Mental Filtering: Why You May Only Notice the Negative: Cognitive Distortion #4

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Mental filtering is the cognitive distortion where we only see one aspect of a situation - usually the negative side of it when it comes to depression or anxiety. Mental filtering makes us more depressed. When we only notice the bad, life is depressing. But when we feel crappy, when we feel depressed, we’re more likely to mental filter. Watch this video to learn what you can do to stop this vicious cycle.
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@forwantofapage6059 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being free and more helpful than any $200 hour therapist I've worked with

@unfluster 8 ай бұрын

How are you! This is your therapist. The price has just went up to $250, now how are you doing today?

@forwantofapage6059 8 ай бұрын

@@unfluster awful. i'm in a financial crisis. have any psychological advice?

@johnfourteensix4910 3 жыл бұрын

First, I love that you didn’t edit out when the sprinklers went off! It’s a great reminder that we’re all living real life and it’s how we perceive and deal with things that matter. 2nd, I love this video, very timely for me in dealing with my son. He struggles with anxiety and as a result, OCD, both now severe as a consequence of the lockdowns. This filtering truly becomes a self fulfilling ritual as the more you notice the negative, the more you only notice the negative! Our brains try to prove what we think is true, so it seeks out proof of our thoughts, negative or positive. Thank you for the tips.

@Laf631 3 жыл бұрын

It really brought a smile to see her joyous surprised reaction!

@SallyMarion 3 жыл бұрын

"when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change" so insightful, thank you :)

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

That's a Wayne Dyer Quote- I should have referenced him :)

@hhaste 11 ай бұрын

My problem is, I can't change the way I look at things

@manupatisanthosh7046 5 ай бұрын

That's where you intentionally monitor yourself and change your perspective. This video is gold. @@hhaste

@TheDhammaHub 3 жыл бұрын

As an old saying goes: "we see the world not as it is, but as we are"... when we influence the way we are a bit, we can see most things in a brighter light!

@HEROHCR2YT 3 жыл бұрын

Yes yes yes!!!!!! I love the positive community in channels like this amazing soul's!

@carpenterfamily6198 3 жыл бұрын

Wow !

@HarmonyShoal 3 жыл бұрын

This is true only if you're scientifically illiterate. There are tools that can be used to see the world objectively as it actually is.

@TheDhammaHub 3 жыл бұрын

@@HarmonyShoal And then there is Heisenbergs uncertainty principle that proved that you cannot see the world as it truly is, since the process of measuring changes it

@HEROHCR2YT 3 жыл бұрын

@@HarmonyShoal it's all what perceptional lense you are looking through. Everyone's realities are different. Some are similar for ex 2020 has been a life changing year. This channel is not about put downs. It's about helping others and the community can help each other in the comments. Thank you for your insight. May you be safe, may you be kind, may you live with ease and may you give and receive love freely....have a wonderful rest of you day/night!!!!!!

@pam164 3 жыл бұрын

When your feeling depressed you cannot see any good in anything and you feel so alone and unwanted i know i suffer with it. If I'm feeling ok then nothing much gets me down, but if i am feeling down the world seems to be against me.

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I hear that, it can be so hard when you're feeling down. I feel like it just helps me to fight it a little by challenging my thoughts, then the lows aren't so low.

@pam164 3 жыл бұрын

@@TherapyinaNutshell Its a horrible dark place to be in and nothing fills you with joy or hope. Maybe my depression has been bad i found menopause brought mine on really bad, and had to go on antidepressants.

@petersiby3429 3 жыл бұрын

i feel exactly like you.

@pam164 3 жыл бұрын

@@petersiby3429 So sorry you feel like that its horrible 💕

@turisteandoentexas 3 жыл бұрын

One day I felt like that and I called my counselor and he said to me the following. "Yes, I hear you. Did you know that it's normal to have those feelings" I said what? It's not good and he said "Well, if you didn't feel this way after a down moment in life, then you wouldn't be normal" "it's ok to feel down or sad or depressed sometimes in our lives, it's what we do about it that defines who we are". So now, I embrace those moments and try to take my time to deal with my feelings and then, write down everything positive I can think of and move on. We can't change others and we can't change our circumstances sometimes, but we can change ourselves. We can do something about our own mind. Hope it helps. It helped me sooooo much!

