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Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most.

Man hate is celebrated but calling women out on their crap is seen as unacceptable. S/o to all the hard working men and fathers out there. Don’t let these idiots ruin your day.

If men don't deserve a mental health month, then neither should women! That's true equality!

Women suffer - "yes!!" Men suffer - "yes, but women also suffer!!"

You know anytime someone calls attention to the breaking of gender roles, it ultimately undermines the concept of gender equality by implying that this is an exception and not the status quo. -Knuckles the Echidna

To any guys in the comments, hoped you had a happy Men Mental Health Awareness Month! You all matter too!

I am a woman and whenever I hear this toxic diatribe about men it pisses me off. I love and adore my father, brothers, nephew and husband. Heck I get along better with my brothers than I do with my sisters (who I also love but we get along a lot better now as adults than we did as children.) And just the thought of someone treating any of them the way these toxic hypocrites treat other men infuriates me! Men and women should not be treated like different species we can’t exist without each other and no one should be treated as inferior because of something they CANNOT change.

Trying to treat both genders equally and not hating eachother for two nanoseconds is apparently impossible

"All men just complain about evil feminism" - the evil, misandrist, feminist. 2023

I was a feminist when MEN would fix my plumbing, MEN would escort me to places (cab) safely, some creepy but most good, MEN would be concerned for me solely for the fact I’m a woman, MEN would help me first in one accident solely because I’m a woman; Then I stopped being a feminist because without my father, without these men, I don’t know where I’d be right now

I used to laugh at the "fatherless behavior" jokes, but everytime when I see threads like those, I am reminded at how true and rampant that statement is

"Also, arguably, men are more egoistical and might think less about how their death will impact others so they're less likely to push through for the sake of everyone else." I'm 19 and I work in Hyundai factory to feed myself, my mom and 2 siblings, and literally the only thing that stops me from offing myself when both physical and mental stress smash me down on my knees is thinking about my family and how hard would it be for them if I was gone, so idiots like this really get under my skin sometimes.

Note: We constantly hear about how men are terrible, psychotic, abusive, manipulative etc. from these people, so clearly the answer should be helping men's mental health resources which are bare bones and faulty, right? Yet the moment we try to do that, suddenly it's a bad thing for 'taking focus off of women' and 'acting like men have things so bad'. It just sends a resounding message to men: "if you aren't useful to us, we want you to suffer and die miserable"

I was today years old when I found out there *was* a men's mental health month. Struggling with depression myself, thanks.

As someone with ADHD and autism, I was mostly bullied by other kids a lot and didn't say anything because the few times I tried, said students would act innocent (An equal number of boys and girls), and the teacher (mostly women, one bad one in particular) would disregard what I had to say. So I learned that "professionals" were either stupid or didn't care, I couldn't cry when I was upset, I couldn't show any form of frustration because I'd be the one punished, so I was pushed to at one point consider committing die. Yes I had to fix myself, but I later found people who helped me a lot, taught me self care and became my biggest support network. I wish I had known the things I do now sooner. Edit: Nine months later and thank you for all the support, things have been up and down but I'm still here despite it all, it's nice to see some decent people are out there

these women are just proving WHY men also need a mental health month, because we also have our own problems. The more we help eachother, the less murder-suicides/regular suicides we'll see.

As a wiseman once said, "I have NEVER met a happy feminist" and judging by those comments I'd have to say no of those feminists are happy.

The fact that that woman considered leaving her husband over a 250k salary is so ridiculous. the average is like 25k a year. That just goes to show how spoiled this person was growing up.

As a left leaning person. This is the biggest gripe I have with the left. We put men in no-win situations. We tell them to do better. Then we berrate them for trying to do better. If femenists want to empower women, I stand by them 100%. The instant they start spouting vile nonsense like "All men are pigs" That person becomes dead to me.

