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@mallosaurusrex9168 Жыл бұрын
sometimes I want to be flattered that men find boobs so fascinating but then something gets said about virginity and it all goes out the window
@Nakia11798 Жыл бұрын
Breast f3t1sh has been driven so deeply into their minds that they don't even realize that it's a f3t1sh.
@mackingcheese Жыл бұрын
as a lesbian it just makes me wanna barf
@solsystem1342 Жыл бұрын
Ew, so wrong. Finally started second puberty so anyone being interested in my boobs would be nice, in a consentual scenario.
@amyt3949 Жыл бұрын
@@mackingcheese 👈 Name says it all! 💯
@naluzoniro Жыл бұрын
that's because it makes the boobs hang sadly (like a pair of large truck nuts) : (
@dollopedits Жыл бұрын
How are men still badly writing women? It honestly baffles me because of how much information is on the internet to help them lol
@blowinatranny Жыл бұрын
You use the words men and women with such confidence but im guessing you can't tell me what either of those words mean
@lif6737 Жыл бұрын
I’ll have you know I am fantastic at writing women, especially when it comes to describing their ample (but not too ample) bosoms
@dark7859 Жыл бұрын
It really baffles me because when I try to write I aways end up getting way too focused on a topic to make sure it's right even when I probably shouldn't, yet some of these man couldn't google "woman running"
@icantthinkofaname8139 Жыл бұрын
They’re confidently incorrect. They think they know all there is to know, and don’t feel the need to look anything up
@alabastergiant Жыл бұрын
Dunning-Krueger Effect.
@pencilpauli9442 Жыл бұрын
"My feet are bound, but at least my boobs are free. Bounce free dear mams, boing in all directions." Must admit, I was unaware that bubblies had 360° mobility. You really do live and learn.
@Nakia11798 Жыл бұрын
They have more than 180, but definitely not 360.
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
That's actually how binding works: you bounce them so they go concave and put the binder on before they bounce back.
@libraryoflilylol199 Жыл бұрын
@@tjenadonn6158 Please. I want to see an animation model where the boobs actually bounce in every single direction.
@angryface01 Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite comment. EVER. ❤❤❤❤❤
@pablozanoto5801 Жыл бұрын
"Live and learn" Is that a SA2 reference?
@meepmoopiethe3rd Жыл бұрын
You know what's worse than men not being able to write women? Women not being able to write women. My stepmom gives me a lot of her crime fiction novels when she's done with them, and they're almost all written by women. The amount of times I've seen sentences like, "She ambled across the room, drunk, her heaving breasts swaying side-to-side in anticipation of [Male Love Interest]'s affection," is insane. And I'll read things like this and go, "Wait. This is written by a woman? What?" and it's super cringe because she should know better. And it's not like these books are written for men. Their audience is clearly middle aged women. I wish I'd have kept one of the ones she gave me, because there was a whole chapter - in a crime novel, keep in mind!! - which described in detail the backstory of the female lead, but it would be like describing her life in college and always go back to, "But no one knew her for her smarts. No, the boys back then all knew her for her breasts, famous among the campus first houses." Beautiful work.
@rowanrobbins Жыл бұрын
I wonder if that author really was a woman. Maybe they used a pseudonym.
@ShinyAvalon Жыл бұрын
If they're books marketed to women in particular, then sometimes male authors use female pseudonyms. What kind of crime fiction are they?
@astrinymris9953 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, internalized misogyny is a thing. ☹
@KristiChan1 Жыл бұрын
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@alchemysaga3745 Жыл бұрын
Like others have said, pseudonyms are a thing, and are particularly common if the writer's actual gender doesn't match their audience or the primary consumer demographic for the genre they write. JK uses Robert Galbraith for her transphobic crap, for example, because the crime thriller genre is infamous for its lack of respect and its unfair double standards for female writers, despite women being the primary consumers of crime thrillers. Unless you actively research the author, you can't guarantee that a writer is the gender of their pseudonym. The other factor is that many publishing houses *do* push authors to change their stories and writing style to be "appealing to more demographics," with the "more demographics" actually meaning cis, straight men. Cis straight men are still considered the "golden" demographic to appeal to, because they still have a disproportionate amount of power in society despite not having the same degree of majority they once did.
@kwalsh6291 Жыл бұрын
I love how Jamie becomes more and more genuinely bewildered at the amount of SENTIENT FRUITY BREASTS
@lauraslyricallife Жыл бұрын
I NEED the next installment of these badly written women to include a collab with an artist bc I honestly need to see the "pliantly slender" woman without angles. Please. I need this.
@LadyDragonbane Жыл бұрын
That would be hilarious 😂
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
The only way I can imagine a woman without angles is if she got the same treatment as the protagonist from I Have No Mouth And I Must Scream. Just a limbless, orificeless locomotive mound of formerly human flesh.
@electronics-girl Жыл бұрын
Just start feeding these descriptions into one of those AI art programs.
@rhokesh4391 Жыл бұрын
@@electronics-girl ... do you not like sleeping? 😧
@chromedruidess2546 Жыл бұрын
Snake woman?
