“When someone shows you who they are....believe them” ‼️

Jeannie Mai is a gem. She doesn’t deserve to feel like that. Stay strong Jeannie ❤️

i love how loni automatically starts to talk to sorta distract while jeanie has a moment to breathe

Loni is the mama, Adrienne is the best friend, Tamara is the sister, and Jeanie is everyone. 💙

Jeanie looks amazing for almost being 40 years old!

Jeanie is now married to Jeezy, in a love that is unconditional, and welcoming a BABY! Look at God! 🙏🏾❤️

Tamara always feeling sorry for people... She's so sweet

Jeanie has been through a lot firstly she was sexually abused,her broken relationship with her mother for a decade then the divorce,😭how can she go through all this and manage to smile to the world?

Seeing Jeannie cry breaks my heart stay strong baby girl 💔

So good of loni to take over and let jeannie breath for a sec

Rihanna said something so deep that was so similar to this "I think a lot of people meet people and then they're dating the idea of what the person could become, and that person never shows up and then they're just mad disappointed. A person can always get better, they can always get worse, but you've got to be fine with what you met them as."

Who’s watching this after Jeanie got engaged!!!! Yay God has a plan for your life . Don’t worry if things are not going the way you like to. Something amazing will come for you.

I wish the girls that are my age would have these kind of heart to heart conversations.

This may go down in history as one of the realest moments on The Real. This was such a real picture of their bond. It isnt just an on screen thing, these ladies are true friends.

jeanie comforting the girls while breaking down is me.

2:26 "DID I KNO THE REAL YOU OR THIS IS THE REAL YOU"

Awww Jeannie group hug from The Real KZfaq family.❤️

I feel your pain gurl! I’m divorced. I’ll I can say is “I loved who I married, I hate who I divorced”! 😫💔

I’m in bed...this video makes me wanna turn around and slap my boyfriend whos asleep and he didn’t even do nothing 🤣

And now she’s engaged congratulations 🎉 she deserves to be happy

Aww I started crying the moment she started 😩😩

You could literally hear the pain in her voice when she cried omg, I wish the best for her 😢♥️

The perfect example of “Weeping May endure for a night, but Joy comes in the morning!!” So happy for her and Jeezy!!!

I cnt thank this girl enaf for sharing this

I love how Loni came in and started talking to help jeanie out in her emotional state. You can tell that these ladies have a true friendship. Definitely Emmy worthy.

10+ years of marriage & he just goes ahead & knocks up some bimbo who already had her eyes on him. Homewreckers deserve no happiness.

And now she’s remarried, expecting a child, and fell in love with herself completely and I love all her growth

Looking back on this episode today and to see where Jeanie was 2 years ago compared to where she is now is amazing! She deserves the life she has! She’s winning with her new husband and baby on the way!!❤️

I feel like that Jeannies wound is very fresh.

I wish I would have known earlier that each individual person has an individual journey. I spent a lot of time comparing my life to others and I wasted a lot of time being upset because I wasn't going fast as the next person or I wasn't getting the same results.

when Loni isn’t joking, she really be speaking some real stuff...

Jeanie is going to make me cry. Her emotions are so raw and sincere. My heart goes out to her ❤️

Look at Lonni saving the day... A true friend💛

I hate seeing someone as happy as Jeannie break down like that.. stay strong babygirl ❤️we love you!

Saying to the unmarried. Open your eyes, listen to your heart, listen to what your loved ones are saying. Don't fight your loved ones if they complain about him or her. Take time out and think about their comments/corrections. People can't see so much of the person's character. Cos love is blind. The moment you exchange those rings , people will show their true colours. Look out at RED flags. Follow your conscience. Don't marry cos you are ageing. Pray and let other people pray with you b4 you commit to a relationship. Don't make up your mind to go with that person if God says NO. Only God knows the future. Be blessed

I love how these women lift each other up, on and off camera. My favorite reason to watch ❤️ thank you for being so vulnerable

Years from now when Jeannie is happy and blessed, she'll look back on this moment and realise that she had to go through this to get to that happy place ❤

"When people show you who they are, believe them." So, so true but hard to practice in real life. We fall for the fantasy or the illusion of someone, as opposed to who they are all the time.

Seeing the pain Jeannie was in then and looking at her absolutely glowing now. I could not be happier for her, she's been through hell and to be in a place where she feels so loved and ready to be a mama is just beautiful to see! The glow up!

"i never thought he would be the one to prove that to me" wow.

What’s Freddy’s address... I just wanna talk I swear🤷🏽‍♀️

FACT: When people show me who they really are I believe them( CHARACTER) if you ignore you pay later!

