Our Fertility Journey: Episode 1

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The Perkins

The Perkins

4 жыл бұрын

Our first addition to a new series. We have been filming this journey for such a long time, and it feels good to finally release the first episode. This journey is dedicated to everyone going through the hardships of fertility. You're not alone in this. We're here for you.
-The Perkins
MY CURRENT PREGNANCY ESSENTIALS
• MY CURRENT PREGNANCY E...
Desi on YT: / desiperkins
Desi on IG: / desiperkins
Steven on IG: / stevenperkins
Our Announcement video on IG:
/ cabnhynpsbg
Our Doctor:
Andy Huang, M.D. - Reproductive Partners Medical Group, Inc.
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@gabriellareneelugo
@gabriellareneelugo 4 жыл бұрын
This is why you’re one of my favorite youtubers. I suffered a miscarriage 5 years ago and remember reaching out to you and you actually taking time to reach back out to me. I still have that screenshot saved on my computer. I will never forget it. I’m typing this as I’m carrying my 5 month old baby boy in my arms as he sleeps. It will happen for you too. I know it. Praying for you.
@kaylieramos
@kaylieramos 4 жыл бұрын
Gabriella Lugo I’m so happy for you! May your baby boy & you always be safe ❣️ I’m 21 & was told I might have ovarian cysts so I’m very scared for the future but this gave me hope
@valeriaroa7426
@valeriaroa7426 4 жыл бұрын
Omg reading this makes me so happy 🥺 congratulations to you and your family 💞
@delyxoxo
@delyxoxo 4 жыл бұрын
Reading this makes me so happy. Congratulations!
@Sdb4byyyy
@Sdb4byyyy 4 жыл бұрын
Such a blessing 🥺♥️ so happy for you!
@trinitysativa
@trinitysativa 4 жыл бұрын
Gabriella Lugo I am crying this is beautiful
@nicoleaviles331
@nicoleaviles331 4 жыл бұрын
I hope people stop commenting that they expect at the end of the series you’re pregnant. It’s not fair and it puts more pressure on Desi. Let’s just send her well wishes and love.
@xiomaruugh
@xiomaruugh 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing, like my immediate reaction was I hope this series ends with her being pregnant, like how amazing would that be, but seeing everything she's already been through. She's been through so much and she's choosing to be vulnerable with us when she really doesn't have to.
@carolinaroman3170
@carolinaroman3170 4 жыл бұрын
🤍 yes
@emilyotremba3807
@emilyotremba3807 4 жыл бұрын
this>>>>
@mixed_beauty
@mixed_beauty 4 жыл бұрын
I think she is! The last part was recorded between july and September from the last year. I’m really expecting good news, they have been through so much that really made me cry. I’m gonna be very happy if I’m not wrong! God bless them❤️
@CassandraGonzalez
@CassandraGonzalez 4 жыл бұрын
Nicole Aviles amen to thisssss!! We’re lucky that she’s sharing it all with us ! Just keeping them in prayers!
@karo5b
@karo5b 4 жыл бұрын
This is WHY I STOPPED asking couples when will they have a baby or ever get married. You don’t know what’s going on in their relationship...you never know.
@mrspokitstheriot477
@mrspokitstheriot477 4 жыл бұрын
Also. It's just no one elses business. If you're not involved in the making or carrying of said baby, it's not your concern. So dont ask.
@angelbby0592
@angelbby0592 4 жыл бұрын
And also because it’s just rude to even ask a woman if she is or not.
@shaidabunyat9357
@shaidabunyat9357 4 жыл бұрын
Preach sissy
@policewifey1741
@policewifey1741 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you for no longer asking couples this. My husband and I have been together for 13 years and had a horrible miscarriage last year that no one really knows. When people ask us this, it hurts so bad! I don't want to openly tell people we are having problems conceiving because it's no ones business and I don't want the added stress of people asking about it and "have you tried this or that." I just wish people wouldnt ask this question at all.
@crystale5625
@crystale5625 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! People asking me why I don’t have more kids. It’s so messed up obviously it’s because I can’t .
@Jacammua
@Jacammua 4 жыл бұрын
Do not ask a couple “when are you having kids?” Or “why haven’t you yet?” You have no idea how much they could be going through.
@aliciar2644
@aliciar2644 4 жыл бұрын
Jael Cameus or they just don’t want to have kids and that’s okay too 😇
@classicarah
@classicarah 4 жыл бұрын
I use to get so annoyed when I got asked this question. I knew I wanted to start having kids at 30 years old but nobody believed me in my 20’s and would keep asking why I wasn’t. My husbands friends would make fun of him saying he couldn’t have kids. Once we had one at 30 they all shut up.
@luvelyme07
@luvelyme07 4 жыл бұрын
Jael Cameus totally agree! I never ask a couple when are they having kids bc you truly don’t know what someone is going through.
@shadesoffamily
@shadesoffamily 4 жыл бұрын
Hate when people do that!!!! Like think before you speak!
@AnyoneAccount
@AnyoneAccount 4 жыл бұрын
Alicia R that’s not okay and is for pathetic losers
@bellav5761
@bellav5761 4 жыл бұрын
STEVEN STARTED TALKING AND I CRIED WITHIN THE FIRST 10 SECONDS
@anoushka-1095
@anoushka-1095 4 жыл бұрын
Right!🙏🏼❤😭
@jenniferautry9315
@jenniferautry9315 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@lizpena1008
@lizpena1008 4 жыл бұрын
Girl my 6 lash extension are GONE!!! 😭😭😭 they deserve so much 🥺
@adrianaguzman8986
@adrianaguzman8986 4 жыл бұрын
Same 😭
@Cubanita_Foodxplora
@Cubanita_Foodxplora 4 жыл бұрын
Same here
@MakeupLau
@MakeupLau 4 жыл бұрын
Dear people, please stop commenting about « the finale must be them announcing a pregnancy! ». What if they aren’t? Could you imagine them going trough the comments? They must feel so pressured already, please stop. Desi & Steven, I’m sending you all my positive energy. As a women with endometriosis, I’ll surely face some problem with fertility. Thank you so much for sharing. You guys are so brave ! ❤️🙏🏽
@Rareisbeautiful
@Rareisbeautiful 4 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said!
@brookebixler1040
@brookebixler1040 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!! I'm so glad you mentioned this, because it's very important that we don't let Desi & Steven feel like they've let us down!
@gladysmenchaca8536
@gladysmenchaca8536 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you so much for saying this.
@beautyfab8047
@beautyfab8047 4 жыл бұрын
Well said ✨👏🏼
@mautiakay
@mautiakay 4 жыл бұрын
This! Maybe they don't even have a final episode yet. Maybe they just thought with all of this footage piling up they might as well start to share it. Or maybe they are expecting. Either way, this series is valid and helpful.
@RenataGoodley
@RenataGoodley 4 жыл бұрын
People can be very cruel. 5 Years ago I had a stillbirth to our daughter. 2 years ago we adopted a beautiful boy from Hong Kong. People ask "Why don't you have kids of your own?" I found it so rude. You never know the whole story.
