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The Wounded Inner Child
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Күн бұрынAll of us have a wounded inner child. In today’s video I am going to share with you the two types of the wounded inner child because they will tell you a lot about how your codependency is showing up in your adult life and why your life and relationships are so chaotic.
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Hi, I'm Kenny 👋
I specialize in helping you heal from emotional hurt, codependency, and the pain from your past so you can elevate your life by helping you get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable.
I am an advocate for truth and healing. So naturally, therefore, my emotional mastery method might initially feel a bit rough. But, when you start finding answers to the questions you ask yourself (even those you're afraid of), break free from self-destructing behaviors, and begin loving yourself and living your best life, you will feel powerful and empowered.
To calm the chaos within and take charge of our lives, we must process our problems. The best way to overcome them and heal is to face our fears and uncover hard truths. Therefore, I provide the space and the information necessary to openly communicate and discover how to honestly, authentically, and logically process your emotions without fear. In short, I allow you to feel safe in my small part of the world until you can feel safe within yourself.
Sometimes when we look for answers to the most challenging questions, our greatest fears are realized. But, then, when we learn the truth communicated with the possible solutions, we often find an outcome better than we dared to dream.
If you have looked everywhere, are desperate for a solution, and you're ready to stop being held hostage by your emotional misery, your journey to emotional mastery starts here.
It's the secret to finding yourself!
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@prismbrandingrealestatebra6301 2 жыл бұрын
I am/was that overwhelmed 3 year old: (raped as a toddler, sent to psych ward at 5 yrs old, mother was BPD). This man is the real deal. The things he is teaching is more important than the science or mathematics taught in school.
@nicolewaltemate3425 Жыл бұрын
This is so true. I am on a healing journey and doing a ton of inner child work. My trauma has played out in every aspect of my life. Mostly in my intimate relationships. I always go for unavailable addicts. I am starting to actually grieve after another failed relationship and learning to love that little girl that has just wanted love and safety her entire life. I am starting to be that for myself. What i am starting to see is that my false self is very loud and aggressive and assertive. People have told me I have very masculine energy and I adapted to that growing up to protect myself and for attention I wanted from my parents. My true self is actually a lot more quiet and gentle but I was never allowed to be that. It is a huge transformation and also very beautiful.
@haileymchugh Жыл бұрын
I could cry. For the first time soooo many things are making sense. 🙏🏼
@dpizzle98 Жыл бұрын
Crying is ok
@BlessedWithEight 2 жыл бұрын
I am in no way an expert on mental health. Just my experiences with myself and others claiming "empath". From what I have learned about the way the brain works, I do believe that being an "empath" is likely 100% trauma related. Our brains are all about watching for signs that could threaten our lives. If you are in a high state of alert because you are being traumatized and abused on a regular basis, you become supernaturally good at reading people because you *must*.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Scientifically we have never been able to prove a so-called empath gene or somebody being born highly sensitive. Those are all suppositions. Based on what we know scientifically about how the brain and body works the evidence available points towards childhood trauma being the creation of the highly sensitive or empathic person.
@leahflower9924 2 жыл бұрын
Oh god I never though of that its terrifying but very eye opening that is also what we call hyper vigilance I guess
@ivanesteves2828 2 жыл бұрын
Kenny , Gregg Braden and possibly Paul Wallis/5th KindTV has videos referring specifically to a Gene/DNA upgrade that took place 200,000 years ago that gave us the ability/potential to feel empathy as pure humans.. it all appears legit..maybe worth checking out..lemme know what you feel after seeing it. Absolutely love your work..thanks for being genuine
@dawnmartinez5344 Жыл бұрын
Oh that’s good!!
