Things society tells women…🙄

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Clara Dao

Clara Dao

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@ClaraDao
@ClaraDao 2 жыл бұрын
What have people told you? 🥺 . . 💕 my Instagram: to.mysocial.io/s/jMjv4JzVM ✨ my Patreon: www.patreon.com/claradao
@ROSIE_IS_ANGEL
@ROSIE_IS_ANGEL 2 жыл бұрын
🥺 ya my when my mom would always be like *"u dont even wanna study in the college ur just going their to chat with some boys all these teenagers are like these"* its sad sometimes when they dont understand u wanna focus on your career and aren't lying 😔 or she says *"who ru doing makeup for and wearing all those short dresses"* like im doing this to make my heart happy not for others
@nezukoshinobu5222
@nezukoshinobu5222 2 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@Cherry-pe2hg
@Cherry-pe2hg 2 жыл бұрын
I was called a psedo-feminist just because I commented 'true, it's amazing how we girls can hide our pain' on a girl's post which said "women are not given day off from work on those days.Periods pain is not something we can control yet we smile like nothing happened." The males think that we live in a pseudo-feminist society while the reality is that we still live in a patriarchal society.
@weepopsxx
@weepopsxx 2 жыл бұрын
:(
@Chxy
@Chxy 2 жыл бұрын
"Be a goddam kid. You're not THAT mature." "Oh my god why are you so CHILDISH?"
@Wee-sy2pm
@Wee-sy2pm 2 жыл бұрын
"He picks on you because he likes you" is probably the worst one I've heard.
@1dontuseth1sanymore
@1dontuseth1sanymore 2 жыл бұрын
And something parents say to their kids alot...
@alissareese2696
@alissareese2696 2 жыл бұрын
I was told that a lot, then that same boy eventually told me to off myself a few years later so yeah
@rosiii880
@rosiii880 2 жыл бұрын
and parents say that, mostly to little kids, it's a nightmare
@joyayaa_
@joyayaa_ 2 жыл бұрын
Literally is a doorway for little girls to grow up thinking that toxic relationships and ppl are the right thing.
@acehart4213
@acehart4213 2 жыл бұрын
It’s literally how to teach your kids that abuse means love
@Ambiefreeman
@Ambiefreeman 2 жыл бұрын
"He picks on you because he likes you" things like this are what sets kids up for abusive relationships.
@antoinesimard9032
@antoinesimard9032 2 жыл бұрын
Well if i picks on you this bc i wanna be friend with you OR i just wanna know you
@Ambiefreeman
@Ambiefreeman 2 жыл бұрын
@@antoinesimard9032 That's not how you make a friend.
@antoinesimard9032
@antoinesimard9032 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ambiefreeman never said that's how you make a friend
@Yesthatsmyactualname
@Yesthatsmyactualname 2 жыл бұрын
@@antoinesimard9032 thats what your comment implies
@1dontuseth1sanymore
@1dontuseth1sanymore 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I actually feel inlove with one of them because I thought they were cool bc O had a phase where if you were bad you were hot and stuff and out boy they do not like me ever.
@priyalkhurana9763
@priyalkhurana9763 7 ай бұрын
"Are you like... a feminist?" Seriously when ppl say this they act as if it's like being a criminal
@onlycows726
@onlycows726 7 ай бұрын
a feminist by textbook definition is someone who believes in the equal rights of men and women, don't let their own misconceptions let you be shamed over it. they act like the states or the west in general is the only place where women exist
@AYuxlin
@AYuxlin 7 ай бұрын
​@gaslightgatekeepgirlboss5255 Most feminist haters don't even know what a feminist is 💀
@Dinosaur_Ddd
@Dinosaur_Ddd 6 ай бұрын
​@@AYuxlinmost feminist haters just think that a feminist hates all men🤣😭😭
@AYuxlin
@AYuxlin 6 ай бұрын
@Dinosaur_Ddd Yea. Also, it's so cringe, as a non-feminist who just don't care, whenever boys just come up, acting like men, protesting against feminists like: "tHeSe wOmEn-" No ✋🏻 Any gender can be a feminist. 90% of feminist protesters don't even know the definition of one 😭🤣.
@nzmountainman
@nzmountainman 6 ай бұрын
She just a sentient being.
@The_Theatrical_Swiftie
@The_Theatrical_Swiftie 7 ай бұрын
“Instead of ‘protecting your daughters’, teach your sons.” - a very wise person
@Enclixity
@Enclixity 6 ай бұрын
When I was growing up my parents would teach me every day how to be kind and respectful to women and that no matter what I can NEVER hit a girl even if she is hitting me with knives and stuff and to this day I still believe that
@Dinosaur_Ddd
@Dinosaur_Ddd 6 ай бұрын
​@@EnclixityIt's very good, in dangerous situations self-defense is necessary tho. And women won't do this if they are adequate
@theinsecthashira
@theinsecthashira 6 ай бұрын
Real...
@XsourclownX
@XsourclownX 6 ай бұрын
I THOUGHT THIS WAS A TRANS ACCEPTANCE MESSGAGE FOR A MOMENT LOL 💀🏳️‍⚧️
@0minmini0
@0minmini0 6 ай бұрын
That's so wrong! you should always defend yourself if anyone try to attack you no matter the gender!! ​@@Enclixity
@aikoackerman5706
@aikoackerman5706 2 жыл бұрын
"You don't wanna go out with me?"you're ugly anyway" So you can't even get an ugly girl??
@phoenix5719
@phoenix5719 2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥He will need an entire refrigerator for that burn..
@meixia7878
@meixia7878 2 жыл бұрын
BURNN
@hazzasgayvodka4177
@hazzasgayvodka4177 2 жыл бұрын
Ouch that burn🔥
@Shattered65
@Shattered65 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe when he grows up he might have a chance (if he ever does).
@shrivallinag2651
@shrivallinag2651 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooo burnnnnn 😂😂
@zarahrra9240
@zarahrra9240 2 жыл бұрын
“You’d be much prettier if you made an effort” I felt that, that hit HARD-
@The_Gay_Potato
@The_Gay_Potato 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@hel.pm.e
@hel.pm.e 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, it just makes me NOT want to put in effort out of spite. Like- "ok, and?" Are you saying I'm not pretty NOW? The fact that I'm moderately attractive right now is a miracle in itself and now you're going to go on and say "yOu'Re JuSt NoT tRyInG hArD eNoUgH" that's like NASA landing on Pluto and saying "Yeah but if you made an EFFORT, you'd be in another galaxy" God, it's just so aggravating...I'm sorry, I ranted :/
@meow_aubs
@meow_aubs 2 жыл бұрын
Same here... it was so annoying being told to shave 🙄 I would say "then you fucking shave, your legs and armpits are way hairier then mine " lol
@jordandagostino3540
@jordandagostino3540 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah-
@rheagill709
@rheagill709 2 жыл бұрын
Same 😓
@StolasAss
@StolasAss Жыл бұрын
"hunny, they just like you" After they physically hurted me.
@Dinosaur_Ddd
@Dinosaur_Ddd 6 ай бұрын
I thought that it happens in Russia only, not everywhere☠️☠️ I feel bad
@tak-rx7dv
@tak-rx7dv 6 ай бұрын
Hurt*
@AvaJacquet-fv2sr
@AvaJacquet-fv2sr 11 ай бұрын
“Your dad will have to chase the boys away when ur older” Little did they know, I have an absent dad AND I’m gay 💀
@Akaria.Luvs1
@Akaria.Luvs1 7 ай бұрын
Literally preach that is so true 😭
@ICanBeYourFries
@ICanBeYourFries 5 ай бұрын
LETS GO LESBIANS!!! (I am a gay man)
@Toga1102
@Toga1102 5 ай бұрын
Me too!!!!!
