you hit the right spot here. I'm 3 months on T and I still have some fears and some doubt, but it doesn't mean my identity isn't valid. thank you for this video, really

You make me feel so much more valid! Thankyou so much!!

Thanks for being honest. I've had doubts too, and it's made worse by how doubts and worries are weaponised by transphobes. Also I felt the same way about things not feeling right immediately - like my parents calling me my male name, it seems weird because I'm not used to it. Being trans is much more complicated and diverse than solely the stereotypical idea of a trans person who "always knew".

As a trans woman, I also relate a lot to some of the points you mentioned. After I realized many things related to gender are just cultural stereotypes, things became much clearer to me.

Im 1:1 like you!! I'm pre T, all of these things made me think ill regret my transition if im not trans even though i KNOW i really need it. Ive had a pretty happy life as a girl, i (mostly) like my body, make up, fashion, im okay with my period. I realized its not about the typical men stereotype, but about the social role i play - that makes me uncomfortable and makes me feel like im not in the right social group. Thank you for sharing your experience, im glad i found this channel ❤

thank you so much for this, i am really scared and lost and your video really helped me 🤍

Thank you for sharing your experience! It makes so much sense that things aren't always super clear and obvious, cause like... humans are complex. But it's still good to hear from other people's perspectives :)

You're going to my "goat" videos with this one, loved the sincerity about these doubts that I (as a questioning transfeminine person) have that I don't see too often with other trans people, so I felt kind of alone and invalidating myself, but it's not all about that, it takes time to sort things out and feel better and better with yourself. Thank you

Thank you for this great video. It takes courage to share such personal stuff and real kindness and empathy to expose yourself in the hope of helping others. You're really a great example of a good person. I relate to every points of your discussion except maybe for missing girls clothes. But I really related to the doubts and the not despising your feminity. Personally, another thing that makes me doubt sometimes is that I think I'm realizing that for me it isn't a life or death situation. I think I could survive going through life as a cis woman, though that would feel personally exhausting because I would still have the desire to be a man. So I guess for me it's a matter of to what degree of happiness I want to live my life and what I'm willing to risk to get to that happiness.

I loved the video, I knew I was not my AGAB when I was 5 years old but I discovered that I'm trans at age 9-10, now some time has passed and I'm waiting untill I'm older to be sure but this helped a lot

Thank you so much for this video ❤

points 4 and 5 hit the spot, tnks for sharing

Why are you styled like My Generation and Culture ?