Real fam, do you follow the 90-day rule when dating?
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@gabyirigoyen28364 жыл бұрын
Amara’s skin tone is unreal, she’s gorgeous!!!
@zarasbubble17484 жыл бұрын
Gaby Irigoyen I thought I was the only one thinking that!! Her complexion is sooooooo gorgeous! 😍
@venabeana4 жыл бұрын
samantha simon You’re so bitter.
@xoxo93544 жыл бұрын
@samantha simon 😜😂😂😂😂😂wat a hater aww u hate yrself so u wanna project u ugly inside n out creature
@bmore19914 жыл бұрын
samantha simon ok Samantha. Sorry, that no one gives you any compliments.
@simoysmile98844 жыл бұрын
Her complextion is so beautiful what a beautiful woman
@kadiesharoyale78764 жыл бұрын
Amara is GORGEOUS 😍 Sidebar: They need to fire Loni’s makeup artist ASAP every so often they do her like this 😒
@devig87784 жыл бұрын
@Roena Skates the powder under her eyes is too light again
@kaykay564 жыл бұрын
This is old guys , we can tell by Loni’s makeup we discussed this 😂
@crystalmarie66704 жыл бұрын
She looks half baked that’s what’s wrong with her makeup ! And if they can’t hire a makeup team that knows how do deal with the diverse shades of skin , as well hair type, they don’t need to be on the air.
@hazelsalanoa4 жыл бұрын
How do none of the other girls say something...?
@takhemaziya4 жыл бұрын
Amara's dark beauty though. That skin girrrllll!! #FLAWLESS
@xoxo93544 жыл бұрын
Not dark beauty... jus Beauty
@takhemaziya4 жыл бұрын
@@xoxo9354 lol thanks for the correction.
@gaila.98524 жыл бұрын
Anne Marie Amen!
@melissacrespo52793 жыл бұрын
Yeah she’s stunning! 😍🙌🏻
@tonixjay4 жыл бұрын
Now whoever did that concealer on Loni was dead wrong
@MsDrea3154 жыл бұрын
It drives me crazy. But she should say something, ugh.
@j270444 жыл бұрын
They always do her wrong makeup, wigs I don’t pay attention to outfits there’s only a few occasions where her entire outfit is on point
@KamalIsaiahMorales4 жыл бұрын
Even with the wig she Giving Michael Jackson vibes LMAOOO
@lungimasiza99874 жыл бұрын
Toni Jay SIS!!!!! 😩
@mzbm104 жыл бұрын
Yeah Loni's make up is often bad. But Adrienne sometimes looks bad as well. Adrienne's make-up sometimes makes her look like a white ghost. I was watching an old Vault episode and Adrienne looked terrible. These make-up artists need to do camera tests. Check out this clip to see what I mean about Adrienne. kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oNt7eM2i0dHMg2Q.html
@SafiyahRawls4 жыл бұрын
I used to wait but when i met my husband the chemistry was so great that we had sex on our 2nd date. 3 months later he proposed n a few days ago we celebrated our 16th wedding Anniversary.
@luzkairyromero81674 жыл бұрын
Sofie Rawls when you know, you know! Congratulations!!!
@afirst4everything_4 жыл бұрын
Wow I got goosebumps. Girl you are lucky. Congrats
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Nice :)
@Meekavintage4 жыл бұрын
Aw that's awesome, congratulations
@aleeshaali36504 жыл бұрын
Beautiful❤❤ soulmates connections can happen hella quick boo
@msHARRYjudd4 жыл бұрын
If someone on the show is reading this and knows who did Amara’s makeup, 1) give them a raise 2) ask them what eyeshadow(s) they used and let me know
@zarasbubble17484 жыл бұрын
Allison L loooooooool! I agree though. It’s a glitter top on her look at peony/pink (fuchsia type) glitters
@Awillii4 жыл бұрын
Maybe they can talk to Loni’s makeup artist lol
@crystalmarie66704 жыл бұрын
Awillii naafr give that artist tips! She always looks half baked, I’m tired of shows with a diverse group of people and make up artist or hair people who can’t deal with all type of hair and all shades of skin
@deannarapp54214 жыл бұрын
Allison L the glitter reminds me of the Tati beauty palette
@warona22744 жыл бұрын
@@Awillii fr😂
@snazarix10554 жыл бұрын
90 days 90 months 90 years I ain’t givin it up till marriage lol. (Hard)
@ashLen8684 жыл бұрын
Xavi i totally agree with you! None of these boys are worth breaking my vow to celibacy and I meannn noneeee! Idc how fine he is, where he works or what he drives I ain’t stepping out of my promise that I made with God!
@PCSPITTER4NY4 жыл бұрын
@@ashLen868 you know divorce is a sin
@ashLen8684 жыл бұрын
brianroyal1 I honestly didn’t know that😩😔 can you tell me where in the Bible says that?
