I Was Called Joru Ka Ghulam Because I Listened To My Wife| The Man Behind ft. Varsha and Aditya Ep.5

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Hauterrfly

Hauterrfly

Жыл бұрын

From being called a "Joru ka Ghulam" to being called for doing ghar ka kaam, Aditya dealt with it all because of the love that he shares with Varsha. Varsha too had to deal with the typical stereotypes of a married woman. Her life would have been way difficult if Aditya, her husband, had not been her pillar of support. This is their story!
#themanbehind #couplegoals #hauterrfly
0:40 - How did we meet?
2:00- The problems we faced while getting married
3:52 - Patriarchy in Indian society
4:58 How Aditya supported Varsha
5:56- How society treated Aditya
6:31- Gender stereotypes
7:30 Age difference

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@simritkaur8088
@simritkaur8088 9 ай бұрын
His wife never left him when his health had deteriorated as well. They truly are a power couple ❤️
@sanjuktajaiswal5699
@sanjuktajaiswal5699 28 күн бұрын
This guy has understood a husband's job so well!!! She supported him in his worst phase and he also supported her. This is the real fairy tale. ❤
@vaishalipaliwal8756
@vaishalipaliwal8756 Жыл бұрын
Every girl deserves an Aditya in their life❤️
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Truly!
@somitshukla8321
@somitshukla8321 6 ай бұрын
And every boys deserve Varsha in their life also
@suvch5842
@suvch5842 2 ай бұрын
​@@hauterrflyit's also the opposite every boy deserves a varsha in his life
@randomcommentsfromfacebook999
@randomcommentsfromfacebook999 Ай бұрын
Before relationship with 39 other's 😂😂
@vyomsehgal324
@vyomsehgal324 Ай бұрын
Not all do only some do ❤
@nitiksharathore5290
@nitiksharathore5290 Жыл бұрын
This level of support is needed from husband and wife to run a household without being effected by outer world, proud of you both. Good role model for their kids
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Truly inspiring!
@user-kv2bs1bk5d
@user-kv2bs1bk5d Жыл бұрын
Kind of manhood everyone should aspire for!!!! I feel so content when I see men with such thought process.. God bless you.
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
This is true manhood!
@chefalite
@chefalite Жыл бұрын
You look young Varsha I never felt you are older than your husband. Great story..Same happened with me after I got Married..thanks for sharing
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
We'd love to hear your story!
@monicasahu5677
@monicasahu5677 Жыл бұрын
Ye to devta aadmi nikle yrr🥺🥺🥺....u r so lucky ki ye husband milaa ... qki apne maa baap k samne wife ka support Krna uske liye stand lena bht km ladke kr pate hai aur wo bhi itne alg join family wale mahol Mai....
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Very true men support their wives in front of parents!
@rangeeli_basant2165
@rangeeli_basant2165 16 күн бұрын
You don’t know their story. She supported him when he was very badly sick from a paralysis disease. He’s as lucky to have her as much she is!! 🍀 ❤️
@ShreyaChakrabortyMusic
@ShreyaChakrabortyMusic Жыл бұрын
This was so relatable. I exactly felt as if I'm watching my true story here in this video. Me and my husband has also an age difference of 3 years and I also had to face these kind of comments from the known ones and relatives (from in-laws side) and still we do. But thanks to God that despite of all the bad things, I got the best gem in my life. My husband... He always stood by my side like a rock and loved me unconditionally. I'm blessed to have him in my life ❤️
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Your story is inspiring, Thanks for sharing!!
@shrutitiwari9157
@shrutitiwari9157 Жыл бұрын
Same happened with me and my husband too,our stories resembles to urs completely. My husband has always supported me no matter what...Marriage is sticking together like a team...You both are a true inspiration ❤️💕☺️
@monicasahu5677
@monicasahu5677 Жыл бұрын
Hey ...does your husband support you front of his mom dad?