I’m so happy she’s engaged now to Jeezy😍 she deserves to be happy

That's Maya's saying: " When people show you who they're, believe them."

jeannie you're better off without him. you deserve better 💕

I’ve never heard that quote before but it’s the truth. You really see people’s true colors when they don’t get what they want. And things can get really nasty or hurtful sometimes. God bless Jeannie

I wish i could tell this broken hearted and hurt Jeannie that in a year or so you will find a man, fall madly in love with him, change the way you see the world, redefine love and most importantly that you will become pregnant with your first child and know the joy of being secure in love. That 2 years later we will all marvel at God's hand on her life and the many blessings he has bestowed upon her. Her story gives me hope!

Seeing Jeanie cry breaks my heart, I feel for her, went through the same thing except 17yrs of marriage & with children Involved 😭 thank goodness she did not have kids with the man! On a positive note, it's good to see that Jeannie has a lot of love and support from friends & family. Healing comes with time.

He could have waited until they were divorced to see another woman.did he want a baby THAT bad? Smh

I ignored my red flags and I stayed with someone for 7 years. I stayed with someone for the sake of my child at the end just so I could be stable. It wasn't worth it. I'm glad it's over now. I'm living on my own and I'm in college now earning my degree. In a few more months I will be graduating. Sometimes things like this happens in life just to make you stronger. I felt Jeannie's pain. I love this show. Such sisterhood. No fakeness.

Congratulations Jeanie on your engagement....... not long ago you where heart broken and going through so much heart break, now look at you!! You are happy, engaged and have a bright future ahead of you! So happy for you and Jeezy!! And to everyone out there going through a hard time, hang in there! As you can see things change❤❤❤

LOVE to see the new happily married Jeannie in 2021 who’s EXPECTING A BAAAAABY! 😭🎉

So glad this show exists!! Their friendship is so real and inspiring

Jeannie is getting hotter by the minute. You're better off without him and better off without kids too. Live the single life and thank God from showing you who he really is.

Now she's going thru it again😢. Life is rough. Be kind to people

Jeanie was so brave to share how she really felt. Ladies don’t confuse being strong with not having feelings. It doesn’t mean you are weak if you hurt. It means you are a beautiful lady with feelings. It’s best to cry and get it out and help your healing process.

She said "when somebody shows you who they are, believe them the first time" completely true

I think she needs some time off. I feel so bad for her

This is so off topic, but it’s so crazy how one persons energy & presence effects a group as whole. Ever since Tamar has gone, they are so much more understanding and respectful of each other. I discovered their true selves only after Tamar left. Tamar’s energy and presence caused so much negativity and grudges towards each other, leaving them not trust each other, pick sides and just not act like themselves. Whoever decided that Tamar needed to go, THANK YOU.

Loni is extremely intelligent and strong.

Freddy is still a 🐍 Should’ve never done my girl Jeannie dirty like that smh EDIT: If you guys want to know what happened go check out Day time tea time KZfaq channel, she made 2 videos about it and with LOTS of deets ☕️🐸

Feeling very sorry for Jeannie, she seems like she's full of love and comes across as a kind genuine person. Her life with Freddie was probably a test from God and a real man will find her soon and it will a wonderful experience for her. I'm so happy for you in advance Jeannie Mai ❤

I wish I could look so pretty when I cry😓

I appreciate Jeannies honesty and vulnerability. She probably helped someone going through the same or similar situation.

I always thought 40 was old when I was younger but these ladies show me that 40 is really the beginning of your life. You have gone through all these things and you only then know exactly what you want out of life. It also helps that they're freakin gorgeous.

Oh hun 💔This made me sad to see Jeannie cry like that 😔 You are gonna be ok hunay. This too shall pass. ❤❤❤❤

I’m have a really hard time going through my divorce right now and this specific girl chat came to mind. When Jeannie says “you truly don’t know a person until they don’t get what they want” it really hits home. I never thought my relationship would end the way it did, I don’t even recognize my partner (well, ex) at this point in life. I really feel Jeannie’s pain here but seeing where she is now in life gives me so much hope! I truly miss this show so much but I’m grateful for clips like these! ❤️

fast forward 2 years later, she fell in love again, got married & is having a baby!!!!

Jeannie is the epitome of strength! What a woman! My heart shattered when she started crying.. You can really feel her pain. Yet she's still our here bossing it every damn day! Encourage, supporting and loving others with her infectious energy, while she's dealing with her own circumstances. You'd never know she was getting divorced if you didn't know her. Always smiling! Honestly Jeannie you're such an inspiration! And we will pray for fast healing 'cos giiiiirrrrl you way too fine (inside and out) to be crying tears hunny! ❤️❤️❤️

Jeannie, I appreciate your honesty and transparency. Thank you for being open, it will help a lot of other women. Your pain is palpable... but I truly believe everything happens for a reason, so from this heartache something great will arise.