@PCSPITTER4NY4 жыл бұрын
@@ashLen868Except for these reasons, there is no justification given in the Bible for divorce. No grounds exist for divorce on the basis of incompatibility, lack of love, or differing career goals. Frankly, it seems impossible that two born-again Christians who are dedicated to serving Jesus Christ can find any grounds for divorce. Obviously, when a person who does not have biblical grounds for divorce remarries, he or she is technically committing adultery.
@PCSPITTER4NY4 жыл бұрын
@@ashLen868 Haven't you read that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh?" So they are no longer two but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate" (Matthew 19:4-6).
@christianone66114 жыл бұрын
I value waiting for marriage. So...YES... waiting at least 90 days. And yes...guys can still dump you. But it helps filter out many jerks to save you from diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and broken hearts. I think relationships can be sacred and sex is sacred as well. It has meaning for me.
@amyj44384 жыл бұрын
I tried waiting till marriage. Didn't but my first was someone I trusted and loved deeply. I was blessed enough to marry him and I don't regret it 1 bit. And if he can hold out on cheating when you aren't giving it up, he may be able to be disciplined enough to not cheat once married. I think it shows great discipline. Im with you!!!!! Nothing wrong with waiting til marriage. 😁😁😁
@nicoleyoshihara40114 жыл бұрын
@Christian One I am going to wait until marriage. I hope I can meet the right person this year. Honestly I'm looking forward to the relationship part the rest can come later. It makes it more special to wait :)
@amethystwolf245724 жыл бұрын
I mean, condoms protect you from diseases and unwanted pregnancy just fine. And celibacy is no protection from a broken heart.
@christianone66114 жыл бұрын
@@amethystwolf24572 They aren't fully effective. I have many friends and relatives who had "surprise" babies even when using protection. Luckily they had chosen their mate carefully and were able to give their children two healthy loving parents by their wise life choices. Celibacy saves you from getting hormonally wrapped up in another person. Oxytocin, and other hormones are powerful and released in high doses during and after sex and for women those bonding chemicals really change a relationship much more quickly once sex is introduced. A guy could still leave but if it's before sex, it will hurt MUCH less. A friend of mine was sleeping with a guy she adored but she hadn't taken time and precautions to get checked for diseases and make sure he was clean too. She was fine with the idea of having his baby so they had unprotected sex. Instead of a baby she got hpv and genital warts. The virus led to cervical cancer. Certainly these things don't happen to everyone but it's silly to pretend they don't happen at all. In my view, keeping the commandments is a way to not only honor my creator's will but it helps me to more fully love others as myself by treating us all with respect. Sexual bonding is a SYMBOL of uniting lives in service to a greater cause than yourselves. It's a type of false promise when you have the symbol with no commitment to care for and protect the other person's soul. (Not to mention, if you believe demons or dark energy exists...having sex creates soul ties that unites you with WHATEVER junk they have hidden, and however many people they have slept with. That can bring a lot of darkness into your life. For example, chinese soldiers who were murdering innocent Tibetans insisted on bringing in prostitutes to the battle front. I believe they used the women as "stress and demon dumping grounds" to cope with all the evil they were doing daily. Many don't believe in soul ties or demons so we can keep the topic limited to disease and pregnancy protection.)
@breal69054 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. Self discipline. I'm for the 90 days rule, better yet marriage. Sex is spiritual and more than animalistic which this society has boiled it down to.
@yemayabelcon15544 жыл бұрын
I love Amara's energy
@aleeshaali36504 жыл бұрын
Plus shes hella beautiful too, I cant stop staring at her
@melissacrespo52793 жыл бұрын
Right! She has a beautiful aura 🙌🏻
@KelleyBroussardMackaig4 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, I think Amara would have made such a lovely addition to the ladies of The Real. Not to keep bagging on Amanda or anything - but there is such a difference between the chemistry and the over all pleasantries that Amara brings to the table as opposed to Amanda... Amara just has this charming and refreshing approach to these topics - every little thing doesn't have to get automatically morphed into issues of race, discrimination or sexism... Not to mention she is just so GORGEOUS to watch!
@kathyholloway90324 жыл бұрын
I soooooo agree!!!! Amanda just doesn't fit with the vibe. I have been watching since day 1 and I don't care what anybody else thinks,.. she just rubs me the wrong way. Amara has such an approachable vibe to her. Not confrontational at all. Don't get me wrong. Amanda is very very smart and intelligent. But I am just not a fan of her in this mix. I still had no idea who she was.
@amazingperson3264 жыл бұрын
Of course she doesn't fit. After all she doesn't go out of her way to make all of you comfortable, she's about keeping it real.
@kathyholloway90324 жыл бұрын
@@amazingperson326 not saying she doesn't keep it real.