@arisofi95
@arisofi95 4 жыл бұрын
Renata Goodley OMG cant believe someone could ask that?! How horrible
@iramakhtar4070
@iramakhtar4070 4 жыл бұрын
I'm with my husband now coming to 10 years, I was raped before him by my ex, had no choice but to have an abortion as I was never going to marry him. When I married my lovely husband still with him presently 3 miscarriages in my marriage. Now iv got endometriosis and cant have any suffering monthly, people ask why I dont have children being married this long a decade, they say if wasted time they dont know my story or pain iv been through physical and emotional people never think before they speak. I may never have a baby of my own in my arms making me feel less of a lady unfulfilled they make me feel. It hurts when people look and ask. My arms are empty and my heart broken but people judge before knowing anything about what's happened and happening, all based on assumptions. I prey to God maybe a miracle happens one day for us or we can adopt a child if not will just have to have many cats and become a cat lady. As it can be so lonely deafening silence in the house.
@msp-wo6dw
@msp-wo6dw 4 жыл бұрын
Omg this is so horrible for you and for this little boy... some people don't get what the adoption is about
@lauracovi8664
@lauracovi8664 4 жыл бұрын
Renata Goodley i wish more people who could, would consider adoption. The suffering children (of any age) of the world need caring & loving adoptive parents like yourselves. Adoption is such a beautiful mutual gift.
@fshonuff
@fshonuff 4 жыл бұрын
I was adopted from India in the early 80’s to a Caucasian family. I say that because it’s quite obvious that I look nothing like my parents and my brothers (who are biologically my parents). The questions and comments kids would say to me, and even adults to myself and my parents were and still are atrocious. “You aren’t your parents REAL kid”. Or to my parents, “how can you love a kid that isn’t really yours?” 🙄 then there was the time my dentist made a joke to my mother while I was getting my teeth cleaned..”her dad must be the mailman”. People have no tact, and no respect, and have no concept of love. Bless you and your child for the family you have found in each other! The adopted community is so special and I’m proud to be a part of it.
@Dink_13
@Dink_13 4 жыл бұрын
When Steven said: “she’s gotten better at needles though.” My heart sank and the flood gates opened. I love you, Desi.
@fawadzoori8338
@fawadzoori8338 4 жыл бұрын
Kaitlyn Allen عقیثثی
@Ramzz3g
@Ramzz3g 4 жыл бұрын
This is why I feel as a society overall we should stop asking women questions like “when are you planning on having babies?” no one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors. Praying for you and any other women that are struggling. ❤️
@misztori
@misztori 4 жыл бұрын
E R I C K A THIS!!! 🖤🖤😭😭🙌🏽🙌🏽
@beautyfab8047
@beautyfab8047 4 жыл бұрын
Yes 👏🏼
@badnameC
@badnameC 4 жыл бұрын
couldnt agree more! also, not everyone wants kids, like myself and i wish people would stop asking because there are so many reasons behind it
@brookewatson9531
@brookewatson9531 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! This needs to be said!! 💜💙
@crissalvino
@crissalvino 4 жыл бұрын
E R I C K A sooo true!!! 🙌🏼💖
@angelasmith1674
@angelasmith1674 4 жыл бұрын
As a 36 year old woman who hasn’t found “the one” this hits me in a different way. I hope you and Steven get blessed with your rainbow baby soon.
@MD-jr4qc
@MD-jr4qc 4 жыл бұрын
Totally feel you on that one.
@thriftinasse
@thriftinasse 4 жыл бұрын
i hope you get blessed with "the one" darling, stay positive :)
@melissastephen4853
@melissastephen4853 4 жыл бұрын
I know that it doesn’t really help, but you are not alone. I am 35 and was going to leave the same comment. Hoping it eventually happens for us all.
@ZeeZeeOni
@ZeeZeeOni 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I felt this!
@luvShante
@luvShante 4 жыл бұрын
Whew sis this hit me in my soul, because same! It breaks my heart to see Desi go thru this, but thank you for sharing your story! I’m sure you’re helping thousands muster up the strength to continue!
@Dbubblesss28
@Dbubblesss28 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a Fertility Nurse here in So Cal and I appreciate your openness. People don’t talk about fertility issues due to shame and being vulnerable but So many women struggle with this. You will get pregnant and your miracle baby will come 💜 All of this suffering will soon be erased with the pure joy of your baby In your arms. Good luck on this journey!
@iloveyourvibez
@iloveyourvibez 4 жыл бұрын
Dbubblesss28 hiii!! Fertility nurse here as well in OC. Totally understand what they’re going through! I feel for them! Sending lots of love!!
@adeelaa6104
@adeelaa6104 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. I hope this changes soon.
@taings1
@taings1 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for comment, I have been going through this long journey and still hoping a little one after 6 ivf tries.
@kikivonmolsa
@kikivonmolsa 4 жыл бұрын
I am not ashamed, but people who don't go through years of infertility treatment just can't understand
@andreaalcala5451
@andreaalcala5451 4 жыл бұрын
Who’s here in quarantine after she just announced her pregnancy on ig!!!
@RockabillyChaCha
@RockabillyChaCha 4 жыл бұрын
What?!?
@attractivebb8426
@attractivebb8426 4 жыл бұрын
me
@cristianatavares391
@cristianatavares391 4 жыл бұрын
Me!!!
@cristianatavares391
@cristianatavares391 4 жыл бұрын
Im so HAPPY
@cristianatavares391
@cristianatavares391 4 жыл бұрын
Emily i think they anounced at the same day cause it was on mothers day on insta and here it was too
@fimcyouthservice
@fimcyouthservice 4 жыл бұрын
The “ I need to shake it off before Steven gets home “ hit hard ! Most will not understand you don’t want to get their hopes up as much as you do, SO we test in secret and don’t say anything unless good news . It’s such a lonely period !
@ThePerkins
@ThePerkins 4 жыл бұрын
🥺😭❤️
@elizabethgregory
@elizabethgregory 4 жыл бұрын
:( awww
@fimcyouthservice
@fimcyouthservice 4 жыл бұрын
The Perkins thank you for sharing ! 🥰
@monkleyface
@monkleyface 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely. My husband was so broken up over our miscarriage that it was hard for me to show my own heartbreak. It’s not that he wouldn’t have been supportive and comforting, but I just couldn’t add my grief to his.
@abarby777
@abarby777 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such a personal and emotional experience. Sending hugs your way and hope this journey ends with some babies very soon. Like you said timing is everything, God will send your babies when is the right time I’m sure. You’ll both will be such loving parents! Wish you the best, love you guys
@suhir5210
@suhir5210 4 жыл бұрын
Those of you who say I hope she announces her pregnancy at the end of the series have to realise that if she isn't, your expectations could be hurting her.
@mrs.cardenas3178
@mrs.cardenas3178 4 жыл бұрын
No, it's just what we wish for her.
