Things Not To Say To Someone With Afro Hair

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BBC Three

BBC Three

7 жыл бұрын

Whether it's feeling like a zoo animal that everyone wants to touch, or it's being asked to take your braids out for a job - there are some reactions to afro hair that are more - ahem - challenging than others. So here's our guide on how not to add to the frustration...
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@jasminegiles94
@jasminegiles94 7 жыл бұрын
People always ask me "How do you get your hair like that?!"... well first, i was born...
@djordjevicmaka
@djordjevicmaka 7 жыл бұрын
Jasmine Giles Maybe they really like it, and want to have the same, so that is why they ask...
@BreaMason
@BreaMason 7 жыл бұрын
Maka Djordjevic they will never get the same. Its simply a dumbass question
@djordjevicmaka
@djordjevicmaka 7 жыл бұрын
Brea Monai True. But not everyone who talks with you has to be smart. It is not anybodys fault that he/she is stupid, and you just have to deal with it..
@vademarofxeroes8416
@vademarofxeroes8416 7 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a tragic event. I hope you called the police and locked your doors and windows. Scary shit indeed
@jasminegiles94
@jasminegiles94 7 жыл бұрын
+Waldemar Konstantin “Deadshot” Snow the name of the video is things not to say to people with Afro hair? what did you expect to see in the comments section?
@tianamae667
@tianamae667 7 жыл бұрын
I get frustrated when people wanna touch my hair not because it's on my head. But because they don't understand the amount of effort and work I put in to make it look certain ways. I'm not even allowed to touch my own hair when it's done 😂
@msjkramey
@msjkramey 7 жыл бұрын
Tiana Mae ha, yesss. I have white girl curly hair (for lack of a better word) and I feel you so much on that before I knew how to do it (I'm the only curly headed one, so my poor mom was lost), I only learned to like my hair because of older black ladies that would come up to me and want to play with it because they hadn't seen my hair on a tiny white girl before. that stopped when I got to middle school maybe
@2014Twinn
@2014Twinn 7 жыл бұрын
Tiana Mae Yessssss, so many people dont get that. its a certain shape that i want my hair to maintain. And when people touch my hair they push down and pull up. I hate that.😣
@idiotsandwich9326
@idiotsandwich9326 7 жыл бұрын
OHHH my goshhh yess💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 it takes agess for me to get it the way I want it & people will just come up & ruin it
@jayemaelle3462
@jayemaelle3462 7 жыл бұрын
exactly sis!! Even the smallest disruption and my hair becomes a frizzy mess. Hands OFF
@lalaluvzskz
@lalaluvzskz 7 жыл бұрын
Tiana Mae i swear!!
@erinmiller1433
@erinmiller1433 7 жыл бұрын
I once saw a young black girl with braids and a hot-pink ombre dye job. I said, "Your hair is very pretty," and she thanked me. If you like someone's hair, just give them a compliment and move on.
@peachcobbler8160
@peachcobbler8160 6 жыл бұрын
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
@alphabeticalorder168
@alphabeticalorder168 6 жыл бұрын
My friend Melody has braids that ombre from black to pastel purple to pastel pink and I swear it's the most beautiful hairstyle I've ever seen
@p.m.a
@p.m.a 5 жыл бұрын
Alphabetical Order I really want to do a hairstyle like that but my school is super strict
@ivymorris4653
@ivymorris4653 5 жыл бұрын
Uma from descendants had good box braids
@minxellasims3948
@minxellasims3948 5 жыл бұрын
PREACH
@madisoncox7639
@madisoncox7639 6 жыл бұрын
People always say "omg your hair would be so pretty if you straighten it" and I'm just like 😑
@peachcobbler8160
@peachcobbler8160 6 жыл бұрын
Madison cox i don't have curly/coily hair but i have around 2b type hair and people tell me ALL the time "yOu sHoUlD sTrAiGhTeN yOuR hAiR" and i ask why and they always tell me "because i think you would look pretty" and i'm like ??
@PurpleBean-cm3pl
@PurpleBean-cm3pl 6 жыл бұрын
Madison cox when I do straighten it for a special event... which is rare they go crazy and tell me how pretty it is...I feel really offended bc they never say it when I'm natural but I have to say it makes me embrace my natraul curly/coily hair even more 😊.
@TheFormlessBlob
@TheFormlessBlob 6 жыл бұрын
RIGHT? When people say that I hear, "Your hair is ugly the way it grows out of your head. Your hair is different and that's a problem. Process and damage your hair to make me feel better" Last time I straightened my hair was 8th grade. My auntie burned the heck out of my hair. And it wasn't worth it because my hair puffed back up when i stepped outside (thanks to the humidity of Texas). I've just finished 10th and haven't used much heat on it (maybe blow dried a few times). My hair has never been happier.
@Daisymayspeaks
@Daisymayspeaks 6 жыл бұрын
See I always hated that like I get a lot of compliments when I straighten my hair but like when my curls are on point only like 2 people say I look good
@beyondthestarsandthemoon1839
@beyondthestarsandthemoon1839 5 жыл бұрын
They be like "you would look pretty." Am I not pretty with my natural hair?
@KikiDva
@KikiDva 7 жыл бұрын
My coworker asked me if I showered because I told her I don't wash my hair everyday 🙄 I had to explain that you can actually take a shower without washing your hair 😒
@IndigoWendigo.
@IndigoWendigo. 7 жыл бұрын
KikiDva honestly I find it amazing how in 2016 we all can understand simple things like skin types (ie. dry/oily/combination/acne-prone skin. All use different products and have different needs) but suddenly when it comes to hair types.. it's some big mystery?? It's BEYOND ignorant to call someone dirty because they don't have the same hair needs. That was a microagression. 😒🙄
@sianilee4313
@sianilee4313 7 жыл бұрын
I don't think many people know that shower caps still exist and I find that hilarious
@Feliciatanktop
@Feliciatanktop 7 жыл бұрын
People also don't know what sleep bonnets are apparently? I wear one when I go to sleepovers or around new roommates and they're like "are you taking a shower?? Is that a shower cap thingy??"
@johannak1983
@johannak1983 7 жыл бұрын
Girl, she was just being mean and nasty, trust me. I'm white and I know for a fact that TONS of white people DO NOT wash their hair every day. We do the exact same thing, just take a body shower (the only difference is that we usually don't use a cap, we just grab our hair in a bun or something).
@noniakamai2458
@noniakamai2458 7 жыл бұрын
I'm Native and Irish and I don't wash my hair everyday either! I have corse, dry hair, if I shampooed every day it would snap off! Who shampoos everyday?
@drayhudson3776
@drayhudson3776 7 жыл бұрын
everyone saying "I wish I had that hair" after a week of having to comb it they would change their mind
@Feonalilly
@Feonalilly 7 жыл бұрын
Shogun Shien you only detangle once a week. I don't think it's that bad but then again, I have a rather loose texture
@drayhudson3776
@drayhudson3776 7 жыл бұрын
Feonalilly yeah i never put products in it only shampoo and conditioner, no oils. I could only comb it when wet. I had it for about 3 years but cut it last July and had it short since.
@HortonScoutHD
@HortonScoutHD 7 жыл бұрын
What? I have to detangle mine every day...unless I put one of those awful sleeping caps on...
@drayhudson3776
@drayhudson3776 7 жыл бұрын
LaggySoldier I combed mine every day just with warm water and with water and shampoo maybe twie a week. sorry if any confusion, what i meant was that after having to comb your hair every morning before work/school and have it looking nice daily would make most people sick of it after a week.
@MissSweetz5
@MissSweetz5 7 жыл бұрын
meh not all natural hair is the same, even though I have tight curls I detangle it while washing and don't have to do it again for the rest of the week
@dionnacarter293
@dionnacarter293 6 жыл бұрын
Person: "Is that your real hair?" Me: "Is that your real face?"
@Maat-obabaa
@Maat-obabaa 6 жыл бұрын
Omg! Love it! Lol
@peachcobbler8160
@peachcobbler8160 6 жыл бұрын
lmaoo
@TheFormlessBlob
@TheFormlessBlob 6 жыл бұрын
I'm totally using this lol
@WhisperingButterfly
@WhisperingButterfly 6 жыл бұрын
I died lol
@p.m.a
@p.m.a 5 жыл бұрын
Dionna Carter 🤗😂😂
@bm.5266
@bm.5266 6 жыл бұрын
I hate it when my puff is nice and voluminous and people (without permission) put their hand in it and pat it down. LIKE WHY???????????
@amyv.
@amyv. 6 жыл бұрын
B M. Sometimes I don't even like people asking to touch it. It really depends how much I know and like you to have certain access to my hair.
@bm.5266
@bm.5266 6 жыл бұрын
Amy Van Wyk I agree!
@margarbieadams8200
@margarbieadams8200 6 жыл бұрын
B M. omggg same that just pisses me off
@senpasztic875
@senpasztic875 6 жыл бұрын
Same. They don't even ask either. And my hair is very malleable, I don't think that pulling out the top will make my hair so pretty, thanks.
