I was involved in a case where the dad was convicted on an interfamilial sex charge, and he still got to see his 8-year-old daughter unsupervised. The courts are nuts!!
@johnwilburn10 ай бұрын
What crime is the term “interfamilial sex charge” sanitizing?
@mydiscoverydestination395110 ай бұрын
Yes-- it is almost impossible to protect children from an abusive father through the courts. A parent can be an absolutely HORRIBLE parent and still have custody of the kids.
@kateluck155510 ай бұрын
The amount of comments claiming she must be lying is exactly why so much DV goes unreported. It’s gross.
@yodaddy494410 ай бұрын
Blame all the people with fake allegations that use the system as a weapon for everyone being skeptical.
@kateluck155510 ай бұрын
@@yodaddy4944 nah, I blame all the people who think false allegations are more of a problem than actual DV
@yodaddy494410 ай бұрын
@@kateluck1555It is better that ten guilty persons escape than that one innocent suffer - William Blackstone. I am not claiming that false accusations are MORE of a problem, but when the frequency of accusations being false becomes as high as it is today, you can't be surprised when people's initial reaction is skepticism. blindly believing the word of anyone accusing another of such a crime without proof beyond a reasonable doubt is immoral.
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@dearestdarling946710 ай бұрын
I don’t know how these DV judgments typically work so I could be wrong, but if her ex has DV charges and 2 bankruptcies, why does he have primary custody of the kids? I don’t think she is telling the full story here.
@hornetguy906310 ай бұрын
Nah, she has primary custody. She just doesn’t have full custody
@TonyCox135110 ай бұрын
He has partial custody
@hrushikeshavachat90010 ай бұрын
He has partial custody or secondary custody. The mom has the primary custody. That's why the trust and all. If he was capable of managing money; then most probably the trust wasn't required.
@dearestdarling946710 ай бұрын
Ohhh got it, I definitely misheard. Thanks all for clearing that up!
@devviedowner1310 ай бұрын
Depending on the state she lives in it could be very skewed in the father’s favor.
@screwdriver_bandit10 ай бұрын
This “Mama Bear” sounds like she’s leaving out a lot more to the story.
@bonjoursophie8 ай бұрын
Like what?
@curiouscat338410 ай бұрын
Sarah is very smart to address this now. Too many people procrastinate or think they don't need it until they're old but you never know when you're gonna go. Car crash, serious illness, DV......could happen tomorrow. She might talk to a lawyer also about making her parents the guardian without waiting for him to hurt them and his parental rights severed. Dave was cautious to say much about the DV but being responsible for two young ones when you've already demonstrated impatience and disdain for a human being sounds risky to me. Once an abuser always an abuser I don't care how many therapy sessions you've had.
@chrishagins330910 ай бұрын
Thank goodness John DeSimpy didn't take the call.
@simondave0010 ай бұрын
He would've pounced that "do you feel safe" faster than a cat pouncing a mouse
@johnwilburn10 ай бұрын
Two minutes in and I can't listen to her say "um" even one more time. I'm tapping out.
@Mr.Boring_Man10 ай бұрын
So, he's horrible with money and I'm also suppose to believe he's been convicted of DV yet he still has FULL CUSTODY? Rare but possible. Or, she has some issues as well. Nevertheless, definitely smart to get life insurance. I feel for kids caught in between this mess.
@A_barrel10 ай бұрын
She didn't say full custody, she said custody. It literally could be just him having the right to say y/n if they can go out of the country. He might have rights to them but never see them.
@galileogalilei617310 ай бұрын
Exactly! She’s lying! Typical bitter woman!
@johnlanier361610 ай бұрын
Who picked that guy? And the answer is HER
@A_barrel10 ай бұрын
@@johnlanier3616 and him beating on her is her fault?
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
And she is totally innocent, faultless in a relationship because she is a woman. What if she had lied to get the DV charges on the man. I would not judge listening to one side of the story
@RJRussoVids10 ай бұрын
Courts don't nonchalantly grant full custody of children in a divorce situation. Common sense. 🙄
@glitterstarbeau10 ай бұрын
Divorce lawyer here. The courts literally don't care until it proven that a parent is a danger to the kids.
@OopThereItIs777779 ай бұрын
The court didn’t bro. She said he sees them part time…put your listening ears O N.
@RebeenAmin198010 ай бұрын
There’s always a second side to the story. Don’t just assume and call the guy a bad guy.