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing :)
@Karrr1245
@Karrr1245 Жыл бұрын
Aunty?? Seriously, i got to know she is elder to him after seeing this video . Both looks great together
@bhagyashreemohanty5809
@bhagyashreemohanty5809 2 ай бұрын
Exactly....even I never knew she's elder than him..till this video......they look so perfect together..just wow❤
@shafaquekhan8805
@shafaquekhan8805 2 ай бұрын
Ladka 10 saal bada ho toh koi nahi bolenga kuch ladki ek saal bhi badi Rahi toh yehi sab hota hai chahe wo kitni bhi pretty ho
@womenisonereasonbehindever2049
@womenisonereasonbehindever2049 Ай бұрын
​@@shafaquekhan8805ld ka 1000 bhi km kamata ho to bolenge
@rangeeli_basant2165
@rangeeli_basant2165 16 күн бұрын
3 saal ki aunty hoti hai kya kabhi? Pagale
@inmyown407
@inmyown407 Жыл бұрын
Good to hear this story. I hope it inspires many other young boys, men to help and lead their women
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
You're right, truly inspiring their story is!
@humsabfoodie
@humsabfoodie Жыл бұрын
Not every men has this kind of mentality. Superb 🙏
@mady_aquarius
@mady_aquarius Жыл бұрын
So bad, yaar varsha had tears saying the maa wala comment 😢 it shows how much one can be hurt with such comments...society should break their narrow mind
@sonalid957
@sonalid957 Жыл бұрын
Agar Aditya ki Tarah har aadmi apni wife ke liye aise khada rahe to kya baat hai .. wishes of many !?! Subscribe your channel just for this couple ..thanks for sharing 👍
@SunShine-do8iv
@SunShine-do8iv 9 ай бұрын
My mother is uneducated ,i have 4 sister only son, but my mom always make sure that i must clean my dish myself. Some times made me to cook... Father was not in support with that..but my mom always want me to learn n do evrything. She has 4 girls n knows what she had went through this patriarchy. She says keval mahila ko devi banake pujna nhi hai unhe real life me samman bhi deno sikho..thats d way she raised me.. Being uneducated but mindset shows evrything .. Now i m married mom always make sure tht i must help in kitchen
@hareem1929
@hareem1929 Жыл бұрын
This was so close to reality. Thank you for sharing the ugly truth of society
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Agreed! Glad you liked the episdode!
@Digital_lifee
@Digital_lifee 10 ай бұрын
This is what you call a MAN ❤️ Non-toxic and Secure. Power Couple 💫💯💥
@sonamjainin
@sonamjainin Жыл бұрын
I really liked their vibes in one video where Adi helped her in household work and then there i became fan of this couple just like ours....
@rimple11
@rimple11 10 ай бұрын
I went through this myself. I was bitch in my in-law's eyes and still i am just because my husband always stands for me.
@shanoo03
@shanoo03 Жыл бұрын
सच कभी खूबसूरती का चोला नहीं पहन सकता, किसी भी बात को कहने के लिए जब भी अंलकारों से सजाया जाएगा, बात पूरी नहीं पहुंचेगी, आप अपने आप को तो बदल लेंगे, लेकिन समाज में छुपी बुराइयों को बदलने के लिए नंगई धारण करनी ही होगी, किसी को अच्छा लगे या बुरा, अपनी बात कहने के लिए जबतक स्वयं को किरदार में न ढालेंगे लोगों को आपकी बातें सिर्फ़ मिथ्या भाषण ही लगेंगी। आपकी बातें कड़वी जरूर है, लेकिन जिस अभिव्यक्ति की आज़ादी को हम सदियों से तलाश कर रहे थे, आज तुम दोनों ने बताने की कोशिश की है तो हम सबका पूरा सपोर्ट है तुम्हें। 🙌🙌
@reactionsunny7773
@reactionsunny7773 8 ай бұрын
There is nothing called Joru ka Ghulam....Both Husband and Wife should work towards like it... This is called Grihasti❤
@HindiStories899
@HindiStories899 Жыл бұрын
Muje to bhut bchchi si ,pyari si lagti h Varaha ❤️..