@irinamladenoska7539 Жыл бұрын
OMG. I have been there I am a recovered codependent. Raised from a covert narc mum and an alcoholic (I think codependent) daad that I loved so much. I had a very traumatized childhood and was married to an overt narc for 22 years. I escaped, let go, healed the inner child, healed the codependency and am on my way to the best version of me -mu authentic self. I feel like a little child, just liberating my self. It was a lot of pain amd shock - my rediscovering process. Now I am reparenting my self. Thank you for all your work. Tnx for all my teachers in the self descovery process.
@bingersinger1517 Жыл бұрын
Bravo for seeing the CoVid issues with clarity. Children have been harmed in so many ways. As an Educator with 30 years experience, an entire generation has been harmed by this over the top reaction to a virus. Tragic!
@getYOURrawON 2 жыл бұрын
Where have you been all my life? So much practical and grounded wisdom!!!! Thank you so much!!!
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😁
@doloresdercole381 Жыл бұрын
When the student is ready for the lesson the teacher will appear
@Sanlynnben 11 ай бұрын
The 4 W’s never truly bring true peace and inner joy.
@Juke582 Жыл бұрын
Most profound video I have watched yet!!! I am crying hysterically as it describes me to a tee!!! I am a super over-achiever from a very wounded childhood and because I only attracted narcissists or other wounded child abusive codependents, I feel lost and destroyed at age 60! I withdraw from people and all social now ruminating about my awful life! Trying to figure it all out. Trying to change as I keep doing same pattern and I hate it now! I feel defeated and looking for a way to be normal. This is so hard! 😫 I still want a mate in retirement but don’t know how to attract and find one?? I thought I had it 2 yrs ago and he was worst narcissist compulsive liar and fake covert I had ever met so got rid of him 5 weeks in, but emotionally destroyed from the extreme emotional abuse he did to me still! I made sense of it but can only put it behind me once I find my boundaries and meet a real man! I always had so much to offer so I am sad that I never met a good guy who could appreciate someone like me! Working on my confidence but in a different pattern! This video helped me the most so far in my journey! You a doc are the healer I need! You understand patients like no other therapist!!! Brilliant 👏 Your worth is immeasurable!!!
@bethjco9826 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much! I am blown away by your insight, knowledge and profound ability to explain this. You are a blessing!
@tannisshaw-lewis8024 2 жыл бұрын
Great video - you touched on so many things, including COVID, which I really appreciated! So much fear invoked into the public by our governments and now I understand why so many people are getting sucked into the fear.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, we are all stuck in the pain from the past and we don’t know that because everyone’s afraid of talking about the real source of these problems
@Kalina1982 2 жыл бұрын
I am an empath. I don’t know who I am. I was thinking about this yesterday. I’m always worried about what others are feeling that I don’t know what I’m feeling.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
And that can be the problem with the term empath. What that really means is a severely traumatized individual who is Hypervigilant And scanning the environment for the next threat. A person who doesn’t know what they are feeling is a person who is stuck in severe trauma from their past. I have a few suggestions for you. To understand what’s going on inside of you you have to understand the science of what’s happening to you. I would start with purchasing the book “how emotions are made” so you can see that it’s your trauma from your past and because you learned those emotions you are now projecting them onto everyone. People think that others make us feel things but it’s not true, we project our assumptions onto other people. We actually make ourselves feel this way and make ourselves into these so-called empath. You’ll need to understand how that happens because the information out there makes it sound like you have this tremendous gift and there’s nothing you can do about it and that’s just not true My second suggestion is to sign up for my free master class so you can start seeing how your childhood trauma is creating all of this. In less than 30 days you’ll be able to identify how your childhood created the loss of your ability to feel. thegreatnessu.com/p/your-journey-to-emotional-mastery Finally, I would suggest picking up a copy of my book so you can see how the worst recycle is repeating in your life and creating your so-called empathic personality. It’ll also show you how to begin the healing process www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1981471014/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1628359317&sr=8-3
@philu4621 Жыл бұрын
I'm 32 and freaking losing it lately...ive pushed every painful emotion, fear, insecurity so far down i just can't do it anymore can't deny anymore...
