A farm guy would be the ultimate man for me. If only I was using my smarts and move somewhere where there is country (will never accomplish that living in the big city)

ummmm YES! As a Floridian, I was walking in NYC and I had a funny convo with a construction-looking guy in the city. He had a guy harvey shirt tucked into straight -leg medium blue jeans that were pulled over his boots. I said "What part of ___ county you from?" and he lit up! He was a contractor from my hometown traveling for a project, and I'd hit the nail on the head lol. He's not rich, but he has a lovely home and trucks and a successful small business. I can't get enough of this kind of level-headed country boy

Awww Nya, that’s cool! 👍

Kit Kat, you picked the wrong farms 😁

@Kit Kat the less smelly farmers are those that deal with crops or goats, horses and sheep. And the worst smelling are chicken, cow and pig farmers. I've lived in rural areas all my life.

and heart too

My husband 🙌🏽

Yessss. Especially when they appreciate their women. 🥺

I agree

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So true

Agreed

Agreed

I don’t understand women who agree to be mistresses or the other woman for a few pieces of silver. I wonder if they realize how much they’re hurting the wife and kids.

@@fairdose no, the cheating man hurting HIS wife and HIS children.

Same 💜

Yes!

Anonymous65 good girl

Same

anonymous.. I agree... many thanks 💯👫👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨

Yes Swiss men are the best

OMG 😳 I got the same impression❤️❤️👍🏾 That’s the kind of guy I like as well lollll 😉

Great observation. I didn't notice that.

I also noticed...Good for her!

Yeah and that chuckle😊, like she had a secret.

Thats the most satisfying and fulfilling love

I'm a man of God and I don't live for money. In fact covetousness is a sin. We need to be good stewards of our money. PSALM 37:16 A little that a righteous man hath is better than the riches of many wicked

I fee like that should be the perfect scenario.

Now, imagine all this, plus money.

@@CloseYourFuckinEyes yes..

That's a nice way of saying "Black men with money burning in their pockets who are willing to wine and dine you", typically, this isn't sustainable, but very helpful information for this demographic. They're starter boyfriends, I guess lol. Start there. I've "dated" (using this term super loosely) a couple men who were good for bottle service and a mani or bundles, maybe nice lingerie and an outfit or two, but the cars are always rented and theres always 50 other women on rotation. It's good for the come up I guess. They typically prefer white women anyway.

Lol, for sure! I wasn't expecting that either.

Same 🤣

BJ22 “Boo”?! 🙄😂 I wasn’t referring to Black men who aren’t in the music industry, and neither was she.

😂

Belletaina I absolutely agree, I find it elegant for men when they are not flashy.

girl, i do not know about the rich farmer. I am scared we will not match

Yes, please.

Yes to that. 🥰

@@marcelleines5176 ..Both of My Grandfa are from Rich Farmers.. Anna was Right, usually they marry women on there Area.. The Girl that they knew since Childhood.

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🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂

AALofts Design I would’ve snatched him up in a heartbeat 💓.

@@azra5648 same!

Brain Storm Interesting, thanks for sharing 😎

Thank you for advice! I really get along and get attracted to finance men, maybe cause my previous job was connected with budgeting! Some of them do party hard but I’ve met some very grounded and respectful men among them as well :)

@@vicd8346 thats awesome, I'm happy for you! there are great men in finance indeed :)

@@TheNicoliyah happy to help :)

Brain Storm there are different types of finance guys like Anna said. In my experience I have seen a lot of party guys who (unfortunately) sleep around and date a lot of women in a short period of time. But there are also those more quiet, introverted guys who also are common in finance. Yes, they wear suits and look expensive when they are working but on weekends they are very laid back. They often settle for a smart and educated woman who is not flashy but attractive and classy.

It's actually too bright for her, it makes her skin look really pale

@@regularity2556 I agree

Regularity Agreed

@@regularity2556 I agree ... C looks pale

@@regularity2556 I agree, it draw attention away from her. Pastels work much better on her though

🤮its not a womans job to help a man pay for life

Successful women can be assets but should not be an expectation!