@suhir5210
@suhir5210 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrs.cardenas3178 of course everyone wishes that for her and none of us wish it for her more than she does for herself. This is the equivalent of " are you pregnant?" Or " when are you going to have a baby?" I guarantee you that it hurts her if she hasn't gone numb from hearing it so much. I know it's just good intentions.
@suhir5210
@suhir5210 4 жыл бұрын
@Enormous Dixahalv you can also apply your " solution" to hate comments too, but then those who want to communicate with her cant. Maybe the comment section would provide much support for her. I think the easiest thing to do is keep such comments to oneself. Problem solved.
@hanifanifa
@hanifanifa 4 жыл бұрын
@Enormous Dixahalv shaddap jerk
@suhir5210
@suhir5210 4 жыл бұрын
@Ashley Elle oh I know . It's not malicious at all. The good intentions are there. It's just that she wants a baby more than we do for her. Infertility makes you feel like you're faulty and every time you get a negative test , it's soul crushing. You're already disappointed in yourself ( even if you know its not your fault) you don't need to fell like you're disappointing your viewers too. I'm 100% sure she knows you have only good intentions.
@melissaruvalcaba6530
@melissaruvalcaba6530 4 жыл бұрын
"Do you know how easy life would be if we could just stop our thoughts" I FELT THAT
@jessicacruz2012
@jessicacruz2012 4 жыл бұрын
Omg, this really raises awareness to me. To think about asking couples “why don’t you have any kids yet?”. It’s not something we think about.
@wendyministro6353
@wendyministro6353 4 жыл бұрын
There isn’t a pair more deserving of such a miracle more than you guys! I just started watching this video but I wish this journey ends with the miracle you’ve been wanting and a life of happiness together. I know the joy of having babies and the heartbreak of a miscarriage and im going to be sending you nothing but prayers to you in this journey! Stay positive! 💖
@elizabethgregory
@elizabethgregory 4 жыл бұрын
Same!! I feel for them so much.
@chelseasoto6753
@chelseasoto6753 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@briannampnelson
@briannampnelson 4 жыл бұрын
Steven is a caring sensitive strong KING to his QWEEEEN
@dianas5788
@dianas5788 4 жыл бұрын
* QUEEN
@krbk26
@krbk26 4 жыл бұрын
I think that was intentional
@briannampnelson
@briannampnelson 4 жыл бұрын
Kr Bk lmao thank you it was 😂
@classicarah
@classicarah 4 жыл бұрын
He’s amazing,they’re both blessed to have each other.
@hayleyl9667
@hayleyl9667 4 жыл бұрын
Took me 6 years to get pregnant naturally and now I'm 3 months pregnant!!
@thedoubleyou8247
@thedoubleyou8247 4 жыл бұрын
yay so happy for you , i hope you have a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby💕
@savannahbernie5835
@savannahbernie5835 3 жыл бұрын
Who’s here after watching their Birth Vlog w Ocean, 😍😭❤️
@louisemailey2963
@louisemailey2963 3 жыл бұрын
Me
@jaspergamil2322
@jaspergamil2322 4 жыл бұрын
‘The PAIN that you’ve been feeling, can’t compare to the JOY that’s coming.’ - Romans 8:18 Sending Prayers & Positive vibes Desi & Steven 💕💕💕
@laurastanfill210
@laurastanfill210 4 жыл бұрын
I agree in Jesus name. Amen. ❤🥰 I love you, Desi and Steven. Hang in there. Joy will come in the morning!
@alisab3683
@alisab3683 4 жыл бұрын
Jasper Gamil AMEN 🤍🤍🤍🤍
@CarmenCherie93
@CarmenCherie93 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@kariiiinaxoxo
@kariiiinaxoxo 4 жыл бұрын
Amen❤️❤️
@evamakolle
@evamakolle 4 жыл бұрын
Ameeen we pray in Jesus name !!! Keep the faith.
@Karishk37
@Karishk37 4 жыл бұрын
I started crying as soon as it started. This is truly the side that no one ever talks about. I had a miscarriage also and not until after it happened did i find out that miscarriages are super common maybe even more common than pregnancies. Desi, I keep you and your family in my thoughts. Your dream family will happen for you.
@bobbiemarie5866
@bobbiemarie5866 4 жыл бұрын
Karis Aguilera I did too. I feel like Steven is such a great partner and so supportive
@neva9414
@neva9414 4 жыл бұрын
I was in the same exact boat as you. I wasn't aware of how common it truly is until I went through this myself.
@texastippn
@texastippn 4 жыл бұрын
Same. 🥺😭
@simplyswede7206
@simplyswede7206 4 жыл бұрын
Same, I’m empathetic but I did not expect to cry!
@myong2206
@myong2206 4 жыл бұрын
WHO’sS HERE AFTER THEY ANNOUNCED???🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺im literally crying im SO happy for them
@Insanepie
@Insanepie 4 жыл бұрын
Bro you have nothing to do with their life
@TaniasMakeover
@TaniasMakeover 4 жыл бұрын
@@Insanepie leave her be, you know nothing about their journey.
@dollydevilish22
@dollydevilish22 4 жыл бұрын
The intro literally was the cutest thing ive ever heard
@carmvalencia2168
@carmvalencia2168 4 жыл бұрын
“I need to shake it off before Steven gets home” really hit home. I’ve taken countless tests behind my husband, it’s hard enough to be disappointed, feeling “broken” and to see it in your husbands face too I just rather not. Desi don’t give up, I’m 37 years old and after almost 10 years of trying and nothing I was finally able to get pregnant, I’m currently 34 weeks. It’s was a long lonely road but it was all worth it. You too (and so many others ) will have your happy ending. Have faith. You’ll get there too!
@liltiggergirl316
@liltiggergirl316 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!! I struggled as well and I’m currently 6 weeks. I know I still have a long way to go but I have faith. All in his will 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@erika_velazco
@erika_velazco 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Wishing you a happy & healthy delivery ❤️
@debbie12346
@debbie12346 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@carmvalencia2168
@carmvalencia2168 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Rodriguez congratulations Mama! It’s all in his will. He’s the one who got me through it all. Praying for healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.
@carmvalencia2168
@carmvalencia2168 4 жыл бұрын
Erika Velazco Thank You!
@SmartistaBeauty
@SmartistaBeauty 4 жыл бұрын
I cannot emphasize the value of such vulnerability on KZfaq. This is the type of content that pushes this platform further. Wishing you a blessed journey
@annajoie700
@annajoie700 4 жыл бұрын
So very well said!! 👏🏼💛
@harpreetjandu7902
@harpreetjandu7902 4 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks when I see couples who really want children, who I know would be amazing parents, but struggle so much with it, while it happens so easily for others. I wish Desi and Steven good luck with their fertility journey and hope it works out for them. Sending lots of love and positivity your way.