@SSBMA19944 жыл бұрын
I love Amara, but fans NEED to let. It. Go! Im tired of reading repetitive comment "Oh! This guest should've been the new addition, oh no, this guest, then that guest." Its like be grateful The Real is uploading more frequently already, so shut up, watch and enjoy the show.
@SSBMA19944 жыл бұрын
I'm almost willing to bet regardless of who get chosen as the fourth co-host, there is always bound to be backlash no matter what. Its just a matter of time and different excuses to hate someone. We should be celebrating woman having a voice, and when they do give voice, they not gonna be perfect and always say the right things. No, they gonna be human and sometimes fall short. Who cares? I'm not perfect neither and Ill be doomed if someone try to silence me over that.
@amandac579994 жыл бұрын
If the dude is gonna leave after getting the cookie, does it really matter how long you wait? It depends on the guy at the end of the day.
@FallenPasha4 жыл бұрын
It depends on both and what you want. If you have nothing to offer except sex, don't expect anything more. It only takes a minute to discuss what you're looking for.
@ineedhoez4 жыл бұрын
Seems like women should focus on selecting higher quality men!!!
@Silver_silk64 жыл бұрын
So true
@AkireMaru4 жыл бұрын
Believe me - it’s less likely. Unless he discovered something else about you that made you incompatible with him. However, if a guy waits that long (like actively waits and two people are actively talking and getting to know each other), it begs the question: Why did the girl not demand marriage first? If you wait 4 years, you might as well.
@getthismuthafuckawhatchust79664 жыл бұрын
Definitely depends on the guy
@marlenawright95014 жыл бұрын
As much as we try to act like sex means nothing-it does. That's like the ultimate form of energy transference.
@kaylenejantjes81134 жыл бұрын
Exactly!! I feel like Amara (and maybe the other ladies) gets that but Loni ain't about that, haha
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
right !
@ineedhoez4 жыл бұрын
Ultimate? Tell that to my vibrator.
@jenlotus173 жыл бұрын
+ oxytocin which makes us feel bonded and takes a while to flush out of our system. Men's testosterone neutralizes the oxytocin they would normally get from sex. Read Patty Stangers "Become your own Matchmaker"
@jw1415 Жыл бұрын
To moat men, having sex is like taking a pizz. Just a means to bust a nut...Any man telling you otherwise, is in the process of doing the same to you. That's fact...
@Amorantasia14 жыл бұрын
Chile I can barely keep them for 30 days without them insinuating about sex 🙄
@angelinasulejmani76884 жыл бұрын
@Andrea Gomez wow eaither is you hang with wrong people or eaither your body language is something off
@chelseyfaye87784 жыл бұрын
My hubbs an i waited 4 months and weve been together almost a decade. May 8th will be 10 years. Find the right dude
@iacobus42273 жыл бұрын
You can dry hump. Ain’t no penetration......I’m just saying.
@chubbybunny37783 жыл бұрын
@@iacobus4227 🤣
@garygreen71043 жыл бұрын
Huh? 🙄
@olivetaylor45144 жыл бұрын
If you cannot hold out for 90 days +, then you obviously don’t have a lot of self control. This is why cheating is so common... no self control
@somebody75384 жыл бұрын
I can. I don’t want to. Not sure how that makes someone a cheater
@breal69054 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@baybeetinax34 жыл бұрын
Having sex earlier in the relationship doesn’t make someone a person with no self control. When I’m single I’m completely single. I mean no love life what so ever. No sex, no flirting nothing. So if I have no bf I don’t have sex or anything so if I’m a year single a year of no sex. But I have had sex early in the relationship but I can hold out
@andrephillips77644 жыл бұрын
So hope you can accept my 90day rule of not paying for dates and all that then because I want to see if you can wait
@garygreen71043 жыл бұрын
False
@Lena2light4 жыл бұрын
Look at that hair! 😍
@wings52114 жыл бұрын
And her skin!!!!
@tamerilee4 жыл бұрын
In a perfect world, Amara would’ve been the 5th cohost 👏🏿 but I appreciate Amanda forcing the girls out of their PC opinions, it’s refreshing
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
she's not really she's just giving them eye rolls
@Pr1ncesssierra4 жыл бұрын
Tameri Harding that would’ve been awesome omg
@pickles47424 жыл бұрын
Amanda is too judgemental. It's her way or the high way (or so it seems) and it also seems the other ladies are too afraid to actually voice their opinions for fear of judgement. To me, anyway.
@NiaMSnow4 жыл бұрын
Karma comes in many forms. A man duh left/fired.
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt4 жыл бұрын
Who TF is doing Loni's makeup? Its soo bad..🙅♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt4 жыл бұрын
@Star Spiritual Advisor Ikr..and it's so sad because Loni is a beautiful woman and she deserves a talented makeup artist that knows how to highlight and bring out her features. Girl do you see her concealer? Just tragic. And..one of the other cast members needs to pull her to the side and let her know she looks like a walking talking corpse ..if they were her real friends they wouldn't hesitate to do it.