@Randoplants Жыл бұрын
“His massive balls bounced in all directions, like the clappers inside a pair of church bells - and I was very keen to watch as they rung out the hours.”
@angryface01 Жыл бұрын
Well done!
@melissabarrett9750 Жыл бұрын
Poetic and musical
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
I used to get compliments on how accurately and humanly I wrote my women characters, especially for a man. Surprise.
@gayestmess_ Жыл бұрын
@@ageoldmary your what is coming up?????
@dandelion_16 Жыл бұрын
@@ageoldmary hey kiddo I'll admit idk your situation, but I genuinely hope you can get out of it. Hold on and keep fighting cause you deserve to live. It may sound foolish, but keep reaching out for help and maybe you'll find someone. If you can't maybe it's an extra reason to write. Leave as many traces as you can.
@FrozEnbyWolf150 Жыл бұрын
Same, though in the past I would have assumed it's because I'm aroace and have no reason to objectify women. Well, that's still true, but also...
@dandelion_16 Жыл бұрын
@@ageoldmary keep looking for the right people, for people you can trust. No need to yell it. You know that. I do trust you know enough about your situation to know what approach is best, but keep going, that's all.
@science_bear Жыл бұрын
Do you get any compliments from nonbinaries like Anderson Aldrich for standing in solidarity with their homophobic agenda?
@hazell1304 Жыл бұрын
I've literally just come up against a solid case of 'is the author writing women badly or is the protagonist meant to be weird about women?" But considering the same books woman protag is worried about being 28 and "running out of time before she becomes a spinster" I get the feeling this author just.... leans towards the former lmao
@slendveny7191 Жыл бұрын
I tried to make a protagonist kinda weird around a woman once, but I got bored of that and just had them talk about swords instead.
@plat6164 Жыл бұрын
@@slendveny7191 this gives off serious Ace energy, I love it
@Insertia_Nameia Жыл бұрын
At 28, she's past "spinster" they have a different for that.
@hazell1304 Жыл бұрын
@@Insertia_Nameia there's no upper age limit on spinster. It's an outdated term and even if it was still relevant she's also nowhere close (this book is set in the 21st century btw). I'm so curious as to what word you're thinking of (genuine)
@DocKrazy Жыл бұрын
Yeah. At 28 she already was a spinster (23-26) And she's well on her way to be within the statistically happiest demographic
@Groffili Жыл бұрын
1:08 "I never knew what to say to the ladies". You have to admit... he's correct.
@joelhaggis5054 Жыл бұрын
It's like they see women as a pair of breasts with a body attached to it.
@pingidjit Жыл бұрын
As a lesbian who has read a crap ton of lesbian fanfiction and novels, the descriptions of breasts in these 'works' is mind boggling. If one of the stories I read even bothered to describe a characters chest, it has never been so odd or detailed (if one can call the incompetent ramblings in this video detailed...). I mean, I am a fellow boob appreciator and I just cannot fathom what these men were thinking, or why they felt the need to write about the boobs in most circumstances where it was completely unnecessary.
@hannahschrenk7981 Жыл бұрын
Part of the problem, I think, is that people who have never had boobs don't know how people who have them actually think about them. They're kind of like a nose or knee or any other body part. You don't think about them often or in detail. They're just a thing that is there and fades into the background so you can focus on more important stuff.
@EdgedPixie Жыл бұрын
They exist only when something makes you aware that they exist
@jelatinosa Жыл бұрын
Or you're aware of them because they hurt or are an inconvenience, but the fact that men think people with breasts just stand in the mirror and stare at and play with them all day is so ridiculous.
@MeemahSN Жыл бұрын
@@jelatinosa I’ve heard so many stories of people suffering severe back problems because of their breasts and it’s awful how these men refuse to understand that
@alexreid738611 ай бұрын
Well, they're an errogenous zone and a main point of interest for sexual partners, so not quite as 'whatever' as a nose or knee. I can understand sometimes bouncing them in the mirror proudly, kinda like some guys might feel about their dicks. That probably depends on how high the woman's sex drive is though, and it's still very far away from the notion that we'd spend all day thinking about them. 😂
@sailorboatface2162 Жыл бұрын
I really like the idea of balls being described the same way as breasts. I would read more books if the introduction of every single man included a description of their balls
@paulwilliammonks1 Жыл бұрын
Joe took his time to open the front door. He paused his movement, as he slowly began to look around the room, a room which he hadnt seen since he was 25. Joe stood there now as a 89 year old, under his dressing gown his balls hung like a plum that was well after its use by date, withered by time, and no longer full as in his younger days. Now his balls were as dry as the sahara desert.
@Randoplants Жыл бұрын
ACDC had the right idea “My balls are always bouncing to the left snd to the right. It’s my belief that my big balls should be held every night.”
