Cage match couples therapy is my new thing. Coming soon! 😂

@@MickeyAtkins 10/10 would watch lol

She looked like it was reality tv for her, she was just missing her popcorn

Exactly my thoughts

It would have been free too

Unus Annus

GENUINELY! So bad.

@@unknownentity2661 memento mori

Hahaha, I had the same idea!

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Right "I came back for you!" Callie never ASKED you to come back and it's not her fault for living her life when you were gone.

It ALWAYS bothered me how obvious it was that the therapist was (or seemed to be anyway) taking Arizona's side. And Arizona made out like she was some helpless victim, but she was majorly gaslighting Callie. Callie wasn't perfect or innocent, but the problem was far more Arizona and her selfishness.

She actually didn’t cheat! They had broken up when she got pregnant with his kid.

Ya and then Arizona who isn't bi later cheats on Callie 🙄🙄

How did your relationship turn out if you don’t mind me asking?

@@cobblegen1204 Thank you for asking it so kindly. (^~^) We're still married. Counseling gave us the tools to navigate our way out of the rut we were in. Some people looked down on us for it, and took it as a sign we had failed, but I don't think Couples' Counseling is just a precursor to divorce. We went (and scrounged up the money, bcuz we were barely making more than paycheck-to-paycheck at the time) because we loved each other deeply and wanted our marriage to be happy and successful, but we just couldn't figure it out alone. Marriage also isn't a TV show, where a couple has an issue and it's wrapped up at the end of the episode. Sometimes stuff you thought you'd worked through will resurface--even years down the line--and in addition new big stuff will pop up. The highs are very high, but the lows still kick your butt. We still have rough patches, and honestly are in a low phase again right now, but what matters is that: we're committed to working through it; we have married friends who support us and don't seek to make one person the villain, and the other the victim; and we verbalize boundaries and enforce them, even if that means taking time away from each other. (@Mickey Atkins "Boundaries" series is a great refresher.) The best example of marital troubles and working through them that I've seen on TV would be last seasons of Jim & Pam from The Office.

@@TheEmpressLuna I am happy to hear the good news.

Dang ! We should probably portray more therapy sessions on TV where people don't act like this.

Unless the child is an infant to where they can’t speak yet and won’t remember anything happening during that time, I would also question that as well.

@@Lauren_210 Trauma can also happen as an infant, and oftentimes infant/childhood trauma can affect a person worse than trauma as an adult. Even if a person doesn't remember what happened, their body probably does.

​@@gymnasticsgirlie0647 This is very true. I've never felt safe around my mom and she always said I didn't like affection. It was weird because she always did the mom things and I wasn't abused. Many years later my mom told me how she had such a hard time in the first 2 years of my life and often yelled at me in anger because she blamed me for not being able to finish school and get away from her parents. I don't remember that but my body must because being vulnerable with her always feels unsafe and I feel responsible for her feelings. Therapy has helped a lot but it's hard to work through trauma that happened when I didn't understand what was happening.

I’m so glad you found this helpful! Thanks for watching! 💕

I found it good, that Callie took time to get to know herself outside of the relationship but yeah youre right

Yeah like look at Ross and Rachel from Friends and how that break went 😂

same 😭😭

I snort laughed

So true! I'm also French and I have a bachelor (licence) in Psychology, and clinical psychology in the US seems so much more grounded in real life than in France where psychoanalytical theories are still prevalent

This is such valuable feedback thank you!! Sometimes I’m not sure if y’all actually want to know the more detailed stuff so I’m glad that you found it useful! For what it’s worth a lot of my formal education was also very theory based until I did my internships! You’ll (hopefully) learn more practical things as you go!

@@MickeyAtkins oh i love learning all the more indepth stuff!!! Its so important to explain why what you see in shows like this arent correct or else people will have the wrong assumptions! I love your videos!!!

Idk where you are in your degree; I'm third year (almost 4) in undergrad in canada and Im only learning theory too! We don't get training for things like this until masters/internship/etc. :)

@@shakibzz I'm just done with my second year (out of three, our undergraduate are only three years long in France) and I have an internship in November already, still didn't learn anything about actual practice from my teachers. (I don't have any classes until September since France has long summer breaks) Thankfully, I'm a really curious person and I read quite a lot of books on how to conduct an appointment and all but still... It depends on the university, and I know some French universities do teach practical stuff from the get go to avoid students being lost in internships but it's not the case in mine. I'm already glad to be lucky enough to study what I like and be able to go to university though, so I'll do my best with the resources I have! I'm glad too that a lot of people seem to have had a pretty theoric teaching before internships, it's reassuring, in a strange way, to know that I'm not the only one!

