I mean... I don't mind listening to the tea, I'm like mama mai ☕😂

Loni: I've been meaning to bring this up! 💀🤣

I'm the type that forgets people's secrets. So you may tell me today and by tomorrow, it's out of mind. Exactly like Adrienne

The more tamera talks the more I realize we are literally the same person with a kick of Adrienne 😂

I had to learn and am still learning not take on people’s problems as my own. I’m a fixer, so i always wanna fix like Tam lol but i definitely had to learn that not everyone wants or needs that from me.

5:00 Loni Love: "You got that biblical face. You're just angelic." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Adrienne: that's math 👋👋👋👋👋👋 that's a lot of money 😂😂

Who else loves it when Jeanni Mai impersonate her mother ? ❤❤❤

“You got that face though... you got that biblical face.”😂😂😂

I love jeannie "oh don't you try me" I had to replay. I died 😂😂😂😂

Can I get the details on Adrienne's dress please...It's gorgeous...

I remember when a friend revealed to me she was being molested. I held the secret for about 3 days before I broke down

LOL when Adrienne says she’s not losing sleep over bochinche 😂 FACTS

Being on your own and not doing much, doesn't make you lazy. It might just mean you like being by yourself or you've had a long day and need to recharge

Loni kills me ‘I’ve been meaning to bring this up’🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

“It hurts me not to care.” ❤️💔

“Mind the business that pays you” -Tami Roman 2019 Basketball Wives Lol. I’m a great secret keeper though.

I had to go to the Psychologist cause the secrets were so deep and scary I started being suicidal. I don't want nobody's secrets anymore 🙅

I like the term “relaxing” instead of lazy. 😁

When loni said "you got that biblical face" I cried lmfaoo

“It was Oprah and 50 Cent!” 😂😂😂

For a minute there, Adrienne looked like Jlo.

Adrienne's makeup is gorgeous!!!

IM LITERALLY LIKE TAM. THINKING IS EXHAUSTING.

I'm an introvert. sitting and doing nothing with myself or with my hubby and our sons watching tv is me recharging myself from all the negative energies I encountered throughout the day. I will literally burn out from exhaustion from not taking some "lazy" time. Life is about balance. Find time to do some meditation, praying, journaling, or just sitting in your room in silence. I work to make a living, all my other time is self care and spending time with my family.

Adrienne: That's math hitting Loni No reaponse: That's alot of money you guys! Dead!

honestly just keep your business to yourself period

She said “that’s math” and started tapping Loni’s arm. 😂😂😂😂

I aspire to Adrienne’s level of unbothered 🙏🏽

I'm legit Adrienne 😂😂. I forget and i'm an open book idc

For some reason, All of my friends feel the need to confide in me about their sexual assault. Which, I am honored (?) that they feel that they can confide in me. BUT that is A LOT to take on. AND I could only imagine what they’re going through 😞

Tamera literally embodies the Cancer zodiac. Any fellow cancerians here???

I just block it out. Pretend I never heard it drown it out. It’s not my place to say anything. So I have my own business to worry about.

Adrienne looks absolutely stunning in that blue dress. 😍😍😍 And the make up. One of the best things she has ever worn.

Wow once ur told a secret u keep it to yourself

Certain personalities absorb everything, so, just being in an environment can be exhausting and overstimulated, and they aren’t relaxing until they are just alone!

Adrienne: "I'm a genius as well. See Loni, look at that." Loni: 👀👀 I'm weak 😂😂

Tam, I exhaust myself from thinking, too

" I'm exhausted because I think too much " I'm with you Tam ! Not laziness, but smart and cool !

I love having breakfast and watching girl chat✨

Don't be calling it lazy.. It's called conservation mode..😌

I’m a very empathetic person so there are some secrets I can’t handle. If it’s something bad, don’t tell me.

Adrienne: I ain’t losing sleep over some bochinche! Me: LET THAT BORICUA OUT!! ❤️

Don't tell me nothing. My mouth is like running water, can't keep none

There's an old school saying that goes, Why pray if you gone worry, and why worry if you gone pray.

I never tell secrets. Your secrets is coming to the grave with me 😂

I keep my secrets to myself.

i can relate to Adrienne, such an open book and ppl keep telling me their stuffs even adults

A stranger showed up to my parents weeding and when the cops came cuz of a noise complain. Let’s just say he jumed the gate and ran😂👐🏾👏🏾👐🏾👏🏾👐🏾

true! i'm also a fixer and it makes me mad when people come up to me with their problems, i cant help but give them solutions that they obvs never follow 🤦🏻‍♀️ so now i just nod and say oh aha yeah

Tamara’s right Jeannie! I am constantly exhausted from my anxiety and worries!

'Oh dont you try me!' Jeannine I'm dead! LMFO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

That makeup is in point 👏👏👏 for all 4 ladies👌🔥

I went to a wedding of a friend who only allowed a plus one for pple she knew. If she did not know your significant other he or she was. ot allowed to come. I do not have a problem with it. She spent $200 a person on her wedding. So she had all rights to say who she wanted to attend.

We need people like Tam in this world (people who care)

Single people just don't want to show up to a wedding alone and be reminded someone found love and you are still alone.

I swear I love Loni 😂😂😂 “and is he single”

People always tell me things. Or they just talk about things in front of me . Even if it’s so deep they don’t seem to care. Probably cause I’m quiet as hell and I rarely talk so they think I won’t. Which I don’t. I just listen, tell my cat and forget.

I can relate with Tam bcz sometimes when I tell a person my burden it's because I'll be looking for solutions so I just assume they are telling me because they are looking for solutions from me..