@Akaria.Luvs1
@Akaria.Luvs1 5 ай бұрын
@@Toga1102 Omg yasss welcome to the club :)
@PlappyEmo69
@PlappyEmo69 5 ай бұрын
@@ICanBeYourFries these replies are a pride parade now lol
@venyun508
@venyun508 2 жыл бұрын
"No man wants to have sex with a virgin" well in order to NOT be a virgin SOMEONE has gotta do it
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
Ok but you can’t put that on men that’s both ways
@j._.18
@j._.18 2 жыл бұрын
@@mango7uice when have you heard a girl say they don't want to have it with a male virgin
@kamikazekricket7746
@kamikazekricket7746 2 жыл бұрын
@@j._.18 twice
@chongjenni9595
@chongjenni9595 2 жыл бұрын
In my culture, it's "no man wants to have sex with a non virgin"
@venyun508
@venyun508 2 жыл бұрын
some ppl clearly misunderstoodbwhat i meant here so everyone is a virgin until they experience sex so if no man (+ woman in many cases) wants to have intercourse with a virgin how they gonna not be a virgin
@zxcmd
@zxcmd 2 жыл бұрын
"it must be that time of the month" - like oh, i'm sorry, am i not okay to feel feelings right now??
@teresadownes2422
@teresadownes2422 2 жыл бұрын
(it must be time of the month) Me: "I am bleeding out of my vagina and my Asshole I poop twice as much I get pains I puked I have food cravings SO I APOLOGISE FOR BEING BORN WITH FEELINGS GOD IF YOU COULD ONLY FEEL MY PAIN!!!
@5b_vlixie
@5b_vlixie 2 жыл бұрын
My brother always says “are you on your period? Your so grumpy.” Like I’m just angry sometimes cuz you annoy me!
@zxcmd
@zxcmd 2 жыл бұрын
@@5b_vlixie LOL
@zxcmd
@zxcmd 2 жыл бұрын
@@teresadownes2422 LIKE FR🙄👹
@journey9641
@journey9641 2 жыл бұрын
Do they think I crave blood only when I bleed? Is one of the responses I have in my stock
@Aimseyfan24
@Aimseyfan24 10 ай бұрын
Forgot one........... "Eat less your getting fat! " and "You need to eat more! Your so skinny" it hurts😟😕
@FMSM-MM
@FMSM-MM 4 ай бұрын
Getting fat is probably dangerous for the health It's not only about the beauty So when you want to lose weight lose it for yourself and do your best And being very thin isn't healthier🫠 *Maybe* it's a sign for malnutrition or infections
@cheeryrozetea
@cheeryrozetea Ай бұрын
I’m a skinny girl and I eat a lot but I still look the same
@Luv392
@Luv392 5 ай бұрын
My dad actually said “I’ll have to scare all the boys away when your older”😭
@6issohot1999
@6issohot1999 Жыл бұрын
"You would be much prettier if you'd smile" Me:😬
@ratatouillesage
@ratatouillesage Жыл бұрын
NO bc that's literally what I look like when I smile 😭😭
@avagreer9643
@avagreer9643 Жыл бұрын
Same
@ruyuki1491
@ruyuki1491 Жыл бұрын
but when i smile, they tell me not to smile because I have bad teeth. Not straightly alined and somewhat crooked. I dont even know what to do anymore
@Iatetwohomelessppl
@Iatetwohomelessppl Жыл бұрын
Me:👹
@RandomPerson-vf4tz
@RandomPerson-vf4tz Жыл бұрын
That’s literally what my smile looks like because my face shape is a square 😭
@lazyhummingbird
@lazyhummingbird 2 жыл бұрын
It kills me how the word "feminist" has been blown WAY out of proportion. Bro we don't hate men. We hate the men who make women's lives miserable. How hard is it to understand?
@nikoles379
@nikoles379 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! There are some really good men who support women and we love them and respect them, but sadly not all of them are like this.
@Anonymous-jx4yr
@Anonymous-jx4yr 2 жыл бұрын
As an average guy I must say that we men don't hate feminists, just fake ones who are toxic, and trust me we even despise toxic men too, and men too have to suffer from various things on daily basis, it might is not visible but in emotional way it's hard for us too. 😄
@cameronkirkegaard7912
@cameronkirkegaard7912 2 жыл бұрын
Wow really? So do you also hate all woman who makes men's lives miserable, bro? If yes, why not just a humanist?
@my_pan_self8045
@my_pan_self8045 2 жыл бұрын
Feminists are kind and want equality Some people go under the guise of "feminism" to be above men, and to deliberatly hate and try to take away their rights Like the KAM thing Those are the feminists people mean most of the time
@dgronzega8073
@dgronzega8073 2 жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-jx4yr Yup, guys put up with "society" garbage as well.
@Msfrog101
@Msfrog101 8 ай бұрын
“Don’t be so dramatic” is one of the worst ones.
@lingzhou4773
@lingzhou4773 7 ай бұрын
Fr it’s worst when you have a disorder I have PTSD and I been call dramatic for that ( aka head spirals ) but when a male does it they comfort him ( I’m talking about my teacher and it is my experience)
@Msfrog101
@Msfrog101 7 ай бұрын
@lingzhou4773 Wow, that’s truly awful. I’m sorry you went through that.
@lingzhou4773
@lingzhou4773 7 ай бұрын
@@Msfrog101 It’s ok now it was a couple years ago but it still kinda happens
@user-zu4gt1yx2m
@user-zu4gt1yx2m 6 ай бұрын
Ong and the “stop being an attention whore/seeker” dude my mom would call me that when I had panic attacks I feel horrible for all the people who have to go through that
@lingzhou4773
@lingzhou4773 6 ай бұрын
@@user-zu4gt1yx2m And they wonder why we never told them we were having a panic attack when they legitimately tell us things like we are just a wall and basically don’t care! I’m sorry you have to go through that. That’s pretty much emotional abuse at least I think.
@Pluviophile2007
@Pluviophile2007 7 ай бұрын
"Are you like a feminist?" Yes
@Hello-wb9ib
@Hello-wb9ib 2 жыл бұрын
“Don’t wear that to school…you will distract the boys” The only person distracted is you!
@ihavenoname3980
@ihavenoname3980 Жыл бұрын
If it does “distract the boys”why should I be the one to change? Why can’t they just keep their eyes to themselves or sth
@bellct4980
@bellct4980 Жыл бұрын
I was told this in first grade. FIRST GRADE. like cmonnn.
@theswaghedgehog8348
@theswaghedgehog8348 Жыл бұрын
@@bellct4980 first grade? Damn
@artvulture456
@artvulture456 Жыл бұрын
Fr, I go too a school with no dress code. Many girls wear mini skirts or tank crops and it doesn't "distract" any boys 😂
@bellct4980
@bellct4980 Жыл бұрын
@@artvulture456 same like it may attract them a bit but they don’t do anything lol.
@holden_mokok
@holden_mokok 2 жыл бұрын
"You can't do that, you're a girl not a boy"
@Aoi_Hashibira
@Aoi_Hashibira 2 жыл бұрын
I hate when people do that also when somebody says to me I'm not a girl because I hate dresses :(
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
I. Do t know what to say, as a 13 year old boy
@holden_mokok
@holden_mokok 2 жыл бұрын
@@mango7uice you don't have to, some boys don't have anything to do with our parents and other people problems so you're all good.
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
@@holden_mokok 😮‍💨thank you I was getting a little awkward
@creepycrow31
@creepycrow31 2 жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I had a shirt that was pink and I didn't want to wear it because I didn't like the color pink. My mom got mad at me saying that I'm a girl and girls wear pink do I need to wear it.
@s1llyLynx
@s1llyLynx 5 ай бұрын
when a toddler says “your so pretty” its the cutest hing ever
@_rhiannonxox_
@_rhiannonxox_ 5 ай бұрын
Okay but the little girl saying ‘you look so pretty’ is actually so innocent and sweet it makes my insides melt 😭❤️
@ADORENANI
@ADORENANI 2 жыл бұрын
"You are a girl, behave like a girl don't dress up like tomboys" like the hell? It's my fashion style It's comfy! Why do you care so much!?
@glowingforthe1654
@glowingforthe1654 2 жыл бұрын
But dont dress too girly either!!!
