From Episode #147 of This Past Weekend with Theo Von. www.theovon.com
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@seankelly378 Жыл бұрын
Damn even just the tone in that kids voice it's almost shaking you can tell he's going through a rough patch. Hope everything is good for him now
@slopcrusher34829 ай бұрын
I’ve been there, I can tell this poor kid is just on the verge of crying for hours straight. He’s holding onto something that he knows is ending. That period of time hurts so fucking much because you want so desperately to fix it, but you know there’s nothing you can do. You just feel so overwhelmed. Fortunately once the breakup does happen, it’s up from there. I’m not saying that it won’t hurt, it absolutely will, but once you have that break, you know there is NOTHING you can do to fix it, and that you need to move on. There’s some comfort in that.
@GigaNietzsche9 ай бұрын
@@slopcrusher3482Yeah man all too true. That leading up to the breakup is real painful.
@WesAKAthemilkman8 ай бұрын
There absolutely is comfort in knowing there’s nothing you can do etcetera. I went through this towards the end of highschool with my “highschool sweetheart” after leaving her. It sucked so damn bad knowing circumstances screwed us, but accepting it and growing was the best thing I could have done. Its been over a year and life is so good, I’m relieved to say that i’ve found somebody else and more importantly.. a fair bit of myself.
@sancho71987 ай бұрын
It sucks, but sometimes it's not meant to be. It can be the perfect match but at the wrong time
@mosaclipz65497 ай бұрын
@@slopcrusher3482 TO ANYONE FEELING THIS. i was literally going through some shit 10 minutes ago watching this. about a girl. I decided i needed to be upfront and told her i was bothered, and we talked about things. i wanted to solve some issues. while i know that ill never be that special to her she was able to tell me that she understands how i feel and we need to have a talk about our previously bad communications. made me feel happy and i havent felt happy in days. TALK TO PEOPLE. TELL PEOPLE YOU CAN TRUST HOW YOU FEEL. and talk to the person you are having an issue with. if you cant tell them youre upset and have her want to talk about it you deserve better.
@ethanporter370910 ай бұрын
Been 4 years since this clip was uploaded, I hope this dude got through it and came out a better dude
@martingranados797410 ай бұрын
What episode is this if you don’t mind sharing pal?
@ethanporter370910 ай бұрын
@@martingranados7974 I wish I knew
@pimpspongebob36749 ай бұрын
@@martingranados7974 147
@addisonstanley85839 ай бұрын
Believe it’s 147 @ethanporter3709
@joeprobelus45019 ай бұрын
Ep 147
@iTalkALotDontListen Жыл бұрын
The funny moments made me watch Theo. Moments like these made me a fan.
@Nahuelero1234 ай бұрын
I came across “Theo Von Funny Moments”, but stayed because of videos like these.
@johnnydobbs13994 жыл бұрын
Coming from such a hilarious guy this took me back to when i was young and it also showed a real human side to theo . this kid is in a bad spot and evrey thing he was told by theo was spot on truth and wisdom!
@ceaze9 ай бұрын
Right on brother🫶😔
@archie691238 ай бұрын
He's actually a real good emotional guy. See a clip the other day that for the 1st time felt some1 really understood me. Was a short on a motivation channel. It was about wanting to be with someone not any selfish reason. But because you feel like you shouldn't waste what you can offer someone. N that's me. But the western world is getting more selfish succeed. But when we get old n any inheritance is gone on old people homes. N we have no family we will wonder where we fucked up
@michaeljhale2310 ай бұрын
"You don't wanna be a life long listener 😂" Maybe the best advice in a 9 min long video of great advice.
@chrisfritsch21587 ай бұрын
That one got me aswell haha
@rogergr50199 ай бұрын
Feel you man. I am 42 and went through a divorce, house, kids, everything involved. The ground under my feet faded away when I was thinking that I had to do it all alone. I am OK now and you will be OK too. It can take a long long time but eventually life finds a way for you. Remember that you have one big advantage: the power of your youth....work out, look around, you have a lot to live for. Big hug from the Netherlands dude ❤
@wither35777 ай бұрын
proud of you , man. glad youre doing well.
@AtaXOTWOD7 ай бұрын
Mooi om te zien hoe het nu met je gaat, dankjewel voor het delen van je verhaal ❤
@Horzinicla4 ай бұрын
Did you find someone though? Or are you staying by yourself for now?