@judi5671 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are awesome. I thank you for sharing. It is very sad that insurance pays for broken arms, legs and sickness, but don't care about mental health problems. I went and talked to some and had to pay 1000.00 for my 1st visit. I can't afford that, so thank you for your videos. May Yehovah/ God bless you.
@philu4621 Жыл бұрын
God bless you for this for real man! We get lost in externals and lose our minds and hearts in it all.
@saraliburd7752 2 жыл бұрын
Your level of understanding and depth is so refreshing…..thank you
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
That’s very nice of you to say. And you are very welcome. :-)
@crystalgonzales4534 Жыл бұрын
I had to look for this concept of the wounded inned child because I'm so dysfunctional that it's getting on the way of me becoming an independent, healthy adult. I've explored many things like the shadow self, etc. Came accross this too. But continued to be distracted and not putting in the action I need. I can see myself get small whenever my mother is around. I can catch myself feeling awful whenever she doesn't even listen to me. And the shame that comes with it. And catch myself still thinking how I can make her accept me, see me, listen to me 😂. I'm still that neglected, ignored child that had to be perfect, overachieve and just be exactly what she wants in order to be seen and accepted. I can see myself doing this. Now I just need the tools to deal with this. I can now see that this high empathy is just an adaptive mechanism. In my childhood I was forced to parent myself and siblings, i was shamed, yelled at, even beaten. I had to be an example, i had to perfet, i had to be mature because she was a single parent with a lot of trauma on her own, and she took that out on me. I was never allowed to be myself. And now I'm filled with anger, and adaptive behaviors, tendencies and delusions. Ive deluted myself to the point I don't even know who I am. Thank you so much for this video!!!! You're so true. Many people, just like her would continue to refuse to heal even if given the information. But thats fine. I care only about my healing now.
@nylaclancy2655 Жыл бұрын
You went deep..I needed it too. Sure opened up a hallway to explore, Thankyou.❣️
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
So glad!
@josephinebournes8212 2 жыл бұрын
Another insightful video 👏🏿 I see exponential growth for your KZfaq channel throughout 2022 🙏🏾
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😁
@amykecskes7356 2 жыл бұрын
Agree. I just heard about him yesterday and just subscribed. Such good stuff.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
@@amykecskes7356 thank you very much Amy and welcome😁
@legacybuilders5557 2 жыл бұрын
Awareness is key🤯🤔🙂🤗
@curtalbert8472 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kenny and you are doing a great job!
@nesrinemakhlouf4373 2 жыл бұрын
Your work is Awesome, Kenny! Thank you for helping me learn more about myself. God bless❤️🙏
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
You are very welcome. If you think you can help others please share it so we can join together and making a change
@edwardmills3221 Жыл бұрын
You and all your presentations are are so helpful. You have helped me understand myself like never before.
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@deborahcohen9637 Жыл бұрын
You know what? Being a premature baby 🐥🍼 was traumatic! I was born three months early. So, I've been called a "lazy piece of shit," by two exes, within four years. So hell no, I'm NOT a "lazy piece of shit." I have never been lazy. I have always been strong af, fighting, surviving, trying to breakthrough, and be a warrior since I was born. Those exes are the lazy, weak piece of craps for not being able to see my strength 💪 and authenticity!
@masteringfibromyalgia 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that you started making videos and KZfaq suggested your channel. I am learning so much!
@paulagriffithpaulag2 2 жыл бұрын
Love you Kenny!!! Your the real deal! I share your videos with my Dad and brother. I was watching the Judds documentary and crying like a baby. Naomi was wounded by her childhood and Wynona I mean its everything you teach. I was just like blown away. And I was like thank God I got your book a few years ago. It really saved my life. I wish famous people and more people knew what you teach.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Paula. I wish for the same thing!
@tomnelson203 Жыл бұрын
Thanks again beautiful man.