@anyone2302
@anyone2302 2 жыл бұрын
My mom says this to me
@ADORENANI
@ADORENANI 2 жыл бұрын
Eggsactly, like dude if my parents,brother aee letting me wear it then who tf are you?
@trustmecozitsneccesery9780
@trustmecozitsneccesery9780 2 жыл бұрын
Bruh boys have much bigger problems to deal with Ever seen a guy near ur house wearing girl's clothe ? Lmao we r the one facing real prob in case of clothes
@souluniverse2203
@souluniverse2203 2 жыл бұрын
I have the same experience. My parents think I’m “confused” and guys think I’m a pick me girl. I hangout with guys, I wear what I want to because it’s what I’m comfortable with. Girls can be bitchy and guys seem more laid back. But apparently my reasoning isn’t good enough and I’m just a whore looking for attention from guys. 🙄
@iris-needs-more-history-books
@iris-needs-more-history-books 2 жыл бұрын
"Noone wants to have sex with a virgin" So noone can have sex then since we all started out as virgins?
@hadbetterdays8118
@hadbetterdays8118 2 жыл бұрын
They most likely are people who didn't enjoy or were rushed into having sex like I heard from a guy analyzing how bad 50 shades of grey was. I mean they need to make fun of others being virgins because they didn't enjoy there first time
@random_person_on_internet
@random_person_on_internet 2 жыл бұрын
😅 I was shocked hearing this In my country guys always seek for a virgin and basically reject those who are not,yk😅 Specially for marriage It gave me a cultural shock basically😅😂
@andalamoore
@andalamoore 2 жыл бұрын
@@random_person_on_internet same, in my country is like that too. where r u from?
@random_person_on_internet
@random_person_on_internet 2 жыл бұрын
@@andalamoore south asian country my friend 😅 here guys are obsessed with marring virgins where as they loose their virginity way before their marriage😐 The hypocrisy right?
@andalamoore
@andalamoore 2 жыл бұрын
@@random_person_on_internet haha, same
@AxleIsCrazyyyy
@AxleIsCrazyyyy 7 ай бұрын
My mother and father would tell me rude stuff which made me insecure, like “Jeez, you’re fat.” Or “You’re older than your siblings and you still act childish.” It hurt my feelings a lot but I wouldn’t talk back because I didn’t want to be yelled at.
@DaughterOf-Apo11o_Ath3naa
@DaughterOf-Apo11o_Ath3naa 7 ай бұрын
At my Elementary school I’ve had my good and bad moments. There’s a leadership program that I signed up for and in my 4th Grade year, I was working my Tuesday shift like normal, and a little girl in the line I was leading said she wanted to be my sister because I was pretty, I absolutely love her soul, but the teacher wanted all leadership kids to stop leading her class, literally no warnings, nothing. I was devastated when I heard my leadership director/teacher say that the line I was leading, had been shut down because the teacher wanted it that way. My best friend had a teacher do the same thing to her, and I raised my hand when I heard “Who leads ____ _.?” And the director/teacher for leadership then said I would be leading a different line. There were 2 teachers who did that, and my best friend had the other that did it. I’m still mad about it, but I’m mostly sad it happened. Im now almost finished with High School, but I still remember how devastated I was when I got the news. 😕
@BlueSpiderLilyReal
@BlueSpiderLilyReal Жыл бұрын
“Don’t wear that to school, you will distract the boys.” Why are the boys even looking? How do do you explain that Mrs Johnson?!
@rosalierosierose
@rosalierosierose 9 ай бұрын
I mean if you walk around wear something that shows half your tits what do you expect. Not saying you’ve done that specifically but most of the time when I hear a girl say something like that she’s half naked. There’s no humidity or honor in dressing that way and those girls on to complain about how guys look at her. Both should shut up keep their eyes to themselves and Laddies need to stop being a stumbling block. The saying “your asking for it dressing like that” I couldn’t agree more. This is coming from a BIOLOGICAL women who dresses moderately and doesn’t intentionally seek attention from men. Never once have I been harassed or sexualized. Granted even doing all that women can still be sexualized but at least it’s not your problem and you tried. At that point shame on the guy who still looked at you.
@BlueSpiderLilyReal
@BlueSpiderLilyReal 9 ай бұрын
@@rosalierosierose I understand and totally agree with this. I was mainly talking about like have shoulders exposed but with all the other stuff I absolutely agree. I do believe people should be free to wear what they want but in certain scenarios this not the case since people should be following their dress code when they are at school or at work. I get what you mean by the “shows half your tits” part because it can distract people by making them uncomfortable.
@rosalierosierose
@rosalierosierose 9 ай бұрын
@@BlueSpiderLilyReal ya I can agree with the shoulders thing seems a bit ridiculous. Ya like if it’s your school or work dress code it’s only proper and fair to follow.
@gailasprey7787
@gailasprey7787 9 ай бұрын
@@rosalierosierosethey still shouldn’t be sexually harassed though, or harassed in general.
@rosalierosierose
@rosalierosierose 9 ай бұрын
@@gailasprey7787 never said they should. Being sexualized is a problem but people tend to blame it on one person but when they are the one to blame as well.
@dk_whattoputhere10
@dk_whattoputhere10 Жыл бұрын
The worst part is, the people who usually say such things… Are your relatives, especially parents (and the annoying aunties).
@Pxnk_Elf
@Pxnk_Elf Жыл бұрын
Those annoying aunties get on my nerves....
@Itzlilacplayz
@Itzlilacplayz Жыл бұрын
You are so right about that society is messed up for both genders even trans people have it bad
@BenShapiroismywaifu
@BenShapiroismywaifu Жыл бұрын
@@Itzlilacplayz yeah trans people have to deal with both ends of the stick
@Yandereboysmyloves
@Yandereboysmyloves 11 ай бұрын
My aunt that lives with my sister who 16 always bothers her about it and is really mean and annoying to her
@Pimpinnotsimpin.
@Pimpinnotsimpin. 11 ай бұрын
Yes I found that true cause when I yelled at my cousin cause he poured water on me my auntie come yelling at me like "DON'T YELL AT YOUR COUSIN HE'S JUST PLAYING WITH YOU AND YELLING ISN'T LADY LIKE AT ALL" Like I'm not allowed to yell anymore cause I'm a female?
@NOMNOMNOMNOM28
@NOMNOMNOMNOM28 7 ай бұрын
From your videos and some other content creators, I've learned to stop caring what other people think and to just be myself. Thank you so much❤!
@XainoDragonYT
@XainoDragonYT 8 ай бұрын
“He picks on you because he likes you” HE almost broke my nose.
@Chim_ily
@Chim_ily Жыл бұрын
"Stop covering up, no-one likes insecure people" Someone told me that, and I've never forgotten it...
@TimeTravelingAsshole
@TimeTravelingAsshole Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry someone said that to you. How you dress is nobody’s business
@Sovi...
@Sovi... 11 ай бұрын
​@@TimeTravelingAsshole😢😢😢
@Sovi...
@Sovi... 11 ай бұрын
Меня ранит это.....
@helixipottah9675
@helixipottah9675 8 ай бұрын
too badddd! My oversized hoodie and baggy jeans are the comfiest things in the world and nobody can stop me
@Monsterpuds
@Monsterpuds 8 ай бұрын
then they tell to cover up when you stop
@whitneylivingston4171
@whitneylivingston4171 2 жыл бұрын
“You’d be much prettier if you smiled” Wow you nailed all of them.
@ClaraDao
@ClaraDao 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🥺❤️
@solus8685
@solus8685 2 жыл бұрын
That line makes me never want to smile again and erase their whole bloodline
@kamikazekricket7746
@kamikazekricket7746 2 жыл бұрын
i honestly dont see whats wrong w that tho
@kathy8340
@kathy8340 2 жыл бұрын
@@kamikazekricket7746 I feel like it’s similar to when people say “it must be that time of the month” when a girl is mad. Both are devaluing what the girl is feeling at the moment like saying it doesn’t matter what she’s feeling rn and she should smile even if she feels really bad. But then again, this particular one I feel depends more on the intent behind it. Like if it was a friend trying to cheer you up saying “hey cheer up, you should smile, where’s that pretty girl I know?”