@blxxdbvrn Жыл бұрын
Theo is like a therapist who has never had a profession of psychology but he absolutely knows what he’s doing. Love him man ❤️🙏🏽
@ExpertAssass1n6 ай бұрын
"To love someone that is gone but theyre really not gone" hardest shit ive had to go through.
@lrogers7501 Жыл бұрын
'you don't want to be a life long listener brother' ahaha
@J-tu2pb7 ай бұрын
For a guy that is absolutely hysterical and makes jokes about everything Theo has pretty decent advice.
@jacobapplegate66436 ай бұрын
To everyone there struggling with a breakup, men especially. It’s okay to not be okay. Take a day. Grieve. Cry. Sleep in. Take a week. But then, one day, you have to make the choice to get up. You have to make the choice to get in the shower, and fuck it, turn it cold. You have to make the choice to go to the gym, and form a healthy habit. The girl who you were in love with, who you are in love with, she might not be on the other side of the bed, but she’s going to be in your heart, and what is grief, if not love persevering? The more you hurt, at least you can say that’s a measurement of how much you love. But now, you have to learn to build up the love of yourself again, and like Theo said, that takes effort, and that’ll be hard. But you can do it. It happens every day, and some cases are worse than others, but you can get through it. I know you can. And I know you know you can too. Stay strong, kings
@jamesgutierrez14108 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me, I thought all was lost. Like this feeling of nothing, you look down and there’s nothing. I stopped living and started existing, like nothing mattered to me anymore. I was just going through the motions at that point, because that’s all I could do, I stopped eating, sleeping. But if that didn’t happen to me I wouldn’t have met my girlfriend of three years. Everything happens for a reason, it really does. I found that reason with her, so keep that head up! It will get better brother I promise.
@WesAKAthemilkman8 ай бұрын
Same damn thing happened to me, it was rough but we made it out! Life haha.
@erjabroni6 ай бұрын
Goin through a similar thing right now brother, and these comments help a lot. I appreciate you letting us sad sacks know there’s a brighter side
@premiumrolo94832 ай бұрын
Right now I’m going thru it, like a breakup, and this video really helped me out a lot, I saw it on an edit on reels and I had to find it, and I’m glad I did, I’m going thru a similar time man, 4 years all of highschool, not even down the drain but just suddenly stopped, this video helped me rethink things, thanks whoever reposted this 🙏
@elfonashelf3918Күн бұрын
Dealing with my wife who has been cheating for 6 months and i just went to a race today and saw her and her boyfriend while last night we talked about trust. Im still shaking as i write this and even 4 years after making this video your still helping guys like me try to find some sort of reason to keep on. Thank you man, never felt dark this dark before
@earmsyify8 сағат бұрын
I’m truly sorry to hear this and I hope you’re able to push forward through this.
@Lemoncare2 сағат бұрын
If what you say is so, be kind, let her go, wish her well. You can move on. Heart break is a lesson. Let her go like a gentleman.
@Lemoncare2 сағат бұрын
If what you say is so, be kind, let her go, wish her well. You can move on. Heart break is a lesson. Let her go like a gentleman.
@xbrandonnnnnxАй бұрын
Theo Von and Duncan Trussell have given me so much sage advice. To think this is for free is insane. Thank yall so much fr ❤️
@brnt10355 ай бұрын
I'm a struggling man in his 30's too. I'm always amazed by how Theo can say the thing you might not want to hear but it's what you need to hear.
@marxtheidoloftheidle5591 Жыл бұрын
Hope this worked out well for the young man. Hope he started working on himself and still is. God bless.
@joeyb3889 Жыл бұрын
In the exact same shoes. Lost my relationship. All you can do is think about the future and try and work hard at what you want for yourself. Lookin back just hurts and often when you look back to much you won’t find anything new. And then it becomes torture. Feel the good and be greatful for everything. Take the good with you and don’t be spiteful. I’m trying my best to live by that. Everything goes away in the end but that’s what makes it special in the first place yo.