Love love love loooooove Loni! So funny when she reacts to Tam bringing that friend

7:36 🤣🤣 she didn’t know the math and wanted Loni to do it but she was taking long so she left it and just said “ that was a lot money you guys”🤣🤣🤣🤣

I’m like “A”, cause I got a lot of crazy stories of my own, cant focus on all of there secrets!

My friend was sleeping around unprotected at 13 while in a relationship had many pregnancy scares multiple times and I kept that secret for 6 months without telling my mom and to this day no one else knows

you got that biblical face lmfaoo

Here's the thing about being "lazy", is that you may be lazy at one point but you're not lazy all the time. EVERYONE gets bored of doing nothing.

I had a very intimate, small family wedding. My husband and I wanted something just for us and close friends. We hiked up a little trail at the park and our best friend married us. A "friend" of mine (at the time she was a close friend) decided to bring her sister and the sister's deadbeat boyfriend to my wedding. We didn't know them. It was extremely rude.

This is a great show BECAUSE of their friendships!! I think if they wasnt friends it would be boring lmao

Adrienne was speaking the truth about some of us just wanting a listening ear. Not everybody wants your help/advice 👏🏽👏🏽

They all look gorgeous, loved the topics and the honesty

Haha I also get Tamera with this analysis paralysis😂. Thinking so dang much that you don't even do anything.

Lmaoooo Loni is too honest🤣

I have no problem being lazy

Tamera u are what people call an “empath” . I’m one too . It’s a spiritual gift ! We can’t help trying to fix EVERYONE.

I’m definitely Adrienne cause I tell allllll my crazy stories

Why is Jeannies go to imaginary name “Timmy” 😂

I can’t stand people thinking that you’re lazy because you don’t want to rip and run all the time.I agree with Adrienne that there is something kind of going on with people who don’t ever want to stay home.And trust me they need to sometimes to “take care of there home”if you know what I mean.lol

Their outfits on the episode is on point 👌

Ok so here’s the thing right..: I’m the type of friend that won’t tell especially if you trust me ... and I stand by that and I literally won’t tell anyone , however I’d rather have a good conscious and not tell because it’s not for me to tell , it’s for the person who gave me the information to tell... I can be here for you and do right by you but you also have to do right by yourself and be honest... I understand being afraid of the unknown , but you won’t know what might happen if you’re honest so you might as well take a leap of faith and take whatever is thrown at you even if it is hard to take it !

If my nephew or niece's teacher ever call me assuming I'm the parent or legal guardian I'd go along as long as the problem is "non-parental" level. I am the cool uncle and wish to stay for a long, long time.

Being like Tamera, taking on people's problem really left me drained. It only made it worse when I felt like I went out of my way and only got told "I didn't ask you to". So like Adrienne said, I try to not overextend myself. You have to really take care of yourself first.

I don’t like the term lazy... I feel like lazy can be referred to things that involves not wanting to because you hate or despise it , whereas being disconnected with something is simply not being interested in something because it doesn’t suit you or the things you’re into... I feel like the word “ lazy” is used loosely

I’m the same as Adrianne I have a forgetful mind, you tell me now I forget next seconds, it’s why I never had problems with my friends. I forget their secrets lolll

Tamera you gotta establish boundaries with those people and let them know not to tell you. And if they break that boundary, you should reconsider that relationship.

Adrienne’s makeup is just flawless😍

I prefer not to know some secrets. What if I get traumatised and can't bear it

It's not being lazy....It's enjoying doing nothing lol.... besides the key to true success in life is within.. so take time to unlock yourself to your highest potential.

Yes Tam! You are not alone! I am exactly the same way!

I don't care about planning a wedding and having all the people. When I married, my husband and I went to the Justice of the Peace. I just didn't want to plan a wedding. Too stressful and I didn't want all the people. My husband told a few people. Literally only a hand full. By the time the ceremony started and ended, we had so many people arriving to the court house. I told my husband, "I thought you only told a few people." He said he did but those people told everyone else. lol. We were outside in the hot sun taking pictures for 2 hours!!! It was nice to feel so much love that ones wanted to join us at the court house. We didn't do a reception. I didn't want to. I wanted it very simple. So different ones had us over for dinner throughout the 2 weeks. That was the best ever! So different and original. I couldn't have planned it better. As I'm telling this story let me tell you where I married. I married in Nigeria. I'm black American and my husband is Nigerian. So hence all the people showing up without an invitation. I send much love to my Nigerian brothers and sisters. :)

I love Adrienne :)

Jeannie described it perfectly! My family always used to (still does) tell me that I'm lazy simply because I don't like doing the same things they do. I come from a family of partiers. They're always going to clubs or family parties but I would be perfectly happy sitting in the house with people watching a movie or something.

Jeannie always keeping it real 💯

You guys are so amazing! I watch you guys from the Dominican Republic! Y’all are such an inspiration to me, thanks for all the advice. Love y’all❤

It is called being an empath. You take on and feel their burden.

its called fatigue by empathy, we psychologists suffer it all the time listening all the time to powerful emotionally charged stories. if we dont do something to de-stress we can became ill even.

Lmao @ “oh you were there” & “why thank you” & Ade tapping Loni to do the math and she wasn’t even paying attention 🤣.

Tamera butters herself up a lot. Sometimes I like the self-confidence, sometimes it just sounds arrogant.

She was a friend I could tell her my secrets and her to me. Because we knew we would pray instead of telling others. 🙏😏

You can’t worry and pray you gotta choose one ☝️ yasss

luv Ade’s expressions @ 5:19 .. childlike 💕

That’s that cancer ♋️ in us! We are over thinkers so I agree with Tamera