@xaces5216
@xaces5216 2 жыл бұрын
I literally can't smile. If I try to smile, my face turns into this 😬literally (my mouth won't curve up, and IDK how to make it curve up) and I look annoyed. And I end up accidentally staring into someone's soul as they are trying to take a picture.
@user-mp2si8ed8y
@user-mp2si8ed8y 11 ай бұрын
“if you work out more you will be prettier” -my dad isn’t that sad that someone’s OWN dad would say that straight to their face?!?!?
@Url0cal_crackhead
@Url0cal_crackhead 10 ай бұрын
actuals though my dad was skinny shaming me infront of the retail workers because i couldnt fit properly into the smallest size.. he kept saying "maybe if you ate more you would fit hahah" and tried to brush it off as a joke. i was mortified.
@Lime__lad
@Lime__lad Жыл бұрын
"You don't wanna go out with me your ugly anyway" Bro you the one who asked me out-
@The_unknown-jx7dh
@The_unknown-jx7dh 2 жыл бұрын
"Sit like a woman" "Get off that phone" "You eat too much" -my mom and dad
@ilikegirls6891
@ilikegirls6891 2 жыл бұрын
I was told the same thing along with "you should smile more"
@ileburns6089
@ileburns6089 2 жыл бұрын
I think everyone hears the" get off that phone"
@somkeve
@somkeve 2 жыл бұрын
"you eat to much" me: damn, LOOK AT U, FAT ASS BIATCH
@boopbooperson1654
@boopbooperson1654 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you have good parents that love you. Stop cursing your parents on the internet you ungrateful dweeb. You could be homless with no parents at all, with no phone or enough food to even be able to 'eat too much'. Smh embarrassing yourself.
@delia8498
@delia8498 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilikegirls6891 *my mom
@flqw3r...
@flqw3r... 2 жыл бұрын
"No guy wants to have $3x with a v1rg1n" Gurl how am i supposed to not be a v1rg1n then?
@Am_._
@Am_._ Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!
@charlicooki
@charlicooki Жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly
@brb5285
@brb5285 Жыл бұрын
Do it your with yourself 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💜
@zoehubbard6710
@zoehubbard6710 Жыл бұрын
FACTS
@TheEo9284
@TheEo9284 Жыл бұрын
THATS WAT IM SAYIN
@Strwbrry_Gutz
@Strwbrry_Gutz 7 ай бұрын
"He picks on you because he likes you" oh my goddddd how mad that made me because that what my parents and grandma told me ALL. THE. TIME.
@Miss._.Circle5
@Miss._.Circle5 7 ай бұрын
"He picks on you because he likes you but you can fight back." - a good parent
@KeiKeireee
@KeiKeireee 2 жыл бұрын
What my parents usually tell me: "Smile more" "Loosen that face (tired face)" "Stop acting so cold" "Ur making me look stupid" (by just correcting their little mistake)
@Elix_474
@Elix_474 2 жыл бұрын
I think I have a good counter to the last one, “No, you are making me look smart.” Is this ok?
@yvy.830
@yvy.830 2 жыл бұрын
'i wont let you leave the house with me when youre wearing that, you will embarrass me' is a common one for me
@Fa_tiie
@Fa_tiie 2 жыл бұрын
@@Elix_474 it’s good really but if half the population of Kids did that only Half would Survive.
@melisa9805
@melisa9805 2 жыл бұрын
No what my family tell me do you still a virgin don't be so bitter and bitchy
@kashvisworld5110
@kashvisworld5110 2 жыл бұрын
Saaame
@samualhicks7094
@samualhicks7094 2 жыл бұрын
"Don't wear that you'll distract the boys" Good. I distracted. You kill.
@jdod7074
@jdod7074 2 жыл бұрын
In this case, the boys are not the problem. We don’t care! It’s the people saying this that are the problem.
@asyasimsek1344
@asyasimsek1344 2 жыл бұрын
In my school it’s not allowed to wear leggings. FUCKING LEGGINGS?! Like, what is wrong with them??? They only let us wear sweatpants and I don’t really like them.
@starrby7790
@starrby7790 2 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my school handbook saying that boys can't wear earrings meanwhile I'm one and I've not been told to take them off and I only think is because I'm trans and don't really see me as a boy plus they don't have any policy involving transgender students
@puchipuchi808
@puchipuchi808 2 жыл бұрын
@@starrby7790 You are probabl, they most likely don't see you as a boy
@crisrob87love47
@crisrob87love47 2 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@elliepreppyproductions8086
@elliepreppyproductions8086 7 ай бұрын
“You look so pretty” 😌
@Rainbowz429
@Rainbowz429 7 ай бұрын
"Stop crying, you're fine." - My own mother When she told me that. I knew, I had to hide my emotions from *Everyone.* Now, whenever I'm sad. I reject all help people give me. I feel, like I'm attention seeking and gaslighting people into doing what I want. So, I just reject all help.
@Ponies2938
@Ponies2938 2 жыл бұрын
“Don’t eat so much! You will get fat!” “You need to eat more, you’re too skinny!” -my mum for some reason
@Hector_Riveria
@Hector_Riveria Жыл бұрын
That is a sign of an abusive mom.
@sorrytryagainlater
@sorrytryagainlater Жыл бұрын
@@Hector_Riveria emotionally/mentally abusive, that's signs of what they typed
@Hector_Riveria
@Hector_Riveria Жыл бұрын
@@sorrytryagainlater yeah, but either way its still abuse
@tusoyt
@tusoyt Жыл бұрын
@@Hector_Riveria is it bad my mom tells me this??
@Hector_Riveria
@Hector_Riveria Жыл бұрын
@@tusoyt yes very. She dosent really care about you if she says this
@btseu6449
@btseu6449 2 жыл бұрын
you forgot the "don't wear that lipstick shade. It doesn't look good on you because of your complexion." and also, this was really true. what's more sad is that its women who are bringing down women.
@unknown_8588
@unknown_8588 2 жыл бұрын
That's actually an issue for anyone who wears makeup
@TheDudewithpie
@TheDudewithpie 2 жыл бұрын
@s But who is stopping you from wearing whatever you want? People might give you weird looks and might say something negative, but if you're wearing what you want to make yourself feel good, why care what others think? It's entirely valid to dress the way everyone else does, dress to impress certain people (a loved one perhaps) or just to dress how you want to. There's no fashion police unless you let others influence your decisions, then they're very real and you need better friends.
@rebeltvr6046
@rebeltvr6046 2 жыл бұрын
That's an opinion tho, and it's correct IMO. My man A$AP Rocky said really dark-skinned girls should not wear red lipstick. He's absolutely right. They look like clowns. You need to match your outfit/lipstick to your skin tone. It's not a racist thing, it's just plain common sense.
@me.0436
@me.0436 2 жыл бұрын
@@rebeltvr6046 I think it depends on the person as well. I think red lipstick looks really good on dark skinned women (and not, light dark skin, dark dark). But I also know that some hues look better on my (white) skin.
@rebeltvr6046
@rebeltvr6046 2 жыл бұрын
@@me.0436 "white" isn't a skin color: what's yur hue? Yellowish, pinkish, porcelain, light tan? It depends. But yeah, generally speaking, dark skin and bright red don't match.
@nicubodean6836
@nicubodean6836 9 ай бұрын
``womans cant play video games`` that just hurts..
@Zobbie.
@Zobbie. 9 ай бұрын
What makes me so fucking angry is ADULT MEN AND WOMEN telling A LITTLE GIRL that it’s okay for a boy to pick on her because “it’s his way of flirting”. All that teaches your little girl is that abuse in a relationship is okay. I’m sick and tired of parents and schools normalizing bullying.