@saraicarranza1244 Жыл бұрын
You got me with the sarcasm 🫣
@lucindafergusonart 2 жыл бұрын
You really are spot on with your comments, expressing frustrations I have with people over certain subjects, but unfortunately, those people, those needy people are just like that, they don't want to be freed, I often think we should all get a refresher of either Logan's Run or the Time Machine, or maybe sheep people need to remain that way, but that's the thing when they try to en sheep others ,putting kids in masks for no reason, to feel safe, It's for them not for anyone else that's crazy.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Yes👏😁
@Jesusfreak99614 6 ай бұрын
Kenny could you make videos on the codependent or broken celebrities how their brokenness made them who they are break down their personality analysis as well, as their worst day cycle ect
@sunchic077 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comments on the ridiculousness of Covid. You’re an incredible person and would be an amazing friend to have. Thank you for all you do and I just bought your book and 3 others you recommended since discovering you a week ago. So helpful and informative. ❤
@honestlygio7830 Жыл бұрын
Thumbs up and subscribed. * very open * to the pt * logical * truth hurts but you kept it real Thx!
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
Much appreciated
@PresenceOfMindPisces 2 жыл бұрын
I have both. I feel like my parents have both but my mother has more of the disempowered and my father has mostly the falsely empowered. This is how I perceive the situation. They refuse to talk to me about it. My mother is a little bit more open to it though. If I try to talk to my dad about it he just gets angry and shuts down. Or says this is who I am this is who I always be or it is what it is. My mom will just shut down and cry. Probably full of shame and Guilt even though we are all working on ourselves and healing. But it is important to talk about these things.
@carolynballerina5342 2 жыл бұрын
Another truth-file, thanking you Kenny.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome
@MissLisaBowes Жыл бұрын
I also had a friend who also had to spend time in a hospital and a jail due to domestic issues. Her family could not handle her when she came out. I ended up having her for 8 months. I recalled how difficult it was to be our in a store with her, however, I also recalled how it felt coming out of one-being on a 5 day to months long lock down. So, we got through it together and I just showed patience. It takes patience.
@Machiavelli.R.Us. 2 жыл бұрын
Profound about wounded child and cv That makes it make perfect sense Thanks
@JS-lm3lq 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely take on victimhood and want to heal it and break down then defensive and angry parts
@Gigiyoungerme 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👌 Journey I am 60 this year on my birthday and wonder how I made it to 60 So far when I make time for myself from the time I was wee high to a grasshopper. I am great with my long term memory bad with my short term memory In my 30's for a decade(1990's) I wrote 33 books(never published) Prior to a couple years of Journaling I had re occurring bad dreams & nightmares (shaky house; house of cards; the darkest the room anxiety rising to its peak stuff in my dreams no matter how hard I worked things got worse etcetera) Journaling help me to realize I can change my thought process that I did not have to be stuck in my nightmare However in my relationship choices I usually connect to my inner critic me I never published my books Because I believed that writing was helping me regulate my high anxiety to what I thought was creating emotional balance for me...anyways my loving to write I could go on and on getting lost in my own thoughts probably dissociation I just thank you for sharing God Bless 🙌 🙏 Today The Wounded Inner Child with Kenny Weiss In video quote "Could this be a Narc or falsely co dependent enabler We all 'need' to go back and heal the worse day cycle The wounded child & The adapted wounded child By Mr. Kenny Weiss Thank you Kenny 😁
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday
@Gigiyoungerme 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennyweiss Thank you ahead of time my birthday month May
@ivanesteves2828 2 жыл бұрын
great material Kenny
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
I’m happy it helped you
@shoshanakashnow8435 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for helping me make sense of my life with your words.
@tdelcambre6063 Жыл бұрын
Definitely enjoy your videos
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@My_House_ Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kenny, I listened to this one over and over and it says everything I always try to explain for myself and to others. I wrote it out on paper so I can also read it once in a while. 🙂👍🏼
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome
@PresenceOfMindPisces 2 жыл бұрын
I feel all ts. So challenging.