@jackmckeown7601 Жыл бұрын
"His balls jiggled neurodiversely"
@melissabarrett9750 Жыл бұрын
Bulky, like coconuts and deserving of being cracked
@strangeaelurus Жыл бұрын
@@jackmckeown7601 UNWRITE THAT RIGHT NOW
@jaketaylor2775 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I look at my old writing and think no one has ever strung together a worse combination of words. And then I remember lines like the ones in this video and I realize it's not that bad lol
@saix_unicorn Жыл бұрын
🤝 i can relate
@jaketaylor2775 Жыл бұрын
@@saix_unicorn 🤝
@LCRkoinu1 Жыл бұрын
7:37 actually, the "hanging like fruit from a tree" would better describe balls than breasts, but it's still super weird regardless.
@morganc.m1830 Жыл бұрын
I really wish there was some way for me to warned about the word b*lls being said. I can't seem to watch f*cking anything without the video saying that crap or someone in the comments.
@nathanmello4407 Жыл бұрын
@@morganc.m1830- You can. There are several google extensions where you can block words from appearing or simply make them be replaced
@AlbertEisbaer Жыл бұрын
After "With a bandana tying back her hair and breasts" I went "WHAT? HOW?" until I realized that the sentence went on after that. Nevermind.
@kiarranarisse Жыл бұрын
Gotta keep the sentient fruity boobs outta the way, ya know, wouldn't want em bouncing in all directions
@veganangara6333 Жыл бұрын
the painted over tarantula had me on the floor, it was so unexpected 😂 got to give the writer some credit for at least being original with their weird descriptions 😂
@iantaakalla8180 Жыл бұрын
I will give them credit for at least exploring all parts of her body in uncomfortable detail because it’s usually the face and boobs that are described.
@kiarona. Жыл бұрын
Honestly that one made me laugh 😂 Hate the whole tone of the description, but the visual brought on by that particular sentence was just too funny 😅
@teeth789 Жыл бұрын
also irritated me that in that description the halter top was digging into her shoulders, like my good sir do you know what a halter top is?
@Nakia11798 Жыл бұрын
Ample means enough, so these writers are saying "Enough, but not TOO enough." What?
@paulhammond6978 Жыл бұрын
"Ample breasts" is kind of a cliche. I guess the writer of that one at least knew that much, and didn't just want to put down something that has been said a thousand times before.
@The_Crimson_Witch Жыл бұрын
You know, the fact that I'm ace should have been more obvious when I described characters of different gender in the same way. It has never occured to me that a character's breast size was an important detail, because it isn't.
@gaygengar Жыл бұрын
nah it's just that the people writing that are weird af. 😂
@kanashiiookami6537 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, only time I'd mention it is to say the character was an a-cup or smaller 'cause we exist. Lol. It was rare to find an MC even in books for teens that wasn't built, so it made me weirdly happy to have that inclusivity that yes, the MC can be female/afab and not stacked.
@chromedruidess2546 Жыл бұрын
I'm ace and I have a horrible habit of completely omitting physical description when writing in first person unless completely unavoidable because actual plot. I just don't feel the need in most cases and my beta readers complain they can't picture the protag, lol picture whoever you want
@kanashiiookami6537 Жыл бұрын
@@chromedruidess2546 you don't have to go all out, sometimes readers just want an idea if what the characters are wearing. If they're taller or shorter than whomever they're talking to, and a general idea of build. Are they fit? Are they chubby? Are they white or BIPoC? Or if sci-fi and/or fantasy, do they have different skin/eye/hair colour outside the norm? These are all just small things you can drop in a mention rather than going all "My Immortal" with every single character on the page (if you don't know the reference you can give Jaques ze whipper's videos on here a listen, because he's working his way through that hilarity of a fanfic) so mentioning something like dusting off their jeans, pulling up the hood of their bunnyhug (hoodie to you?), or rolling up the sleeves of their dress shirt (etc) can be used as beats that give us something other than talking heads. And it's not just that readers want you to describe characters for the sake of whom to base an image off. That's not the problem (most of the time at least). It's more that the descriptions, be they of characters, or settings, can help ground readers in your world and immerse them in it rather than them feeling disconnected and disinterested. Sorry for "mansplaining" if you already knew this all though!
@chromedruidess2546 Жыл бұрын
@@kanashiiookami6537 Like I said, it isn't completely devoid of physical description. For example, my last story began with the protag in palliative care. Jaundiced, sallow, skeletal, thin hair, etc. were certainly used. Gender was revealed by a nurse. But I'm not going into a full physical description. Is it really relevant? I think the situation provides enough context. Now that I think about it, maybe my descriptions are actually fine. Tbh that complaint has only come from my primary beta reader who is a very supportive s/o but never otherwise reads fiction and possibly has the imagination of a brick. He wants it spelled out. He's mostly checking continuity and proofreading for me lol
@ricequin Жыл бұрын
Nice to know that I’ll be forever virginal despite being middle aged and married for 17 years.
@amiable_monster Жыл бұрын
😂
@amiable_monster Жыл бұрын
@☆HannahBanana the Bookworm☆ #those7damhalfbloods Thank you 😊
@lif6737 Жыл бұрын
There’s a wonderful assortment of horny old male writers who can’t write female characters other than as fetish objects. Like, when describing their appearance, the first thing they zero in on is their boobs. Tbh, though, that’s probably exactly what they do when they see women themselves. That said, I just have fun with it whenever I come across it in literature. It deserves to be critiqued and made fun of, but it can also be hilarious in its own way
@Nakia11798 Жыл бұрын
And they'll excuse it by saying that breasts are sexually appealing... as if straight women write about balls EVER.