@stillennii
@stillennii 2 жыл бұрын
When I was 15, we had this dress up business style in first year of hs and my friends and I decided to wear a bit more makeup than usual. Which included red lipstick. On my way to school, two men, fucking ancient compared to 16yr old me(aka older than 30 for sure) asked me if I know what red lips are meant to do and that theyd look nice busy. And I'm baby faced in no way looking 18 even with makeup and everything. Of course, I was pissed after this and when I got to school first thing my friend said was 'someone got their period'. Not to mention guys from class being sleezy too. I felt so pretty when I first left the house that morning. Long rant over, sorry for this lol
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans 2 жыл бұрын
don’t be sorry for a rant lol ur completely justified
@skye387
@skye387 2 жыл бұрын
Literally happened to me today. Back story : Despite being adult, I've never really learnt how to do makeup before because it's expensive and not allowed during school (and my mother always commented makeup is useless and such before and she never wears it). Also, I have RBF. So, today I actually used makeup to go out (mostly eye makeups) as we're eating out for lunch. I thought it looked good enough since I'm pretty much still considered a beginner and I felt pretty going out for once. While we were eating, a group of women sat nearby (not neighbor table but close enough, no other customers at the time) and started commenting about me among themselves as my sitting position is directly in front of them so they can fully see my face. Not sure if they speak loud or I just have good hearings (because I experienced this often, people around me never seem to hear despite I heard it very clear) but listening to them made me immediately lose my appetite and just want to finish eating quickly and hide my face under the mask because I became too self-conscious. They still keep on talking, until the rest of my family finished eating and leaving the restaurant. About my makeup being too much, my face looking too serious while eating, the fact that I wear my mask immediately after, that I played on my phone and so on. I don't even know them or even look in their direction. Idk why they feel the need to to comment so much about me :(
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans 2 жыл бұрын
@@skye387 you probably could’ve just start loudly making fun of them from your table (acting like they can’t hear u) but sorry that happened to you :(
@skye387
@skye387 2 жыл бұрын
@@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans That would make my family weirded out because it's out of nowhere. As I said, they don't seem to hear it.
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans
@EmmaJohnsonShenanigans 2 жыл бұрын
@@skye387 mm sorry that happened to u. f them
@meleemenace
@meleemenace 2 жыл бұрын
"it must be that time of the month" yes, it actually is. to your surprise, today i woke up in a pool of blood. *and ill make sure that you will do the same tomorrow*
@poetic_pianist_
@poetic_pianist_ 2 жыл бұрын
only that...you have a knife on your stomach.
@cheesecxke1722
@cheesecxke1722 2 жыл бұрын
OH NO
@QuillTip
@QuillTip 2 жыл бұрын
I started my day lying down, Is that how you want me to end yours?
@poetic_pianist_
@poetic_pianist_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@QuillTip Good one
@kazy.2936
@kazy.2936 2 жыл бұрын
But how are they supposed to wake up?
@megalith1368
@megalith1368 10 ай бұрын
Yeah as a man I can see how this negatively affects a person. Many of the things said here can actually be applied to both sides, pain has many forms
@Limenade8
@Limenade8 7 ай бұрын
To talk about pain i ate a whole lemon right now and it feels like my lips are burning 😭
@DUSTY_SUSHI
@DUSTY_SUSHI 6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I saw some hot garbage reply section argument about what feminism is and someone raised a good point that since the patriarchy effects both sides raising awareness and healing the pain on both sides is still feminism. Like “men aren’t allowed to cry/be sensitive” etc. that’s because of the patriarchy, if we want equality and the patriarchy to be put in the grave it makes sense that we have to heal the whole thing
@existent_
@existent_ Жыл бұрын
“It’s probably that time of the month” I hear this way too much..just because I’m emotional, doesn’t mean I’m on my period. Women carry emotions and will eventually lash out due to stress from these emotions; it doesn’t always mean they’re hormones are messing with them, it’s society and the stress they put on them.
@deepfriedtampon5678
@deepfriedtampon5678 2 жыл бұрын
"he picks on you because he likes you" that just teaches children that abusive relationships are normal
@hadbetterdays8118
@hadbetterdays8118 2 жыл бұрын
Worse it teaches men to disrespect women I mean you can't deny early experience
@deepfriedtampon5678
@deepfriedtampon5678 2 жыл бұрын
@@hadbetterdays8118 exactly
@hadbetterdays8118
@hadbetterdays8118 2 жыл бұрын
@@deepfriedtampon5678 I almost forgot it also has the side effect of rape culture and domestic abuse because the he hits you thing is still there
@deepfriedtampon5678
@deepfriedtampon5678 2 жыл бұрын
@@hadbetterdays8118 couldn't agree more..
@darknyte2065
@darknyte2065 2 жыл бұрын
Had a girl pick on me a lot in elementary school, she punched, scrached and bit me, but once i hit her... I got bullied by everybody else.
@am_Nein
@am_Nein 2 жыл бұрын
"you don't wanna go out with me? Youre ugly anyway" (When he runs out of options) "WAIT! GO OUT WITH ME PLEASE!! YOURE BEAUTIFUL!"
@LilTimmyGames6969
@LilTimmyGames6969 2 жыл бұрын
if someone says that to you, say 'wow you cant even get with someone you think is ugly?'
@CoolioStuffz
@CoolioStuffz 2 жыл бұрын
@@LilTimmyGames6969 that’s true
@shelazy_wolf1
@shelazy_wolf1 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@sleepyee_
@sleepyee_ 2 жыл бұрын
who would do that lol reminds me of Disney movies about prom 💀
@showwersinger
@showwersinger 2 жыл бұрын
That happened to me A kid called me a wh0re then asked me out 💀💀
@melshoop
@melshoop 7 ай бұрын
“he picks on you because he likes you” NO BECAUSE THIS GUYS STRAIGHT UP BULLIED ME AND TOLD ME I WAS WORTHLESS AND I WENT HOME CRYING EVERYDAY. and every time i tell someone they’re just like “oh, he must like you” NAHHHH 😭
@asaiko_
@asaiko_ 7 ай бұрын
BRO WHAT 😭
@islaandyke2482
@islaandyke2482 7 ай бұрын
Your videos are one of the only ways I can vent
@victoriya56
@victoriya56 2 жыл бұрын
"Who are you dressing up for?" "You're turning into a real woman wearing that makeup" Edit: Thank you all for the likes, I didn't think I would get that many.
@antoinesimard9032
@antoinesimard9032 2 жыл бұрын
Well if the woman wanna wear makeup who gives a shit
@Lonely_Moth
@Lonely_Moth 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, because, apparently, we're not that much of women without proper makeup. And, of course, our style must be determined by a man's taste for sexualisable objects 🤷🏼‍♀️ Who else started crying watching this?
@lucticide
@lucticide 2 жыл бұрын
I fucking hate the first one. why do I have to always be dressing up to lookg good, or to attract? why can't I just dress up because I love making outfits and wearing them makes me happy I'm wearing something I made that I'm proud of?
@antoinesimard9032
@antoinesimard9032 2 жыл бұрын
@@lucticide bc human are like that , they look at the clothing first but not the face
@chaoticbloom1412
@chaoticbloom1412 2 жыл бұрын
It's even worse when I man says that or your stepdad cause mine did and it creeped me out. Like I'm pretty but that doesn't give you the right to stare at me.
@muzandefender
@muzandefender 2 жыл бұрын
"you're 12, stop crying like a two year old" -- my mom
@thatshax1149
@thatshax1149 2 жыл бұрын
thats what every boy experiences on a daily basis
@muzandefender
@muzandefender 2 жыл бұрын
@@thatshax1149 yep. and it's sad 😔
@leanbeast1105
@leanbeast1105 2 жыл бұрын
That's not really a girl thing tho. Even 4 year old boys experience that shi
@muzandefender
@muzandefender 2 жыл бұрын
@@leanbeast1105 i know 😔 society is fucked up 😣
@thatshax1149
@thatshax1149 2 жыл бұрын
@@muzandefender ikr
@I_lovemywife
@I_lovemywife 6 ай бұрын
I feel so bad that women or girls go through this kind of shit, like they don’t deserve this at all. NO ONE EVER deserves to go through this 😢
@corruptedcreeper7444
@corruptedcreeper7444 11 ай бұрын
What's crazy is it's mostly the woman who say this to other woman
@thebruhgirl7370
@thebruhgirl7370 2 жыл бұрын
Finally i am so freaking happy that someone spoke about this. Like why do people get all defensive when they hear the word feminist?? And why do woman only demotivate other woman? Like even some mothers do that in fact sisters too!