@thefayemichelle
@thefayemichelle 4 жыл бұрын
The worst part is watching these crime shows during quarantine and thinking wow some of these people don't deserve to have kids, but then those like you said who would KILL THE MOM AND DAD GAME aren't as lucky. Unfair world we're in, really unfair. I hope they're happy in this process though.
@BTanny777
@BTanny777 4 жыл бұрын
I cried when you said “timing is a funny thing. the moment brought the pregnancy tests home, I started my period.” Time just sucked in for me I was like 😳😭😭😭💔
@sophiehale6014
@sophiehale6014 4 жыл бұрын
Whether this leads to pregnancy, adoption, and another dog, I’m so excited to watch your journey! You’re so strong and inspiring Desi💗
@graciann4919
@graciann4919 4 жыл бұрын
Sophie Hale i agree! whatever and wherever this series goes, i’ll be supporting you guys till the end!
@Van_M
@Van_M 4 жыл бұрын
I’m praying that you have the opportunity to become a mother. I tried for 10 years. I went to four different doctors, did multiple fertility treatments, cried a lot, took a million pregnancy tests, had every kind of emotion. Nothing worked. We couldn’t afford IVF so we had to stop. It never happened for me. I never got pregnant. I hope you find something that works for you and that you find peace and happiness.
@silri7248
@silri7248 4 жыл бұрын
Van M sending love 💓
@riley101ify
@riley101ify 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear that. Sending hugs 💓
@cynthia1542
@cynthia1542 4 жыл бұрын
bless your soul.
@xoxo247.
@xoxo247. 4 жыл бұрын
💕 sending you love Van!
@momcatx2
@momcatx2 4 жыл бұрын
It's not fair how expensive IVF is. There are so many deserving, potentially amazing, should be parents out there. Sending ❤❤
@GretchenV95
@GretchenV95 4 жыл бұрын
Not discounting Steven and his own strength through all of this but maaan... the strength of a woman is unmeasurable. To go through all this and still film videos, still go to events, still do your job.. I love you, Desi. ❤️
@LayersOfJenn
@LayersOfJenn 4 жыл бұрын
“I’m trying but I’m not really trying” .. I felt that because I’ve said it so many times. I’m currently on my own journey of trying to have a baby. I wish you guys nothing but the best of luck ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@Lexsully
@Lexsully 4 жыл бұрын
LayersOf_Jenn me too, love! Sending you so many good vibes ❤️
@kjchch
@kjchch 4 жыл бұрын
I felt this too 😔 it's so true right. We made it in the end with donor eggs but my gosh it's a journey. Love your content Jenn and rooting for you and T...and these guys too of course ❤️
@rosangeladiaz7968
@rosangeladiaz7968 4 жыл бұрын
Im on the same boat..... lots of hugs for you ladies and positive vibes.... and hope one day we can come back to this post and said “Im pregnant “ I’m 💯 % sure it will happened 😘😘💕💕💕💕
@lesleyalfaro6941
@lesleyalfaro6941 4 жыл бұрын
I wish you the best of luck! Be strong ❤️
@LayersOfJenn
@LayersOfJenn 4 жыл бұрын
KJ Fletcher thank you 😭♥️👏🏻
@shelleymccain6762
@shelleymccain6762 4 жыл бұрын
Clicked on this as soon as I tucked in my 4 adopted kids ,because " me too" We have been through many years of infertility, finally we ended up adopting and have 4 beautiful kids. Praying for you both ❤❤
@darlene5984
@darlene5984 4 жыл бұрын
adoption! 💕 i love that you shared this, blessings to you & your family!
@misslebnan
@misslebnan 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing!!! You’re their super hero!
@nalinthalala6204
@nalinthalala6204 4 жыл бұрын
Shelley Mccain oh wonderful! I clicked on it too. Am nervous to watch as I am still without child, but of course hopeful! Thanks for sharing your story. I love stories of hope and women who encourage ! Fertility journey is so hard.. but with love and support is possible. X
@elsaperez3799
@elsaperez3799 4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏 Good bless you 😘😘
@indhirasanchez3645
@indhirasanchez3645 4 жыл бұрын
There’s no words for women going through infertility, I have had 3 miscarriages. Im currently pregnant with my miracle baby and it took 4 pregnancies and 2 years of trying to get here, Desi I pray for you and ask God to give you a child. Im gonna tell you what my mom told me when I found out I was pregnant for the fourth time “entregaselo a Dios, put your child in God’s hands and ask him to protect his child and to let it be your child”. I hope with all my heart that you get pregnant soon, God’s timing is perfect, I know how hard it is but you got this mama💙
@rebecamancina5214
@rebecamancina5214 4 жыл бұрын
Indhira Sanchez i love this!
@krystlej400
@krystlej400 4 жыл бұрын
It took us 7 years to get pregnant. I wish you guys the best on your journey.
@vanessarubio7518
@vanessarubio7518 4 жыл бұрын
Krystle J natural or with help?
@NeroSilver2
@NeroSilver2 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats! I hope you and your family are happy and healthy! ❤️
@TheSnowReport28
@TheSnowReport28 4 жыл бұрын
Krystle J took us 7 years for a successful pregnancy too
@thefayemichelle
@thefayemichelle 4 жыл бұрын
Took my aunt 12 and she's got two beautiful babies I get to call my cousins! So happy for you, congrats!
@lovehoney3625
@lovehoney3625 3 жыл бұрын
This comment scared me honestly. I’m so scared 😱
@alinadherrera
@alinadherrera 4 жыл бұрын
I hope that this will make people think twice about asking when someone is going to have a baby. I am so absolutely sorry for you. I believe it’s all in god’s timing, he will provide when it is the best time to go through a new season
@nicoleb4629
@nicoleb4629 4 жыл бұрын
Alina Herrera 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 I know ppl don’t ask to be mean but it can really break your heart with every question.
@SweetDreamsMell
@SweetDreamsMell 4 жыл бұрын
Well said 👏🏼
@avt30
@avt30 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 44 and have just had my first baby via IVF after 15 years of trying...there is light at the end of the tunnel...sending you all the positive pregnancy vibes 🥰🤰🏻x
@jinanh2712
@jinanh2712 4 жыл бұрын
avt30 congratulations!
@avt30
@avt30 4 жыл бұрын
Ashley Elle Hi there...I had two frozen embryos and only one took, thankfully! I had my treatment in Spain, Alicante an AMAZING clinic called IB...very professional, 1000 times cheaper than in the UK and a first time positive !!!....if you need more info I’m happy to share....8 of us in my IVF group network are now with child or pregnant via this clinic! X
@avt30
@avt30 4 жыл бұрын
Jinan Thank you so so much! 🥰
@yvetteserna9160
@yvetteserna9160 4 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭. I really have taken being able to get pregnant for granted. I'm so sorry, this is such a painful video. I am so grateful for my children.
@LivforLu
@LivforLu 4 жыл бұрын
The video of her telling Steven she’s pregnant always brings me to tears😔
@lupita916
@lupita916 4 жыл бұрын
My parents tried to have a baby for 10 years. They tried adopting, but did not qualify for it. After 1 failed IVF attempt, they did one more, my dad said if this one doesn’t work out, he’s done trying. Not too long after, they got the call saying they were pregnant with me. Timing is everything, I am here because of my parents struggle and journey.