Yes!!! I love Jo and I would love to see this as well! Her story is so heartbreaking!

@@hollywood2499 i love her too! she’s definitely one of my favorite characters.

Lol really they could have just used a carton cutout, would have about as much input

@Alissa Gray Ooooh okay. I've never watched the show so I didn't know the full details ^^'

Callie wasn't the one who cheated. She had a rebound after arizona broke up with her in an airport and got pregnant from it. but she didnt cheat. Arizona was eventually the one to cheat a couple years later.

@@kate.6262 yeah this whole arc makes me feel bad for callie. like there was a lot of shit that callie had in her past relationships and in the one with arizona that just made me not be able to blame her for how made and angry she was at arizona, cause arizona basically expected instant forgiveness and then started blaming callie for her cheating. what this show did to this gay couple is atrocious

@Alissa Gray okay that also pisses me off. They framed it lile Callie cheated even though that wasnt the case. Like if Arizona was upset over that her feelings would be very fucking valid, but they needed to TALK about WHY that was upsetting. And if Arizona actually cheated on Callie its so messed up that she was putting all that blame ON CALLIE!!! Im getting waaaaaay to into a relationship on a drama show ive never watched 😂😂😂😂

@Alissa Gray Hello, I actually just rewatched this season and wanted to chime in. One, Arizona didn’t ask/force Callie to come with her, she offered on her own. She then spent the entire time until they left, constantly making sniping comments about how much worse it was going to be there, how unhappy she was going to be, and what she was giving up. It had a very gaslight-y vibe of “I’m the martyr, doing this amazing thing for you and you should be grateful/feel bad”. Arizona did take it the whole time, up until it was time to leave, before she finally said enough was enough; This was a once in a lifetime career opportunity and Callie was making her feel terrible for earning it and being excited about it. She didn’t want her to come when she clearly didn’t want to and be made miserable the whole time. I kind of sided with Arizona there. Also, Arizona was only gone for like 4-6 weeks. The documentary where she got the job offer was at Christmas, but she was back working at the hospital by mid February. Which means she gave her two weeks, packed up, went to Africa, came back, and got her job back in that time. Finally, yes, Callie was not in the wrong for moving on, and yes, Arizona did in the end break up with her. However, it should be said, Callie moved on in like two weeks, to an ex- friend with benefit and current “best friend”, that Arizona had been insecure about before. Something which Callie, had made her feel bad about in the past. As a result, I feel Arizona really wasn’t in the wrong either, to feel a little upset about the situation when she returned. Especially because, while she was hurt, she didn’t take it out on Callie. She accepted the situation for what it was; a product of her own decisions. I only heard her put her feelings about Mark co-parenting with them into words once, when Callie specifically brought it up. I always walk away from that storyline very frustrated with Callie, not Arizona. (Especially when six years later Callie’s girlfriend of four months gets a job offer across the country, and Callie gives up her career, which is more established by then, and plans to uproot her daughter from her entire support network, with a smile on her face.) ... I don’t actually like Callie, I’m finding on rewatches.

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Yes.. Callie is an orthopedic surgeon. She would be more than aware exactly how much anger and hurt there is in a standard amputation let alone one that came from a horrifically tragic incident like arizona went through. And then on top of that she lies to Arizona and tells her she is the one who actually did it leaving no place for Arizona to put the anger and hurt. All because she wanted...karev to be her person or something equally stupid. There's a reason there are support groups for amputees and for their families because it is a hard thing to deal with. Callie should have pushed this instead of taking on some kind of martyr role. Was arizona acting horribly yes but she was acting very predictably which again Callie would know. And we see repeated signs of Arizona never actually dealing with it like refusing to look at her leg or refusing to let Callie touch it or refusing sex. Lol sorry for the rant but i just hate how they handled this, it's just nonsensical.

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You can't just blame the actress though, it seems like the director and scriptwriters were very much aiming for dramatics.

Oh god the ethics at first lol

I would love that lol

You are one of the prettiest people I've ever seen lol

Absolutely. “Korra Alone” is one of the best episodes of the show and I love how accurately they depicted PTSD, depression, and physical therapy. Also, I love how they showed that recovery is not always linear as people would assume and that it’s a lifelong process (Jinora’s question, “What’s wrong with her? She got the position out of her” will make people realize that after they hear that from her). Korra didn’t automatically move forward from her trauma right after she removed the last bits of metal from her body and still continued to struggle.

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