@yjssj312 Жыл бұрын
@@Nakia11798 if it bothers you so much……dont read???
@GothboiKenzy Жыл бұрын
@@Nakia11798 cuz balls aren’t big as boobs
@GothboiKenzy Жыл бұрын
@@yjssj312 right like they get triggered over books 💀💀
@zard5930 Жыл бұрын
A poem(?) about someone wanting to be a woman that is so badly written that it catapults poor Jamie's voice back to puberty to break
@kitkatboard Жыл бұрын
Was expecting a wholesome/sad poem about a trans woman in denial, got very disappointed
@anangelnamedcecil4958 Жыл бұрын
My RTC brainrot had fun with this. I think it's weird and gross too but like...Noel's Lament... "I want to be that fucked up girl~!"
@arachnozure Жыл бұрын
@@anangelnamedcecil4958 RTC IS AMAZING!! also, was ur name by any chance chosen from wtnv? :D
@anangelnamedcecil4958 Жыл бұрын
@@arachnozure Oddly enough no. I did discover WTNV shortly after, though!
@ChosenOne41 Жыл бұрын
What the hell does "her breasts were good" even mean, they were well-behaved?
@untipocualquiera3583 Жыл бұрын
That one sounded like it was supposed to be a narration from an otherwise simple-minded character, tho I lack context so I can't tell.
@alexreid738611 ай бұрын
I can relate to the sentiment, honestly. Breasts are indeed "good" (I should know, I have a pair too), and it's hard not to notice an especially good pair. But it's very impolite to notice them too boldly, as the protagonist demonstrates. 😂
@0ffbeatQueer Жыл бұрын
I want to make a collection of drawings or animations of women based purely off of men's descriptions just to show how absolutely absurd they are lmao Also Jammi always makes my day and I love watching his videos :D
@twiggledowntown3564 Жыл бұрын
That would be interesting. If only more people could draw these as well. Then when everybody sees it, they would see how bizarre it looks. It's kinda like an animated character drawn like a donut on purpose.
@Nemokiddy Жыл бұрын
I bet that AIs would make absolute monstrous portraits out of this descriptions 🤭
@krakenastral7683 Жыл бұрын
I mean... I think some anime -plenty of animation in general too- pretty much does that.
@saix_unicorn Жыл бұрын
i kinda want to do this only to see the results lol
@starfishgurl1984 Жыл бұрын
As an afab demigirl with sensory processing disorder who’s also aro ace I never understood nor cared for the obsession with breasts and quite frankly never really liked mine either but I do find it hilarious to see how people write about them and watching this made me wonder how I’d write about them as a result of my disinterest and sensory issues, lol, it would probably be pretty awkward/funny most likely. For some reason thinking about it reminded me of Lara Croft’s triangular pointed breasts in the PlayStation Tomb Raider game from the 1990’s era and it made me laugh hysterically as a result, lol.
@shadowldrago Жыл бұрын
"Are Men Okay?" I mean, I am. You look like you are. The men in this video? Not so much.
@sundalosketch4769 Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@cerberaodollam Жыл бұрын
"fruity boobs" I should NOT have been drinking when you said that 😅😅
@Laura-gb1jv Жыл бұрын
That subreddit gets so much content, it's hard to keep abreast of it's trends ...
@KristiChan1 Жыл бұрын
Badum tsh 🥁
@Leena79 Жыл бұрын
Imagine if aliens formed their idea of what women look like reading these. 🤣
@melissabarrett9750 Жыл бұрын
😱😱😱
@charlespentrose7834 Жыл бұрын
It would certainly explain some video game characters.
@John_Weiss Жыл бұрын
Are we sure that weren't written by aliens trying to describe human female bodies from a report taken by a past expedition? You know, kinda like those eldritch-horror pictures of "giraffes" produced by people who had never seen one and were going off of descriptions of giraffes?
@tamarinmangold1414 Жыл бұрын
@@charlespentrose7834 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sofia_paliy Жыл бұрын
They would be horrified...
@maxwellg.2755 Жыл бұрын
"So... she was aroused by an arm going around her... interesting... dude has skill..." 🤣
@jessicaholscher4097 Жыл бұрын
"since a woman who has not been pregnant, remains virginal forever." um, okay
@leahbeth8335 Жыл бұрын
"The uselessness of a woman's face" is some damn confusing misogyny. Like, is their ideal woman Celty from Durarara?
@leahbeth8335 Жыл бұрын
@Ville I think you replied to the wrong comment, my dude.
