"If he's not looking for you, you're standards are unrealistic." That is absolutely true. If you haven't shaped yourself into the sort of person your preferred kind of man or woman is looking for, you have no reason to expect them to choose you.

So refreshing to hear a logical woman living in the real world.

She’s a real breath of fresh air. I’m glad to see women with brains still exist.

This woman’s words and expression are like honey to the ears…Sis gets it. Blessings to her and her Man!

Finally ......A legitimate feminine black woman who understands and happily embraces her role as a wife and mother.

45 minutes in and I’ve already shared this with 5 women

She nailed it refreshing to hear a logically sounded woman for once thank you 🙏🏼 💯

Men want a wife, women want to get married.

She's the truth!!!!! What she said is perfectly correct....

Taccara got Jesse mystified! He looking like where did this unicorn come from?!😊

She is absolutely amazing! The way you can tell if a man is great is by his wife, the way she carries herself and the thoughts that she speaks!

Her standup has been in my suggestions heavy. She's funny as hell and this just solidified her as my fav female comedian

They call me a “pick me” too And B!tch I’m chosen 🙄 They’re single unmarried with dogs 🐶

Hearing her talk is like a breath of fresh air. She gets it😎💪🏾🙌🏾

Glad to see an honest, logical woman who understands and is in a functioning relationship.

Thank you Tacarra Williams....Real Talk. totally 100'

This was really good to see and hear a modern woman, having a logical conversation with a man, and she understands the importance of having both man and woman in a family dynamic. Fantastic interview.

Need to get Kevin Samuels on the show

Omg! You're so right with everything you say, I'm very happy to hear a woman speak the truth ❤😘🙏

The only thing that pisses me off is the Hypocrisy of BW on KS and his tone. I’ve heard BW talk to their husbands, boyfriends, Sons, Daughters, friends and family 10x worse than The most egregious things that KS has said to combative guest. KS has spoken life into some women that I have never seen a Black Mother do. Besides the normal black girl Magic/Kween Talk.

Nice! So happy to see JLP & Kevin Samuels mentioning each other

Women want all power without any accountability and all luxury without working.

She's a dope comedian as well

I love this!! I thank her for always being honest, that’s what made me a fan of hers 💓

Wow...... Amazing!!!!! what a woman..... and she is a black woman..... I was happiest when she said "men are very simple" , we really are with very few demands on our women.

Food ,some Lovin ,& fairness she got it 100% correct .what is so hard with that ?I guess the fairness!!!

I think a single mother through being widowed is different than a single mother through divorce/no marriage. The attitude she has can be different.

You see how she put it in a palatable way? She said what needs to be said. The difference between her and Kevin is that her delivery is tasteful. Kevin was disliked, hated even, by many women and even some men because of how nasty he came off. He never would’ve had the level of hate that he received if he didn’t brand himself that way. Kind of an L on his part because he would’ve reached the audience he needed to reach (more women). More men and women would’ve benefited from his message had he not been over the top with his disrespect, especially towards our black women. A real learning lesson for anyone looking to take on a role like that. You catch more flies with honey. The goal is to help the community, not just point out flaws and tear into each other. REMEMBER THAT.

I liked Tacarra first time hearing and seeing her and she was amazin! The Fallen State needs to have Angela Stanton that would be so interesting. GREAT AS ALWAYS JESSE 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽

We protect black women that appreciate black man.

Love her..she is cute, intelligent and very funny. She's a comedian for those who don't know.

I am so lucky I grew up with my father being my primary care giver

KS should come on the Fallen State. That would be uh-mazin'!

As a woman I'm certainly a witness to passing up good candidates. There are some good men out there. I have no idea who these women are dating. Lol

This is unreal a breath of fresh air

Women: We want equality!! Also women: We want every advantage too.

I love when my favorite KZfaqrs collide, I know Kevin Samuels watches Jessy, he has a lot of the same talking points, not so much from the religious angle.. but he does great work for people in relationships and looking for marriage 🎉

Please pull together an interview with Kevin Samuels - would be a very interesting talk, Mr. Peterson.

U missed one thing that a man want and that is "PEACE"

She got prettier and prettier throughout this segment. Lovely lady

She's an amazing woman. I love how she reacted and laughed when Jesse asked her how her husband deals with her. 😆

She is so refreshing! And she's pretty and for her son she is tight with it like you could tell she works out and keep her frame tight somewhat. I could see her and Kevin saying you sitting down and doing a live show together that will be fire 🎯 🔥🔥💪🏾✊🏾

RESPECTFUL PEOPLE should have great relationships

Glad I'm not the only Black woman that has the same ideology. Thanks Goodness!!

Solid words of wisdom !

My dream is a Kevin Samuels and Jesse collab, if they did like a call in show, or had girls or people in general with them on set, a lot of people will be humbled!