@beautyfab8047
@beautyfab8047 4 жыл бұрын
Very nice story ✨🙂👍🏼
@justynawisniewska1213
@justynawisniewska1213 4 жыл бұрын
Crazy that adoption was more expensive than IVF :o
@lupita916
@lupita916 4 жыл бұрын
Justyna Wisniewska My parents didn’t make enough to qualify for adoption, but they were able to afford IVF because they qualified for a program that cut the cost by 50%. Also, not sure if it was just cheaper in general during the 90s?
@xcatiehoydicx
@xcatiehoydicx 4 жыл бұрын
If this doesn’t end with an announcement I’m going to have a talk with the big man upstairs. Nobody is more deserving. Praying for y’all!! ❤️
@torimcclelland7613
@torimcclelland7613 4 жыл бұрын
Catie Hoydic I was thinking the same thing! I’m hoping this ends with an announcement because my heart hurts for them so much 😭🙏🏼
@nikasmall9824
@nikasmall9824 4 жыл бұрын
I'm SO PRAYING this!!!!
@holadrea9721
@holadrea9721 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@KajinOh
@KajinOh 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking this too, I prayed so hard for her and I know she will be the most amazing mother🥺❤️
@ashketchum1377
@ashketchum1377 4 жыл бұрын
But its important for her to know that even if this doesnt end with the “big announcement” yll are expecting that it is still okay, we love her and pray for her. If her journey ends differently that doesnt make her any less amazing.
@abbyhayes634
@abbyhayes634 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to tell you how much love and appreciation I am sending your way. I have watched Desi for years, and my heart hurt seeing your hurt in your video last year. But I also cannot believe how strong you both are. Strong enough to go through this, and strong enough to share it. Steven, thank you for being there for Desi while you're both struggling.
@traciwitzberger6728
@traciwitzberger6728 4 жыл бұрын
My friend mentioned your journey to me because I’m gaining through the same thing right now. I am so glad she told me about this because it makes me feel as though I’m not crazy for the thoughts I have. Everything you have said I think and feel. I just want to thank you for putting your story out there because it makes me feel less alone! I’m currently in my dreaded two week wait after my first round of IUI. I’m so nervous for my results but I makes me feel better knowing that you feel the same things I do and that I’m not crazy for feeling them! So thank you for sharing!
@katrinateramura3810
@katrinateramura3810 4 жыл бұрын
My friend just announced she’s pregnant with twins after 6 years of trying and IVF. Stay strong, prayers to you and Steven!
@nataliebernal1685
@nataliebernal1685 4 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how someone I never met or doesn’t even know I exist, made me cry so damn hard. Desi thank you for sharing your journey. I hope this series ends with a miracle you both deserve 💙
@AlissiaLatrece
@AlissiaLatrece 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine how loved your baby is gonna feel to know that you guys worked this hard for him/her. I’m rooting for you guys, you’ll be amazing parents 💜
@veronicao967
@veronicao967 4 жыл бұрын
for a while now i’ve always seen so much light and love connected to your energy. to me, your angels are speaking to you.. so many sweet messages through out the video. sharing your journey with us is so powerful and healing, you’re showing the world divine femininity that not a lot of women or young girls get to come across. your light is shining and you are sharing that light - you are strength. your honesty and vulnerability is so grounding.. because it is real and human. thank you for being vulnerable Desi. no matter where your journey leads you are attached to so much love and light. it is already beautiful. trust uncertainty. 444 🙏🏼✨🧿
@jemsopp7125
@jemsopp7125 4 жыл бұрын
This is such a good documentary. I especially appreciate how Steven’s journey is included. I think people forget about the father in a miscarriage or during infertility treatments. I also love to see how you two are supporting each other. This had to be very difficult to share, but I honestly think it will help so many others going through this too.
@Cassienesss
@Cassienesss 4 жыл бұрын
I HAVE NEVER CLICKED ON ANYTHING FASTER. I’m crying 😭💕
@Cassienesss
@Cassienesss 4 жыл бұрын
@Mario Deskovic GIRL SAME.
@fashionbeautybomb
@fashionbeautybomb 4 жыл бұрын
I love how real you two are. I've suffered from a miscarriage and understand the confusion and heartbreak. Praying for you two!
@kg52421
@kg52421 4 жыл бұрын
Desi, Thank you for this from someone who can relate. I am your age and we are currently on our fourth round of IUI and 4th year of TTC. I understand how vulnerable it makes you feel with all of the procedures and the soul wrenching devastation when it continues not working. I know it doesn’t make it easier but still, you are in my thoughts and you are not alone on this journey!
@Yaackiie
@Yaackiie 4 жыл бұрын
*video starts* *Steven: “Good mor- “* Me: 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@atmr95
@atmr95 4 жыл бұрын
I know there’s over 3k comments and you won’t see this but I just wanted to say that this was the first video in a long time (since the start of lockdown) I’ve actually watched as soon as I saw the notification and was actually engaged for the whole 30 mins! Thankyou so much for your vulnerability and your honesty. I don’t know what you’re going through but it’s like I feel the pain you’re experiencing and I SO want this to be a happy ending for you. I want this so bad for you more than I want my own kids! I don’t know you and you don’t know me but I feel such a connection to you and your family. Desi and Steven, I send you nothing but love and hope 💞 No one deserves this more than you xo
@rgayaala3946
@rgayaala3946 4 жыл бұрын
Desi, I’ve always known you’re a strong woman. But this is strength on a whole another level. You deserve nothing but happiness.❤️
@Ustolemymusterd
@Ustolemymusterd 4 жыл бұрын
28:00 Well I am A: a teenager and B: too scared of death to ever want a partner or a child. I find these type of videos incredibly inspiring. I loved what she said. Well I am still in the hole of grief, I struggle to want to get out of bed in the mornings. I feel as if I have lost control, but knowing that she is right, that I have control over other things in my life that I love. I should do them as I struggle with the fact that the people I love have and will continue to die at moments I could never predict. I have to keep strong, for the ones that are still alive, and control my life before I get to go meet the people I miss.
@katherinehernandez8679
@katherinehernandez8679 4 жыл бұрын
I think the level of care Desi puts into her garden and plants 🌱 is a beautiful metaphor of a mother nurturing her embryo. By no means do I want this to seem disrespectful I just thought it was so beautiful she found comfort in gardening with her dad and bringing life to those seeds...... my heart goes out to you and your journey 💖
@robincloete
@robincloete 4 жыл бұрын
I also watched the gardening video's yesterday, and she has such a nurturing soul. With the gardening, doggies & her family. ❤️🥺
@danielarxmos
@danielarxmos 4 жыл бұрын
Katherine Hernandez This comment > 😭😭💕
@katherinehernandez8679
@katherinehernandez8679 4 жыл бұрын
Sam GG Sam GG I think you need to look back at my comment and realize I never used the term Mother Nature. I said DESI nurturing her plants was a beautiful metaphor to me of how she would nurture her child (embryo). Bearing children is a part of nature, and in the human species only females can carry child. Natures gender was not and is not something I lose sleep on.