I almost married someone who was could have ruined me. My ex was away at work for the summer and when the summer ended we were suppose to elope and move away. Well at the end of the summer I kept calling him and he never answered my calls. My ex's best friend's wife had to call me and break the news that the reason my ex never called is because my ex cheated on me and the girl ended up pregnant. I was completely heart broken. Then 3 years later I had a very good friend tell me that knows my ex and told me his wife was having so many problems with my ex. It was problem after problem with their marriage. After that I thanked God for the heart break I went through in the past because God saved me from a very bad relationship. Before I knew everything, I ignored the red flags because I chose to but it's very very important to pay ATTENTION to those red flags.

Life is too precious to waste it with the wrong person. Love this Loni

She’s right I swear your gut tells you everything...at the end of the day no matter how much we wanna hold on to something if it ain’t right for us we truly know so. As humans, our intuition is everything!

Whoever reading the comments and posting longer videos for the new season. KUDOS! We appreciate YOU. 💗💗💗💗

She’s almost 40 but she looks so young.

Fast forward 2022, Jeannie is happily married with a child. Just keep living, tomorrow makes a big difference. What you're going through now won't last. Just get through it, you'll be better then you ever imagined. Look at Jeannie then and look at her now (2022), that's all the actual proof you need.

she is so much better off without that cheater

I know your a strong grown woman but to see you crying like this makes me feel sad. I hope you'll find your right one very soon, because I want to see you falling in love again and be genuinely happy.

Every body needs a friend like Tamera!

I felt so much for Jeanie. I'm going through a divorce right now, were ok now and everything is going really well. We're working together about everything to do with our futures and our childrens future but I am so scared that it will turn ugly. Hugs Jeanie. Btw you look fantastic!! I hope I hit 40 and look as good as you.

Jeannie is a wonderful, strong woman. She is an example to young women everywhere to stay true to who you are and dont change your views to appease no man, I'm happy she didnt have kids with him to please him, she deserves better.

Jeannie...despite seeing you crying (hurting)... you've never looked more beautiful. You are keeping it real being honest (raw)/transparent. That's "real", that's beautiful. You can help so many people who are going through this. But you better be prepared b/c something better is heading your way :)

Like Steve Harvey said best❗️ don’t collect Red Flags, run & run fast when you see the first one ☝🏾 I need to learn this ugh 💜🤟🏽

Awww Jeannie look at God you found true love and you're going to be a mom. I am so happy for you!! Like Loni put it so eloquently..."Life is so precious"...and I am adding to it.."Life is so short "!!

Wow. I feel for her and gained so much respect for her. I can not even share my honest feelings about love with my friends and she does it on television.

What a bunch of wasted years and energy. Well, YEAH shes hurt! 👀She loved him. To add insult to injury, she JUST found out that the man she recently divorced, JUST had a baby by another woman. The timing doesn't add up. They were still married while the other woman was pregnant. Its HOW he did it. Deception is real.

I'm glad she's found her soulmate...I hope Jeezy respects and treats her Right

She's now happily married. Jeannie Jenkins ♥ 💍

Her husband was already messing with that woman. We know that

You never lose anything/anyone that’s MEANT for you !!

i remember watching this when it first came out, and my heart hurt for jeanie. it’s so nice to watch this knowing she’s doing true love and is expecting. i’m so so happy for her.❤️

Thank you sooooo much Jeanie! Going through this and I can’t express how much your words mean to me and opened my eyes.

Jeanie is like the queen of the real. Without her, the real wouldn’t be the real

tam holding jeannie’s hand is so sweet

I’m watching this after she got engaged to jeezy 🥺 so happy for her

awh, jeannie, ya made me cry with you. 🥺 i completely empathize with you...while i may not have been married, i’m going through a horrible time post-breakup after the several years behind my ex and i...seeing and knowing the real him vs. who I thought i truly knew, especially after it was his deceit that caused our relationship to end...strength to anyone else going this also, it won’t always be this hurtful.💕

for her too be PURE and talk abt the RAW parts of love and divorce, is amazing a woman may need that RIGHT now, we never kno until the light shines on it

I wish I’d put my education 1st, money 2nd and relationships laster than last😭😭😭😭

... now she's happily married and pregnant what a beautiful turnaround😍

“You truly don’t know a person until they don’t get what they want” that is so so true. My partner would turn abusive as soon as I refused to give him money. He would turn into a monster.