@KristiChan1 Жыл бұрын
@Ville Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet. Non dolore placeat est numquam eius qui sequi totam. Aut dignissimos autem aut voluptatibus nisi eos nisi quidem ab voluptas exercitationem. Est enim dicta ad velit minus et harum aliquid sit tenetur molestiae est magni quos vel quibusdam voluptatum ex dolor mollitia. Aut illum vitae est nesciunt saepe ea rerum cupiditate est sequi animi qui eveniet assumenda. Ea nobis quidem At dolores reiciendis rem nulla dolorem At corrupti sint! Et accusamus animi qui molestias nihil eos nemo beatae ut reiciendis odio ad enim dolorum et delectus autem! Aut porro ipsam vel velit dolor vel tempore explicabo. Et quae voluptas in sint accusantium hic possimus obcaecati ut quia fuga qui enim autem.
@untipocualquiera3583 Жыл бұрын
@@KristiChan1 ¿Es eso frances? No sabría decirlo, la verdad. Sea como fuere, voy a aportar a esta charla multi-linguistica mi pequeño granito de arena. Viva Cristo Rey, amén.
@KristiChan1 Жыл бұрын
@@untipocualquiera3583 Es texto aleatorio en latín. No sé qué tiene que ver Cristo con eso.
@untipocualquiera3583 Жыл бұрын
@@KristiChan1 Solo una pequeña aportación! Siempre es buen momento para alabar al creador. Así que latín, eh? Meh, estaba suficicientemente cerca.
@alisteruiz Жыл бұрын
Why do these guys describe how somebodys breasts are moving in the most unrealistic way possible
@insideAdirtyMind Жыл бұрын
and in the most painful way....
@BeautyMonster1000 Жыл бұрын
Probably because they've never been anywhere near actual boobs... and writing like this they never will be. 😜😂
@lif6737 Жыл бұрын
Too much Dead or Alive: Swimsuit Edition
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
Some men don't have enough blood to operate their brain and their trouser trout simultaneously.
@kiwiorishi Жыл бұрын
@@lif6737 That's what I was thinking.
@kylianthehylian Жыл бұрын
I swear they told aliens to write a romance novel after getting a vague description of a woman from another person who has no idea what a woman looks like
@John_Weiss Жыл бұрын
You got that sense, too, eh? 😆😉
@GoingSwimmingly Жыл бұрын
I just adore how you can see Jamie’s sanity drain out of him the more the video goes on pAHAH- Thank you for suffering for the sake of our entertainment
@purplebean7 Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly just amazed that Jamie is able to get through filming these videos. I would either get really annoyed and give up, or die laughing, about two seconds in
@calamityjean1525 Жыл бұрын
Who knows, besides Jamie, how many times he has to edit out a fit of laughter?
@maidden Жыл бұрын
Sometimes I try to do some creative writing and I feel like I'm not talented enough, comparing my words with the greats. But then I see stuff like this and realize the bar is so low, I shouldn't feel bad at all. Just have fun with it, because there's so much worse out there.
@GayGothPirate Жыл бұрын
As a man who doesn't really like boobs I always get whiplash when I read how some authors desribe them. There are very few times where they even need to be described. I don't get it.
@momamiandkiddokelsi9027 Жыл бұрын
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈 Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are! 🏳️🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@p-__ Жыл бұрын
My farts are better than Jamie’s farts
@Arrowi Жыл бұрын
So true!
@veles3066 Жыл бұрын
I love that I see you everywhere
@momamiandkiddokelsi9027 Жыл бұрын
@ur mum what is your preferred gender/pronouns? I will validate you today so you can return tomorrow to find strength! You deserve to be treated right! 🥰
@fangeek96 Жыл бұрын
@burned.asparagus YOU GOT THIS 💙 🌈 they/them here
@theredking1569 Жыл бұрын
I've never heard so many poorly written descriptions of women. And that "painted over a tarantula" line almost made me fall out laughing at how awkward it was. Great video btw.
@mariomaniac581 Жыл бұрын
To be fair if somebodies boobs were somehow bouncing in all directions like helicopter blades on their chest, it'd be hard to focus on anything else ngl
@dakotakae Жыл бұрын
Hi Jamie! I love your videos, and your videos about your relationship with Shaaba really helped my partner and I navigate our own trans+cis relationship as I began my transition. We appreciate you!
@dakotakae Жыл бұрын
@stop lgbt have fun with that little bro
@caracaracat2958 Жыл бұрын
Most of these snippets of text just make me want to say out loud “what???” Lmao.
@PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын
This Subreddit is a gold mine for pop culture dissection. Also, a great space for writers to learn.
@Sophie_the_Sapphic Жыл бұрын
4:46 this reads to me like a 4tran post. or basically a trans women with a lot of internalized misogyny and transphobia.
@wind6339 Жыл бұрын
It just seemed like they were making up excuses for wishing to be a woman, and being like “I only say this because I’m sexist, I promise! I am a totally normal man!” while in reality possibly not being a man
@SailorSaturn1994 Жыл бұрын
I really wanna say that women with bound feet can't run because the feet are literally broken in a way that prevents efficient moving, so that description is super unrealistic in every possible account
@AlexanderStark Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure they meant "bound feet" in the sense that her ankles were tied/bound together, which would have meant she was "bunny-hopping" to move (which kiiiiinda explains the "boobs bouncing in all directions" sentiment, even if that's not what her boobs would actually do during that kind of movement, lol). Could be wrong, though!