@tamikaadams1341
@tamikaadams1341 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t think there’s a couple that’s more deserving of this. My heart goes out to you both. Xx
@carolinaleal8925
@carolinaleal8925 4 жыл бұрын
Tamika Adams every couple that’s going in this journey deserves a baby
@melissacruz5066
@melissacruz5066 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been hesitating watching this because I knew how emotional it would be how emotional I would feel, I too have been threw this same struggle infertility and miscarriage is the absolute hardest thing to go through. I just want to send you both all the love and support, Don’t give up❤️ Thank you for sharing your story with all of us shows others that it’s okay to talk about!
@whatevrHeather
@whatevrHeather 4 жыл бұрын
i seriously cannot thank you enough for making this video, i’ve been going through such a hard time with this and i randomly came across this video. i was watching “what it’s in purse” videos and i clicked on this and it is just what i need to see. my husband and i have been trying for 2 years now and we are about to have to take the next steps (IUI) so this video is so helpful and so beautiful thank you Desi 💞💕💞💕 you are so strong and amazing good thought and good vibes for you always ❤️
@catherinerodas9529
@catherinerodas9529 4 жыл бұрын
behalf of everyone: thank you for being vulnerable (you and Steven) and sharing your story!
@maddies2317
@maddies2317 4 жыл бұрын
literally started crying ten seconds into Stevens little note at the beginning
@emilyhernandez7809
@emilyhernandez7809 4 жыл бұрын
maddie s same 😭
@Carolsaacount
@Carolsaacount 4 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@andrealove52
@andrealove52 4 жыл бұрын
same 😭
@wckdldy
@wckdldy 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!!
@MsLola2189
@MsLola2189 4 жыл бұрын
maddie s same!! 😭😭 i couldn’t stop the tears they just came out and wouldn’t stop.
@Mxp1809
@Mxp1809 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve never felt like someone has understood me more. This is so similar to mine and my fiancé’s journey. I am so grateful for you sharing your journey. Thank you ❤️🌈
@caradornan9006
@caradornan9006 4 жыл бұрын
The love between Desi and Steven is something you see in a fairytale 😩 I’ve never seen anything like it!🤎
@christinaleask3554
@christinaleask3554 4 жыл бұрын
My brother n sis in law tried for 10years, in the end they went ivf but it turns out she had an auto immune that was undiagnosed that essentially prevented her from getting pregnant, the ivf worked after the autoimmune was corrected and theyve since had a natural conception Desi and Steven, you WILL have your baby, that bundle of joy is waiting for the perfect time to come into your lives Thank you for sharing your journey, I know it’s incredibly personal and you’re both so brave for exposing this raw and heartbreaking time of your parenting journey
@lopeznayeli69
@lopeznayeli69 4 жыл бұрын
Christina Leask do you mean after the autoimmune disease was treated? Sorry don’t mean to be a Karen, I have an autoimmune disease and they are permanent but can be treated. Don’t want people to think it can be corrected as most as very serious and painful like mine.
@antoniag6622
@antoniag6622 4 жыл бұрын
NLo i think she meant starting a treatment and goind under remission. Also there is a disease called antiphospholipidic syndrome that causes blood clotting and spontanous abortion and has got treatment
@lopeznayeli69
@lopeznayeli69 4 жыл бұрын
Hayley Joe yeah they all have some type of treatment. Doesn’t work a lot of the times but there are options. I knew what she meant. Just had to correct her wording so she’ll know along with others. There is no correcting an autoimmune disease, but they can be treated. No biggie, constructive criticism.
@christinaleask3554
@christinaleask3554 4 жыл бұрын
NLo I understand autoimmune, my daughter has celiacs disease My sis in laws was specific to pregnancy, her body attacking the embryo as a foreign body as soon as it implanted, and yes, this particular AI has been corrected, I can’t recall the name of it but it’s done and dusted
@antoniag6622
@antoniag6622 4 жыл бұрын
NLo It is interesting though that during the pregancy the immune system lowers it’s natural defense due to the fetus (so that it doesn’t produce antibodies against the baby).
@MissEman92
@MissEman92 4 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart. I’ve been trying to get pregnant for 4 years. Multiple miscarriages and failed IUI cycles later and here I am watching this video and thinking “Omg I know what that’s like and it hurts”. I’m praying for you Desi and for all my sisters in the world trying to conceive. You’re all queens and don’t let anyone make you feel less than for anything. Sending out all the love! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@xoxo247.
@xoxo247. 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you Eman ✨
@davidwilliams4837
@davidwilliams4837 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@adelabed9363
@adelabed9363 4 жыл бұрын
Im forty and just took that out of my mind
@albatorres3741
@albatorres3741 4 жыл бұрын
I swear I wasn’t even a minute in I’m already crying. 😭❤️
@slavetotheshutter68
@slavetotheshutter68 4 жыл бұрын
3 min in. I didn’t think I could bring myself to watch this and I’m already in tears I hope the best for you two
@Yazmean97
@Yazmean97 4 жыл бұрын
My mom couldn’t have children. Her and my dad were on treatment for more than 7 years. She had two artificial inseminations done and was getting a monthly shot. After almost 8 years they told her she should give up due to all of the procedures and how her body could react to it. A year after (with no treatment) I ended up on an ultrasound! I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you guys! Wish you nothing else but luck! I know you guys will be such good parents 💕
@tatyanacouture5448
@tatyanacouture5448 4 жыл бұрын
Yazmin Mejia thank u for sharing this story. That was nothing but God girl! Your parents deserved you and vice versa. Love this 😭
@sandesajol3994
@sandesajol3994 4 жыл бұрын
Yazmin Mejia xx
@jgoncalodm
@jgoncalodm 4 жыл бұрын
@@tatyanacouture5448 Sorry but this is all too common on fertility treatment couples, they are able to conceive after they give up treatments and all the anxiety, stress, expectations go away. Just nature, no Aliens or Gods involved .
@tatyanacouture5448
@tatyanacouture5448 4 жыл бұрын
Gonçalo Monteiro OR you could just accept that EYE believe what I believe and I respect our beliefs so respect mine. GOD BLESS 🥰
@alexisbalke4200
@alexisbalke4200 4 жыл бұрын
This story alone made me emotional, that’s amazing.
@ShantiTyree
@ShantiTyree 4 жыл бұрын
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” is what my mom always would tell me. What is for you is for you, and I pray and believe you’ll have your heart’s desires!
@smarieesco
@smarieesco 4 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been trying for 2yrs now. I don’t talk about it with anyone, so watching this video was such blessing and so relatable. Thank you.