I'm 26 and I have yet to meet a woman near my age worth the effort. I've stopped trying since the last time I was used. My ex cheated and tried to baby trap me with a pregnancy scare, and tried to date 5 other people within 2 weeks before doing any test. She was all gung-ho on child care and making me pay for it regardless, not taking any responsibility. I bought 4 tests and left that lunatic once I knew she got 4 negative tests. My trust with people on an intimate level has been shattered. It wasn't the only time I was screwed over, but it just tops the cake, and thank God it wasn't worse.

_"Men get mental health awareness, women most affected."_ It's always interesting how they keep going on about this alleged "Patriarchy" when both society and the law are quite pro-woman.

It's funny how every woman I personally know (maybe with the exception of one of my sisters) is an amazing person but the nebulous blob of internet women are filled with the most petty, hateful, ignorant and punchable people alive.

"What do men talk about with other men?" Well last time I talked with my friend he and I debated wether or not we thought Edward The Confessor was the last Saxon or the first Norman King of England.

"Men don't deserve a month to further their egos." ...🤔...Holy Jezus! You know whats ironic about this picture?🤯 Pride month.🙄

Unironically.... I want to meet the woman who understands what it is like to never feel unconditional love for 30+ years.

If we don't deserve a month then neither do they

Many of us faced discrimination since our education. Our sisters got much more praise and love from parents than us boys. They ended up confident and successful. We ended up feeling unworthy and sad.

My father died when I was in my 6th grade. My mom single handedly went on a study spree for 2 years and got a job as a teacher for special children. We're a family of 4,amd I'm the youngest, my other 2 sisters don't even have a job but even in that tough situation, we pushed through because of my mom. NOW my sister got a job, my mom got transfered to a nearby place where the commute is 20 mins, it used to be 2 hrs before. My other sister also got a job, and we're good. All thanks to my mom, she'll take my years and live longer

That one comment that said most men don't support eachother got me morbidly laughing. As a woman can comfortably say that no one hates women more than other women.

That one comment mocking men for “boo hooing” is literally proving the point for the month. “Men are more likely to end themselves early” Can’t have that discussion tho, gotta minimize it. Well anyway, have a great day yall, take care of yourselves. Also some good advice from Hei at the end, find something positive you can work on and enjoy to get away from the nonsense and noise, like art, weightlifting, or hiking (Late heart pls Hei?)

". .. month to further their egos" that could be taken as an admission that that's what she does all of women's month

I didn’t even know we had a mental health month

this is BEYOND disgusting to see...and they wonder why men dont want to be around them when THEY THEMSELVES talk horribly about men's mental health "blaming" them for thier problems...as i male myself i almost NEVER talk about my problems due to fear of being talked down to for it and THIS kinda stuff further feeds into it for others like me...these women need to take an education course

The amount of misandry I see online is sickening... I'm glad the women I actually know aren't assholes like these people.

When a woman is depressed, people will come out of the woodwork to help. Men with depression will suffer in silence, then people will act surprised if they snap. Women also use tactics in self-termination that can be easily survived, while men choose more effective means

I remember reading a story of a woman who killed her children and husband, so no murder suicide isn't just a male thing.

Us guys matter, too. It's not just a "Pride" thing. Are we just disposable now?

It is funny to someone to think that women are the ones that push through and think everything is their own fault and posits it as a good thing. In the meanwhile this same behavior is touted as toxic masculinity in men as men think they need to be self-sufficient and asking for help is a bad thing. Double standards...

I'm a woman and even I'm disgusted by this attitude towards men

It amazes me that, no matter where I look, the mentality of “treat others how you want to be treated” only applies to themselves and not others.

Man: **parents died and suicidal dont know who and how to get help** feminist: "it's the patriarchy you built!"

"...women will exhaust every possibility before giving up," Sounds like their range of possibilities are as narrow as their line of thinking.

You know it’s kinda sad how June originally being men’s Mental health months gets completely forgotten under the shadow of Pride month it’s getting too much

In terms of mental health, I see myself as a waste of oxygen, and I sincerely hope my end arrives soon. Wish for it every day, as the first words out of my mouth when I wake up and all I can think about at work. But even then, I still recognize that I'm above people like this who are so numb to the suffering of others. It doesn't give me hope for my own life, and certainly not hope for humanity. But even as worthless dreck, knowing that I'm a better human than these monsters makes me feel a little better.

