each time she wanted to fight, BUSUNGU on me.😀😀😀😀 ( Am not advocating for anyone's separation in marriage here.) My mum is the best mum I can ever have and I would never trade anything for her.

@mbaziiracissielevi7254 3 жыл бұрын

Leaving my son home for another country to work,I feel that makes me the worst mum ever. I haven't been around to see him grow.

@nabiryeasia9091 Жыл бұрын

Me we had talked about it with ma Dota a day before and I thought she understood but that day I woke slowly thinking she still sleeping but my Dota didn't sleep that she was in her blanket looking at everything I was doing and then on me opening the door to leave she raised her head slowly and looked at me with tears in her eyes I can't get over it

@atuheirediana110 3 жыл бұрын

Manuela's story got me into tears. Well the day I felt like the worst mum is when I squeezed my baby's two fingers with a door. 😭😭😭😭, He was in too much pain and I really felt it too. Later one of the finger nails has moved out and there is a ka small one growing up again. So painful to me till now. Like there is evidence😭😭😭😭

@bumploveug 3 жыл бұрын

atuheire diana awwww so sorry hun

@sylviaug53 3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@shanto0613 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣I'm sorry you just said their was evidence. Poor baby

@byamukamaarinaitwe5418 3 жыл бұрын

When I was in top class in 2001, i was forgotten at school and actually spent the night 😅 I used to spend days btn home and at my godparents' but this one day when my godparents came to pick me up, I told them I wanted to go home and my Mum was coming to get me, yet my mum thought I was going to my godparents' like I had done the previous day...long story short, i spent the night at school 😅

@kalwangadollar9457 3 жыл бұрын

Oooh😢

@kyagulanyiitungo7356 3 жыл бұрын

Luv u ladies. Naye where z Angie?

@stellahwanyoike7865 Жыл бұрын

Empty Containers Manuela and Pumla.....Woooow 😅😅😅😂😂😂. SORRY 🫢🤭🫣

@nabiryeasia9091 Жыл бұрын

Me I almost killed my daughter. now after 4days of labor no sleep we finally come back home that day I slept dead not remembering the baby cried to the extent of just hmmmm hmmmm its the neighbor that banged the door soo hard for me to wake up. I felt sooo bad I could imagine the worst and look at my baby's red face hoooo

@carlined3867 3 жыл бұрын

Hello Thanks for sharing ... i know I’m not Alone .... Gros bisous all the way from France .... 🥰🥰🥰🥰

@bumploveug 3 жыл бұрын

Carline D thank you for tuning in 🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🇫🇷 🇺🇬

@maryannenayebare8813 3 жыл бұрын

I dont know but one moment i know for sure that my mum felt like she was the worst was back in 2016 when she had to leave me in mombasa bc our airtickets were booked wrongly. Lol she actually cried and i was 16😂

@bagagarebekah6687 3 жыл бұрын

Pumla ka skin colour keko... Nice topic mums

@sunshinelove4847 3 жыл бұрын

That thing of empty containers, we can always show the kids when they are of age how to do it because it happens more often than not with people who are busy.

@sarahsemy1616 3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂. How to do it? When my son was still little at Acorns, they used to ask them to help with house work and one of the things spelled out by the school was to help to pack their break. So, whenever he would pack the break, he would eat it while packing😂😂😂 to the extent that sometimes the school would write and say . . . mum, today he brought half a snack. So, I started commenting on the assignment page that ....I stopped him from packing break snacks so that part of his assignment would not be done 😂😂

@sunshinelove4847 3 жыл бұрын

@Sarah Semy that is hilarious but they also learn responsibility. If you eat it at home then no break at school. By the way, there are kids who even forget to eat because they prefer playtime. Something has to give 😂

@yetamwamimoses2886 3 жыл бұрын

Flavia talked abt manuela

@esthernalugwa6297 3 жыл бұрын

Ohh Rachael......