@fangchick93 Жыл бұрын
I recently read a fanfiction that in the intimate scenes described "pouting nipples", the actual story was good, but that weird description stood out
@thedailybullshit4033 Жыл бұрын
IK the “no angularity” is probably meant to signify soft features (I think) but my 1st thought was “she has no joints?!?!?”
@tinnagigja3723 Жыл бұрын
"A halter top with spaghetti straps that cut into her shoulders" makes no sense to me. The straps would be digging into her neck, surely.
@BringDeathByPickles Жыл бұрын
I am actually currently working on an art project containing painted tarantula molts. I can tell you after if they do indeed look like pubes through lycra shorts, or not. XD
@properantagonist Жыл бұрын
The 1916 dude seems like he firmly believes the beautiful blond lover is himself, but he probably failed to notice that she likely left him for a man who actually valued her and didn't think of her as an empty-headed gossiper. That even if he was the most conventionally attractive man on the planet, most women would rather choose a "fatter, uglier" man that treats them like human beings.
@Yes_this_is_my_cat Жыл бұрын
"I don't care what the boobs are doing" 0:48 ~ Jammidoger, 2023
@ihateunicorns867 Жыл бұрын
I get so sick of trying to explain why I gave up on a book that a friend had recommended when the women are just written really badly. They always want me to explain it to them. I just want to read a good novel.
@ConstantChaos1 Жыл бұрын
The fringe one was decent the description was not excessive and the woman reacted in a normal way
@mirandarensberger6919 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, for that I felt like it was the character more than the writer.
@iantaakalla8180 Жыл бұрын
That was very clearly “the man was horny/invasive/misogynistic/unaware of social norms”.
@libraryoflilylol199 Жыл бұрын
I feel like it should be the other way around where someone who has experience gets aroused easier because they're anticipating a thing they already know they like.
@calamityjean1525 Жыл бұрын
"...someone who has experience gets aroused easier...." Unless it's someone who has had only bad experiences and is anticipating something they know they don't like.
@TyphinHoofbun Жыл бұрын
In my writing, I tend to barely give any physical description to most characters. Partially to let people fill in their own ideas, but mostly because I don't really think of people by their physical bodies unless prompted. Humans all look alike to me. ^_^;; So I write stories about main characters that aren't human anymore, so they literally don't pay attention to such things.
@sina.apfelsine Жыл бұрын
Does anyone know why Summer Luk disappeared? 😢 She's a trans singer, model, influencer, activist from Toronto. Her accounts have suddenly disappeared around 3 or 4 weeks ago🥺 Fans are super worried, can't find her on youtube, insta, tiktok,... She was living in Canada since last year, after moving from her (toxic) family in Hong Kong .
@dandelion_16 Жыл бұрын
I didn't know she was gone, but that is very concerning as her family was looking for her. Anything I can do, you think?
@Taradoxxi Жыл бұрын
I thought she changed her surname, but are all her accounts gone under all names? That would be alarming because I remember her talking about her family trying to force her to detransition.
@dandelion_16 Жыл бұрын
@@Taradoxxi What did she change her name into? Also I feel if it was her breaking with the past, she would have geven us a heads up, no?
@sina.apfelsine Жыл бұрын
Trying to reach out to other influencers from our community. Leave comments on their insta/ tiktok also. Especially people who have worked with Summer and met in person. Maybe they have her private WhatsApp and contact her. That's my only idea yet.
@sina.apfelsine Жыл бұрын
@@dandelion_16 Another idea, if she has an agency for modeling/ music or her producer, maybe we can find someone there who knows what's happening.
@albuszx Жыл бұрын
"she had no angles on her body whatsoever, even though her body was erect, mmhmm" I CHORTLED SO HARD I HURT MY THROAT
@naluzoniro Жыл бұрын
I think his mind wandered away from women, there, for an instant
@EdgedPixie Жыл бұрын
What kind of geometry was she, not having any angles?!
@b.e.a.n.s_ Жыл бұрын
I need this community's advice... My parents aren't homophobic, but they are transphobic. I really want to come out as non binary so I can just be myself, but I'm afraid they won't think of me the same way.. I recently cut my hair (buzz cut) and I'm afraid they will start questioning even more than they even are. Do you have any tips for me? Should I come out or just move out as soon as I can and then tell them?
@alisteruiz Жыл бұрын
I personally its best to move out first, but whatever happens, youre safety is the most important thing
@error-zq8yo Жыл бұрын
Keep yourself safe, if you think its safer to not tell them yet don't
@stickynote-slumber Жыл бұрын
I don’t have any experience with this, but I do still want to help, so I’ll try my best... As everyone else is saying, make sure you’re safe before coming out. At least ask them why they’re transphobic before coming out, or make sure you have a place to stay if things go wrong. Let them know that you’ll always love them, no matter what. (…Unless you don’t love them. That’s fine.) If they’re the type of person to say “but it’s not natural!”, they’re wrong. There’s dozens of animals that have shown to act like like their opposite gender, there are gender-based medical conditions (if that makes sense), and it is natural. And we’re not wild animals, anyway. We’re humans, not ants. We can change. I apologize if I said something wrong, I just wanted to help, and I hope I did.