@thedoubleyou8247
@thedoubleyou8247 4 жыл бұрын
i hope that one day youll carry your baby stay strong and positive💕
@tashakarua7226
@tashakarua7226 4 жыл бұрын
Dame here but God’s timing is the best..All the best darling ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@lmbeauty4990
@lmbeauty4990 4 жыл бұрын
Watching your story has brought back so many memories that you tend to just forget. My husband and I went through infertility for over five years. The amount of emotion and mental factors that you go through is beyond compare. Thank you so much for putting your story out there for others to watch. Four years ago, we finally got pregnant with my twin boys.
@angelface14angel
@angelface14angel 4 жыл бұрын
The part where Steven gives desi her “care package” made me tear up. I hope we all find a love like that... ❤️ so thoughtful 😭
@krystaltello5119
@krystaltello5119 4 жыл бұрын
I’m barley like 3 minutes in & I have tears streaming. Con el amor, todo es posible. I love you both!
@valo.9717
@valo.9717 4 жыл бұрын
Krystal Tello girl same 😭
@elizabethgregory
@elizabethgregory 4 жыл бұрын
Me too!!
@aloonnddraa_2958
@aloonnddraa_2958 4 жыл бұрын
I was the same! 😭
@desireedelgado826
@desireedelgado826 4 жыл бұрын
I was debating on watching this... I know you have been having difficulty getting pregnant after your miscarriage so I knew this would be a very emotional video. You are such a strong couple to get through this together. I'm glad you decided to do this as it will help so many people who are struggling to have children as well. I'm so glad I watched this series, you are so brave. I wish you all the best in life. You guys are amazing and inspirational.
@lauradiaz568
@lauradiaz568 4 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much this video has helped me, I had my miscarriage about a year and a half ago,told my fiancé about the news the same way you did, gave people the same response you have and have been praying every day so I can have my miracle. I cry almost every day and feel so alone because like you said there is such a stigma and barely anyone talks about there things . You’re video really helped me see that I’m not the only one going through this and I really appreciate you being so vulnerable and sharing your story
@winnyj6806
@winnyj6806 4 жыл бұрын
If I had a nickel every time someone told me “not to think about it” or “as soon as you stop trying, it will happen” ughhhh I’d be rich. I do my best to not ever say those things to a woman trying to get pregnant.
@karizzo
@karizzo 4 жыл бұрын
I have never seen two people more deserving of a child. I will pray that you get your miracle and more! Thank you for bringing us with you on this journey. It’s so private and intimate I couldn’t imagine how you and Steven must feel. Love and happiness to you both! 💕
@Jerseygrl23
@Jerseygrl23 4 жыл бұрын
We went through this journey for 6 years, so I know exactly how you feel. You pretend to not get your hopes up, but they are. You test every month. You cry all the time. Keep going. It’ll work in the end. My husband and I ended up doing ivf and I currently have an almost 7 week old baby laying on my chest. Ivf is hard, so hard, but it’s so worth it. Good luck. 🧡
@lorrainedrohan23
@lorrainedrohan23 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so authentic and brave talking about a very difficult emotional and personal journey. Let's let go of shame. This is not anyone's fault. I am so happy you have come out to help so many other women and couples. Accepting the situation and getting help and finding out your options must renew your hope so much. My heart was torn as this video progressed. Thank you once again for being so vulnerable and bringing forth the opportunity for so many others to talk about this personal aspect of their lives. The longing and then the disappointment must be soul destroying. You are a wonderful brave couple. It is wonderful to see you both there for each other. Angel Blessings X
@magalyazpeitia1562
@magalyazpeitia1562 4 жыл бұрын
Sad to see someone who really wants kids and there’s people in the world that have kids and have them rolling around not give a crap about their kids
@KarlaF91
@KarlaF91 4 жыл бұрын
Magaly Azpeitia so true!
@crystal96f
@crystal96f 4 жыл бұрын
😔
@classicarah
@classicarah 4 жыл бұрын
Sad world we live in.
@vanessacastillo9925
@vanessacastillo9925 4 жыл бұрын
Haven’t even gotten past Svens voiceover and I’m crying 😭
@deniseh78
@deniseh78 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! You could feel every word they said
@kimberlyvelez1257
@kimberlyvelez1257 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting this. I know it’s not something many people talk about but you are so strong. This is currently my situation as well. Honestly there are days I feel like my body’s broken and I’m just defective. My husbands been trying to keep my spirits up but sometimes it isn’t enough. There have been comments directed toward me by some family members that “he deserves someone else”, “she doesn’t really want a baby”, “if she can’t handle the side effects of the medicine she doesn’t deserve to be a mother”. I’ll be honest they play on a constant loop in the back of my mind. But seeing this made me realize that I am not alone and I am no less of a woman just because my body functions differently. So I thank you and Steven for sharing your experience.
@vivianmaldonado506
@vivianmaldonado506 4 жыл бұрын
When Desi was talking about doing something you can control when something out of your control happens... I felt that. I cried. Thank you for saying that❤️
@jenniivibes
@jenniivibes 4 жыл бұрын
I was five months pregnant with my first pregnancy after trying for a year, went into early birth and had to give birth to my stillborn baby boy. Losing Ziad was so hard, especially knowing he was a boy and even planing a baby shower for the future. Doctors said I could not hold a full term pregnancy and my world shattered. With prayer guess what, my son Joeziah, my only child (I am scared to try for more) is 11 years old. Please don’t lose hope Desi. Sigue adelante.
@liltiggergirl316
@liltiggergirl316 4 жыл бұрын
JENNIIVIBES god is good!
@marjorievelasco4346
@marjorievelasco4346 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for you’re loss, with whatever you choose to go forward with in your life I know it’ll lead to true happiness.
@samanthakay8392
@samanthakay8392 4 жыл бұрын
Xx
@guadaluperodriguez8186
@guadaluperodriguez8186 4 жыл бұрын
I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing this. Like you said its a topic we as woman sometimes dont like to talk about it and it takes courage for what you are doing and i thank you for that. I am 32 and Ive had a miscarriage and i am so terrified of being unable to carry/hold a baby . I also understood things happen for a reason. God knows we have trust him! And have faith. Love you and again thank you
@ValerieCerpaa698
@ValerieCerpaa698 4 жыл бұрын
The names of your sons are so touching it made me tear up! I wish you nothing but the best 💕🙏🏻
@45sylwunia
@45sylwunia 4 жыл бұрын
This was so tough to watch because it was like watching and hearing myself. Infertility is the hardest thing I’ve had to go through. It changed me completely. I was at my lowest point mentally. Month after month year after year. It will tear you apart and you feel so alone. The emotional damage is indescribable. The obsession with test taking and evaluating every single symptom! I know it all too well. All I can say is I know exactly what your going through and although it feels like your so alone in this there is so so many women going through the same. Unfortunately we just don’t hear about it enough. But... it happened for us and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy named Noah! He was all worth it! The journey may be hard but the reward is all worth it. I wish you strength because I know you need it❤️
@kandicep6292
@kandicep6292 4 жыл бұрын
Your strength is so inspiring ♥️ I know this is something you definitely don’t want to be going through and I wish a million times over you didn’t have to but I believe that everyone has a purpose in life and everything happens for a reason and I believe that God gives his strongest battles to his toughest soldiers, and I truly believe you’re one of them 🙏🏼 thank you for sharing your story I know how hard it must be but you’re helping a lot of women not feel alone and I believe that God is gonna give you many many babies because you would be the most beautiful/amazing mother ♥️ stay strong, Desi!!! 🤗
@alejandragil3698
@alejandragil3698 4 жыл бұрын
You are so strong. Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve also had a miscarriage last year and I know exactly how you feel. Nobody speaks about miscarriage, thank you for posting this because people sharing their story and knowing I wasn’t alone is what really helped me. Praying for you. You’re so brave for sharing your journey with us.