@florencenjeri1698 5 ай бұрын

Manuela😢😢😢😢 I don't know how to forgive yet it's not me you hurt

@kisaakyebarbie2107 3 жыл бұрын

I aint a mother yet but Manuellaz story made me tear up

@user-gu5pf7gq4o 8 ай бұрын

kkkkkkk eh Manuela kkk. ok. so pardon me watching old episodes. my bad mom moment was back when my daughter was weeks old. her being my first child, i was still in that period of trying what diaper brands are working for her. until i tried something that burnt her skin. i rly felt bad. it was acheap brand on the market . never again

@aijukabridget4506 Жыл бұрын

Manuela wooow......

@winykwin8094 3 жыл бұрын

Pumla's sarcasm just kills me... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@kayeangella8220 3 жыл бұрын

When the cab was here in the morning instead on helping him dress quickly to catch the cab I kept telling him be quick be quick why are u too slow😶😑

@Mukisawhite6740 3 жыл бұрын

Hitting my girls with my hands in anger, now I don't. Bad mother

@emillybetha2667 3 жыл бұрын

Ma worst was when I told ma 6year old girl to open for me the gate and I step on her feet with a car and it took me some time to notice what was going on because I parked on her leg to ask why she was crying until she told and I had to drive away 😭😭😭😭😭😭

@marionk7915 3 жыл бұрын

Oh noo , sorry hope she is now fully healed

@emillybetha2667 3 жыл бұрын

@@marionk7915 yes ma dear.

@kisaakyebarbie2107 3 жыл бұрын

Oooh nooo i cant imagyn

@mbaziiracissielevi7254 3 жыл бұрын

Ohhh nooo,sorry dear...thank God she's well now.

@sylviaug53 3 жыл бұрын

Oh God it was to much for her ka maama

@sherrywilliams3691 3 жыл бұрын

My day was when I clapped my 6 months baby, my God since then I promised never to lay a finger on him again.....

@kirabosseba3811 Жыл бұрын

When my daughter blindly fell into a pan of boiling milk and now she has scars all over her body every time I see her naked I feel guilty why didn't I stop her from running around

@JK-jb7ys 2 жыл бұрын

Ok Rosette's story... Like it makes you feel like a total failure. Like someone should save your kids from you.

@doraho669 3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry to say this but Rosette has a local look.

@beqywana6080 3 жыл бұрын

This is mean.

@doraho669 3 жыл бұрын

@@beqywana6080 I agree it's mean but it's the truth

@sabanopeace7288 3 жыл бұрын

Dear Dorah, I hope this finds you well..I don't know if you're a Christian but incase you are or not, The creator of Heaven and Earth Commands us to love one another the way he loves us in John 13:34-35 and to do every thing in Love as Apostle Paul explains in 1 Corinthians 16:14..and I pray that next time when you're commenting about how a person looks like you first ask yourself if you're spreading love and Positive energy because people are battling with so many things the world may never even know. Lastly, This is a platform that is helping many about Motherhood and these are Mothers with their own lives but take off time to come and share with us precious knowledge which is even sold but they are giving us freely bringing experts to explain so many things that are life changing and it's saddening that your comment is not even inline with the topic discussed but also disrespectful. I hope God grants you the kind heart to understand why the platform exists and also be respectful to people not only Ms Rosette but also other people you feel look local to you as you explained or even any way you feel people should look, but if it's hard, Imagine Ms Rosette is your dear Mum and someone comes and throws a demeaning comment 🤔,How will you feel? It's really sad that the Lady you disrespected ( Ms Rosette) gave birth recently and still has time to help many of us through this platform but that's all you could see..Anyways I hope you heed to loving and lifting people up because that's what the World needs my dear one. Please be kind ,be safe and know that God loves you🙏🏾

@mubiruhussein7541 3 жыл бұрын

be nice

@phyllisnabangi7353 3 жыл бұрын

Please be Kind, not everyone hurts