@zacholander70477 ай бұрын
feels like he’s talking straight to me. Thank you Theo
@FilmsByDan Жыл бұрын
Wow. There is a lot of wisdom in this man and I hope the young man is able to receive these words. Pray for your enemies, or potential enemies. She's not that, but could quickly become such a person if you aren't careful. Resentment can creep in unannounced. Don't become bitter. What's good for her is good for you, and only she can choose what's good for her right now. Be strong, but as a guy, I encourage you to also let your weakness be known. Confess it when you feel it and ask for strength. Let it play out. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
@mattmt091811 ай бұрын
Theo is amazingly smart. If you can get past his theatrics his wisdom is crazy
@throwjr7 ай бұрын
I’m 30 and I’m taking lessons from this video. Thanks Theo
@ThatBoyBrian5 ай бұрын
this popped up on my home page 5 years later and I needed this. Thanks man
@Profoundkarma200011 ай бұрын
“If you really love them, then let them go. If it’s true love, then they’ll come back”
@adrien86958 ай бұрын
I’m going through a similar situation as the kid. This coming from someone like Theo made me feel so much better and postive
@loganbecker79126 ай бұрын
you cry, you allow yourself to feel. yell at the sky punch a pillow, give yourself time and be extremely gentle and patient with yourself. and one day you will eat your breakfast brush your teeth and you'll realize you have not though of her in a while. travel dig deep into yourself and show others love and compassion. then when you are ready slowly learn to love again, your heart most likely wont ever be the same again, mine never was. your heart cant heal but it will mend with time and self love. i was with a girl for 7 years just for her to cheat on me a day before our wedding. i know your pain so well and please dont self destruct to see is she still cares, i did that and she didnt care not even enough to insult me. i hope your doing well. remember day by day. and allow yourself to feel
@krillansavillanАй бұрын
I am also dealing with losing someone i spent a third of my life with. It's been a year and half and all I do is work and workout. Just kinda existing, no thrill in life. I feel like I'll be alone forever because what's the point if it can be ripped away from you. Very isolating in deed.
@captainmiller2416Ай бұрын
I’m sorry bro. You’ll get through it man.
@krillansavillanАй бұрын
@@captainmiller2416 thanks homie, always good to get that reminder
@Mongoose___15 күн бұрын
im with you in literally the same exact boat, im 19 and november of 2022 i found out she had been cheating on me and i have thought about it every day since then. we got to believe that it gets better and we have to realize what we did wrong and just improve. i dont know you but i love you brother and we are in this together
@HojaFPS6 ай бұрын
My gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago, we ll meet this weekend to have a talk. She helped me through a lot of depression and also. Before she broke up I had NO idea who i was, what i want to become etc. I always just felt like i need her in my life. But when she DID break up, i just realized that I am at a point in my life, where i need to become mature and where i need to understand what I want from my life and how i want to life it. I understood those things, and since those 3 weeks i ve been working out every day, made lists on what i want to achieve and already worked for those goals. I have a new job (atleast most likely it DO look like it :D) and overall i m feeling so much better. All of this are probably things she s been missing in our relationship. Me not knowing where I want to be, what I want to achieve and also who I will eventually be. It feels wrong to "try to fight for her" when we meet. I dont want to force her to stay with me or anything. Still I wonder if she will notice how I changed and if it is going to have any impact on her. Thanks anyone for reading :)
@_jokuhyypio_47035 ай бұрын
hey bro, my gf left me yesterday. I just want to know how’d the talk go? Ofc if you want to share that
@HojaFPS5 ай бұрын
Talk was like in a movie. Was really sad and romantic. Sadly it was the END. But it was better than not talking. I love her, from my heart. But rn i ll work on myself and I mean it. I ll go from chubby to perfect body, I ll earn a lot of money and one day she ll think "What have I lost?" - and ye. Who knows, maybe one day we ll meet again.@@_jokuhyypio_4703
@Noahwohlsen3 ай бұрын
Theo is special man. This video is something I always come back to when those lonely and heartache feelings creep up on me. The man knows how to ease your mind and make the problems in your life not feel so big. Much love, gang gang
@user-pn9bg1ob3w6 ай бұрын
Really felt the “she could be real chatty” part 😂❤
@christianjacobs-qo7fb Жыл бұрын
Felt just like bro at 1 point I don’t know how I got past it honestly, work and alcohol tbh
@IammarlonbrownАй бұрын
😂😂
@jjizzler959210 ай бұрын
Man I know that voice all too well
@ryanfcker31405 жыл бұрын
onward
@1Sick66GMC8 ай бұрын
This is something every young man goes through, it gets better over time👍🏽
@koneeche5 ай бұрын
Didn't think I'd relate to the advice he gave, but after really sitting with it for a minute, I realized that this could apply to a really harsh relationship that ended for me pretty abruptly. Thanks for uploading this. I'll leave a timestamp here so I can look back at this every now and again (2:20)
@GGGboi8 ай бұрын
I had the same situation as this kid, dated a girl from 7th grade-freshman year of college. in a way this kids lucky, I’m glad to be hearing this at 24, he heard it at 18.