@shaniquawiththegoodhair3414
@shaniquawiththegoodhair3414 6 жыл бұрын
Deadassssss
@soyysauce9920
@soyysauce9920 7 жыл бұрын
When grown old ass adults come up to me and start pulling apart my curls...oooo it makes me so angry "do you ever straighten it"... Dont worry about it karen.
@jamaicancola4711
@jamaicancola4711 7 жыл бұрын
Soyy Sauce "karen" lmfaooooooo same
@HueyFreemansDeadAlt
@HueyFreemansDeadAlt 7 жыл бұрын
Soyy Sauce Lol. My mom is black and her name is Karen....wait am I white now too?
@soyysauce9920
@soyysauce9920 7 жыл бұрын
A&A friends4life are you
@nousnous4361
@nousnous4361 7 жыл бұрын
A&A friends4life don't do it. Just laugh man, it was funny
@MingusTale
@MingusTale 7 жыл бұрын
Karen 😂😂😂
@Memyclothesandi
@Memyclothesandi 7 жыл бұрын
They forgot the infamous "So when are you gonna straighten it?" I HATE THAT.
@anauli
@anauli 7 жыл бұрын
Ditto on that dear! or " Your hair would be so long if it was straight" I don't know why some people get defensive because some people choose not to put heat in my their or just don't like how straight hair looks on themselves smh
@TheKianajewell
@TheKianajewell 7 жыл бұрын
I get "you would look so much better if you straightened it" or "you should wear it straight everyday" instead of it would be so long. A lot of them really think my hair is the same length curly as it is straight smh lol
@Memyclothesandi
@Memyclothesandi 7 жыл бұрын
Lee Annas lol right, it's like society just expects to change ourselves to 'fit in' which is crazy
@Memyclothesandi
@Memyclothesandi 7 жыл бұрын
Kiana Jewell 😯 That is so rude! I hope people learn to embrace natural beauty and authenticity more and stop assuming things
@anauli
@anauli 7 жыл бұрын
Kiana Jewell Girl yes! It sucks when you get it from family or people who have textured hair. My aunt has lit told my mom that I should straighten my hair once in a while otherwise my hair can root. Like...what???? Where do people come up with this.
@stoneforest2639
@stoneforest2639 5 жыл бұрын
No, the Afro is 100% rebellious because hair is supposed to go with gravity but Afro hair is magical and sometimes fly upwards....
@stanfatou2002
@stanfatou2002 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr I freaken love it
@sachixox1689
@sachixox1689 5 жыл бұрын
totallylooneytunes PERIODT
@fenrir7065
@fenrir7065 5 жыл бұрын
Lol, like anime characters
@Firegen1
@Firegen1 5 жыл бұрын
Yas! "So rebellious. Even gravity can't keep my hair down." That's a tshirt
@smg3250
@smg3250 4 жыл бұрын
And it refuses to bend to the will of the wind
@nap5142
@nap5142 6 жыл бұрын
ppl used to stick things in my hair and laugh when they’d get stuck
@honey_wink
@honey_wink 6 жыл бұрын
KATXNAP i get embarrassed when it’s not by my friends lol
@carmenedou5541
@carmenedou5541 6 жыл бұрын
KATXNAP GURL!!! I can totally relate. And it's so Fucken annoying 😑
@jodigray2711
@jodigray2711 6 жыл бұрын
Carmen Edou one time a ladybug got stuck in my hair and they couldn’t find it 😂. We eventually found it though.
@carmenedou5541
@carmenedou5541 6 жыл бұрын
Jodi and Heather Gray stop playing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mspcuties9373
@mspcuties9373 6 жыл бұрын
OMG IT HAPPENS TO ME NOW AT MY HIGHSCHOOL
@sheri3979
@sheri3979 7 жыл бұрын
I just want to say the girl with the really long hair, her hair is gorgeous.
@sevenstarfish1546
@sevenstarfish1546 7 жыл бұрын
Sheri k I agree
@theslumflower
@theslumflower 7 жыл бұрын
Haha, that's me :) Thank you!
@blueberry4820
@blueberry4820 7 жыл бұрын
Sheri k Lol it's a wig not her hair
@sheri3979
@sheri3979 7 жыл бұрын
Even if it is, it's still beautiful. :)
@Kari0520
@Kari0520 7 жыл бұрын
That's what I was going to comment. It's so pretty! I wish my hair looked half that good.
@keren111
@keren111 7 жыл бұрын
"How do you get your hair curly" It's called I'm black
@mikeyfayemusic273
@mikeyfayemusic273 6 жыл бұрын
_Leaxplays_ I'm white with afro
@y6selyn146
@y6selyn146 6 жыл бұрын
Moana Jolie Kealoha i have a friend who has blue eyes and blonde hair, and has an afro. Its possible, but rare.
@y6selyn146
@y6selyn146 6 жыл бұрын
Moana Jolie Kealoha kinky-coily. He's biracial with his mom having pale white skin with blonde hair and blue eyes, and his dad being african american.
@y6selyn146
@y6selyn146 6 жыл бұрын
Moana Jolie Kealoha Ohh now i see what you mean, i was confused. Thanks for clearing it up.
@anonymousprepper1463
@anonymousprepper1463 6 жыл бұрын
I beg to differ... Well I try training to avoid the afro... I have 3b 3c hair with low porosity and i'm white..
@sophiadavenport3959
@sophiadavenport3959 5 жыл бұрын
Some mothers are unaware of the emotional/psychological damage they cause to their children: My mother told me to not wear my natural hair to my grandmothers funeral because I would humiliate the family.
@capricornofjanuary4thbakug92
@capricornofjanuary4thbakug92 5 жыл бұрын
My mom used to do things like that when I was little. She used to tell me all about people dying from crossing the street and getting hurt. I can't cross the street without panicking.
@joshuaagbettor5610
@joshuaagbettor5610 5 жыл бұрын
Im so sorry that happened to u
@Manuel66318
@Manuel66318 5 жыл бұрын
Deamn.. that even hurt me 😢
@cuqiie1
@cuqiie1 5 жыл бұрын
Oh wow!!!!
@Susannah-Dean
@Susannah-Dean 5 жыл бұрын
I say got-Daiiiiimn! I thought my grandma was bad. She told me I was too dark to where my Afro. Then I found pics of her from the 70s with a huge fro
@splash2849
@splash2849 6 жыл бұрын
“Have u ever lost anything in there?”
@bwzboddah5219
@bwzboddah5219 6 жыл бұрын
Amiya OG sticking pencils in my hair
@myisha_kellice2550
@myisha_kellice2550 6 жыл бұрын
One time someone threw a glue stick and it went straight in my hair.
@papabless3200
@papabless3200 6 жыл бұрын
Amiya OG i mean, i found 15 bobby pins in my hair after taking a bun down a few days ago so...
@awsome4564
@awsome4564 6 жыл бұрын
Pens and pencils yes
@imspidermanbro.
@imspidermanbro. 6 жыл бұрын
I actually got a pencil stuck in my hair for a week and a half..my friend found it,and used it🤦🏾‍♀️🙄
@icantgetridofthisusernamehelp
@icantgetridofthisusernamehelp 7 жыл бұрын
"Can things stick in it? Can I put my pencil in there?" "How do you get it so curly?"
@JAR-zm2ln
@JAR-zm2ln 7 жыл бұрын
my friend isn't black but she has really poofy and curly hair and she always tells me how she gets those questions all the time 😂
@chynna3050
@chynna3050 7 жыл бұрын
ꜱᴛᴇᴀᴍɪɴ' ʜᴏᴛ ɢᴀʀʙᴀɢᴇ I have 4b/4c hair and I always stick things in my hair and forget about it and be like ooh a pen ...ooooo a candy cane....ooh a pool noddle
@mahalatucker3535
@mahalatucker3535 7 жыл бұрын
ꜱᴛᴇᴀᴍɪɴ' ʜᴏᴛ ɢᴀʀʙᴀɢᴇ oh my gosh I know exactly what you mean I walk out of my classroom with half a dozen pens and pencils in my hair
@TheOnlyGHero09
@TheOnlyGHero09 7 жыл бұрын
ꜱᴛᴇᴀᴍɪɴ' ʜᴏᴛ ɢᴀʀʙᴀɢᴇ I actually did lose a pencil in my hair once in grade school 😂
@jenbroccoli861
@jenbroccoli861 7 жыл бұрын
Chynna N. Sameee.....omg!!!!! Lol!!!!!
@mingiteez
@mingiteez 7 жыл бұрын
In my school the black girls always get bullied for their hair even by the black boys. I mind my business but I always get my hair pulled so it physically hurts my scalp and I'm always getting asked if its real even when it clearly is. The white boys always tease us and tell us we have horse hair or snakes in our hair. One of them put chewing gum in my friends hair so she never had it natural again. There's this girl with weave and even the teachers talk about her hair. A white girl has weave but no one says anything to her they only do it to the black girls. No matter what style we have our hair in they always make fun of us.