@amber3574 2 жыл бұрын

Im super grateful for this channel. This is a much safer way to start my day rather than jumping into news and coffee. Thank you Emma for all of your work on this channel.

@your_mommy_issues_are_show4060 3 жыл бұрын

The glass is refillable.. there's always other options!

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

ooh I love that, mental flexibility!

@ajcristo4679 3 жыл бұрын

The half-glass saying only addresses the glass as-is in that current state. It’s either half-empty or half-full, smartass.

@k7iq 3 жыл бұрын

The glass is too big ! 😀

@your_mommy_issues_are_show4060 3 жыл бұрын

@@ajcristo4679 its still refillable in its current state of being rather half full or half empty. You should work on your self worth.

@pgfinna 3 жыл бұрын

That's a baller aphorism, I'm putting it in my pocket

@ascia158 3 жыл бұрын

1.first notice that you are doing it 2.try to see what function it serves for you. 3. take a deep breath, slow down 4. counteract that mental filter by expanding your view. Other suggestions.. Gratitude Sit with complements or success Just hold into complements as you hold negative things Counter negative thoughts by positive thoughts. Practice yourself to see both sides of the story. Take a bigger perspective.. Is this thing would still matter in the 5 next year if not so don't sweat the small stuff.

@applejuice0134 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks. Thanks.

@doowop54 3 жыл бұрын

You have such a calming and peaceful way of presenting things

@moneyharry 2 жыл бұрын

Agree.

@patmaurer8541 3 жыл бұрын

Someone gave me a key that made my gratitude practice exponentially more powerful. First, actually sit with the feeling of gratitude; let it make you warm inside. Then, write it down; because somehow, that makes it more real. Lastly, write down WHY you experienced that good thing; "because I asked!" Or, "just because she loves me." Or "because I stuck to it!" This is empowering! And it creates an association for future choices, too. Being happy is much easier when we're grateful :-)

@SnowCityTarot 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video. I found your garden to be very peaceful. One of the hidden benefits of social distancing is everyone gets to enjoy and share their comfortable spaces more. 🧡

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@quarteracreadventures855 3 жыл бұрын

I like this. I will look for more 'hidden benefits' of social distancing ;)

@michelekurlan6489 3 жыл бұрын

This homespun vid is uplifting and gets an extra shot of serendipity when the sprinklers turn on! Bllaahaahaa But truly, this channel and its delightful host very helpful!

@patteegee9506 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for another awesome and extremely helpful video!! I was raised by parents who did this negative mental filtering, and all of their children adopted this way of viewing life as always negative and threatening. My parents always only saw the negative in every single situation. They always pointed out the downside of a situation or the flaws in a person, never the positive. It became ingrained in the children and a habit and way of life. Needless to say, each child as an adult suffers severe depression and anxiety. A vicious cycle that we have each worked hard to understand and overcome. I greatly appreciate this video and it has caused me to pause and re-evaluate how I see the world. A hard habit to break when it has been ingrained for a lifetime and now I am 60 years old! I'm going to keep working on it though. As Wayne Dyer said, "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

@elderaarondavis1 3 жыл бұрын

Recently My mind only focuses on the negatives. Even though my life has a lot more positives than the negatives, my mind just can’t help slipping into ruminating the few negatives. It’s so fucking debilitating

@Theandredamore 2 жыл бұрын

@@user23867 your comment was reassuring. I spend so much time working on reframing my thoughts and other cognitive behavioral therapy oriented exercises. I’ve recently started to wonder “how much longer until this becomes easier?” And that’s what Imm stuck at

@chocojavachip 3 жыл бұрын

Recently I heard regarding daily gratitude...be thankful for something that didn’t happen. This was huge for me as I play through a ton of “what if’s”, so I have plenty to be thankful for when I think about what didn’t happen!