And they wonder why men are going their own way?

One of the main characters of my upcoming novel franchise was born in June, aka Men's Mental Health Month. I picked this month specifically to showcase its importance. So for women to make it out to be a one-up contest sickens me and makes me ashamed as a woman as well as a person.

That poor woman has to switch from butter to margarine. Only 250k a month. That´s inhuman.

These are the same people that say “feminism is for everyone”

"Mental health is important ❤" mfs when people that commit suicide more often have a month to bring awareness for this issue:

When a lot of us men just want to be held from time to time and supported with affirmation. That's all we need. Give a man enough motivation and love. We will move mountains for you.

This is why I don't feel bad about being single. I don't want to run into one of these.

Good advice in the end man and may all the bros had a great happy men mental health awareness month

It's telling that whenever the idea of empathy towards men is brought up one of the first responses by these feminist types is something involving ego. It's telling because if a month for men is about ego first and foremost then that is the motivation for all the other months as well - and most activism by extension. They tell on themselves without even realizing it...

as a guy i protect my mental health by staying off twitter about 99% of any given day.

sad thing is not many people talk about this or as often enough. i didnt even realise it was men's mental health month and now the months over. the month dedicated to spreading awareness is failing to do the most basic and fundamental thing it set out to do.

How does this man not go blind from reading so much Twitter? It's like having a staring contest with the sun

If any men are reading this, I just wanna say your health is VERY IMPORTANT. Forget about the dumb Twitter women. You matter, and there is someone out there who knows you, loves you, and wants you to succeed in life. There is someone out there who wants you around. There is someone who wants to see you and listen to you. You are loved and cared for here if nowhere else. Men's mental health is important, and we should ALL take it seriously.

This kind of reminded me of a saying. "Getting Old is an Inevitability while being Mature is a choice" Guess that applies to those sorts of people

Shout out to my dad for the fact he did alot to help my mom during times when i was being born then when i was diagnosed with a health issue, he helped my mom take care of baby me till i was able to eat solid food and wasnt screaming at my moms chest cause eating and drinking was so painful due to my acid reflux. I still have flare ups to today and i apperaciate everything my dad does. He is amazing.

I see a huge amount of projecting here. Literally, everything these women accused men of doing is something that THEY THEMSELVES DO!!!

When these absolute monsters are dying old and alone because they're such miserable crones that nobody wants to be around them, somehow that will be men's fault too

That first story reminds me of a lot of karma stories where the man suddenly makes less, the woman leaves him for "better", then the man starts recovering on an insane level while the woman who dropped him gets dumpstered by life only to come crawling back to beg for another chance.

2:18 (Referring to background footage) - that's what we like to call a "Target rich environment" - you don't even need to aim well, you're going to hit something

I think it was less than a month ago when a "woman/newly made man" whined somewhere saying that "guys don't talk to each other or give each other hugs" and that being a guy is "lonely" And now when people try to do that, we get "Men don't need their egos stroke."

Just remember lads, when they ask for help. They're strong and independent and don't need us. Let them be and focus on yourself.

This just illustrates how far some people are willing to go to try to prove how immature, insecure, and shallow they truly are. Accountability is the way to reverse some of this. They should take their own advice.

Women who legitimately think like this have never had a male friend; I can't imagine they would think or say things like this if they had a man they had complete platonic affection towards. Really, whichever gender you are, have at least one friend of the opposite. I have just one, and I see her as a sister, I love her so much.

If men need a mental health month or a man has a mental health issue that's the opposite of an ego... That's the acknowledgement they have a problem. That exact comment 6:00 is one of the biggest reasons why they self delete. And the exact opposite is happening. They think they're a problem for others and to not be that they exit out. It's the absolute worst thing you can say... Completely psychotic.