@pooplord4337
@pooplord4337 7 жыл бұрын
That is so awful... are any teachers or whatever punishing them for it? That's harassment, especially the pulling and putting gum in the hair. This really shouldn't be happening :(
@mhypersonic
@mhypersonic 7 жыл бұрын
Maddy get some parrents to come in yelling about it and claim racial discrimination present and you will see a change.
@stephi6792
@stephi6792 7 жыл бұрын
Dude what country are you in?
@mingiteez
@mingiteez 7 жыл бұрын
England
@stephi6792
@stephi6792 7 жыл бұрын
Maddy that's so fucked up. Go talk to someone in authority
@iCrowLink
@iCrowLink 6 жыл бұрын
I think it's ridiculous that we live in a world where people even have to make videos like this. Not touching someone else's hair without their consent is just common sense.. Stop touching people's hair..
@scotchmints6368
@scotchmints6368 5 жыл бұрын
Crow one time i was walking down the street and some random guy touched my hair and ran off doing a littlle dance. Lets just say i was very disturbed
@dianaoscar8896
@dianaoscar8896 5 жыл бұрын
Scotchmints Lol. That is incredibly warped and disturbing.
@mildanimal5967
@mildanimal5967 4 жыл бұрын
Do you suppose Vulcans have the same problem with their ears?
@sneakerhead6625
@sneakerhead6625 4 жыл бұрын
lol i’m white and it still happens to me 24/7. My friends are all black and love to play with my “white” hair. I let them as they’re my friends, but it is annoying when they don’t ask or if a teacher just grabs my hair. I couldn’t imagine having to deal with that so often
@kainicholas2526
@kainicholas2526 3 жыл бұрын
The video isn’t about touching people’s hair, that’s just something some people have done
@finthehuman3649
@finthehuman3649 6 жыл бұрын
"Is that a wig?" *Pauses and stares at eachother* *HAhaHAHahahAhAHAhaha* Yes.
@chantellegus2069
@chantellegus2069 7 жыл бұрын
Don't touch my hair... these are the feelings i wear.
@idiotsandwich9326
@idiotsandwich9326 7 жыл бұрын
Dontt touch my soulllll
@khiyahawthorne1351
@khiyahawthorne1351 7 жыл бұрын
chantelle hay Me: cries in Solange😭😭😭
@bk-yf5tn
@bk-yf5tn 6 жыл бұрын
Omg my queen solange
@SahsaniTheStaR1
@SahsaniTheStaR1 7 жыл бұрын
It seems like some white people ( and other races in the comments including black) are trying to downplay these experiences mentioned in the vid. I just wanted to say it's okay to celebrate or talk about differences. It doesn't make black folks more special than you and it doesn't mean that we all aren't just human
@h3llboyyy407
@h3llboyyy407 7 жыл бұрын
d.a they like "white people can have an afro #alllivesmatter" like WTF 😂
@leticianeves7826
@leticianeves7826 6 жыл бұрын
Worst question Why dont you straighten it??? 😡😡😡
@shortybeck6901
@shortybeck6901 6 жыл бұрын
My mama always tells me, "Your hair's so pretty... when it's straight. Let me straighten it for you!"
@mirian9251
@mirian9251 5 жыл бұрын
And when they say , " yeah its nice but oh my god imagine if it was STRAIGHTENED !!!! Me:🙄
@zoemadison578
@zoemadison578 5 жыл бұрын
I have natural hair and I don’t understand why that’s a bad question
@erikah843
@erikah843 5 жыл бұрын
@@zoemadison578 It's all about context and connotation.
@lexi7500
@lexi7500 5 жыл бұрын
Ugh I had to listen to this my entire childhood.
@jfdog7480
@jfdog7480 6 жыл бұрын
I am 4C and i am proud
@1claydoe
@1claydoe 5 жыл бұрын
same g
@sachixox1689
@sachixox1689 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 4-B
@helixorarts1192
@helixorarts1192 4 жыл бұрын
bruh im 2a :( curly hair is so cool omg
@gink9632
@gink9632 4 жыл бұрын
4B lowkey 4a
@roses2122
@roses2122 4 жыл бұрын
jf dog i’m 1c and all proud😂
@dianakan4060
@dianakan4060 7 жыл бұрын
black people have the most amazing hair hands down
@loloth13
@loloth13 7 жыл бұрын
iiMeebleFriendii yeah cause nothing is like it! Nobody has our hair and that makes us even more special✨🙌🏿
@dianakan4060
@dianakan4060 7 жыл бұрын
btw im white
@chynna3050
@chynna3050 7 жыл бұрын
It's hands down the most versatile hair types tbh
@Jordan-xg4pn
@Jordan-xg4pn 7 жыл бұрын
black hair is really diverse and all of them are so beautiful if it's maintained and properly taken care of.
@icilmaa
@icilmaa 7 жыл бұрын
Now if we could just get the whole of the black population to realise this.
@anayalator_221
@anayalator_221 7 жыл бұрын
I used to be tolerant about people touching my hair if they asked too, until one day I was wearing my huge Afro. It took me a while to get it the shape I wanted. I went to the mall with my mom and saw my friend and her mom. I went and gave my friend a hug then her mother, and as I was hugging the mom, she runs her fingers through my hair, scalp to ends. She continues to play with it saying "I love your hair it's so soft and everywhere!" Long story short, I had to walk around that mall with my hair looking a hot ass mess because a grown woman decided to just put her hands in my head (without even asking) and fuck up the work I put into it. It may have looked like it was everywhere but I can guarantee you every strand had a place. That was the last time I let someone touch my hair.
@gulliver831
@gulliver831 7 жыл бұрын
cool story bro
@1nner.w0rld
@1nner.w0rld 7 жыл бұрын
gulliver lmao
@minx9945
@minx9945 7 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@OROgoldenpair1
@OROgoldenpair1 6 жыл бұрын
Scalp to ends? The horror, Ida left haha
@loliatamuno5262
@loliatamuno5262 6 жыл бұрын
100% EVER strand has a place! PREACH!
@millisandra3017
@millisandra3017 6 жыл бұрын
I hate it when people are like : " Your Hair is so easy to handle! You don't even have to brush it" or " Can I touch your Hair it's soooo soft and fluffy!?". But the worst thing is when they're just randomly moving their hands through you hair, ruining everything you've done this morning to make it look the way it looks, and they don't apologise! They're just like : " C'mon it's just hair!" , " Ok Dramaqueen!"
@chalseywilder937
@chalseywilder937 5 жыл бұрын
I just slap them. Not wasting my breath.
@kiaramoore9439
@kiaramoore9439 5 жыл бұрын
Easy my ass!🙃
@feriaxxx4568
@feriaxxx4568 5 жыл бұрын
millisandra frrr.About easy.Where?😭
@jadawashington1234
@jadawashington1234 5 жыл бұрын
top questions I get: “is that your real hair?” “is that a wig/weave?” “omg your hair is so poofy!” “how often do you wash your hair?” “how come you never straighten you’re hair?” “it’s so big!!!” “can I touch it?” 😒😒
@maramma4780
@maramma4780 7 жыл бұрын
since when were braids unprofessional what??????????
@h3834
@h3834 7 жыл бұрын
Tecla Okoro when black people wear them
@maramma4780
@maramma4780 7 жыл бұрын
Aka Gray well I'm black and braids never got a negative response
@cdmp777
@cdmp777 7 жыл бұрын
Well these people kinda sound like they are from the U.K. So maybe it's a bit different there? (:
@lorelei23
@lorelei23 7 жыл бұрын
Tecla Okoro same, I'm in the US tho so maybe braids are more accepted here?
@h3834
@h3834 7 жыл бұрын
Tecla Okoro I'm black to,well I don't have black skin tho
@Josh-el1lr
@Josh-el1lr 7 жыл бұрын
I like that they included guys in this video. A lot of natural pages and channels exclude guys from the natural hair community as though we don't have the same hair. The natural hair community has overcome the belief that our hair is ugly, but we still haven't quite grasped that natural is for males and females. This video is a refreshing change😌
@letsbehonest935
@letsbehonest935 7 жыл бұрын
Josh George Yeah, very true!
@lillycandyrose
@lillycandyrose 7 жыл бұрын
..."the natural hair community" omg.
@Whotfiskiara
@Whotfiskiara 7 жыл бұрын
Daria Rose K what's wrong with saying the natural hair community
@kandb4life
@kandb4life 6 жыл бұрын
Yes! A lot of it is that some Black don't embrace their natural hair either. They wave it or keep it super low. Trying to get that Hawaiian silky look without the weave or perm LOL that's why some men bully women with natural hair. Crazy part is some men nowadays are like I don't want my woman with a weave, it's fake and deceptive. Can they make up their minds?! lol
@jettafeatherston1978
@jettafeatherston1978 6 жыл бұрын
My last maiden name is George!
@CHLOCHLOLP
@CHLOCHLOLP 6 жыл бұрын
i really do not understand how someone hair can be unprofessional unless its a complete mess, but afro hair isnt messy , just because its puffy doesnt mean its not clean. and braids are the cleanest way you can style your hair. working people have always used braids in history because it keeps your hair tidy and clean.