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
Best reply ever from A sane person. Just because a woman calls the “simp show” and complains and cries, do not beat the man
@christiandoupe949510 ай бұрын
There is always a second side yes but as the man he is responsible for his actions if he gets with a bitch and he catches her cheating and he smacks the shit outta her because he has anger issues it’s his fault for not getting help for his mental health and it’s his fault for choosing that bitch to have his babies. If I’m with someone and she turns out to be a bitch I’m gone i damn sure don’t want her to have my kids you feel me. as men we carry the blame in this society and we need to accept that
@scotland36910 ай бұрын
All a woman needs to do is call the police and say she was attacked, and the man would be at fault, even if she was the one who was abusive and he never laid a finger on her. A judge would give her primary custody on this police report alone, and call this evidence.
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
@@scotland369sad truth of life
@stevenjustice10510 ай бұрын
Quick to take her word for everything.
@MikeNapoli198910 ай бұрын
He always defends the women for whatever reason
@Sally-ih6ls10 ай бұрын
She’s making the cal, he’s responding to her based on what she says, it’s not that he hammers on men, he’s only making a decision based on what she’s telling him, chill!
@stevenjustice10510 ай бұрын
@@Sally-ih6ls once again quick to believe her. Doesnt ask a single inquisitive question or has zero scepticism.
@stevenjustice10510 ай бұрын
@@Sally-ih6ls also the person using the exclamation mark is the one who is emotional and needs to chill. To da loo.
@Sally-ih6ls10 ай бұрын
@@stevenjustice105 whatever
@savagemonitor10 ай бұрын
I like this advice but I think that Dave should make this modification: don't make the trustee for a trust held for children someone who could have custody. My wife and I did this because we didn't even want the temptation to be there for a guardian to draw from the trust for their own purposes instead of for the children. We just had too many horror stories in our family where someone bad with money manipulated a situation to get money they shouldn't have.
@hornetguy906310 ай бұрын
Literally, the most important choice you’ll ever make isn’t what activities you do in high school, what college you attend, or even where you buy a home. It’s who you make babies with. My guess is that there were red flags about this guy that she ignored. Now she’s a single mom with a completely unreliable BD and the mental scars of DV (obviously only on her word, I lean towards believing that happened). Her life is hard mode for at least another 13 years.
@Thumbstickgamer10 ай бұрын
Either that or she just says he did something so she can play the victim card.
@hornetguy906310 ай бұрын
@@Thumbstickgamerthat’s true. The fact that he has two bankruptcies does suggest that he has control problems, though, so it does give her credibility
@tdgdbs110 ай бұрын
Based on her story he had two bankruptcies.@@hornetguy9063
@boohoo496210 ай бұрын
@@hornetguy9063, were one or both bankruptcies during his time with the caller though?
@ogre70610 ай бұрын
@hornetguy9063 Totally agreed. Trouble is, rarely are we taught at a young age what love really is and how to actually decide who to marry. Too often we simply get horny, fall in love with someone, and decide to make a life-long commitment on the basis of those very temporary emotions. Little wonder then that this country's divorce rate is as high as it is.
@fauxbro198310 ай бұрын
There is way a man has custody over a woman if the man has DV charges. This woman must be a mess
@thinkforyourself933410 ай бұрын
@@robertkrumm2470No he does. She said the domestic violence was him against her not him against the kids
@OopThereItIs777779 ай бұрын
@@thinkforyourself9334thank you for having a brain
@OopThereItIs777779 ай бұрын
@@robertkrumm2470HE DOES. Put your listening ears on.
@mikeshaw461010 ай бұрын
I’m not an attorney but suggest you check with one in regards to pulling g his custody or at least having not being able to prevent you from moving.
@christiandoupe949510 ай бұрын
I know someone who was in this situation they want the father to be in the children’s life as long as he doesn’t harm the children. So they won’t allow you to move. They ordered my friend to not move out of the state of Georgia or she would be arrested. This is a typical situation
@bryceasj199910 ай бұрын
There's something she's not disclosing.
@Wealth_Wisdom_Discernment10 ай бұрын
I preordered John deloneys book and I still haven’t gotten it. I reached out a week ago and they told me it got lost or something in shipping so they’d send me another one. Still haven’t gotten it. Today is the 17th and the book was supposed to arrive on the 3rd. How do I overcome anxiety of not getting my anxiety book?
@michaelpalumbo488010 ай бұрын
Go to your wife, grab her by the face, look at her in the eye, and tell her "I love you, and my body needs Delony's book."
@brianpitsilides533710 ай бұрын
Why did she choose to have children with such a bad guy. White knight Dave to the rescue.
@kara216210 ай бұрын
She needs to keep herself in excellent health and exercise extreme caution to keep herself alive for these children.
