Girls think guys mature slower when it's been proven that both minds mature at the same rate. What does mature faster is a woman's physique. So because their physiques mature faster they garner attention from not just men their age but older men as well, thus they experience older situations earlier. This as apposed to growing along side their male counter parts. Then men know unless they are bringing from their teens, they won't see returns until there late twenties early thirties. Possibly beyond thus that's how the whole cycle of relationships go.

Respect! Bottom line

Why is this woman always generalizing on men? Yet she isn’t taking or showing any accountability on the side of women. MOST WOMEN WANT BAD BOYS, most women want a nigga with a bunch of money, most women want to have gift bought by the payload for them, most women want to make their money and yet spend their man’s money, most women are just selfish and into themselves and so much more!!!!!!!!!

@53:49 she is just saying men is the problem and women can do no wrong, that’s all I’m hearing from her.

That would be good.

Pretty entitlement..

Facts...

Facts up vote this fellas

I don't understand the comparison though

Love your content Taty!

I understand both sides but i think its more biological

If honesty and commitment are all a women want than why did I get taken for an idiot every single time I came back to try and love on my ex after finding out that she's messing around with someone cause it happened 3 if not 4 times NOT COUNTING THE FIRST ENCOUNTER?!

Honestly, I don't think every women want the same thing but Majority of the are hypergamous because of The SMP. SMP = Sexual Market Place

@Austin Powers Yes, exactly. It's entitlement, and also they were raised that way. They're aren't use to rejection like most of the guys are.

Wow this was a underrated comment

@NEGATIVE THOUGHTS gospel this is why majority of women will continue to lose LOL once their past 25 the only men that want them are the average joes who are also in that age group. The 1% men only want women from 20-25 that are as you said Feminine, look good, have sex and bring peace to a man Its that simple. But women will be like " well why should i do this if he doesnt do that" 💀 i dont even understand what the issue is. If a man says he wants how the FK are you going to tell him he can only get it IF he meets your criteria 💀 No that doesnt work THE WOMAN has to meet the MANS CRITERIA and THEN she can place her CRITERIA. See I find women dont understand theyre EXPENDABLE for the simple FACT there are other women out there with tits, ass and boobs that are willing to do things YOU wont. Women are in competition with EVERY OTHER WOMAN on the PLANET for the affections of a MAN. You have to MEET THE MANS NEEDS which will in turn ideally have him dismiss ALL THE OTHER WOMEN and put a RING ON YOU. But i digress WOMEN think its the MEN who should make THEM happy first LMFAO. And now we see what that THINKING has led too a culture of CASUAL SEX. Because MEN of realized WOMEN arent trying to make them HAPPY theyre just trying to get the MEN to make them HAPPY and MEN are saying FK THAT well just go into "CASUAL SEX" MODE where we FK everything that moves and go from woman to woman since thats the only benefit they are willing to provide without stipulations. 😂😂 its hilarious women will give thier body up to men before they ever be submissive 💀how backwards is that? Which in turn is starting a NEW ERA where MEN dont even see the need to be in committed relationships or get married because SEX is so easily accessible the right man can have a NEW WOMAN in his bed EVERY NIGHT. With NO STRESS or COMMITTMENT 💀. Women FKD the game up by refusing to meet the standards of MEN and in turn DEMANDING MEN meet their standards and MEN have begun to say FK YOU. This is why marriage rates are DOWN this is why less and less men of quality ie the good looking dudes and the richer men arent getting into relationships with any kind of seriousness leading to marriage. Until WOMEN change (they wont) MEN will just go into CASUAL SEX mode and yall will be salty as hell being 30 35 40 with 2+ baby daddys and no ring 💀

But if we go for men who are only already building or built themselves then we're gold diggers and not ride or dies or women who don't want to be with a man when he has nothing thus makes us " shallow" right?

@NEGATIVE THOUGHTS I don’t disagree with you... but on some level as adults we need to show up with something. Just like Hafeez & Chris say in their videos their advice for men is to focus on themselves & building their business/finances/life in their 20s. Of course women want a man with a foundation, we’re looking for stability for our family... it’s not that a man has to be perfect because nobody is. Not everyone wants the 1% super lavish lifestyle. But the bare minimum is being able to sustain yourself & if you’re looking for a woman be able to provide for a family... so I don’t completely disagree with hypergamy because as a feminine woman we do want to date up & be with a man that can lead/head our household. Someone that we don’t even have to think about submitting to, we naturally do because of how he shows up.

@@justthatguy1808 yeah you had us in the first half, actually made some points until you didn't... you definitely sound hurt, get some healing..