@srutibhattamishra8423
@srutibhattamishra8423 11 ай бұрын
You both are just sweethearts and it's really difficult to find this kind of love and bonding in today's world.. Keep supporting each other, no matter what the world says.. People are judgemental n narrow minded you just be open to yourselves... Lots of love to the love birds.. Keep growing keep loving ❤..
@reevapanjwani1121
@reevapanjwani1121 Жыл бұрын
What a inspiring story ❤ you guys are my forever favourite couple 😍 God bless you both 🙏
@le7062
@le7062 19 күн бұрын
beautiful story1 we as Indians are expected to fit into certain moulds not just by the community but by our families. It is crazy that everyone thinks they have power over us. It takes a lot of courage and love to stand up for each other !!
@madhumeetakishore9928
@madhumeetakishore9928 Жыл бұрын
Varsha & Aditya, you both look made for each other. Stay in love!!
@omkar2367
@omkar2367 Ай бұрын
They are both made for each other. I think Aditya had GBS, she stood by him through all that, and more. I've known women to quit for far less. She's a keeper and he knows it, when a woman stays in scenarios she could easily walk out of and she chooses to stay it really says something about her. Her man will never abandon her. Ladies and gentlemen, tough situations ya toh logon ko dhalte Hain, ya Tod dete Hain.. the difference lies in only hanging in there and continuing. This is true love.. this is old-school love.
@lbsnaadiaries1432
@lbsnaadiaries1432 2 ай бұрын
If the story is as she told, iam waiting for such type of guy and never been in relationship till 26,i still believe in love. Not dating anyone❤
@nehatiwari5216
@nehatiwari5216 4 ай бұрын
Ye to meri story hai❤...agar life partner achha mil jaaye to duniya me koi problem hoti hi ni hai 😊
@ankitamohanty2505
@ankitamohanty2505 Жыл бұрын
Awesome couple. Many congratulations to you both. You inspire people like us
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
They are truly inspiring!
@swatisuryendu7299
@swatisuryendu7299 Жыл бұрын
You know that you both are at right path...Sab achha hoga....Ek dusre ka sahara banke ese hi aage badhte raho.... Equality bohot important hai...Ek dum se nahi badlegi soch logon ki...But hum hi is soch ko badal sakte hein...Khud ko badal ke...Love to both of you and vaanya 😇
@user-yn6if1en7z
@user-yn6if1en7z 11 ай бұрын
Wow.....a husband wife relationship should be like this....deeply mesmerized to see your story..
@Eyeparvez
@Eyeparvez 9 ай бұрын
You both look great together, made for each other..... Lots of love to you ❤
@priyankarai2668
@priyankarai2668 Жыл бұрын
Aunty toh bilkul nhi lagti ..is video se hi pata chala that Varsha is elder.. nhi toh pata hi nhi chal pata
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
True.
@mashaimmalik8718
@mashaimmalik8718 9 ай бұрын
This is true love story ❤God bless you both😊
@beingpallavi3272
@beingpallavi3272 11 ай бұрын
I love how strong you both are ❤
@tanisha3315
@tanisha3315 Ай бұрын
The best man I have ever seen❤❤❤I don't have any words to praise you. God will bless you
@ankitachamola
@ankitachamola 4 ай бұрын
beautiful, I love the content they create as a couple..this is such a great bond! Lots of love.