@emcharette5933
@emcharette5933 4 жыл бұрын
Crossing my fingers and praying that the last episode of this journey comes with a positive test and baby Perkins. You are both SO deserving. Don't give up xoxox
@annajoie700
@annajoie700 4 жыл бұрын
I thought the exact same thing!! 👏🏼💛🙏🏼
@sabrinabotez4899
@sabrinabotez4899 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking this as well!! 🙏🏼
@_iiamdenisem
@_iiamdenisem 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing 🙏🏼
@milonzekesmom
@milonzekesmom 4 жыл бұрын
I was just telling my hubby the same thing!!!! I told him hope the end of this series is when she says they are expecting 🙏🏼🙏🏼🤞🤞
@yasminageagea2810
@yasminageagea2810 4 жыл бұрын
I’ll just tell you one thing, just like there are hundreds of thousands of people praying for you right now, there will be millions celebrating this baby with you❤️ Stay hopeful. We Love you❤️
@LolitaTheLola
@LolitaTheLola 4 жыл бұрын
Yasmina Geagea love that ❤️
@nativprincess1
@nativprincess1 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy you posted this! I’m 6 months postpartum from my son who was conceived via IVF. We started so many years ago, and went through medicated cycles. Medicated IUI cycles, and finally two egg retrievals. I did two transfers and the second one took!!! IVF was my last resort. We had to SAVE!! But it was all worth it! And now I can go back in 6 months and start all over again!!
@kelsietuita5568
@kelsietuita5568 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. My husband and I have been going through this and found out I was pregnant for the first time at the beginning of April 2020 only to lose it at 8 weeks. As you said, I don't tell anyone how hard I am trying, and many don't understand it but I am doing everything I can naturally to conceive and each month I am timing things perfectly, but it isn't working and the one time it did work, it failed. I appreciate your vulnerability in posting this and am so happy for you both that this journey has brought you a healthy pregnancy.
@vanessaluu8493
@vanessaluu8493 4 жыл бұрын
i feel like at the end of this fertility journey episodes, there's going to be an announcement! All my fingers and toes are crossed for you both! You deserve all the kids in the world. You will be amazing parents xxxxx
@T3COLY
@T3COLY 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Luu I think so too because I remember in one of her videos she mentioned she had recorded the day she told Steven she was pregnant back in 2013 but didn’t know if she will ever show that . I’m praying it’s because they will have a blessing coming their way and they are able to help a lot of people 🙏
@mariflick
@mariflick 4 жыл бұрын
same! I hope it is true, hoping for the best for them!
@cutieeepieeXO
@cutieeepieeXO 4 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Luu i was thinking this too!! Praying so hard for them!
@alouise2186
@alouise2186 4 жыл бұрын
Tec Unique she’s previewed that clip before in another fertility video 🤍
@T3COLY
@T3COLY 4 жыл бұрын
a louise oh never mind I hadn’t seen it. 😞
@jackieb5107
@jackieb5107 4 жыл бұрын
I started tearing up as soon as Steven started talking 🥺 I think most of us empathize with the woman but it’s really inspiring hearing Steven point of view and how men deal with issues like this, it’s just as important as us women since they are in fact going thru the same problem. I’m soo happy for this series because I can feel there’s a baby at the end of the series and I’m praying for it. Since you Desi opened up about it in your main channel I always pray for you, I know you’re going to be amazing parents, God is good! 🙏🏻👶🏻💖
@nej6973
@nej6973 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for sharing this. As someone who has PCOS, from time to time i am also nervous for what the future might bring me. These conditions and matters such as miscarriages and infertility are such taboo subjects still and for me this documentary just meant i am not alone in this fear of the unknown. So, thank you again. From the bottom of my heart ❤️
@ct5770
@ct5770 4 жыл бұрын
Desi, I felt every tear you cried. I’ve been struggling with secondary infertility for 7 years. God has a plan for us all and the babies we are meant to have, we will have. 💕
@danyellethompson1107
@danyellethompson1107 4 жыл бұрын
I had 5 miscarriages n a stillborn daughter. It's so hard going through it. I'm sorry about your loss. But u 2 are so strong n God has a reason for it. But 360 days after my stillborn daughter I had twin identical girls and 3 yrs after had another daughter. Put faith in God. U 2 r so cute together too.
@Jade_fawkes
@Jade_fawkes 4 жыл бұрын
"I'm sorry there is no heartbeat" were the hardest most breaking words I've ever heard. It's brutal and no one should ever have to go through it! Its so incredibly common!
@therese6659
@therese6659 4 жыл бұрын
Omg girlll😢 those words are a dagger through your heart. I know the feeling.
@christacalleros6782
@christacalleros6782 4 жыл бұрын
Agree! Happened to me twice!
@Jade_fawkes
@Jade_fawkes 4 жыл бұрын
@@therese6659 Im so so sorry hun xx
@Jade_fawkes
@Jade_fawkes 4 жыл бұрын
@@christacalleros6782 So sorry hun xx
@salinacuffy6064
@salinacuffy6064 4 жыл бұрын
I am weeping watching this video. This is so raw and being so open with us. This takes a lot of courage and strength. God will bless you with a big family one day. Your time is coming. I feel it. Your patience will be rewarded. I felt devastated when my gynecologist informed me pregnancy might be hard for me due to having fibroids surrounding my ovaries. This is why I feel it’s so intrusive to ask women when are they going to get pregnant. You never know someone else situation. Gods timing is perfect. Sending you such a warm hug. Love you. 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺💜✨
@briannaaranda93
@briannaaranda93 4 жыл бұрын
This was so beautiful, raw, emotional, and literally can help other woman going through the same struggle! I love you both for this!!! Respect ✊🏼
@KimXBee
@KimXBee 4 жыл бұрын
When you said infertility feels “isolating” wow... instant tears because that’s exactly what I feels like 😔
@aizeemagnaye-arnaez4533
@aizeemagnaye-arnaez4533 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@nalinthalala6204
@nalinthalala6204 4 жыл бұрын
Kimberly yup it sure is x
@priscillanoriega2725
@priscillanoriega2725 4 жыл бұрын
😔With you
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