@kimleach7651 3 жыл бұрын

Omg...I'm bad for dwelling on the negative. It seem I can't even remember much good from my childhood.

@donnabeyer5689 3 жыл бұрын

I hear ya. Solution. Dont look back. There is nothing you can do about it. Dont look ahead worrying you dont have much control over it. Live one day at a time and do what you can do and leave the rest up to God. Like she said a year ago when grieving over a dear friend. We feel pain and sorrow here for awhile but. There is a hereafter. We will be ok.. This earth is not our forever home

@bookwoman7803 3 жыл бұрын

@@donnabeyer5689 I try to think of it as not living life peering in the teeny rear view mirror, as that's done and gone, but straight ahead, through the big windshield.

@terriwerning3477 3 жыл бұрын

I can apply every single one of these to my life. Thank you for your super clear teaching and helpful advice. You’re a gem.

@KutayYavuz 3 жыл бұрын

When I am depressed even the world, the sky and the trees I see change. Like they have less color, they are more gray. But when I feel happy even the sunshine or the smells of the leaves feel more solid.

@frankducett9 2 жыл бұрын

Emma, you are indeed a National treasure. You have helped me , kept me alive, Love ya.

@Kathleensophiacitrine888 3 жыл бұрын

The sprinklers & the laugh was just perfect! Talk about anxiety relief right there....laughter!! 🤗

@Hann1999ah 3 жыл бұрын

I love how you unintended show how you can react to things. The sprinklers go off and instead of getting mad or anxious, you laugh at yourself and seek a dry spot to sit.

@JohnM... 3 жыл бұрын

I do this, have been pretty depressed lately, and it's combined with obsessive thinking/overthinking and looking backwards on what I've lost. I'm 51, so it could also be hormonal.

@lynnmarieanderson1744 3 жыл бұрын

I happen to be 50 and there's times I feel lost in the past myself. I wish there was more written about people in their 40s and 50s going through mid life crisis time. Nothing prepares you for it. And as a woman going through premenopause really affects your mood too, makes you more irritable and angry. Sometimes I don't know who I am anymore. I don't want to be an old hag, but I am not who I was when I was 20. Sometimes it's hard not to feel bitter about some things.

@vtksolid9127 2 жыл бұрын

where were you in my life? wait probably helping someone else, being busy with family life, on the other side of the world, swimming, unavailable.........im gonna try these methods you are truly opening my mind slowly lol with every video!!!

@lawrencehorowitz9291 3 жыл бұрын

Wallow in your brokenness - fabulous phrase to describe depression.

@helpmedrlee 3 жыл бұрын

I love that you kept the sprinkler incident on here. Added wonderful light-heartedness to this

@antonelladilorenzo1572 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video on mental filtering, I am italian and I live in Italy. I follow your videos because I suffer from OCD and depression since I was 19 and now I am 52. I found this video very helpful for me, have a great day🙂

@glb159435 3 жыл бұрын

This is so so true. I can especially relate with the bar exam. Can remember 8-10 very distinct questions I thought I got wrong but couldn’t remember the other 2 days of the exam.

@Bachconcertos 3 жыл бұрын

Thank u ❣️ I got into a negative mind set watching too much internet crap.

@IridescenceStudios 3 жыл бұрын

This is definitely something I've struggled with and still do, to some degree. That quote at the end reminded me of how my boss always had that in her email signature and it really is true. Also I love the fact that you left the sprinkler moment in the video, it brought a much needed chuckle to my day.

@YathieshHS 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for making this available on KZfaq

@camillemccall7705 3 жыл бұрын

You are awesome and truly a blessing to those watching.