@keke48018141
@keke48018141 5 жыл бұрын
I remember being asked "what's the point of this whole natural hair movement?" and "why black people gotta makes such a big deal out of everything?" I tried to explain to that certain person what my hair means to me and other people of my race and this woman began to go on about how "white people do the same thing", "we also go through a lot of hair damage", "we change our hair too", "our hair is also hard to manage", blah blah blah. She clearly took what I said wrong because I wasn't trying to point out the differences of our racial groups, just the personal struggles of mine. I literally gave up on trying to explain what pride my hair has and how it symbolizes years of struggle and oppression leading up to the triumph of today. How I keep my hair this way to embrace myself, my culture, and my roots. How over the years, what we all saw as beautiful or professional was the complete opposite of my natural hair type, and how nearly every little black girl destroyed their hair just to achieve society's portrayal of what beauty looks like. Some other people may not agree, but this is my interpretation of the natural hair movement. And it's a shame that some people will just never understand or sympathize with it...
@kiaramoore9439
@kiaramoore9439 5 жыл бұрын
Some people just don’t understand
@ksam5673
@ksam5673 5 жыл бұрын
white people don't understand and never will! ...see the video interview with (Kathy Griffin)- she says; I quote "I never knew white people could be so evil".....I mean....c'mon everybody knows about the slave trade/the american Indians/atrocities in Asia/Aboriginal....& it's only when she got blackballed by the industry she said she understood what it meant to be 'disenfranchised & targeted' ....a white woman who is 'artsy' hangs with people of all nations/sexuality but only acknowledged certain facts after her own experiences!
@theawkwarddolphin4752
@theawkwarddolphin4752 4 жыл бұрын
@@kee7374 even though I'm not white I still don't think you should just assume that all white people don't understand
@theawkwarddolphin4752
@theawkwarddolphin4752 4 жыл бұрын
@@ksam5673 Even though I'm not white I still dont think you should just assume ALL white people are like that
@titi8052
@titi8052 3 жыл бұрын
@@theawkwarddolphin4752 But it's TRUE tho most of them dont and when we try to explain to them and they brush it off like we trying to be extra or special or we make a big deal out of everything and I'm tried of it honestly 🤦🏾‍♀️
@electricmagnetic
@electricmagnetic 7 жыл бұрын
you don't have to be black to empathize with any of this. I admit, I was curious because I grew up in a country where there are only white ppl. when I did finally meet a black person for the first time, I was curious but it would never cross my mind to just put my hand on their head. it has nothing to do with hair, culture etc it's just proper manners.
@Samchocolate11
@Samchocolate11 7 жыл бұрын
electric_magnetic What country did you grow up in?
@LocalForestWitch111
@LocalForestWitch111 7 жыл бұрын
Samchocolate11 I live in Poland, in our capitol, and I think 98% of people are white. In other areas, smaller cities and rural areas seing POC can be quite an event. :P It sucks, I love diversity.
@blasianprincess8763
@blasianprincess8763 7 жыл бұрын
electric_magnetic nobody said u did . They just said how certain natural black girls feel with these questions
@Samchocolate11
@Samchocolate11 7 жыл бұрын
Anna Schmeidl Yeah I love diversity too
@lillycandyrose
@lillycandyrose 7 жыл бұрын
Exactly... I feel they're making out to be something else. I find afros and natural hair the most beautiful and gorgeous. I have thick frizzy 7 layers of wavy natural hair and people teased me, touched, talked about my hair. Did I make it into something larger than it is? I'm white, I am half Persian but, they were being rude or intrigued or complimentary not racist. It's hair. End of story. I love the natural look but, there is a lot of pressure in the African-American/British community on weaves and trying to change your natural hair. So, do you what you prefer I guess.
@shaniceq4575
@shaniceq4575 7 жыл бұрын
You forgot "Your hair would look so nice when its straightened!"
@kikiii.2201
@kikiii.2201 5 жыл бұрын
Ughhh, i hate that.
@mmg6379
@mmg6379 5 жыл бұрын
Honestly when I wore my natural hair for a while, they say "omg u should straighten it! YOU WOULD LOOK SOOO PRETTY WITH IT!" I'm like wtf? Ur sayin I don't look good? Skip a few years later I perm my hair and people say "OO OO WEAR YOUR HAIR NATURAL. IT WOULD LOOK SO PRETTY!" So then at that point i'm like.....just shut tf up already and lemme do me
@mariafernandadonato8013
@mariafernandadonato8013 5 жыл бұрын
When people say "it would be so nice to see your hair straightened" I just reply "No, it wouldn't. I did it once, won't ever do it again. You won't ever see it, and be glad for my decision" (Sorry about any mistakes, English is not my mother language)
@sadie2melw
@sadie2melw 5 жыл бұрын
I stretched my natural hair and wore it in a bun to work once. A coworker of mine said that he "likes it better that way." Really? As if I would even care how some random person I work with prefers my hair.
@kiaramoore9439
@kiaramoore9439 5 жыл бұрын
When I straightened my hair Friend: I like it better like that! Me: *walked away immediately * It was never the same again
@treasure7278
@treasure7278 6 жыл бұрын
The reason why black people are so sensitive about their hair is because Afro takes a lot of maintenance. Any small tampering will affect it, and it's hard to readjust it to the way it was before so if someone just comes and touches my hair, do you know how angry I would be? Very angry. Fixing it back can be a big problem, as you can see, it's thick, tough and huge just like a forest. Hard to maintain so just keep your hands to yourself.
@WannabeWriter100
@WannabeWriter100 7 жыл бұрын
I've never understood people who feel like they have a right to touch a complete stranger. e.g. people who touch pregnant bellies and Afro hair. Hell, when I was a toddler I had ringlets and adults literally used to come up and paw at it with my mum beside me going, "Um, excuse me, fuck off?" What in the world is wrong with people? Honestly.
@mrs.w8193
@mrs.w8193 4 жыл бұрын
Rainy Day yes! Exactly. When I was pregnant with my twin boys. I had strangers touch my belly. I am so uncomfortable with people invading my personal space. It was like torture for me. I also had people try touch my hair before. But I was quicker that time and dodged. Not so quick when I was pregnant. 😢
@elpesto1794
@elpesto1794 4 жыл бұрын
Rainy Day I guess it’s just common curiosity
@de_la_flav9775
@de_la_flav9775 7 жыл бұрын
Im a grown woman and my mother always hated my, well at least it seems like it. Everytime we meet its always a struggle. She is pushing me to get my hair permed and flat iron it. Everytime she looks at my hair she says eww to this sponge kink. I have 3c 4a hair and hers is something between 4a and 4c, but she always perm and put extensions over it. She never wear her natural hair, ever! She says that it is not presentable, its not beautiful and no normal person would want to wear "this". She makes appointments for me to perm my hair without asking and I just don't go. She gets mad, call me stupid and an imbecile. She connects natural hair with laziness, lack of style and say that only people with no taste and money would want to walk with that in the head. We fight because of that and I am so tired of it. Trying to talk or explain why I dont want a perm, she say that at least she is wearing real human and manageable hair on her head. I love my natural hair and I always will ❤️
@LesTwinsSociety
@LesTwinsSociety 7 жыл бұрын
Flying Angel I hate that for you, and I truly hope that one day she sees the beauty in natural hair. My mom didn't understand why I went natural at first, but after a while she started to like it and even want to go natural herself, but I feel like a lot of people are too afraid to even try to transition because of the hate and backlash.
@juliaeaster4384
@juliaeaster4384 7 жыл бұрын
Flying Angel I'm so sorry. Things like this make me sad. My mom refuses to go natural because she says she can't maintain it. Because she sees how much work I put into mine. But she's always encouraging. Natural hair is a lot of work 😓 thank you for sharing this. I love how positive you are
@uncletea5632
@uncletea5632 7 жыл бұрын
Forget her.😕 Natural hair costs alot. No mother should tell her child that. How can she not like what God made for her ?
@Nicole0627
@Nicole0627 7 жыл бұрын
Flying Angel You are a great daughter because I would not let my mom talk to me like tht.
@jc_80
@jc_80 7 жыл бұрын
Flying Angel sad you are not allowed to be you my daughter likes her hair plaited it very thick and I have to help her wash it she is her own person she has no desire to straighten her hair I think it's cool she has her own mind and is not swayed by social pressure, I straighten my hair because it's easier and my mom wears wigs we are doing our own thing I hope your mom sees you as an individual rather than a reflection of herself.....
@janaeg2698
@janaeg2698 7 жыл бұрын
The top questions I get: "Can I touch your hair?" "Do you ever straighten your hair?" "When will you straighten your hair?" "Can I straighten your hair?" "How long does it take to straighten your hair?" Come on! I love it natural!