@GneissTee4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why her makeup is like this.... Of all the sets I've worked on TV or Movie, they have a couple of MAKEUP ARTISTS and also someone who does hair. Why would a makeup artist let her go on camera like this. Looks like my 8 year old grandson did her makeup. AWFUL.
@jamariahgraves75714 жыл бұрын
Love you lol 😂
@hildaarlette4 жыл бұрын
Men can wait. Society has taught them that they can’t and don’t have to.
@dustyhickory85843 жыл бұрын
Women can wait before a man spends his money on her for dates. They will wait 90 days also, so you two can really get to know one another.
@jimmyfirecracker18312 жыл бұрын
Her: A real man will date for 90 days before having sex. Him: A real woman will not let a man pay a dime on her on all dates for 90 days. Her: What? Wait.... It don't work that way...
@Themaine449 ай бұрын
It does for me. A dude tried to take me on a date and I refused knowing he had no money. I only agreed to ride in his car to enjoy the night and him, i swear. we got to the window and he forced me to order something. i said felt guilt and weird, and i ordered small fries. an hour later he told me i did something wrong and shouldve atleast ordered a burger. i really like this guy . - i wish money didnt exist and i wish he didnt have to worry about it, but it does, and thats not his fault or mine, its just the shitty world we live in. i didnt even want him to spend money on the small fries if we are being honest. but he FORCED me after i said no TWICE. i want u 2 know real women still exist. @@jimmyfirecracker1831
@mohammadalshamsi7174 жыл бұрын
I wanted Amara to be the fifth member. Amanda just keeps interrupting the other hosts ugh
@bosslady19734 жыл бұрын
Truly getting to know the person before sex is awesome. I wanted my partner to also be my best friend and now I have both. A strong relationship starts with a good foundation. Doesn't have to be 90...but I have to be in a relationship before becoming intimate. Let me see what you're about, how we handle conflict, communication, etc. first. I need someone to be worth my time and effort and I'm so happy!
@meme279554 жыл бұрын
Loni's makeup artist did her dirty. Not sure if that's concealer or highlight. But the make up artist was dead wrong.
@hambo92154 жыл бұрын
chy, i was looking at the same thing..lol. It looks like they used a yellow setting powder when they let her bake r somethin...she looks washed out. they need to do better. she needs a new artist unless she's doing her makeup herself then in that case, she needs more practice.
@mxdchix4lyfe4 жыл бұрын
Her makeup artist BEEN doing her dirty. You can definitely tell when she switches up her mua for that day!
@meme279554 жыл бұрын
Cici_Cera yeah. Cuz it’s like we see what the attempt was but it’s not blended in...or just the wrong color.
@meme279554 жыл бұрын
mxdchix4lyfe yeah. Well whoever this is....needsta be fired. Idc if they tryna give someone a chance. You can’t be on live tv looking crazy.
@hambo92154 жыл бұрын
Medine Charles yes ma’am. We get the attempt they just need to work a little harder next time.
@ntokozondovela82734 жыл бұрын
Every relationship is different. There are relationships that started with sex on the first date and lasted 20+ years and then there are relationships where people waited till marriage and the relationship didnt last as long. One shoe size doesnt fit all.
@daisyflower15454 жыл бұрын
I'm with you! There are no guarantees with these rules. It's so much worse when you wait so long only for the relationship to fail.
@efe80854 жыл бұрын
very true
@andrewstaples86774 жыл бұрын
It depends on the individual
@monicadparra4 жыл бұрын
She’s like a real life Barbie doll 😍
@youtubealgorithm74594 жыл бұрын
Every one here is so pretty
@sajdahsabree96914 жыл бұрын
The older you get the MORE discipline you should be because you have more to loose.
@drtash214 жыл бұрын
Loni's facial expressions while Amara was talking though....
@anaanabeth44794 жыл бұрын
Yeah, looks like she was being kind of disrespectful to the guest opinion.
@vanessawalker53664 жыл бұрын
I think loni overcompensates about sexual topics. *huge eye roll* Amara looks amazing as always
@nakiadeon86074 жыл бұрын
I made my ex wait and I thought he was a wonderful man because he wasn't pressuring me. We got married and well...it ended up being a sexless marriage. He just didn't like sex...period 😒
@thulinkabane57654 жыл бұрын
He is probably gay
@gamingwiththecrocidile37214 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@nomatterwatialwayswin4 жыл бұрын
Omg😵thats such a shame. We wait for the perfect guy so that when we find him we can get it onnnnn lool it would suck to not even get it after. Smh. Id be hella mad at him for that. Like he shoulda told u upfront.