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly 4 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@lovelillysingh1230
@lovelillysingh1230 28 күн бұрын
What a lovely couple! So much understanding and love for each other. Aditya seems so wonderful, way more mature in his thoughts than some of the backward relatives in his life. Varsha, you are so beautiful! I've been watching your content for a while and never in my WILDEST dreams have I thought you looked older than him. I always thought you guys were probably of similar age (which you are tbh, 3 years is not a big gap at all). Also, Vanya is a cutie pie! I hope every girl and guy gets wonderful life partners such as yourself :)
@pooja_90
@pooja_90 Жыл бұрын
"You're wanted" - is the most respectful and loving feeling which can make a partner feel secured and valued..... Blessings to both of you 🌺
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@meenakshikanojia2589
@meenakshikanojia2589 Жыл бұрын
Stay blessed forever both of you, Stay strong together 💟 ❤️🧿
@rishikajoshi1339
@rishikajoshi1339 Жыл бұрын
Heart touching story. God bless your family always 🥰❤❤
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@kumarishweta4327
@kumarishweta4327 Жыл бұрын
Superb👏👏👏glad to see that such men really exist...
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
They do. Keep watching out this space to know more stories
@mady_aquarius
@mady_aquarius Жыл бұрын
Be strong you guys are lovely couple ...keep going ❤
@shailajanair9922
@shailajanair9922 10 ай бұрын
I never knew your pain in shots where in u were for me Rani Mukherjee but the turmoils in life u both went through ...blessings and wishes for only happiness in your life..god bless you both n family ❤❤❤❤❤...happened to see Josh talk of Aditya vashisht and official people of india .,...didn't knew, sister Now got huge respect for both of you
@labeenausmani9696
@labeenausmani9696 Жыл бұрын
We need more people like you 😊
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
We definitely do :)
@Gujju_guy
@Gujju_guy 15 күн бұрын
Until this moment, i never knew Varsha is 3 years older. 💓
@ashupriya4468
@ashupriya4468 Жыл бұрын
Made for each other 😘😘....and yes Versha is very beautiful...
@mady_aquarius
@mady_aquarius Жыл бұрын
God bless u guys ...may you be always happy both of you 😇✨
@Simplyeasy15
@Simplyeasy15 Жыл бұрын
Me n my husband also faced criticism the same way..... N people are blind to call you buddhi Or aunty.... Seriously kuch bhii..... You both look very cute together....
@shalininanda9886
@shalininanda9886 Жыл бұрын
Both of them are sooooo cute and lovely. God bless both of you🙌❤❤. Stay safe and blessed🥳🥳
@vaishaliawasthi618
@vaishaliawasthi618 2 ай бұрын
U both r truly an ideal couple..god bless u both❤
@Deeyasp
@Deeyasp Ай бұрын
You Guys Are Really Fantastic...Thats A Lot To Learn From You Guys Yaar...I Love Both Of You.....Keep Shining Guys❤❤❤❤
@prachichourey1531
@prachichourey1531 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to both of you.
@Maria-ol4rm
@Maria-ol4rm Ай бұрын
Wow kudos for being so honest 👏
@nikitafernandes461
@nikitafernandes461 Жыл бұрын
God bless you both abundantly with happiness
@harneetmarwah2304
@harneetmarwah2304 Жыл бұрын
God bless to both of u....varsha u r beautiful
@amarnathchaudhry2152
@amarnathchaudhry2152 6 ай бұрын
Bahut badhiyaa jiiiiiii bahut khushi hui aapki story sunke kash har wife ko apna husband aisa mile
@Khush-ny4fp
@Khush-ny4fp 6 ай бұрын
Amazing Outstanding 😍😍❤❤❤
@keshavjha5803
@keshavjha5803 8 ай бұрын
Love you brother.. You are a real Man❤
@priyamanhas224
@priyamanhas224 10 ай бұрын
You both look so perfect for each other
@deeptijain1674
@deeptijain1674 Жыл бұрын
Such men very rare to find who can take stand for you and supports you 😢😢
@gagankaur8346
@gagankaur8346 Жыл бұрын
May you always stay strong as a couple and against society s wrong norms.