I agree with her to an extent about women wanting it all. But I will say that not all women have all of those high expectations when choosing a man.

U all are nuts ...he would talk about her if given a chance.....wonder how she would feel if he call her fat and plain looking? Her whole view will change!

Wonder why her 1st marriage didnt work out???.. An alpha man married a women with children? . . an alpha man married?!.. Sounds like a lot of compromises going on.. But its her story. And she is saying all the right things a man wants to hear. Wish you guys the best

She said it perfectly. Very well said 👏

I've only known Tacarra as a comedian, but I definitely like this serious side of her

I think the alpha/submissive stuff is so unnecessary - because natural chemistry works things out. We don't need to name things. Every couple is different.

She’s the definition of grown woman, or should I say High value woman.

Been a while since I've watched an episode. I think I will watch this one

This is the ideal type of woman a quality MAN wants....

She is beautiful, the way she looks, talks, please God copy and repeat her , please !

Comedians are actually some of the more logical people. Tacarra is so damn fine too.

This is so refreshing, beautiful and lovely to hear a woman have an intelligent yet society intense conversation. And she carried herself well without bring emotion to it. Thank you queen. Salute Jessie.

People who are real will always be loved by people. She is real and willing to face reality. Blessed. JMO

Shes a real one.

My God she is beautiful inside and out. I want God to send me my wife with this mentality.

Now see that. This woman gets it, she understands the overall point that Kevin makes 100%

Cheers to this lady. She uses her logic, and common sense.

I want what I deserves and that is everything that I give😄

Women unrealistic expectations began well before social media

What do women want? Sigmund Freud: Everything

She still has modern woman values when she says she doesn’t like Kevin’s samuels approach but agrees with most of what he says She’s getting up in her feelings if his approach is what she doesn’t like. Kevin’s speaks nothing but the truth

This woman is so RIGHT! , MASTER THESE 3 THINGS WITH A MAN, and you got him!

Breath of Fresh Air!!

Did I just hear a conversation full of common sense? Ahhh! The air is fresh in this channel

All true.Matured women really have no problem being accountable.

Woman today need to 👂 you more than ever I’m glad I’m sharing this video with lots of them,

She thinks and speaks with common sense that is music to my ears.

This is just wholesome and down-to-earth real. I am happy I listened to this

Amazing Interview! 💯

It's amazing to see one of the 10 real women left in the world.

I love her. I love her. I effing love her 😩👸🏾💚🥰👌🏾✨

The 3 F’s, I like that and she is spot on. Fed, fugged and treated fairly

I love this woman

Reminds Me Of The Husband Store & The Wife Store Parables.

Good point.

Not feelin it. It’s sacred roles. We both deserve honor but we’re not equal. Don’t go backwards now, love

Be successful young men and go where your appreciated

Best interview in a while

I love this woman!!!!!!!

Shout out to the Fallen State lol AMAZING 👏!!!

Oh damn. Kevin Samuel shout out

They want a 6'6" thug brain surgeon with a horse sized 🐎 🍖 perfect teeth, funny jokes, big muscles 💪🏿& 3 mansions 😂

That was the most concise and accurate breakdown of The Godfather. You jus earned a subscriber Taccara!

REST IN PEACE... KEVIN SAMUELS, MAY 5, 2022 Ms Tacarra, you're a beautiful spirit

She got two out of three right, men want full stomachs, a freak in the bed & above both of those, loyalty is Paramount. I forgot one, & no nagging.

Dxmn, Jesse has REALLY stepped his guest game up... Last time I was here was DC Young Fly and even then I was unimpressed with the guest selection..and b4 that...the woke guests n shht...nahhh.. This is dope! Tacarra is hilarious and funny.

I thought I only liked her as comedian, I admire her as a woman as well

It stands that it's a potential "issue" between a daughter and moms new guy. Watch her behavior if she starts getting sassy with him. Too many false accusations have resulted in men going to prison.

I have never seen this beautiful lady this beautiful. Blessed. JMO

"Amazing" for sure! There is still hope for mankind and this is comforting to see that there are women of substance, putting logic before feelings. Initially, the "independent woman revolution" was motivated by Hollywood and now it's on social media (a fantasy). As a man from sub-Sahara in Africa, society played an important role in shaping the moral conscience of children. Her comment on experiences also confirms the role of parenting, nuclear and extended family, and the community imparted throughout life good moral values. As humans (i.e. males and females) we are equal in dignity with (not but) different roles and responsibilities.

Men want peace and quiet.

Wow sis amazing thanks for speaking up for truth and black men

"Surprise that you could get a man like that?" 🤣 That's not a qualitative question about the woman. Its truly a mathematical probability about locking down a particular type of man. Relationships should be taught in Economics class. Husbands and Wives are scarce resources.

Awesome interview!😁👍