@diamondrose3242 Жыл бұрын

My 8th grade English Class spelling bee word was RIDICULOUS. I was focusing on remembering RIDICU and confidently finished with OUS. I was so, extremely proud until the teacher said I'd forgotten the L. Pointing out my errors infront of a group is a big PTSD & negative mental trigger for me. Searching for a video on his to understand and change my way of thinking, and then finding one of your videos, have lead me to indulged in your playlists and videos. Thank you so much for being you 😊

@libramoon8 3 жыл бұрын

Really motivating. I often get overwhelmed challenging my thoughts. I then take a break because I get to in my head. I will definitely take your advice and keep doing it. Thank you!

@poppadan4270 3 жыл бұрын

I am so thankful for this video. Blessed. I needed to be reminded.

@humblepieproduction4202 3 жыл бұрын

This was wonderfully helpful. This has been happening a lot to me over the past month or so. Lots of change around me and my mental filtering seems to randomly kick into high gear some days. Thank you!

@sw1216 3 жыл бұрын

Love this so much. Very needed in the world today. Expanding world views, a key to gratitude, leads to a fulfilling life. Beautiful. Thank you.

@bedouraly8700 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much ...it really helps me listening to you every morning

@AmyElizabethX92 3 жыл бұрын

You always have such good timing, always the right thing I need to hear at the right time :D Thank you for your amazing content!

@amebimus 3 жыл бұрын

thank you for explaining things for everyone to understand and for giving solutions. greetings from Romania

@jitikrda Жыл бұрын

You are changing my life and I thank you from the bottom of my heart

@shaktibloomyogawithgwen107 3 жыл бұрын

You are a gift! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

@Hiloboy56 2 жыл бұрын

Emma is a true blessing. Her voice and her demeanor calms me when delivering her valuable messages 🙏🙏♥️

@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 жыл бұрын

There are many possible causes of depression, including faulty mood regulation by the brain, genetic vulnerability, stressful life events, medications, and medical problems. It's believed that several of these forces interact to bring on depression.

@TherapyinaNutshell 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, many factors contribute, how we think is just one of them

@ajcristo4679 3 жыл бұрын

Christ died for your sins

@glorytothemosthigh4935 2 жыл бұрын

@@ajcristo4679 ❤️❤️🙏

@justafan3697 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you and good luck to all suffering with depression,anxiety your stronger than you know

@charliem1307 3 жыл бұрын

Commenting so this gets pushed out to more people! Very much needed! Thank you for the amazing Information!❤️

@malindanorrie7470 3 ай бұрын

This video, 4 years later, is so incredibly helpful for me, thank you!!

@mforve 3 жыл бұрын

You are really helping me out. Thank you so much wonderful lady!

@kensyskye8965 3 жыл бұрын

I’m trying to get my son to see that everything is open ended....If you look for anything negative enough you’ll find it, even if doesn’t really exist. So using this time to contemplate and focus on yourself is in actuality this time of being slowed down.....A gift! Love your videos so I’m sending this to him! 🙏🏼✌🏻❤️

@mr.mark0738 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely great video.. helps me a lot with my anxiety and my thoughts.

@lisaleikvoll6920 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your videos. The presentation is always so positive and uplifting! I learn something new each time.

@adamanthony7465 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your wonderful support. May the spirit be with you 🕯️

@lamyamohamed-coloryourlife6732 3 жыл бұрын

The time i see you my state automatically shifts to better one ❤️❤️❤️ you are full of positive vibes❤️❤️😘

@passionforhispeace1194 3 жыл бұрын

This was so helpful for me. Thank you so much! Glad I came across your channel. Appreciate the positive outlook you seem to have in so may of your videos. God bless.

@stephaniecortez8283 3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been struggling with gastritis & it’s been really taking a toll not on my physical health but my mental health & your videos have helped me more than you know ❤️🥺 thank you so much

@ahmanilee8848 2 жыл бұрын

I just found her on here and I love her videos. They really have helped me and I love love her voice. So soothing n calm

@joaniemiller4362 2 жыл бұрын

I’m doing your big course and it’s been good. This playlist is helping thanks.