@thyanhnguyen5056
@thyanhnguyen5056 2 жыл бұрын
@El Cactuar Can you elaborate on your point that feminism is cancer? Why do you think so? And by saying all humans are trash, do you mean you are trash too? Unless you're a bot or an alien or something other than a human. Anyway, if you do mean to say that to yourself, that's really mean to yourself.
@armyshope
@armyshope 2 жыл бұрын
@El Cactuar i also say that humans are trash when I'm angry but then I remember how wrong I am because it's not true this generalization is unfair. You have such a negative view on humanity i assume
@shaii5526
@shaii5526 2 жыл бұрын
Feminist is not bad when is for the right thing. The problem is that a lot of stupid, mostly teenagers girls who wants to feel important have taked over, and those girls generally don't go for equal, they straight up want men dead and they'll cry if something isn't worshipped cuz woman
@massform405
@massform405 2 жыл бұрын
It’s mostly woman on woman crime.
@davinky1229
@davinky1229 2 жыл бұрын
@El Cactuar Perspective or ignorance? I must truly have both. When I first saw your response I thought, “huh, I must show this person how we are not truly horrible and how we wouldn’t trample over a human being to reach our greediest potential” but, that wouldn’t be honest of me, would it? That in a desert, with your friends, and only one bottle of water; the greediest would survive. I usually avoid topics like this because the idea of spending my days thinking about the purpose of life, having an existential crisis, or realizing how truly horrific humanity is would probably tear me apart. But, now, at this very moment, I realized that I’m truly horrible myself. I’ve laughed over the death of people, I’ve felt satisfied when a friend of mine falls in the mistake that I’d did so I don’t feel as horrible as I did, I’ve treated people like shit, and yet, even after the unpleasant realization -I still find myself making up excuses for myself. And even that idea went through my mind after I wrote that. Understanding that my generation will affect the next generations is unfortunate but even the idea that I won’t have to deal with it selfishly comforts me. Therefore, the most thoughtful thing I could think of doing at this is to perhaps not have kids or even better, adopt. So my advice is either to change your perspective or accept it. Although those two choices seem different, they still have the same finale. Stop surrounding yourself with negativity, it’s cliche but it’s the truth. Stop watching the news, step away from crappy friends, and gore websites that show you “how cruel can humanity be”. In other words, surround yourself with positivity (Good friends, positive experiences, etc…) and ignorance (not being conscious of the worldwide problems). That might have not satisfied your response. Perhaps you were looking for a person to change your mind, but this, on the little years I've existed or lived (fuck here comes the philosophical questioning), is my response. So if you need someone to change your mind, then keep on searching, I'm sure there is someone more intelligent, knowledgeable, and with more experience than those little 15 years of years, I've lived. Or perhaps, my friend, can you make a change? Can I make a change even? the motivation about changing the world flows on our minds from early childhood, yet we do nothing but whine. Am I right?
@isabellataylor8016
@isabellataylor8016 2 жыл бұрын
“It must be that time of the month” Like bro, wtf, can I not be mad sometimes
@ot7star465
@ot7star465 2 жыл бұрын
It’s bad that I feel like that all the time and yet, whenever my sisters mad, I use this phrase on her🤦🏽‍♀️
@thornsx5257
@thornsx5257 2 жыл бұрын
yeah, i tend to not stick up for myself at all so when i do they say 'oh are you on your flow?' or 'oh are you on your bloody time?' or just the regular are you on the time of the month. it upsets me and its the reason i dont speak out most of the time.
@Kastilien
@Kastilien 2 жыл бұрын
Except you shouldn't take your anger or madness out on anyone. But also yeah.. Like I can't control my menstrual hormones, and neither could you. It's really annoying
@lylaaa_sturn
@lylaaa_sturn 7 ай бұрын
The other day I was at school in the girls bathroom trying to get something off my skirt and I looked super stupid and flustered and just annoyed that it wouldn’t come off. Then this little girl walked in and she said “ur rlly pretty” and I said “thank you sm” so are you!”And it was so wholesome and the rest of the day i had a smile on my face. It was so sweet.
@mariaylllow
@mariaylllow 7 ай бұрын
He picks on you bc he likes you I’m done with everyone thinking he likes me, he fatsahmes me and they still think he likes me I’m don’t with society
@antagonist_in_a_bag
@antagonist_in_a_bag 5 ай бұрын
im sorry love, wanna talk about it?
@mariaylllow
@mariaylllow Ай бұрын
@@antagonist_in_a_bagoh hi! Well now me and him don’t really talk but I like another guy and he likes me back ! He is so nice to me. And I have had a glow up, but for myself. So I won’t get bullied anytime soon 😅
@antagonist_in_a_bag
@antagonist_in_a_bag Ай бұрын
@@mariaylllow oh that's great! im so happy for you!
@mariaylllow
@mariaylllow Ай бұрын
@@antagonist_in_a_bagthank you !
@Andrea-tc9mw
@Andrea-tc9mw 2 жыл бұрын
I never realized how how normal people consider the phrase “he picks on you because he likes you”. I was bullied when I was little and it was rationalized with just a phrase. The fact that males can pick on females and that it’s completely okay since “they’re like her” is such a toxic thing.
@antoinesimard9032
@antoinesimard9032 2 жыл бұрын
Well if you think that a boy bullies you just left hook that bitch in the face. Belive me it works
@sladedude9108
@sladedude9108 2 жыл бұрын
I feel it’s weird that you could just punch them, and if they punch you back that is illegal. You are stating that it is toxic, but you could just punch me or any other male without consequence and play victim. Like the other reply said, just punch.
@cros2069
@cros2069 2 жыл бұрын
@@sladedude9108 Have you thought why that is though? Because women are seen as weak. Nobody should have to be violent to anyone else. Let's address the issues causing all of this and stop telling specific women that "you could have done this"
@Andrea-tc9mw
@Andrea-tc9mw 2 жыл бұрын
@@cros2069 well said.
@crownagex5687
@crownagex5687 2 жыл бұрын
@@sladedude9108 it's the fact that you have to punch them in the first place that's the problem. why do I have to resort to violence to stop someone from doing something they weren't supposed to do?
@hannahinj28
@hannahinj28 Жыл бұрын
“you need to take more care of yourself” *takes care of self* “stop being so into yourself”
@solstice_777
@solstice_777 Жыл бұрын
and then when you're feeling confident they call you a narcissist🥲
@leedeungie227
@leedeungie227 Жыл бұрын
This is why I'd rather not believe in myself 😭
@Thatgirly777
@Thatgirly777 Жыл бұрын
@@leedeungie227 no do, ignore them
@leedeungie227
@leedeungie227 Жыл бұрын
@@Thatgirly777 I'll try lol 😂😊 thank you sm
@lost_lacy
@lost_lacy Жыл бұрын
They always tell you that you’re being arrogant if you don’t hate yourself
@ClaraEdwards-oc1by
@ClaraEdwards-oc1by 10 ай бұрын
The worst ones are” why are you getTIng sO so emotiIonAL he picks on you becausE he likes yoU”
@Strawberrycake12
@Strawberrycake12 7 ай бұрын
I’m lucky, people in my town aren’t like that. I haven’t been told things like that, but when I go somewhere else I hear people saying it to others. They shouldn’t be saying that. Everyone is special and deserves to be treated with respect.
@Trash_Media
@Trash_Media 2 жыл бұрын
"your so skinny do you even eat?" "why are you being emotional" "Stop acting like your pretty" that's probably it
@oven5146
@oven5146 2 жыл бұрын
“No I'm naturally the size of an anime girl" “I was trying to teach you how to not be an animal" “I am though??"