@felixmartinez6290 Жыл бұрын
Damn bro theo really got me through some shit n im still going through shit n watching him rn.. idk sum about his podcast just calms me down when I’m feeling down:(.. makes me realize shit more..
@yaredmekonnen3163 Жыл бұрын
same bro
@28copland10 ай бұрын
Hope that kid is doing OK, everything happens for reason brother
@dogboydom6 ай бұрын
That is a 3rd of this man’s life he’s just coming to terms with losing. He’s younger than I and he’s more thoughtful than I. At 23 years old, almost 24, I still find myself getting blindsided and left in the dust with heartbreak. I just lost the investment of 2.5 years and watched our plans for the future die. I cannot imagine the pain this man lived with for how long he lived with it. I hope he’s doing good.
@scarface99934 ай бұрын
Hey man probably won’t read the comment but I am 23 arguably going through the same amount of heartbreak as you, with me being the one to break it and kinda force her away from me and ultimately regretting it. It’s a tough loss but with all my trails and me explaining how I can take care of her and make her a worry free life it just doesn’t account to what she wants and needs with herself and that’s something I have to come to the conclusion with. Theo did perfect in showing the true nature of taking what broke you and loving it even though it’s hard to
@dcgamester.24 күн бұрын
@@scarface9993 replying so he reads this comment!
@Bpositiveandprosper9 ай бұрын
Man he gives advice like a father
@ItsleeBoy22 күн бұрын
You could hear little bro pain/hurt in his voice. Hope he alright today.
@brenthensley9549 Жыл бұрын
He says some goofy a** stuff but he is actually giving some pretty good advice here
@matteodavis222110 ай бұрын
I have been with my girl for about a year, we havent split up but i get those feelings like she is cheating or having more fun, but i know she wont but those thought kick me in the gut, your mind is the enemy, love the ones you love with all your heart.
@OfficialDixonMayaz9 ай бұрын
I was there too brother I was with my girl for 2.5 years and me being so overwhelmed with the feelings I had I didn’t really get to enjoy the moments we had all my advice is to slow down and enjoy everything literally everything
@briceparks8428Ай бұрын
I love Theo
@tamcapote84752 жыл бұрын
Respect Theo! Thank you so much!
@dayadabu30289 ай бұрын
I hope this guy is okay
@mah_prt8 ай бұрын
Much love for Theo and the effort behind the post!♥️
@DforDawg994 ай бұрын
I swear when Theo goes deep he goes DEEP. I first heard this when I was basically in the same situation and it really helped me through it. Bless you for the advice Theo and hope that kid is happy now
@PNW_Hunters_shorts4 ай бұрын
Theo “I’m listening, on word” 😂
@dallassunderland4 ай бұрын
Such solid advice. People are going to want to grow, and if they feel that they can’t grow in the ways they want to WITH you they’ll cut the cord. I think there’s always a chance, I think you can always work things out if you’re truly willing to try and you genuinely love the person so I hope the caller sorted things out.
@isaacjacobs37856 ай бұрын
Poor lad. Support for you bro
@petetotino78925 ай бұрын
Theo is such a solid good dude ❤
@curious_gage7 ай бұрын
Poor guy.. first of many heartbreaks unfortunately. Hopefully, he will become stronger from this.
@lilsamantha17 ай бұрын
Wow these things make me cry
@karmatt30986 ай бұрын
What a well spoken young man. Hope he’s doing well.
@QwertyDragon699 ай бұрын
I been where the dude been it takes time but you can love again
@xnsa7324 ай бұрын
currently going through almost an identical situation. this really helped
@jostafro49676 ай бұрын
This was some really good advice man
@user-yt5mk4pr7q6 ай бұрын
Damn. This was quite uplifting. Good stuff. ❤
@Private.eye.0075 ай бұрын
@3:26 *that was my Amistad* Yo, Theo is secretly a genius.
@fembot5217 ай бұрын
Most comedians are deep thinkers and Theo is no exception. I think they become comedians to deal with the shit of life.
@DianeBeckCoaching8 ай бұрын
Amazing advice
@benjiespinosa4703 Жыл бұрын
This some good advice 👏
@sebbenforte3 ай бұрын
One thing Theo doesn't say here is this: If she has helped you out and is ready to move on, thank her and send her on her way before she starts to resent you. Like Theo said, if you do you may have another chance with her later in life. If you don't, things can get really dark between you.