Thank you for sharing

I’d say 30+ but It’s true just the guy friends I have who are younger than me I feel a huge gap in mindset

I believe it was the dating site OKCupid that conducted a study based on the information they gathered from heterosexual men and women on their dating site. They concluded that men ages 18 to I think it was 65 preferred to flirt and pursue women who are 22 years old. So this woman’s information is very valuable

@@chillie000 21-22

The thing I found most fascinating (aside that there was no female accountability or introspection on what role women are playing from a woman’s point of view that contribute to these challenges) is that, although Taty might be mature in thought, Chris literally fed her a man’s cheat sheet MULTIPLE times, telling her how to pass the test in front of her yet she didn’t pick up on any of the social cues.. more than social cues..he literally spelled it out .. see 20:45. How different this talk would have been if she actually HEARD what they said. Chris literally said be cooperative, be joyful, watch your energy, be feminine, be kind, yet she continued countering just about everything they said in a need to be “right.” How much she could have taken away if she had simply listened.

you're gonna win in life

He'll chase u if u do it right

Chasing, to some extent, is degrading.... for a man. And woman.

I smiled until the end, but what do you mean by 'never chase a man' put that in context.

100%. I think women are getting more education and career driven because of the lack of stability in our community. We can’t rely on the men so might as well become one so atleast we’re not homeless and can take care of our selves.

I adore this statement!

Wow that’s good advice

😭🙏🙏

I know you mean well,but I'm a grow @$$ man and if my woman treated me like I'm her son.We got problems

I wonder if mothers would get mad at other women by treating there sons like average trash 🗑 💨 if he only makes 70,000 to 80,000. Why would u get mad if you did it yourself ? 💭

May the odds be ever in your favour 🤞🏾

It’s only scary if you’re average. But then again, it’s the same risk for rich men too since you never know if a woman likes you because she genuinely likes you or she is just after your bank account.

@@ilikepancakes2368 Referring to the latter.........she doesn't care about you, its all about the money.

@@ilikepancakes2368 the game doesn’t even start if you’re average. You must be above average or high tier.

@@fkcavs Nah. If you're smart enough you'll easily tell.

Best comment I read no lie when both of y’all bring to the table makes the situation sweeter

bingo

100%

It works when the woman needs & respects the man and the man honors & loves the woman

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What's the current situation

Always put yourself first never a women

Thank You Jordan

An ugly woman can still have a unique sexual partner everyday of the year with minimal effort.

An ugly woman can still get laid far easier and more frequent then an ugly man. An ugly woman can be ugly but somewhere out there there’s a guy that will bang just about anything.

@@yaircelis1175 facts!! Look at these guys babymommas out here. I be thinking to myself some guys will put their penis in anything

Lol yes I agree with you guys as well. I was speaking in terms of who actually gets the chance to get the person they desire. The “ugly woman” has no chance let’s be real.

@@rockstartonyx no you’re wrong there too. An ugly woman might not get the guy who’s top shelf material, but she will get a guy who she herself consideres somewhere in that area. An ugly man, has to settle for whatever he can get. If you and I were to be out in a competition, I guarantee 100% that you’re man, will be way more attractive than my woman. If we were to chose from the “low caliber” partners

Yeah I see a lot of people dragging Taty in the comment section but I thought she was great. Gave some great insight and perspective

This girl is going to end up with no family unless she changes quick.

@@markedwards7721 I think the exact opposite she has some sense

@@markedwards7721 Youre probably an AMS diehard 😝

@@frankgathers4174 I think so too 🤣

You're welcome

@@TheRoommatesPodcast beware of the bodylanguage. Watch it muted, you're bouth heavily slouched and she's strong. Just sayin', inner shows to the outher... Cheers. Keep improving.

@@Ematuresco her body language was more masculine, because of that their body language was feminine

Well, we already knew your IQ was higher than hers but good comment.

@@joeymillbach7983 😂 Come on, I’m just sharing my opinion. I don’t think I’m smarter than her.

We know it’s not financially .. she already said that ...so we can assume it’s emotionally. It seems to me she’s saying women want to know he needs her and brings something to him that he doesn’t have and can’t have by himself. (One thing they didn’t mention here is the traditional female role of cooking, cleaning, homemaking etc. It’s historically been these areas where you find the answer to the question ... that men especially valued a woman’s expertise or presence here and depended on women not just for the emotional but for domestic skills that were valued. But many men now say cooking and cleaning have already been learned and mastered and women aren’t necessary for this. Eating out has changed the entire US food game with the rise of the US restaurant, even fast food restaurants, making people’s meals fast, affordable and easy. And the accessibility of prepared/semi-prepared foods/processed food (throw a microwave in a pot) and the microwave and hours of meal prep from scratch have been reduced to 4mins and a button not to mention all of it now delivered to you) so a woman isn’t needed for that either This role game has completely changed that’s why - in fairness - she’s searching for an answer. In addition to her domestic role being diminished to men, the emotional role has shifted. She wants to feel needed to fill an emotional gap but we’re filling those needs with all kinds of substitute things now. The one thing that remains is babies and family and some are doing that from a lab. Roles, other than that, have shifted. The world has changed.

@@shookone568 - She's just moving her lips, and enjoying hearing the words that comes out if her mouth. Her life experience is as deep and as vast as her feeling of the outside world. Not because of the trials of life she's faced and overcame or accomplished.

Women don’t like when the roles of men & women are reversed because they will have to take accountability and do things men have to do 24/7 according to the world & what society aka people say.

Whew boy am I glad I stumbled across this video & this comment, THANK YOU!!!!