@ScorpioBeauty4 жыл бұрын
He’s probably gay sis
@KennM124 жыл бұрын
her SKIN 😧 and her teeth!! 😍 WOW
@Ry0984 жыл бұрын
amara to be fifth host, shes so gorgeous a d her energy serms much more positive
@mohammadalshamsi7174 жыл бұрын
Raya K exactly Amanda has negative energy all over her
@itsfriday91394 жыл бұрын
i do wonder how many men Loni has really been with. is she coy because its so few or too many to count lol
@a.sydney50364 жыл бұрын
It's Friday she makes up half her stories.
@kaylenejantjes81134 жыл бұрын
Not to diss Loni or anything but I do feel like it's a case of her probably trying to represent a different perspective even if it's not her own. Also, she has said that she tries out comedy material out on the show so I feel like her acting the way she does for these topics is purely for the sake of entertainment. I don't believe a person who supposedly changes their individual every three weeks or a person who multi-dates talks like this.
@Hi.Shadow4 жыл бұрын
It's Friday exaggeration
@4lex4lex4 жыл бұрын
She's exaggerating hard
@rebeccag03274 жыл бұрын
Too many to count
@yeseniagms4 жыл бұрын
I’m with Loni on this. I was intimate with my boyfriend on the first month of dating and getting to know each other, and he still stayed at the end because he wanted to be with me. I think there’s something special about that too, he didn’t just want sex and bounce, he wanted to continue to get to know me.
@kimberlyj.71774 жыл бұрын
Loni’s makeup artist didn’t have time to properly blend her concealer? Got sis on TV looking crazy.
@madridista703usa34 жыл бұрын
Look at all the women were quiet when she said after they get the cookie they leave they all know it’s true lol
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Yep lol
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
thats why i waiting until marriage haha
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
@Anna Stella nah i did that and iam happily married now for 4 years , its about my standards too , not about him
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
@Anna Stella sorry for not clarifying that , yes he was .
@dnicaw4 жыл бұрын
But after 90 days he could still leave. Within the 90 days he could be acting 🤷🏾♀️
@ashLen8684 жыл бұрын
da.nicaaa EXACTLY💯
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
its not about him its about her choosing what she wants for her body
@dnicaw4 жыл бұрын
@@BATOOLESK yes and whatever she chooses good for her, it doesn't change anything I've said.
@cocopuff68104 жыл бұрын
Honestly it's more about how u feel if u give it up 9 days or 90 days. If u are ok with yourself.
@dnicaw4 жыл бұрын
@@cocopuff6810 true, but still after the wait if the comment which I made does occur she will/may end up probably not feeling great, we do not know 🤷🏾♀️
@Jesusillest4 жыл бұрын
Loving Adrienne’s outfit !!!!!!!! On point !!
@somebody75384 жыл бұрын
Why does it always have to be one way or the other with these women? We all have different sex drives and it has been disproven that men have higher sex drives than women. It varies from person to person. How about this? DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@bluebutterfly50624 жыл бұрын
That's true! It also depends on the relationship too. Sometimes you gotta just go for it with this one, but maybe with another one you gotta take your time
@platinumgold24714 жыл бұрын
I love the fashion even more than the topics😍
@isou.i4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but whoever did Lonnie makeup should be having the talk to. Don't let our girl be on television like that
@kimberlysinche13104 жыл бұрын
I think Loni's make up artist needs 90 days of suspension for putting on a concealer too light on her. 😬
@Angel_21094 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@afuadankwaahowusu6993 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Yoooooooooo
@Relrellz4 жыл бұрын
Ummm 90 days isn't a lot, I hope females know this. Furthermore if the man isnt loyal 90 days won't make him loyal.
@claudiaschmidt37084 жыл бұрын
Most boys bounce as soon as girls (how it should be) demand a STD test for everything to get acces to their bodys. There is no 90 day rule without a std test
@RockyPeterA4 жыл бұрын
I know a man who waited for 10yrs!!!! After he got the Cookie, he bounced!! Trust me, go with your instinct. When you love someone for real, they will know. It goes for both genders.
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
10 years???? There had to be red flags
@anthonybutler20012 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t waiting he was getting some side and I don’t blame him one bit
@rochellesmith84274 жыл бұрын
Is it me or has the energy at the table changed compared to recent clips?
@j270444 жыл бұрын
Rochelle Smith how so?
@saraelisabeth90384 жыл бұрын
Felt like they were having more fun here. Heavy topics are necessary too of course but it's like there's a cloud over it now.
@shaniquedavis36094 жыл бұрын
Sara Elisabeth yess... thiss
@rochellesmith84274 жыл бұрын
@@saraelisabeth9038 100% agree with you
@FruityUnicorn174 жыл бұрын
Yes a lot and i hate it
@chandlerpope20724 жыл бұрын
I mean if someone wants to hook up before the 90 days, i think they should. I think people miss out on so many opportunities because we arent vulnerable and we play games
@kennyray44584 жыл бұрын
Tamara n Adrienne are just beautiful ....Tamara is loving her gorgeous because she pays close attention to the monitor in front of her
@laurendelise74894 жыл бұрын
Lol you focus on the light skin women being gorgeous when there’s a beautiful chocolate sister who’s the most beautiful of them all.