@nicolehaagenson5253 3 жыл бұрын

You handled that sprinkler situation so gracefully! Way to Plan B with swift recovery. This was helpful to me.

@ruthann2635 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, ideas and your beautiful spirit......so uplifting.

@psrwhite 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Emma. You are so so helpful. I love your relaxed casual approach to your videos. It makes me see that you are just like me and I can relate to you and your honest and unpretentious approach to sharing your knowledge. Thank you!!!

@lamaelcharif1523 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all the info you are putting out Emma!

@krose5965 3 жыл бұрын

Needed this Thank u 🙏 so much for posting this...especially right in this moment in time

@graciaissa685 2 жыл бұрын

You are awesome Emma…. Thank you for what you do and how easy you make it sound. 🙏🙏 I am grateful for you!🌹🌹

@biggiejeffrey 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for making these videos. They are helpful when I get stuck on my own negative thoughts and emotions.

@angeldc54 2 жыл бұрын

You're the best and that hilarious ending made me realize that you shouldn't take life too seriously. Thank you!

@silmarilasmr6801 3 жыл бұрын

I loved this. This was SO good. I especially love the tips on looking at different periods in history and different peoples to see their difficulties and experiences and be more grateful and appreciative of your own life and situation. Plus the part about filtering the positive experiences of compliments and successes of different degrees was helpful. Its nice to hear confirmation that it is okay to relish those compliments if you have been lucky enough to receive them for whatever reason. Thanks for your work on these vids!

@aman42882 Жыл бұрын

You helped me through my very dark days

@MsSmoore61 2 жыл бұрын

I love your transparency A N D the combination of your knowledge base and delivery. It shows when someone really knows their stuff when things happen that would derail most don't even make you skip a beat. Kudos all around.

@jerrynkumu 2 жыл бұрын

"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." Powerful. Thank you so much for that.

@aligator9552 2 жыл бұрын

You videos are very inviting. There is a big comfort level that you put into your approach. I love how you didn't overreact or curse and carry on like so many would when the sprinklers came on.

@candeyer53 3 жыл бұрын

I've been following your for about a week. I'm finding your videos useful. Thank you.

@AI-art-makers Жыл бұрын

Well to think somebody understands what I have been through you truly know what you're talkin about

@Kathleensophiacitrine888 3 жыл бұрын

This is so good, so very helpful. Thank you. 💛

@kimberbites 3 жыл бұрын

These are helpful tips. I thank you for the reminder. This has been something I have been slowly implementing in my life for a while. Patience. That's the biggest thing I've learned. Patience w the process, but patience with myself too. I like the word grace now. Giving myself grace.

@sallyoasispaintingsorigina3859 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this! It’s very, very good advice! I’m going to remember it and apply ! 🏆👍🤗

@aprilmccrum7667 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video, this is my biggest challenge with anxiety and depression. I feel like you have explained and helped me more.than my own therapist. Lots of love 🙏💗

@donag9422 11 ай бұрын

Thank you Emma for clarifying the topic in a simple manner with solutions. This will help both in personal and professional life.

@tammyconnor5050 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing these videos 💝

@jeffbarnes54 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Emma, I just want to say that your videos have been helping me so much. I try to watch you every day and I watch many of your videos multiple times. I find your demeanor and voice extremely comforting. Your advice is solid and it always makes me stop and say “she is exactly right! I’m looking through your course catalog and intend on taking some of your classes after the holidays. Thank you so much for what you do your truly helping people. Have a safe and happy new year!

@nairasallam231 3 жыл бұрын

OH MY GODDD

@alexandrosalexandropoulos4836 3 жыл бұрын

Great advices, you are optimistic while not being naive which is not so easy. Merry Christmas, greetings from Greece.