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
We wish them the same :)
@rupa5813aaro
@rupa5813aaro 2 ай бұрын
Always remember there are good ppl too in this world so you should be happy thinking so many ppl saying good things about you.
@darshni_00
@darshni_00 Жыл бұрын
I am facing the same situation, and i am really not able to cope with it.... We are different caste and different city..... I know he loves me a lot, but somehow i am hell insecured about everything, i really feel bad when all my frustration are burst out on him.... And i am lucky still he loves me ❤️ sometimes i get so frustrated that i don't even realise that i am hurting him, but that hurts me too. He is gonna come and meet my parents, his mom knows about me and his sister too.just one thing, he doesn't have a proper job right now, so he not ready to convince his family, that is a problem for me but still i love him and I wish everything to get better and hope one day we can be together. Bless us❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sunitamaurya7987
@sunitamaurya7987 25 күн бұрын
Ur comedy z too gud.keep it guys.its totally different nd entertainment.no age gap r seen.u guys r rocking.comedy related to great msg to our society ❤❤
@shivanikumarishivanikumari8081
@shivanikumarishivanikumari8081 7 ай бұрын
Varsha mam lucky h tabhi itna payar krne wala Patter diya h God ne Varsha mam ko 🤗..in my opinion kaam kaam hota h dono ko krna chahiye work is equal are for both gender.. 🔥
@nutanthakur7240
@nutanthakur7240 Ай бұрын
Main shadi k 7din bad vapis covid me apne work k vjah se sasural se door city aa rhi thi…husband bhi sath aa rhe the…my mother in law called and said k mere bête se jhaddu niii lgvana…devta naraj hote h…blah blah…I told my husband…mne kbi daily basis pe cleaning niii ki h…he was so smart and kind and said unhone to kbi kiii hi niii hai…hm dono ko krne k jarurat niii h …we hired a help to work for us.
@kanchandhamecha1099
@kanchandhamecha1099 11 ай бұрын
I can relate so much to it...😊
@charusharma6849
@charusharma6849 Жыл бұрын
Very nice couple. God bless both of you❤
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
You are so kind. Thanks for appreciating our content.
@ayeshaparween3216
@ayeshaparween3216 3 ай бұрын
Yaarr aap dono bahot achhe lgte ho Aur ey kon se log h jo aa kr aap logo me age difference Bata rhe Main Sach keh rhi ey video Maine pehli baar dekhi Warna main aaplogo k shots hi bahot dekhti hu Aur mujhe bilkul nh lga k aap dono me 3 yrs ka gap h Air rahi baat gap hi yaar wo to bas age me h na Khusi to iss baat pe honi chahiye k riste me gap to nh h na Bahot Bahot pasand ho aap log mujhe Keep doing whatever you want to do
@rajeshdubey3311
@rajeshdubey3311 Жыл бұрын
एक दूसरे का साथ देना ही जीवन है......❤😊
@chhayaraj9915
@chhayaraj9915 16 күн бұрын
Even if ur older so what ur his beloved. ND u both r absolutely adorable beautiful look ❤ together. Much God bless u all❤
@ashwani9653
@ashwani9653 Жыл бұрын
koi difference ni h yar ap dono perfect match ho aap dono❤❤❤❤❤❤ beautiful couple 🎉
@sonaalondhe1318
@sonaalondhe1318 9 ай бұрын
❤ god bless both
@nancyyadav3768
@nancyyadav3768 2 ай бұрын
Very mature both of you. Aditya is handsome with a gem soul and Varsha is adorable
@shristysingh660
@shristysingh660 Жыл бұрын
Aap dono ki love story bhut hi cute h🥰 and aap dono sth me bhut ache lgte ho,plz ignore negative comments,focus on positive things...Aditya is also very understanding and supporting partner,kash aisa sare partner apni wife k liye itna soche fir kisi se fark ni pdta agr partner supporting ho...