@kennyray44584 жыл бұрын
Lauren Delise you must don’t pay attention to my comments as a fan of TheReal Talk Show and by the way I love the full table of multicultural of beautiful women.........so you definitely misread my comment God Bless
@andreagamez574 жыл бұрын
Amara:I wish I would've waited Loni: you'll be born again 😂
@bluebutterfly50624 жыл бұрын
But some guys will wait 90 days and still bounce. If he really likes you, he'll stay even if you give it up day 1. There's nothing wrong with taking your time but Loni is right fam
@farrahstewart87564 жыл бұрын
Who else here is still virgin, and waiting till marriage?
@shilohtaylor30434 жыл бұрын
Farrah Stewart I’m not even necessarily waiting for marriage...I just wanna find someone I like😂🤣😭.
@chrissyadams64814 жыл бұрын
Yes I’m 27 too . And so proud of myself ❤️💪🏾
@standingfortruth40434 жыл бұрын
Just turned 22 here and virgin. I'm not gonna lie it's not easy but I'd rather be judged badly by people than by God
@queencoolgamer76704 жыл бұрын
Me
@oliviaking40124 жыл бұрын
27year old virgin
@pinkieh67264 жыл бұрын
Amara’s skin tone is so BEAUTIFUL - makeup is gorgeous. Loni's makeup is not looking right today (not sure what happened ). I don't know if my volume is loud or Adrienne is just loud. Liking this convo ladies.
@dustyhickory85843 жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with a woman waiting 90 days before having relations anymore than there is nothing wrong with a man waiting 90 days before spending money on dates and buying gifts. They both get to know one another, win win for both!
@prissyno34 жыл бұрын
I just purchased Israel's album with Reckless Love on it--I forgot how much I LOVE that song!!!!
@madridista703usa34 жыл бұрын
These women don’t know how men think they have it all wrong
@keepinitkawaii4 жыл бұрын
You should explain
@cindyaudrey77734 жыл бұрын
Is Adrienne shouting or my earphones are loud
@pinkieh67264 жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me.
@D__Cain4 жыл бұрын
Cindy Audrey she always shouting lmao
@prettylady60134 жыл бұрын
Broadcasting your 90 day rule to the world lowkey defeats the purpose. Now he knows he has to stick around for 3 months before he can get the 🍪. It’s better to just tell him you’ll have sex when You’re ready. And wait the 90 days to get to know him. 🤷🏾♀️
@kattodoggo38683 жыл бұрын
if a guy waits 90 day s just to get a cookie and dissapear he is a psycho xD
@jimharris98774 жыл бұрын
Lonnie steals the show, as usual. LMAO! She's right. If you are over 40, 90 days is a loooooooooooooong time. By the time you are that age you are in the second half of life. If you like someone and have chemistry, than go for it. Life is too short.
@ryanamari22334 жыл бұрын
The Wait by Megan Goode and her husband DeVon Franklin is an excellent read. It has me really thinking about celibacy and actually sticking with it FOR ME ... as well as just evaluating my relationship history
@shutit40242 жыл бұрын
Sadly they’re now breaking up...
@hummingbirdandbutterflies4 жыл бұрын
Lonnie: I be mad! 🤣 When you said this I lol’d because I know what you mean!! 😭
@agento59524 жыл бұрын
So, Amanda is cool, but I have not been feelin' the 5 host situation. I know a lot of people are saying they like it and other shows have 5 hosts, but this is just my opinion. I liked the 4 host better, it seemed to work well. Then I had heard some rumors a while back saying Jeanie was pregnant, and have not heard anything since. then I got to thinking maybe they got another host because Jeannie is pregnant?! Or maybe Adrienne on the DL? No one looks pregnant. They are all beautiful, pregers or not. Just trying to figure out why they are messing with a good thing. Plus, if they are bringing on a new host, I thought Tisha Campbell would have be so great!!
@HM-ve3kz4 жыл бұрын
😴😴😴😴😴😴
@bluebutterfly50624 жыл бұрын
I kind of agree. I think they are switching it up to keep things "interesting" but i like the 4 host chemistry the best
@mychannel-rt2gn4 жыл бұрын
I thought Jeanie didn’t want kids
@rosaadams80414 жыл бұрын
Tamara: nothing like you won’t do ANYTHING Asexuals: ...
@aisha14354 жыл бұрын
LOOOL ROSA WHAT ARE YOU SAYING????
@tgirl89554 жыл бұрын
A man. Will tell you he isn’t doing anything, but what he does in his own time you wouldn’t know.