@nicodimus222210 ай бұрын
For the father to have full custody, the mother has to be an absolute train wreck. The courts side HEAVILY with the mother when it comes to divorce custody. Something doesn't smell right with this call.
@flashthecorgi205310 ай бұрын
When did she say the father has full custody???
@nicodimus222210 ай бұрын
@@flashthecorgi2053 I thought she did a couple of minutes into the call.
@flashthecorgi205310 ай бұрын
@@nicodimus2222 it doesn’t sound like he has FULL custody, it sounds like the majority is hers hence why she said she is a single mom and he sees them part time. The full custody part was discussing if she were to die who the kids would go to.
@stevennovakovich25259 ай бұрын
@@nicodimus2222She did say he has fully custody.
@stevennovakovich25259 ай бұрын
@@flashthecorgi2053She *did* say he has fully custody of the children.
@joeriveracomedy10 ай бұрын
She bred with him. He must have become a jerk overnight and there were noooo clues at all ever.
@KH9th10 ай бұрын
Not buying the DV allegations. Women always go there when they don't want to be honest about why they got divorced. It's rare custody goes to the father. She must really be messed up.
@linhaton495710 ай бұрын
You never know what these liberal judges will decide.
@linhaton495710 ай бұрын
I’m guessing she has primary legal custody and he has the children half of the time. Judges love 50/50 custody. I do believe the judge feels that since he only abused the wife and not the children, he isn’t a danger to the. It’s messed up but that’s often how they rule. Be careful who fathers your children. Bad men don’t change.
@stevecrane810210 ай бұрын
She never said DV convictions, she said issues. There were some supervised visits so they were watching the kids carefully. The easiest custody is 50/50 if both agree and doesn’t sound like she fought for full custody. But maybe he has partial custody. Why did people jump on her??
@sarahw.mcelyea56559 ай бұрын
They didn't listen well.
@stud641410 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be so quick to believe all women regarding DV issues.
@Thumbstickgamer10 ай бұрын
This. So much this.
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
I never trust one side of the story, man or woman
@PS-vc2yz8 ай бұрын
Dave, you should have asked why he has custody. I think she left something out of the story as to why he has custody. It's called one side of the story.
@jasonleatherwood217210 ай бұрын
Wow i know it happens but i know a few people with dv convictions and all of them either walked in on the woman cheating or it was self defense or just didnt happen i know it happens but its rare
@jasonleatherwood217210 ай бұрын
@@user-xo2rf1oy3g yep not one question asked anyone with a vagina gets the world handed to them just cause a dude was within smelling distance of the hole
@MossMini10 ай бұрын
Sure I believe what she's saying about the Ex.
@naysanazadilived10 ай бұрын
Dave you look smart man I recommend you stop blaming people just based on what you heard you still don’t know the whole story long story short I’m married I have two kids we all still together I was charged for domestic violence even if I was not done anything wrong my wife made story added things never happened lol any ways unfortunately in United States of America the government mostly defunds women which is good thing but not always
@alliediallo194510 ай бұрын
Why are people immediately assuming that she is lying? What would she gain from that. Even if she was just separated from him due to relational issues, the same advice would probably be given.
@tonytoni115010 ай бұрын
Can’t really trust what women say at face value any more. Especially in situations like this. Gotta hear his side too.
@tonytoni115010 ай бұрын
Look up Trevor Bauer.
@missdemeanor352410 ай бұрын
I'm assuming she's lying bc her story doesn't make sense.
@sconnell179110 ай бұрын
The caller needs to work with an attorney on this, NOT an online form service. This is too important to take the gamble of that going work. Trusts and estates are what I practice as an attorney. I see problems with these cheap online options all the time. Just DON'T do it.
@kristencampbell5533Ай бұрын
Completely agree. She 100% should talk to an estate lawyer to make sure this is set up right!
@emoney123110 ай бұрын
What in the world is going on in this comment section? Y'all know nothing about this woman and are convinced she's lying about domestic violence? That's as bold of an accusation as accusing someone of domestic violence. And it's not like she contradicts herself, where you know she's lying.
@tdgdbs110 ай бұрын
Dave is simping again, I want to hear the husband's side of the story.
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
So true and fair
@screwdriver_bandit10 ай бұрын
Every time.