These people are weak. It's the only way I can describe it. How else could explain feeling the need to punch down on an entire demographic that is admitting it needs help? Pathetic weakness of character, moral fiber, and mind. If you need help, whoever or whatever you are, seek it out. There is no shame in it, indeed the humility of admitting one's limitations is the strongest character trait I can think of. Survive the ordeal with the aid of others and be ready to pay it forward. Survive because in doing so you can serve to correct the course of another where you might have stumbled. And if nothing else, survive just to spite these useless monsters navel gazing maliciously in their internet covens.

As a member of the male gender it is sad that people are dissregarding our mental health. We are all human for ffs mental health is important for everyone

This is sad. I am currently going through the shitter right now and I can't talk it out with anyone. Everytime I try to soeak out, I find myself holding out and stopping midway. Trying to push throught it. If anyone is also in the process of fixing their life, please know that you are not alone. I may not know or will ever see you but I am here dude let us push through together. We got this.

It is a shame that some do view it that way. Just a reminder of "Hey, just a reminder to take care yer mental health". At least in the positive amongst the negatives is that not all think this way

“The patriarchy they created” - this “society started in 2016” smoothbrain level of thought…

The first one reminds me of this Chris Rock comedy special quote: "Men cannot go backwards sexually, women cannot go backwards in lifestyle" 😂

1:12 "I also know my worth" yes, we all know don't worry about that

Wait what There is a month for this? Whaaat, never heard it

Could've fooled me, this month is always touted as exclusively for the pride of a certain community. TIL, I guess. 🤷🏾‍♂

Honestly, we gotta bring back mental asylums for many people

misandrics when they find out that men with good mental health do not decide to kill their partners or loved ones. XD

I didn't know Men's Mental Health month was a thing... As a man myself.

I've always found topics like this triggersome and hurtful as of late, since I've had the unfortunate experiences of dealing with women like this irl. Once upon a time when I did have woman friends, a lot of them used me as a shoulder to cry on when crap hit the fan or them in their lives, but immediately decide to end our friendships when they get hurt by some other man...so because of that I somehow get grouped up as a "piece of shit man" too. And now with this internet timeline we're in and women (some, most, idk) using it to proactively devalue men...it overall just makes me feel like I should just feel ashamed for just existing. Also doesn't help that I have a past record and history of un-aliving feels and moments for being born into a family that never wanted me in the first place...so yeah. DISCLAIMER though, I'm fine from watching the video. I'm just stating that these topics can be triggersome...usually, but at the moment I'm just super vibing and catching myself from going into some type of venting lol. Have a good one Hero, and Happy Men's Mental Health Awareness✌

I would like to tell all men out there that your mental health and well-being is just as valid as anyone else's. I'm so sorry for any women out there who believe that their mental health is more important than anyone else's just because of gender. Society has made it difficult for men to express themselves emotionally or mentally, but please know that I hope you all who are struggling have a wonderful day and that one day it will get better, even if it's just a little bit at a time. You deserve it ❤

Stuff like this makes me feel lucky I'm in a healthy relationship. My SO and I have each other's back. We're working our way to Super Power Couple, the envy of everyone else. Lol

NEVER mix narcissism with a victim complex!

This person really tried to say more women attempted sudoku in "less brutal methods", which basically translates to "attention". Being less lethal in a sudoku is literally counter intuitive because the lethality is THE POINT. I'm legitimately unsure if that person even realized that they had just argued that more men actually try to go through with it while more women do it for attention. But yeah these people blaming men for everything while saying men don't take responsibility for anything is just so weird. This idea that men are more viewed as victims in society is equally weird. Women tend to be viewed as the victim, even if they are actively the aggressor, and men seen as the aggressor even while they are being beaten on or viewed as weak for letting a woman beat on them despite being vilified if they were to fight back. It's a legitimate struggle to get people to care about a guy's mental health. They are shamed if they don't show emotion and try to be strong because that's toxic, but also shamed if they show weakness because they aren't being a man. Both those positions often being pushed by the same people. Most of the year women are viewed as frail victims who can do no wrong, it really shouldn't be an issue to have a month to recognize that men are people too and can in fact feel and hurt like anyone else.