@JustAForkFR
@JustAForkFR 2 жыл бұрын
:> : “Yes i do eat a$$h0l3” “ because I’m human stereo typical bAd BoI” “I am pretty. And I know that because I look in the mirror every morning unlike some people”
@celenaplayz225
@celenaplayz225 2 жыл бұрын
"Are you sure you can eat all that?" "You're just doing it for attention" "The shirt would look better on someone skinnier, no offense though" "You look so tired today, are you sick?" "Move on" "Stop being so emotional, toughen up" ... "Why haven't you been hanging out with us?"
@Allvn_edits
@Allvn_edits 2 жыл бұрын
The one that bothers me the most is “he picks on you and mentally destroys you because he likes you”
@gaurika6555
@gaurika6555 2 жыл бұрын
"Picks on you and tells you to die because he loves you" like- Bartha, stfu. If he liked me, he wouldn't tell me that i am worthless every minute we are together.
@Sillymodezeenith
@Sillymodezeenith 2 жыл бұрын
he throws bricks at you because he likes you, and definitely not because of he just likes to hurt you 🤩
@Sapphire3759
@Sapphire3759 2 жыл бұрын
For me it was "he's autistic and doesn't know how to express it any other way" from my school guidance counselor... and they never tried teaching him how to express it any other way. Bullied because we can't try and teach 12 year olds how to express emotions
@luxury-style6905
@luxury-style6905 2 жыл бұрын
Why do they say that "when he hits you he likes you" to primary schoolers but when they are older that's wrong to say and he "doesn't like you" well he never liked you from the start then. Boys use to hit me when I was in primary school and they HATED me, they didn't want shit to do w/me, I was always the unattractive girl that dudes were scared of. I never believed that dumb lie for a minute
@Sillymodezeenith
@Sillymodezeenith 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sapphire3759 I heard that one too. The funniest part is I’m also autistic and it’s not that hard to not hit people for no reason.
@R4ND0M_ST4R
@R4ND0M_ST4R 7 ай бұрын
What annoyed me the most as a kid, was: Whenever this one kid would bully me, I got so tired and off it, so I brought the situation to the principle and she said "Oh, he's only mean to you because he likes you, don't worry to much." instead of doing anything. The only reason that got resolved, was because he left the school.
@freddy_smk07
@freddy_smk07 11 ай бұрын
My sister is just perfect for everyone in my family and it's so annoying. I'm always not enough for them. It really hurts sometimes
@WeirdColaAddict
@WeirdColaAddict Жыл бұрын
“Oh you like video games? The boys must love that” that one hit hard. 🙁
@yuki__8735
@yuki__8735 Жыл бұрын
i was at some family gathering and my cousin is addicted to video games so his dad asked me if i play video games and my cousin and another 4 people immediately said " girls dont play video games" im like 🙁
@mysocksarewet
@mysocksarewet Жыл бұрын
Jokes on them, I’m gay 🤡
@closestclosetfriendofficia2776
@closestclosetfriendofficia2776 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate videos like this it reminds me what other people are struggling with and to be considerate
@that_one_Winter_girl
@that_one_Winter_girl 11 ай бұрын
“Oh you like video games the boys must love that” No, they call me a pick me when I say that
@genevievecraythorne6336
@genevievecraythorne6336 Жыл бұрын
'A man won't sleep with a woman if she's a virgin' aren't we all virgins in the beginning?
@Alot_of_art20
@Alot_of_art20 Жыл бұрын
For real💀💀 how do you sleep with someone if they didn’t already sleep with someone else💀💀 like do they just think that all girl when they turn 16 are automatically not virgins?
@cloudstrifelockhart
@cloudstrifelockhart Жыл бұрын
I am saving my V card for marriage, and when guys wanna have sex with me and I told them that, they say "poor you a virgin" lol. Yet they call the nonvirgin girls bitches and leave them as soon as they find out.Funny😊
@HanaNoodleCollecter
@HanaNoodleCollecter Жыл бұрын
H-how!!!
@Endyxria
@Endyxria Жыл бұрын
Then I'll sleep with a woman 💀
@Ningguangs_Wife
@Ningguangs_Wife Жыл бұрын
@@Endyxria been there done that
@Coco-bl8zg
@Coco-bl8zg 2 жыл бұрын
"Act like a lady!"
@notzeez9782
@notzeez9782 2 жыл бұрын
How? (I'm a guy tho)
@strawberry_chan7997
@strawberry_chan7997 2 жыл бұрын
Girl -.-
@emijane1162
@emijane1162 2 жыл бұрын
I do!!!!
@MeemahSN
@MeemahSN 2 жыл бұрын
I am! Shut it!
@notzeez9782
@notzeez9782 2 жыл бұрын
@@ahahahhhahsilly A lady will act like a lady isn't? (Bruh these things are very complicated 💀)
@chaoschaoschaoss
@chaoschaoschaoss 7 ай бұрын
I HATE how when u say ur not interested in someone they feel like they get to throw insults at you. Like cant u ask me out, accept my answer, and then walk away again so we can both just have a good night?
@noemii-
@noemii- Жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw the line on the eye, my first thought was "Sally Face".
@kxyii_
@kxyii_ 2 жыл бұрын
“your really fat for a girl” eats less “you should eat more you’re too skinny” HOLY THATS A LOT OF LIKES THANK YALL
@randomteenager9357
@randomteenager9357 2 жыл бұрын
so true
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
Dang don’t make it sound so easy to eat less y know what I mean😅
@kittenrifle0754
@kittenrifle0754 2 жыл бұрын
@@mango7uice fr i cant gain any weight from eating a lot
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
@@kittenrifle0754 why you want that, I can’t lose weight, I’m not even overweight I’m 100 I just want to be slimmer
@kittenrifle0754
@kittenrifle0754 2 жыл бұрын
@@mango7uice skinny people also have insecurities. I was told to eat more and people kept calling me skinny bones. When i was in 4th grade i always wore jackets and never took them off to show my skinny arms
@Irenic_akv
@Irenic_akv 2 жыл бұрын
"it must be that time of the month" Common .... That's the worst thing a person can hear.. I'd be really pissed (personally i have never heard that but im so sorry for the people who did)
@floralwin
@floralwin 2 жыл бұрын
yeah that very true
@halalgurl22
@halalgurl22 2 жыл бұрын
@ᴘᴀᴘᴹᴱᴹᴱᴷ🤤♋ wth? Dude
@s.k8530
@s.k8530 2 жыл бұрын
@@halalgurl22 it’s a robot 😂
@Irenic_akv
@Irenic_akv 2 жыл бұрын
@@probably_noah9417 lmaooo
@unknown_8588
@unknown_8588 2 жыл бұрын
@@probably_noah9417...end their what? I think ur mising some words😅
@-mac_N_chEEse
@-mac_N_chEEse 10 ай бұрын
“No guy wants to have sex with a virgin” then how tf are people supposed to lose their virginity
@SimpleMay2.0
@SimpleMay2.0 7 ай бұрын
"you look so pretty" ok I love that one!
@thebekashow8026
@thebekashow8026 2 жыл бұрын
"No guy wants to sleep with a Virgin" Someone forgot what Virgin means 💀
@alexisfeatherstone26
@alexisfeatherstone26 Жыл бұрын
fr i was so confused like how you supposed to not be a virgin if nobody wants to have sex w/ a virgin-
@cloudiii_595
@cloudiii_595 2 жыл бұрын
“Dress fancily your a girl.” “Dress casually don’t be an attention seeker” BRO JUST PICK ONE AND STICK WITH IT 😭
@oven5146
@oven5146 2 жыл бұрын
*Stares in pastel goth aesthetic*
@Oliverthetransmascdumpser2709
@Oliverthetransmascdumpser2709 2 жыл бұрын
*ppl suck and don’t know what they want so don’t waste ur time trying to please them they’ll just bend u until u break*
@salehinmashooq8263
@salehinmashooq8263 2 жыл бұрын
LIKE SOICETY WHY-
@callmeeve_o3o
@callmeeve_o3o 2 жыл бұрын
you know what,I'm just gonna stay at home 😀
@amyy7383
@amyy7383 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao ikr
@miriaizamel9749
@miriaizamel9749 6 ай бұрын
“You eat a lot for a girl” That one hits hard for me 😔
@Z1ARA.._..