@AD5966910 ай бұрын
She's buying life insurance. What side of the story? She's calling for financial advice, not divorce/child custody advice. 😂😂🤡🤡
@ddubsr58869 ай бұрын
Jesus please preserve this woman’s life until these children are at least 18
@EricSmyth4Christ10 ай бұрын
Amazes me how people still think the show is fake Calls like these sound very real
@DorothyM4510 ай бұрын
She didn't get the sarcasm
@stevegolacks873110 ай бұрын
I know this sounds extreme, but hear me out.. Imagine if there were laws on the books that prohibited marriage and having children until you are "approved" by the law. Meaning, you have to provide similar documentation as getting a mortgage...2 years of W2s, 2 years tax returns, last 2 months of bank statements, etc etc. You would be approved once you show that you can support a marriage and raise children without ANY financial help from the government. Sounds crazy right?! But I guarantee that child poverty would literally end in less than 5 years from enacting it. Which in turn would either end or DRAMATICALLY reduce the murder rate, the homelessness rate, the mental health rate, the pollution rate, the unemployed rate, literally everything!
@johnwilburn10 ай бұрын
The government has never solved anything else. I advocate the opposite: get government out of the marriage business altogether.
@lukeharris262210 ай бұрын
✝️
@Feltzm9 ай бұрын
There's more to this story than she is telling
@katyedwards393510 ай бұрын
This is also a John Delony situation cuz it deals with her mental health. I'm surprised he isn't also on this call as well.
@Silverdragon51710 ай бұрын
He is a documented simp
@amireallythatgrumpy650810 ай бұрын
Spoken like somebody who has never seen a full episode before. You have only ever seen highlights. Otherwise you would know that each day there are two hosts on and those two hosts have to take the call. There is no opportunity to find the person whose expertise is best suited to the call. If they're not on that day, too bad.
@katyedwards393510 ай бұрын
@@amireallythatgrumpy6508 I only watch the highlights, but I don't understand why either one of the others hosts with Dave or two of them take over. I know he's getting older (60-something), but it's not even his show anymore. I'm glad to see that he hosted this one solo.
@galileogalilei617310 ай бұрын
Why are you so quick to blame the guy?? Obviously her claim is dubious being that the court did not see fit to block the kids from being with their dad. Just arguing is considered “domestic violence” by some women now. Give me a break!!
@michaelpalumbo488010 ай бұрын
The only thing worse than her lying about being a DV victim of the father is if she is telling the truth - because if she is telling the truth just think how horrible she must be.
@TonyCox135110 ай бұрын
Not sure I follow your logic here maybe you can walk me through it… if she is truthfully a DV victim then she must be even more awful than if she’s a liar? Help me make sense of that please
@flashthecorgi205310 ай бұрын
@@TheSilvertriggerplease tell me where she said he currently has full custody?
@michaelpalumbo488010 ай бұрын
At the 1:32 second mark "he still has custody..."@@flashthecorgi2053
@michaelpalumbo488010 ай бұрын
You have no idea how gynocentric the family court system is. So if she is truly a victim of DV and the court STILL gave custody to the father, WTF kind of danger and dysfunction is in her life. Remember, the standard of review for custody is what is in the best interest of the children. So for a court to award a batterer custody over mommy, wow - just wow. @@TonyCox1351
@RandomVids51910 ай бұрын
Obviously they would go to the kids dave geeze 😂
@tubenachos10 ай бұрын
"I have a two part question." Oh dear we go 🙄
@28goldenboy10 ай бұрын
Boy, she knows how to pick them.
@JosiahK55510 ай бұрын
Tired of Dave's 10% mantra on the market....
@hornetguy906310 ай бұрын
Yeah. I think it’s more like 7-8%. I’d say you’d need like 13-15x your annual income in term life insurance to ensure the money lasts
@saelaird10 ай бұрын
Isn't the lack of financial education the average person suffers from absolutely disgusting? A grown woman who's never heard of a trust. They really do want us poor, dont they.
@Stanthemilkman10 ай бұрын
Doesn't add up. She must have done so BAD stuff if she did not get custody
@Yogastrong90810 ай бұрын
She HAS custody.
@georgewagner778710 ай бұрын
Leaving money to a guy with dv sounds like we will see them on Nightline
@DrJakeDPT10 ай бұрын
Good stuff!
@matthewwilliams920010 ай бұрын
Don't give him anything just give the trust to them at 21 in payments
@Georgemorales555910 ай бұрын
With out any proof the simp takes her word but the ex got custody of the kids something doesn’t add up 😏
@christiandoupe949510 ай бұрын
This is a typical situation they always want the father in the children’s life even if you have a restraining order against them which you need proof of abuse in order to get which my friend had they still made her stay in Georgia and he had partial custody.
@Yogastrong90810 ай бұрын
He does not have custody. She does. At most they have shared custody.
@Budai8510 ай бұрын
I don't buy her DV allegations.