@TheFormlessBlob
@TheFormlessBlob 6 жыл бұрын
"You should get a sew-in" "Let me box braid it" "My mom has this protein treatment" And my favorite: Me: *finished doing my hair* Annoying Person: "Go fix that hair it's time to go" Me: DID YOU NOT JUST SEE ME IN THE BATHROOM WITH A COMB AND THE HAIR TIES THAT ARE NOW IN MY HEAD
@p.m.a
@p.m.a 5 жыл бұрын
Unicorn Princess Kitty my mum is always telling me to do my hair ... after I just spent nearly 30 - 40 minutes combing it 😶🙄
@p.m.a
@p.m.a 5 жыл бұрын
Janae G One of my friends has asked my everyday for a month when she can straighten my hair. I my head I’m like “ Never , leave me alone weirdo!!”
@oRaiikouo
@oRaiikouo 5 жыл бұрын
Questions I get is , what is it like to have Afro hair I'm like it cool
@lyricmelody2002
@lyricmelody2002 5 жыл бұрын
Janae G I H A T E T H I S . I hate all of these things.
@blackmermaid1
@blackmermaid1 5 жыл бұрын
You know what I hate the most? When black women say “natural hair ain’t for everyone.” That PISSES me off
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 5 жыл бұрын
They are self hating hyprocrites
@emilykalunga3510
@emilykalunga3510 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Yes, some people don't suit afro hair, but don't shame them for it. Plus, what defines "natural hair"? Is it just black hair? White, black, Asian, mixed and everyone else has their "natural hair", so it doesn't make sense to say it doesn't suit them. I completely agree with you.
@pm2598
@pm2598 4 жыл бұрын
That is hella messed up. How is it not for you if it's what you were born with?
@emilykalunga3510
@emilykalunga3510 4 жыл бұрын
The hair you're born with is your natural hair. The only way I can think of NOT having your natural hair is by either shaving it all off or wearing a synthetic wig. All hair is natural hair.
@joelle2497
@joelle2497 4 жыл бұрын
I agree, but a lot of people chose to permanently straighten it just for maintenance reasons
@kittydollsxo189
@kittydollsxo189 7 жыл бұрын
When u go yolo with the oil and all the sudden people wanna touch ur hair ....
@scotchmints6368
@scotchmints6368 5 жыл бұрын
Tsss i feel that
@LSERA13
@LSERA13 7 жыл бұрын
This is off the topic, but the worst is when you spend so much time "perfecting" your hair and you get in the car only to have it messed up by the process of getting in and out of the car, the headrest, and/or the roof of the car. Depending on my hairstyle, getting in the car can look like I'm playing a game of limbo.
@blk5772
@blk5772 7 жыл бұрын
The girl who talked about parents relaxing their child's hair for so long that they don't know what their hair texture actually looks like, is literally me. I really thought my hair was naturally straight for a very long time but I've done so much research this past year, trying to find my hairtype and what products to use. I don't regret going natural❤
@fluffydonut3706
@fluffydonut3706 6 жыл бұрын
They forgot the "My hair is naturally curly!" SAID BY A WHITE PERSON WITH *STRAIGHT* OR *WAVY* HAIR!!!!!!!!
@scotchmints6368
@scotchmints6368 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a white chick with natural hair, swimmers bod and thick ass. My black friends joke that im an albino and i kinda take offense to that, i dunno maybe im weird?
@kyladarden5174
@kyladarden5174 5 жыл бұрын
Scotch mints Maybe u have a little black in u bc usually white people don't have that type of hair u know?
@scotchmints6368
@scotchmints6368 5 жыл бұрын
Kyla Darden yeah probably, i mean, all white people have ancestors that where black, i think being white was through evolution and being in colder areas, probably developed during an ice age, like if you look at one species in two different environments, one in the desert that is orange and one that is darker in surroundings, you can find that they might look orange or black based on camoflage (they may look different in colour in the same species, applys so all animals) and theres also the evolutionary advantage of having darker skin in warmer areas, and lighter skin in colder areas, even if it seems to opposite (since dark objects are warmer in direct sunlight and light objects tend to opposite that, remember we are not objects and its more difficult then that) it makes sense. How about melanin, the effect the sun has on melanin is often seen in people with freckles, which are most likely because of the exposure to the sun (i have freckles i was not born with, just like everyone of every race) melanin reacts by consentrating on certain areas of the skin, that could be the opposite of what happened to white people it despersed over time (as it has been shown that freckles dissapear, or lighten if not exposed to sun anymore) not saying that being black is a freckle ( it"s wayyy more complicated and is due to the higher amount of melanin, kinda like in a freckle) but thats and example of how melanin acts, and evolutionarily that has to have had (and probably still has) a positive effect, otherwise it wouldnt happen. And as i know i am not the smartest person to this topic, heck i probably got some things wrong in this wall of words, but yeah, i probably have black ancestors and happened to get a resessive gene or two. (You too 😄)
@kyladarden5174
@kyladarden5174 5 жыл бұрын
Scotch mints Yeah u probably did bc all of us do and u say that your adopted, maybe one of your real parents a black genes. I know I have the same genes bc I'm black myself.
@kyladarden5174
@kyladarden5174 5 жыл бұрын
Scotch mints But I'm tryna figure out what kinda melanin trump has😷😥😥😶😶
@yourmum6879
@yourmum6879 7 жыл бұрын
This is so true. All the white people came and started touching my hair and It was so annoying. So the next day I did what they did to me. That backfired 🔥💯
@enaruvie
@enaruvie 5 жыл бұрын
your mum 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@al_exists
@al_exists 5 жыл бұрын
👌
@ksam5673
@ksam5673 5 жыл бұрын
I would have been like it's actually £5 per touch!
@rubynelson1164
@rubynelson1164 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I am white and i don't want anyone touching my hair. .
@boysafe5818
@boysafe5818 7 жыл бұрын
This is what I usually get almost every day in my school every one wants to touch my hair and question me.... Why is your hair like this? Wtf😕
@hannahw90hw
@hannahw90hw 7 жыл бұрын
I get asked all the time if its a perm.... somehow I find that offensive ....am I being unreasonable?
@chynna3050
@chynna3050 7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Montana It's reasonable to be bothered by ignorance.
@mhypersonic
@mhypersonic 7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Montana na, your fine. they are being rude and stupid thinking only straight hair is natural. never doupt yourself.
@jayemaelle3462
@jayemaelle3462 7 жыл бұрын
back in highschool I stabbed a girl who stuck a pencil in my afro (I didnt feel it) :)
@ryanpriest943
@ryanpriest943 7 жыл бұрын
Jaye Maelle I bet she did 😂😂😂
@20centuryfox100
@20centuryfox100 7 жыл бұрын
"OMG WHY ARE YOU SO SENSITIVE ABOUT YOUR HAIR IT'S JUST HAIR GET OVER IT OMG OMG OMG" Wearing Afro hairstyles is seen as an act of rebellion BECAUSE our society views it as such. If our society didn't stigmatize Afro hair and make it so difficult for people with Afro hair to be taken seriously as human beings, then wearing Afro hairstyles would not be an act of rebellion.
@loloth13
@loloth13 7 жыл бұрын
20centuryfox100 well said sister👏🏿🙌🏿💜
@ladylaurenia
@ladylaurenia 7 жыл бұрын
20centuryfox100 preach it!
@trip2themoon
@trip2themoon 7 жыл бұрын
I think it's seen as an act of rebellion in your own mind. As a white man I've never looked at people with afro hair as rebellious, but this is the 21st century after all. "An act of rebellion" get over yourself.
@ladylaurenia
@ladylaurenia 7 жыл бұрын
trip2themoon As a white man you have no understanding of the contempt people with afro hair are meet with in and outside of our community. It's seen as militant, unattractive and unprofessional in MANY spaces. But of course you would not know this. You can google the many instances in which black people with afro hair in the workplace were told to change it, since you think we're making this shit up.
@20centuryfox100
@20centuryfox100 7 жыл бұрын
Well, thank you for words of wisdom. When people with Afro hair stop being discriminated against by everyone else in the world, maybe the rest of us peasants will believe you.
@Theyluvtrin
@Theyluvtrin 5 жыл бұрын
I once yelled at this girl for touching my hair without asking also people would walk up to me and be like is that's your real hair as if I'm bald. I remember in fifth grade I wore my hair out and the kids at my school laughed and said your hair looks like an umbrella and me being at school was like ok just laugh with them I guess
@ameliawatkins2201
@ameliawatkins2201 6 жыл бұрын
My natural hair experience has been very positive. However, I do get asked why am I natural. That question is weird to me because I know other races of people dont get why do you wear your hair natural. Why is it that black people get that? Wearing our hair in its natural state needs to be seen as normal. These 4a spiral coils literally grow out my head the same was bone strait hair grows out of someone elses. I love seeing natural hair on my fellow sistas because in the past our ancestors were made to feel ashamed of it. It was even a law one time not to have it.
@Boss_etc853
@Boss_etc853 6 жыл бұрын
Amelia Watkins exactly, but they would never ask becky why she's growing her natural hair
@ameliawatkins2201
@ameliawatkins2201 6 жыл бұрын
vivi_ etc Yes. Girl. I find it so odd. Its like asking why someone goes outside with their brown eyes. Lol.