@alanbennett7017 2 жыл бұрын
I was wondering why was there a half hour long advertisement at the start of this video it is of course because you're telling the truth about Covid! SMH. I hope it's not impacting your monetization too much 'cause I love your content. I've gotten the books you've recommended. Thanks for all the help.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome
@hotkittycat775 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video, I am so impressed by your ability of explaining complex psychlogical issues in such an interesting way. Thank you for sharing this masterpiece!
@caddertater 2 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense. Right on. Thank you.
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
😁
@mariekilcoyne2143 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennyweiss masterclass
@mariekilcoyne2143 2 жыл бұрын
The greatness you
@Limlani 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Refreshing insight. Some life / attitude changing thoughts in this .. (our poor children[!] [Society at large]). Hopefully if i learn enough, the issues i've handed down to mine in her 4 years of life thus far i can help her figure out later down the line!) Live and learn!
@peachjuice632 Жыл бұрын
60 years old with 3 Degrees, even WITH MASTER DEGREE, still wounded wondering WHY THEY waste so much time on those Degrees.
@janethomas78 Жыл бұрын
I was told I need to move away, MAYBE?? , I have tired moving many times--- people abuse me wherever I AM! because I am stuck in this mess, at 63 yrs. I know I connect w all of the wrong people and shut out and blamed by the rest?? I have NOTHING!! I lost everything being scammed!! Abuse has effected my ability to have a career, finish school, complete anything? I am here. alone. always or in an abusive relationship.at work, at church anywhere!!
@lisacaspero2265 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kenny, it’s helpful!
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@pamulawallace4330 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video ❤
@mikelisteral7863 7 ай бұрын
shame > codependency > fear of intimacy > avoidant attachment style > antisocial personality disorder
@Spark_Iskra_z_Polski 5 ай бұрын
I do not think it is good to generalize and oversimplify. If you are in a toxic society, in which ppl ARE liars, manipulators, cheats, etc. It is natural to behave in ways that will protect you from further harm. Sometimes keeping yourself to yourself is the only way after multiple efforts to make friends that are mutually interested, invested and are added value to both lives. I have always been an overachiever, friendly, open, etc. But because of the above I am no longer interested in social relationships beyond the small talk or providing a helping help that will not result in losing mine, etc. :) Unfortunately, people cannot stop lying to themselves and others, so why bother to talk? If you want to be you, and live acc to your own values and standards, you need to learn to protect yourself to continue your walk safe and sound, in the meaning of sound mind too. I had to give up working as a teacher because the system and its workers are too toxic and abusive. Our life choices should not, in my view, support what we do not want to be a part of. Life can be simple, even when it gets harder. I reflected on life, others and myself since childhood. I loved myself because no one would or could. I know I am not toxic because I care, put up boudaries and do my best to keep them, but most importantly, follow God's guidance. He is my therapist, counsellor, friend. He trains his children to overcome evil, to be warriors, to be gentle, wise, not gullible. The more ppl follow his path, the fewer ppl will be hurt or harmed.
@mikelisteral7863 5 ай бұрын
@@Spark_Iskra_z_Polski but are you protecting yourself from something real? or imaginary
@pearlrosebbruce5241 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I'm not empath anymore because I don't like to be nice tor un-nice people anymore
@KayliDaShizNit 2 жыл бұрын
Best comment 💪
@jamesgarzillo7669 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@tomnelson203 Жыл бұрын
Kenny when i go to that site, the program is advertised for $47 a month.
@kennyweiss Жыл бұрын
There are several options to choose from. You can take the free introductory class titled your journey to emotional mastery for free. Or you can purchase the complete emotional mastery method for $47 a month or you can purchase certain classes in bundles as one time payments. If you scroll through You will see all the different options
@philu4621 Жыл бұрын
I spent so many years trying to become what I thought I needed to be for my father to love me just to find out it was another dead end street.