@SSBMA19944 жыл бұрын
O my goodness. I swear Amara is the most goregeous black woman Ive seen. Her super dark glistening skin is be-you-ti-full
@vivianna_diaz4 жыл бұрын
Also during that 90 days you can caught feeling s for that person, and when finally comes that night end up being bad or you dont like it... I'm with Loni
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@BATOOLESK4 жыл бұрын
then u knew him long enough and can dump him ... it doesnt have to be one way or the other whatever works for u
@theelementsofvirtuecollect58464 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting for marriage. Bump a 90 day. And anyone who isn't willing to wait, "boy bye." "shawty U disqualified" cause I've been there, done that, ain't doing it no mo! Ladies we are worth waiting for. It took me a long time to accept this but now that I have it's the standard and I'm not settling for anything less than my God given and defined worth. "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies." (Proverbs 31 : 10)
@JUDALATION Жыл бұрын
Mam you aint a virgin so stop the proverbs.
@hc21594 жыл бұрын
It totally doesn't matter because when a guy wants to stay around he will AFTER he gets the prize. Otherwise they just fake it to take it and then ghost u after. It happens a lot. Might as well get it out the way and get him to want you for MORE then sex
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Good point
@bluebutterfly50624 жыл бұрын
Right!
@neleamsaid14 жыл бұрын
That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard..sex isn’t used as a tool to keep a guy hanging around..the point of waiting is to establish a stable foundation, trust, and know who YOU are sleeping with
@moxie3655 Жыл бұрын
I agree with the 90 day rule. For relationships, friendships, business partners, jobs! Everything! Most people reveal their true intentions in that time.
@JrBarthelemy4 жыл бұрын
I’m a 26 yr old virgin and I’m waiting until marriage... I am getting married next Saturday 😬 worth it
@aurabyizzie4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations😭😭😭
@JrBarthelemy4 жыл бұрын
😇 Thank you!! Bless you! And be safe ✌️
@valeriecastro26804 жыл бұрын
1:02 jeanies laugh..
@angelenergia21634 жыл бұрын
Valerie Castro i can’t stand it she does it all the time 😂💖
@Hi.Shadow4 жыл бұрын
Valerie Castro woody woodpecker
@Grinchthanksgiving2 жыл бұрын
As a woman, it’s hard to wait 90 days. Also, during this 90 days, it’s not about seeing if he likes you enough to stick around. HE needs to be trying to make YOU like him. That’s what courting is about. And I think 60 days is good to see if you like someone or not
@sim6ification4 жыл бұрын
They can still go after the 90 days are over with.
@heatherleannxo5884 жыл бұрын
Amara is so cute! And absolutely GORGEOUS look at her beautiful skin. I would LOVE to have just an ounce of her skin tone she is absolutely beautiful inside and out!!😍😍 absolutely BEAUTIFUL 😍😍
@raayden61254 жыл бұрын
I’m laughing at Adrienne going “it happens” like we ain’t watch it happen with her lol
@bre_me4 жыл бұрын
Am I one of the only ones left who believes in waiting until marriage?
@ellesaa82903 жыл бұрын
13:32....that part🥲, yeah loni I feel you. Is the moment you wanna cry cause you wasted your time.
@tajiedrummond35754 жыл бұрын
Amara is soooo beautiful. Can't say it enough 😭😍💕
@iheartkass_4 жыл бұрын
Loni, you shouldn’t shame females who wait to have sex either. Self-control & discipline is a virtue, and ur comment about what if sex is bad? Sex is more than just physical, We’re talking about serious relationships with serious people here.
@kendalladaramola4 жыл бұрын
The concept is to get to know all the important stuff about a man before trusting him with all your emotions or physical stuff. Sometimes, maybe based on precedence (how they have handled their lives and relationships so far) you can decide you know them within a month. However, sometimes it takes a little longer to know someone enough to decide you want to spend the rest of your life with him.
@okaydudes6 ай бұрын
If you make a guy wait, better not ever let him know that there were other dudes who didn’t wait. Most men will feel a certain way
@chataeyes314 жыл бұрын
I agree with loni I waited 6 months to know the guy fell in love and the sex was trash now I feel trapped in this relationship I try not think about not being sexually fulfilled but I then think of my feelings for him so I wouldn't recommend forget the 90 day rule .
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@daisyflower15454 жыл бұрын
It's very interesting that some women think that holding out on sex is the main guarantee for a good relationship. The only guarantee is finding a good partner who values you for who you are regardless of if you're celibate or a virgin. Someone who actually loves you, wants to be with you and values your relationship enough to put in the work to make it great and last. I'm a woman by the way
@03stunner4 жыл бұрын
Are we gonna ignore that Adrienne isn’t drinking alcohol.... is she pregnant 🤯🤩🤩🤩🤩
@8luvbug4 жыл бұрын
No this is old
@a.sydney50364 жыл бұрын
Adrienne ALWAYS looks good. Amara, gorgeous.