@Boss_etc853
@Boss_etc853 6 жыл бұрын
Amelia Watkins yooo😂😂 foreal
@jesuswilljudge7296
@jesuswilljudge7296 5 жыл бұрын
And black people are the ones that will ask you why you wear it natural smh
@GabrielleEvaLondon
@GabrielleEvaLondon 7 жыл бұрын
I had a colleague at work who liked to chuck bits of paper and other random things in my hair as a game and see if I'd notice. Made my blood boil!
@jayjohn9620
@jayjohn9620 6 жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience. At school people would through pencils in my hair and said they were playing darts. 😢😢
@lifeasnicole2592
@lifeasnicole2592 7 жыл бұрын
"Are you going to straighten it." Like omg no...
@is3472
@is3472 5 жыл бұрын
nicolegirl4444 My stand a answer: Are you getting a nose job? Straight faced.
@nataliawilliams6869
@nataliawilliams6869 4 жыл бұрын
I would say no, are you gonna curl yours?
@purplegirl1152
@purplegirl1152 3 жыл бұрын
I would say "Why would I want THAT?"
@smallforestdweller6999
@smallforestdweller6999 6 жыл бұрын
I think that's disgusting to ask if someones hair affects them being employed, like "oh you have your natural afro hair, which is so unprofessional!".
@uhhhhawahauh7376
@uhhhhawahauh7376 5 жыл бұрын
No they're asking if they struggle, and they do- look up the statistics for this kinda thing, it's insane how biased employers are based on hair and quite frankly disgusting.
@kevinfox298
@kevinfox298 5 жыл бұрын
While it's true that having natural hair can affect your employment (to the point that California had to ban hair-based discrimination in the workplace), it's strikes me as a really invasive question to ask someone unless you're at least very, *very* good friends. I want to add, as a white person with 3b curly hair, whose colleagues cannot actually tell the difference between when my hair is just-woke-up messy or put-in-an-effort-and-styled (I guess they assume curly hair is supposed to look messy?), no one has ever asked me to straighten my hair or alter it in any way to be more professional-looking at work. These "isn't your hair so unprofessional!" comments and bringing hair into the professional image debate is literally just about curbing and controlling Blackness and making them fit a White-centric ideal. It's not about "fitting a certain look", *it's about assuming that Black features, and therefore Black people, are unfit for the workplace* and I'm not surprised a lot of Black people don't want to talk about this deep struggle. I wouldn't want to, either. #NaturalHairIsProfessional
@alexamendoza9470
@alexamendoza9470 6 жыл бұрын
It's rude to touch people without permission, Brenda 👊
@crystalm.223
@crystalm.223 7 жыл бұрын
"Omg why is it greasy." Because it needs moisture in some way.
@meia2076
@meia2076 6 жыл бұрын
Internet Obsessed oml yessss
@anndeecosita3586
@anndeecosita3586 7 жыл бұрын
I have had complete strangers come up to me and pull on my curls. Plus I get annoying questions from people who seem ignorant that black women who are not biracial can have long hair.
@adc2327
@adc2327 5 жыл бұрын
I had long hair and I am a black woman not biracial. I've even had black people not think I was black because of my hair. I ended up developing alopecia. So now I have a shaved head just like the Black Panther movie. I'm older than most here online so it's been about 25 years. When I was younger with that shaved head it was such a novelty I have had strangers touch my head, both men and women without asking.
@emilyadeliawhittle1276
@emilyadeliawhittle1276 6 жыл бұрын
Listen I am white, and my fiancé’s best friend is mixed race, and I Touched his Afro once because he offered. We were having a conversation about hair and I was genuinely interested in how people care for their natural hair where it is so very different from Caucasian hair. BUT I would NEVER do it or even ask in a public setting to a stranger. That’s someone else’s BODY people. It’s the same as physical assault in my opinion. Black or mixed race individuals are NOT animals to be “petted”. I can’t believe someone would be so ignorant as to assault someone like that and think it’s alright.
@Firegen1
@Firegen1 5 жыл бұрын
That's the unfortunate heritage of Eugenics, Emily. Most people don't mind if they know the person, are politely asked and have their consent respected. However, the panellists are talking about those who lack social awareness, self awareness and social grace. It feels like an us and them game which can turn racist fast but people like me with afros are well aware there are plenty of people who are intrigued but also raised to be adult about it.
@mrs.w8193
@mrs.w8193 4 жыл бұрын
Emily Adelia Whittle why did you even want to touch his Hair? I am just curious. I have never had any interest in wanting to touch a white woman or man’s hair. And my husband is white. I just never understand the fascination with wanting to touch someone else’s hair that you are not in an intimate relationship or loving relationship with. But then again, I am very big on personal space.
@aurora5795
@aurora5795 5 жыл бұрын
I think that if you really want to point out someone's afro you can just say "I love your hair, it's beautiful (:" and keep it friendly and polite without touching
@ollynolly4592
@ollynolly4592 7 жыл бұрын
I did not know my hair texture until I turned 14. now I'm 15. 1 whole year natural
@atypicallynormal9625
@atypicallynormal9625 7 жыл бұрын
Oli Joni proud of ya!
@kiarapritchett6896
@kiarapritchett6896 7 жыл бұрын
Oli Joni yayyyyy keep goin girl! embrace those natural locks!
@lorried.7502
@lorried.7502 6 жыл бұрын
I started when I was 13 now I'm 15 I 💖💖 my natural hair
@gracenambo9219
@gracenambo9219 6 жыл бұрын
Goals
@cainini6129
@cainini6129 6 жыл бұрын
I started when i was 10 or 11 now I’m 15 natural sisters!!!
@ugly1432
@ugly1432 7 жыл бұрын
I once asked my friend in girl scouts if I could touch her hair but only after she asked to touch mine and I was a curious child. I wouldn't ask someone now but I don't think it's that rude if you are friends and curious but don't go randomly touching peoples hair
@selenaitara
@selenaitara 7 жыл бұрын
Noodile I agree completely. If I know someone really well and they asked, I would let them play with my hair. I never thought the whole "reaching without asking" happened until it happened to me a few months ago because I figured people had more decency to at least ask. It was by a girl I sorta knew(we did a group project together) who has straight hair. I normally wear my hair in buns or braids but I decided to wear it out as a fluffy afro one day. She saw my hair and almost instantly went for it without asking..
@ugly1432
@ugly1432 7 жыл бұрын
Selena Itara That girl is rude.. I hope she learned not to do that
@stephanielynn9998
@stephanielynn9998 7 жыл бұрын
It is rude, we are not pets
@ugly1432
@ugly1432 7 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Lymon I didnt say you were?
@raregem8886
@raregem8886 7 жыл бұрын
No, it is not rude to ask, especially if you are friends. Touching without permission is rude.
@444shleyyy
@444shleyyy 7 жыл бұрын
And then the casual, "How do you get your hair like that?!" ....water Susan.. water.
@oumou3411
@oumou3411 6 жыл бұрын
"BBC Three", teaching all of us how to be polite, lol.
@jazz-axy9924
@jazz-axy9924 7 жыл бұрын
*praises fro* *2secs later* "it would look SO long if you relaxed it" NO!
@LJlnn
@LJlnn 6 жыл бұрын
King DAmnJoon iiikkkrrr
@lenzo5097
@lenzo5097 7 жыл бұрын
"Do you ever brush it?" "Do you ever straighten your hair?" *people throwing pencils in my hair to see if it gets stuck" :)))))))
@jayemaelle3462
@jayemaelle3462 7 жыл бұрын
I stabbed a girl with the pencil she put in my hair (I didnt feel it) :)
@makaylalee48
@makaylalee48 7 жыл бұрын
Karlene Suncar the pencil does get stuck doesnt it
@remusgrrrl
@remusgrrrl 7 жыл бұрын
I am betting this hasn't happened to you outside of grade school. Pencil throwing that is.
@lenzo5097
@lenzo5097 7 жыл бұрын
remus grrrl girl no it happens in high school alllll the time
@hlogirangata1376
@hlogirangata1376 6 жыл бұрын
lol in South Africa, The apartheid police used to stick pencils in black people/racially ambiguous people. If the pencil didn't stick in the hair, the person would be classified as black and obviously treated like shit.
@Sunlight-zx2ur
@Sunlight-zx2ur 3 жыл бұрын
“Can I touch it? NO! GET AWAY!”😂
@valthomas1659
@valthomas1659 6 жыл бұрын
"We're learning about our HAIRitage" I love unintentional puns
@babradomenic7564
@babradomenic7564 7 жыл бұрын
I live in Scandinavia, and I hate it when people ask me if they can touch my hair, some even try to touch without asking..and I am like, what if I keep asking you the same, I keep my Afro all summer and rastas in winter, I NEVER EVER wear straight wig or weave on my head, it just doesnt fit me...............I tell people I dont like to be touched, and its the truth, if they ask how I wash, I say water and shampoo, how do you wash yours?........... Nonsense.