These guys just too weak

Well, that means he can relax and let her carry the burden. How nice for him.😂 I'm not old fashioned but a woman should do it because she wants to not because it is expected or in order to catch and keep a man or simply to be his bragging point like a champion steed.

Like a champion steed or broodmare?

Thanks for explenation🙂

I lived in China for a few years (nearby Hong Kong) and i can confirm it from i have heard an seen there. Very interesting thing i've heard from my Chinese friend is that mistress is usually 20 or over years younger and he pays her all bills including luxurious life (e.g.car). Greetings from Bosnia and Herzegovina.

Tina Leder This is my experience with musicians also

LMAO 💀🤣 I'm not sure if you know what you just did with this comment.

I can't deal with anyone in the music industry, it's too risky.

They're usually completely infatuated with themselves and their art. I don't date musicians anymore. 💁

@@ms.x1669 apparently not😂😂😂

100% true

Just think about Rihanna with the arab rich guy she dated

Arab women have strong personalities and they control everything in the family even the man trust me

Maria Al-Masani I disagree.

Stay away from those men from those culture. Uncivilized people who treats anyone out of their kind as second human. Very twisted belief, as a western woman, you're actually not only allowed to be bed but also to be killed, based on religious rule. They are better being left off with their kind. Believe me I was unfortunate enough to be born among them, as one of them, I am familiar with their way of thinking. Religious rule that can be twisted according to their need so they can have peace of mind (do the thing they like without making God angry or something). A lot of things blew my mind on how selfish and inhumane this culture is. What made me sad, their own women will somehow defend these men behavior because maybe some kind of Stockholm syndrome.

Lmao soo true. I wish men like him luck, we can fake that money don't matter in the dating phase but later on in the relationship....

So true!!! Also he moves forward very very slow and careful, often times they are stingy, even sending flowers is something out of their comfort zone. :))))

Spot on

So accurate! Lol. I married one.

I immediately thought of Graham Stephan from LA. He wears H&M tshirts of 3 dollars and has a new Tesla.

Timelessa VanRoe that’s lovely dear

😩❤❤

Awww...excited for you. Enjoy it.

Awww...excited for you. Enjoy it.

@Timelessa VanRoe, now that our prayers for you have been answered, let's switch our focus on me in unison, shall we? 💪

@@TsarOfRuss, you nailed it!

yep

Been looking for one for years.

@@cmaj4887 I found mine while we were in high school and way before his success. We have a lot of similar interest and he can geek out with me. He is also street smart, a minority, social and good looking, so he’s not the “typical tech guy”.

Similar to Morocco, divorce is not an option always because of tradition and what others will say even tho the woman is aware of the cheating husband. Usually these women are + 50 and are dependent on their husbands financially.

CelineBisous i will never understand why any woman in any culture would want to be a “side chick” and why they do not see their insignificance.

Heartbreaking!

@@scarlettebaudelaire3898 these women sometimes need money desperately , sometimes they are just happy with what they have. And , they have the option to leave and start anew.

It's common among Asian men, not just Chinese.

i agree. this vid was fun. more man tips plzzz

Yesss this was a great video. It made me pay attention in a whole new way

Easy for tech men: Be white or asian(they'll marry them fat/skinny...dumb or smart), if you're latina be more classy, excluding indian women since they wont have the same struggles. If you're a black or biracial black woman good luck chuck. Working as a swe among swe making bank they just generally arent checking for bw.

PrincessMoo Moo False!

@@princessmoo4891 not true. Plenty of black women with wealthy men.

Exactly why this video is pointless. This is what men do across the board.

For sure

@Eva Green Lover they can hire nannies and au pairs. The kids are for the legacy.

Finance guys are typically creeps. Powerhungry Daddy Doms on coke with sad kinks and weird fetishes. Ew, I'll permanently pass.