@mikebisaillon8878 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your channel. Helpful content. Thoughtful and genuine delivery. More please.😊

@goingwildagain 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your perspectives on life. After many years of helping others be positive through a charity, depression cut me down and knowing some of your points was still a struggle to remain in the positive. I now feel my day won't be another wasted opportunity like so many other days. It's almost like one can have the Jeckle and Hyde inside. You are helping me.

@hughtempleton8640 2 жыл бұрын

Such a great video thank you for sharing , I think that we all do this and it can drive you crazy and times .

@dannyboy299 3 жыл бұрын

Emma, your presentation on mental filtering was actually beautiful. So simple and so powerful. Even your voice and persona are soothing and beautiful too. I am struggling so badly right now, heavy mental filtering. Don't know if I will make it...but while listening to you I had a little more hope than I usually do. Thank you Madame.

@Luisa-cs2pd 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for what you share. Very sane. I also have lived in several countries and have a broadened perspective of others. A more accepting attitude.

@cynthiamcduffie3500 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos are so helpful. Thank you for sharing them with us.

@chiragpatel3984 3 жыл бұрын

You are doing a great job....thanks.....i find your clarity on working mechanism of the mind is brilliant.....and i like the cracking sound/visual of walnut in your promo...its so simple and meaningful....

@shahnejad313 Жыл бұрын

I am going through life changing experience at 65. That makes me anxious and sad. I am overwhelmed with negative thoughts. My wife telling me to do the same. Look at the glass is half full. Your exercises makes me grounded and puts me at ease. Your words reinforce me to slow done and look at life in positivity. Thanks!

@kathysampson826 3 жыл бұрын

I am so,so grateful to you because you have helped me snap out of my depressive state of mind! This video is like the cherry on the cake! Thank you I have put your advise to good use! I am from Argentina so you made me smile!😀

@faithbaker8259 3 жыл бұрын

thank you its so true i live with a narcissists & hes vary negative & now i fight trying to be positive from being around him so you are helping me thank you Faith🙂

@lindathomas9844 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing video so informative yet succinct.You have a very natural rapport and are most authentic.Nothing staged managed.Thank you.

@marymolbalcorza6969 3 жыл бұрын

thank u so much.. i am now stress free because of you.. May God bless you abudantly for always giving us advices..xoxo

@melodipopham1844 3 жыл бұрын

I find your content so helpful, thank you for your videos.

@seedfromatree 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video. I like your voice and the way you explain this. 🙏

@valeriejoylauria8944 2 жыл бұрын

This is an awesome video. I have saved it and plan on watching it every day so I can try to apply this to my life. Thank you for posting these videos.☺️💕

@deplorabledixie2834 3 жыл бұрын

You have an absolutely brilliant mind..incredible insight. Thank you and God bless

@scottgrassi2572 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful video i will put into practice thank you for your help

@MrLike2surf 3 жыл бұрын

Mental filtering helps some of us by letting us not noticing the negativity in the world. And, I don't watch news on TV as a deliberate way to not become negative. Focusing on the possibilities and good things helps me accomplish things and have good relationships. You made some VERY good points. Thanks for this video.

@delythphillipps7624 3 жыл бұрын

Hi Emma. Firstly a big thank you for all the brilliant videos you’ve made and shared on ‘Therapy in a Nutshell’. I have watched a lot of them and have learnt loads from them. They have been very helpful and reassuring to me at a very difficult time. This is my favourite so far, because it deals with something that I have only just realised that I do (a lot!) and which definitely makes me feel bad. Also, I love the fact that you’re in your garden and there is a drop of water on the camera lens because it is so natural and so is your reaction to the sprinklers coming on. I also think it’s great that you share information about yourself and your own life experiences. Diolch yn fawr Emma (that’s thank you in Welsh) - you’re a star.

@WishfulThinkingArt 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos really feel like an awesome mental break when I'm in the middle of a storm! :-) They also give me new things to think about and talk to my therapist about! Thanks!!