@overgrownkudzu
@overgrownkudzu 7 жыл бұрын
they seriously ask you how you wash it? I remember that from when i had dreadlocks (except for the people who thought i didn't wash it at all) and i was kind of annoyed buut understood. but somene with perfectly normal hair, why would you ask that? Like, it's curly but apart from that it's no different from everyone elses hair do people expect that some magical unicorn comes and it's clean again? Sometimes i just don't get people. like, children ok, but adults?
@babradomenic7564
@babradomenic7564 7 жыл бұрын
Émile Hahaaa..yes they do ask, expecially braids, adults , even people I work with, and when I have Afro, most of the times I have to physically hold someones hand, on the way to my head..........just horrible. I have a friend who knows how much I hate my hair being touched so she tells them, please dont touch her hair or ask to touch it!! LOL..
@babradomenic7564
@babradomenic7564 7 жыл бұрын
Émile Very annoying, I cant even imagine asking anybody if I can touch their hair or how they wash it!!!
@sgtmian
@sgtmian 7 жыл бұрын
they ask because they genuinely don't know. it's not on tv, in commercials, chances are they don't know anyone well enough to be educated. in that sense it is like a unicorn. and they're lazy? because i was interested in knowing how black hair differs, and i just went online. you can touch my hair, i don't mind it.
@babradomenic7564
@babradomenic7564 7 жыл бұрын
sgtmian I hate to be touched by random people and I dont touch anyone or ask if t can touch their hair, its just weired, ignorance is not a virtual, how you ask someone how they wash their hair????? So you are saying, black peoples hair is not in commercials or on TV, that is why white people want to touch and ask how we wash it!!!!!!!! Hahahaaa.... of course according to you, only white people are on TV, I wonder if I have to grab my screen and feel it.................LOL!!!
@jamilaa5878
@jamilaa5878 7 жыл бұрын
I REALLY HATE WHEN PEOPLE WANT TO TOUCH MY HAIR, ESPECIALLY BCS I HAVE AFRO HAIR...TF ITS LIKE GOING UP TO A STRANGER AND GRABBING THEIR PHONE...JUST STOP!!!
@Prettyscorp80
@Prettyscorp80 7 жыл бұрын
Jammie Bear So annoying! I'm not in a petting zoo, no touching my hair!
@clodaghnathan151
@clodaghnathan151 6 жыл бұрын
I don’t have black hair but I have really curly hair and used to straighten it loads but now I’m into it and go au natural. The one thing that people ALWAYS DO though is puff it out and play with it.. as if it’s not frizzy enough go away
@maryammary6319
@maryammary6319 7 жыл бұрын
I'm not black , my natural hair is curly so I had my hair done Afro curly so it was big, I had people making fun of it and one person thrw a chewing gum wrapper in there. So I kinda get y black girls hide their natural hair while I was trying to embrace it, it's sad TBH
@anonymousprepper1463
@anonymousprepper1463 6 жыл бұрын
It's sexy.. Queens need not hide their beauty!
@scotchmints6368
@scotchmints6368 5 жыл бұрын
I have natural hair and people always say im white washing... It makes me really sad because I have curly hair naturally and I don't want to change that...
@user-mc5yd8yu9h
@user-mc5yd8yu9h 5 жыл бұрын
Maryam Mary the Afro hairstyle is mostly seen as being exclusive to black people only that’s why people probably were acting like that. I doubt that white people & non black people ever will be included or represented in the natural hair movement/community. Why you might ask, I think it’s because black women (and men) want to uplift their own people and promote them since they’ve been ridiculed for so many centuries. It’s like reclaiming our worth 🤷🏾‍♀️
@shakirhahmex8272
@shakirhahmex8272 5 жыл бұрын
+Dr. badtouch then you should stop worrying about that and go on with life because you are not black I don't why you seem to be concerned. that's the life they chose, you mean all prisons in the world are full of black people???????? get serious and do corrections
@shakirhahmex8272
@shakirhahmex8272 5 жыл бұрын
+Dr. badtouch if you are not black and not a Muslim then chill, The world is already down, you can't do anything cause you are nothing. Always remember my words😁😁😁😁
@rachelholden792
@rachelholden792 7 жыл бұрын
I hate when Afro hair is sold as a costume. I've seen people wear *just* the wig and I've always wanted to go up to them and ask: "since when was the hair that grows out of my hair a joke costume? Why is black hair considered silly or clownish?" I can't even dye my hair red now because of all the clown comments I'll definitely get -.- or any colour that isn't natural for that matter. Jeez.
@imspidermanbro.
@imspidermanbro. 6 жыл бұрын
Tiana Thom she was just saying her opinion don’t shoot her down let her do her and you do you
@kiiidollasign
@kiiidollasign 7 жыл бұрын
I'M NOT EVEN SHITTIN YOU GUYS. MY FRIEND ASKED ME HOW *DEEP* MY HAIR WAS. BEFORE YOU ASK, YES, YES SHE WAS. She was about to stick a PENCIL DOWN IN MY SCALP. GUYS. I'M DYING💀💀💀
@chalseywilder937
@chalseywilder937 5 жыл бұрын
Yooo. Bruh. Like nooooo
@nicolemenzies8438
@nicolemenzies8438 5 жыл бұрын
how deep? ok, that's a new one!
@norap.4657
@norap.4657 5 жыл бұрын
My friend did that once..
@michaelregis1015
@michaelregis1015 5 жыл бұрын
How deep is it? Mines 2 inches at the moment.
@ninatsvetkova
@ninatsvetkova 6 жыл бұрын
I am genuinely envious of your hair, guys. It looks so nice, fluffy and alive.
@courtneyw6224
@courtneyw6224 6 жыл бұрын
These older caucasian women walked from behind me, and one grabbed on to one of my braids WHILE WALKING and said it was beautiful. I called my sister and she was not happy at all😂 Like LADY I don't know who the hell you are, and you didn't ask fool... when I finally thought about it i realized it was rude. It's almost like taking my pencil in class without asking me first. Then I worked at another place where this caucasion girl(WITHOUT ASKING) slid all her fingers through my freshly oiled and braided hair! I was stuck.. when I feel awkward I laugh(which isn't good), but I have anxiety and feel bad telling them that they can't just touch me out of the damn blue. I would never feel okay doing it to them. I'll ask you... it's called being polite. 😂
@MsAngelnheaven
@MsAngelnheaven 7 жыл бұрын
My mama told me not to let people touch my hair, so I don't let people touch my hair.
@melaninmagic8742
@melaninmagic8742 6 жыл бұрын
Princess Saucy same
@imspidermanbro.
@imspidermanbro. 6 жыл бұрын
Same cause someone put gum in my hair once🙄
@nataliesmith1462
@nataliesmith1462 7 жыл бұрын
There is this song called "I am not my hair" by India.Airee (may have spelled the name wrong) even though I am white I really like this song and this it has an amazing message. Everyone should listen to itt
@cookingwithlove5132
@cookingwithlove5132 5 жыл бұрын
Sassy Ginger77 lmao girl we blk ppl know this song
@ceyein
@ceyein 5 жыл бұрын
It does not matter that your white
@taniaxo2028
@taniaxo2028 5 жыл бұрын
@@cookingwithlove5132 right. You know all of her songs
@user-eq1jv3oo5v
@user-eq1jv3oo5v 5 жыл бұрын
Be proud to be white we created the modern world and 99% of all inventions
@taniaxo2028
@taniaxo2028 5 жыл бұрын
@@user-eq1jv3oo5v but you guys created the "modern world" by putting yourself above everyone and using slaves for your dirty work.
@ellaw3859
@ellaw3859 7 жыл бұрын
I have a european mom and an african father. I have light skin, and quite curly, thick, and poofy hair. All through my elementary years i began HATING my hair because everyone thought it was odd and I wasnt like everyone else. My dad always tried to tell me how valuble it was cause I could wear it a million ways. I learned a few years later. But the amazing thing is, if you want to straighten it you can, and if you want to rock an afro, you can. Please be proud of your hair type! There are plenty people who have the same and your not alone.
@ellathompson2355
@ellathompson2355 5 жыл бұрын
They all have such beautiful hair 😍😍 like it's so beautiful and it just looks incredible ❤️
@trashcanman9357
@trashcanman9357 7 жыл бұрын
The girl with the denim shirt underneath the colorful jacket is so pretty omg
@jasminegordon9139
@jasminegordon9139 7 жыл бұрын
And those people approach you like "ohh my gawwwwwd, I want your hair!!" No you don't, don't say that shit. 💀😂
@unknownlala5367
@unknownlala5367 6 жыл бұрын
Jasmine G I feel you
@imspidermanbro.
@imspidermanbro. 6 жыл бұрын
That’s what I tell people and my mom says “Madi,don’t be rude”
@MedievalMeredith
@MedievalMeredith 6 жыл бұрын
What they mean is you'd want the hair but not the maintenance attached. Although in your case that might not be true, since you've been having enough hair struggles to get the idea. More importantly though, it's ok to admire but please don't talk down on your own hair? Look in the mirror, find 5 nice thing to say about it and keep repeating those. It's what you were born with. No way it doesn't fit you.