@gregogonowski2503 Жыл бұрын
It may be rare but there are people who had a perfect childhood. I was one of them. There was never a moment my parents neglected me in anyway. Many times I wonder how they did it. They were always there for my every need. Never did they fight and they always comforted me, put me first and always talked to me without yelling. Many people find it hard to believe but the ones closest in our family circle always verify it cause so few people believe that can even exist.
@Spark_Iskra_z_Polski 5 ай бұрын
If they put you first, they may have created a grandiose narcissist.
@PresenceOfMindPisces 2 жыл бұрын
I've been trying to heal this what seems like forever. 🙄
@ranjanarudra Жыл бұрын
All of it.. disempowered and thinking am crazy or that there’s something wrong with me…all my life… am 52 and have had terrible relationships through out! I know that there’s something from childhood which I need to heal I just don’t know what it is… reached a point of giving up after a terrible terrible relationship with a narcissist who discarded me after using me and disappeared!🤷♀️
@ranjanarudra Жыл бұрын
I have the knowledge and awareness and intellectual intelligence and no emotional intelligence!🤦♀️
@tami2595 Жыл бұрын
A wonderful 38 minute video ruined by commercials every eight minutes, practically. Interruptions continuously! I hate KZfaq now!
@mysticalgod3417 3 ай бұрын
One question..does this work for social anxiety. And fears and insecurities?
@michellereyes8963 2 жыл бұрын
How do you heal the wounded child of an 11 year old? How can we heal before she enters adulthood? What is the right path?
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Because I don’t have the particulars of the situation or all of the information, the best I can do is offer two important steps that need to be included no matter what the details are. The first is to hire a professional to help your child learn to navigate whatever they have experienced. The second and probably the most important aspect is for the parents to embark on their own journey of recovery. Children become their parents emotional condition. So, if the parents have never done the work to heal their pain and are not continually working on their own emotional growth their children don’t have a model to follow. The more stable the parents are the more stable the child will be. That’s the greatest gift we can ever give our children is to make our recovery from our pain our deepest priority. If you don’t know how to do that, my website is filled with all the different ways I provide people with the necessary skills and tools to heal and grow. If it were me I would get started on that journey immediately. kennyweiss.net/
@yabsra5796 Жыл бұрын
Good content but why is it so monetized. For such a serious discussion. Am add every 3 minutes
@lisacaspero2265 2 жыл бұрын
So true Kenny. Covid insanity!
@peggygarcia1131 Жыл бұрын
22:17 sarcastic
@lisacaspero2265 2 жыл бұрын
Kenny, in this journey that I’m on, In addition to being an empath I’ve learned I’m also an introvert. It can take hours, days, even weeks for what someone says to hit me. Do you have any videos that talk about that? Are all empaths introverts?
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
What you’re describing is complex PTSD not introversion. You’re going into freeze and fawn. I would suggest picking up Pete walkers book titled complex PTSD from surviving to thriving
@davidkeener6710 Жыл бұрын
I understand the mask point! But for new virus saftey has a point?
@SBSECOMMUNITY Жыл бұрын
Thanks. Ur great where are u located ?
@gabes7356 Жыл бұрын
Kenny masks are a cultural issue for America as much as it is important to see peoples expressions and feelings come through the face, the purpose of the mask is not to protect the wearer it’s to prevent others from catching Your germs. If you are sick and your inability to do your part in reducing the chances of getting someone else sick that becomes your responsibility as a community we must heal together.
@peggygarcia1131 Жыл бұрын
24:50
@megandavis324 Жыл бұрын
You are an inspiration for me 🙏🏻❤🌈
@Jwet1100 6 ай бұрын
if it's impossible not to leave abandonment neglect and shame in children why is becoming a parent normalized. We're too self aware to continue our species.