Nya Smith 😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Yup Alma matters mean a lot to them . It’s the pedigree they are looking for

Sis..im right there with you

Lol those men tend to be black guys 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Levelup boo ahaha very tru as well 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Ruru Home says alot about our men 😫😫

i think that sugardaddys dont choose. You should only be 30years youngrt then them😂

@@mrsrubycoco55 thats not always true, alot of sugar daddy want a model type young female

We all still need to know how to behave properly. ALL of us. So, kudos to you! 😀

Jenni K. I, too, am engaged to a wonderful man. I’m watching Anna Bey so as to maintain my elegance and continue to have him content and adoring me. 😘

Exactly. She is really teaching good stuff that make a real lady. So I sometimes find it uncomfortable when she constantly mentions rich men in most her videos

@@mariaalmasani hmm... u hv a good point there. I love her videos n personality only sometimes it feels if u hv subscribed or watching, it's bcos u want a rich man. I don't hv a problem with that tho n well who wouldn't want that but I think learning to present oneself is better above anything else. May be it's because I'm already married that why it feels awkward sometimes but cool anyways n love her regardless

I adore the entire discussion that spawned off of my original comment. I often felt guilty getting pleasure from her videos, not all of then, just these ones in particular. However, knowing I'm not alone is a relief, and you are all absolutely correct in your own reasonings for enjoying her content. I especially appreciate Maria mentioning how lucky we are, in our current extreme state of political correctness, to have someone so honest & straight forward to turn to. It is very inspirational. To be honest, in the feminist world we now live in, I have often been made to feel bad for wanting to be classy & affluent. It was always something I wanted for myself, not for getting a man, but I still often get shamed for wanting to present myself in a pleasing fashion, and I'm always very grateful to see how kind, appreciative & respectful the comment section here is! So, thank you to all of you for sharing your reasoning & thoughts with me. I genuinely appreciate hearing them & also appreciate knowing that I am far from alone!

Do women want a man who is genuine or a rich man? People can't love money and God at the same time.

@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 A man can be genuine and rich, (I know isn't common) but lots of poor men aren't loyal either.

@@dianavivaldi4503 Do you guys think a person can love God and money at the same time?

@@patriciastewart2537 I think that if people use the money to feed the needy and help the homeless it's great. I don't think that schools teach kids lessons they need in life like survival and God. To me this world is getting eviler and more ungodly by the day. I may get married but no children. Also no wasting money on flashy things.

@@jesuschristsavesfromhellst4432 I can name plenty of rich men in the Bible. Job, Solomon, David, Boaz, etc. Money doesn't always have to be a negative thing.

I agree 😁

😆😆i love the sound of that

@@shaqeeras625 we will figure out :)

Most men are just looking for sex. This is from a man. I am a follower of Jesus Christ so I am looking for a God fearing wife. Who I can honour and she can submit to me.

Yasss

Wow you girls are selfish asf

honey Singh they lie, they’re cat ladies

@@MattieK09 yeah woman are not worth it now

honey Singh but the real question, do you care what women want?

@@annathepiper7964 why do I care ? Btw I know what woman want is money

what % of the population do you think are available rich/affluent men? It cant be very high, because by definition they would not be affluent if there were many around

Me too

How did you find him?

How did you find it, what places do you advise me to go? and how should i behave? I await your advice 🙂

the nerdy one and low key one are simpler and have more respect for women. They are not as selfish as other types of rich man.

@@kv911 get a job in a large company i guess

also why im soo happy to have found your channel

I wonder why men can get away looking like that, dress the way he wants, while women have to be elegant. In a way, we can say kim Kardashian is just being herself yet I see women here bash her as improper. I'd say I'm jealous of women who don't conform, just like this nerdy guys who also don't

@@nextstep9689 Haha, sorry I know I'm 3 years late, but... Speaking as someone who grew up around these nerdy tech guy types and still has friendships with several, I'd say it's simply because these guys have almost all their attention focused on their specific areas of interest, and just can't bring themselves to care about other things that much. To them, trying to be "acceptable" according to society is just a pointless waste of energy that could be spent on more interesting pursuits. They are not emotionally affected by social disapproval other than experiencing mild annoyance at the inconvenience, so they don't have the same inner "shame" mechanism that drives the rest of us to conform. Of course, the degree to which each tech guy will exhibit these traits is on a spectrum, but there are enough guys in the world toward the extreme end that the rest of society basically gave up on trying to make them conform lol. Especially since they produce so much technological innovation. That's why they get away with it!

that's classic blue. it is the 2020 color of the year

I believe she is a natural brunette.