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@GK.477
@GK.477 9 ай бұрын
I love your story ❤❤❤❤
@getanjaligsf6737
@getanjaligsf6737 21 күн бұрын
Love you both and Varsha you look beautiful and before knowing your story I had no idea about your age and as a couple you both are incredibly sweet
@neha117mishra
@neha117mishra 8 ай бұрын
You're so so beautiful inside out i adore you varsha ❤
@lifejugunuvarsharohilla5681
@lifejugunuvarsharohilla5681 5 күн бұрын
My name is also varsha I hope mujhe v aaditya jesa hubby mile ❤❤
@sreemoyeeganguly734
@sreemoyeeganguly734 7 ай бұрын
Adi and varsha are made for each other.... I love this marriage... This is what a real good marriage looks like❤️
@andriavinithalobo5813
@andriavinithalobo5813 3 ай бұрын
Some are very lucky to find such a good caring understanding partner.
@himachalivloggershipali6299
@himachalivloggershipali6299 Жыл бұрын
I think love has no boundaries just stay away from negative people and live happily ❣️❣️❣️❣️
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@nikitafernandes461
@nikitafernandes461 Жыл бұрын
Awesome couple made for each other
@poojavasa2765
@poojavasa2765 7 ай бұрын
God bless ...u both r the cutest ....
@ceramicworld797
@ceramicworld797 9 ай бұрын
You no way looked elder than your husband... both of you looked perfect togather 😊❤
@pallavinikte7268
@pallavinikte7268 Жыл бұрын
Lot’s of love n blessings to all of u
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
All the love to them
@prachee1032
@prachee1032 Жыл бұрын
Some in laws just spread venom. I had a life threatening surgeries 2 years ago, my father in law told my daughter who was just 4 year old that time that your mom will go away... And you be friend with a particular child of the building (some stranger lady in his building and a single mother), she might become your sister in future. Uski mom shayad aapki mummy ban jaaye. Really these in laws are monsters.
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
We are so sorry to hear that
@kirtijha9933
@kirtijha9933 10 күн бұрын
If it's 100% true then you are really a real man❤ ....
@kirtijha9933
@kirtijha9933 10 күн бұрын
Both of you are made for each other ❤️
@RohitSingh-vo6sq
@RohitSingh-vo6sq 6 ай бұрын
Best couple on internet ❤❤❤❤
@shreyanshisingh6727
@shreyanshisingh6727 8 ай бұрын
Socity needs more examples like u two
@lovelysinha2074
@lovelysinha2074 11 ай бұрын
The real men❤
@ankitaverma-pz9lo
@ankitaverma-pz9lo Ай бұрын
You guys are awesome ❤❤❤
@sonijockey5514
@sonijockey5514 5 ай бұрын
Adi you are really a good man and husband......you are like my brother i wish aap dono ki Jodi bani rahe or aap dono ko kisi ki Nazar na Lage .....aap teeno healthy reho humesha
@nehachaudhary3953
@nehachaudhary3953 20 күн бұрын
Aap bilkul bhi badi nhi dikhti ho apne husband se.. you look so young and beautiful..I really enjoy your videos..
@priyaranga6006
@priyaranga6006 5 сағат бұрын
Cute couple ever❤❤❤❤❤
@SimranKaur-kt3jg
@SimranKaur-kt3jg Жыл бұрын
I was never able to convince my mom for my boyfriend (7 years elder ) , but seeing your story i kind of relived all the moments and also proud and power to you guys both are amazing on their parts loved your story keep going 🌸🌸🧿🧿
@hauterrfly
@hauterrfly Жыл бұрын
We hope you found the courage to convince them!
@pritishreeparida2455
@pritishreeparida2455 2 ай бұрын
Amazing❤
@yaseenersshmi1302
@yaseenersshmi1302 Ай бұрын
U both r owsm couple. And my favorite couple also. Stay always happy❤❤❤❤
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