@minapilled
@minapilled 6 жыл бұрын
I am completely OBSESSED with afros they are so beautiful!!
@jruthejunkie
@jruthejunkie 7 жыл бұрын
this video is quality content and it embodies my daily struggle
@Nola504
@Nola504 7 жыл бұрын
An ex coworker called herself giving me a half assed compliment by telling me that she liked my "little things" (referring to my coily afro) as she was reaching to grab a handful of my hair. She had the nerve to be offended when I blocked her hand and told her that these little things she was referring to is my f****g hair.
@the_emmasculator
@the_emmasculator 7 жыл бұрын
Nola DH That woman sounds like a lunatic
@Nola504
@Nola504 7 жыл бұрын
She is
@Nola504
@Nola504 7 жыл бұрын
MyFair Lady yes
@JULi3T16
@JULi3T16 7 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about what not to say to people that don't want to have kids?
@littlepumpkinseed
@littlepumpkinseed 6 жыл бұрын
Julie May yesss! It's kind of a taboo and specialy with women are not believed when they say 'i don't want to have kids'
@PeterPantheFearless
@PeterPantheFearless 5 жыл бұрын
I would love to see a video like that too..even one about people/couples who don't wanna get married as well.
@rachelreads2175
@rachelreads2175 5 жыл бұрын
I was told "Well, you'll have one and then.. HAVE to have the second one... you'll get over it" Nope, I'm trying to get my tubes tied, thank you!
@MsDimps24
@MsDimps24 5 жыл бұрын
Julie May YES!! And one for people who can't have kids.
@laurahos2001
@laurahos2001 5 жыл бұрын
This please omg
@curtisjones7347
@curtisjones7347 5 жыл бұрын
Need this on the news
@angiesue2300
@angiesue2300 4 жыл бұрын
They are all so beautiful!
@OrianJamieson28
@OrianJamieson28 7 жыл бұрын
am i the only one that didn't no they had "curls" because they was always combed them out
@RODDAL
@RODDAL 7 жыл бұрын
Man same. Now, my hair is slowly becoming very coily/kinky, but before I picked it out all the time and it damaged my ends. It was just what was taught to me as a kid my mom/dad were pretty much like "brush/comb those naps."
@raregem8886
@raregem8886 7 жыл бұрын
Riccardi Dalexis Which ruins our curls and coils!
@OrianJamieson28
@OrianJamieson28 7 жыл бұрын
RL B trust meeee!!
@saiku3541
@saiku3541 7 жыл бұрын
Same, i washed my hair one day and seen my curls lol that's when i started doing wash and go's. Took awhile for my curls to form because of the pick damage but they look great now
@OrianJamieson28
@OrianJamieson28 7 жыл бұрын
Mays Adams i feel like the curls were a secret that was unintentionally hidden from us and our parents 😂
@RachelD077
@RachelD077 7 жыл бұрын
lmaooo we got some mad white ppl in the comments already
@RachelD077
@RachelD077 7 жыл бұрын
Auto-response of courseee
@jayshko
@jayshko 7 жыл бұрын
racist
@RachelD077
@RachelD077 7 жыл бұрын
jayshko lmao google what racist is and come back at me. yall always wanna point the finger at everyone else but literally LOOK AT THE COMMENTS AND TELL ME WHOS RACIST.
@ainulmardhiyyah8703
@ainulmardhiyyah8703 7 жыл бұрын
Ellocate She didn't. She said SOME mad white people, not mad white people. Some implies "part of" or "a group" of something. Those who complained about her "anti-white" comment, you all need to chill out and go back to re-learn English in high school.
@ravelordnito9211
@ravelordnito9211 7 жыл бұрын
gjaddajg gjaddajg I don't see how you could misconstrued the video/people in it as angry black racists. Also what about this was factually incorrect/ hypocritical?
@dorapalmer3569
@dorapalmer3569 3 жыл бұрын
Im so proud of my afro for so long I was ashamed of it. Ive been asked so many of those questions. Thank you for making this video. Proud mixed woman ❤
@zorah5480
@zorah5480 6 жыл бұрын
I hear these all the time omg thank god im not alone
@ButtercupMaude
@ButtercupMaude 7 жыл бұрын
the girl with the pom pom earrings is SO beautiful.
@GoCrazyBaby3
@GoCrazyBaby3 7 жыл бұрын
I just realized natural African American hair ISN'T seen as professional. Like, I never really thought about it. But when I think professional, afros aren't there. And I'm black...I don't even know when I started thinking like this.
@linamohamed759
@linamohamed759 7 жыл бұрын
Heaven Green seen*
@loloth13
@loloth13 7 жыл бұрын
Heaven Green because we were all brainwashed by the media! They program us since we were little that the only way for you to be respected or seen as a beautiful woman you have to have European features/hair! You're pretty if you're skin is lighter, if you're hair is looser and blonde, if your eyes are lighter! They always portray the beautiful woman in movies/magazines as this tall, skinny, blonde woman with straight hair, thin nose and small lips! Why do you think skin bleaching is sooo popular in ALL continents (Asia, Africa, South America)! It's called whitewashing, you should read about it, it's very interesting!
@natanyat4901
@natanyat4901 7 жыл бұрын
You are not alone. Many people are brainwashed into thinking that their hair is inferior.
@icilmaa
@icilmaa 7 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as AA hair, since all Black people outside of America share the same textures.
@augustsunflower5738
@augustsunflower5738 7 жыл бұрын
Natanya T lol nqo
@jodie8462
@jodie8462 7 жыл бұрын
this video is TOO relatable, the struggle for natural hair beauty is real ✊
@fairymel551
@fairymel551 6 жыл бұрын
I am so proud that I’m now growing my hair out natural. I believe it’s a way of accepting myself for who I am and not perming it to fit in anymore.
@domgreen1859
@domgreen1859 7 жыл бұрын
if you haven't already I recommend you watch Solange - Don't Touch My Hair
@ayo2015
@ayo2015 6 жыл бұрын
Yes I love that song
@melaninmagic8742
@melaninmagic8742 6 жыл бұрын
Dom Green "it's just a feeling"
@brittsade3713
@brittsade3713 7 жыл бұрын
I always get "Oh my God it's so soft", yes 4C hair is soft when it's moisturized properly, I also get "did you just roll out of bed?" Like why would you ask someone that.. I love the comment about "my hair represents rebellion and civil rights but it also represents me a guy from ..." so true.
@monikastyleloveshome4657
@monikastyleloveshome4657 5 жыл бұрын
They all have amazing hair!
@kekeplaysvideogames7255
@kekeplaysvideogames7255 2 жыл бұрын
"Take your puff out right now, I wanna see your hair down come on!" 😬 IM GOOD
@slaymarie_rdh_ntraining
@slaymarie_rdh_ntraining 7 жыл бұрын
I don't know why I never thought they'd deal with these type of problems outside of The States
@obibraxton2232
@obibraxton2232 6 жыл бұрын
Shay Cecilia exactly danm... Americans really uneducated 😞
@zoeb7654
@zoeb7654 6 жыл бұрын
Your comment just made me realize that they all have British accents.
@obibraxton2232
@obibraxton2232 6 жыл бұрын
Zoé Bittersweet what's a British accent lol ? I presume you probs mean a London accent as they're are many regional variants in the UK accent wise (Scottish, welsh, northern etc.)
@zoeb7654
@zoeb7654 6 жыл бұрын
Obi Braxton I mean like how people say American accent or German accent or Chinese accent. I guess I could have said English accent, but in this case I don't think it really matters all that much.
@obibraxton2232
@obibraxton2232 6 жыл бұрын
Zoé Bittersweet well it does matter lol that's like me saying an American accent when a southern accent is very different to someone from new york but whatever....
@henrietta8443
@henrietta8443 7 жыл бұрын
Is that Jamie from some girls?
@georgia4159
@georgia4159 7 жыл бұрын
Super Henri I think so
@eylulates3522
@eylulates3522 7 жыл бұрын
Super Henri I thought the same too
@Wh0oPSidAiSiEs
@Wh0oPSidAiSiEs 7 жыл бұрын
Super Henri yes omg his character was the worst though
@averageMSFT
@averageMSFT 7 жыл бұрын
Super Henri yep
@crystaladutwum4671
@crystaladutwum4671 5 жыл бұрын
"Is that you're real hair" Well I payed for it so it's mine 🤷🏿‍♀️
@rose-oo7hc
@rose-oo7hc 3 жыл бұрын
can non-black people have afros? (naturally) i’m west asian & many members of my family have afro hair (they’re not black) but i’m just unsure because this video only shows black people. ❤️
@RachelMarieMiller
@RachelMarieMiller 6 жыл бұрын
What i always get from complete strangers, they come up and grab my hair, ask me if it's mine, how do i shower, do i wash it, and if I want to change styles to I have to shave it all off. Why do people think it's okay to grab my hair and ask if it's real? Like what?? Lol
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