Haha

Me hahahahaha

😂😂😂

😀😀😀

Wow that’s similar to my culture (Turkmen). But another variation has been becoming trendy also - a man marrying and divorcing one woman after another, each time living with one for a few years and then marrying a new young one. Thus, this guy theoretically provides for all 3-5 of his wives (current and former).

Chinese men have difficulty finding a woman due to more women pursuing education and Western men instead of these self centered new rich Chinese guys. And due to the one child policy, most families aborted the female fetuses, so less women of marrying age are now available. So sad!

Hells Angel Marry a rich Chinese guy especially when his mother still alive is like going to hell. (I’m half Chinese 😂)

@kshiftkometh I know. Lately, I heard about the organ harvesting of people who belong to an opposing political group. They take the organs of the prisoners while they are alive because they see them as non humans with value. Anyway, that goes beyond the video and I hope that ladies who want to pursue rich Chinese men are well aware of the cultural differences and values.

@kshiftkometh Why? Divorce is a right, and these women aren't being played, they all recieve benefits after the divorce, a wife always recieve benefits even after divorce.

@Thalia Batchom, I thought my eyes lied

@@lolitazavala1879 lol lol lol

Everybody knows that Leo is gay. His model girl friends got a contract and after two years they are free and famous and he gets the next one.

@@doroparker1702 Come on thats crap since his gay why he just say it since now it ok

@@doroparker1702 Where's the proof?

Seriously, this happened to a friend of mine but I had no idea it was something finance guys just do, and neither did she. My friend is seriously gorgeous but very sophisticated looking. And she dresses very sophisticatedly in most situations. She is a belly dancer, however. Not as her main profession, but just at times around her regular job. Nothing scandalous, just dancing, and she only dresses in costume for her shows. He'd have to go to these meetings that were in relation to his work and often she'd have to go too, or at least that would be expected once they were married. Of course, she always dressed very elegantly for those, and in every other area of her life in actuality. He didn't complain often about her dancing but would do so at times, and she knew he wanted her to quit. Even though she dressed elegantly all the time, except when she's dancing for an event, he was worried this would embarrass him in front of colleagues (as if they'd ever see her that way or even know of it). They were engaged, about to get married. They'd even had the engagement party already and the wedding was within a couple weeks or so. Suddenly, he dumps her, just like that. Boom. After reading in the comment above, I guess he liked her gorgeous appeal on one hand but felt the need to try to subdue her on the other and when it didn't seem like she'd comply, he cut her. He did try to get her back a couple months later, but she was over it by then. Now she's married to a great guy who's even more upscale than he ever was. She did far better for herself in the end.

angelic sparkles I experienced that most men (even overweight unattractive ) believe they deserve a beautiful woman beyond that which the can get. I think they should realize they get what the give. Period.

I see her as a very elegant bombshell. An aspirational figure, for sure!

Omg why?

I was just thinking that, Nadine. They are the only group to whom a highly educated woman is an aphrodisiac. Their culture values the traditional professions very much, and nowadays often marry another professional.

Is it true that they have a thing with Asian women, like "the Social network " movie states?

I was surprised this wasn’t on the list too!

Jewish men oftentimes have mistresses as well. Usually when they marry younger, they're not too concerned of her status, but they do like educated women.

The Illuminati type 😂

Anita Lewis, you're so beautiful 💓💓💓💓💓❤

Any insight on them?

Yes! I was wondering about them too! I’m from the US but my family is Italian. And I’d really like to marry an Italian man since the culture feels so familiar. ❤️

Let's say young women and even less young women from all over the world are rushing to Italy, guess why 🤔

@@ottie1954 why?

All of them date supermodels, actresses and singers. Take a look at Tom Brady, David Beckham, and so on. Best case scenario, they marry women who helped them to build their careers.

@@Chahlie I guess the lucky ones are those who belong to their circle. i.e doctors, physiotherapists, psychologists, other sportswoman. Antoine Griezmann for instance married his college girlfriend and they have 3 kids now. Leo Messi as well. Other than that, professional athletes tend to be players and cheaters. There are creepy stories about American footballers' wife. They literally let them to have as many mistresses as they want.