@smartypants6198 2 жыл бұрын
I've wondered why so many of these over achieving young women have been committing suicide. Like the Stanford one and Chesley.
@pearlrosebbruce5241 2 жыл бұрын
I thought when i was an empath always an empath.
@PresenceOfMindPisces 2 жыл бұрын
So how do I fix this?
@darksirens4472 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this has literally ruined childhood adulthood my relationships, family, possibly why I felt the need to obtain multiple degree's, a workaholic, go figure I work ED and Detox. Jesus,I have healed none, I have no words. Thank you for this✨
@indyj3n 2 жыл бұрын
Please give page# and book Title of your notes.
@chandankarmakar1362 Жыл бұрын
Hi,i like what you say...but i think you are not correct when you sort of say no parent is intentionally abusive....i think they often are, and that too intentionally.... it's all a power game to a narcissist.i was born in a broken family in which the father was dominant, agressive, physically abusive....,most importantly,an ego-driven individual who thought he could do or say anything to me without any justification....like "i do it because I am father and have right" ...yet at the same time loving(!!!!!????). he said i was a bone in his rib cage...but this vanished when he got abusive in one way or the other... i got a huge slap on my face because I read a novel in which the first was a slang(a great novel by saresh bose of Bengali literature.BIBOR(the bottomless pit) and my father did so being provoked by my elder brother who is a golden child in our family dynamics,and never cared to answer why he allowed my mother to be so terribly abusive...(yet i loved him ,he died 3years ago,and still love him)..and my mother is a nerc whom i was forced to leave after my father's death. i just tell you one thing.she just just intentionally hurt me to silence me, she has done it as long as i can remember....i wonder what she did when i was a child. you know most of my childhood memories have been wiped off.... now i know the reason... it's a generational nercissism running in my family. i understand why they were what they were...and my mother is. . i don't agree no parent is intentionally abusive and they just happen to be.wrong. i am in the forties and know how destructive a nerc parent can be...my mom is still what she is...has been so all through....i live in west bengal in india where nercissism is not that heard or understood... it's all like a parent can do anything to a child they have given birth to...and it's a tremendous societal shame and sanction to question why they are so abusive.... it's a unquestioned parental privilege. Here.
@waterchilde Жыл бұрын
I still love your videos. I just don't like what you said about a virus that has literally killed too many of my friends. No exaggeration. Killed.
@TRUTHSPEAKER-888 2 жыл бұрын
Both🙋🏻♀️ more Falsley empowered at this stage of life...spent the first half of my life lost and disempowered alcoholic...I'm screwed😄🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
Or just perfectly imperfect. 😁
@kashkakent3511 2 жыл бұрын
May I ask what your credentials are to be able to have knowledge and speak on this topic …. Have you studied Psychology or Psychiatry at all.. I see you are a professional coach… and an Author…I’m just wondering if there is any solid based studies and where or how you came up with your theories? Kind regards kashka
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
I am auto didactic and have spent decades with experts and professionals to heal my imperfections as well as researching and learning on my own.😁
@kashkakent3511 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennyweiss So you are self taught.. no actual qualifications… is that what you are saying ?
@kennyweiss 2 жыл бұрын
@@kashkakent3511 I’m a certified professional life coach.
@kashkakent3511 2 жыл бұрын
@@kennyweiss How long was your course to get certified?
@elenamarton2319 Жыл бұрын
@@kashkakent3511 What is your point here???
@lisacaspero2265 2 жыл бұрын
People are drama addicted!
@TheVirtualness 2 жыл бұрын
It's good content but I'm confused.... Are you saying every single person is a codependent? If so I'm confused because I was sent to your videos via an attachment community group that after hearing about my relationship stuckness and what they considered my emotional control and abuse from partner said I was codependent. Also if everyone suffers trauma as a child aren't 100% of children and therefore adults either disempowered or falsely empowered people? So what does healthy look like or is it actually a unicorn?