A lot of the work men put in goes entirely unnoticed and often times under appreciated, we gotta normalize supporting our fellow man for real, start complimenting the homies yall!

listen here kings, keep at it whatever youre working on, if ya havent started weve all been there and sometimes go back there but just start it now. yall got this !

3:40 Men Who Murder Their Families: What the Research Tells Us by Bernie Auchter NIJ hosts a forum to discuss the problem and the warning signs that foreshadow these events. Cases where people kill their families and then commit suicide are mercifully rare. Less extreme forms of domestic violence and child abuse are more common. Acts of partner conflict can fall on a broad spectrum, ranging from verbal criticisms to cases of a family homicide followed by suicide. The research identifies several risk factors that may indeed predict more severe domestic violence cases. In a seminar titled Men Who Murder Their Families: What the Research Tells Us, an expert panel discussed a recent spike in news reports of “familicide” cases. Panelists included Jacquelyn C. Campbell of Johns Hopkins University, author David Adams, and Richard Gelles of the University of Pennsylvania.

Terrence Popp, a streamer who focuses on men's (and particularly veteran's) mental health, is someone to look into for any men dealing with these issues. Through humor and personal advice related to those issues, he's saved to date over 500 lives. Popp, btw, is US Airborne veteran dealing with the after affects of his service including PTSD and TBI (Traumatic Brain Injury). His videos on those topics have helped more men than can be counted and even pulled many back from the abyss.

Skeletor: HAH! JUST LIKE A WOMAN!

A relative of mine did that killed all her kids but one and now is locked up.

“All people are equal.” “But some are more equal.”

the whole reason it exists is to rasie awareness that men too can suffer from mental conditions. I"m a man and i suffer from PTSD anxiety and Depression. and I'm not ashamed to say so. out dated forms of masculinity don't really matter to me. what a real man is, is someone who will stand up for what is right. and treat others with respect. simple as.

Equality is crazy! Totally equal!

1:51 if i go on that post rn and i dont see everbody saying for her to leave that dude to trick her into being in a bad situation, i will seriously be disappointed in reddit

Whats that you don't want men to have good mental health? Don't mind if we get a bit abusive then

We live in a Gynocentric Society. What did you expect, Hero Hei?

This month was Men's Mental Health Month? No one would shut up about Pride Month long enough to notice....

Hey so I'm a mental health worker and prospective psychologist, I think a lot about this stuff. What kinda happened over the past few decades is that, unintentionally, American society has formed a "stereotypical victim" and "stereotypical perpetrator". An unfortunate side effect of this is that perpetrators who do not fit the stereotype are ignored, and victims who don't are dismissed. I worked for a while in ABA therapy, and as a guy you have to be extra careful about how you carry yourself around the children. I myself followed even more strict guidelines than the RBT ethics code, in order to protect myself from allegations. Unfortunately, this did not stop several parents from taking one look at me and not wanting me working with their children anymore. But the women I worked with often skirted these rules, knowing they were far less likely to be the victim of a false allegation. The stereotype is that perpetrators of molestation are male, but there are plenty of female perpetrators, and the stereotype ends up victimizing innocent men and allowing female abusers to get away with it. This stems, again, from the broader problem; men are stereotypically the perpetrator and women are stereotypically the victim. There are other examples, including male victims of female spousal abuse, sons abused by their mothers, and most egregiously with male victims of s---al assault and r--e. The answer, however, is NOT to become a men's mental health advocate. It's to become a HUMAN mental health advocate. Firstly, it emphasizes that the reason men's mental health matters is because they are human beings, as we all are. And secondly, as the 20's bring a new set of challenges for American society, we risk just forming a new stereotype; female perpetrators and male victims. The emphasis on female societal challenges, while motivated by justice and having a good outcome for women, is what caused the stereotype in the first place, and we shouldn't make the mistake of forming a new one in it's place. So yeah, the best way to fight for men's mental health, and the disparities men can face in certain situations, is to focus on being a HUMAN mental health advocate uwu