I like tennis player, but 99% of the times they choose other tennis player. I guess, they have few time together and they like to spend it with their similar. I noticed that sporty people don't care about intelligence, but in some sports (like football, soccer..) it's a competition to have the most beautiful girl

@@Morgana5886 yes spot on they love beautiful, brainy and youthful, outdoorsy women!

I my country, sport guys usually marry runway models, who stop their modelling career after marriage and become housewives and sometimes part-time designers

​@T Collins What I am trying to say here is that China has adopted more modern moral which shared by other culture nowadays as well -- the people who step into or break the marriage is ashamed. In the Asian history, having joy wives were legal and accepted by the official wife, but nowadays, it never got accepted by the official wife or the society, lovers can never talk about they are lovers in public, as they will be accused and ashamed by others. And there are so many cases and news like wife destroy lover's faces or beat the lover on the street, this only won't happen in old Asian history but happens now, you see the difference? And recently, the new Chinese law gives more protection to the wife that the wife can claim back all the assets and money the husband gave the lover as it is considered as couple's common assents , means, the authorities, police and court will help the wife to get assets back. So from the moral perspective and legal perspective, this behaviour is no longer accepted and there are ways to punish lovers.

I won't comment on your other words, only your last setence made me laugh. "Chinese men are very generous." They are generous only to mistresses, because they know they are buying sex from them. Most of them are not generous at all to their employees, to strangers or to those who really need help.

@@sheme4225 Yes, you are very right about this, Thanks for the comments, I totally agree.

Lately I'm hearing a lot of feminist movement in China. It's such a good news!

Chinese men are not generous. I have dated one in the past. No no no, even though he had a lot of money and I would go out of my way to go and see him. And also knew when I was struggling financially - never even gave anything and we dated for 9 months. I thought he was very stingy money wise.

It's her Swedish accent, lol ca-TEH-gory.

@@sersastark it's adorable lol

Me too! I say it this way in my head bc of her, lol

Body TV yes I agree

Some of them like curvy women kind like Kim Kardashian but has to be intelligent.. it also depends on the guy

@@misssamba5674 exactly. I noticed that a lot of them marry their classmates or women they met in their universities.

They mostly stick with women from their tribe/country.

Im nigerian and agree..the ethnic love thing is strong here especially in Nigeria..Ghana is heading towards mixed these days but Nigeria is still Hausa goes with Hausa, Fulani , Yoruba and so on

That can happen with a broke man. Keep your legs closed and you'll have nothing to worry about

Until he gets enough money and status to pursue a high calibre woman he always wanted to be with...Best way to keep a man is to be the woman he always fantasized about. And trust me, no high value man fantasizes about building his life together with Pamela Anderson/Kim K/Scarlet Jo/etc. Thats the last thing on their mind when they are picturing their dream woman lol

Green Belle Loki😉

Green Belle bitter much? 😂

Green Belle I’m not young lol or naive I vetted my spouse well and we have been married a long time started and grew one business just started a second. Both of us come from families that value commitment. Please keep your projecting and pessimism to yourself.

@@melindazikursh8825 Its a fact tho, there are multiple and multiple cautionary tales on this exact phenomenon, good luck tho :)

Eva Green Lover We met online before meeting irl. When I visited him, I was surrounded by these massive houses and then I met his parents. I learned that his father owns a company that he is actually working for and that they were actually wealthy. But it did explain everything. However, there are some really flashy affluent people in that area, his family is more on the humble side which I loved so much. Another things is that they are very wise with how they handle their money. They may have all this money, but they still are very frugal with it.

I'm sorry it sounded that way. I think I was referring to something she said in the video, I actually don't remember my thought process when I said that. Maybe just watching different cultures and how they interact romantically🤷🏽‍♀️ I happen to have a deep love for Asia and two of my precious daughters are Chinese. I'm sorry if my statement came across as offensive. ❤️

😂😂 totally fine! That is so something I would do! No worries at all!!❤️