@Z1ARA.._.. 10 ай бұрын
I love fishnets because I think they'd look so cool,so I went to the store with my mom,I went to go grab fishnets and show her,she said "you don't need to try and look sexy" "you can't wear that to school cause then people might get the wrong idea"... Great ma, IM ONLY 10.
@LemonPartII
@LemonPartII 2 жыл бұрын
He isn’t picking on you because he likes you. He really doesn’t and in the end he’s toxic. Telling kids that ‘he likes you because he’s mean’ is normalizing, idolizing, glorifying, and standardizing toxic, abusive, and unhealthy relationships. Edit: feel free to share your experiences with this in the replies, we’re having a group therapy session now
@SN-vn6wb
@SN-vn6wb 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLYYY
@danaalaraj1942
@danaalaraj1942 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! why are we telling our kids that our bullies are only bullying us bc they like us, its basicly saying that ur abuser likes u. whoever says that is gross
@abcdefg5686
@abcdefg5686 2 жыл бұрын
based
@LemonPartII
@LemonPartII 2 жыл бұрын
@@abcdefg5686 what isnt
@LemonPartII
@LemonPartII 2 жыл бұрын
@@danaalaraj1942 and I am so lucky to have parents who wanted me to stay AWAY from drama and rude boys.
@salvettee
@salvettee 2 жыл бұрын
For me, the “exotic” one hits hard. Just because my skin color is different than yours doesn’t mean I’m exotic. I was born here, treat me like you’d treat another yt person
@willjedwards1983
@willjedwards1983 2 жыл бұрын
Who cares if your skin is different than others, your beautiful no matter what!
@mango7uice
@mango7uice 2 жыл бұрын
I KNOW! It’s so stupid like, who in their right mind, came up with in the early years, “hmm, he looks different, let’s hurt em”
@RusticRonnie
@RusticRonnie 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds “exotic” i choose to believe your skin is like purple.
@fighterflight
@fighterflight 2 жыл бұрын
I always read yt as youtube lol
@usern-o-
@usern-o- 2 жыл бұрын
@@fighterflight what is it referring to here?
@skyrose9115
@skyrose9115 5 ай бұрын
The " your so pretty " is soo cute ❤
@tatertotsassemble
@tatertotsassemble 3 ай бұрын
“don’t be so bossy” was always what everyone told me in grade school. but when the boys do it they’re confident and good leaders
@ebsxnysii
@ebsxnysii 2 жыл бұрын
“Sit like a lady!” 🙄 *pls, ive heard this too many times-*
@draconicalaanddrakner3261
@draconicalaanddrakner3261 Жыл бұрын
Right?! It's so uncomfortable tho! 😤
@it-rand4206
@it-rand4206 Жыл бұрын
I'd be like "no because you sit like an asshole🙄"
@dadaromance
@dadaromance Жыл бұрын
bruh if I hear that one more time ill punch someone no one can stop me, i will continue mansplitting.
@-Amichi-
@-Amichi- Жыл бұрын
Ikr!! So boys can can sit just the way they want but girls cant?! That’s so dumb! and yet there’s still people that say that girls overreact when they get mad at stuff like this
@-Amichi-
@-Amichi- Жыл бұрын
@@dadaromance here’s a hammer 🔨 You can slap them with it
@britneybij3997
@britneybij3997 2 жыл бұрын
"No guy wants to have sex with a virgin" .....then everyone would be staying virgins? That math ain't mathing....
@FeScully
@FeScully 2 жыл бұрын
That’s usually followed by “I’m doing you a favor”…
@willowdragon
@willowdragon 2 жыл бұрын
@@FeScully Ugh, it's so gross 🤢
@khasaprettysmile6451
@khasaprettysmile6451 5 ай бұрын
Ngl, guys and girls deserve respect either way. Plus, we are all just human.
@user-tk8ru5zs5y
@user-tk8ru5zs5y 7 ай бұрын
As a girl, I can confirm that we go through this. People call us ‘feminists’ just because we talk about women’s rights
@FriskKimura
@FriskKimura 2 жыл бұрын
“Boys will be boys” “That’s not how a lady should act”
@Link_Hyrule211
@Link_Hyrule211 2 жыл бұрын
Aight so ppl say this sht to my gf and it breaks me up inside that ppl have the audacity to speak to her like that 😕😭 I just wanna give her the biggest hug ever 🫂 To any woman or man reading this I hope you have a wonderful life 🤗
@monks6989
@monks6989 2 жыл бұрын
yas boys shall be boys, man its soo hard being a female in 2022
@poetic_pianist_
@poetic_pianist_ 2 жыл бұрын
Idiots who say this
@FriskKimura
@FriskKimura 2 жыл бұрын
@@Link_Hyrule211 I’m so sorry Your gf sounds like a wonderful person
@Link_Hyrule211
@Link_Hyrule211 2 жыл бұрын
@@FriskKimura she rlly is 🤗 Have a wonderful day 😁
@bananamonkey3781
@bananamonkey3781 2 жыл бұрын
"you should shave your legs, the boys will get grossed out" said someone who's better off in a landfill
@Mohammedangel2999
@Mohammedangel2999 Жыл бұрын
I need to take plastic surgery
@HopeCrenshaw-hz3nd
@HopeCrenshaw-hz3nd 8 ай бұрын
If a guy is ACTUALLY picking on you because he likes you, he needs help.
@HopeCrenshaw-hz3nd
@HopeCrenshaw-hz3nd 8 ай бұрын
Friendly teasing is okay as long as you are both okay with it and still respect boundaries. Me and my friends tease each other all the time, but we know what the limits are and we do not cross them.
@sourmarmalade
@sourmarmalade 3 ай бұрын
Honestly, I love the detail that with each sentence the voices get older, showing that it doesn’t matter how old you are, you will hear something like that.
@nightingalelau3423
@nightingalelau3423 2 жыл бұрын
"Are uh like a ... feminist" "Don't be so bitchy" "Stop being so dramatic" "It must be that time of month"
@notzeez9782
@notzeez9782 2 жыл бұрын
Lo-
@HAUUNTEDGRRL
@HAUUNTEDGRRL 2 жыл бұрын
“don’t be one of those gross ladies that don’t shave.” -my dad
@earthtoasmaa
@earthtoasmaa 2 жыл бұрын
@@moi2150 like??
@HAUUNTEDGRRL
@HAUUNTEDGRRL 2 жыл бұрын
@@moi2150 like what?
@Hi_human
@Hi_human 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I'm sorry for protecting my skin ? Body hair protect our skin especially in our 🐱 area, when you shave them you have higher chance to get an infection....
@meeeheeeeeh4115
@meeeheeeeeh4115 2 жыл бұрын
Why doesn’t like natural body hairs, they protect skins. Why people hate body hair soooo much but *love head hair* but makes fun of bald people or people can’t grow hairs(eyebrows, head hair,…)
@Whompwhomp008
@Whompwhomp008 2 жыл бұрын
Well, not to come at you in a rude way or anything, but "body hair" that grows on the private parts and under the armpits, in general areas which don't receive sunlight is actually harmful long term. It can cause color skin issues and of course smell if not taken care of etc. And in some reglions men and women are told to shave their private parts' hair as per told. HOWEVER, your point that there is hair that protects us is very correct....but that type is what we refer to as the extremely light hairs found all over the human body and the cilia hairs found in our nose,these play a role of protecting the skin bare surface! And plz if i got ur message wrong plz do correct me!!
@izzyrhoades5113
@izzyrhoades5113 5 ай бұрын
Your channel has actually change my life. I've been called a lot of things including a pick me girl and recently I was bullied for a physical disability. He called me many vulgar and diragitory terms for no reason. Then I looked in KZfaq and your videos were the first thing there and I suddenly felt so much better! Thank you so much.
@cyberdog14
@cyberdog14 7 ай бұрын
It's the fact in every video like this she explains my life she explains every bit of it I love her so much cuz she knows how ppl life are
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