@lif6737 Жыл бұрын
At the end of the day, you need to balance your sense of security and your sense of self. Coming out can be tough, especially in an unaccepting family, but being able to openly be your authentic self is so important. What makes these situations so hard is that we know who we are, but in seeking to appease our families we often have to, in a sense, deny who we are for their approval. In coming out, we can truly unabashedly accept ourselves, but it may come with others refusing to accept you. It’s fair to wait out of your own safety, but if you feel secure enough, sometimes you need to take that leap of faith and come out. Family can often surprise us, both in how understanding they can be, or unfortunately how monstrous they can be. If they love you, they’ll be willing to hear you out and they’ll come around, but sometimes what we need is to surround us with other people who do accept who we truly are. You deserve to be loved and accepted, and those who deny you that may not be people you should keep in your life forever. Wishing you the very best
@KristiChan1 Жыл бұрын
If they're transphobic, I'd recommend waiting until you've moved out. When you're still living with your parents and if they're not good people, it's easier for them to control you. Do you have any friends or other family members you trust to come out to who won't tell your parents? That might be a good alternative so you don't feel like you're entirely on the closet.
@StephenBoothUK Жыл бұрын
As soon as Jamie mentioned balls being low hanging I was immediately transported to each time I’ve been to see The Rocky Horror Show. Narrator talks about storm clouds. Audience: Describe your balls Narrator: Heavy, black and pendulous
@LunarSpoonHasFun Жыл бұрын
Reading these sorts of descriptions, as a writer, gives me confidence in my own work.
@Jackie_XIII Жыл бұрын
I'm a member of this subreddit and even commented exactly what you said and more on that first post
@simplymeowlogical Жыл бұрын
I am yet again requesting aro, ace and agender videos. I will not stop unril they've arrived!
@melissabarrett9750 Жыл бұрын
New terms... What are aro and ace? I guess that aro is aromantic, but ace has me staring cluelessly into the void. Asking from genuine curiosity and respect
@Specters0rd Жыл бұрын
@@melissabarrett9750 Ace is a nickname for people who are Asexual. (People with little to no sexual attraction).
@simplymeowlogical Жыл бұрын
@@melissabarrett9750 Yes, aro stands for aromantic (can also be pronounced "arrow"), an aromantic person experiences little to no romantic attraction. As already said Ace stands for asexual. And don't worry, you question wasn't offensive!
@ZnotQ633 Жыл бұрын
Props to whomever wrote “wtf dude” and “ew” next to that 1916 poem.
@ChaniBethyPooPoo Жыл бұрын
This almost makes me want to write a story about sentient, personified breasts with weird and specific descriptions about them littered throughput at the most irrelevant points in the story. 😆
@upliftothers4599 Жыл бұрын
It should be a comic too, like crypitd club style lol
@ChaniBethyPooPoo Жыл бұрын
@@upliftothers4599 Brilliant! 😆🤓
@jessicaholscher4097 Жыл бұрын
5:51 and they try to say trans is a new thing.
@skyetheuniversalspy Жыл бұрын
every time i see this subreddit I facepalm at the stupidity of these authors
@jenniferbenedict2223 Жыл бұрын
Honestly "fruit hanging from a tree" better describes balls than breasts...
@morganc.m1830 Жыл бұрын
Apparently I'm the only one who hates that word it seems.
@nathanmello4407 Жыл бұрын
@@morganc.m1830 - Yes, you are
@EagleTimberWolf Жыл бұрын
@@morganc.m1830 Given the frequency at which you're responding to almost every single comment that mentions balls, I'm under the impression that this is more about wanting attention than actually being triggered by the word.
@CelestialBunnyPaws Жыл бұрын
Also, with the lack of commas, I initially thought she tied back her hair _and_ breasts with the bandana. 🤭
@linden5165 Жыл бұрын
I do not understand how this happens so frequently. Do they not have editors or friends who can pull them aside and give feedback...??
@KxNOxUTA Жыл бұрын
You mean ..... male editors and friends .... cause that's so gonna help? X'D How high do you think the chances of such ppl are to be friends with any feminists ... or women?
@yourneighborhoodana4584 Жыл бұрын
Love ur videos! Men writing women is one of my fav kinds of videos!
@matts1392 Жыл бұрын
The other day, I was watching a video from a channel run by a dog groomer. One comment thread had a handful of transphobes making random transphobic troll comments on this video of a dog getting groomed. It was bizarre. But one of these transphobic trolls was calling itself Jamie Dodger (I guess they couldn't be bothered to work out how you actually spell your name). So I guess now there are random transphobic accounts pretending to be you, probably to try to discredit you. Guess you must be striking a nerve if transphobes feel threatened enough to try to discredit you.
@John_Weiss Жыл бұрын
This sort of sh1t3 angers me. Impersonating someone else to put words in their mouth _angers me_ greatly.
@dexstewart862 Жыл бұрын
This makes me want to.write a story all about a pair of boobs in an odd couple scenario. The left boob is all lazy and sloppy, the right is hard working and keeps everything clean. In the end, the boobs learn to accept their differences and they become the best of friends.