@Chele-nm4qx10 ай бұрын
I often wonder how there are likes when the video hasn't been posted long enough to be viewed yet... 🧐
@christopherpaige4069 ай бұрын
He would be in jail and lose parental rights if it was domestic violence. She's just talking.
@W.Holden.610 ай бұрын
Something ain’t adding up here…
@Andrew--S10 ай бұрын
6:01 Wow the mask drops. I wouldn't be surprised if she fled the country with the kids.
@theflightsimulationexperie689410 ай бұрын
I don’t believe anything the caller said about domestic violence. I think she was and is the problem overall in this case. Her voice and tone says it all.
@kayabe85610 ай бұрын
What does it matter?
@OopThereItIs777779 ай бұрын
Someone hurt you & took alllll your money. Yikes. Therapy helps with that, peach
@theflightsimulationexperie68949 ай бұрын
@@OopThereItIs77777 hahaha your a funny 🤡
@hrushikeshavachat90010 ай бұрын
The trustee need to be no one else other than her parents if she passes away while the children are minor. Any other person can be influrnced by the ex-husband which may lead to major issues.
@kelliconlan813310 ай бұрын
People say Dav has no heart. You could see and hear his heart break and get angry in this call over the hell this Mama has been threw. Lord we pray that these 2 young girls NEVER have to be placed in their fathers home. If he would hurt thier mom...he most likely with hurt them.
@MrTmenzo10 ай бұрын
Thru not threw
@fiedler23010 ай бұрын
What a disturbing story.
@mikec.434310 ай бұрын
The mother needs to be an absolute train wreck before courts will award custody to the father. We are NOT getting the full story.
@slimdude201110 ай бұрын
There are two sides to every story, and she never said what her relationship was with this man, if he was her boyfriend, fiancé or husband. There's a reason why he was awarded full custody of the children. If he has a history of domestic violence charges, and experienced numerous financial problems, the court would not have awarded him full custody of the children because, he would've been founded as an unfit parent.
@teacherchristina665110 ай бұрын
Not if the mother dies.
@Yogastrong90810 ай бұрын
The father does NOT have full custody. He gets visitation essentially.
@slimdude20119 ай бұрын
@@Yogastrong908 The caller stated that the father has full custody of the children. That's what she said.
@kristencampbell5533Ай бұрын
@@slimdude2011 No, she stated the father has custody. She did not say full custody. For example, if one parent keeps the kids 6 days a week and the other keeps them 1 day a week, both parents "have custody." That's called "joint custody." The mother has custody. The father has custody. Custody just means they are legally required to have access to see the children unsupervised. If someone does not have custody, it means they don't see the kids unless the custodial parent allows it.
@briankowald646510 ай бұрын
How is she going to afford to setup a trust?
@csx691010 ай бұрын
I don't believe it for a second. Women receive preferential treatment in family courts and there's almost NO way he would get custody if he was truly abusive. The court would not trust him with children. If he, a man and thus STATISTICALLY almost certain not to get custody, actually has custody, it almost certainly has to be something about her that is a threat to them. Nope, I think she's lying.
@christiandoupe949510 ай бұрын
They always get some kind of custody my friend had a restraining order against a guy which you need proof of abuse in order to get btw and he still got partial custody and she couldn’t move out of the state
@ruthirwin822210 ай бұрын
I think so too
@expectthabest95110 ай бұрын
Dave you really need to hear BOTH FREAKING SIDES FIRST!!!!! Stop siding with the woman all the Freaking time.... Damnnn Man!
@kristencampbell5533Ай бұрын
What could he say that changes Dave's advice? Regardless of who my ex was or what they were like, I would STILL set up a trust as my life insurance beneficiary, where there is a trustee who ensures a monthly child support allowance is provided out of it, and the kids get what remains at age 30 or something like that. So I'm not sure what side of the story Dave needs to know to advise that.
@willelliott50528 ай бұрын
Interesting that they are putting the father down when somehow he, not she, has custody.
@listerinr10 ай бұрын
I don't believe this woman further than I can throw her.
@akib237710 ай бұрын
Something doesn’t add up. I think, the woman is not being accountable and not telling the full story, lol.
@missdemeanor352410 ай бұрын
You've got to be hella toxic to be a woman and not get custody of your kids. Evidently the judge thougt the kids were in more danger with her than they with their "domestic abuse issues"- having father. Women like this make us all look bad so I will call it out.
@kristencampbell5533Ай бұрын
She did not say she doesn't have custody. She just said that he does still have custody. So they both have custody. Meaning, from the sounds of it, that the kids stay with her the majority of the time and with him some of the time.
@ruthirwin82228 ай бұрын
So he, the abuser has custody of the children, she must have been a terrible mother