@theaondracawley54414 жыл бұрын
I agree with Adrienne.
@bollywoodloverschannel61834 жыл бұрын
-Was that a makeup on your face loni ?😬😬 - yes girl, why ? -beaucoup it' looks like mess up ..😂😂😂
@brooklynnnelle4 жыл бұрын
That 90 day rule matters to me! I like to get to know someone before I am comfortable enough! I made my ex wait 2 years before giving it up... & a month later he ghosted me. Soooooooo I don’t trust any of these men now lol jk there are better men!!
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Wow. I'm sorry smh
@brooklynnnelle4 жыл бұрын
Nella J oh don’t even worry about it girl, karma got him set up NICELY after all of that.
@ashLen8684 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. That 90 day rule means soo much for me because i get to filter out the good from the bad. I made my ex wait a long time and he got what he want and left😒 but the funny thing is after what happened he would always be in my DMs On some weird stuff🙄 #Blocked....now im practicing celibacy and praying for the right one
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
@@brooklynnnelle Good. I'm glad he got his bad karma that was coming to him
@brooklynnnelle4 жыл бұрын
Asher Lenore yessss girlll!!! Keep that gift to yourself until you’re ready! Be stingy with it. Lol
@rach75724 жыл бұрын
oh my god amara is FLAWLESS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@cleopatrawf4 жыл бұрын
Agree with Loni on this. Age makes a difference, however even older women fall into the trap of getting carried away with being in lust and not seeing the true nature of the guy until he starts to ghost them. Whatever age you are sex can cloud the issue for many women as they then can't clearly get to know the guy without sex getting in the way. Most men can't hide their true nature for 3 months - especially if you spend a lot of time with them in different circumstances. But protecting your body is also about setting standards to a man you see as potential and taking time to get to know the real him. But women also need to spend as much time protecting their heart and not allowing themselves to get drawn in so quickly to a man who hasn't shown his qualities. Personally I don't want to wait more than a few months as at my age I don't have time to mess about. Also the respect and consideration a man gives a women during intimacy also says a lot about what kind of man he really is. Its disappointing to wait a long time and then find he's a selfish lover. Makes you feel that you've wasted time.
@killacrush34374 жыл бұрын
I have been celibate for 6 years.. No big deal but I wanna good girl
@arieledmonds61164 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful!! The NAILS!
@NateBrown9394 жыл бұрын
Video starts at 4:32 🙄🙄🙄🙄. You welcome!
@jesuschild07able4 жыл бұрын
I waited but we had sex at the 4th month mark but we realized that we wanted to build the relationship more. We went to counseling after this and we got married after months of counseling. We were glad that we got to know each other.
@MegaLadylove20124 жыл бұрын
Guys would tell you it doesn’t matter duh because it works for them. But than again, if you goin have someone wait tht long than make sure he’s investing in you because otherwise he’s definitely goin hit it and quit if thts all he wanted
@moonstar11264 жыл бұрын
Lonnie had the final word.. I agree...u wait 90 mfkn days for nothing
@taatiiis4 жыл бұрын
Loni!!! So true!!! There's nothing wrong to be on celibacy. But once we reached certain age and clock is click (biological woman well being) you cannot wait 😆. Im forever to be embarrassed for a situation that happened to me, we meet,we talked for a while (2mo) after we meet, and then things started to get hot and curious🤦♀️ we meet up again, and sisters!!! Was a disaster. Nope! Sex was bad, bad,bad... nope! I couldn't even try again the next day. We ruined our friendship, I couldn't even face him. I just waited for his safe arrival to his home and disconnect. I became extremely busy, work,house, child... enough. Chao👋 boo!
@Toccup14 жыл бұрын
That banana powder on loni's face!!!
@t4c436 Жыл бұрын
Loni, you're a grown woman you know what you want, me i want the 90 days period.
@Spartakus-1-3 жыл бұрын
The 90 days rule is logical only for virgins. It is crazy to listen to this from women in their 30s who are single mothers or had previously many boyfriends. If you ask this from a man, he will surely start dating another woman, too.
@trish83214 жыл бұрын
Girl I know a guy who waited 3 years. The minute she gave it up he was gone! I have a lot of guy friends so a know their antics.
@Tan87ful4 жыл бұрын
Wow smh
@Hooligan.23 жыл бұрын
That's heartbreaking
@anthonybutler20012 жыл бұрын
Good for him, more guys need to do that when dealing with stupid women like that
@CookieFridays3 жыл бұрын
Amara is freaking stunning!!
@renaissancelight49714 жыл бұрын
You can make the person wait 6 years and still won't make a difference. The truth is you have to decide on the connection with the person and sometimes you think the bond is deeper than is in reality. I also gave it up quickly and it made no difference. I choose to stay celibate for my own clarity and I physically need to be extremely interested in you to give it up. It's not something that can happen often. It's pretty rare or maybe I am picky.