@user-cv3ri4fy7k8 ай бұрын
I apreciate the hell out of this dude, nodody this godamn honest its fuvking legendary👏👏👏
@micheleele72999 ай бұрын
Another wonderful side to Theo Von♥️ Great advice! Great heart!But still the comedian….”she could be really chatty” 😂😂
@Justcrusin9 ай бұрын
Damn brother hope this guy is good I’m dealing what he’s dealing with 5 years later from this vid was wit this girl since i was 15 we broke up 8 months ago stop fully checking up/seeing each other, and now that is official over its rough.
@samc17578 ай бұрын
Thanks Theo
@hanzomain99913 ай бұрын
been 2 months and vday is in 2 days. I miss her man
@sonwabisedzidzi2 ай бұрын
Same brother. Soldiering on
@coletenroberson47736 ай бұрын
dam fr this is something I been needing to hear
@crackedshell11 ай бұрын
I am turning 30 and I needed to hear this lol.
@hisnameskoda2 күн бұрын
this hit !
@linxlatham473 ай бұрын
what great advice, I hope it helped him
@franzeck80032 ай бұрын
"You gonna have other chances with her. its gonna be hard you have to stay busy, your mind is gonna be your worst enemy if you really start to miss her"
@nickd9357 ай бұрын
I wish I saw this when it came out
@georgesparrow1008 ай бұрын
Life long listener🤣🤣🤣
@mmr02216 ай бұрын
I love you Theo
@mjg2421 күн бұрын
4:54 ❤️
@BurnedbreaDakaBabolz7 ай бұрын
Shout out Theo mayne
@natalie_v0.16 ай бұрын
very helpful, losing my wife after knowing her over a decade and its rough. I know it'll get better but right now I want to disappear.
@Healthyroutines.11 ай бұрын
Hope you okey Brother ❤🙏🏽
@FizuhcuL7 ай бұрын
Damn im going through this rn 8 year deep and it feels like everyone goes through this but fk, she was my bestfriend... doing everything i feel like i need to move on but doesnt fill that void.
@xe25946 ай бұрын
Stay busy mate. The gym is good. If you have them, spend time with friends (not everyone does). Try avoid doing all the drinking and bs. Feed yourself good food and work out and get plenty of sleep. It won’t cure everything but the machine runs a lot better when the engines been primed. Might take a few months or a few years but you need to forgive yourself and grow. All in time. See who comes out the other side.
@Lemoncare2 сағат бұрын
People, come into your life, for a reason, a season, or a life time.
@stevenrichards1539 Жыл бұрын
Two of my exgirlfriends went to jail, and another one got pregnant from some other dude and she tried to trick me into thinking I was the father.
@cristianbarrera88498 ай бұрын
Fuck those bitches, especially the last one. Hope you’re doing well brotha!!! 😎🙏🏻🤝🏽
@JasonTaylor902103 ай бұрын
We're all selfish animals.
@edgarramos58896 ай бұрын
well bro i’m 18, dated 2 years with someone and now im here like him
@Pokieraf9 ай бұрын
Stay busy 🙌
@raizanong10 ай бұрын
core core
@Scorrdo11 ай бұрын
dang man
@ralphy19897 ай бұрын
Don't take her back bro walk on
@anynamereally246 ай бұрын
Some skittles lmao 🤣
@weewooemu750610 ай бұрын
3:25-3:46
@esss81626 ай бұрын
CHATTY CATHY😭
@byEFox8 ай бұрын
im 10 years older and still havent figured it out smh
@jasonosaka5 ай бұрын
It’s over bro
@byEFox5 ай бұрын
@@jasonosaka i love God im chillin
@Amarionnj7 ай бұрын
Episode?
@LOVE51506 ай бұрын
😂😂😂🎰🎰🎰😅😅😅
@hunterdavis3003 Жыл бұрын
Fuuuuuuu them cinnamon certs lol
@desperatewanderer742 Жыл бұрын
i wonder what happened to this man
@JumpierPath92 Жыл бұрын
Life
@nightfighter74526 ай бұрын
How do you start seriously dating someone at 12💀💀💀
@Ihatescales.mp45 ай бұрын
idk man but they did it
@gavinmaynor3597 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ is the truth reach out, nothing but respect.
@nopillow7 ай бұрын
Dang bro.. she’s going to college.. that’s not yo girl
@ThatChama4205 ай бұрын
it’s his girl. just because someone’s going to college doesn’t mean there a cheater. she’s needs to have a career too lmao