@kepler_drew853 Жыл бұрын
*the BREAST of friends
@Not3HobbitsInATrenchcoat Жыл бұрын
5:50 That is when i realized that my initials are E.W
@Tanyathestoryteller Жыл бұрын
When I read Interview with the Vampire, I was actually surprised at the amount of times "her breasts" were written by Anne Rice. But it's nothing like what's in this video lol
@martianpudding9522 Жыл бұрын
Some of these could be pretty well written impression of closeted gay men or trans women with a lot of internalized homo- and trans phobia Like the "mens faces are so much better than women's" and "i wish I could be a woman so I could hang out with female friends and wear makeup and talk about fashion" stand out to me
@Nakia11798 Жыл бұрын
Can confirm, breasts do NOT jut out under flannel pajamas.
@bearo8 Жыл бұрын
Can confirm as well. Flannel (and any other loose and heavy fabric) just kind of falls straight down from them so they can't just out because everything further down than the top most point is a straight area...
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, when I think form fitting clothes and fabrics flannel is down near taffeta. It's the least form fitting of the fabrics that isn't actively flouncy.
@theembersinside1420 Жыл бұрын
I guess I'm a "virgin forever" since I chose not to have children even though I've had many partners. 🤦🏻♀️ lol.. Wow, the ideas some men have.
@Aerials135 Жыл бұрын
i like to think that the "shades of blue selected because of her eyes" were not in fact similar to the colour of her eyes, which were brown
@jackolantern333_ Жыл бұрын
These always make me glad I’m a gay male writer. But even if I were straight, I’d like to think I wouldn’t be distracted by my character’s boobs when I’m supposed to be advancing the plot
@aliceplanque Жыл бұрын
They're often not sadly 😔
@YukikoEx Жыл бұрын
"He was wearing clothes, otherwise his balls would fly in every direction" there you go :D
@FayeisHere Жыл бұрын
Excuse me Jamie but breasts bounding in all directions when you run is absolutely possible. Mine came out of my sports bra and hit me in the face when I did a head stand in college PE. If I run shirtless, they go in circles lmao
@mathsthetic Жыл бұрын
okay ive been thinking about one of the first posts and writing it from the perspective to a trans guy "his chest was unbound as he ran, boobs going in every direction" it went from bad description of women to an accurate description of me running lol
@Insertia_Nameia Жыл бұрын
See, that's reasonable. Boobs, no matter the size, actually do that. Especially if you aren't wearing the proper bra for running. (And since I wear none at all, any time I so much as jog. And I have tiny boobs.)
@sociallyundead419 Жыл бұрын
I was JUST binging menwritingwomen posts a couple days ago!! Perfect timing!!
@theasexualvampire13 Жыл бұрын
"Ample breasts but not too" doesn't even sound grammatically correct.
@tjenadonn6158 Жыл бұрын
"Ample breasts, but not two." Precisely π breasts.
@tod1way Жыл бұрын
When you changed it to "balls", I was laughing so hard I was crying! 😂🤣
@m.janski Жыл бұрын
Found a new description for my uterus. Magnificently useless
@kibabell Жыл бұрын
Flannel flabric 😂😂😂 I love you Jamie!
@Bildgesmythe Жыл бұрын
They are terrible writers that write women badly.
@subgeta07 Жыл бұрын
6:02 sounds like a trans woman with a lot of internalized transphobia from 100 years ago... (from a trans woman's perspective)
@DigiVixen Жыл бұрын
I lost it when you started your little sing song bit. I'm in legit tears! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@trinetra2011 Жыл бұрын
These books are all cursed
@mechanical-scarecrow3064 Жыл бұрын
I'm always glad I don't have breasts but this made me extra glad.
@jelatinosa Жыл бұрын
Definitely not missing out. Mine are small but cystic and therefore can cause me so much pain!
@beardlyinteresting Жыл бұрын
"Like a painted tarantula" had me laughing so hard I had to pause the video. At least they weren't describing breasts.
@SLYKM Жыл бұрын
Bounce in all directions sounds like an ecchi anime, they have to watch anime.
@zeykriid Жыл бұрын
maybe it’s bc I’m ace but every time I see these vids, I, as a male writer, try to remember literally any time I’ve ever mentioned the main love interest’s chest and I legit don’t think I have aside from mentioning her chest plate itself literally ONCE bc it had a weapon thrown at it why r ppl like this
@paradoxtatorstudios96813 ай бұрын
Same lmao, also as an ace. I wrote my own female character without describing her breasts _once_ , it's not that hard 😂 but people like the men in this video can't write a single woman without giving specific details about such an unimportant part of her body-
@AynneMorison Жыл бұрын
bound feet are almost impossible to run on to begin with. The bones break as the feet deform and rarely heal in a way that makes them stable. If you have ever done any research on foot binding... you know she's not Running
@realfingertrouble Жыл бұрын
I looked up the author of that 'To Be A Woman' poet, cos I wondered if it was one of the WW1 poets. No it's a Portugese poet Mário de Sá-Carneiro who kllled himself a month and a half after writing that.... o.O