AMEEEEN

Love it!

I adore this young lady’s viewpoint and less dramatic responses. Her youth is definitely showing on display here with her whole “misogyny “ references in regards to men having desires or perspectives. She displayed nor objectivity to the conversation and started to personalize it more. She’s conflated social constructs against biology. She hasn’t quite figured out that we desire different things from each other.

I completely agree with you, I personally think she was talking and analysing the different prospectives with experience. I think she is more mature than the girl of her age

Nobody is nitpicking she isn't Feminine. Just cause you look good don't make you feminine. 😐 and yes she open minded but she's a opportunist she will never be satisfied with whoever she is dating even if dude is the richest man emotionally mature man in the world she will find something...tough tough road ahead she going to be a Cat/Dog Lady.(And notice Dogs are coming up now because they're well aware of the Cat lady stigma just cause you get a dog don't make it no difference) just my opinion based off the video

She was outnumbered but in parts definitely a little too combative and very dismissive in regards to the roommates points on the male dating/relationship experience. But I did prefer that she wasn't being agreeable just for the sake of it.

@@SkyraXD How did you come to the conclusion that she will never be satisfied?

@@beijaflor2222 i came to that conclusion off how she answered Hafeez questions based off the video. In my opinion i think Opportunist are just as bad as Cheaters. Look up the definition of a opportunist..

She's smarter than them, that's why she danced around some questions and they didn't catch on.

What are you talking about she kept blaming abstract things like society instead of answering questions?

I pay you to leave not to stay

@@ablebodied175 exactly

How is dancing around questions smart?

Exactly.

This is how it’s supposed to be but when men can’t admire the women he wants. Men tend to leave and women get upset but we have to understand if the man is admirable then the women should be as well.

@@davaughn2376 agreed. Just for different reasons. Bc our purposes are different.

@USMC DEVIL DOG 1) My desire for a man starts with his desire for me. If he loses interest, so do I. 2) desire=want to be with long term/marry. There is nothing else for me personally. You’re either marriage potential or you’re friend potential. And i don’t have sex with friends. 3) that depends on what the man values/is looking for/ready for.

@USMC DEVIL DOG i’m fully aware. As I stated, My desires are based on admiration, not perfection. You vet and commit to the CORE of who someone is b/c the rest is subject to change. Fully aware that marriage is service.

Not true

@@HDxPolo yes true it ain't really a relationship otherwise

Women don’t understand men but got the nerve to explain what men want in a woman🤦🏿‍♂️

@@KingComp67_-io3iz we know what men want but it’s kinda shitty

@@AC-ri2ph Name all the things men want vs what women all what I’ll tell which one is shitty... Don’t lie either name all for women too I’ll wait...

@@AC-ri2ph Name what men want. You can't criticize something without stating what it is. Because a guy could easily say the same thing about women.

Men want a peaceful non combative mentally supportive woman who takes care of her health (not fat) and will nurture his offspring. That's it. Ok your turn ladies.

Not any man, I said it wouldn't be justified to say I NEED a six figure man if I wasn't making six figures, just to clarify!

@@TatyCokley Can’t help but respect that mindset. A lot of women as attractive as you think their looks alone qualify them for a man of a certain income level so respect the fact you push yourself to the level you want your man to be. Overall you were great in this interview definitely will check out your channel

@GOAT1199 😂

@@TatyCokley that's noble, But a six figured man would want you for your looks not your six figures.

@GOAT1199 facts

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May you go into depth on your comment please. I would like to know your thoughts and reasoning behind the quote.

Because majority of these videos people post on these platforms, talks about a male that’s 6ft tall and makes 6 figures. To majority of the population that’s a fairytale. Where are the relationship videos that talk about Love, someone treating you right, good Sex, doesn’t make 6 figures, but has a great paying job. “why settle” most people in their life will never find that “perfect person” that checks off every box on their list.

@@dropknow1edge I'm 6ft with 6 figures and I wouldn't take any women from this society serious. Alot of young men will soon start making alot of money and I don't believe many want a relationship at all with the mindset of today's women. Invest in catfood and vibrators

@@marcusmccloud8394 Social Media has a lot of influence over the way people think nowadays. There’s too much half naked females online for some people to just settle for one person.

@@marcusmccloud8394 😂😂😂💯

Yeah

Your all not that GREAT. Stop the madness

@@pyt8344 He's the GOAT

unfortunate truth.. hopefully collectively we can flip the script

@@d.7203 it's not even me 🤣😂 try again. I'm far from a BASICA

@@pyt8344 if you were a 10 your real pic would be up

This is Factz they should post a disclaimer

She's ignorant because she's attractive.

Facts lol

i want her to talk to Kevin samuels fr

"yeah I knwo science..but let's disregard it totally"

@@danj8038 Kevin would challenge her whole existence in minutes.

@@danj8038 I want this as well

I don’t really see where she’s being combative like everyone is saying

Same here!! I'm Japanese/white and i used to go for only white or Asian guys but ended up with a Hispanic guy and i wouldn't want it any other way😂

The bible is not real!

Extremely poor methodology